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Tell Me That You Love Me: Episodes 9-10

Contentment and confessions await our hero this week but he also has to face the pain of the past when his first love comes calling. Chock full of charming scenes between our leads, the drama slows the pace even more so we can savor all the serenity, and grapple with some beautiful life lessons on loss.

 
EPISODES 9-10

Tell Me That You Love Me: Episodes 9-10

Last week, Mo-eun’s parents met Jin-woo for the first time and we saw that they had a reaction, but we were kept from the conversation that followed. This week, we’re filled in on the aftermath between Mo-eun and her parents, where Mom (Kim Mi-kyung) is concerned for her future and Dad (Kang Shin-il) has a look of outright disgust.

But when it comes right down to it — and Mo-eun explains she just wants to live her life without regrets — her parents are supportive (I’m so happy we skipped the usual parental drama here). They may not agree with her path but they won’t go against it. Mo-eun is afraid of disappointing them but also brave in her actions to do what she wants. And we get a good sign much later on when Mom asks if she should pack Jin-woo some kimchi — so, I think she’s coming around already.

Tell Me That You Love Me: Episodes 9-10

To pick up on last week’s bullying thread, Jin-woo gets a new student in his art class, and it’s the boy who was being bullied, AHN TAE-HO (Han Hyun-joon). Tae-ho can hear fine, and doesn’t know any sign language, but wants to join Jin-woo’s class because he feels inspired by his life story.

We learn that Tae-ho dropped his wallet during the fight last week and when Mo-eun sent it back to him, she included an interview with Jin-woo about his life and career. Tae-ho read about how Jin-woo went to a regular school and was the only one who couldn’t hear, and so, now Tae-ho will be the only one who can hear in the art class. It’s an interesting dynamic when we see the students interact because the tables are turned. The hearing student feels like a nuisance to the rest, slowing them down when they have to translate from sign language to writing.

When Jin-woo asks Mo-eun how Tae-ho ended up with the interview in his hands, she says she hates it when people misunderstand Jin-woo, so that’s why she sent it. They have one of their sweet moments, on a park bench, holding the yellow scarf that first led them to meet each other that day on the beach in Jeju.

At his studio, they have another quiet and lovely moment when Mo-eun tells Jin-woo that Seo-kyung is interested in his work and he should use that interest to have his own exhibition. He sits her down and says he has something to tell her. Then he lets out the truth that he and Seo-kyung “were in a relationship for quite a while.” Mo-eun admits she already knew (she pieced it together when she stumbled on some old letters), but she was waiting for him to say something to her. There’s no drama here, just two people being honest. And their passion is captured so well with Jin-woo turning up all his charm.

Later on, he tells her about his fears. He’s hated having feelings for anyone because he fears he can’t help them. He won’t be able to protect Mo-eun when she’s in danger. Mo-eun responds that he doesn’t have to protect her, she just wants to be with him. And then she says she loves him. He gets misty-eyed, as he often does with her, and they hug to seal their feelings for each other.

Meanwhile, Seo-kyung gets confirmation that Jin-woo is the mural artist she’s been looking for and we see more flashbacks of their time together as a couple. I can’t get over how adorable and in love they were, making their breakup all the more mysterious. We still only have bits and pieces to understand what really happened between them. But we know that Seo-kyung left to live abroad at some point afterward, and this week we learn that Jin-woo disappeared for seven years following the trauma of it all.

Tell Me That You Love Me: Episodes 9-10

Jin-woo tells Mo-eun that he has no work prior to 2013 because he was living in an abandoned shipping container before that. All he did was draw, sleep, and draw some more for seven years. Then one day, the container flooded and he lost all his work. But, he says, thinking that he lost everything actually made him feel at ease. “Even the paintings I made weren’t mine. I realized that there was nothing I could keep forever.” It consoled him.

Before that, he felt that his family, his hearing, and the people he loved were taken from him. He was sad for a long time. But when he accepted that they weren’t his to keep in the first place, he could get back up. I just love this conversation and his philosophy on loss. Jin-woo has gone through a lot in his life, already learned so much, and now we see him sharing those things with Mo-eun and pushing ahead into new and scary territory.

Ultimately, Jin-woo gets up the courage to have a solo exhibition because of Mo-eun’s kind words. It’s exciting, but it also means that Jin-woo and Seo-kyung are working more closely together and Mo-eun becomes a little insecure about it. I get the feeling that Mo-eun looks up to Seo-kyung in a way — since she’s powerful but good-hearted — and Mo-eun also wants Jin-woo to succeed, but she’s intimidated by the deep bond he once shared with Seo-kyung.

When Seo-kyung learns that Jin-woo disappeared for seven years after she left, we can see how bad she feels about it. The two run into each other at the art gallery after hours and Seo-kyung apologizes for leaving him alone like she did. She wishes she could say she’s sorry to the Jin-woo she knew back then, but she realizes he might not exist anymore. It’s a really painful scene and the actors’ faces say it all. But we’ll have to wait until next week to see how Jin-woo responds.

These episodes felt slower to me than the previous weeks, but the moments between Jin-woo and Mo-eun hit so well that I believe every second of their story. They seem like real people, getting to know each other naturally, in a way that makes sense. And the same goes for Jin-woo and Seo-kyung. There’s no evil here. They’re just people, using their best defenses to survive tough times. And it hurts because the pain is still so present. Even if it feels like nothing much is happening, this drama has me hooked to see what’s next.

We still have some mysteries to solve regarding the fire and the final moments between Jin-woo and Seo-kyung, but the more interesting part is how they’ll resolve their feelings. I get why Mo-eun is insecure about their relationship and seeing them work together. But we know Jin-woo has already grown so much. Seeing Seo-kyung now might be a way to get full closure on the past, so he and Mo-eun can move on with their calm, quiet, and love-filled life.

Tell Me That You Love Me: Episodes 9-10

 
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In Korean dating culture, a man’s protection is directly tied to a woman’s view of her security in love. When JW states that he has nightmares about not being able to protect her because he is deaf, she severs that traditional way of thinking about protection = love. ME continues to be the mover in the couple relationship when she said she does not need his protection when she loves him. This is a refreshing change from normal story telling.

ME’s parents are having a hard time separating the traditional way of thinking about marriage candidates for ME when they met JW. But there may be hope for change. Taeho joining JW’s deaf art class was another example of breaking the stereotype of hearing disability and normalcy. This class really shows a real life report card. the four A’s in any student needs: acknowledgement, acceptance, admiration and affection.

It was a tough scene when Ki-Hyun talks to his wife about his daughter’s health condition. Even though he is aware a deaf person can have a normal life with a loving family, KH knows about the discrimination from his friendship with JW.

SK’s relationship with Artist Kwon was another crumb of a larger backstory that leaves us to wonder: did SK have an engagement with Kwon that she broke off by leaving for America? Did SK only return to South Korea to be with her first love, JW? In the second episode, there is a feeling that KS returned to apologize for abandoning JW, to leave him alone for 7 years. There is a hint that there was a scandal (college art plagiarism?) that JW took hard; and SK left for America to become a well known art director. I still think she came back for closure and not to entangle herself in his personal life. Artist Kwon still seems to be bitter about their college days. (I looked up the term DINO in Korean dictionary to see if it had any special meaning. It is short for “dinosaur,” perhaps how JW really sees himself in the world.)

The story is slowly moving toward both ME and JW advancing their professional careers at the cost of time together with the possible pitfalls of busy schedules and new obligations that strains any relationship, public or private. But so far we see a couple really communicating and sorting through issues. It is refreshing.

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1. I'm glad her parents were so nice, and it was sweet that they tried their best to not upset Mo Eun. Such loving parents. I feel like this is the perfect family to "adopt" Jin Woo. They can give him all the love his biological parents couldn't give him.

2. Mo Eun said the "L" word. I was scared it was only bad subtitles, but no. I googled it. She did say "the person I love". I love this woman, she's gave me so much comfort this week. "You don't have to protect me".

3. My girl Seo Kyung... I don't know who that guy is, why he acts like she owes him something, but I hope that's it. I hope she solves wtv she needs to solve fast. I don't want him to do anything bad to her or Jin Woo in the future.

4. I love that we have a new student in Jin Woo's class, and I love how when he said that he wanted a quiet place, not only the other kids, but I also thought "this isn't it. They talk A LOT". Hahaha. I love the new dynamic in the classroom and what it represents.

I also liked that Jin Woo told the student about how the misunderstanding wasn't completely a misunderstanding. Jin Woo felt that something was wrong from the beginning, even if he didn't actually hear what the other kids said.

5. "It may sound rude, but I'm actually kind of jealous. Having your ears open all the time, it can be painful. I'm not grateful of every moment I hear. Not being able to hear is not so bad sometimes. Some words leave deeper scars than the ones you get from not being able to hear."

This quote broke me. I understand it too well.

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I love all those intimate moments between our couple, and I hope Mo-Euns insecurities (which I can fully understand) will be healed quickly.
What I also love very much about this drama is how it builts up expectations of the usual things going the tropey line of awry but then taking out the tension quietly, like in the situation with Mo-Eun's parents. I think we all thought for a moment that her Dad will oppose her choice actively, but then he doesn't and he was actually quite friendly and her Mom is questioning herself and not her daughter.
It's a nice reminder of what we're capable of when we know only parts of a story and make up the rest; when we finally learn the truth it can be surprisingly uneventful.
I'm not sure how the artist from the center fits into all of this. Did Seokyung have an affair with him while being in a relationship with Jin Woo? Or is it purely professional jealousy? Or something completely different (and will the air be let out of this very quietly, too and all the excitement vanish)?
I'm conflicted about Seokyung and not really sure how to feel about her. I don't get any remotely "villainy" vibes from her but until now it's hard to understand why she came back, and why she is so adamant to insert herself into Jin Woo's life when he clearly got along fine on his own (well, more or less, but bottom line is: he doesn't need *her* to change his life). And she seems to be genuinely surprised or irritated that there is another woman in his life (meaning, not her). Did she really expect after all these years that he would be there for her taking without any changes? Or am I completely misunderstanding or misinterpreting?
I love how our couple grows so much comfortable in their behaviour towards each other, and that they can tease and trust each other and hopefully tell each other everything.

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Just ❤️.

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Same 💕

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I'm really in love with how natural and realistic these plot points are too - like with the parents, it was understandable that they were a bit shocked but it was a refreshing change of pace to have them not want to push it further with Moeun and just to talk through their feelings in private.

This drama has very much become my happy place and I love the softness and calmness it brings. I think you said it in an earlier recap @dramaddictally, that this drama is very much something that makes you feel deeply more than think, and I couldn't agree more. There's so much I love about it, but I love the way it makes my head go quiet the most.

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I really love Seo-kyung!

She's such an interesting character. I like how professional she is and how she reminds her employees to be professional too.

I want her to be happy without the past haunting her.

The last scene was very powerful.

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Usually, the great drama always get less hype. And this is one of them.
To watch JWS in melodrama here is such a great pleasure for me. Their wording in silent ambient truly a golden treat. Much love for this drama, and sincerely hope for its best finale.

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Wait..so what about that whistling SK hears? It seemed scary as tho someone was following her so she escaped by going abroad?..but now it's been dropped?..

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Still really enjoying this show a lot. I've been thinking of why I like this show so much, and of course there are multiple reasons--e.g. all the acting is top notch. But another reason is that it's one of the few shows where there is no real villain. Everyone is realistically complicated; and while everyone has (had) to make tough decisions, there are no malicious actions taken or conflict-producing actions taken simply as a plot device. So even without an obvious good vs. bad tension, the show has kept my interest and made me care about the characters. It's refreshing to have a past love who is not a villain, it's refreshing to have parents who, while the struggle is real, aren't crazily opposed to their daughter dating a deaf man.

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I am enjoying the different elements of the drama watching the changes in the relationships being done in a realistic way. It reminds me of dramas like Would you like a cup of coffee? And Twelve night which may be because the original story was made so many years ago.

I love the students negotiating how to integrate the newbie ‘just smile’🤣 In the midst of the calm teacher they are so lively and bring him out of himself.

I am enjoying the way this drama flows back and forth in the story telling. Seeing the two orphans growing up together like brothers is lovely to watch and it’s great their strong bond continued into adulthood. They have kept the closeness even though one is married with a child and the other single.

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I'm very sorry to be so late. Catching up with this gorgeous drama. At first I wasn't that happy with the two actors picked for the main leads, but they have slowly grown on me. This drama has the most perfect quiet moments. One of the best OST ever (I can clearly see sll the ties to Our Beloves Summer) and surley the best written male friendship in all dramaland. This drama makes me happy! <3

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