My Lovely Boxer: Episodes 3-4
by DaebakGrits
As our boxer reenters the spotlight, she aligns herself with our sports agent, but their newly established partnership is far from copacetic. Tensions run high as blood sugar runs low, and our duo’s bickering reaches new levels when a familiar face decides to woo our boxer before her big comeback match.
EPISODES 3-4
My Lovely Boxer is not the Rocky-like sports story I was expecting. Apparently, I’ve been conditioned by popular media to believe that all sports dramas feature underdog athletes fighting to overcome obstacles and win big championships, so I initially assumed that’s where this drama was going. Maybe it will still go in that direction and Kwon-sook will embrace the sport she so loathes, but for now our heroine is far from a starry-eyed, impassioned boxer with only winning on the brain.
Instead, when Tae-young proposes that Kwon-sook throw the second boxing match of her comeback career, it’s clear she’s tempted by his plan. Oh, she still doesn’t trust him — not after he manipulated the media and backed her into a corner — but his promise that he will help her fade into obscurity has her hesitating. She tells him that she will think about his proposal. And she does — for a long time, much to the antsy Tae-young’s frustration.
But before Kwon-sook can give him an answer, she has to navigate the aftermath of the media storm Tae-young instigated while also confronting what a comeback would actually mean for her mentally and physically. She may still be in excellent physical shape thanks to her body’s internal alarm clock that wakes her up for her daily runs, but her love of doughnuts has pushed her out of her boxing weight class. The conditioning required to drop the needed kilograms will be grueling. And, well, there’s still the matter of her toxic relationship with boxing — all thanks to her father’s brutal training, which instilled an instinctive belief that, once she stepped inside the boxing ring, it was kill or be killed. (To be fair, it is a dangerous and deadly sport.)
Kwon-sook returns to the school to pack her belongings, and while she’s there she works up the courage to ask Jae-min if she will still have a place there in three months — you know, hypothetically. “Does she mean professionally or personally?” he asks, obviously aware that she’s been crushing on him. When she indicates that she’d like to know his opinion on both, he’s polite — but painfully clear — that, while he has no qualms with being her colleague, he couldn’t date her. Boxing is — shudders — so brutal. Cue: eye roll. We all know he was never interested in her and merely relished in the attention of knowing she had a crush on him, but his chosen excuse hits Kwon-sook where it hurts.
Kwon-sook is uncomfortable in her own body, struggling to feel feminine when so many perceive her strength as too masculine and unbecoming in a woman. Jae-min’s rejection highlights her insecurities and reinforces her desire to lead a life where her boxing career doesn’t influence people’s perception of her.
So when competing sports agent — and Tae-young’s former client — JUNG SOO-YEON (Ha Seung-ri) offers Kwon-sook fame, fortune (by female boxing standards), and a championship belt, Kwon-sook rejects Soo-yeon and officially signs with Tae-young. She doesn’t want to be a household name; she wants anonymity. So if working with Tae-young, the only agent not eager to advance her boxing career, and throwing a match will give her the life she desires, then so be it.
The fact that Kwon-sook’s wants align with Tae-young’s needs is largely why he chose her as the athlete at the center of his master plan, and it’s also how he’s able to rationalize the very gray area of using her to appease the dangerous match-rigging association that’s on his back. It’s this gray area that makes his character so fascinating. He’s obviously got a mercenary, self-serving streak that predates his current debt entanglement, but the very reason he got saddled with his debt is decidedly unselfish. The question of how far Tae-young will go to get what he wants — and save his neck — is, in my opinion, the largest source of tension and conflict in this drama.
Despite his questionable motives,Tae-young is likable and charming, and when he and CHOI HO-JOONG (Kim Hee-chan) take on the task of getting Kwon-sook into tip-top shape, the bickering between our sugar-craving boxer and her agent is supremely amusing. Of course, once Tae-young announces Kwon-sook’s current weight to the press (and therefore the entire world), she begins taking her dieting more seriously. Unfortunately, there’s another distraction diverting her attention from her speed rope exercises: Jae-min.
After being told by his casual lady “friend” that he’s pretty to look at but totally not marriage material (*snickers*), Jae-min seemingly becomes a humbled, changed man and starts wooing Kwon-sook — much to Tae-young’s annoyance. So while Tae-young is working hard to convince boxer JO AH-RA (Han Da-sol) to be Kwon-sook’s first opponent so that they can capitalize on Ah-ra’s extensive fan base, Kwon-sook is off gallivanting with her totally sus suitor. Jae-min’s texts and flirtations distract Kwon-sook from her training, which triggers Tae-young’s overbearing big brother behavior, which incites Kwon-sook’s rebellious side. Cue: more bickering.
Meanwhile, unbeknownst to Kwon-sook, her father — former boxer LEE CHUL-YONG (Kim Hyung-mook) — has approached Tae-young, and the two have formed an alliance of sorts. While Tae-young promises to not force Kwon-sook into an unwanted boxing career, Chul-yong advises Tae-young on Kwon-sook’s temperament, telling him what signs to look for when she’s reached her limit and is ready to quit.
Chul-yong is unexpectedly likable — especially when paired up with Tae-young — so much so that I have a hard time accepting that he’s the same abusive man we’ve seen in flashbacks. Has he seen the error of his ways and is trying to rectify his behavior? Or was his violent temperament something that only came out in the boxing ring (not that that’s an excuse)?
Either way, Chul-yong is protective of his daughter, and after he sees Jae-min cozying up to her, he’s quick to throw a punch and warn Loverboy to not mess with his daughter — when Kwon-sook isn’t around to witness the unwarranted attack, of course. Maybe the kidney punch isn’t completely unwarranted, though, because [it comes as absolutely no surprise that] Jae-min is playing a long con. He’s an aspiring — and failed — sports agent, and he obviously sees Kwon-sook as his ticket out of mediocrity.
Jokes on him, though, because Kwon-sook has no intention of extending her boxing career after her three-month contract with Tae-young ends. Unfortunately, Jae-min’s romantic attentions — fake as they are — tap into Kwon-sook’s vulnerabilities, so it’s not outside the realm of possibility that he could manipulate her. If only there were some other contender for her heart…
To be honest, I’m not fully on board with shipping Tae-young with Kwon-sook in a romantic sense because their platonic dynamic is near perfection. Kwon-sook displays a level of openness and honesty around Tae-young that she’s too afraid to show Jae-min, which certainly highlights which man makes a better romantic partner for her. But, as I mentioned above, a large part of this drama’s tension hinges on the sincerity of Tae-young’s actions towards Kwon-sook. Was Tae-young acting jealous of Jae-min when he threatened to take Kwon-sook’s phone, or was Tae-young just being protective of his get-out-of-debt-free card?
While Tae-young has been open and honest about his desperation and need for Kwon-sook to throw her second match, I don’t believe he’s currently above manipulating her if it’s in his best interests. Case in point: our closing scene. In the locker room, before her match with Ah-ra, Tae-young covers Kwon-sook’s trembling hands, and when she questions his uncharacteristic behavior he explains that he’s comforting her.
I admit, I swooned a little bit in this moment, but then the epilogue revealed that Tae-young had watched the documentary about Kwon-sook’s boxing career and seen Chul-yong cover his daughter’s shaking hands before one of her matches. So were Tae-young’s actions his sincere way of helping calm her fear, or was it calculated mimicry of her father’s pre-match ritual and a means of ensuring she didn’t chicken out before her fight?
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1 Kurama
August 31, 2023 at 5:38 AM
Poor girl, she's surrounded only by manipulators who want something from her.
I really hope Tae-young will be on her side very soon and will stop his little games.
Let her spend the rest of her life eating donuts!
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Lostpanda is celebrating My Ajusshi 💔
August 31, 2023 at 9:30 AM
Product Placement usually does not work on me 🙄 but I caught myself eating a donut yesterday and I thought: “am I eating this donut because of My Lovely Boxer?
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Kurama
August 31, 2023 at 9:54 AM
Lol, I wrote on Dramabeans' Instagram post, the drama missed its chance of doing a PPL for Dunkin' :p
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2 miso
August 31, 2023 at 6:18 AM
I really thought Jae-min had had a revelation and become better only to find out he just sees Kwon-sook as a stepping stone. Ugh. In contrast, the violent, abusive dad turned out to be far more interesting, maybe even likeable.
Really liked this week's episodes. The dynamic between Tae-young and Kwon-sook is great. But it was quite a reality check to see the epilogue and wonder exactly how manipulative Tae-young is.
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3 pohonphee
August 31, 2023 at 6:41 AM
How about it is calculating And sincere? Is calming the athlete before her game, one of an agent's job desk? He studies his work by watching the video. And I meant he even folds her underwear laundry 🙃 I like how Tae-young and her boxing coach treat her like their little sister/junior especially when they look from above her when she comes out for a date. They don't strongly against her dating, but not 100% agree either. This feels like Jerry Maguire movie.
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LaurenSophie
August 31, 2023 at 7:16 AM
This is how I see it, too. I think Tae-young clearly believes at this point that he's just focused on doing his job so she can get him out of this debt jam, but at the same time, he's slowly starting to care for her as a person and perhaps, as a woman. Again, that doesn't read to me as emotionally manipulative; I see it as "clueless guy not aware that he cares more than he thinks he does."
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OAsia
August 31, 2023 at 8:26 AM
From the first episode, I see a slow building of a bond between FL and ML, which is supposed to lead to them falling in love with each other. And it's interesting, because from his point of view, falling in love with FL would probably be the worst thing that could happen to him. Now he doesn't need love, but money to get him out of trouble. If FL suddenly decides to win the second fight, and at the same time he realizes that he has fallen in love with her and does not want her to have to sacrifice her win, then he will be in a terrible, almost impossible dilemma. Because that would be FL's fate versus his life. I don't know if the script is going in such a dramatic direction, but I think there will be a moment when ML will have to choose between himself and FL.
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4 LaurenSophie
August 31, 2023 at 6:58 AM
I like this show a lot, and don't find Tae-young to be either hard to read or emotionally manipulative to Kwon-sook. She's not under any illusion here that Tae-young is her agent only because he believes in her as an athlete and wants to see her succeed; instead, she knows that he wants her to lose because Tae-young needs money. The only thing she doesn't know is what he needs that money *for,* and as such, she assumes he's just greedy. It's interesting to me that when the truth comes out, it might make him more sympathetic and not less, which is a nice twist on the way this kind of withholding truth trope traditionally works.
It's true that Tae-young is controlling Kwon-sook's life, but that is his job and Kwon-sook is annoyed but not victimized by it. I actually really like the way the writer set this up in that both have something to gain by Kwon-sook throwing a match: he gets out of debt and saves his friend, and she gets to live the boxing-free life and eat all the donuts she wants.
To that end, I think it's clear that Tae-young is starting to genuinely care for Kwon-sook as a person and not a mark. Yes, he still needs her to perform in a certain way, and that is what leads to him getting annoyed with her being distracted during training or non-compliant because she's caught up in her relationship with the VP. (Frankly, that VP is the only one I suspect of pretending to feel one way about her when he just wants something for himself, but we'll see.) At the same time, I thought it was obvious that Tae-young is starting to find her charming as a person and, perhaps, as a woman, too. We saw that in the way he kept staring at Kwon-sook's smiling face when she was swooning over the VP's texts, and again when he overreacted to her meeting with the VP after curfew.
But what was more obvious to me is that he's intrigued with her as a person, and that's what I took away from that final scene. His smile at the end was not calculating to me, or at least, not solely calculating. He's learning about Kwon-sook and seems to sincerely like and be fascinated by what he's seeing in those videos. When he drew from that knowledge and laid his hands on her hands the show did perhaps troll us a bit into thinking his romantic feelings are farther along than they are.
But the reveal of him watching the video where her father did the same thing didn't completely undermine his genuine emotional response to her in that moment, and when she confided that she's scared of boxing. I think he's been portrayed as a decent human being who genuinely cares for his athletes and Kwon-sook is no different. The romantic element at this point is subtle, but it's there, imo. In fact, the worry I have is not that Tae-young is manipulating her, but that he might have a history of falling for the athletes in his care when they are at the height of their powers, but once they're done competing, he's no longer infatuated and moves on to the next one.
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rho
August 31, 2023 at 7:06 AM
But we do not yet have the back story of Tae- Young and Jeong Soo Yeon. We know that they were in a relationship but we do not know why they broke up. Was it because she had stopped competing or was there something else?
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LaurenSophie
August 31, 2023 at 7:13 AM
That's true. I'm not saying I definitely think this is the case; I'm saying that if I had to be worried about something, it would be his past history because that's more ambiguous than whether or not he sincerely cares about Kwon-sook as a person, imo.
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rho
August 31, 2023 at 7:29 AM
Agreed.
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5 OAsia
August 31, 2023 at 8:10 AM
I think FL's father felt that brutal behavior towards his daughter in the ring was necessary for her to win. He was ready for it for boxing, but at the same time he seems like a father who understands her behavior outside of boxing and knew how to calm her nerves. So it's a complicated, ambiguous relationship.
From the beginning of their acquaintance, ML and FL do not treat each other as people with an age difference. They learn important things about each other, they are next to each other in important moments and there will probably be even more. This naturally builds a bond between them. Even if they don't want it, they become important because they open up emotionally to each other during everyday life. Even if he thinks it's a deal and thinks he hasn't revealed the truth about himself and FL thinks she's in love with someone else and ML is just a nuisance. What is going on between them can easily cause the transition from the type of relationship they have now to a love relationship.
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6 Lostpanda is celebrating My Ajusshi 💔
August 31, 2023 at 9:25 AM
After EP1-2, I wasn’t loving this show and it was in danger of getting dropped. The toxic super manipulative ML of Tae Young felt irritating me and the 2nd ML of Jae Min felt really shallow.
After EP3-4, I’m starting to love this show. While there is no change in Tae Young’s manipulation, a softer and more authentic side is starting to show and it’s working better than the overly long flashback of his baseball days.
It’s also becoming clear that my early annoyance with Jae Min was intentional as his shell is starting to crack and his true nature is coming out. I hope he gets punched - again.
Kwon Sook is carrying the show. She’s selling the boxing aspect well despite not looking like an athlete. I love her complex character. I love how she loves donuts and candy. It’s a serious show but the donut episodes are funnier than the Butt Touch show.
I’m getting flashbacks to Twenty Five Twenty One with two specific moments.
The first is with a determined and confident Kwon Sook saying that she won’t loose- just like Na Hee-Do right before the Asian Games. Guuurll- go slay.
The second is with that old couple that always hands out candy during Kwon Sook’s morning runs. Specifically the old unnamed man. He’s the same guy who recognized and comforted Na Hee-Do at a restaurant after she wanted to go anywhere but home and was hiding from the public. He does the same thing here with well timed words of encouragement. I need someone like him in my life.
Congrats My Lovely Boxer - you finally won me over.
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LaurenSophie
August 31, 2023 at 12:40 PM
Good call on the 25/21 parallels!
Like you, I wasn't that enamored with the show after ep. 1, although once the focus shifted to Kwon-sook in ep. 2, things really improved. The FL is compelling and extremely sympathetic, and it's impossible not to root for her. I like the ML, but that extended backstory and buildup, albeit necessary to the plot and characterization, took up too much time and energy. Once they started interacting, everything clicked into place. As you said, there's a lot of humor in the writing, and it's balanced out perfectly by the building tension of Tae-young coming to care for someone who may ultimately force him to abandon his carefully orchestrated survival plan. As someone else speculated, it seems likely that at some point, Kwon-sook will decide she doesn't want to lose after all and that's going to put Tae-young through the emotional ringer.
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7 Chubbysocks
August 31, 2023 at 10:22 AM
The idol from Winner who plays Jae Min is doing pretty well I say, and damn him trying to use her for his goals, I like Tae-Yang a lot, always liked this actor
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8 skirt
August 31, 2023 at 6:09 PM
Tae-young is definitely my favoured type of male lead. He is grey, multifaceted, and manipulative but wickedly charming. Just to be clear, I only love watching these types of characters on small screens. And yes, I hope I will never meet one in my life.
With that said, I am officially jumping ship from My Lovely Liar to My Lovely Boxer. Dramas with many interesting and likeable characters are always a winner for me.
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cjoyce17
September 2, 2023 at 12:06 AM
what happened to my lovely liar? I have put it on hold because of other dramas including this one
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skirt
September 2, 2023 at 12:31 AM
Too many annoying, unlikeable, and intrusive characters. I ended up fast-forwarding so many scenes and finding myself feeling forced to finish an episode.
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Dylan [Suffering from Judge from Hell brainrot]
September 16, 2023 at 12:27 PM
This is the def better of the Lovely dramas this season lol
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9 Miss_elly
September 1, 2023 at 1:59 PM
I’m enjoying this drama and I really like our FL.. I totally can relate to her sugar habit. Who wants to give up donuts and lollipops lol. I feel like her character os one that the moment she stopped boxing, she stiffer her face with everything she couldn’t eat while training
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10 Lalla32
September 1, 2023 at 2:24 PM
Really loving this. I'm really impressed by these characters, they are interesting, original and very well written. Looking forward to see how their relationship will evolve.
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11 parkchuna 🍉
September 2, 2023 at 6:49 PM
“Apparently, I’ve been conditioned by popular media to believe that all sports dramas feature underdog athletes fighting to overcome obstacles and win big championships, so I initially assumed that’s where this drama was going”
Me too! That’s why i like this story, it keeps trumping all my expectations. Dad is surprisingly protective, the gangster guy didn’t beat TY, the other lady agent is not a con. Turns out the con is the SML and i’m so sorry for Kwon Sook.
The director describes it as a sports-romance drama not a dark noir, so i’m holding on to his words that this will have a happy ending - not necessarily for the leads to be a couple but for both of them to come out of the deal safe, happy and in a good relationship with each other.
I tried looking for the original novel but I couldn’t find it, if anyone knows where i can find the translated version please share.
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Ayalynn
September 4, 2023 at 2:18 PM
I looked into it but only the Korean one is available.
Before the show started airing, I read the detailed synapsis and reviews by people who read it (in Korean).
I was moved by them... So I decided to watch.
So far I love it! A quite unique story, I love every single character (except Jae-min).
Hope somebody the translated version will be released...
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12 Isa is always time travelling
September 27, 2023 at 6:49 PM
After reading the recaps and other beanies comments, I'm sure I'm not reading well these characters, so maybe this drama is not for me.
I thought the SML was sincerely interested in Kwon-sook (even in love with her).
I thought the father was a horrible person and I can't see him any other way, so imo the show has failed to make me understand why he was like that in the past. One scene he is brutal, the next one we see him he is a concerned father? Something is missing.
About my favorite character, the ML (Tae-young), I don't know if he will start feeling something romantic for the "lovely boxer" in the future, but that's not happened yet (Episode 4). He is more like a big brother or an uncle... And she is head over heels for the SML (this reminds me of the first episodes of Weightlifting Fairy Kim Bok Joo, btw).
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