Dare to Love Me: Episodes 15-16 (Final)
by starrygazer
Our show comes to an end this week on a happy if lackluster note. After starting out heavily focusing on the romance and comedy, it’s a shame not to have an abundance of that in our final week. I’m sure that’s what most of us were hoping for — I know I was.
EPISODES 15-16
The relationship between our leading couple is on rocky waters in our final episodes. Hong-do is allowing all these seeds of doubt to grow in her mind when it comes to her relationship with Yoon-bok. She asks Camille what happened to her relationship with Grandad Shin, and of course they broke up because he had to return to Seongsan Village.
Hong-do has noticed that Yoon-bok seems worried and overhears him having a conversation with Grandad Shin. Yoon-bok informs Grandad Shin that he will join the police investigation and put an end to the threat to the village. Grandad Shin doesn’t want him to get involved again; he thinks it’s too dangerous and Yoon-bok should let him deal with it. But Yoon-bok wants to tie everything up before he leaves for Paris with Hong-do.
This leaves Hong-do wondering if she is doing the right thing taking Yoon-bok with her to Paris. She confronts Yoon-bok asking him if he will really be happy abandoning everything: the village, his family. Yoon-bok looks crestfallen. He does not want to lose another person he loves and she is the most precious person to him. How Hong-do does not lose her resolve at this point is completely beyond me! Instead, she thanks him for always treating her with care and walks away in tears. Once Yoon-bok has regained his composure he chases after her “having something to say” but she is hiding in her room, so he doesn’t get to say it.
On the day of the fashion show Chil-bok (Hong-do’s dad) steals the spare key to the storage room. Very suspicious. Then, Gamjjok makes a bold appearance trying to enter said storage room, but is seen by security. He is finding it hard to evade them so decides to hide inside, where he is unmasked. Omo, it’s only Director Lee!
As he is taking off his mask and changing his clothes to go undetected, Hong-do catches him. She sees the burn on his arm and has a flashback to when she was in the village as a child and she bumped into him running away from the storage room. Things take a sinister turn when Hong-do asks if he’s “that man.” This menacing look comes over his face as he grabs a scarf off the rail and throttles Hong-do unconscious. Knowing he needs a bargaining chip, he shoves her in the back of his van and speeds off. With Yoon-bok in hot pursuit.
When Yoon-bok loses sight of the van he calls Director Lee, who tells him if he wants to see Hong-do again he needs to retrieve the jade box from storage in exchange. Yoon-bok searches everywhere, going to Director Lee’s home and workplace to no avail. Chil-bok tearfully explains to Grandad Shin that he was threatened and had to steal the key. They had shown him pictures of Hong-do and roughed him up so he would do it.
Hong-do wakes up tied to a chair and terrified. Although she manages to escape, she doesn’t get very far. Meanwhile, Yoon-bok has received instructions from Director Lee about where to go to exchange the box for Hong-do. At the exchange, we see a hooded man getting out of the car and walking with a bag only to get knocked over by a motorbike and the bag stolen. As Director Lee opens the bag cackling maniacally, it’s revealed that the “man” was Yoon-ah and Yoon-bok is standing right outside his hideout. *Fist pump*
As luck would have it, Joon-oh woke up — and told Yoon-bok where he needed to go to catch Director Lee. Not being fazed at all, Yoon-bok starts kicking ass and taking names which I for one enjoyed. It is nice to see this part of Yoon-bok resurfacing. With the commotion outside, Director Lee decides it’s time to leave. But not without leaving a parting gift for Yoon-bok. He orders his henchmen to set the room on fire with Hong-do inside. Wow, that got very dark very quickly.
Yoon-bok saves Hong-do (I was wondering when he was going to dust off his armor) and chases after Director Lee, who is escaping on foot. He was quite menacing up until this point. What kind of bad guy forgets his car key in this situation…?
Yoon-bok catches up to him pretty swiftly and Director Lee jumps straight into monologuing, admitting he was to blame for Yoon-bok’s father’s passing. he claims that money is more important than life, and mocks Yoon-bok for not being able to hit him because that’s not what “noble scholars do.”
Thank God for Hong-do showing up just in time to whack him over the head. Telling him she’s not a noble scholar so she’s happy to beat him up, she sprinkles in some insults and satisfyingly calls him an asshole. I loved this moment — Hong-do refusing to go down without a fight (and Yoon-bok’s face) were absolutely priceless. Director Lee then gets carted off by the police leaving Hong-do and Yoon-bok alone. The atmosphere between the two of them is so awkward that Yoon-bok chickens out again and doesn’t tell Hong-do that thing he wanted to say.
Finally, it seems Yoon-bok has mustered up the courage to talk to Hong-do. He calls her to meet and it starts off with awkward small talk. Yoon-bok tells her that before he met her he didn’t know what he wanted out of life. He didn’t know what happiness was or what it was like to open up and live freely. Then he says he’ll do what she wants and stay at the village, and that he wishes her health and happiness. Hong-do reciprocates and leaves in tears. Are they really going to leave it like this!? He has failed to tell her what he wanted to yet again, and it’s the most frustrating thing I’ve seen through the whole show.
Meanwhile, all the subplots are quickly tied up. Chil-bok is accepted back into Hong-do and Hong-hak’s life, which I found surprising considering Hong-do’s attitude towards him right up until this point. On the other hand, Camille and Grandad Shin agree to meet up in Paris when he has handed over the village — their relationship progression throughout has been a plus point for me.
As for Yoon-ah, she is going to write Hong-hak’s next webtoon, a continuation of the one based on her. Yeojoo-daak regularly visits Joon-oh, who now seems at peace with his situation and happy to see his mum on a regular basis. And Yi-bok has quit the police force and is living in the village again after reconciling with Grandad Shin.
After an unnecessary one-year time jump, our hero is still hunting down relic-stealers, but with Yi-bok by his side. He has been implementing new things at the village and the siblings have managed to convince Grandad Shin to open up the village to the public. And our heroine is living in Paris being a designer like she had always dreamed, the catch being that our leading couple are still pining for each other even though they are “where they should be” in life.
The closing scene features Hong-do sitting in her favorite French cafe, looking up Seongsan Village on her phone (which is incidentally her most searched term), and seeing that Yi-bok has been appointed Grandad Shin’s successor. Just as cherry blossoms fall and the Titanic music makes a comeback, she sees Yoon-bok standing in front of her asking if he’s too late. Hong-do jumps into his arms, thrilled to see him. It’s sweet and well put together, with a romantic backdrop and Yoon-bok in his signature hanbok and gat.
That being said, from all the previous cutesy/romantic moments they’ve had throughout, this ending fell short for me. It would have been nice to see them reach this moment sooner and get a peek at how they were going to make it work. The pace was pretty quick earlier on in the show, but it slowed down somewhere along the way and never really got that momentum back. A lot of time was devoted to the mystery saga, and although it was necessary to propel the main storyline it felt a little overemphasized.
And so, Hong-do and Yoon-bok didn’t really get the ending they deserved. There was no explanation of how they felt after the traumatic experience they both faced at the end (and it didn’t seem to affect either of them or how they viewed their relationship). Our leading couple held this whole show together, so it would have been fitting to see more of them together in our final week. The message here, as I interpret it, is that if you love each other enough you make it work. And they did in the end, so I guess that’s a win?
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1 Dylan [JooJoo couple, fighting!]
July 3, 2024 at 5:48 PM
Dropped this 8 episodes ago... do I want to know what happens to the former slave who takes revenge on the patriarchal, hyper conservative Joseon LARPers?
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Linarrick
July 3, 2024 at 10:08 PM
Trust me you don’t want to know…
I dropped the show because of this, I’ve only been reading the recaps to find out who Joon-ho’s benefactor was.
That said, with Yi-bok taking over the village, in my head the real ending is when Joon-ho is released from prison and gets together with Yi-bok and they make some babies which subsequently gives evil grandpa a heart-attack. There I fixed the ending 😁
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DancingEmma
July 4, 2024 at 12:45 AM
This was surely the most reactionary drama made this year/last year. It was all covered up with platitudes but the bulk of the message about how power is exercised was profoundly regressive. Yes, don’t worry that one family was born to rule and continued to control the place but give them their dues. Why couldn’t we see their effort at charitably introducing a semblance/veneer of democracy? A perfect allegory for how the rich orchestrate/pretend regime change and continue with their rule. But grandpa shin was so cute! My eyes rolled so hard I did a full 360 D. Give me a huge break.
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Linarrick
July 4, 2024 at 2:58 AM
Yeah it confused me why only Bok family had the right to be leaders of the village? Why couldn’t it be more democratic? And not just the “nobles”, but also the merchants and the “peasants” should be given an equal opportunity to run for an election. None of this was critiqued in the drama, why is there a Joseon caste system in the first place? What do the “nobles” contribute? Do they just sit there lying around all day, collecting taxes from merchants and getting free labour from “servants” because they “provide” shelter? It sounds awfully like slavery to me. It’s just baffling that none of this was critiqued and or dismantled, the status quo remains the same in the village during the 21st century when the Joseon Dynasty no longer exists!!!
The notion of upholding tradition is such a flimsy argument that all I can do is role my eyes at the drama. Yes maybe I could understand if everyone one was treated equally, there being no nobles or peasants (or sexism, every person should be doing the housework, not just women) and everyone contributing equally to maintain the village (equal here should also take into consideration people’s various disabilities). Because I do understand that artisans’ work should be more appreciated in our hyper consumerist world, and I don’t fault anyone if they want to live outside our capitalist society (or as much as they possibly can). However, everyone should be able to leave and have contact with the outside world at all times, no excommunicating and also have democratic elections for leaders and not be so isolationist. Otherwise it’s nothing but a cult
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Linarrick
July 4, 2024 at 3:09 AM
Sorry I meant Shin family
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2 OhSoEnthusiastic
July 3, 2024 at 8:27 PM
I knew in the first episode that this show was going to be silly nonsense, and I've mostly been content to let it be that, because I found the silly nonsense entertaining. (I consistently had no interest in everything around the antique stealing mystery plot though, and I fast-forwarded it at times.) The leads were really cute together, and that's what kept me coming back.
But after sitting down last/this week to watch episodes 13 and 14, having to sort of push myself through 13 because I really didn't want to watch either episode, and seeing how everything wrapped up in the finale...I've decided to drop this drama. I've gotten all the enjoyment out of it that I can at this point, lol.
I would love to find the webtoon though and see what it's like.
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3 Linarrick
July 3, 2024 at 10:07 PM
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4 Bunny Sonaki
July 3, 2024 at 10:55 PM
Thanks @starrygazer for those beautiful recaps.
Yi-bok quitting and returning to the village felt forced and not the slightest bit natural to me. To was as if the drama wanted to come up with a way to have Yoon-bok reunite with Hong-do even if not reasonable.
Having lived outside, Yi-bok might help villagers adopt more modern lifestyles better but Yoon-bok has more influence on them having lived there all his life.
Another point I am really not a fan of one party making all the sacrifice to be with the other one. Not saying Hong-do is selfish but I hoped for an ending where both parties put in as much effort. The breakup before Hong-do going to Paris was worse than any noble idiocy I saw before.
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Bunny Sonaki
July 3, 2024 at 10:56 PM
Another point I almost forgot. Yi-bok pretty nuch told Jun-ho she will wsit fir him. Will he really be able to live in the village for the rest of his life? Will villagers accept him?
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5 Kurama
July 4, 2024 at 1:04 AM
This drama was lackluster in every theme.
The romance : it started well but then it kinda disapeared for the mysterious thief and made no more sense with the stupid separation.
The character : Hong-Do wanted to be a designer but we never saw her as one, she worked a lot but it was more random tasks than what she really wants to do. I don't still understand why she forgave her father, she was kidnapped because of him... Yoon-Bok's wish to become a webtoon artist completely disapeared and after everything he suffered from his grandpa, he still chose to be the heir of what? It's kinda the question, we still don't know how really works the village. The grandpa should be leaving outside the village after all the bad things he did supposely for the well being of the village... The sister could have found another work if she wanted to live with Joon-Ho but outside the village. He never was happy there. She was barely happy there. How they forgot how their mother suffered from that, it's kina weird.
The plot : the reason of the big villain was so weak.... the mystery of their father's death too.
Nothing was really good in this drama and I'm very sad for the actors, they deserved better.
I'm happy for Lee Yoo-Young who announced her marriage and pregnancy (I understand better the choice of the awful dress for the press conference).
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Martine
July 20, 2024 at 2:35 PM
In the end Grandfather says that people are the most important. Yet he ignored his own advice by traumatizing his young grandson by telling him his mother abandoned him and forcing both his daughter-in-law and his own daughter out of the village. To me that is just unacceptable and seems to have been glossed over way too easily. Just the trauma of that needed its own 16 episodes
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6 GySgt213
July 4, 2024 at 5:55 AM
This was a big fail for me. From him constantly referring to his girlfriend as teacher to having him show up in Paris in village attire at the end.
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7 🌸 Seeker 🌸
July 5, 2024 at 6:50 AM
Thank you for this yin-yang ☯️ drama recap.
A shout out to you @starrygazer for an exceptional job with the recaps. I learned so much from you.
The romance and comedy indeed took a backseat but uri Hong-do did a stellar job in escaping from the clutches of the villain's den, only to be caught again, sigh. But I simply loved how she dared to be her own Prince Charming and knocked out the Director and chewed him out good and proper leaving even the usually unflappable Yoon-bok shell-shocked. 😂
https://www.dramabeans.com/members/Seeker/activity/1601640/
In other news uri Hong-do i.e. Lee Yoo Young is married and is soon to be a mother. ❤🥰
https://www.soompi.com/article/1672239wpp/actress-lee-yoo-young-announces-marriage-and-pregnancy
Best wishes to her for these two very special and happy milestones in her life. 😊 May she be blessed with much happiness and joy. ❤🥰
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8 OldLawyer
July 5, 2024 at 10:13 AM
I lost interest in this show about halfway through. It wasn't a conscious drop= just not hitting the play button anymore. From the recaps it seems like it never regained what it had at the beginning.
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9 vienibenmio
July 5, 2024 at 11:18 AM
I dropped this a while back, did we ever get the scene from the beginning of ep 1 where she's telling him she loves him and he just keeps saying that's fine?
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🌸 Seeker 🌸
July 7, 2024 at 1:06 AM
🤣🤣🤣 No that never happened. Not even in anyone's imagination. 🙄
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vienibenmio
July 7, 2024 at 7:48 AM
Lol, I only kept watching because that scene intrigued me so much so guess it's good I stopped
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10 Martine
July 20, 2024 at 3:12 PM
I liked the ending after all. It made sense to me, including the time jump. It was a parallel to the story of Camille and Grandfather who choose to follow their respective paths.
But it made sense for Hong-Do to follow her dream. She had wanted this her entire life. On the other hand, Yoon-bok never asked to inherit the village. It was more of a sense of duty than anything else. It was not the life he would have chosen otherwise. But he needed a year to implement the changes he wanted to see before he felt he could hand it over to someone else. And neither wanted to tie the other into a doomed-to-fail long-distance relationship. That's why Hong-Do kept wanting to call him but didn't. It was noble idiocy but an understandable one.
In the end they broke away from Camille and Grandfather's doomed relationship and forged a new path together.
Not an amazing drama, and I confessed I had to push myself to finish it. The romance lacked passion, although I think that was in character.
As for the mystery, it was okay, but the villain reveal was pretty lame. mean REALLY lame.
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