What Comes After Love: Episodes 1-2
by Dramaddictally
Coupang Play’s new beautifully shot and acted drama What Comes After Love hit my screen and my heart this weekend, leaving me floating and ready for more. With a mix of Japanese and Korean dialogue, gorgeous leads that set off sparks, and a breakup that already burns, I have officially found my way out of my drama funk.
EPISODES 1-2
I love it. I’m terribly hooked and needing more. And if this drama wanted to make me feel the high of love followed by the power of withdrawal, right along with its characters, it has done a damn fine job.
Our story starts five years in the past. It’s 2019 and our heroine, CHOI HONG (Lee Se-young), has just moved to Tokyo. She’s fresh out of college, with a shiny new degree and no idea what to do with it. But going to Japan is less about running toward her future than it is about running away. There’s an emotional disconnect between her and her MOM (Lee Il-hwa) — and Hong doesn’t even tell her she’s leaving Korea.
In narration, Hong says that Tokyo was a bit of an accident. She didn’t choose it. She just has a friend there that’s willing to split the rent. And so, she goes. However, we later learn that she lived in Japan as a child and speaks perfect Japanese.
And that’s the first beautiful thing about this drama: it’s half in Japanese. The language and setting give us a distinct feel from most of the drama fare we’re used to (although, the aesthetic is giving me a little Ahn Pan-seok vibe for its low lighting and realistic shots). And our hero, when he appears, is also adorably out of the norm with a slight awkwardness that makes him irresistible.
When Hong arrives to Tokyo, she’s trying to get through a turnstile with her luggage, which ultimately scatters her belongings all over the ground. A man rushes over to help her pick up her things. She sees him — in slo-mo — and is struck (as am I). He looks shy and cute, with a dimple and underlying dorkiness. And this moment crushed my heart, unearthed a smile, and sold me on this pair at only three minutes in.
The man is our hero, AOKI JUNGO (Sakaguchi Kentaro), who speaks no Korean and is looking for a part-time job. He needs to pay his tuition as he studies Japanese lit, so he can become a writer, and say all the things he’s unable to speak out loud.
But Hong is looking for a job as well. And after the two part ways in the street that first day, they run into each other again while applying for the same server position at a ramen shop. Again, it’s instant chemistry and I can’t keep the lunatic smile off my face. They compete for the role, trying to humbly one-up each other, but in the end, Hong gets the job, after a customer criticizes her (impeccable) Japanese — and Jungo stands up for her.
All is not lost, though, because Jungo lands a spot at the hot dog truck just across the street from the ramen shop. This gives our pair lots of chances to stare and flirt and make eyes at each other. And finally, he asks her on a date.
They go out for drinks and get pretty tipsy (well, mostly Hong) and she opens up about not knowing what to do with her life. Will she stay in Japan? Or is she just passing through? She wants to go to grad school (she studies literature too) and she can’t bear to go back to her mom. Still, it’s all up in the air right now.
Already, it’s clear he has a crush on her. They’re adorably flirty without meaning to be. Everything about their attraction feels natural. And he just laughs and smiles at all her antics. The alcohol has made her pushier than usual, but he goes along with whatever she wants — like more coins for the claw machine, please!
They begin to walk home in the pouring rain under a shared umbrella, and even this is not the regular over-romanticized image we see in dramas. He’s not trying to be knightly. He’s just being himself. And everything about this scene works. When she asks, “Do you believe that there’s love that doesn’t change?” He responds that it must be out there somewhere. And with that, she drunkenly decides to stay in Japan.
It’s not too long before the two are dating for real, and it’s all cherry blossoms and ear-to-ear smiles. The first Korean word that Jungo learns is “yeppeuda” — so he can tell her she’s pretty. (Mmm, if you’re not squeeing right now, you have no heart!) But, in voiceover, Hong tells us that it was the first and last spring of her life.
We skip ahead five years to the present day and Hong is back in Seoul. The tone is somber and she still regrets her love with Jungo. We don’t know what happened, or how they broke up, and that is the mystery that begins to be teased out slowly for the rest of the episodes. As the story unfolds in 2024, it’s supplemented with lots of long flashbacks to fill in the blanks. But whatever occurred, it killed the optimism she used to have inside her.
Hong now works at a publishing house and is engaged to the safe-bet male friend who always pined for her. Her fiancé, SONG MIN-JUN (Hong Jong-hyun), clearly adores her, but Hong is just going through the motions. When she thanks him for remembering her family anniversaries, he tells her not to say thank you because it makes her feel distant. And we can see that she is. There’s no way she feels a deep love for this doting guy.
One day, since Hong is fluent in Japanese, she’s asked to go the airport for the publishing company to pick up an international author. They’ll be promoting his new book and they need an interpreter for the interviews and promos. As you might guess, Jungo is said author, writing under a pen name. When they see each other, she wishes she hadn’t come, and he starts to believe in fate.
Throughout the day, they act like they don’t know each other, as he gets his photos taken and sits through interviews while she translates. But it’s painful for both of them. In an interview, it comes out that their relationship was the inspiration for his novel, but in it, he wrote them a happy ending. (Jeez, I’m about to cry just saying that.)
So, with him discussing the inspirations for the book, we get to see what their life was like together in the past. She moved in with him in Tokyo and they developed a close, warm, lovely-to-look-at relationship. They’re cuddly — always kissing, hugging, touching each other’s faces, or petting each other’s heads. They call each other Yun-oh and Beni (what his name would be in Korean and what hers would be in Japanese). And it’s all really sweet and natural.
But we also see the moment of their dissolution. It wasn’t just a gradual decline. There appears to be an event that causes her to leave him. He remembers the tortured look on her face as she screams at him — the one that “scarred his heart with regret” — and we see the note she left when she’s gone for good. In it, she writes that “a love that never changes” didn’t exist between them. It doesn’t exist anywhere in the world. And she closes with, “I’m going back to where I belong. If I don’t leave this place now, I’ll probably end up resenting you for the rest of my life.”
In the present, the interviewer has no idea that the woman he’s talking about is the translator sitting next to him, and our former couple can barely look at each other. In the final scene, Hong is in her car, leaving after the interviews are done, and Jungo runs out in front of the car to stop her.
Wow. I haven’t been this excited for a story all year. It’s reminding me ever so slightly of Tell Me That You Love Me, but sweeter and breathier. Since this is only six episodes, it’s moving at a decent clip and I think they got the pacing exactly right. It’s got me eating out of the palm of its hand and I just want to know every detail of what happened between them. The flashbacks have me falling in love, and the present scenes are painful — but not as painful as they might be later when we actually know what went down.
And I love that it’s mostly in Japanese. Having a cross-cultural couple that only speaks one language to each other makes it feel authentic. Also, there’s a moment where she mentions that she’s lonely, and he doesn’t quite get it because she’s with him. She tells him that everyone living outside their home country feels that way. And I can’t help but wonder how or if this plays into their problems later. I think the reason that dramas based on novels often speak to me is because the relationships are so complicated (I’m remembering The Interest of Love, which also destroyed me).
Well, great hook. I wish I could sit down and binge the whole story in one feel-good (or bad) moment. Plus, did I mention the leads are off-the-radar gorgeous and incredibly natural together?
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1 peiyeelai
October 1, 2024 at 5:06 AM
I have yet to find a romantic drama that rivals Tell Me You Love Me until this one arrived. It is beautifully shot and acted indeed!
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Lostpanda is celebrating My Ajusshi 💔
October 1, 2024 at 2:34 PM
My thoughts exactly. 2024 for me has been Tell me that you love me and everything else (good but nothing great). And then this show What Comes After Love pops up. It usually takes 4 or more episodes for me to become really hooked and invested. This show got me hooked and we're only 2 episodes on. The leads are perfect. The mixture of Japanese and Korean is perfect. The emotional rollercoaster has had the highest highs and the lowest lows already. I don't even remember what other dramas I'm watching other than this one.
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hallyucinations
October 4, 2024 at 8:44 PM
I have not watched Tell me that you love me but I so agree with you on What Comes After Love. I have not been so hooked within two episodes of a show for a long long time. And hooked not just to see what happens next but the show has created a home in my mind with its though provoking characters. The main leads are so beautiful! Love that the drama is bilingual also. Makes it more believable and consequently you feel more invested in the leads.
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2 Kafiyah Bello
October 1, 2024 at 5:41 AM
I think this drama would have fared better for me if it was one drop. The non-linear storytelling has left me without a super emotional attachment to either of our leads. Their beginning was cute, but nothing about their beginning has given reason for such a dramatic ending, so I am a bit detached, but will continue until the end.
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3 Kurama
October 1, 2024 at 6:18 AM
I really like how they mixed perfectly Japanese and Korean best features : the Korean esthetic, Japanese simplicity, Tokyo settings, etc.
The coworkers were so fun by trying to get them together. I will miss them in the present story.
I wonder what happened to them. They had cultural differences but it didn't seem it would create a painful break-up. Her father suffered because of his family, did their family played a role too?
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4 Dylan [Suffering from Judge from Hell brainrot]
October 1, 2024 at 6:38 AM
As a person who loves both kdramas and jdramas, this is the show for me. I knew this was good and my expectations were definitely met - this drama is such a good mix of both Japanese and Korean styles of acting, storytelling, tropes and cinematography.
Anyways, keeping an eye out for any other JP actors I recognize. Highly anticipating Anne Nakamura's appearance!
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5 Diana Hansen
October 1, 2024 at 7:05 AM
All I need say is I agree with every word @dramaddictally wrote. It is beautifully done and the leads are so natural together. I love that it is bilingual also. Go ahead, show! Break my heart but I will stay til the bitter end and hope it is not so bitter.
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6 bugs_bunny
October 1, 2024 at 7:22 AM
Thank you for the recap @dramaddictally. Right here beside you gushing, about how good they look together, they seem to belong somehow 😍 talk about chemistry, they have it in spades!!!
The cinematography is otherworldly, it's shot like the movies for some reason. Kudos to the director!
The cracks are showing though, as Beni said of being lonely when Yu-no is not around. And the scene when the 1st love of her dad invited them to stay for the night. I also think she was being polite.
Happy or sad ending, come what may, this is my current fave now!
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7 Vladdles
October 1, 2024 at 8:35 AM
@dramaddictally thank you so much for your fabulous recap, I have been lurking here for the couple of days just wanting to type how much I adore this show! It's so so good I am happy to take the bitter with the sweet...just beautiful.
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8 Scottie
October 1, 2024 at 10:09 AM
This looks like the beginning of a great story. Couples who come together with and maybe because of the novelty of cultural differences, often find exactly these differences challenging and embarrassing. Particularly if the missteps happen with other people, as with the father's first love. The invitation to stay the night was only offered out of politeness, that is true, but I don't think the Japanese lady was offended when the invitation was accepted.
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9 tabong is ironing the crosswalk
October 1, 2024 at 10:25 AM
I'm happy that you're happy, Dramaddictally. Thank you for the lovely recap. I can picture you just smiling the whole time. Hahaha.
Uhmm... Not gonna lie, it was too cute and plain for me. I was kinda bored, and didn't feel connected to the couple during the entire first episode.
And for the second episode I would prefer fewer and shorter flashbacks. They made me feel too disconnected of what was happening in the present timeline, especially because their relationship was all lovey dovey and... Not that deep? So that made the 2024 version of them feel like dramaqueens. LMAO
But I did like the second episode better on a rewatch. I would choose it as my first episode. I personally like the fixing collar scene, because it focuses on the now and the flashbacks are limited to like 5 seconds, so they felt more like memories —for the first time, instead of a completely separated story.
So I'm just hoping we get more... melo? next week. I want their serious times and their bad times. I need more drama in the past to understand the drama in the present.
So I think I'll like the next two episodes more.
PS. There's no way everyone in that interview room didn't get what was happening. No. Way.
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Kafiyah Bello
October 1, 2024 at 1:30 PM
You could cut the tension with a knife. The other two knew they knew each other.
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Elinor, Team Glasses team co-captain
October 1, 2024 at 2:12 PM
I'm on the same page, tabong - or maybe you and I are watching the same show! I found them too silly and sweet and juvenile (especially LSY) to support all the present-day gloom, and their relationship progressed through such painfully clichéed scenes that it was hard to see them as unique characters or anything that sets them apart as a couple. Yet another FL-drunkenly-fixated-on-the-grab-it-machine scene? Sigh. I do love the Japanese setting and the contrast in mores and manners. The rest seems unoriginal and insubstantial so far. I might put it on the shelf until all episodes are available.
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tabong is ironing the crosswalk
October 1, 2024 at 2:47 PM
Yeah. Like, I get it, they couldn't take their hands off each other, but why does that matter five years later?
What did they like about each other? why do they need to be together? Why can't they move on?
Was their love special or the break up was just really bad?
Now that you mention the lack of identity, I think it would've been more interesting if there was more focus on the language/cultural aspect of their relationship. I kept thinking of how the theme of communication is what made TMTYLM so special...
But maybe that's exactly what we'll see next week. Haha.
I think this would've worked better as a series to binge for the two of us.
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RenOIshi
October 1, 2024 at 6:30 PM
LSY drunk scenes was a bit ‘yikes’ for me too!
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kiara
October 2, 2024 at 7:27 AM
"They made me feel too disconnected of what was happening in the present timeline, especially because their relationship was all lovey dovey and... Not that deep?"
I didn't feel that their relationship was that deep, either. Her deep resentment doesn't make much sense.
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10 Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
October 1, 2024 at 2:01 PM
Thanks for the recap @dramaddictally You summed it up perfectly.
I really was looking forward to this one and it did not disappoint. It is going to be hard waiting for each batch of episodes to drop but I am so glad both are available on the same night. I am also confident that it will remain this good for the duration as it is short and sweet. I loved the poetry they included, the ramen shop crew and the girls greeting each and taking photos meanwhile the random stranger is left watching her bags and it was too cute that he was then spotted smiling in the background of the photos.
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11 RenOIshi
October 1, 2024 at 3:25 PM
I have a good feeling about this. LSY is so breathtakingly beautiful and its not like I didn't notice it before but somehow the cinematography and the vibe just brought out her gorgeous features more on screen <3 I am not feeling the ML as yet but I hope with time he will grow on me. Eagerly waiting to see more.
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12 Miss_elly
October 1, 2024 at 3:33 PM
I have a very strong feeling that is drama will break my heart. The chemistry between the leads is very palpable and natural. I think I like this drama a lot, because I find it relatable. When I moved overseas to be an international student I met my husband. I loved being with him but I get Hongs loneliness. Especially in a place where you have no family. It took me years to get friends, but that loneliness never really goes away. So she is a very believable character
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FormAnOrderlyQueue
October 1, 2024 at 5:39 PM
Yes, I too found that a really authentic part of Hong's story: the loneliness never really goes away. And her acceptance of the father's first love's offer to stay simply out of a lack of cultural awareness - I've lived abroad for years but still make those kind of mistakes. Although it's all packed in very fast for the 6 episodes, it feels "true".
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13 LillyBee
October 1, 2024 at 3:46 PM
Well... it's pretty. I have a new crush on Kentaro Sakaguchi. Other than that, I'm agreeing with what others are saying.
I'm not invested. I don't know these people. I don't know what's so painful about this breakup. The snippets of their relationship felt like routine clips of scenes we've seen before. Two strangers who happen to be dating for some reason. This is a problem I see in lots of dramas.
I don't know these people! Character development would be nice. I'm also not feeling any chemistry between them (which is also related to the stuff I just mentioned).
And what happened to her friend?? I was a bit peeved about that. Girl just moved out and moved in with boyfriend and friend is never to be seen again? Hopefully not. But I know the drama is focused on this one relationship, so I'm setting my hopes low.
If you're just going to focus on these two people, at least have some character development. Then again, to me, character development also involves developing the world around these characters (their friends, their families, their neighbors, etc).
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tabong is ironing the crosswalk
October 1, 2024 at 4:03 PM
Something cool would've been if they explored dad's love story with that ahjumma, and his current relationship with mom. That could maybe explain the FL's present situation and her reaction to wtv happened with Yun Oh five years ago.
She's obviously not healed from her past relationship but she decided to get married with a guy her family seems to like more than she does for no apparent reason... We really don't know much. Hahaha.
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LillyBee
October 1, 2024 at 4:11 PM
Yeah, even though we don't know much, I kind of feel sorry for the fiancé. Guy is just there, and she's just going to marry him for some reason. That sucks.
It's still early in the drama, so hopefully we get more story/plot/development.
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LillyBee
October 1, 2024 at 4:19 PM
WAIT... it's only 6 episodes??
Uh-oh. I don't know how much development we're going to get with that.
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tabong is ironing the crosswalk
October 1, 2024 at 4:46 PM
I'm expecting all the answers this week, since after that it just ends.
It is possible to have development in such short time, like we see in movies or other web dramas. So I'm hopeful for now.
kiara
October 2, 2024 at 7:31 AM
I love that Kentaro is perfectly natural with no makeup.
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14 Cosmas
October 1, 2024 at 4:22 PM
Another type of "Our Beloved Summer" drama.
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15 jillian
October 1, 2024 at 5:24 PM
I like that the story started when they first met so we got a little backstory and the standard meet cute. Then we were left with the mystery of why they broke up when they were seemingly inseparable and inlove. The cast are gorgeous and charming. It looks like I found my other new drama.
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16 FormAnOrderlyQueue
October 1, 2024 at 5:43 PM
I am intrigued. The thing that lingered with me after ep2 was the devastation: both of them seem to have become broken shells of who they were when they first met. I wonder what could have caused such fallout? The clip of the argument didn't give much away, but it will need to be something seismic to reduce two people to who they are in the present day. I really want to know...
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17 Ahjummaaa
October 1, 2024 at 7:20 PM
I just want to focus on the screenplay and how devastatingly artless it is. It's not worth everyone's effort putting this production together on set. It's not worth the makeup artist and stylist coming into work for grueling 12 hour shifts. It's not worth it. They should have just stayed in bed. The storytelling and dialogue is so sophomoric. It's about as sophisticated and complex as something I would have written back in screenwriting class in my early 20's. It really doesn't stand out much from the pile of other cross-cultural romances that have been made. There's no surprise, no delight for me here. Gosh I am so cynical! I'll keep the cast but for goodness sake, give me a better script!!!
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Ahjummaaa
October 1, 2024 at 7:22 PM
the dialogue is as bad as the Hallmark movie my roommate was watching in the hospital as I recovered from surgery last year.
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18 kiara
October 1, 2024 at 8:55 PM
It's lovely to see a K-drama depicting Japan as it is today rather than as a historical villain. What a beautiful country with a fascinating culture.
I appreciate that the source material was written by a Japanese man and a Korean woman, which adds authenticity from each main character's cultural perspective.
As someone living in a foreign country and in a relationship with a local, I find Hong's character relatable. I especially relate to her feelings of loneliness even when Jungo is around, as well as the cultural challenges and misinterpretations, such as when they visit Ms. Shizuko's place in Kyoto.
I appreciate the inclusion of actual poetry in this drama. Hong's character is reminiscent of Yun Dong Yu, a Korean poet who studied at Doshisha University in Kyoto, Japan. The flowers are placed at his memorial."Sky, Wind, and Stars" is a collection of his poems. The poem that she recites is called " A Poem That Came Easily." (translation by Steffen and Kyungnyun Richards)
The night rain whispers outside the window
of my six-mat room, in an alien country.
The poet has a sad vocation, I know:
should I write another line of poetry?
Having received my tuition from home in an envelope
soaked with the smell of sweat and love,
I tuck my college notebook under my arm
and go off to listen to the lecture of an old professor.
(the rest of it is posted on my wall).
Jungo: What is it about?
Hong: It's hard to explain. It's about a lonely international student who studies overseas. Just like me.
Jungo: Are you lonely?
Hong: Once in a while. When you are not around.
Jungo: really?
Hong: Don't worry about it. It's the same for everyone who lives overseas. (viki's sub)
I believe her decision to give him the book and encourage him to read it is her way of sharing her culture and something she loves, as well as helping him understand her better.
I hope they feature the haiku poems (Japanese-style poems) that Hong mentioned in episode 1. I really enjoyed them while watching FX's SHOGUN.
When I think of Jungo, a quote from James Clavell's book and the TV show Shogun comes to mind.
“It's a saying they have, that a man has a false heart in his mouth for the world to see, another in his breast to show to his special friends and his family, and the real one, the true one, the secret one, which is never known to anyone except to himself alone, hidden only God knows where."
From another foreigner's perspective, but perhaps it's true?
This show is visually stunning, but the main character's relationship doesn't yet explain why she resents him so much. Looking forward to tomorrow's episodes.
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19 Mrs Buckwheat
October 1, 2024 at 11:37 PM
Thank you Dramaddictally for your excellent recap.
I too, love everything about this show and wish there were more episodes than six.
The ML is simply adorable and those dimples...sigh.
Lee Se-young is fabulous and the two have great chemistry.
I love the mixture of Japan and Korea, it's nice for something a little bit different.
I'm looking forward to the next episodes.
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20 Nefret
October 2, 2024 at 1:54 AM
I'm so glad that I'm now at an age where I can appreciate dramas like this one. In the past, I would have given melodramas and anything that didn't have a chance of a happy ending a wide berth.
FL of the present seems as if she has built a protective wall around herself that doesn't allow any intense feelings, neither joy nor sadness. I suspect that she only entered into the engagement with her long-term friend because she doesn't feel strong love for him, so the risk of being hurt is low.
Can anyone say how good Lee Se-young's Japanese is? Because of the rhythm of her language, it doesn't just seem memorised to me.
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Ahjummaaa
October 2, 2024 at 9:53 PM
I was pleasantly surprised with how fast she spoke Japanese. It's not easy to speak that fast. I've been learning it for decades and it doesn't roll off my tongue that fast.
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21 Cecee is done DramaQueening
October 2, 2024 at 2:46 AM
She tells him that everyone living outside their home country feels that way.
Speak for yourself only, Choi Hong.
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kiara
October 2, 2024 at 7:13 AM
I think feeling homesick can sometimes lead to feeling lonely.
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Ahjummaaa
October 2, 2024 at 9:52 PM
Just to think how close Japan and Korea are, they could fly home for the weekend if they wanted to. It's a lot easier on the homesickness than say an expat living in America or Europe.
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Kurama
October 3, 2024 at 2:55 AM
She barely has money and her mum didn't her want to leave. She can't go back.
Homesickness is not about the distance...
And I think Korean people are very attached to their country. I'm always surprised how they take Korean food in their luggages and how they cook Korean food in their travelling shows.
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Cecee is done DramaQueening
October 3, 2024 at 2:37 AM
I get what she meant. I didn't relate to the generalisation of the feeling for all expats, that's all! I've never felt lonelier as when I was in my home country.
I do get the feelings of homesickness and loneliness, though. I just think these should apply to the home you build for yourself rather than the passport's country of origin.
Also, I'd like to mention that I've tried to reply to you at least 4 times yesterday on mobile and the website kept reloading for no reason half-way through my reply... and deleting my precious prose! (I'll never have enough emojis to express the rage!)
Anyway, just as @ahjummaaa pointed out: if only South Korea and Japan were not so far away from each other, right? Like what? Barely a 2hr-long flight? Oh the pain, Choi Hong, the terrible, unbearable, unsurmountable pain of living 2 hours away from home! Will we, mere mortals, ever understand?
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Ahjummaaa
October 3, 2024 at 10:39 AM
the ones who are more lonely are those who married overseas or had to flee their home countries for political reasons, etc. they didn't choose to leave. the ones who are more likely to thrive and prefer living overseas are those who left by choice. they didn't want to stay in their home country, they have wanderlust. my dad had wanderlust and his home country became too small for him. he wanted the big skies and endless highways of the US. my mom on the other hand, married him thinking they will stay in their town. she never imagined leaving the place she was born and she had a harder time adjusting to life overseas.
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Ahjummaaa
October 3, 2024 at 10:42 AM
the marriage advice that I heard from someone is to marry someone flexible. because life is so unpredictable, choose a partner who can adapt and thrive in different situations and environments.
Neolttwigi
October 5, 2024 at 8:15 PM
It's not just choosing to leave, it's whether you can go back. Saying 'it's only 2 hours away' My parent had the ability to go back. It's not the flight time, it's the 50 years distance she could never get back to. And in this drama, going home would mean family issues (not allowed to leave again) and being lovesick for her partner, instead of homesick for her country. (Which is I surmise what happened- she couldn't cope being so far from home and family, and was unable to resolve the argument- but she couldn't cope with being away from him either, and has spent 5 years emotionally hanging)
hallyucinations
October 6, 2024 at 11:31 PM
I think expats do feel a unique kind of loneliness. Especially if they have been away from their home country only for a year or two (even if you are running away from the discomforts and dramas of home, which many of them are). Its a sort of alien feeling that you get culturally and emotionally which cannot be compensated adequately by diversity in food or demography. For those who have settled abroad for longer, its also a sense of not belonging anywhere perfectly.
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Cecee is done DramaQueening
October 7, 2024 at 1:50 AM
No. I think some expats do. Some expats don't. I don't. I don't feel like I belong anywhere to start with, and that includes my home country. I'm not saying my experience is the only experience that can possibly exist. I'm just say Choi Hong doesn't need to generalise her experience into a universal truth to explain how she feels.
My only problem with Choi Hong's sentiment here, which is completely valid by the way, is the fact she labels it as "EVERYONE IN MY SITUATION FEELS LIKE I DO"
No, Hong-a baby girl, no, your experience isn't a general rule for life. More importantly, I think this is precisely that mindset that seems to have caused a clash between them. But, essentially I believe the moment you decide to make your personal experience of any given situation the only possible, real, and valid experience of it, this automatically invalidates everything else everyone is also going through and that you don't see. This also creates a baseline for blaming others when they don't take responsibility for the hardship(s) you are going through (which, unless we get to see more, seems to be the case here)
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22 Kairoskat 💐
October 2, 2024 at 7:46 AM
Sharing my investigation findings here:
Inquiry: How long did they date?
Problem statement: The timeline confused me when I watched because the flashbacks made it look like they dated for ages but their words and voiceovers doesn’t match.
So I did some investigating and below are my findings:
1. Hong arrived in Japan in 2019 spring. In present time they said they haven’t met each other for 5 years. 2019 is 5 years before 2024.
2. Hong voiceover it was her first and last spring during the sakura date flashback. I deduct they were together for less than a year
3. There was also a flashback that showed their breakup and her phonelock, the date was visible. 3rd October 2019 (totally missed this when I watched the ep, saw the screenshot on twitter 😅 and found out it was in the 1st scene of ep 1 ). Peak sakura season in Tokyo is early-mid April. From that we can pretty much conclude that they dated between april to early october: roughly 6 months.
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Ahjummaaa
October 2, 2024 at 9:49 PM
You are brilliant!!!
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Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
October 4, 2024 at 9:30 PM
Thank you for sharing your findings 🫘Beansprout award🌱 for community service to help the rest of us
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23 Ahjummaaa
October 2, 2024 at 11:28 AM
Sorry the quality of the script is so disappointing and makes me so mad arghhh that I need to rant one more time. When really good dramas about finding lost love again have already been made, why do lesser scripts still get made into dramas? First Love set a certain standard and it just feels like this screenwriter didn't even try to live up to it. Did they not do their research before setting out to write yet another drama with a similar theme? See what's already out there, you know. I'd rathe rewatch First Love than continue watching What Comes After Love. Like Beanies said above, the show failed to make me care about these two people. And I really care about this topic of cross cultural relationships. I had one when I was younger, and so I would really really really like to see a drama that explores this topic that's more well done than what we have so far. That's my one wish before Ajumma leaves this earth, that some charitable screenwriter can write a script worthy of cross cultural romances and make me cry and feel the way that First Love manages to. What Comes After Love does not hold that key to open the floodgates for me. My eyes are dry and my heart is cold after watching 20 minutes and then fast forwarding through two episodes.
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24 DorksCanBeModels
October 3, 2024 at 8:09 AM
“ He looks shy and cute, with a dimple and underlying dorkiness “
This is such a funny description of one of the hottest and sexiest Japanese actors of the last decade.
Someone would you were describing “ Michael Cera“ and not SAKAGUCHI KENTARO
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25 hallyucinations
October 4, 2024 at 1:30 AM
Oh this sounds interesting and the ML looks cute but also wonderfully awkward. I am gonna watch this next!
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