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Our Blues: Episodes 3-4

A trip down memory lane helps mend old wounds, but deceit and misgivings threaten to ruin a lifelong friendship along the way. Though the two friends find themselves bonding over their shared history, their lives have diverged since their high school days, and now, they must choose how they will move forward in their relationship. As their story meets its end, another takes its place, and the focus shifts to a new couple with their own set of challenges.

 
EPISODES 3-4 WEECAP: HAN-SOO & EUN-HEE; YOUNG-OK & JUNG-JOON

No secret remains hidden for too long in this small village of Jeju Island, and soon enough, rumors about Han-soo and Eun-hee circulate. When her friends hear about her weekend escapade to Mokpo, they warn her that he is a married man, but Eun-hee ignores their incessant calls and enjoys her trip down memory lane with her first love.

It’s a sweet outing filled with nostalgia as the two friends open up and find companionship in their shared struggles of growing up poor. Their conversation also reveals why Han-soo is so obsessed with his daughter’s golfing career, and though his current behavior is detestable, it becomes wholly understandable. He simply wants to give his child the future he always wanted and not have to give up her dreams like he did.

However, Han-soo becomes too focused on his own trauma to actually see the people around him, so when his daughter calls him again, begging him to let her quit, he refuses to believe her. Even when his wife shows him her beaten face and explains how she was mugged on the street, Han-soo hangs up on them — choosing to run away from the truth rather than accept it.

While there are genuine moments of vulnerability and happiness between Han-soo and Eun-hee, an undercurrent of unease permeates every scene between them, and the actors capture that unspoken tension perfectly. Every move Han-soo makes feels calculated, and the flashes of guilt and shame on his face become heightened when coupled with the joy and confusion on Eun-hee’s.

To Han-soo’s credit, he struggles to bring up the request for money, and in the end, she learns about his true intentions from her friends back in Jeju. She confronts Han-soo about his lies and realizes that he never truly saw her as a friend. Han-soo listens without fighting back, but before he leaves, he tells her that he did not want to ruin the only happy memory she had.

Though his words might sound biting, Eun-hee notices the quiver in his voice and the weariness in his eyes. His apology might be far too little and too late, but Eun-hee understands his sincerity. The trip might have been an unsuccessful sham, but it opened her eyes to her own grief — it wasn’t just a lifelong friend she lost but her youth as well.

When Ho-shik and In-kwon call her again, Eun-hee berates them for being hypocrites. She lends them money all the time, so what makes Han-soo any different from them? She lists all the wrongdoings they committed against him, including her own, and she asks if they only care about her because she is rich.

As Han-soo takes the ferry alone back to Jeju Island, he talks with his wife over the phone. His family is returning to Korea, and a part of Han-soo is relieved. He wonders if their daughter will resent them for this in the future, but his wife assures him that feelings change. He asks if that means they can be happy, too, and she tells him that they will.

After quitting his job, Han-soo packs up his things to leave when he receives a message from Eun-hee. She wired over the money he needed, but Han-soo returns it. He tells her that he gained a lot from his visit to Jeju Island and found the strength to live again after meeting them. With this, Eun-hee finally says goodbye to her first love and closes the chapter of their story.

Before moving on to the next main pair, the show introduces MIN SUN-AH (Shin Mina). In the previous episode, she appeared to share a history with Dong-suk, but when he kissed her, she put up a wall between them.

In the present, she lives with her husband and young son — and on the surface, her home seems clean, but the clutter is poorly hidden. Though her husband insists that she go to counseling for her depression, Sun-ah does not seem to take his words to heart. Instead, she gets up to wash herself since her husband scolded her for not bathing, but when she finishes, her husband returns home, carrying their son.

He tells her that she forgot to pick up their son from school, and Sun-ah walks out of the bathroom in disbelief. The day is completely gone, and she stares out into the city with searching eyes. As the world around her blurs, the lights go off one by one until everything is swallowed in darkness.

The next storyline focuses on Young-ok, the relatively fresh face in town who still remains a mystery to those around her. She’s pretty and charming, which captures Jung-joon’s attention, and he follows her like a protective (albeit broody) puppy. Young-ok doesn’t seem to mind his presence, but she warns him to keep his distance because he will only get hurt if he falls in love with her.

Behind her smile, Young-ok has her own closet of secrets. She repeatedly receives texts from a volatile person who constantly needs her, and it seems to take an emotional toll on her. She takes a stroll with Jung-joon to clear her head after a particularly draining night, and while she overshares her dating history with him, she doesn’t actually say a lot about herself, as a person.

To the other haenyeos, Young-ok is a lying scoundrel, and her recent stunt — going out of bounds to catch more abalone — only solidifies her awful image. Even her friend calls her selfish, but to Young-ok, the idea of loyalty and teamwork seems delusional.

Regardless of how she feels, Young-ok needs this job, so she finds the leader, HYUN CHOON-HEE (Go Du-shim), to apologize. Unfortunately, Choon-hee refuses to keep a liar on the team and dismisses her.

Young-ok accepts the decision without a fuss and leaves to meet with Jung-joon who asked her out to talk. He invites her to his home — a converted bus — and she sees the notes he has written on the wall about her.

One of questions posed is if he could love a woman who has met a lot of men, and Young-ok asks if he has found an answer. Jung-joon tells her that he can and asks her out. His sudden confession takes her by surprise, and Young-ok reminds him that she will only hurt him. Staring into her eyes, Jung-joon replies, “Don’t hurt me, then.”

Jung-joon asks if she needs more time to think it over, and Young-ok meets his gaze, telling him that she doesn’t need it. A small smile spreads across her face, and she rises from her seat to kiss him.

The show continues forward at a fast pace as it enters a new love story. While I am interested in Young-ok and Jung-joon, I was surprised by how invested I became in Han-soo and Eun-hee by the end of Episode 3 and was a little sad to see them go. However, the shortness of their tale is also part of the charm, and sometimes the best endings are the ones that let the characters live in the uncertainty of life.

It was bittersweet, overall, though I want to believe the ending was more hopeful than not. While Eun-hee realized that it was time to say goodbye, maybe this closure will help her accept herself not as a jaded and cynical person incapable of love, but a woman who is worthy of the finer things in life. As for Han-soo, I hope he finds happiness as well, and I’m glad the show treated him and his family as people. Flawed as they were, their mistakes did not define them, and the show made it clear that everyone deserves a chance at happiness.

 
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I seldom watch a drama while it's airing and this drama is one of them. I never thought I will be that much invested in eun hee and han soo's story but their youth have added a lot of layers to their story. Eun hee hopefully realize that it is not about earning money and supporting her family. She needs to also love herself more. In episode 4, han ji min is so beautiful, she is not aging. Looking forward to her love story with joung joon. I wonder who constantly text her who is making her uncomfortable.

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The scene in the hotel room when Eun-hee confronts Han-soo was raw and powerful. But it was hard to watch. My heart broke for both of them. It’s hard to see the dreams/memories of your youth come crashing down around you. Especially when you’ve held onto those memories, as imperfect as they were, rather than face your current reality. I too hope this is a new beginning for Eun-hee and Han-soo and their respective lives.
I’m really curious to learn more about Min Sun-Ah’s story.
At this point in the drama, I do not care for Young-ok. I’m sure she’ll have some backstory of abuse that’s supposed to garner our sympathy, but I’ve never cared for people who live their lives carelessly without regard for others. And I don’t find her character charming at all. “Jung-joon, RUN! Run away from her! Get off the island and find a kind, pretty girl!!” I bet he won’t listen to me. 🤦🏻‍♀️

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imho I have faith in how the writer will at least make us care or understand Young-ok as human at least. Noh Heekyung characters have not been the most likable, but at some point they will make you cry and empathize with them. She did it beautifully for Shin Gu character in Dear My Friends and basically the male leads in Live, both initially unlikable, lol. Let's see~

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HAN SOO & EUN HEE
I really liked their story. For Eun Hee, Han Soo was a representation of youth, love, joy and freedom, that's why she wanted to protect the image she had of him. When Han Soo came back and all those wonderful memories did too. Maybe even those memories were special for her because of the person she was back then, she was proud of who she used to be and believed she deserved love. That's something that made me a little sad with the ending. I think Eun Hui deserves a happy ending where she realizes that she's a great person and deserves love.

Well, like you said, let's hope that "maybe this closure will help her accept herself not as a jaded and cynical person incapable of love, but a woman who is worthy of the finer things in life."

YOUNG OK & JUNG-JOON
Jeong Joon writing down his thoughts was cute. It would be nice to read his diary and get to know him a little bit better. I know we won't get much info about him from talking lol.

We don't know much about Yeong Ok either, but it seems like she really doesn't want to talk about her life and people keep asking those kind of questions, so I guess that's why she just answers whatever they want to hear. And those women talk crap about her all the time, so I'm kinda glad she didn't tell them anything real.
Being late wasn't cool, tho. I can't defend her for that, even I got a little scared.

SOON AH
I'm curious about Soon Ah and her story. When her husband was yelling at her I was like "dude, she's actually doing a lot, more than you can imagine, give her a break."
I wonder if they don't have enough money to hire some help while Soon Ah gets better or if they don't get the help for other reasons. Seeing her trying her best to put a smile on her face and be with her kid just to get yelled at was horrible. And seeing her trying to do the things she needs to do but struggling so hard that she use all her time only washing her hair and ended up dissapointing her husband once again, almost made me cry.

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I don't think it's a financial problem why Soon-Ah isn't seeking help. Her husband reminded her to go to the hospital, but she refused.... :'(

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I mean someone to help them with the housework. Hehe

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Did she refuse or does she just not have the energy. She really only had energy that day for seeing her kid off and for a shower. I know the feeling. Getting oneself out of bed is hard enough, let alone leaving the house and then meeting someone, and then talking about everything wrong with you, and then coming home, and then cleaning the house, and cleaning yourself, and remembering to eat, and getting food for the family... not saying she shouldn't get help but like... sometimes the hardest step is getting to the point where you can actually seek help.

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It's an accurate portrayal of some medical conditions including depression (at least for some people).

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Mmmhmm, hence my comment.

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Han-Soo & Eun-Hee :

My favourite scenes of the drama for now were their scenes as teenagers. I want a drama just of them (without the bitterness of the adulhood). As adult, I'm kinda happy they could keep this memory intact at the end.

Young-Ok & Jung-Joon :

I thought I would be excited to watch their love story and I wasn't... Young-Ok's behavior is really misleading and she knows what she's doing. Now, for the dive part, in the teaser of the episode, they showed her caught in a net, but they didn't mention it in the episode. So it wasn't very clear : either she didn't respect her team, either it was an accident, but why she didn't say anything? Or they messed up with the teaser.

Min Sun-Ah :

I want to judge her husband for being so insentive but in the same time we know nothing. I just think he shouldn't talk about this in front of his son but should try to protect him.

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I was thinking the net part is actually a teaser for the next episode and it will show up then. I also expect that the next episode won't have as much of the two teens' story as they showed in the preview. They seem to be hinting at the next love story while they're still telling another one.

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Oki. It wasn't very clear.

I wasn't sure how I had to feel about this scene and the character. If it was an accident, it wasn't her fault. But if she did without thinking to her team, it was pretty selfish.

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Maybe I'm wrong and we'll be shown later that she was, in fact, stuck. But I thought she was off trying to gather more abalone and that does make her selfish. However, I think we'll also be shown that her desire to make more money has less to do with her personal greed (which is what the other women assumed) and more to do with her taking care of the mysterious person who is always texting her.

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I have no issue with her wanted more money. But she's always late and now this? They work in team. She needs to follow their rules.

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She runs a bar, work in the market, dive. She has a lot on her plate. I think she has a family member in an assisted facility. It is definitely not cheap. The writer for sure has all the reasons to explain YO behavior.

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@live4dmoment I think they all have a lot on their plates, she's not unique for that. I agree that her life doesn't seem as easy as she wants to imply with her free spirit way.

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I was also a little shocked at how much the end of this arc got me. I was REALLY not a fan of Han Soo manipulating Eun Hee, but by the end of it I was less angry at him for sure. I definitely still feel bad for his siblings though as his sister had every right to vent. I am glad to be moving on to our next duo. Their dynamic, and at least her character seems interesting. He seems like a blank slate we haven’t really gotten any info on.

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I expected a drama lot better but now I have watched it, expectations have gone way too low....I mean really you found your first love and right after agreed to go on a trip.... come on how can you accuse him for using your feelings, you allowed him first. what have you on your mind when you agreed for trip? And then there is young ok no matter how sad you are you dont say everybody that you love him or flirt with him. And jung joon dont fall for someone who just wave at you and smile. finally not a fan of byung hun never finished any of his drama...actually not able to. And lastly trouble causing kids..wow

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I am glad they were able to have some more good memories. I like to think that he wouldn't have gone through in the end. I hope Eun Hee finds the happiness she deserves.

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I was rolling my eyes every time Han-su was on screen but I dropped tears at the end of that episode despite not liking the character. Eun-Hui should be protected at all cost, she's such a gem and I hope she finds happiness.

I just love young Han-su and I wouldn't mind a special episode with just them 😅. I'll be on the look out for that actor.

What is the deal with Young-ok? I'm sure there's a back story but I just want to tell Jeong-hun to run because he will most definitely get hurt 🥺.
I was having anxiety just watching Young-ok receiving that series of one word texts in episode 3. Ughhhh

Shin Min A's character... That felt so real. I wonder if it's postpartum depression.

Ho-shik and In-kwon are busy fighting when a teen pregnancy is heading their way🙄🙄. It's going to be such a shit show when they find out and start blaming each other's kid

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There's just something weird about those texts that Young-ok receives. She certainly seems uncomfortable receiving them and it's apparent it causes her distress. Yet, she responded and agreed to visit the text sender. I don't know if that's going to end well, but it's interesting that she's willing to do that.

Min Sun-ah's situation. You can't help but wonder what happened. She's clearly not in a good place and there's a lot to unravel there.

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I think the texts to Young-ok were from one of her parents who is in aged care or mental facility - certainly not from an ex-boyfriend (in which case she’d simply ignore based on her personality that we’ve seen so far).

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I have to admit that the idea of someone, such as a parent/sibling/friend, with a medical condition did cross my mind. Especially with the way the texts were written and being sent.

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ITA. I think we're supposed to believe, considering her reputation, that it's a boyfriend, but it'll turn out to be a family member. Although obviously different in tone, those scenes made me think of Laura Linney character's arc in "Love Actually" where her romantic life is completing compromised by her mentally ill brother who needs her constant devotion.

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That’s precisely what I thought and Love Actually was what came to mind and made me think it.

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I agree. There was something kind of childlike about the texts, and while I don't think they came from a child, someone in aged care or a mental facility would make sense.

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i have this theory too..and she might be used to be a domestic violence victim...and those texts don't really sounds like a normal person

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That is what I noticed too. The text are sometimes single letter which is very abnormal. The sender might be a family member with mental issues.

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Traditionally, Korean text was written vertically. It may foreshadow a person who is old or is a scholar.

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Still really loving this show!

fI agree that the Han-soo and Eun-hee arc was very well done, but many of those scenes were hard to watch. Eun-hee's hope and idealism in the face of Han-soo's desperate deceit made me feel for her so strongly. The scene where she calls him out was satisfying, but I was even more impressed with her turnaround the next day. Although I still don't think she should have sent Han-soo the money (and I'm glad he gave it back), her anger at the friend group for not actually having Han-soo's back was fair and something I hadn't even considered because like the rest of the friends, I was so frustrated with him. I'm glad Han-soo is back with his family; I'm not sure if that pension would really be enough to pay off his debts and fund a road trip, but I'll suspend disbelief on that one.

The brief glimpse of Min Sun-ah's life was also extremely affecting, especially to me, someone who has struggled with depression. The portrayal was very accurate, from not wanting to get out of bed, to having to go through the motions of emotional connections, to losing the whole day without realizing it. Very poignant and sad. I was glad to see the husband urge her to go to the hospital and actually get treated rather than telling her to get over it already. At the same time, he clearly doesn't really understand what she's going through or how to help her.

Young-ok and Jung-joon are intriguing together, and it strikes me that his very straightforwardness is the thing that Young-ok finds herself most drawn to about him. Doesn't hurt that he's super hot, either, I'm sure.

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I think this drama is going to break my heart to million pieces as each arc folds. Been wondering how the omnibus format would work but it’s a turbocharging run if the HS-EH arc is the template for the rest. Fast moving but succinct with tons of heart, as with all other Noh’s drama.

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I'm really enjoying this drama. Eun-hee confronting Han-su was intense, but I liked how the arc was resolved. I hope Eun-hee treats herself more and finds happiness. I'm glad Han-su reunited with his family even though his future was uncertain.

When someone tells you they will hurt you, believe them. Young-ok is a walking red flag.

I'm interested in seeing the drama tackle teen pregnancy. It's going to be a mess when the dads find out.

I thought they did a good job showing Soon-ah's struggle with depression in that brief scene. Her husband was insensitive, but at the same time, we don't know much about the situation.

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"When someone tells you they will hurt you, believe them." I love that line. Any yes, I totally agree with you, Young-ok is a walking red flag. I'm worried that Jung-Joon will get hurt because of her and her baggage. Sigh.

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Lee Jing Eun is brilliant as always but it was Cha Seung Won who stole the show for these 3 episodes. His guilt, desperateness, remorse and embarassment was just on another level. Plus this is the first time I've seen him in a completely serious role so that's a new discovery. Though, he's pretty good in the non serious roles too. That said, I loved how all of it was resolved. Eun Hee realizing that they weren't good friends to him was the icing on the cake. I'm having a feeling not every story will end this optimistically, especially the next one. People with no dating experience may want to blabber about how they are hard to please or how they'll hurt you but not someone who already has enough experience to know how they are when they date someone. Young ok is legitimately warning JJ but I guess he's too blinded by love right now to see through. Though I actually like YO.
It was really hard to see Seon Ah. I'm guessing it's either postpartum depression or she went through a miscarriage. For one second there, I could see how the husband hesistated before saying sth as if he understands what pain she's going through. But he definitely isn't conveying any of this appropriately. He's only hurting her more. And they probably need therapy together. When your partner is depressed, I guess it gets hard for you too but it felt like for the husband it's not about her well being but how she isn't playing her part in their home life. Not cleaning the house, washing clothes or cooking dinner. The husband said he and their son will go eat out and the only thing I could think was, she's hungry too. She had no idea the entire day has passed alteast comfort her a little.

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It might be harder to comfort her if this was the 100th time that she'd let the day go by. I am also interested in Seon Ah's story. I think I can understand the husband's feelings. I am getting a sense of his frustration, rather than anger. When he mentioned going to a doctor, it seemed like that wasn't the first time or even the second. I have a lot of sympathy for Seon Ah. My first guess is that she's suffering from postpartum depression and I hope she can get the help that she needs. Soon. I am also very curious about her relationship with Byung-han's character!

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Cha Seung-won indeed stole the show for the emotional complexity and layers in Han-su. It’s so hard to watch what he went through in those three episodes from the never-waving committed dad to an intending schemer. My heart went out to him and I have never entertained the idea of him as villain - but rather sitting on pins and needles wishing him wouldn’t go there. Not sure if I’d be the same for a less actor.

And this is the Cha Seung-won that I missed. His Jok-gu in City Hall is the gold shining example of what a complex romance lead could be.

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Han-Soo & Eun-Hee are my favorite character from 1-3 I was scared thinking their argument will be the end of their friendship. Seeing how they handle it shows they will meet again as happy friends

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Episode 3 ends the Hansu arc in a very bittersweet but appropriate way. Eun hee is smarter than the rest of the market crew, except when it comes to love. They were looking out for her, but in the end she scolded them about what it truly means to be real friends. She keeps the door open for Hansu to return, but that is highly doubtful. It seems Eun hee does not like to eliminate people from her life.

Episode 4 starts with a new couple, Captain Joon and flirty Young Ok. Personality opposites are drawn together. OK, but she has a back story; I wonder if it parallel’s the young teens sudden adult crisis.
Seon-Ah’s catatonic depression does not answer why she went to Jeju to see peddler Dong Seok. Was their past the cause for her current condition?

I think the main focus, one couple episode blocks will help in the story telling.

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