I don't really care about my best angle, I don't post any picture of me. So music for me!

OH, god. Photos!

Those of us who have actually had the second thing happen may be in two camps, but PLEASE not again. And yes, the singing was fine. My embarrassment was not though.

From which drama does scene#2 come from? 🤔
As for the answer of this question... neither please 🙈. When in public, I want to attract the least amount of stares possible 😂

Thanks for shot-out, I'm totally gonna use "particularly passionate in expressing distaste" in my resume someday)))

So, embarrassing confessions time - while I'm really good looking, I'm also utterly unphotogenic. Not sure if it's my hardcore resting bitch face syndrome, camera flash (or any strong light) sensitivity or just overall physical awkwardness, but the number of my photos I DON'T hate is super limited. I've learned to accept this and moved on. There's no actual "best" angle for me, they're all equally tragic and don't do the real thing any justice. So as much as the idea of a boyfriend with magical camera skills may look tempting, I don't quite believe in it, sorry.

Serenading, in other hand, is FUN. Yep, I've had this happening to me - been a while since last time tho - and I loved it every single time, perhaps due to lucking out with decent enough performers. And hell, man who loves music and has a great voice IS my ideal type! Bring it on)))

Right now, it seems that votes are going 50-50, and frankly it makes sense. Would you rather have something great or another great thing... Well both, ideally. I would rather not have a choose between two nice things, bag the lot and run away in my best thief fashion.

Except that in this particular case, it's not closing between two amazing things. I see only one positive here: Someone who knows how to take good photos of me. Yes, please. If you are cursed with my utter inability to grasp basic facial expressions and on top of that someone who can't aim or time their camera properly, the result is always inevitably disappointing. The kind of disappointing where you look at the image, scratching your head and wondering how people don't run away from you. Is that truly what I look like? And more, importantly, if this is the case, can I sue my parents for physical damages and emotional distress?
Just a few weeks ago, I needed to take author photos for the first time. The excitement of a first time rapidly de-escalated into abject horror. It doesn't matter how much I tried, I could only confidently master 2 faces: Smiling and the I-am-going-to-murder-the-whole-planet-passport photo. If I don't have a mirror to practice repeatedly, I don't know how to pull any other faces. Needless to say, having someone who can pose me to capture images that would not give me or anyone else nightmares would be a massive improvement (on both my self-esteem and everyone else's sanity)

On the other hand, a serenade... Nope, that isn't for me for a variety of reasons. I enjoy silence rather than music. Not that I won't listen to music, but I'm one of those boring neurodivergent souls who would rather wear noise-cancellers or headphones with the same whale song on loop (actually not a whale song, just whatever songs I happen to fixate on at the time) than hit a random Spotify playlist to relax. And if I am trying to work, silence is the preferred option. Anything else is too disruptive. So, having someone violently interrupting my peaceful thoughts to serenade me is unlikely to end up well for the relationship.
There is also a showy element to many serenade stories. It is rarely a private event. It is often performed in public. It does take a lot of courage to do so, and a complete lack of understanding of what makes me happy or comfortable. Someone serenading me may end up at the receiving end of a bucket of water (I might even include the bucket in the throw). I may also worry about their sanity in general because, dude, if you'd seen any of my photos, you wouldn't want to serenade me. You'd be running away at top speed.

Being paparazzied by my GF would probably be quite annoying; there are more cute songs than the angles of my face.

I don't know why but the first thought I had was, "which one is more likely to cheat, the one who knows all my best angles or the one who has a nice voice and likes to sing?" Both guys sound nice but I want the one who will be loyal to me. Whether they're good at taking portraits or musically gifted, they should not have a wandering eye or sing for just anybody. Hope that makes sense. If I didn't have to worry about loyalty, I would choose serenading. You can teach someone which angles are your best. Or ideally, he should think I am beautiful from any angle. Like my dad, who even when my weight ballooned to ridiculous proportions, thought I was the most beautiful girl in the world, forever his little girl. But the gift of singing is not something you can teach, nor the willingness to sing for someone. Ideally, I would like someone who has a beautiful singing voice that's good enough to go professional but doesn't show it off all the time. But when asked to, he can sing naturally and confidently. Am I asking too much?

I don't know what either of these dramas is referring to but the seranade seems nice. Especially if the singer has a nice voice and can just give you the tingles.

I don't know how to react when people sing an entire song in a serious way. I'm used to the chaotic karaoke vibe.

I can't take anyone singing for three whole minutes without me being able to sing along or dance and scream freely. But the worst part is that they're singing for me so I won't even be able to get bored freely. I would have to give them an awkward smile the whole time. But I can't even handle people singing happy birthday to me! LOL it's just weird.

Therefore I choose knowing all the good angles. I only take pictures with other people in it. So it would be like a selfie of the two, but they'll be taking it, a 100% of the time.
I look better from far away. Hahaha.

I absolutely cannot be serenaded unless my lover is being played by someone with what I deem to be a legitimately good singing voice, like Lee Jun-young, Lee Sang-yi, or that dude who was the 2ML in Heartbeat. I am HORRIBLY critical and picky when it comes to singing. Like, it would be a bad time for both of us. Also, I don't even like it when people sing "Happy Birthday" to me, so probably wouldn't love sitting through a serenade even with a wonderful singer.

So I'm gonna go with the second one for sure.

I don´t like being on pictures. not exactly serenade but a friend did write a song about me and some musician friends have used my poems / lyrics. But it was more like based on me, not serenading to.

If someone gave me a penny for every time I told a man to “capture my best angle” who delivered the worst possible angle in a photo, I’d be a bagazillionnaire! Frankly, ngl, I’m so jealous of those insta boyfriends.

Also, it reminds of that hilarious scene from Queen of Tears when one of the “evidence” presented of love of Baek Hyun Woo toward Hong Hae In was how he always tried to find her best angle and how he “strained” and “focused” to get her legs long in the picture. 😂

Definitely best angles. For someone to know my best angles, they would have to be attentive to me, knowledgable about my quirks and thoughtful about my personality. Taking a best photo requires quite a bit of intimacy and bonding.

This can be a tough choice. I do appreciate great photos especially on vacation and its great to have friends who can take great photos. Which made me realize its better that friends take it so you can have great photos together with ur significant other, if its a group vacation. (I promise to take good instructions so I can return the favor) but if its just us, I prefer taking photos of the places we see and candid photos.
I have a soft spot for guys with a great singing voice.

For once no hesitation for me, so I'm surprised by the results at the moment with 56% only prefering to have good photos albums.

Maybe I'm not romantic, but I really don't see the point of the serenade. And if it is in public, I'll run away.
I just wrote and performed a song for my cousin's wedding (with the whole family singing), but that is not the same. Is it ?

Music is everything to me but being serenaded feels like too much pressure. I like to enjoy my music alone 🙈 So a significant other who knows all my best angles sounds more manageable. I'm guessing he'll also know that the only way to get a decent picture of me is to not tell me we are taking pictures. So if he's good at secretly photographing my best angles then I think we are good.

Best angles, please! I'm not very photogenic. I need someone to remind me to straight up my posture for the standing pics and close my legs for the sitting pics. Can't go wrong with nice pics!

Serenades will make me feel embarrassed, especially if it's a public serenade. And what if it's a song that I don't like or am tired of listening? Too many variables.