Beanie level: Errand boy

Last Girls Night: all of us from different places, all of us living different lives. Single, partnered, married, divorced, kids, no kids. But group meeting month after month thanks to our love of the library.
We tell each other things, things that we struggle to tell even our own selves all alone. And in this circle, with lots of cheese and ways to make merry, there is love, acceptance, laughter, and affirmation. You, too? we say to each other. And each smile and each nod fells the stones we’ve been carrying in our hearts
Afterwards, I find that I’m just a little bit better at loving myself, thanks to the mirror of these women. “If we knew each other’s secrets, what comforts we would find.”
Love,
February

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My nephew is 5, and we’re wedged in the back of my parents’ SUV with the whole fam as it inches forward slowly, everyone’s eyes riveted to the zoo’s holiday light shows. A polar bear, a coiled snake, a leaping dolphin and (his favorite) a trundling aardvark, all giant and lit up, blazing. His joy is palpable, more dazzling than the spectacle before us.

Swept up in the magic, he suddenly seizes my face in his small, sweet hands and kisses my cheek.

And in that moment, every single light from every single display combined from across the entire zoo would still be but dim flicker next to the supernova that is my heart.

Love,
February

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    Awww that’s so sweet 🥰
    Thanks for sharing such a beautiful and heartwarming story!

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    Awww LOVE!! ❤️❤️
    I miss baby kids, theyre not so much fun as teens 😂

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      He’s 7 now…when I was back home visiting, he came to hug me first every time we saw each other. I know the day is coming when he’ll be too cool for his aunt, so I cherish every snuggle and every “I love you” I can get now!

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“You are my sun,” my friend tells me in halting French over coffee. She’s going through a rough time. We’re having coffee, and I’m listening – just someone she can say all the things she needs to say out loud to, in a language that doesn’t belong to either of us but the only one we have in common to form the vocabulary of our friendship.
I think of other times I’ve heard this throughout my life. My father singing “You are My Sunshine” at bedtime. An old friend exclaiming, “The sunshine is back!” when I returned home a long trip. Messages from another, for years now, calling me “moje sonce.” And when I reply, it has to be “Hello, moja zvezdica!” My star.
That’s what they all are to me: suns of other galaxies, the stars by which I stumble my way through life, always orienting me to my true north, always burning bright to keep me warm. So that no matter how dark it gets, I’m never truly lost.
Love,
February

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Anyone else think the OST (including instrumental) is totally superb in You Are My Spring? How is everything about this drama making me fall so hard??

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    I’m loving it. Both the songs and the r BGM. Last song released, Dear my spring is so touching and Onew voice is just 💙

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      Yes! I also love Still Wonder and Falling Flower. The whole collection is just so eclectic and tonally spot on for each episode.

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    bought the album, once the full thing was released 😍

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Hello, beanies! How was your day? 💕🎶
#BVIPP

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Another favorite for #BVIPP

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This one always makes me want to dance.
우리같이 !
#BVIPP

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Coming to the party with my current favorite summer ride!
#BVIPP

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    When you said you were not into kpop you were lying I guess….

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      I’m only just starting to dabble. Compared to you and the other kpop beanies, my collection is the equivalent of a burned CD from 2005 of odds and ends! 😁

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How hecking wonderful was Mad For Each Other ep 10?! Min-kyung and Hwi-oh are on the fast track to be OTP of the year for me if this drama keeps it up.

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    I feel the same, @carleybisek! This show is perfectly paced and their love feels well-earned. I love them so freaking much.

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    The relationship has been handled so well. They better not screw it up.

    I can’t believe Kakao Tv made both Lovestruck in the City and this.

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      It boggles the mind. If LITC was a beta test, at least they learned and nailed it this time around! I wish it was getting more hype, though word of mouth seems to be creating some rumbles at least.

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2021 Mid-Year Drama Challenge
Sponsored by: @purplesheesh

All answers accurate at time of posting and subject to swift change due to drama progression.
1 – Best 2021 Drama (so far!): I’m going to go with Run On. It made me feel so Feelings, and I treasured watching it.
2 – Best scene from your fave drama: the surprise birthday party that went sideways in the most hilarious way; also pretty much all of episode 14
3 – Favorite OTP: I’m torn! Completed drama: Mi-joo and Seon-gyeom from Run On; Ongoing drama: Min-kyung and Hwi-Oh from Mad For Each Other
4 – Favorite OST: current favorite earworm is “Happy Anding” (no, that’s not a typo) by Martin Smith from Mad For Each Other
5 – Drama(s) you dropped: Oh! Master, which I should have dropped much sooner than I did, but I guess I am a glutton for punishment; Taxi Driver
6 – Drama you hate-watched (and finished!): River Where the Moon Rises; though had I somehow found the fortitude to make it past ep 12, the winner would have been hands-down Oh! Master
7 – Drama many loved but you didn’t: Law School
8 – Drama you loved but most didn’t: So I Married the Anti-Fan. Not sorry.
9 – Drama you’ve re-watched this year: I’ll Come to You When the Weather Is Fine
10 – Last drama you finished watching: Sell Your Haunted House

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So…what am I supposed to do now, Vincenzo? If we can\’t hang out at Geumga Plaza on the weekends anymore…is there room for us on the island, too? It\’s been a (bloody, hilarious, wacky and wonderful) ride. I’ll miss it.

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A shout-out to a drama that may be flying under the radar but deserves some attention! Scripting Your Destiny is a well-written web drama with interesting turns and laugh out loud moments. It’s light yet thoughtful, touching but not cliché. It’s tightly spun without filler and has a very solid cast (I hope to see the FL in something even bigger soon). It’s in some ways a shame it wasn’t a longer, full-length drama – but then, it didn’t need to be to tell a good story! It’s on Viki, 10 episodes ca. 22 mins each in length. I highly recommend.

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    I just finished ep 4 and am loving it! I’m not usually a web drama person (shorter episodes can lead to very fast-paced plot), but this one has captured my attention. The story is well-paced and funny.

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      I didn’t think I was a web drama person either, so I guess now…hello, new rabbit hole!

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        I’ve liked every web drama I’ve seen so far. Will keep tidied on my watch list for a rainy day!

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    Thanks for the recommendation. I planned to see this but kept for getting the name lol. I don’t know if ot will be available without viki pass because i don’t have that yet but I’ll try the available episodes. I’m also enjoying the web drama How to be Thirty on Viki. Nothing groundbreaking but not ordinary either. I’m actually totally onboard the 20 to 30 minutes episodes, short and sweet.

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      Same! I’m also really liking How to Be Thirty. I’m surprised that these shorter web dramas are working for me, but they really are. Sometimes you just need a quick and easy story, easy to digest, something that feels like people watching while you sip a drink at an outdoor café .

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    Thanks for the reminder! I forgot about this and I really wanted to watch it

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Ah, Run On. We have been inside your heart, and it was radiant. 💖

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I have been working pretty much every day for the last 10 or so, leaving me with little time to enjoy my dramas and books. But today is Run On Day, and that is what is getting me to the hour I’m carving out this evening to cozy on down and enjoy every second.

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    You will!! I’m crying now because it’s over and I have to wait until tomorrow.

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Anyone else having issues posting comments to recaps? I’ve tried unsuccessfully throughout the day 3 times now to post my comment (ok, my heart-eyed rave) to the Run On ep 8 recap, and it just won’t post. I get that error that “I’ve already posted that comment” but it never shows. I tried again with a completely newly written one, also to no avail. Is it just a delay?

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    I used to have that problem some days ago too in the What We’re Watching thread. I posted it on my fan wall and tagged DB staff. After a while I was able to post my comment on that thread, but it left me a bit anxious though. The issue of being unable to post comments in recaps, threads and fan walls has been occurring randomly and frequently these past few weeks.

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      I remember it happening randomly before, but it was so long ago…maybe I’ll try it again tomorrow and hope for the best. I guess there must be a wider issue or something.

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        Yeah.. I suppose so. I don’t know if it has anything to do with some so strange and hardcore stans posts these days in some of the hot-issue recaps (e.g. Start-Up, The King, to name some).

        Anyway, @db-staff can you pls help her with this? 🥺

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    This is why I could never post on the last episode recap of Spies 😭

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So, I don’t know if I’m crazy or not, but I’m thinking of re-watching Dinner Mate (obviously with applied use of the FF button). Am I nuts to do this? It’s just that as I did the 2020 Round Up, I couldn’t shake my firmly held belief that both Doo-hee and Hae-kyung (and also, frankly, Seo Ji-hye and Song Seung-heon) just deserved so. much. better. than what that drama gave them. My magical thinking is that if I re-watch, somehow the show will be better all around. This has no basis in reality, and yet here I stand, about to do it. Life is strange.

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    I somehow understand this feeling 😄
    Last year I rewatched Temperature of Love and before my rewatch I had the same sentiments. I loved Temperature of Love when it aired, but it had some really frustrating moments. Knowing what would come I could enjoy the drama even more while rewatching. It was simply easier to ignore the frustrating stuff.
    So, give it a go 😉

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      Thanks for this! It makes sense that it’s easier to ignore the frustrating stuff since you know it’s coming – and can hop right over it and just enjoy the good parts. 😊

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    This is so me. The 2020 wrap up made me realise how genuinely amazing these two were together. They weren’t ” fated” through some random childhood connection but they met each other and bonded so well. They deserved way more screen time than they got

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      How much more wonderful it could have been had the show really be dedicated to the OTP getting to know each other and growing their relationship! I will try to embellish via my imagination as I re-watch.

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    Rewatching APoYM reminded me that JHI-CSB really were the loveliest couple (yes lovely, the word just fits them so well), so yeah go rewatch w the FF button at the ready.

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    You’re not crazy.
    And I think the experience of watching it with the FF button will make it wonderful. No Exes, no Keanu, only sassy DoHee and hot and sexy HaeKyung… It can’t be better.
    These two are one of the OTP with the best chemistry in all dramaland. Unfortunately they ended up in the wrong drama.

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      Amen. Maybe they will get a second shot at another drama together?! I would sign up RIGHT NOW to watch that! I know I’ve said this before, but when the casting was announced, I was really happy for Seo Ji-hye and looking forward to seeing her as a leading lady in her own drama. I wish she had been better served, but I look forward to her next project!

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Hello fellow Beanies! Is anyone planning on watching the 2020 APAN Awards the weekend of January 23-24? Looks like the Music Awards are on the 23rd and the Star Awards on the 24th.

https://www.bandwagon.asia/articles/how-to-watch-the-2020-apan-awards-star-music-k-drama-k-pop-korea-tickets-livestream-video-interpark-amazer-january-2021

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2020 Round Up
Day 22 – Freestyle: favorite secondary couple

Great idea, @edgarpordwed !

There were two secondary couples that I particularly remember this year:

Heartwarming: Lee Jang-woo and Ji Eun-shil from Weather. This was a sweet couple that came together in a sweet way. Jang-woo wasn’t dissimilar from Eun-seob in carrying a long-time torch for Eun-shil, and I liked that despite his bumbling he stayed very true to himself. Watching her start to see him with new eyes, and the awkward and adorable confession in the last episode was well done – it was nice to be able to imagine happy things for them in the future.
Entertaining: Hwang Seo-ra and Jang Doo-bong from Spies. To be honest, this was more of a spy ploy than an actual relationship (at least for one party), but it was highly entertaining (until Doo-bong went daaaark). I wish that he had “reformed” and turned informant for the Interpol team; a lovestruck Doo-bong and a reluctantly swayed Seo-ra would have been funny to watch.

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2020 Round Up
Day 21 – Freestyle: best drama poster

Great idea about favorite posters! Three 2020 posters captured wonderfully well for me the atmosphere of the drama that they were promoting:
– Crashing Landing On You: main poster captured the North/South juxtaposition in a slightly fantastical and colorful way, while the secondary imagery strongly encapsulated both the divide and the pull between the OTP.
– I’ll Come to You When the Weather is Fine: captured so well the stillness of the season and mountain village, the pause between heartbeats, and the slow melt of two people starting to entertain the possibility that life may look better in the spring.
– It’s Okay to Not Be Okay: captures the ephemeral beauty of the fairytale world that this show spun around us, both its luminescence and its fragility.

And a bonus one just because, well…who doesn’t like looking at pretty things: Tale of the Nine-Tailed

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    No. We’re not here for the pretty boy. No we’re not.
    We have long and brainy conversations (by the way, we DO!).
    But because of the pretty distracting boy.
    No. Possible. Way.

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      You are absolutely correct @eazal! We are most definitely here for the thoughtful, brainy philosophizing that we do with high-minded intellectual fervor, and we can’t help it if sometimes we do that while taking in the…um… you know, the view and…well…whatever may happen to just be…in view…. (*sips wine*). 😉🥂

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        Always in context.
        The pretty boy will never distract us from our mission!!

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    CLOY was already finished when I found out the background showed North and South Korea… 🤦🏻‍♀️ it’s a beautiful poster (plus the choice of having only Se-ri in red and all the others in black), but I really love the one with the camp fire, it is so intimate and reminds me of a great scene!

    Weather poster has the same magic of the drama: it manages to be warm even if it’s snowing 😮

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2020 Round Up
Day 19 – most memorable scene

For me, one of the most heart-warming scenes this year was at the end of episode 10 in Weather, when Eun-soeb comes back to the family home after having spent the day with his estranged uncle and questioning where he belongs in the world – only to find his infuriated and frightened little sister who, in one of the most realistic sibling confrontations, manages to tell him in the same breath that she loves him and hates him at the same time. The new bike saddle she’s been coveting is his gift to her, but her unvarnished love and possessiveness of her oppa is her gift to him – and the look on his face when his voiceover gently says, No, I’m not leaving, was just one of the most beautiful drama moments for me this year.

2020 Round Up
Day 20 – the cameo that blew your mind

I don’t know that I have one for this category, at least not for a 2020 drama. I did watch Hotel del Luna in 2020, and I happened to watch it about the time that I was watching IOTNBO – so the cameo of Kim Soo-hyun at the end was fun. The slick, smoldering, whisky-drinking ghost was a far cry from the sober, downtrodden yet sweet Moon Gang-tae I’d become used to.

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    whoooooooo, that was one hot cameo! I totally wanted to see an entire show about that character.

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      Me, too! It’s one drama I’d be 100% on board with them doing a second season for – the premise is loose enough that they could truly do a whole other character arc.

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    That was a really sexy cameo. Made me realise how much I missed him on my screen

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    My favourite scene as well!!
    It may be the fact that I miss my sister, as we’ve barely seen each other this year, but the moment I watched it I just felt all the love these two siblings share, although they would never confess it (at least for a long time). Also the sweet flashbacks that are shown just before this scene (EunSeob watching for hours Hwi in her cradle and him being delighted when he shows the beetle to his proud mum) set the mood for what we are going to see.

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      Yes, it’s so lovely how they weave those flashbacks into Eun-seob’s overall arc. It was subtle but so beautiful to me how it’s so obvious that his family loves him so much and how he slowly by the end is finally able to receive and accept this gift and starts intentionally reciprocating. It warmed my soul to watch that unfold.

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