My Perfect Stranger: Episodes 3-4
by quirkycase
Our leads each embark on their secret agendas as they settle into 1987 for the time being. But if there’s one thing we all know about time travel, it’s that adding new variables to the past has ripple effects that can change the future. While it’s certain that our time travelers’ presence is causing changes to the timeline, whether those changes are positive or negative remains to be seen.
EPISODES 3-4
Since the car is still on the fritz – Hae-joon’s mechanics skills are questionable – Yoon-young and Hae-joon are stuck in 1987 for a while yet. They form a temporary alliance, agreeing to stay out of each other’s business and keep to themselves, but that’s easier said than done.
Hae-joon is baffled by how Yoon-young keeps inadvertently integrating herself into his plans. Not only does she have that matchbox, but now she’s insisting on going to the local high school. Based on the intel Hae-joon got from the convicted suspect, that’s the one place the victims and suspects all have in common.
Thanks to the rampant communist and spy fears of the ‘80s, Yoon-young gets her wish. Her strange behavior and futuristic tech get her reported to the police, and Hae-joon has no choice but to claim she’s a new transfer student to account for her sudden appearance and lack of ID. She’s a smidge older than the other students, but they just claim she’s been held back a few times. (Not that she looks much older than your average drama “teenager.”)
So it’s back to high school for Yoon-young where she poses as a distant relative of Hae-joon’s. And who does Yoon-young meet in the principal’s office first thing but Hee-seob, the other new transfer. While she and Hee-seob glare daggers at each other, Hae-joon has his own glaring match with Hee-seob’s uncle BAEK DONG-SHIK (Choi Young-woo), the local cop Hae-joon blames for fumbling the serial killer investigation.
I love the running bit where everyone keeps commenting on how much Yoon-young and Hae-joon look like their estranged relatives. Principle Yoon is always trying to get people to agree that Hae-joon (who he loves) looks just like him, while Yoon-young is ready to fight whenever someone remarks she and Hee-seob resemble each other. She does fight Hee-seob after he muses she must not have a dad and then agrees her dad sounds terrible when she says he never shows up for her.
Despite how hard Yoon-young is trying to hate this version of her dad, I think his prediction that he’ll win her over might come true. They’re a lot more alike than Yoon-young wants to admit; she certainly gets her hotheadedness and intensity from him. At school, they have a surprisingly sweet moment that catches Yoon-young off guard. Hee-seob takes her to the rooftop to teach her a self-defense trick his father taught him for if the kids try to bully her. Although Yoon-young scoffs that it’s stupid, she uses it minutes later on the head bully who tries to provoke her. Heh.
But nothing can keep Yoon-young down for long because she gets to be desk mates with her beloved mom Soon-ae. Yoon-young is determined to learn everything about her mom and starts seeing her through new eyes. When Soon-ae shares that her mom punishes her for reading all the time rather than doing housework, Yoon-young realizes that’s why Soon-ae always encouraged her to read and wouldn’t let her help around the house.
Yoon-young isn’t about to let anything get in the way of her mom’s happiness now, so she keeps a close eye on Mi-sook. She’s a model student and never utters a mean word, but there’s something creepy about her smile and demeanor that suggests something sinister under the surface. And sure enough, she has Soon-ae edit (more like rewrite) all her writing homework just like Yoon-young does for her in the future. Yoon-young is irate, but Soon-ae claims she wants to do it and refuses to turn Mi-sook in.
Mi-sook’s whole family is off, though, so it’s little wonder she’s so awful. Her older brother KO MIN-SOO (Kim Yeon-woo) offers Yoon-young a ride home from school and shares intel on his sister’s scheming ways. It’s all rather creepy and odd, but it escalates quickly when Min-soo slams Yoon-young’s head against the dashboard. She wakes up in his home, keenly aware of the danger. This isn’t the first time Min-soo has kidnapped (and likely assaulted) a girl. Yoon-young fights him off until Hae-joon bursts in and beats him up before calling the cops.
Ah, Min-soo is the “falsely” accused serial killer in prison in 2021! Hae-joon now isn’t sure what to believe, realizing that Min-soo is indeed a predator who could be capable of kidnapping and killing women. This incident introduces a new variable into the equation since the first murder is only days away and now the primary suspect will be behind bars when it happens in this timeline.
We get to see Hae-joon’s more caring, gentler side as he protects Yoon-young and takes care of her after the attack. When he notices she hasn’t eaten, he even asks a café to stay open late and buys her a snack, eating it with her although he hates it. Yoon-young feels bad for following Min-soo into a dangerous situation, but Hae-joon assures her it is in no way her fault – regardless of her behavior, this should never have happened to her. Neither he nor Yoon-young are the trusting type, but they’re slowly starting to warm up to each other.
Hae-joon continues his surveillance of the other two primary suspects: Hee-seob and fellow student YOO BUM-RYONG (Joo Yeon-woo). Hae-joon learns from Bum-ryong that all the kids use those matchboxes to pass love letters to each other, which means those things are everywhere. So much for that clue.
He’s running out of time because the first victim, a student teacher named Ju-young, arrives in town and goes missing earlier than she’s supposed to. Hae-joon realizes his and Yoon-young’s presence is changing things, which complicates his plans. But then Yoon-young has a realization that could be pivotal to the case.
On the day the new teacher shows up, Yoon-young keeps feeling a sense of déjà vu. It hits her that night – she’s read this exact story. The field day event where the kids all met Ju-young was described perfectly in Mi-sook’s most recent manuscript suspiciously titled “The People I Killed” about a female serial killer. Armed with the manuscript, Yoon-young rushes to find Hae-joon. The episode ends with Yoon-young deciding their meeting is no coincidence and announcing it’s time for some honesty.
While it seems too obvious to make Mi-sook the killer – she could just be taking inspiration from what she witnessed at the time – I do like the twist that everyone might be barking up the wrong tree, and it could be a woman doing the killings. Even so, it’s too early to rule anyone out yet, which means basically everyone is a suspect in this shifty town.
In an epilogue, we see that Min-soo passed Yoon-young on the street in Woojung-ri the night her mom died. And now we know he’s a predator whether he killed anyone or not. That whole family is messed up, so I wouldn’t be surprised if the killings turn out to be a family effort.
Of the possible suspects, I can’t imagine Hee-seob being the culprit, but who knows? Even if he has nothing to do with the murders, I do wonder if that limp Yoon-young mentioned and his future alcoholism traces back to these events. It’s a small village, so I imagine everyone was impacted by the murders in some way or another.
One thing I appreciate that I didn’t expect is the strong thematic element. The drama has been dropping hints, but this episode really drove it home with the direct reference to Virginia Woolf’s classic feminist essay A Room of One’s Own about women needing financial independence and their own space in the world to reach their potential. With Soon-ae, we have a talented woman who has had her voice systematically repressed by everyone around her as she was put into the role of homemaker, wife, and mother without having the opportunity to carve out her own identity. Like the imaginary woman in Woolf’s essay, Soon-ae’s talent is never recognized, and she (supposedly) dies by her own hand.
Given the killer’s note about the dangers of women reading, I’m expecting the murders to directly tie into this theme. If the drama follows through, we could be in for an interesting exploration of the relationship between women, power, and access to knowledge and resources. Or maybe it won’t go that deep and we’ll just get a solid mystery-thriller. Either way, things are getting interesting.
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Tags: Jin Ki-joo, Kim Dong-wook, Lee Won-jung, My Perfect Stranger, Seo Ji-hye (2)
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1 emsel
May 10, 2023 at 10:42 PM
I'm frustrated that both Hae-joon and Yoon-young did not share their secrets much earlier. I get that they both are strangers, but they have time travel in common, so I do not understand what else could have gone wrong had they confided to each other when the ML clearly knows that there is a killer at bay. Two heads are always better than one.
I also do not like when Yoon Young recklessly mentions, she has known the 1987 people for years and had watched them because clearly someone is going to pick up on it and dig into their background and eventually get hold of the time travel car. Jeez, the leads act like people who not watched/read time travel fictions.
Even with all the annoying scenes, I adore the relationship between Yoon Young and young Hee Seob and the snippets of Yoon Young realizing her mom's sacrifices.
Does anyone else think that the new teacher is also from the future? I think they are also other people who time travel because it is always a given rule in these plots😂😂😂
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miso
May 10, 2023 at 11:05 PM
The leads not talking to each other was such an annoying plot contrivance. I can imagine Yoon-young not wanting to talk about her mother's (apparent) suicide but Hae-joon not talking about the murders is downright dangerous. Yoon-young was almost assaulted by the man who will soon be arrested for serial murder and he still doesn't say anything?!
About the student teacher, I wondered too whether she's a time-traveler. Or maybe she's investigating the Ko siblings, who almost certainly have committed other crimes already?
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cjoyce17
May 10, 2023 at 11:14 PM
[SPOILER] is what the student teacher says in the preview. So I am guessing she must have a secret and she is moving town the moment someone finds out.
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Lonestar Girl
May 11, 2023 at 3:40 PM
Could the new teacher be a spy? Mi-sook’s observations about her outfit, especially the shoes that appear out of place, had me go, hmmm. 🤔
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tabong
May 11, 2023 at 2:03 AM
I totally understand why our FL wouldn't want to talk about her mom. And well, she doesn't have to, not really. From her POV it's completely normal.
The real problem is the ML. There's a serial killer around but he doesn't think she has the right to know?? The heck is that. She literally has clues and she interacts with the three suspects but nah, that's totally chill. A coincidence we can ignore. *face palm*
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Misky
May 11, 2023 at 4:13 PM
The secrets annoyed the hell out if me. Just talk!!! The two of them are the only ones they can share with, plus it's literally a matter of life and death. Initially YY not sharing made sense but after the matchbox incident she should have said something,that clearly was a huge deal to Hj. AND HJ, murders are about to happen in a matter of days and you don't think that's important information?!!! "Don't go out, don't walk alone" etc BUT WHY!?. I'm just glad that bit is over, I was looking myself yelling at the screen
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2 Bunny Sonaki
May 10, 2023 at 11:30 PM
I am taking a liking to the drama more than I first thought. It is getting better by episode.
I agree with fellow beanies that the leads not opening up to each other frustrates me. Especially on Hae-joon's end since he knows about serial murders. For now, I will believe Mi-sook is the killer though it could be a red herring. Instead of considering it too obvious, I look at the matter differently. Maybe the thrill isn't who did it but how they did it and got away with it with no one knowing.
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3 Nefret
May 11, 2023 at 12:47 AM
Hopefully Yoon-young and Hae-joon will really talk about what they know and what the goals of their (un)voluntary time travel are in the next episode. Especially with Hae-joon, I can't understand why he acts so secretive when a serial killer is about to strike.
Since there is too many hints that Mi-sook is the killer, I think this is just a red herring.
I like young Hee-seob, especially his love for rock music. The boy has taste.
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4 Kurama
May 11, 2023 at 1:50 AM
I really like this drama.
The relationship between the leads is cute, he made her sandwiched for her pic-nic 🥰
As a viewer, it's frustrating they didn't talk about their past, but I understand they didn't want talk about death/murders etc with a stranger.
Yoon-Young is still mourning her mother's death and what she's discovering about her now makes her feeling guilty. She didn't know her mother was a very talented writer and not only a housewife.
For the mystery, I was expecting the suspect being the brother in the past. It's really funny to see the younger versions of each character.
The sister and the brother could be both killers. They clearly have an issue in this family.
There is the mystery about what the new teacher is hidding too.
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Kurama
May 11, 2023 at 1:51 AM
Oh, if there is a romance between them, their lie will make things very difficult :p
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loveblossom🌸
May 11, 2023 at 8:31 AM
Yeah haha. I would be fine if there was no romance. They could be a good, crime-solving duo instead.
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Eazal
May 11, 2023 at 10:22 AM
They are, and I was totally ok with them being a team to solve a crime and becoming good friends, but some of the scenes in episode 4 made me think maybe the drama has another plan. The one scene that made me see it was when the lady in the coffee place looked at them through the window while they were leaving.
And that lady. Surely she is someone special. I feel it.
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tabong
May 11, 2023 at 11:31 AM
I was wondering if the lady is related to our ML, it seemed like he knows her. 🤔 Mom, aunt?
Kurama
May 11, 2023 at 10:52 AM
My little heart will be happier with a romance because both actors can totally sell it.
If there is no romance but the story is great, I won't be angry. I'm already happy with the FL learning to know her parents.
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neener ~ Inside the Magic Shop ~
May 12, 2023 at 1:40 AM
Romance will come, definitely.
5 tabong
May 11, 2023 at 2:47 AM
The mom breaks my heart. Her past, her future... Aigoo. 😢
I hope YY realizes that the biggest problem isn't her dad but the values her mom and grandparents have.
Separating her parents doesn't mean that her mom will be able to achieve her dream. Tbh, the grandma seems like the type that would make her get married by force and burn all her books (okay, I'm being dramatic). And the mom just... Idk, even if people "let her" I wonder if she would go for it and start a career as a writer. She's used to holding back and ignoring her needs and desires.
Tbh, I care about her more than the leads. I want her to be happy. I really do. If they don't change the future and give the mom a perfect ending, I'm gonna be mad.
Now talking about the dad, wow, I like the him SO MUCH. He's the funniest character in the show.
I really want to know what happened to him. Last week I thought he was a frustrated artist trying to drink the pain away. But know I wonder if it has something to do with the murders. Maybe he saw/knows something but never said anything and his conscious ate him alive? Idk what happened but he really seems like a nice person, and like Nefret said, he has good taste in music.
Thanks for the recap quirkycase! ^^
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emsel
May 11, 2023 at 3:03 AM
What is the mystery with the key that Hee Seob has around his neck? Where is the lock? Something definitely is going on with him.
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tabong
May 11, 2023 at 11:31 AM
Yeah, I wonder if he's hanging out with the "wrong crowd" and that's why he ends up the way he does.
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6 mindy
May 11, 2023 at 3:43 AM
So, I’m liking this show more than I thought it would?
I tuned in because I found the synopsis amusingly similar to Back to the Future and because I like both Kim Dong-wook and Jin Ki-joo. They’re both as likable as ever in this show, but my favorite bit has to be the mother/daughter relationship. It’s definitely the show’s emotional core and I honestly found myself tearing up a bit in episode 4 when Yoon-young realized that her mother gave her the life that she wanted for herself. It’s something so simple: reading the books she likes, listening to the music she likes, drinking the coffee she likes. And yet having that leisure really is a privilege that not everyone is able to have, and seeing Yoon-young realize that really made me emotional. I think all of us have gone through those moments of realizing the depth of our parents’ lives, seeing what they sacrificed for us and understanding that they are not just our parents but individuals in their own right with their own dreams and desires. I find it really sweet to see Yoon-young going through this growth and seeing her love for her mother grow more and more every day. It’s wonderful and it’s heartbreaking.
I also like that despite the fact that the leads are hiding things from each other, and despite the fact that they both know this, there is no hint of malice in their relationship and they’re surprisingly pleasant to watch on-screen. I really liked the scene in the cafe (soy sauce and kkwabaegi, ick!) and especially liked when Hae-joon told Yoon-young that it wasn’t her fault. Is Yoon-young a reckless character who sometimes frustrates me? Yes! But I think that I and other viewers are very quick to judge fictional characters for things that we would never in good conscience judge them for in real life, like being a victim of violence. You can argue that she should have known better, you can express frustration with her choices, but when it comes down to it it is no one’s fault but the perpetrator’s. I really like that Hae-joon let her know this and didn’t victim-blame her.
It can be frustrating to see characters acting rashly on-screen, but it really doesn’t bug me too much as long as it makes sense for the character and the kind of person they have been shown to be. Yoon-young’s actions can be silly, but they make sense for who she is, and I find her extremely endearing despite it all. Jin Ki-joo is a delight to watch and I love the warmth she brings to the screen.
There are a lot of things that could bother me about the show if I focused on them enough, but I’m content just being along for the ride for now and hope that it continues to be a fun watch for me.
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loveblossom🌸
May 11, 2023 at 8:39 AM
I also teared up during the same scene. The mother & daughter story really drew me in this week. They better have a happy ending!
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Eazal
May 11, 2023 at 10:26 AM
We were three. As Mindy said, we all know our parents, they are our parents! But what about them before they became "mum" and "dad"? What were their dreams? I'm pretty sure I've achieved mine thanks to them, so...
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7 Kafiyah Bello
May 11, 2023 at 4:10 AM
I am so relieved the secrets part was over. I thought it would last longer. Thank God, it did, it was already annoying and we are only 4 episodes in. Now we are into the meat and potatoes, I cannot wait until next week.
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8 nursa
May 11, 2023 at 5:22 AM
I ff some scenes so I keep thinking that Principal Yoon might be the killer. But I think it is just that I missed some important parts. 🤔 ~because I don't have a single reason to support that thought
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9 hacja
May 11, 2023 at 7:51 AM
I was frustrated as other commentators with the leads not giving each other really essential information--especially Hae Joon not telling Yoon-Young about the serial killer preying on young women. I'm not sure the show has explained why he is so suspicious of her--so her showing up, getting hit by the time travel car, and then coming with him was strange. Its not as if his discovery of the time travel car was totally normal!
However, I'll just chalk that up to the usual irrationality necessary to prolong kdramas beyond their natural narrative boundaries.
What I appreciated, as @quirkycase highlighted, was the lengthy quote from Virginia Woolf, that went beyond the short phase "a room of her own." You won't find THAT in too many kdramas, nor in many U.S. t.v. shows, except perhaps the ones based in academic settings. If, again drawing on @quirkycase's interpretation, the time travel theme is used not just to expose a serial murder but also make an argument for remedying the neglect of the early intellectual aspirations of older women, that would really be something! The problem is that the exploitative and potential serial killer Mi-sook has, at least in the future, realized Woolf's vision of feminine empowerment. So does that mean a critique of Woolf is upcoming in future episodes? It all depends on the nature of time travel!
Speaking of the ancient past, though, I just want to (somewhat defensively) point out that by 1987, in the U.S. at least, many men, and one I know all too well, recognized that women deserved a room of their own!
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10 loveblossom🌸
May 11, 2023 at 8:16 AM
I want more!! Really enjoying this show. <3 I'm anxious for Hae Joon and Yoon Young to communicate and join forces!
The twist about the serial killer possibly being female is interesting, but they hinted at Mi Sook so early. This makes me think she's a red herring.
Yoon Young thinking of her mother in the present pulled at my heartstrings. Poor Soon Ae always had her dreams and happiness ignored or taken away from when she was a child through her adulthood.
Hee Seob giving Yoon Young a tip from his own father was a sweet & funny scene. It was great that she used it too.
It was crazy stupid that she just accepted a ride from a stranger! I don't know what she was thinking. It wasn't even raining yet when they were outside. Maybe the only reason was because he was Mi Sook's brother? Or she thought it was a small town place and she wasn't thinking about crimes/danger. -___- I'm glad Hae Joon didn't berate her after the attack. It was a nice scene when they ate the sweet and salty snack (lol).
Since this is a small town setting, I get that they would make the suspects be people that we are introduced to. I think the killer will be someone else though. Can't imagine Yoon Young's father being the one..... That would be a huge, heartbreaking twist. Don't see it in him at the moment.
And dang, there were two epilogues by the way! I missed the first one until it was mentioned in the recap.
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11 Eazal
May 11, 2023 at 10:36 AM
I am loving so much this drama, and above all, as many beanies have already mentioned, the relation between YoonYoung and her mum. As every time a drama decides a daughter travels in time to meet a younger version of her mum, I always wish I could do that and meet my my mum and learn more about the amazing woman she was. It always hits hard.
I also love the relation between YoonYoung and her dad. He's been an absent parent, has neglected her and her mum, and indeed didn't deserve to be called a father. But we are meeting sweet, innocent and funny Hee Seob. What will happen in the near future to make this sweet soul turn sour? It's obviously related to the crimes, but what? Is he a witness? Is he protecting someone? Is he blaming himself?
I am not frustrated by the leads not communicating. I totally understood it, but now that they are going to be honest to each other, I can't wait to see their team and how they change the past and the future, because... that car appeared for a reason... aren't we sure it isn't the killer the one who sent it?
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12 Lonestar Girl
May 11, 2023 at 3:52 PM
I really like this drama! More than I thought I would.
Speaking of women having a room of their own, why does Yoon-young sleep on the couch? Doesn’t that big house have more than one bedroom?
I loved the scene when YY met her grandparents and uncle and aunt! The look on YY’s face! 🥰
What is up with Hee-seob’s uncle, Detective Baek? His stares are creepy.
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13 neener ~ Inside the Magic Shop ~
May 12, 2023 at 1:36 AM
Binged 4eps last night. The mystery definitely got me and keep me interested.
I love how the show keeps on mentioning how Yoon-young looks like her dad xD And there might be something about the Chairman and Hae-joon, bcs do we know Hae-joon’s family background and his connection to the town aside from his death? Did I miss something?
I also love the fact how Hae-joon said that it was not Yoon-young’s fault that she got attack because a bad person will continue to be bad no matter what.
Now that the two of them have finally decided to talk, we will have more clue on who’s the murderer.
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loveblossom🌸
May 12, 2023 at 8:21 AM
The chairman? Do you mean the principal? He is Hae Joon's grandfather.
I like the jokes sbout the family resemblance too. XD
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neener ~ Inside the Magic Shop ~
May 12, 2023 at 8:53 AM
Oh he is? I missed that part 😅
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14 gadis
June 11, 2023 at 10:46 PM
Just as what I expected from a small town story, everyone is related to everyone, including our time-travelling duo. That made everything more complicated, even without the whole serial murder cases lurking in the future. I do have my suspicion though, that possible interference needed to change the history was actually much simpler if only Yoon-young and Hae-joon stopped playing their cards so close to their hearts.
I couldn't help loving all those scenes where Yoon-young (and in much smaller proportion, Hae-joon too) had interaction with people from her present timeline and there was these extra layers of hidden meanings and plethora of angst there, while the other parties continued on, completely oblivious of it all. Those were deliciously bittersweet and so on point.
I like how we can clearly feel the dissonance between the reality of the past that they lived in now, and the present timeline that they left behind. How their expectation of certain people's behavior and relationships were completely off the mark exactly because they refused to entertain the possibility that what they "normally" knew about those people might not be all the facets they embodied in life. That there were other sides they could see when they didn't interact as family or boss-employee as they usually did. It was fascinating to realize that their future knowledge actually hindered them in this case by narrowing their perspective considerably. Ironically, both of them kept accepting the future they know of as the "correct answer sheet" to these problems even when they actively tried to change the history, whether it was Hae-joon perusing the case files without considering possible other suspects, or Yoon-young adamantly refusing to consider other extenuating circumstances that might lead to her mom having a lonely marriage life.
As for the serial murder case, I have my eyes on Go Mi-sook. I'm not sure though whether I like her as the culprit behind all this monstrosity. On one hand, it felt too in-your-face and I would feel anxious waiting for the next twist the writer will come up with to balance the very obvious whodunit. On the other hand, I like the idea of a female serial killer, and the way she emphasized on her peculiar reason in her novel made her a potentially far more interesting choice than any other suspects on Hae-joon's short list. I guess we should see how it all develop with the arrival of the first victim.
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