Romance in the House: Episodes 3-4
by Unit
Secrets, rumors, and accusations characterize this week as we delve further into the lives of the residents at Family Villa. Our recently-returned dad tries to rebuild his relationship with his family, but years of absence and an unyielding daughter puts a strain on his efforts. But it’s still the second week of eight, so he’s got plenty of time to make it up to his family. Right?
EPISODES 3-4
Much to Mi-rae’s disappointment, Ae-yeon decides that they won’t move out of Family Villa. She reasons that it’s better to capitalize on Moo-jin’s free rent offer and later on use the accumulated saved rent to get a better place, but Mi-rae accuses her mom of getting swayed by her nouveau riche dad. I do not like your tone, Mi-rae, and neither does your mom.
Mi-rae goes on to confront her dad, and Moo-jin informs her that he intends to seduce Ae-yeon again. And to demonstrate his seriousness, Moo-jin writes — and notarizes — a pledge stating that he will give his ex-wife and kids the villa if he fails to reconcile with Ae-yeon within four weeks. Ha! Well, that is one way to raise the stakes.
While Moo-jin settles into his new role as landlord, the other tenants have their reservations about him for various reasons ranging from: seeing him with the late landlord the night before the fire to spotting him leaving the police station and going into a tofu restaurant afterwards (it is customary to eat tofu after serving time in prison). They conclude that Moo-jin set the building on fire and killed the former landlord, and they agree to keep their mouths shut until they find concrete evidence against him.
Moo-jin recruits his son in his plans to seduce Ae-yeon, and Hyun-jae — who is only too happy that his dad is back, and that they can bond over his unlimited credit card — happily agrees to be an ally. Tsk. From Hyun-jae, Moo-jin learns that the family didn’t move out of the neighborhood after he left because they wanted to show everyone that they could get back on their feet. But in the process of taking on the responsibility of “showing the neighbors” — via distribution of expensive fruit baskets — Moo-jin runs into Hairdresser Tenant, and from their reaction, it’s obvious that they have history. Uh-oh.
The tenants soon decide that there’s no way Ae-yeon doesn’t know about her ex-husband’s criminal activities — and Grandmother Tenant takes on the mantle of publicly accusing her of being in cahoots with Moo-jin. At her workplace, no less! I thought these guys would be gossipy neighbors who are mostly harmless, and it’s disappointing to see them act out this way. But via Mi-rae’s flashback, we see that the neighbors’ biting tongues have been active since Ae-yeon’s tteokbokki diner went under, and it’s no wonder Mi-rae hates Moo-jin’s guts for putting her mom in a situation to be gossiped about.
At home, Ae-yeon confronts the tenants for picking on her as the easy target instead of confronting Moo-jin directly. She finds it laughable that they think Moo-jin committed arson to buy the building. “If he were that daring, I would have stayed with him,” she says, and Moo-jin overhears the conversation. He’s touched that she stood up for him, and sad to have put her in the situation. But Mi-rae neither cares about his emotions, nor the pledge. She just needs him to get out of their lives.
Moo-jin decides to put an end to the gossip by going to the police to investigate him as a person of interest in the fire, but he’s thrown out because there’s no evidence linking him to crime. Next, he gathers the tenants and appeals to their emotions by stating that he bought the villa to reunite with his family. He buys them a round of drinks and waives their maintenance fees for three months, and everyone’s suspicion dies down — except for Househusband Tenant who does not buy Moo-jin’s words.
Ae-yeon is also slightly suspicious of Moo-jin’s sudden riches after his “You don’t know what I’ve done to get this far” statement the other day, but Moo-jin refuses to tell her — and us viewers by extension — what exactly it is that he did. He goes on to visit the late landlord’s columbarium and says things like he will ask for Landlord’s forgiveness in the afterlife. And now I’m growing curiouser and curiouser about the mystery behind it all.
On a lighter note, our elevator couple runs into each other again… in the elevator. This time, Mi-rae overhears Tae-pyeong address the CEO, NAM CHI-YEOL (Jung Woong-in), as “father,” and this is how we learn that security guard Tae-pyeong is actually the CEO’s son. The way father and son snatched Mi-rae into the elevator though. Loool!
Mi-rae has zero interest in the undercover chaebol business, and she assures Tae-pyeong of her silence — but it helps to have dirt on him since she previously swore him to secrecy on her dad’s return after his flying kick the other day. If anything, Mi-rae is slightly embarrassed to have threatened to get Tae-pyeong fired if he ran his mouth about her dad at work. But what’s a little threat between friends? Yes, they are on friendly terms now because there’s nothing like sharing secrets to bring people closer to each other.
CEO Nam visits Tae-pyeong’s rooftop apartment for a taste of his son’s flying kick to persuade his son to quit cosplaying as a poor female lead and return home. CEO Nam wanted his son to “stop wasting his life with taekwondo,” and join the company, and Tae-pyeong suggested becoming a security guard as a joke. He didn’t think his dad would offer him the job, and Dad didn’t think he would take the offer either. “I took it because I missed you,” Tae-pyeong replies, and aw. It’s evident that father and son love each other, but for some reason, Tae-pyeong says Dad will get sick of him if he moves back home. “Why would I? You’re my son,” Dad replies, but there’s a look in his eyes that suggests that there’s something more at play here. Or maybe I’m just imagining it.
If there’s one upside to living as a commoner, it’s that it places Tae-pyeong in the same neighborhood as Mi-rae. She ends up at his taekwondo studio to blow off steam, and they bond over relieving stress after parental hounding. As a former athlete, Tae-pyeong gives Mi-rae some advice on how to beat an opponent. In summary: don’t try too hard to win, just do as you always have, at your own pace. But Mi-rae interprets the advice to mean “go all out on the opponent,” and this results in a petty and fun competition with Moo-jin for Ae-yeon’s attention. Pfft.
Hyun-jae is all for his parents’ reconciliation, and he puts it to Mi-rae that she’s the one standing in their parent’s way. But Mi-rae dismisses his concerns, expecting nothing much from him but to graduate in peace and get a job. Then we come to learn that Hyun-jae secretly plans to drop out of school and become an entrepreneur, and I… sigh! No offense, but this boy doesn’t look like he has the brains to pull off entrepreneurship. Heck, dramaland needs to get rid of the immature younger brother trope in its entirety because it has overstayed its welcome. Forcing female characters to pull the dead weight of the men in their lives is not cute, and it’s just a disservice to everyone involved.
We get a scare when Ae-yeon is snatched from behind on her way home from grocery shopping, but her panicked family is relieved when they get a call that she’s at the police station. Phew! It turns out that Ae-yeon was accosted by the landlord at their former apartment, because Moo-jin previously threatened the lecherous landlord after learning that he used to hit on Ae-yeon. Grandmother Tenant and Nail Tech Tenant joined Ae-yeon to beat up the landlord, and that’s how all three women ended up at the station. Lol.
Moo-jin has to be restrained from attacking Lecherous Landlord at the station, and in a flashback to one of the times the landlord harassed her mom, Mi-rae recalls the helplessness she’d felt when she couldn’t do anything. Her driving force has always been to show Moo-jin that she could do a better job at protecting her mom, but seeing him step in to defend Ae-yeon when she couldn’t, is almost like a stab to her heart. Moo-jin acknowledges how hard it must have been for Mi-rae to become the head of the house, and he apologizes for making her grow up too soon. He reassures her that she has done well over the years, and now it’s time to give herself a break.
Mi-rae’s tone is accusatory as she states that she didn’t want to be like Moo-jin, and the man chokes on his emotions as he tells her she’s nothing like him. Father and daughter brim with unshed tears, but Mi-rae doesn’t break down until she’s alone in the rain. Tae-pyeong sees Mi-rae crying, but despite telling him to leave, he returns with an umbrella to shield her from the rain and the prying eyes of the gossipy neighbors. And on this swoon-worthy note, our second week comes to an end.
The more we learn about Mi-rae’s family’s backstory, the more I understand her. Imagine being forced to step up as the head of the family, and the former head just waltzes back like he never left. On the surface, it might seem like Mi-rae is jealous/scared that Moo-jin will “steal” her mom away from her, but what she’s really afraid of is that the family will go through everything Moo-jin put them through all over again if they give him a second chance. Her fears are valid, and I cannot blame her for that. But at the same time, Ae-yeon is an adult — and more adult than her daughter seems to give her credit for.
Yes, Moo-jin could have handled Lecherous Landlord from the get-go, but it was Ae-yeon who actually beat the man up. That is a woman who can take care of herself, and Mi-rae needs to trust in her mom’s ability to make decisions as regards the family, and her relationship with Moo-jin. On the other hand, the mystery behind Moo-jin’s riches really doesn’t do him any favors, and I can’t root for him and when I don’t know what he’s hiding. Ae-yeon has been through a lot, and she doesn’t deserve to be put through more with the secrecy that shrouds Moo-jin’s windfall.
A lot of water has passed under the bridge in the time that Moo-jin has been away, and while I know the clock is ticking on his four-week pledge, his approach to romance is not the way to go. How about coming clean to Ae-yeon first, and courting her afresh instead of trying to buy her affection with free rent and designer bags? Tsk. Jae-geol was right; the pledge makes no sense.
Speaking of which, I thought we’d have a nice ahjussi bromance with Moo-jin and Jae-geol, but alas. Jae-geol is supposedly sticking with Moo-jin because he wants to “score big,” and it is worrisome when a tax accountant says stuff like “easy money is money easily lost” about a client who is supposed to be his friend. Sigh. We really can’t have nice things.
At least things are progressing nicely between Mi-rae and Tae-pyeong. I like that their perception of each other didn’t change even with their discovery of the other person’s family drama, and it’s great that their arc is starting out with friendship first. Mi-rae needs a friend to release steam with and be vulnerable around, and Tae-pyeong is the perfect gentleman for that. I look forward to knowing more about them as individuals, and of course, to the gradual romance that will blossom between them.
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Tags: Ji Jin-hee, Kim Ji-soo, Min-ho, Romance in the House, Sohn Na-eun
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1 9TailedVixen (formerly 9TailedFox)
August 20, 2024 at 5:06 AM
Tae-Pyong and Mi-Rae's slow-burn start to their romance makes this worth the watch.
Tae-Pyong seems to be all the green flags. I like that a lot!
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vienibenmio
August 20, 2024 at 5:56 AM
I haven't watched this because 1) it's a melo and 2) the romance seemed so slight - so you do think it's worth watching it just for that?
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9TailedVixen (formerly 9TailedFox)
August 20, 2024 at 6:06 AM
It's fairly entertaining but what hooked me is this slow-burn romance between the undercover chaebol heir and the tough-as-nails FL.
YMMV.
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Blue (@mayhemf)
August 20, 2024 at 6:39 AM
I like TaePyeong and his chairman father scenes too. They aren’t the typical chaebols so far. They seem fun together.
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9TailedVixen (formerly 9TailedFox)
August 20, 2024 at 6:49 AM
The elevator scene with Mi-Rae was hilarious!
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tabong is ironing the crosswalk
August 20, 2024 at 11:53 AM
They're both big softies. I hope we get more of them.
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tabong is ironing the crosswalk
August 20, 2024 at 11:52 AM
They're soooooo sweet.
I love their scenes too! I love how considerate with each other they are. And he's so gentle!! And she's so understanding!
Something I love is that neither of them tried to do a "moving unsolicited advice" about each other's family problems. I like that they're allies but they don't mean to prey on the issues.
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Blue (@mayhemf)
August 20, 2024 at 12:40 PM
I liked what she said. Kindness by indifference?? Something in those lines. Yeah, they both are respectful to the other.
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vongole
August 21, 2024 at 1:13 AM
Absolutely! I love that it’s so normal… instead of the usual love/hate-at-first sight dynamic. We actually see them beginning to notice the other … slowly coming to the point of attraction.
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redfox
August 22, 2024 at 3:26 AM
he is a green jungle.
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2 Blue (@mayhemf)
August 20, 2024 at 6:38 AM
I didn’t enjoy ep 3 much. Especially the 4 week contract! It made it hard to root for Moo Jin. I really wanted the show to make me root for him, but the more I saw him the more I felt that he hadn’t changed much. Or we didn’t see enough of a change to root for him.
Also, the nosy neighbors got a bit too much to my liking. Going to someone’s workplace to harass them is not cool. Especially when you have known them all your life and know their story.
Thankfully episode 4 fixed that bad taste with Ae-yeon calling them out for their shitty behavior all along.
Finally episode 4 - This is what I have been waiting for. To see Moo Jin’s sincerity. It was not the money, not the gifts, not him beating up the sleazy landlord from past, but his sincere words to Mi-Rae. I was so happy he saw what she was feeling and made an effort to talk to her. And also telling her she was nothing like him, which means a lot. He knows he screwed up and he knows his daughter is a much better person than he ever was.
This is one show which would have benefited from epilogue. I would have liked to see the happy moments from past as epilogues.
I am liking Ae-yeon and hope we get to have more of her scenes.
Mi-Rae and Tae-Pyong’s scenes are sweet.
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9TailedVixen (formerly 9TailedFox)
August 20, 2024 at 6:51 AM
Tae-Pyong seems to be the biggest Cinnamon Roll ML (TM) since Baek-Du from LIKE FLOWERS FROM SAND.
And like Baek-Du, he is so gone for a prickly FL haha!
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tabong is ironing the crosswalk
August 20, 2024 at 11:44 AM
I really need Moo Jin to start changing ASAP. His words didn't have that much effect on me because of his behavior on the past two episodes. Everything he said makes it seem like he knows what he did wrong, but his actions say the opposite.
How to prove my daughter that I'm good for the family... Uhm, what about making a bet about her mom??? wtf.
How to prove my ex that I've become financially responsible... What if I spend all my money buying expensive things, and giving things for free??
He says he needs to seduce mom, but their break up wasn't about mom not having feelings for him. It was about him being irresponsible and immature. So I really hope he starts showing some growth... Otherwise I'm gonna start rooting for mom and Tae Pyeong's dad LMAO
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Leola
August 20, 2024 at 9:23 PM
I agree with you totally. Having had a partner that was irresponsible with money, it is painful to watch Moo Jin spend money and not get that it was his irresponabile behavior that caused the break-up. I do not find him at all attractive. Mi-Rae is adorable. I love how the actress is portraying her.
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tabong is ironing the crosswalk
August 20, 2024 at 9:28 PM
I love Mi Rae too. I just want her and her mom to have a happy ending.
I'm starting to make a headcanon where Moo Jin takes his son and leaves Mi Rae and mom alone.
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Blue (@mayhemf)
August 21, 2024 at 2:58 AM
I feel differently about this. I love the mom and daughter. But I also feel the daughter is kinda holding back on her own life which isn’t particularly healthy. She needs to be freed. But that doesn’t mean Moo Jin has to replace her in the household. I am perfectly fine if they don’t end up together.
I really hope it’s worth sitting through all these frustrations watching Moo Jin do childish stuff. I can’t tell if the show is failing trying to insert humor or if the character hasn’t changed at all.
Blue (@mayhemf)
August 21, 2024 at 2:53 AM
Tabong just flushed two OTP’s down the drain in a single shot. That last line 🙃
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tabong is ironing the crosswalk
August 21, 2024 at 3:05 AM
😂 I'm trying to give mom a little romance in the house... Just not the one everyone was expecting.
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petrolia
August 22, 2024 at 12:52 PM
I was very disappointed with both Mi Rae and Dad to make this bet! How could he suggest this knowing what he did wrong (unless he still has not understood what that was)? And how could she negotiate about paying alimony and betting on it? Alimony is due no matter a bet! He didn't pay for his children for ten years, left them without a penny (and possibly in debt), comes back rich and doesn't have a conscience that tells him to make up for that? I can totaly understand that Mi Rae treats him like she does, I'm getting furious just thinking about this. But - betting on paying alimony - that's not cool on both sides, either.
And I'd like a different love interest fir Mom, please.
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3 Nefret
August 20, 2024 at 6:53 AM
I'll make any bet that the father isn't a gangster. The only question is how he got the money.
I'm even more interested in the relationship between father and daughter than the romance between Tae-Pyong and Mi-Rae .
The neighbours were unbearable in these episodes. Not only were they rude to the mother, but where did they even get the idea that she knows what secrets her ex-husband has?
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Kafiyah Bello
August 20, 2024 at 7:14 AM
The father-daughter is the most interesting relationship to me too. He really needs to work on that.
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Blue (@mayhemf)
August 20, 2024 at 7:22 AM
I am interested in his relationship with all three. The show is heavily holding back on the divorced couple moments. I am guessing the daughter was the first relationship that is being addressed.
I also want him to be a good father figure to his son, who comes across as immature or a little too eager to make money.
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4 Kafiyah Bello
August 20, 2024 at 7:09 AM
I appreciate that Mi Rae is so for her mother. I also appreciate that she finally stopped to considered baby brother's opinion as well. The onus of being the older sibling is she remembers and feels all the disappointments because their dad was a terrible parent. I am rooting for Mi Rae though. I can't decide if her dad has actually changed or not though, so I can't root for her parents.
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Blue (@mayhemf)
August 20, 2024 at 7:18 AM
Mi Rae put too much pressure on herself. Ae-Yeon is actually very capable and can hold her own. She doesn’t need her daughter to be the head of household and shoulder all responsibilities. She is more than willing to share. But Mi Rae wants to give her mother a break but ends up burning out herself. So it was nice to see the brother actually speaking to her. It’s not her place to decide entirely what her mother wants at this point in time.
It’s definitely an interesting story but I wish they gave us more. It’s a little too ambiguous now. I need to know more about Moo Jin.
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Kafiyah Bello
August 20, 2024 at 9:39 AM
Agreed.
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5 Siona ⭐️ (@DramaticFoodie)
August 20, 2024 at 11:08 AM
Thank you for the recap @unit. And your right Mi-rae needs to understand that her mother can take care of herself and smart enough to handle such situations.
For me its this publicly accusing neighbour trope that was very irritating I want this to be removed from dramas and not encouraged/show cased anymore.
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Lalla32
August 21, 2024 at 6:37 AM
I agree, we had enough of stupid neighbours. Be supportive or just mind your own business.
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6 JKim
August 20, 2024 at 3:53 PM
Thinking out loud, Moo-jin's source of money might be that he owns the company that makes the tteokbokki that Mi-rae and Ae-yeon sell at the supermarket. He might have taken Ae-yeon's recepie and used it. Later on, he reveals to her that his success is due to her, etc... Too corny?
Speaking of which, I chuckled when Mi-Rae retorted back to her co-worker in the elevator when he was pestering her about who the ceo's son is by asking if he was watching too many kdrama's like Reborn Rich and King the Land (all JTBC drama's)... That's another level of product placement...
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7 Mr Everything
August 20, 2024 at 5:08 PM
I just watched these episodes. Why is it so hard to find something memorable to write about? The love triangle trope transforming into a battle between father and daughter for mother's love was forgettable. The judgment of neighbors for the father's current and past behaviors was also forgettable.
I had my fingers crossed that the son wouldn't repeat the mistakes of his father. There seems to be the idea in dramas that business success and social traits are inherited from parents particularly father to son and mother to daughter. It is actually quite a common belief in many Asian countries. I hate that this drama is perpetuating that idea. It is nonsense.
The ML is very SML. He is generally nice to everyone and therefore forgettable also. But, fortunately for him, she knows his secret and he knows her secret, so he can overcome this limitation and become a ML. I guess it doesn't hurt that he is young, handsome and rich. So, the moral of the story is find out your love interest's darkest secret and you too can be in a relationship.
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8 Procrasti-NationFirstCitizen
August 20, 2024 at 8:59 PM
The first 2 eps were good to set up the story, but I'm having second thoughts now.
The father is just plain unlikable at the moment. A man who thinks he can just ooze his way back into his family's life with expensive gadgets and designer bags? And with the audacity to shout at his ex-wife about the stuff he had to do to earn his money? Ugh. Bro, she kicked you out because you were risking her and her children's lives because of your recklessness, and you haven't shown an ounce of remorse yet!
Instead, making juvenile bets about how soon he'll seduce his wife...
I know they'll have a slow-drip reveal of his past, and his tortuous path to riches (cos no way are they going to actually make him a gangster, are they), but they'd better start doing it sooner because I'm losing patience with his gaslighting.
Also, Kdramas need to stop infantilising young men, and instead show them having already stepped up to shoulder the burden along with their infinitely more capable noonas and moms. This is the 3rd recent show I'm seeing this.
I know Kdrama writers seem to be mostly women, so maybe this is their way of holding up a mirror to society, so that people can see how bad it is. It could be just ignored though, because the neighbour-shaming, the physical abuse, the eternal boyhood, are all shown through a comedic lens which can then be laughed off.
Am I thinking too hard about a TV show? Yes, I suppose. Now onto other things... :)
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tabong is ironing the crosswalk
August 20, 2024 at 9:23 PM
Thank you SO MUCH for this comment. I can't stand the dad.
"Bro, she kicked you out because you were risking her and her children's lives because of your recklessness, and you haven't shown an ounce of remorse yet!"
Say it louder, please.
I couldn't stand how he thought he had any right to beat up the gross former landlord, when they literally lost their house because of HIM. It's like he forgets he left them on the streets??? They were living in that basement because of YOU.
Whatever he does to that guy now doesn't matter. Mom already took care of him, and Moo Jin doesn't have anything to do with her now.
And the bet was such a "ew" moment. I low-key questioning how much respect he has for his ex-wife and Mi Rae with the way he treats them and the way he's trying to use the financial power he has over them to trap them.
I hope he changes in the next couple of episodes.
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9TailedVixen (formerly 9TailedFox)
August 21, 2024 at 5:18 AM
At last! Someone agrees with me about the ML.
When I mentioned before that he's a red flag because he bought the block of flats/apartments knowing that his family lives there, therefore becoming their landlord and inserting his unwelcome self into their lives, someone else insisted that he's not a red flag.
If what he did isn't manipulative and power-leveraging in a situation where his family doesn't have financial clout to push back, I don't know what is. It just makes me think poorly of him. There are other better and more respectful ways to try to reconnect without strong-arming his way back into their lives yet he chose this method. It doesn't say anything good about him.
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Lalla32
August 21, 2024 at 6:43 AM
I agree, the show surely isn't making me root for him. It doesn't help that I don't particularly like the actor either. But the conversation with his daughter at the end of episode 4 helped a little. At least I didn't feel like punching him in the face.
I'm here for the other characters... minus the horrible neighbours.
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9 empressgirl
August 21, 2024 at 12:16 AM
Eps 3-4 are decisively better than the opening week, with so many potentially interesting side plots brewing in the sidelines. I am actually way more vested in all the other stuff than the key premise of a prodigal ex-husband wooing his ex-wife back.
Full disclosure: I will say what I hate from the get-on and get it over with, cos what I like are a lot more.
I frankly have a LOT of reservations about the dad -- not just the provenance of his new-found wealth, but his current psyche and emotional maturity (or lack thereof).
His financial improvidence and imprudence? All over the place. So many red flags. SO. MANY. Even before the very incriminating phone conversation by his shady tax accountant, the image that comes to mind is that of a lottery winner (and we know from statistics what happen to most of these easy windfalls...)
(a) The moment I heard the bet between father and daughter, my Machiavellian mind tells me I ought to report the bet mechanics to my mom, get her onboard, then ensure we get the whole villa.
(b) She can reconcile with him AFTER 4 weeks but we must get the 3-billion-won villa in our name and achieve financial freedom.
(c) And mom should not remarry dad again, cos if he runs away (again) after bad investments and private loans, the spouse will inherit the bad debts (plunging the family into yet another cycle of poverty).
(d) also note to self: make younger brother pay back his college tuition fees to you. Write an I.O.U. make him sign it (in blood, if need be). Do NOT lend him any money for hare-brained start-up biz. EVER.
Financial improvidence can and do tear families apart. Much more than we care to admit.
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empressgirl
August 21, 2024 at 1:19 AM
Now unto the stuff I like in Eps 3-4:
✔ Leveling of power gradients on many fronts: ethics aside, the bet is great for all sort of reasons - the most important being that it levels the power balance that was so skewed last week.
✔ 2nd power gradient leveled: between Mi-rae and Tae-Pyeong (motto: "I don't believe in pledges, I only believe in collateral.") They have a handle on each other now, which ironically draws them closer together in an easier space
✔ Third power gradient: J-Plus chaebol dad and Mi-rae. From the bottom of totem pole, he suddenly finds himself buttering up to her instead of the other way round. Held hostage by an elevator expose. love it. lol
✔ Upending of stereotypes: Mom turning on douchebag harasser and thrashing him. Let's get this straight she was never weak to begin with.
The issue is about a steep power gradient tied to money (that sleaze ball happened to be *both* her landlord and boss, she knew she couldn't afford to lose both the roof over their heads and her job as sole breadwinner supporting two kids) Once those two restraining factors are gone, she is well able to beat the $%@ out of him cos nothing is holding her back.
The real issue is money, and the power of options in life when you have money.
Come to think of it, there is a very thin line separating the dad and this douchebag -- both men are using the power of money as a leverage to orchestrate a certain desired outcome. I just want both mother and daughter to be freed from these tentacles of male power.
(p.s. on that note, that's why the dynamics between Mi-rae & Tae-Pyeong is so easy and relaxing to watch. A lot of other things can be used as currency for power -- in their case, secrets. There are also others who refuse to use the leverage of secrets to have power, i.e. the hairdresser tenant who obviously has something on Moo-jin but honorably pledges to keep mum cos she knows he wants to reconcile with his ex-wife)
✔ Upending of stereotypes: Jocks have brawns no brains. I love how they set up a parallel & contrast between Moo-jin and Mi-rae; then Moo-jin & Tae-pyeong.
TP is obviously seen as a jock with "muscles for brains" as he self-deprecatingly concedes to his dad. Yet, he is anything but.
Even when chaebol dad disparages his 10 years as "squandering them on taekwondo", yet the evidence speaks a different story: TP was a national-level athlete who can make a living teaching his sports in a taekwondo school (in stark contrast to Moo-jin). So chaebol dad's denigration is just dad-code for "Son, you should be making 6-digit salary as J-Plus scion and director instead."
Similarly, we can see in both present-day and the childhood flashbacks that Mi-rae has the sporting aptitude and genes inherited from her dad, yet she is anything but a jock. Instead she is shrewd and responsible (and very matching with TP).
✔ The differing perspectives regarding the divorce & the emotional...
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empressgirl
August 21, 2024 at 1:28 AM
CONT'D:
✔ The differing perspectives regarding the divorce & the emotional disparities between the sister & brother wrt their dad
✔ Surrogacy of Mi-rae as she steps into head of household role: the complicated dynamics of competition that ensues when the biological dad returns.
THIS is the real love triangle of the family drama. A father, a mother, a daughter. A surrogate head vs the biological dad fighting over one woman -- a mother, a wife.
The tangle is best summed up by Moo-jin: "I just want to live with my wife. I am not going to take your mother away from you."
Bring on the popcorn. I want to watch them wade out of this hot mess 🍿🍿🍿
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tabong is ironing the crosswalk
August 21, 2024 at 3:32 AM
YES.
The brother is already walking his dad's footsteps by not telling his sister to stop wasting the money she doesn't have paying the college he's quitting. And the face he made when he heard that rich kid talk about how his parents paid for his business... Yep, it sounds like he's plan is to flex his dad. And the financially responsible Moo Jin would probably help him. 😒 I guess DNA is thick like the lover from the other show would say.
And the bet still makes my blood boil. This man lost his wife's business(life savings), their home, left her with TWO kids but didn't pay alimony, came back as her landlord, and he makes a bet about seducing her? He should be giving her that entire villa by default!
The more I think about it, the worst it gets. This situation is outrageous.
If mom gets back with this man, Mi Rae should wish her best luck and get the hell out of there. She did what she could.
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petrolia
August 22, 2024 at 1:16 PM
I looooooooove the idea of Mi Rae and Mom being on cahoots about the bet and stripping Dad (plus the suspicious tax guy) blank of their money, the house and sending them back to the woodworks they came from. Could we get a drama like this, please, stat? K or otherwise?
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10 Kurama
August 21, 2024 at 3:13 AM
For this drama, I want the mother to assert herself. Nobody is taken her seriously even her daughter thinks she needs to protect her mother from her father. She needs to show them she can take care of herself, her children and choose for herself.
Mi-Rae should take care of her own life. By overprotecting her brother, they made him immature. I understand they wanted him to have a life without the issues they had because of the father.
The father needs to start to apologize, money can't erase what he did in the past.
The CEO and son's relationship is cute.
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11 Martine
August 24, 2024 at 3:50 PM
I don't like that Moo Jin sounds guilty as heck. He gave unconvincing explanations to the tenants and plied them with alcohol like a cheap date. His comment about having for the former landlord forgiveness in the afterlife was rather suspicious.
I can't imagine that the show will make him out to be a murderer because who could root for someone like that?
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