Would You Rather #25
by DaebakGrits
In dramaland, leading ladies often find themselves torn between the love of two equally attractive men — a choice none of us would want to make! But what if you did have to pick between the frustrating lawyer and the adorkable police officer? In this weekly feature, we ask you to make the difficult decisions — and we aren’t limiting our options to dreamy oppas.
Vote via the poll and feel free to use the comments to explain exactly how you were able to choose! So, Beanies:
WOULD YOU RATHER #24 RESULTS
The clear winner in both the poll and the comments section is the option to inherit a shaman’s spell book, but the gap between the two options was a lot smaller than I expected after reading the comments. Like @claire2009, I was surprised that nearly 40% of voters wanted the love app when so few people in the comments section indicated why they preferred it. Must be a very silent and — perhaps, shy — minority. If they are shy, it would explain why such a love app would be appealing, as it takes away the guess work. For @emsel, though, not only would the app weed out “disinterested people” but it would be a solution to avoiding “arranged marriage stuff.” @abalyn, on the other hand, “wouldn’t touch that spell book with a ten foot pole” for fear of the unintended consequences.
Mostly, though, the comments were full of reasons for selecting the spell book. Half the folks saw it as the lesser of two evils because the app is “creepy” and would be a conduit to attracting equally “creepy men” (@lemonylite). The other half, however, believed that the spell book had a lot more to offer them. For instance, you could wish for “academic excellence,” like @jerrykuvira, or use the spells for more devious purposes, like @gikata and @darwi.
But, leave it to @lordcobol to point out the most logical explanation: you can use the spells to get rich or become more attractive. And if romance really is your goal, then someone’s going to be attracted to you for those, albeit superficial, qualities. Plus, you know, there’s a love spell in those pages somewhere! That said, using the spells means burning the pages, and I’m with @jls943 on this one: how could I burn the pages of such an interesting antique book?!
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1 Lord Cobol (Kdramas, like water, flow downhill)
September 13, 2023 at 10:42 AM
Sadly, having a perfect memory would mean remembering all the embarrassing things from when you were 18. Is says "perfect memory", not "perfect memories", which I might have gone for.
But an 18-year-old body? I might not have cared when I was in my 20s or 30s, but now that I'm past 70 (and feeling it) -- easy choice.
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Seon-ha
September 13, 2023 at 11:23 AM
Ain't it the truth! "Becoming 18 again," NEVER. But this brain in that young body...no question. Sign me up.
Besides, being able to forget is a gift, not a curse.
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2 Britney
September 13, 2023 at 10:47 AM
My 18 year old body isn't too different from my current body (from what I remember haha). I was never fit or physical so I don't see much difference myself.
If I had a perfect memory, I might have been a better student which may have helped with my GPA way back when. And with perfect memory, I could remember the recent concert I went to in perfect detail haha
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Diana Hansen
September 14, 2023 at 7:09 AM
I vote for the" remember the recent concert in perfect detail" option for sure!
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3 OAsia
September 13, 2023 at 11:07 AM
Having a perfect memory is more useful in life, e.g. from a professional point of view. With such a memory, you can make a career in many types of professions. In the case of a young body, only the fact of youth is an advantage. But this young body may not be healthy, strong or beautiful at all, so it's actually not a more interesting option.
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4 pohonphee
September 13, 2023 at 11:09 AM
Often time, forgetting is a blessing
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5 tabong
September 13, 2023 at 11:13 AM
I practically had my 18yo body yesterday. But good memory? I never had that, I'm in.
I really wanna know what's like to remember things. lol
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6 ♡Peach_Mochi♡
September 13, 2023 at 11:18 AM
Since I’m not planning to wear my high school uniform again, I’d opt for the perfect memory, which seems far more useful. In terms of the emotional burden, who knows — maybe I’d recall more positive memories than negative ones.
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Seon-ha
September 13, 2023 at 11:25 AM
I think you have to remember all the things, like ALL of them. Nothing forgotten, good or bad. Does that change your mind at all? I'm truly interested!
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♡Peach_Mochi♡
September 13, 2023 at 11:29 AM
My thinking is — I tend to remember and fixate on the negative already (human nature, right?) so this perfect memory business might actually have a balancing effect.
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mindy
September 13, 2023 at 12:07 PM
I also feel like having the ability to recall everything when you need/want to is different from having to remember everything at all times, too!
I have a lot of bad memories that I can think of if I really want to, but luckily they don't take up ALL of my brainspace, lol! And being able to perfectly recall all of the good memories would definitely balance things out IMO!
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♡Peach_Mochi♡
September 13, 2023 at 1:54 PM
Exactly! Also, recalling a bad memory is not the same thing as reliving it. So even if you were being tortured by someone who kept commanding you to recall your worst memory, wouldn’t it lose its sting upon numerous recollections?
darwi
September 13, 2023 at 12:09 PM
That's what I though too !
Right now, memories with emotional weight take precedence. But they might be buried in the sheer number of all the memories. Which is good for the bad/embarrassing memories.
Also, no more notes taking ! I'm with you for the perfect memory.
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Seon-ha
September 13, 2023 at 12:45 PM
So, if someone came up to you and said, "What was your most embarrassing memory?" You'd have to remember it right?
Or if you saw something that reminded you of your most painful moment, you'd have to remember that right?
I think the game is--if you have a perfect memory--everytime your memory is triggered, you'd have to remember! No selection.
darwi
September 14, 2023 at 12:33 AM
@attiton are you more evil than me to approach people with this type of questionning?
Yes, a perfect memory will show again the bad times. But also the good times. Maybe we can learn to trigger the good memories furthermore.
Besides, if I remember well everything that I'm seeing I would be able to make a lot of statistics. But I'm wondering how much of the time would be "remembering" compared to "living". Is it possible to even think when you have too much information piling up? Have you seen The final cut with Robbie Williams?
Seon-ha
September 14, 2023 at 4:28 AM
@darwi Am I evil? I dunno. Maybe. ;)
My memory’s pretty good, you see, so I have these experiences all the time. Thoughts, memories, and facts that I don’t want to return…they just return.
I’ve not seen the film your referencing, but I fear the sort of situation you refer to. That’s why I call forgetting a gift. We get to be selective.
I do understand the other side of this—those who want to remember more. I could imagine that it could even be quite frightening to forget things you wish you could remember. It’s a real doozy our memory!!
7 welh
September 13, 2023 at 11:59 AM
I went with perfect memory because I am bad at remembering names of people I just met in causal social situations.
The return to 18 year old body would be OK if you had some physical disability or weakness, but I am in pretty good shape.
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8 Lostpanda is celebrating My Ajusshi 💔
September 13, 2023 at 12:09 PM
I don't care for a perfect memory. Most people are referencing a better career with a perfect memory, but I would argue that having higher emotional intelligence is better than rote memorization. A robot can have a perfect memory. A person with a perfect memory can be replaced by a robot.
Also, I want to forget about going to my best friends funeral. I already have the good times ingrained in my head. I have writeups and photos to remind me of the good times. The funeral, on the other hand, I'd like for that painful memory to fade away.
And finally, choosing to forget is part of forgiveness - or at least it is for me.
By default - 18 year old body! I can't think of any downsides!
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dramadillo
September 13, 2023 at 2:45 PM
Sending you an XL-sized parcel of love - I’m so sorry you lost your best friend.
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9 jerrykuvira
September 13, 2023 at 1:10 PM
I picked having a perfect memory. Why? Imperfections enhances the clarity of a diamond.
Borrowing the words of Zeddicus Zul Zorander : "Because one journey down the agonizing gauntlet of youth is enough for any man." It's special. And, you only live once. Having a perfect memory helps me to capture my whole lifetime in one moment - one moment where I lived it once and can always go back to press replay and see how my good, bad and ugly unfolded themselves. Having my 18 year old body again will mean me wanting to correct those imperfections, made no questions asked. But...what's life without the flaws.
I happen to once in a while have the chance to be able to ponder on my memories, conversations even, like they are live in front of me. Having a perfect memory ensures I'm not missing any detail of my agonizing journey down the gauntlet of youth.
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10 redfox
September 13, 2023 at 1:43 PM
18 year old body cause I already have perfect memory.
and I want to avoid the mistakes i did (eating disorders) so I can be even healthier.
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11 dramadillo
September 13, 2023 at 2:54 PM
I am genuinely surprised at the number of beanies choosing a perfect memory. What this tells me is that we have a very healthy, fit, and/or young group of people here!💗
I would love to have my 18-year-old body again, if only to make better use of it and take better care of it the second time around.
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12 LaurenSophie
September 13, 2023 at 5:01 PM
The problem with a perfect memory is that you can't block out the things you don't want to remember. This is a key part of living a long, mentally stable life. It's also the case that if we can't remember what we don't remember, then what have we really lost?
So call me vain, but I want my 18 year old body back. Well, really, I want my 18 year old face back. Due to genetics and an active life, I am one of those annoying people who has basically been the same weight and body type since I was 15, but my face has definitely changed in ways I would rather it hadn't, lol. I know I should look at wrinkles as character lines and discolorations and sun damage as the markers of a joyful life. And yes, it's better to age than not. But how lovely would it be to never spend another dime on miracle serums or creams that I *know* intellectually won't work, but which I still can't help but buy in a completely fruitless attempt to look less tired and saggy?
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13 aicaramba
September 13, 2023 at 5:07 PM
18 again! I'll be physically 18, but still know everything I know now, right?
Career - being young again might take a few points off my credibility, but I'll knock people's socks off with my skills. I bet I can make a 30 under 30 list.
Love - still get the pickings while being wiser. Not bad!
Overall - my younger body was stronger and had more energy so I'd get to do more activities and go on adventures (sports, travel, etc...)
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14 Lady Bluestocking
September 13, 2023 at 5:46 PM
If I had my 18-year-old body back, that should include having the mental sharpness I had as an 18-year-old, right? I would be more than satisfied with that.
Plus, having a perfect memory would just give my neurotic brain more fodder for late night regret sessions lol.
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15 Cay_sbtgoG
September 13, 2023 at 5:48 PM
Neither of the options is very appealing to me. I'm perfectly fine with my body, so if I have to choose, I'd go with perfect memory, so I won't forget all the good things that have happened in my life.
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16 faithwithme
September 13, 2023 at 6:35 PM
i prefer to be 18 again so that i can fix my current bad habit. having a perfect memory is a no-no to me because remembering all the embarrassing memory is pain~~~
like you suddenly in trance, then somehow you are back in the past and remembering shameful thing you did in your teenage year is already giving myself a shiver 🙈😬
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17 Ally
September 13, 2023 at 8:12 PM
My 18 year old body wasn’t all that. So perfect memory is a better choice for me. And yes, it would be super useful for my profession.
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18 beffels
September 14, 2023 at 12:05 AM
My memory is fine how it is 😅 give me my 18 year old body so I can appreciate it now I’m old and falling apart 😂😂
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dramadillo
September 15, 2023 at 7:50 AM
I find the ‘now I’m old and falling apart’ bit very relatable.😂
I’ve given it more thought, and even though my memory is falling prey to the ageing process as well, I actually really enjoy the friction of effort and learning. I don’t think I want remembering to be any easier than it is.
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Goyangi and the Camel Crickets
September 16, 2023 at 9:53 AM
That's a good point, the challenge of learning would be lost
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19 Cecee is done DramaQueening
September 14, 2023 at 2:52 AM
I'm fitter and stronger now than when I was 18 (except for today because I'm feeling poorly but it's another story). I'll go with perfect memory instead.
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20 Diana Hansen
September 14, 2023 at 7:14 AM
Have an 18 year old body again and go through all the angst of youth again? No thanks. Youth is fleeting and having it fade twice isn't a good thought. But, a perfect memory gives unlimited opportunities for improvement and hopefully making better choices for the future.
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Cay_sbtgoG
September 14, 2023 at 8:29 AM
Can't agree more. I can't imagine a life where I lose all the memory of my life to this day but gain an 18 y.o of myself instead. I'd rather have my frail body than forgetting the good people I've met, the joy, laughter, tears from losing people I loved, the struggle, and even my failure, because they all part of who I am today.
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Cecee is done DramaQueening
September 15, 2023 at 12:30 AM
Wait a minute... does the angst of youth stop? I've still got my little angst baggage with me. Whom was I supposed to give it back when I'm not 18 anymore?
I agree with the memory. Imagine just all the learning you can do! Sure, you'll remember forever those painful or embarrassing moments you'd like to forget, but those are unfortunately designed to stay engraved anyway.
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tsevca
May 1, 2024 at 4:42 AM
It says your body from 18, not your mind. That's the important point for me.
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21 Miju
September 15, 2023 at 5:52 AM
Sometimes some memories being vivid could be traumatic (as in the case of our anchornim) but I think I'd still prefer perfect memory. Because there would still be the great ones in hd clarity to tide me over the darker ones. And as someone who wishes I could capture each moment of my day and hoard it in photographs, having a perfect memory would be like having the most extensive private gallery experience swathed in varieties ready for viewing whenever I felt like it (without the added work of well..photographing..and storing).
Since my present body is not toooo different from 18 year old me, Im not itching for it in the same way. Time travelling to my 18 year old self with present memories intact would be something I take, but since it only mentions having the body again..not too keen.
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22 Goyangi and the Camel Crickets
September 16, 2023 at 10:21 AM
This one was a difficult choice for me. On the one hand, having a youthful body again is a no brainer. But, I rather like being post menopausal 😁 so would that body also kick in everything that goes with it? It would give me a chance to make healthier choices than I did at 18. Having my current knowledge with a young body would be marvelous. Though that also made me wonder, since it's more often our bodies that break down with age rather than our brains, would that mean I'd reset my aging clock and live a whole lot longer than typical? Meaning I would lose all those I love first? Not liking that idea.
The other option, memory, would that mean starting now or would I get all of my past memories back? If yes, it would be wonderful to remember more clearly those beloved people who have passed on; my mom, pets, grandparents, a special great aunt, and my little best friend in Kindergarten who was lost to leukemia at age 6. But as others have pointed out that would also mean remembering their losses with greater clarity, and I'm not sure if I'd want that level of pain again. And of course those embarrassing and angry and hurtful memories are all lurking back there rubbing their hands with glee and waiting to pounce. I've seen interviews of people like Marilou Henner who have eidetic memories and her examples of the challenges that presents.
So, tough call. I still haven't decided! I start to lean toward one direction then backtrack ...
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23 tsevca
May 1, 2024 at 4:40 AM
While I do not have a perfect memory, I already remember a lot of things people usually don't. While it helped me with school, I always preferred subjects that are about skills than just midless memorizing. Otherwise, it was always more pain than gain.
But when I was 18, my back was much better. Easy.
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