I’m confused. I don’t know whether I like this guy or not! He keeps popping into my mind it’s so annoying! Maybe it’ll be fine after some time? It has only been a month since I’ve started knowing him.
Comfort me beanies! Today I pressed the panic button at work without knowing and sirens were going off in the whole building. Embarrassed to the point I where I want to quit!
aw I got embarrassing moment too at work few months ago. It took time, but eventually I could survive without overthink my co-workers’ side eyes hahaha.
you too can pass that!
I was so stupid! I made the same mistake again. I’m really pathetic. I’m posting this because I have no one to talk, because this is where I have friends. Because people DO want to talk with me here.
Thanks for the hug, but I seriously shouldn’t be trying this. Your reply to my post made me realize that I’ve been trying… Now I feel sorry for myself. It’s okay. I will learn a lesson from this anyway. Yeah, it’s okay…
I have this conversation with myself way to often. When I try things and they don’t work (especially recently when nothing seems to be working out). So while I think you’re being to hard on yourself I won’t say it because I certainly wouldn’t listen to it. I will say you vent your own heart out here! Beanieland is such a welcoming community. I get what its like to not feel like people want to talk to you irl maybe thats the case maybe it isnt (for me its embarrassing to talk to irl people about how often and how hard I’m failing at everything) but I’ll leave you with a song. I love this song and I’ve been listening to it a LOT recently. Maybe it’ll help you too. https://youtu.be/BKbNsxhrG7c
I’m glad you liked it. This song is currently my life theme song. Every time I think about having to go home with my tail between my legs after only making it three months (barely) or sobbing because I didn’t get another job I really wanted/needed this is what I listen to.
Thanks for all the comforting words. But this guy said that he doesn’t really want to talk with me…. Aish! I could die from the embarrassment!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Pss.. He doesn’t deserve your attention if he is being that inconsiderate with your feelings. Don´t waste your time and energy with people that hurt you.
Sigh… I’m embarrassed and hurt! I mean, well I can’t blame him. Even when I was in school it was the same. No one really wanted to talk to me so I’m ALMOST used to it but not completely.
Hang in there. I know how you feel. I’ve always been the most talkative and opinionated of my few friends and I feel like half the time they just want me to shut up, but like what Se-hee says, you really only need one good friend, and I found a friend who let’s me go on and on and on. Even if you haven’t found one now, you will eventually. Never be afraid to put yourself out there. It’s their loss not yours if they push you away.
First time sneaking dramabeans from work. Uh oh! Manager is coming this way… Phew.. He went the other way! And it’s only been 2 weeks since I started working. I’m following the path of other beanies
Haha.. LOL and thanks. Great to hear that many people does this because I felt like I did a crime when I sneakily closed the dramabeans tab when the manager came inside.
I was finally getting trained in the childrens department at the library a few days ago and my trainer forgot she was supposed to be training me for like 2 hours. I was SO TEMPTED to come to DB or at least my old friend pinterest (I have whiled away SO many hours on pinterest while at work–all under the umbrella of program planning. What is all of these searches for kdramas? A kdrama program…of course….) but I resisted. I had only been there 5 days. It seemed too soon.
I would say look and see what the other employees do. At the library there are at times hours of downtime when you’re stuck at the desk by yourself, no patrons and nothing in particular to do. Back before I had programming and stuff to do I would email fanfiction to myself and read that at the desk. And then I noticed that EVERYONE had at least one website that they hung out at when they were bored (facebook being the most popular followed by instagram) and I figured as long as I got my work done, my customer service remained excellent and I kept an eye on the building it was fine to go to DB or Pinterest or read fanfiction in my email. If you were tempted you were probably experiencing downtime/maybe a bit bored at work. Don’t beat yourself up over it! Keep doing an awesome job! And not to be all–everyone else is doing it! about it, but if your coworkers pop into various websites every now and again you’d probably be fine.
But then again. I work in the library. Its not life and death in there. It could be more problematic at your job!
WOW! Did you do counselling before your library job? You’re really great when it comes to advices. I’m glad that you’re here to show me the right thing to do. It’s even more amazing how you’re able to consider all angles of the situation. Like you said, I sneaked dramabeans because I was done with my job and everyone else did have facebook on their laptops..
8th episode of Go back spouses was really good. I never had a hard time swallowing my urge to cry like this before! And I feel bad for Choi Ban Do because he really tried his best to feed his family.
I cried so much this eps. Watching our resident couple missed their son and mom/mother-in-law was so hard. But I’m also glad that it made them appreciate all the good things in their married life again.
I loved this episode so much and loved that we got to see it from Ban-do’s perspective this time, it hurt so bad seeing them missing Seo-jinie but at least now they both know that both of them were having it hard and it wasn’t just for one of them!
And Sohn Ho-joon has such a good narrating voice 😍
I’m mostly glad that Jin Joo of all people got to know how hard it was for him. She probably would be able to understand him more now. Or both of them would be able to understand each other more. What they lacked wasn’t happiness or love, it was understanding.
Exactly! I wanted the show to show us Ban-do’s struggles because everyone seemed like they were rooting for the second lead, these two episodes were everything I wanted!
Loooved this episode. It was chockful with great stuff. I wonder what happens now that happens to be somewhere between 1999 and 2017. Does this mean Jin Joo stays in the past with the previous Bang Do?
Even I’m very curious about it. Maybe too curious because I was thinking about this when I was going in the bus and came to the conclusion that Ma Jin Joo must be just acting out that she can’t remember anything because it would be awkward for them since they got divorced. My point is, if she pretend that she can’t remember anything, she can be together with choi ban do. Not that great my thinking… I know. But I was stuck in traffic at that time.
Hi beanies!!!!!!!!!!! I got a job so I couldn’t visit for like two weeks.. I’m happy to be back! My first job is so far good. ( And so is the boos. *wink wink*)
Thank you!! But when I come home I feel like I’m dead. I don’t have enough energy to even eat.. I wonder if I have to live my life this way for the rest of my life…. This is my first job so I didn’t know how hard it was.. So I keep saying to myself that everyone lives like this…
Congratulations! The transition period from doing projects to doing actual work is sometime difficult but if you think that they are just projects or chores where you get pay in return, it actually helps hahaha
Good luck!! The pay matters but make sure at the end of the day you are treated fair and you matter. A healthy and stable work environment will also get you through the day.
I’ve been a bit busy so I’m pleased I saw that you’d started your job. It’s always quite tiring -mentally and physically – at first so look after yourself!
An xiao qiao, I think I’m starting to like you more and more. You go girl! You shouldn’t be clinging onto a guy who doesn’t give you a second glance. #attention love
I started to like her when she stood up for their bullied classmate. I’m glad she’s actually doing something other than being annoying and endangering lives with her driving, though she’s still not the sharpest tool in the shed.
Aww…. So cute! Why do the writers always give us a hard time by giving us way too good second leads???? My heart is sinking because I know how this will end…
Jung Hae In…. My naughty mind hit the pause button as soon as this came up on my screen. And Jae Chanssi, you don’t do that when a girl comes inside! Hopefully the poor girl got at least a glimpse.
Too many biases...
December 3, 2017 at 8:09 AM
I’m confused. I don’t know whether I like this guy or not! He keeps popping into my mind it’s so annoying! Maybe it’ll be fine after some time? It has only been a month since I’ve started knowing him.
toomuchdrama
January 11, 2018 at 4:41 AM
hey, there. how are you?
Too many biases...
November 29, 2017 at 7:15 AM
Comfort me beanies! Today I pressed the panic button at work without knowing and sirens were going off in the whole building. Embarrassed to the point I where I want to quit!
hibeautiful
November 29, 2017 at 7:28 PM
aw I got embarrassing moment too at work few months ago. It took time, but eventually I could survive without overthink my co-workers’ side eyes hahaha.
you too can pass that!
Too many biases...
November 30, 2017 at 7:26 PM
Hopefully…. Now they call me panicy because I pressed the panic button…
Too many biases...
November 14, 2017 at 6:53 AM
OH MY GAWD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I’ve become a eunuch in drag!!!! The best gift I can ever get after a hard day at work!
ObsessedMuch
November 14, 2017 at 10:01 AM
Haha.. congrats! 😀
wakimary
November 14, 2017 at 1:15 PM
🎉🎊congrats!🎊🎉
korfan
November 15, 2017 at 5:55 AM
Yay! Congratulations!
Too many biases...
November 10, 2017 at 7:45 AM
I was so stupid! I made the same mistake again. I’m really pathetic. I’m posting this because I have no one to talk, because this is where I have friends. Because people DO want to talk with me here.
sriracha
November 10, 2017 at 7:51 AM
Don’t be too hard on yourself beanie. As the saying goes, “Mistakes are proof that you are trying.”
Hugs to you though ❤️
Too many biases...
November 10, 2017 at 7:57 AM
Thanks for the hug, but I seriously shouldn’t be trying this. Your reply to my post made me realize that I’ve been trying… Now I feel sorry for myself. It’s okay. I will learn a lesson from this anyway. Yeah, it’s okay…
Too many biases...
November 10, 2017 at 8:10 AM
And I’m really really embarrassed. I can’t believe it! After everything I went through… I still expect it?? Wow! I must be crazy really!
isa: I'm not a serial killer I'm just really passionate about things
November 10, 2017 at 12:24 PM
I have this conversation with myself way to often. When I try things and they don’t work (especially recently when nothing seems to be working out). So while I think you’re being to hard on yourself I won’t say it because I certainly wouldn’t listen to it. I will say you vent your own heart out here! Beanieland is such a welcoming community. I get what its like to not feel like people want to talk to you irl maybe thats the case maybe it isnt (for me its embarrassing to talk to irl people about how often and how hard I’m failing at everything) but I’ll leave you with a song. I love this song and I’ve been listening to it a LOT recently. Maybe it’ll help you too.
https://youtu.be/BKbNsxhrG7c
Too many biases...
November 10, 2017 at 7:42 PM
Oh thank you!!! The song is everything I wanted to hear… I’m so grateful!! Thank you!
isa: I'm not a serial killer I'm just really passionate about things
November 10, 2017 at 7:54 PM
I’m glad you liked it. This song is currently my life theme song. Every time I think about having to go home with my tail between my legs after only making it three months (barely) or sobbing because I didn’t get another job I really wanted/needed this is what I listen to.
Letitbe
November 10, 2017 at 8:20 AM
Everybody makes mistakes. Mistakes help you to learn how to do better next time. So you shouldn’t feel so defeated. Stay strong! 💖
Too many biases...
November 10, 2017 at 8:39 AM
Thanks for all the comforting words. But this guy said that he doesn’t really want to talk with me…. Aish! I could die from the embarrassment!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Letitbe
November 10, 2017 at 8:48 AM
Pss.. He doesn’t deserve your attention if he is being that inconsiderate with your feelings. Don´t waste your time and energy with people that hurt you.
Too many biases...
November 10, 2017 at 9:01 AM
Sigh… I’m embarrassed and hurt! I mean, well I can’t blame him. Even when I was in school it was the same. No one really wanted to talk to me so I’m ALMOST used to it but not completely.
Jig
November 10, 2017 at 11:18 AM
Hang in there. I know how you feel. I’ve always been the most talkative and opinionated of my few friends and I feel like half the time they just want me to shut up, but like what Se-hee says, you really only need one good friend, and I found a friend who let’s me go on and on and on. Even if you haven’t found one now, you will eventually. Never be afraid to put yourself out there. It’s their loss not yours if they push you away.
Too many biases...
November 10, 2017 at 2:29 AM
First time sneaking dramabeans from work. Uh oh! Manager is coming this way… Phew.. He went the other way! And it’s only been 2 weeks since I started working. I’m following the path of other beanies
azzo
November 10, 2017 at 3:32 AM
Congratulations on your first DB-sneaking from work 🎉🎊
I do it almost everyday 😂
Too many biases...
November 10, 2017 at 6:38 AM
Haha.. LOL and thanks. Great to hear that many people does this because I felt like I did a crime when I sneakily closed the dramabeans tab when the manager came inside.
wakimary
November 10, 2017 at 3:43 AM
it’s so hard not to sneak a peek even while at work.Congrats and good luck in the future sneak peeks 😜
Too many biases...
November 10, 2017 at 6:39 AM
Thank you! It’s so funny how I’m congratulated on a matter like this, but it feels really good!
wakimary
November 10, 2017 at 10:38 AM
Just think you’ve passed a major Beanie milestone 😉
하데스
November 10, 2017 at 5:12 AM
I come on DB whenever I can while at work. I’ve given up on watching dramas though because I get interrupted way too much.
redfox
November 10, 2017 at 8:23 AM
I pretend it’s a matter of life and death to get my daily 20 minutes on the computer (not an office job)
isa: I'm not a serial killer I'm just really passionate about things
November 10, 2017 at 12:31 PM
I was finally getting trained in the childrens department at the library a few days ago and my trainer forgot she was supposed to be training me for like 2 hours. I was SO TEMPTED to come to DB or at least my old friend pinterest (I have whiled away SO many hours on pinterest while at work–all under the umbrella of program planning. What is all of these searches for kdramas? A kdrama program…of course….) but I resisted. I had only been there 5 days. It seemed too soon.
Too many biases...
November 10, 2017 at 7:36 PM
And I’ve been there only for two weeks. I think I should stop doing that. My manager is so kind and caring so I can’t bear to see him disappointed.
isa: I'm not a serial killer I'm just really passionate about things
November 10, 2017 at 7:47 PM
I would say look and see what the other employees do. At the library there are at times hours of downtime when you’re stuck at the desk by yourself, no patrons and nothing in particular to do. Back before I had programming and stuff to do I would email fanfiction to myself and read that at the desk. And then I noticed that EVERYONE had at least one website that they hung out at when they were bored (facebook being the most popular followed by instagram) and I figured as long as I got my work done, my customer service remained excellent and I kept an eye on the building it was fine to go to DB or Pinterest or read fanfiction in my email. If you were tempted you were probably experiencing downtime/maybe a bit bored at work. Don’t beat yourself up over it! Keep doing an awesome job! And not to be all–everyone else is doing it! about it, but if your coworkers pop into various websites every now and again you’d probably be fine.
But then again. I work in the library. Its not life and death in there. It could be more problematic at your job!
Too many biases...
November 10, 2017 at 9:15 PM
WOW! Did you do counselling before your library job? You’re really great when it comes to advices. I’m glad that you’re here to show me the right thing to do. It’s even more amazing how you’re able to consider all angles of the situation. Like you said, I sneaked dramabeans because I was done with my job and everyone else did have facebook on their laptops..
Too many biases...
November 4, 2017 at 9:39 PM
8th episode of Go back spouses was really good. I never had a hard time swallowing my urge to cry like this before! And I feel bad for Choi Ban Do because he really tried his best to feed his family.
gadis
November 5, 2017 at 1:02 AM
I cried so much this eps. Watching our resident couple missed their son and mom/mother-in-law was so hard. But I’m also glad that it made them appreciate all the good things in their married life again.
azzo
November 5, 2017 at 5:24 AM
I loved this episode so much and loved that we got to see it from Ban-do’s perspective this time, it hurt so bad seeing them missing Seo-jinie but at least now they both know that both of them were having it hard and it wasn’t just for one of them!
And Sohn Ho-joon has such a good narrating voice 😍
Too many biases...
November 6, 2017 at 7:00 AM
I’m mostly glad that Jin Joo of all people got to know how hard it was for him. She probably would be able to understand him more now. Or both of them would be able to understand each other more. What they lacked wasn’t happiness or love, it was understanding.
azzo
November 6, 2017 at 9:01 AM
Exactly! I wanted the show to show us Ban-do’s struggles because everyone seemed like they were rooting for the second lead, these two episodes were everything I wanted!
Samurai
November 5, 2017 at 5:29 AM
Loooved this episode. It was chockful with great stuff. I wonder what happens now that happens to be somewhere between 1999 and 2017. Does this mean Jin Joo stays in the past with the previous Bang Do?
Too many biases...
November 6, 2017 at 7:05 AM
Even I’m very curious about it. Maybe too curious because I was thinking about this when I was going in the bus and came to the conclusion that Ma Jin Joo must be just acting out that she can’t remember anything because it would be awkward for them since they got divorced. My point is, if she pretend that she can’t remember anything, she can be together with choi ban do. Not that great my thinking… I know. But I was stuck in traffic at that time.
Too many biases...
November 2, 2017 at 10:59 PM
Hi beanies!!!!!!!!!!! I got a job so I couldn’t visit for like two weeks.. I’m happy to be back! My first job is so far good. ( And so is the boos. *wink wink*)
korfan
November 2, 2017 at 11:06 PM
Welcome back and congrats on your new job!
Too many biases...
November 2, 2017 at 11:10 PM
Thank you!! But when I come home I feel like I’m dead. I don’t have enough energy to even eat.. I wonder if I have to live my life this way for the rest of my life…. This is my first job so I didn’t know how hard it was.. So I keep saying to myself that everyone lives like this…
Katrina
November 2, 2017 at 11:37 PM
It will take a period of adjustment. I really hope that it gets better for you.
Too many biases...
November 3, 2017 at 3:07 AM
Thank you! I’m glad that today is a holiday. I missed dramabeans so much!
Katrina
November 3, 2017 at 3:32 AM
Well enjoy your day off, it sounds like you need a break😁
Katrina
November 2, 2017 at 11:36 PM
Congratulations on your job I was just wondering why I hadn’t seen your name lately
💜🍍☠ Sicarius The Queen of Melonia ☠🍍💜
November 3, 2017 at 12:03 AM
Wooot! Congrats friend!
Too many biases...
November 3, 2017 at 3:10 AM
Thank you! And it’s good to see you again. I wondered how you and the others might be doing almost every second!
💜🍍☠ Sicarius The Queen of Melonia ☠🍍💜
November 3, 2017 at 1:13 PM
Aww :D~ I’ve been well I think. Tired, but well 🙂
And yeah, one’s first job is always the hardest! Himnae! It will get easier, I promise! 🙂
Too many biases...
November 4, 2017 at 8:39 PM
Oh thank you! Yeah, like you said it will probably get more easier when I get used to work.
elric
November 3, 2017 at 12:46 AM
Congratulations! The transition period from doing projects to doing actual work is sometime difficult but if you think that they are just projects or chores where you get pay in return, it actually helps hahaha
Too many biases...
November 3, 2017 at 3:09 AM
Yeah. Actually the payment is what keeps me going. Thank you for your comforting words!
elric
November 3, 2017 at 3:49 AM
Good luck!! The pay matters but make sure at the end of the day you are treated fair and you matter. A healthy and stable work environment will also get you through the day.
Too many biases...
November 4, 2017 at 8:37 PM
Sigh… Thanks. For now, the work environment is okay. Now I get why there were so many gigs about the weekend.
vannerie
November 5, 2017 at 6:56 AM
Congratulations!
Too many biases...
November 6, 2017 at 7:07 AM
Oh thank you! Small yet sweet gestures like this gives me courage to keep living.
vannerie
November 6, 2017 at 1:19 PM
I’ve been a bit busy so I’m pleased I saw that you’d started your job. It’s always quite tiring -mentally and physically – at first so look after yourself!
Too many biases...
October 22, 2017 at 11:36 PM
An xiao qiao, I think I’m starting to like you more and more. You go girl! You shouldn’t be clinging onto a guy who doesn’t give you a second glance. #attention love
SnarkyJellyfish
October 23, 2017 at 6:08 AM
I started to like her when she stood up for their bullied classmate. I’m glad she’s actually doing something other than being annoying and endangering lives with her driving, though she’s still not the sharpest tool in the shed.
Too many biases...
October 22, 2017 at 6:08 PM
This.was. HILARIOUS!
Too many biases...
October 22, 2017 at 6:08 PM
I’m dropping this beanies. I thought beak joon was somewhat smart, but turns out she just likes to take her stress out on other people…
Too many biases...
October 20, 2017 at 9:58 PM
Too many biases...
October 20, 2017 at 9:56 PM
Aww…. So cute! Why do the writers always give us a hard time by giving us way too good second leads???? My heart is sinking because I know how this will end…
hannaehh
October 20, 2017 at 10:49 PM
I also ship them! Ottokeeee
Too many biases...
October 20, 2017 at 9:36 PM
LOL! I love this reversal. And I love how she teaches men that women aren’t as weak as they think.
Too many biases...
October 20, 2017 at 9:26 PM
Oh yeah!!!!!!!!!! 1000 likes!!!!!!!!!!
Too many biases...
October 19, 2017 at 5:45 AM
Jung Hae In…. My naughty mind hit the pause button as soon as this came up on my screen. And Jae Chanssi, you don’t do that when a girl comes inside! Hopefully the poor girl got at least a glimpse.
Jenmole🍊
October 19, 2017 at 9:45 AM
This was too funny. I really LOL…while getting ready for work…I’m glad the viewers got to see!
Too many biases...
October 19, 2017 at 5:43 PM
Of course the viewers MUST see this! We deserve that much, don’t we?
Too many biases...
October 19, 2017 at 5:23 AM
LOL! I though it’s the psycho chicken ahjussi… It’s robin!!
Too many biases...
October 19, 2017 at 5:23 AM
he’s done a lot of work for one day!
Too many biases...
October 19, 2017 at 6:00 AM
Oh it’s woo bin. Sawry guys!
faith
October 19, 2017 at 7:02 AM
😛 robin face
Too many biases...
October 19, 2017 at 7:41 AM
LOL!
Too many biases...
October 19, 2017 at 5:21 AM
Can I ship them? Please? Please???
Too many biases...
October 17, 2017 at 7:51 PM
Awww and LOL! It has been her birthday…… #witch’s court
Too many biases...
October 17, 2017 at 7:50 PM
Are you good or bad? It’s kinda hard to decide. At any rate, you better stab that rapist behind his back at the right time. I’m watching you!
Too many biases...
October 17, 2017 at 7:48 PM
I think he’s falling for her…. hehehe..