[2017 Year in Review] How Carpe Diem became my favorite club
by Guest Beanie
Chicago Typewriter
By @WishfulToki
This post is about how Dramabeans’ weekly What We’re Watching posts changed my drama-watching habits. If you haven’t checked it out, you should. And if you do login every week to comment, hurrah! You have kept a journal of your watching activity this year. You now have a log of your 2017 K-drama journey.
I actually did research for this. The records show that my viewing habits took a change of direction in 2017. Previously, I was a hardcore binge-watcher (and still am at heart)—I had one or two ongoing dramas, and then gleefully marathoned older dramas in the meantime. But slowly I started to watch mainly currently airing dramas. I was also ending grad school and struggling to enter the real world. Maybe I grew up. All I know is that I don’t have the energy to marathon every weekend anymore. On the upside, I have joined in discussions more.
Hwarang had me pulling my hair out every week (and wishing I could pull out some horrible wigs too), but the comments section was so much fun that I would never have dropped it in spite of swearing every week that I would. Because This Life Is Our First made me write essay-long comments. I spent hours reading and replying to comments until fatigue set in around Episode 12 and I just couldn’t handle all the scenes that screamed for analysis.
Hwarang
Looking back through my What We’re Watching entries, I realize that for most of the year, I was fighting against a disenchantment with K-drama. I started out enthusiastic about dramas and then began to find flaws until it made watching them a chore. I grumbled about Goblin and a certain Goryeo flashback scene. I wanted Ah-ro to be shot with an arrow once and for all. I wanted The Liar and His Lover to have more music-making, and I complained that Man to Man left me cold. I dropped Fight My Way because the second leads got on my nerves. I raved about School 2017 until it decided to focus on romance and forgot about the other characters and their struggles.
And somewhere in the middle I fell into the Slump. I turned to Chinese dramas in despair. Even The Best Hit, which finally dragged me out of my misery, was not perfect. Eventually, I have come to the conclusion that expecting perfection is not realistic and that I should savor the good bits a show gives me when it does, and to the fullest. Carpe diem. So thank you, Hyun-Jae and Handphone, for the hilarious fish-out-of-water antics. I won’t lose hope, and if a drama ever leaves me feeling fully satisfied, so much the better.
The Best Hit
And great dramas do come along once in a while. What We’re Watching allowed me to find dramas I had overlooked, that when given the opportunity, won my heart completely. I usually stay away from reincarnation stories, but I noticed that Chicago Typewriter received much love by Beanies whose taste I respect. I asked around. Armed with the advice that Episodes 1-8 may be confusing, I sat down determined to persevere. In the end I loved it, and oh the thrill, I got to relive my binge-watching days and laugh and cry and download the OST because it was just too amazing.
So nowadays if I want a recommendation, I ask in What We’re Watching comments if something is worth starting, and even better—I get answers! I have watched Misaeng and Answer Me 1988 purely due to the recommendation of fellow Beanies in What We’re Watching. The other side of the coin, of course, is that What We’re Watching helps me avoid lemons. This is a vital function. It was useful—and wickedly amusing on my part—to read frustrated reviews by recappers and Beanies over certain dramas (yo, Manhole!). So I simply stayed away. I felt I could do a similar service to other Beanies with my comments. Why suffer needlessly, right?
Chief Kim
Above all, What We’re Watching has allowed me to share my love for certain shows. I promoted Rebel: Thief Who Stole the People because of its incredible music and acting (Mori fan club member here). I kept trying to convince others to watch Chief Kim and join the puny ranks of Beanies in the discussion thread. I remember that we were few, maybe thirty at most. We were a small but happy group that didn’t dig too deep and mostly laughed together over the funny and the bromance.
I loved the drama, but the discussion thread made it extra special. I really felt like part of a club. And we continued to promote Chief Kim for the rest of the year. I think if we did a recount now, there are probably many more Beanies who have tried this delicious show. I hope they enjoyed it as much as Junho enjoyed his food.
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1 thisisakdrama
December 28, 2017 at 6:05 AM
this was a v nice read; thank you for your words :~) similarly the dramabeans community has influenced my drama-watching habits in mostly positive ways (the only flip side being discovering so many more good dramas to watch) so i'm v grateful for this community that has given me so many people that i can talk dramas with :D
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2 gadis
December 28, 2017 at 6:23 AM
DB community has influenced my drama choice and watching habit too. There are several dramas that I would drop in a heartbeat if not for the fun discussion in the comment section. Sometimes, I think I even enjoyed the discussion and raving more than the drama itself.
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WishfulToki
December 28, 2017 at 10:24 AM
Hehe, that was definitely the case in Hwarang for me.
What always kills me is when our discussions and theories are better than the actual drama: in the The Best Hit comments section there were several impressive scientific-sounding time-travel theories, but the drama said 'nope, we're not going there' 😂
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Jenmole🍊
December 28, 2017 at 4:18 PM
You know, I saw those comments about the time travel theories for The Best Hit. They were really good. Till this day, I can't remember if I watched the whole show. I know I watched most of it. Then the direction of the show went downhill so I think I read some recaps and I do recall watching the last episode to see what happened.
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mary
December 28, 2017 at 4:28 PM
Huh... it sounds like the comment threads for a show that starts with W and ends with disappointment.
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Jenmole🍊
December 28, 2017 at 5:08 PM
LOL....I'm laughing like a fool at work right now.
3 frabbycrabsis loves KBS Drama Specials
December 28, 2017 at 6:39 AM
What We're Watching is definitely my favourite feature on Dramabeans - I tune in every week, no matter what, and give my opinions (even when I can't think of much to say). The recappers don't really get involved, but we rule the comment section!
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WishfulToki
December 28, 2017 at 11:12 AM
Agree, we totally rule it. And our opinions, no matter how short and simple, are really valued. :)
It's even helpful for me to read someone saying 'not watching anything this week' because sometimes I think I'm the only one that's not into the currently popular shows. 🙈
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4 spicykimchi
December 28, 2017 at 6:44 AM
I AM SO WITH YOU! I scour through the discussions and "What We're Watching" threads to look for dramas that I might otherwise avoid (Chief Kim, Chicago Typewriter, Buamdong Revenge Club, etc) or to avoid dramas that I might otherwise waste time over (Manhole, Hospital Ship, etc). Here's to hoping for an awesome 2018 drama year!
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WishfulToki
December 28, 2017 at 11:05 AM
Confession: I...actually watched Hospital Ship (I may have fast-forwarded the final episodes). It wasn't being recapped, so I was able to warn other beanies away from it in What We're Watching - it was overall a pretty show but a missed opportunity.
At the moment I'm intrigued by Black Knight: db staff weren't positive about the first episodes, and there are plenty of critical comments, but some beanies are enjoying it... so... I will wait for a few more episodes and proceed at my own risk I suppose.
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5 Jenmole🍊
December 28, 2017 at 6:51 AM
What a fun read! When I first discovered DB (not sure how many years ago) it was mainly to read the recaps. I never commented or posted. I'd always read the comments and either agree or disagree with their insights. I'd always wanted to put in my two cents but never did. It had seemed everyone had better analysis of what was happening in the show, so I was hesitant. It wasn't until a few months ago, while at work, I checked the beanie wall and decided, heck why not. I made a comment here or there and now I'm addicted! I always look forward to the What We're Watching posts. It's fun to read what everyone has to say about a show.
I did watch Chief Kim and thoroughly enjoyed it. I loved the quirkiness of the show and all the characters! I do remember reading the recaps and the comments. I wished I had joined in on the fun!
Thanks again for your delightful post!
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WishfulToki
December 28, 2017 at 9:59 AM
Thank you, glad you enjoyed reading this! Hehe, I spent years reading recaps, lurking and thinking my comments weren't good enough. Then when I finally delurked I put off creating my profile for like forever... but a few months ago I thought, why not? (Actually I know why: I was tired of seeing my comments in grey) 😜 And here we are. Here's to a 2018 with lots of fun discussions!
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6 alert
December 28, 2017 at 6:54 AM
Awww @wishfultoki, I read the whole article grinning of how much it relates to me and my viewing habits. Found myself nodding unconsciously to every paragraph. And you really had me at Carpe Diem.
I look forward for What We're Watching every week as well. And yes, I've noticed how shameless you've been promoting Chief Kim LOL. Totally understand that given how much work I've put promoting Chicago Typewriter when it was airing!
And sometimes when I found Beanies who share the same tastes like mine, I would sneak around their profile pages too, just to see what other shows they liked/ watched, as it might indicate how much I would enjoy the shows.
p/s: I probably watch Chief Kim later, now I've re-found Jun Ho n JBL!
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7 azzo
December 28, 2017 at 6:58 AM
Thank you for this nice write up, @wishfultoki!
I usually start the shows I want to watch regardless of what everyone says about them but I can't say that the DB community haven't affected my drama-selecting decisions. I didn't want to start Avengers Social Club because I thought it will be a dark revenge drama and I wasn't in a mood for one, beanies reassured me that it was nothing like that, I'm glad I took their word and started it, it's such an underrated gem!
Chicago Typewriter is one of my favorite shows this year, I was watching so many dramas at the time that I couldn't start it with everyone else but I marathoned it when it reached it's 10th episode because everyone was so in love with it, I fell for it, too!
I really love our DB community and I'm thankful that it helps me pick up shows that would otherwise fall under my radar!
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WishfulToki
December 28, 2017 at 10:13 AM
Hi azzo, yes, I choose my 'main' dramas regardless of what anyone says on dramabeans, then add more based on recommendations. At the moment I am a complete rebel. Despite all the hype about other dramas, I am only watching one, and it isn't even being recapped. 😳
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azzo
December 28, 2017 at 10:31 AM
It's Just Between Lovers, isn't it?
I paused the other dramas I was watching because I can't stop thinking about this one, such a heartbreakingly beautiful show!
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WishfulToki
December 28, 2017 at 10:37 AM
Yes, it's JBL. I think though I may have to get another drama to watch 'in the meantime' because it's too hard to wait for Mondays (or Wednesday when subs are out).
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⭐ Sera The Ms Temper ⭐
December 28, 2017 at 3:38 PM
If you are looking for drama to marathon, I will recommend Girls Generation 1979 (if you haven't watched it!). This drama wasn't really in my radar but I was randomly picked it up one day and really loved it. I can't remember other drama you have watched but maybe can try Buamdong Revenge Club, Go Back Couple or Live Up To Your Name.
See I already recommended not only one but many drama LOL 😆
WishfulToki
December 28, 2017 at 4:01 PM
@seralovestteobokki thanks! I will try Girls Generation 1979. I have Go Back Couple on my list for when I'm in the mood for time travel again...
I watched Buamdong after you and others recommended it. Wonderful little show. :)
azzo
December 29, 2017 at 12:57 AM
Right, so hard!
I actually started Hwayugi and enjoyed the first two episodes but because of the post-production drama decided to pause it, too!
missjb
December 28, 2017 at 12:30 PM
I watch only to this one also haha....
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8 ⭐ Sera The Ms Temper ⭐
December 28, 2017 at 7:03 AM
All drama you mentioned are my top favourites this year! I remember there weren't that much of us in Chief Kim's thread but we continued to spread out the love in Beanies community and yeay it worked! Same goes to Rebel which was enjoyed and loved by small group of Beanies (unlike other sageuks like Seven Days Queen and The King Loves which received more love and appreciations here and among international fans), but slowly I saw some other beanies finally picked it up later and enjoyed it too.
Although I don't usually pick up / drop drama based on recommendations / opinions due to my different taste and preference, but I really love and appreciate What We're Watching thread. It's great to have a platform which we can read what other Beanies' opinions etc etc which sometimes contradict to ours.
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WishfulToki
December 28, 2017 at 10:49 AM
Hehe, I think as a more experienced drama watcher you don't need to rely on recommendations so much. In fact, you are one of the beanies whose comments help me decide to watch or drop something - remember my attempt at watching Thief Nom Thief Nim? Epic fail. 😂 I didn't know then what to expect from weekend dramas or that the PD likes makjang.
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⭐ Sera The Ms Temper ⭐
December 28, 2017 at 3:19 PM
Haha TNTM - I actually watched several epi, it had a potential to be a good drama but 50 epi is too long. If it was 24 epi, I would've finished it though. Thank God MBC finally learned big time (after suffering low ratings) to reduce the amount of the epi!
I'm glad I can be any help. I watched too much of makjang +long drama as fillers in the past that I basically can see the recycle pattern 😂
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WishfulToki
December 28, 2017 at 4:03 PM
Hehe, I am currently eyeing beanie comments on Money Flower... which doesn't seem like my usual fare but it has Jang Hyuk. ;)
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⭐ Sera The Ms Temper ⭐
December 28, 2017 at 6:57 PM
Jang hyuk is killing in his role! I'm happy to see this drama is well-received. It isn't frustrated because Jang-hyuk's character has an upper hand.😉
missjb
December 28, 2017 at 12:37 PM
Well our taste is at times different. There is alotvof drama some prople hate the qualityvis notvthatcgood but i love it anyway. @wishfultoki is right. If you know pdnim and writernim style, you will know exactly what you will watch and what to expect based on their prev project we loved. But a reccomendation here and there is important to get a good newcomer production team we unknown about. As i found good new writer and director this year thanks to reccomendation!
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⭐ Sera The Ms Temper ⭐
December 28, 2017 at 3:26 PM
Yes, we have our own standard in picking drama to watch which might differ from everyone else. Some people might be pickier, some might not. The platform here to see recommendations and opinions are helpful, especially to know what to expect from the PD + writer + actors.
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9 Cocoa, The Fake Poet of February
December 28, 2017 at 7:33 AM
My drama watching habits changed this year too, but for me it was the fan wall that changed things ~ seeing people rave had me try out School 2017 and Because it’s our first life, and it gave me a place to express my fangirling in a way I had never been able to before.
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10 Ally
December 28, 2017 at 7:35 AM
I think you recommended CHIEF KIM to me as well! I’m still watching this as my “running drama,” but I’m not running much these days, so have it on the back burner. I may just have to marathon it one weekend—I’m too old to be doing this as well! Thank you for the lovely write up!
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WishfulToki
December 28, 2017 at 10:30 AM
I think so! And I may be wrong, but I think it was you who recommended The King Loves to me? I remember asking in What We're Watching if it wasn't mainly about a love triangle, and I got lengthy (and somehow spoiler-free) reviews saying it was more about friendship. That persuaded me to watch it and catch up just in time for the final episodes. I loved that drama too. 😊
And I still have RDTK on my list!
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Ally
December 28, 2017 at 5:57 PM
Great! So good to have similar tastes, @wishfultoki!
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11 Safeenah
December 28, 2017 at 7:40 AM
I remembered watching chief kim. it was such a good and fun ride for me as it was the first drama i picked up after i travelled for a while. I am glad people enjoyed it...
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12 🍙 kimbap noona
December 28, 2017 at 7:42 AM
Suffering needlessly is unnecessary, but suffering needlessly together is also its own type of fun especially with fellow Beanies!
Thank you Dramabeans community and thank you for the wonderful article, Wishfultoki! All of you make the live-watching experience so much fun week after week.
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WishfulToki
December 28, 2017 at 5:34 PM
I am ROFL at your current username Kimbap. Too much Christmas kdrama cake? 😂
Thanks for your witty and insightful thoughts this year. I can always expect a laugh from your comments.
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13 mano
December 28, 2017 at 7:44 AM
I started Just Between Lovers (the only drama that I watch this season) thanks to open post and what we're watching, otherwise I would be in drama slump. Just few weeks ago I couldn't imagine myself watching melodrama but I give it a try because I always trust beanies recommendation. In fact, it is the main reason why I keep coming to this site.
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14 neener ~ Inside the Magic Shop ~
December 28, 2017 at 7:56 AM
Totally agree on respecting beanies recommendation! If I'm lost, I just ask away. Beanies always ask you first what are your taste or what are you in the mood for before recommending something and that's wonderful ;)
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15 Miss Cheeky Chekhovian
December 28, 2017 at 8:56 AM
*squeals* I'm currently watching Chicago Typewriter thanks to recommendations from fellow beanies. I also discovered the gem that Outlander is from What We're Watching posts..
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16 WishfulToki
December 28, 2017 at 9:15 AM
Oh my goodness, I didn’t think this would get published, what an honour! And thank you to the editors for adding not one but FOUR photos of Seo Yul eating. 😍🍕. Thanks everyone for making my first year in this community (after de-lurking) so special.
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17 RaOnAh loves Jay B 💚
December 28, 2017 at 9:52 AM
After seeing how much love Chief Kim is getting, I've decided to add it to my list 🙂
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WishfulToki
December 28, 2017 at 10:15 AM
Yay, I hope you enjoy it! I'm going to re-watch it over the New Year. 😸
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Sunflowerdiva
December 28, 2017 at 10:27 AM
It's a great underdog story with sympathetic main characters and quirky humor. Definitely stick around for any scenes with Junho and Dong Ha, they were standouts and often stole their scenes!
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mintful
December 30, 2017 at 10:15 AM
I hope you'll enjoy it as much as we do! (and as much as seo yul enjoys all his meals!)
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18 beesgiggle
December 28, 2017 at 10:15 AM
Ever since I’ve started lurking around DB a few years ago, it changed my view on dramas too. Dramas don’t feel as fun if I didn’t read a recap or the comments, if I didn’t analyse and discuss it with other beanies. Because it’s great to share something with others, whether it’s the fangirling or the criticsm.
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19 Sunflowerdiva
December 28, 2017 at 10:24 AM
Great recap, thanks WishfulToki! I, too, love the Watch We're Watching column. It has really helped me choose which dramas to start if I'm looking for something new or am on the fence about a bunch of different shows. This year I watched Circle because of how much people raved about it. I also was one of the handful of people who watched Chief Kim and posted a comment here or there in the recaps. Chicago Typewriter was perhaps my favorite drama of the year, super underrated, and with an OST I still listen to! The Beanie community is really amazing and it's heartening to see how much influence our voices do have here. :D
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WishfulToki
December 28, 2017 at 5:29 PM
*waves at a fellow Chief Kim commenter* :D
I LOVE the Chicago Typewriter OST, so I was quite pleased to find out that the music director of CT is now in charge of Just Between Lovers. I learned that on What We're Watching by the way.
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rambutan
December 29, 2017 at 5:28 PM
Omo, so that's what it is. Just listening to the song being played ached my heart and squeezed my tearbud. No one is crying or sobbing in the drama; it's just Junho standing on a rooftop against a dark skyline, achingly melancholy and breathtakinly beautiful.
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20 Cloggie
December 28, 2017 at 11:13 AM
This! I couldn't agree more - that's been my year as well. Are you me?
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21 ar_arguably romantic
December 28, 2017 at 8:00 PM
The image of Seo Hwi Young drew me to this post! And then you went ahead and gave a shoutout to Chief Kim - one of my favorites of 2017.
I agree with you about how expecting perfection in not realistic. I was a little upset at some of the wasted potential in Fight My Way, but months later, all I can think of is how grateful I am for its awesome aegyo scenes, like this one: https://youtu.be/WyVqtSXMqqw?t=40s
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22 javinne
December 29, 2017 at 1:30 AM
Me! Me! I watched chief kim basically because of your recommendations. And same with avengers social club, which I recently watched over three days of half binging. On the other hand I was also one that once in a while recommended Chicago. Same reason. I agree with you so much.
Thank you for your post!
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rambutan
December 29, 2017 at 5:34 PM
Same here. I would not have watched Chief Kim and Avengers Social Club if not for beanies' recommendations. I only recently discovered that What We are Watching is a better place to pick up dramas than Friday's Open Thread.
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WishfulToki
December 29, 2017 at 8:58 PM
Aha, @javinne this is the post I meant to reply to and ended up inducting you into a Junho hotness conversation on the fanwall instead. Sorryy 😂
I'm glad we have similar tastes in shows. I am grateful I paid attention to beanie comments on Chicago Typewriter - I would have missed one of the best dramas this year!
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23 mintful
December 30, 2017 at 10:14 AM
beautiful writing ❤️❤️
I can't help but feel super happy when you mentioned chief Kim! I lurk around the comment section a lot even when the drama ends (I was late D:) because I just felt happy with people who enjoy that fun ride of a show! I got a lot of new friends because of chief Kim as well 💕 it's super special to me! (and as you can see I'm still not over it. And yes like you I still promote it to everyone xD)
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24 pickledplumtree
December 30, 2017 at 8:32 PM
I enjoyed your piece! I didn't think I had a pattern for 2017 but your article made me realize that my viewing was also heavily influenced by Dramabeans suggestions, more than ever before. Nice!
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25 Mina
January 1, 2018 at 1:30 AM
Thanks for the nice write up @wishfultoki!😊 I am so happy to see Chief Kim mentionned here too. I was one of those who dearly enjoyed the drama when it was airing but didn't really comment on the thread. At that time, I was so grateful to you and other beanies for your comments and attempts to spread the community. As I got the time to properly do it today, I want to sincerely thank you for that! Kamsamidaa!
You know, I was a little bit sad to see that Chief Kim wasn't going to win much awards this year and get the recognition it deserves (to my opinion) but your and other beanies posts make me feel happy.
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26 Clyo
January 7, 2018 at 12:06 AM
Ok, I like to read other's opinion on dramas and mostly I feel the same, but there are cases in which my tastes are sooo different from the rest of the people that I seriously would have lost a lot if I blindly followed people comments. So I guess it's nice to read reviews and all but untill you watch it with your own eyes and brains it's meaningless. And sometimes, sadly, I feel the comments of a few people in this blog influences too much the opinion of those who read it. It's just sad. Some of the dramas that really touched my heart over the time for different reasons are far from the usually acclaimed ones so yeah...
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