[Drama Chat] Right drama, wrong timing
by mistyisles
K-dramas love to wax poetic about the idea of missed timing, especially as it pertains to love. It’s quite a bittersweet thought, that two people could be just right for each other if only they’d met sooner (or later), or if one had confessed earlier (or at all), or if life hadn’t gotten in the way and caused them to drift apart. But I think this can be true of drama-watching too — sometimes, we may find ourselves dropping a K-drama for no other reason than that it simply came along at the wrong time in our lives.
For example, I remember loving everything about Nokdu Flower. The characters, the cast, the story, the OST, everything. But then personal circumstances caused me to fall behind on episodes, and I just… never finished it. To this day, I still think about how wonderful those first however-many episodes were. And yet, I’ll probably never go back and finish it because, for some inexplicable reason, the window of time for me to watch and love that show has closed.
What drama did you end up dropping that you know you would have LOVED — if only you’d have watched it at a different time in your life?
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1 9TailedVixen (formerly 9TailedFox)
May 26, 2024 at 5:12 AM
This was me last November/December - I had to leave MY DEMON and WELCOME TO SAMDAL-RI halfway completed because I was so pressed for time getting ready for my sabbatical. And now I haven't gone back to them at all.
Instead I have moved on to LIKE FLOWER IN SAND, A SHOP FOR KILLERS etc (all of which I have completed).
I may or may not go back to those two dramas no matter how fond I am of K-Romance and supernatural dramas.
On another note: I see your clever mirroring of RM from BTS's RIGHT PLACE WRONG PERSON album title as the title of this article!
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Diana Hansen
May 26, 2024 at 4:34 PM
You caught that too! (RM)
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9TailedVixen (formerly 9TailedFox)
May 26, 2024 at 6:11 PM
Yup, kinda hard to miss especially since the buzz around the album is HUGE.
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2 Healer’s
May 26, 2024 at 5:33 AM
Kdramas I know I would love are so precious that their timing is never wrong. I always come back and finish them, so this syndrome has never happened to me.
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🌸 Seeker 🌸
May 26, 2024 at 7:24 AM
I think it is the same for me too. A drama I love can never be at a wrong time. However, a drama I would be interested in for *reasons* can come at a wrong time.
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Healer’s
May 26, 2024 at 7:54 AM
Exactly, and sometimes such *reasons" are not enough for you to come back.
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Nessa (Bebe) 🌹
May 26, 2024 at 8:08 PM
Same!
And this drama for me would be “It’s Okay to Not Be Okay”:
Love the cast and even got to the halfway mark of the drama, but for reasons I was never able to go back to it, but it was never about it being “right drama, wrong timing”. The reason was that the drama was simply WRONG in all other ways that came to mind
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🌸 Seeker 🌸
May 26, 2024 at 8:21 PM
In paper everything seems right - we love the cast, crew, plot seems something we'd be interstate in but perhaps the execution is such that on the whole the drama doesn't resonate with us.
In the opposite side is The Atypical Family. Went in thinking it is a light fairytale Cinderella with a magic wand who "cures" the ML and his family. Didn't expect to be much invested. But tbe drama not only surprised with its darker tones but reeled me right in. Even 2/3rd of the way in, I'm still equally intrigued and enthralled. 😊
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🌸 Seeker 🌸
May 26, 2024 at 8:23 PM
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interstateinterestedNessa (Bebe) 🌹
May 26, 2024 at 8:31 PM
Honestly, sometimes the dramas that take us by surprise are the best ones in terms of viewing experience and also for the heart ❤️ The Kdrama, “Marriage Contract”, is one such drama for me:
Went into it knowing the general premise and was expecting it to be a sobbing cry fest, but was surprised that it is actually a drama that has a really hopeful and positive message to it, which is a complete 180 difference in what I was expecting. It was still a sob fest in the last 1/3 of the drama, but it was the good and cathartic kind that I never knew I needed 🥹🥹
Nessa (Bebe) 🌹
May 26, 2024 at 8:36 PM
And yes, “It’s Okay to Not Be Okay” failed for me due to its execution and was the problem for me:
To me, personally (lovers of the drama, please don’t come after me 🫣), it was all sorts of wrong in handling the topic of mental health. NOT about the disabled— I love love love the ML’s older brother character with special needs and the actor who portrayed him did it beautifully and respectfully, but the rest of the drama and its parts on how it handled and portrayed mental health is just not right imho. The drama basically whittled mental health way down into a caricature and masked what mental health is really about and how much of an impact it really has on people who struggle with it and their loved ones sigh
🌸 Seeker 🌸
May 26, 2024 at 8:49 PM
@bebeswtz So true. While a long time fan of Uee, "Marriage Contract" made me a fan of Lee Seo Jin too. So much so I'm even excited for "High School Return of a Gangster". MC was a drama that shouldn't have worked for me at all, same as JBL. I usually stay away from tearjerkers. But both dramas caught my heart and never let go. 😂
zindigo
May 27, 2024 at 10:40 AM
@bebeswtz I agree the portrayal of mental health issues was lacking in It's Okay. The way I viewed it was that the central story was intense enough with the mental health issues of the 3 leads. I don't think the story could have handled much more "drama." So the patients at the hospital were mostly backdrop and foil for what was happening with the leads. That doesn't mean it was "ok," but practically speaking, I believe that's why it ended up that way.
3 jerrykuvira
May 26, 2024 at 5:56 AM
Hide, Nothing Uncovered, and Wonderful World aired about the same time, each featuring infidelity in marriages. And the descent into their behavior just kept dipping. I had to pick one of the 3 to watch instead and I opted for Nothing Uncovered. I ended up not completing it though. Stopped at episode 14. What makes the wrong timing in all these is that all were look forward to dramas. Hide had me looking forward to the 4 Lees; Wonderful World, Kim Nam-joo; Nothing Uncovered, Jang Seung-jo, Yeon Woo-jin and Kim Hanuel.
I think the latest wrong timing drama will be Resident Playbook which can't sit at any definite date thanks to the medical crisis occuring in SK. I do wish that screenwriter Lee Soo-yeon writes a drama around this topic when the heat has cooled a bit. She did same for Stranger - tackled the police-prosecutor investigative/indicting(I'm unsure of which) powers in Stranger 2.
Back to Resident Playbook, I don't know the content of this drama. But I don't know why they feel it should be off the shelf because of the social conditions at hand.
Another wrong timing will be the just concluded drama by the Penthouse duo, Escape of the Seven. It competed with far stellar performances throughout its run, both seasons. I thought it'd replicate the Penthouse magic. I'm not one of the viewers though.
And then I have the dramas that aired at a time when I was pressed for time. I simply axed them off.
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4 Midnight
May 26, 2024 at 6:12 AM
I'm going the reverse. I have recently watched Doctor Slump, and Thirty-nine, and I know for a certainty that my personal circumstances at the moment played a huge role in my falling in love and feeling every second of them with my whole heart.
Now I'm wondering what other shows I have missed in my life because of my circumstances at that moment.
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HopefulRomantic 🦋 Tigermoth 🦞
May 26, 2024 at 7:41 AM
Me too!! I've more often experienced "right drama, right time," when they either echo or answer where I'm at and what I'm feeling when I watch. I've felt this phenomenon most strongly with 30 But 17, Call it Love, and The Matchmakers. Sometimes I have a sense about a drama that it will be a case of "right drama, wrong time," and save it for an unspecified "later."
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zindigo
May 26, 2024 at 7:49 AM
Yes! I definitely get the "right drama, wrong time" feeling.
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Healer’s
May 26, 2024 at 7:53 AM
Me too, but the thing is I'll always come back to what I think I would love, so it's never a drop.
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Midnight
May 26, 2024 at 8:44 AM
If I think I'll love it, I always push on and finish it. I've never stopped a show thinking I'll love it if I come back to it at a later time.
I do this with genres, like I'm not in the mood for a crime thriller now, I'll get back to this one some other time. But not with the "feel" of the show. Like, if I drop a show thinking it is silly, I would never remember it if I was in the mood for something silly. That was simply over and done with.
It has been only recently that I have started to think that I might feel differently if I went back to some of my dropped or disliked shows. This is the main reason I'm going to rewatch Just Between Lovers.
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HopefulRomantic 🦋 Tigermoth 🦞
May 26, 2024 at 8:51 AM
That's such a good point about genres! I've definitely made a lot of watching choices based on if I'm in the mood for a specific genre or not. In general, I like switching between genres so I don't get burned out watching too many of the same genre in a row.
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Minnie🫘👩🏻🚀Pioneer and Teacher 👩🏻🏫🌱🏹
May 26, 2024 at 9:12 AM
I am feeling this about See You In My 19th Life.
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23new2kdrama🫘🌱 ❤️WDH❤️
May 28, 2024 at 8:04 PM
Are feeling wrong time for it?
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Skiee
May 26, 2024 at 9:32 AM
I also watch dramas based on my mood. specifically choosing genres and I do get a feeling when I drop one that it maybe because i wasn't in the mood not because the drama was bad, so I do come back to them later.Also I usually give 4 episodes to a drama to try but I figured recently that something should ",click" for me in the 1st two episodes. I also have a habit of watching dramas I don't like when I'm in a bad mood..Idk why I do that 😂 maybe because I don't have to concentrate much..
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Midnight
May 26, 2024 at 10:15 AM
That is a good strategy 😄
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Skiee
May 26, 2024 at 10:01 PM
Thank you thank you😉😉😁
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Minnie🫘👩🏻🚀Pioneer and Teacher 👩🏻🏫🌱🏹
May 26, 2024 at 11:57 AM
LOL! That's the funniest thing I have read today. Great strategy.
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Skiee
May 26, 2024 at 9:59 PM
😂😂😂🫠🫠
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23new2kdrama🫘🌱 ❤️WDH❤️
May 28, 2024 at 8:10 PM
Same- I watch 2 episodes and if I want to drop, the last episode and then I can tell if it’s not right. The critic in me would like to think there is something wrong with the production but more often it’s me not feeling the main leads. My enjoyment is very reliant on them and how obnoxious the family is. And I have been trying to get better at just letting go if it’s not right.
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Skiee
May 28, 2024 at 8:38 PM
Yes some dramas I know it's just me not the drama.. yes not continuing them is the good option because there are 100 of them and the ones you'll enjoy are hiding somewhere..I also don't trust the reviews , I watch it on my own and decide, I believe reviews are just personal opinion mostly and it will be different for everyone.
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5 zindigo
May 26, 2024 at 6:35 AM
I remember starting Welcome to Waikiki and thinking it was the stupidest thing I'd ever seen and dropped it after 2 episodes. At least a year or more later, I found myself wanting something super silly to watch, I picked it up again, and laughed long and loud at every episode. I really think so much of drama enjoyment is dependent on where we are in our lives at any given time.
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sonai
May 26, 2024 at 7:09 AM
Agreed! Sometimes, I just crave for a silly, fun and light watch. Other times I cannot stand it, and will turn to melo. It usually strongly aligns with whether I feel stressed, depressed, optimistic, bored etc.
I remember watching SITR when it felt just right - and feeling unable to watch anything like a lighter rom-com to follow up with. I started some shows and immediately dropped them, annoyed that they used silly sound effects (“It’s not a cartoon!”), or OTT characters to underline comedy (both of which I loved before and find hilarious now!). It just didn’t feel “real enough” to me at the time. 😅 Much later, I picked those dramas up again, and am happy to have laughed my way through them. (I think one of those shows was “What’s Wrong With Secretary Kim” and “Touch Your Heart” another.)
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zindigo
May 26, 2024 at 7:46 AM
SITR was definitely hard to follow up because it really CREATED a mood, right?! I had to go back and see what I watched after that and it was One Spring Night 😳 No wonder I didn't like ONS so much. It was too much drama piled on top of drama. So I followed that up with Forecasting Love and Weather, and now I see why I enjoyed it so much more than other people did at the time, LOL!!
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sonai
May 26, 2024 at 8:07 AM
Yes - and to be honest, SITR kinda broke my kdrama watching streak even, because I couldn’t find anything I wanted to watch next. 😂🫣 I was thrilled when ONS came out and really liked it, too. Maybe enough time passed between the two shows for me to handle all the drama 🤓 (Jung Hae-in might have helped, too. It’s just a speculation though.)
Really loved WTWIF, too! 🫰👏
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Bunny Sonaki
May 26, 2024 at 8:15 AM
WTWIF stands for?
zindigo
May 26, 2024 at 8:19 AM
@kdrama.bunny When the Weather Is Fine
sonai
May 26, 2024 at 8:28 AM
Whoops, I misread Forecasting Love & Weather for When the Weather is Fine 🙄 Sorry!
zindigo
May 26, 2024 at 8:59 AM
@sonai LOL, I just thought you were just throwing WTWIF in the mix as a similar drama to watch 😉 I LOVED that drama and it's a perfect example of one that you have to be in the mood to watch.
Also: JHI is a reason to watch any drama, tbh, regardless of mood. 🙃
Seon-ha
May 26, 2024 at 8:02 AM
Now that you both mention it, I've had the "oh, not for me" reaction to both Waikiki and Gaus Electronics after an episode or two...I wonder if this is a case of "right drama, wrong time," or I just don't like Korean "sit-coms."
I think folks say that Gaus gets funnier after the first episode? Is that right?
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HopefulRomantic 🦋 Tigermoth 🦞
May 26, 2024 at 8:08 AM
Whoa that surprises me given your enjoyment of Chicken Nugget and the humor in the first couple of episodes of Frankly Speaking! I liked the humor in both Waikiki and Gaus right away, but I think the general consensus was that most Beanies felt they got funnier as they went on. It might be right drama, wrong time, or maybe you just don't vibe with the "sitcom-y" sitch, and that's ok!
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Seon-ha
May 26, 2024 at 8:14 AM
Well, this nudge allows me to verbalize that Chicken Nugget was absurd in ways that Waikiki and Gaus didn't seem to be--they really were based on situational humor--and it was indeed the absurdity that I loved about the first episodes of FS (which, by the way, is now utterly and completely GONE).
zindigo
May 26, 2024 at 8:17 AM
I'm surprised too! Waikiki is broader humor but the actors really make it so funny. Gaus is sharper and might be more to your liking. I found it very funny. My personal rating of Gaus is higher than Waikiki, and it's actually one of my favorite k-dramas. Maybe give it a try again when it feels like "right time"!
HopefulRomantic 🦋 Tigermoth 🦞
May 26, 2024 at 8:19 AM
That's a great distinction, @attiton, and I totally get it!! Have you seen Pegasus Market? It has what I would characterize as an almost magical-realism (no fantasy though!!) sense of absurdity - more gentle than Chicken Nugget, but there all the same.
I, too, mourn the loss of the absurdity in the first two episodes of FS 😭 It was fabulous, I loved it, and I miss it.
sonai
May 26, 2024 at 8:22 AM
I didn’t watch either, but since GAUS is repeatedly mentioned on DB, I’m really intrigued by it. I guess as soon as it becomes available here, I’ll need to give it a try 🥳
But humor in Korean dramas is certainly sometimes “special”, and not everything works for me. I think it’s less timing then, more “not for me, never”. 😅 I’ve dropped many shows because of it, and never picked them up again. Surprisingly, sometimes I cannot say what triggered it either. (For example, Frankly Speaking was hilarious to me, toilet humor and all. But sometimes, toilet humor is unbearable!)
Seon-ha
May 26, 2024 at 9:14 AM
I have not seen Pegasus Market, @hopefulromantic. I think I dismissed it because of something @reply1988 said once?? Could that be, Reply? Did you dislike it? Here I am, casting guesswork aspersions on this Sunday! For shame...😂
I wish I could now remember who told me that I needed to push past the first episode of Gaus...was it @hacja ??
Seon-ha
May 26, 2024 at 9:16 AM
@sonai You are a master of understatement. Your humor is spot on!! 😅
Elinor, Team Glasses team co-captain
May 26, 2024 at 9:58 AM
@attiton The first episode of Gaus is an anomaly and there would never be a right time for its brand of 'humorous' cartoon violence, at least for me. In episode 2 that disappears and the rest of the show is far funnier, cleverer, and more absurd, although there's still plenty of situational humor. It was one of my favorite shows of that year. The epilogues are hilarious.
Seon-ha
May 26, 2024 at 10:00 AM
Thank you @elinor ! If it was you who had already told me this, I apologize for not remembering, 친구!
Back it goes on my list. @hopefulromantic that short list of mine is reaching the length of yours!!!
Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
May 26, 2024 at 9:20 AM
Pegasus market is really funny but they have a random 'tribe' dressed like cave men and they have a very simple language I think it's just one word but the intonation changes the meaning. They served a purpose but it just seemed a strange choice to bring in difference in such a ridiculous way. One theory was if they had made the people group too similar to a real population offence would have been taken BIG time.
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mindy
May 26, 2024 at 10:13 AM
That aspect of Pegasus Market made me quite uncomfortable and led to me dropping it. Everyone has different thresholds for what bothers them and what they can brush off, and personally for me I did not find the show interesting enough for that interest to overcome my distaste at the "tribe". Lots of people really enjoy it, though, and perhaps in a future when I'm running low on dramas to watch I would consider revisiting it!
hacja
May 26, 2024 at 1:27 PM
@attiton I might have been one of several to urge you to push past the first episode of Gaus, which remains for me generally the funniest kdrama I've ever seen because of its combination of absurdist, parodic, and situational humor. (For me, Chicken Nugget was more purely absurdist, as you say, which I like as well, but only some jokes hit for me. ) Both, though are very uneven, as the first episode of Gaus showed, and so I wasn't rolling around on the ground in laughter for every episode--its just individual lines, scenes, or character reactions that made me laugh, and there are more of them for me in Gaus than in any other show.
But, to fit with the interesting theme of this discussion, why one would drop a show that one generally likes, I think what I find funny depends more than any other response, on when I watch the scene or show.
While I know certain types of humor I'm never going to find funny--slapstick, humor that is based on humiliation or deep embarrassment, men acting like babies, especially when they are drunk (this last is a kdrama favorite); there will be some situations that tickle my funny bone when they happen and then I won't laugh after when they reoccur. Right now, for example, I am finding certain scenes in Midnight Romance in Hagwon hilarious even though they are intended to be serious, but will I find the same scenes funny next year or several months from now? I guess it depends on whether I continue I find the ost "Don't Forget about me" really funny, which I do certainly do right now. (In fact, I recommend everyone whether they are watching that show or not, to sing along to that song, as I do everytime it plays. Its more fun than a barrel of monkeys!
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Bunny Sonaki
May 26, 2024 at 8:07 AM
I watched both SITR snd OSN. Both followed complicated love stories but I liked OSN better modtly because of FL's unbearable and toxic mum in SITR. Not that all the male characters in OSN were any better. I can't wrap my head around how they went to arrange the wedding though FL was seeing another one.
Random fact I watched those shows consecutively starting with OSN
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FlourPower
May 27, 2024 at 4:40 AM
I watched SITR once and was just writhing in anger most of the time, wanting to vent here on DB about so many aspects. I was exhausted afterwards. A few shows later I then watched OSN and found myself gyrating between many highs (the main pairing, FL becoming close with ML's son, ML's friends, all the female characters) and the very low lows (the dads, the FL's ex, the violent brother-in-law). I've happily re-watched OSN three or four times, and because I remember the story I can just skip past all the scenes dislike and it leaves with me with an assured 8 hours or so of pure enjoyment.
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Bunny Sonaki
May 26, 2024 at 7:12 AM
Plus one, I hardly made it through ep 1. But ot might really be because of the bad timing though I never went back to it again
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zindigo
May 26, 2024 at 7:42 AM
There are so many new dramas to watch every year that I feel like it doesn't really matter whether we end up going back to watch or not. But it IS interesting to reflect on why we chose/didn't choose or liked/didn't like a particular drama through the lens of our mood or life state at the time.
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Bunny Sonaki
May 26, 2024 at 8:09 AM
Well said. We always have other shows to watch but pondering on our watching patterns is for sure interesting.
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HopefulRomantic 🦋 Tigermoth 🦞
May 26, 2024 at 7:46 AM
Yes!! This has happened to me a couple of times when I watched an episode or two and said NOPE, but came back to it at a later date and enjoyed it. I'm going to finish My Perfect Stranger and River Where The Moon Rises this summer, because I sense the time is right for me to more fully enjoy them now.
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zindigo
May 26, 2024 at 7:50 AM
How long has it been since you started those two dramas?
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HopefulRomantic 🦋 Tigermoth 🦞
May 26, 2024 at 7:59 AM
I was live watching My Perfect Stranger last year (I think it was airing around this time?) and got a heads-up about a plot point that happens in ep. 8 that I didn't think I could handle (a clip on YouTube from the ep made me cry), but post- Twinkling Watermelon and Lovely Runner, I'm craving more time-slip dramas with a side of saving loved ones in the past, plus I LOOOVE its vibe and instrumental soundtrack, so I'm going to ff through the "stuff" and try again! I started River this last fall (or winter?) and it wasn't quite what I was expecting, and I have a hard time connecting with the FL (I often find that with this actress), BUT, I'm currently watching Mr. Queen and have a strong case of SLS that I want to soothe with him in a historical ML role 😉🥰
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zindigo
May 26, 2024 at 8:56 AM
@hopefulromantic Wow, MPS is a perfect example of right drama, wrong time... and I totally forgot about it along the way. Your description is reminding me why I was originally intrigued. Let us know when you decide to rewatch. I may watch with you! 🤗
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HopefulRomantic 🦋 Tigermoth 🦞
May 26, 2024 at 9:04 AM
It's a very vibe-y drama, if that makes sense, and I was LOVING the colors, lighting, music, pacing, etc. I'm thinking I'm going to pick it back up at ep. 8 rather than rewatching from the beginning, and I may start it this next week since I'm on vacation - Kdrama bonanza extravaganza!! 😂 I'd definitely love to hear your take if you start it!!
HopefulRomantic 🦋 Tigermoth 🦞
May 26, 2024 at 10:01 AM
Oops, I misspoke - I watched through ep. 8 when I stalled; I'll be restarting My Perfect Stranger at ep. 9.
zindigo
May 26, 2024 at 10:42 AM
@hopefulromantic Hmmm... I may not get to it until July. But I'll be watching for your WWW comments! 👍
Midnight
May 26, 2024 at 9:00 AM
This is very interesting. If I have said NOPE! once, I'll never go back to it. I either won't even remember it, or remember the nope all too clearly.
Maybe it is time to think differently. Or maybe life is too short and there are too many dramas😂
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HopefulRomantic 🦋 Tigermoth 🦞
May 26, 2024 at 9:07 AM
I will caveat this to say this is very, VERY rare for me - my good opinion of a drama, once lost, is lost forever, so to speak 😂 life's too short for sub-par dramas!!
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sonai
May 26, 2024 at 9:19 AM
What excellent
boiled potatoesquote! 👏🫰👏Seon-ha
May 26, 2024 at 9:36 AM
Oh, Hopeful, if "that one drama" shows up in front of you, at just the right time, singing and playing piano just so beautifully ...you'll sit up and listen 😉
zindigo
May 26, 2024 at 10:46 AM
I love you all! 🤗😂😉
6 Bunny Sonaki
May 26, 2024 at 7:13 AM
Hello Monster
Three Musketeers
So I married an antifan
I don't know if it is timing issues or those dramas weren't for me in the first place.
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Bunny Sonaki
May 26, 2024 at 7:17 AM
The producers was a similar case but I got back to it later.
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7 Storyenthusiast
May 26, 2024 at 11:47 AM
Normally if I drop a show, I’m done for good. The one exception to that rule so far is My Girlfriend is a Gumiho. Originally I quit after the first few episodes. I just felt it was cheesy and the older production values frustrated me. But I gave it another shot a year later and really loved Shin Min A’s adorably innocent Gumiho.
It’s more frequent for me to not have any interest in a show when it first airs or after reading rave reviews about older series and then later decide it’s worth my time. My contrarian nature has to be overcome first. Some that didn’t interest me initially but became favorites later are Just Between Lovers, Hospital Playlist and Fiery Priest.
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8 hacja
May 26, 2024 at 1:47 PM
I don't drop that many shows after they've passed the 4 episode test. (the ones I do drop late are generally fantasies like Midnight Studio, 19th Life, and My Demon, that just get more and more absurd, change the fantasy rules, and pretty much undermine any sympathy I might have with the characters--so I say that's it, I can't suspend my belief any more. That response has nothing to do with how I'm feeling at the time. Its the shows fault! )
But there is one show I'm watching now, which I like, I find it interesting--but for whatever reason, now is not the right time, so I'm going to put it aside for now: Uncle Samsik. Its the kind of serious political drama involving a minor degree of intrigue and suspense, that I find takes a kind of intellectual engagement on my part. So maybe I'm just slothful as we enter the lazy hazy crazy days of summer. Also, I think if I was teaching this time period in Korean history, I'd love it, because it would be fun to play the game of connecting the fictional characters to real life ones. But I'm not, so I'm temporarily crying Uncle, and I hope to get back to it later.
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May 26, 2024 at 3:01 PM
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Neolttwigi
May 26, 2024 at 3:48 PM
Almost the first time I have regretted not having sons....
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Vladdles
May 26, 2024 at 11:48 PM
I just can't do zombies especially Korean zombies because they are really really fast and most have a certain level of intelligence whereas western zombies are usually depicted as slow and stupid. The one exception was Lee Se-Young's 'Richie' in Hwayugi/A Korean Odssey.
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Sam
May 27, 2024 at 8:06 AM
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wonhwa
May 27, 2024 at 4:57 PM
That's awesome! My son also loves horror, but I alas am really bad at all things slasher and zombie.
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10 jillian
May 26, 2024 at 4:56 PM
If I know I would like a drama I usually go back to it and finish it. Examples are OTVOI and Misaeng. I didnt watch it live and only got to it months later.
I would normally drop a drama if I end of disliking something about it and never going back.
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11 tabong is ironing the crosswalk
May 26, 2024 at 5:13 PM
That happens to me with melodramas.
I haven't finished Call it Love or Human Disqualification because I haven't been in the mood for it. I have to be sad but not too sad? 😂😂
For melos the timing has to be perfect. Shows like My Ahjussi, Live, Seasons of Blossom, My Liberation Notes, etc, gave me the comfort I needed it at that moment in my life.
I couldn't watch Human Disqualification because I wasn't sad enough. 😂 And I couldn't get into the mood for Call it Love because I was too sad for it. 😂 Or maybe it was the opposite, 🤔 Idk.
And that's also why I can't rewatch melodramas easily. I remember that I watched My Ahjussi on air, and then rewatched multiple times after that. For like a year or two, because I was in the same tone of the show. But if I try to watch it now, it won't do much for me.
I loved You Are My Spring, because everything they said in that show felt like words directed to me at the time. That was a very healing experience. But I'm not sure how I would feel about it now.
And not only melos, but any drama that has like a deep message that resonates with me from any point in my life, becomes hard to rewatch after that period of time. I rewatched FBND like crazy for six years and then never was able to finish it again.
That always happens unless I go back to feeling that way.
In other cases it could be that a show I loved before can become a show that I hate now because I've changed and my life has changed.
For something that I read about Live, I'm pretty sure that if I try to rewatch it now I will completely hate it. But back then that was probably the type of show I needed.
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12 Roumma
May 26, 2024 at 11:33 PM
I started Cinderella and the Four Knights and I probably wasn’t in the mood at the time to watch a romantic series so stopped after Ep 4. After watching Bossam: Steal the Fate, I went back to mainly to see Jung Il-woo and got into Cinderella and the FKs and finished the series. Not in my Top 10 romantic series but enjoyable nevertheless.
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13 Roumma
May 26, 2024 at 11:35 PM
Should add that I loved The Nokdu Flower.
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14 Gikata
May 27, 2024 at 1:40 AM
It's not exactly the answer to the question, but I really prefer to watch drams live most of the time, because when I binge one I can hit pause for variety of reasons and likely never pick it up. But! Some shows are just not made for slow and torturous live-watch, let's admit it. So when this preference of mine and show don't match, it ends up becoming a regret.
This is also connected to Crappy Ending Syndrome - there's plenty of dramas that I watched live and loved madly only to be disappointed big time by how they ended. To the point of begrudgingly admitting that if I stumbled upon these shows once they were already completed and read about how much they suck in the last episodes (I love me some spoilers, OK?), I'd NEVER touch them at all and thus would've missed out on a lot of fun before things inevitably turned sour. So yes, certain dramas are ALL about timing for me.
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15 Isa is always time travelling
May 27, 2024 at 2:00 AM
I think I started Reply 1988 in the wrong moment, maybe too early, because I only watched two episodes (the sound effects were almost unbearable). The same happened with Healer (also two episodes). I started these shows when I had been watching k-dramas for three of four months and even though that was not the right time yet, I know I want to re-start them in the future.
And the same goes for Gaus Electronics, Waikiki or Perfect Stranger. I'm sure I started them in the wrong time.
Several months ago I started Joy of Life and only watched the first two episodes because I wasn't enjoying it, but I resumed it some weeks ago and I love it.
A different thing is my case with Six Flying Dragons. I started it more than a year ago but I'm unable to binge-watch it (despite of liking it).I have been stuck on episode 35 for months.
But maybe one day, when it's the right time, I'll go back to it and I'll finish the rest of episodes in a few days.
About Nokdu Flower, I encourage everybody to give it a try. It's a wonderful drama.
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wonhwa
May 27, 2024 at 4:56 PM
Healer took several episodes to get rolling for me, but once it did it was wonderful. It's definitely one of those shows where the weakest episodes are right at the beginning. I loved Six Flying Dragons, but I agree that that's a tough one to binge - I live watched it when it aired and 2 episodes a week was about the perfect amount, and left time to research the history, sort out the dozens of characters and process the angst.
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16 Minnie🫘👩🏻🚀Pioneer and Teacher 👩🏻🏫🌱🏹
May 28, 2024 at 9:04 PM
Watching a drama is definitely related to the mood, though I must admit it's also the leads. If the leads are good, I will end up watching it, but at times I have watched drama where I was more invested in the story and the time and the genre was right (Mr Sunshine for example).
I also have found I seldom if ever go back to a drama if I have dropped it.
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17 marblebees
May 29, 2024 at 12:00 AM
I don't think this fits the question completly, but I think I couldn't love Signal as much as I could have because of Viki Comments. They are fine and funny most of the time, but the amount of vile comments i've seen for signal is insane.
There were so many misogynistic comments about the FL, blowing her flaws out of proportion, saying she should be in the kitchen and being mad at her for doing things the ML's also often did (like going somewhere alone) I saw a comment going as far to say that she wanted to sa'd because she does this??? Not to mention death treaths and saying a character deserved being sa'd by dozens of boys because she was pressured to lie and feared for her life. Oh boy glad I never was stupid enough again to enable viki comments.
I only managed to finish the show after I stopped using viki comments xD.
Either way, I hate that I think of those comments when I think of this show xD. I hope this will change with the coming season 2 ^^.
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18 SVG
May 30, 2024 at 7:53 AM
For me, it's When the Weather is Fine. I generally like PMY, and I enjoyed this as an introduction to SKJ. I love books and slow burns and snow/rain and warm cups of coffee/tea and countryside settings. This drama was 100% made for me. Except... Honestly, except what? I couldn't tell you. For some reason, I got to ep 11 and got pulled away by either real life or shiny new dramas, and my interest just fizzled. I think in a different season (both weather (ha) and life), this would be in my top 10. But instead, it's in my list of puzzling drops - this drama and I should be a match made in Dramaland, but instead, it's the second male lead. I should like it. Everything about it is exact to my specifications. But it has to sadly watch me walk away, stars in my eyes, toward my next male lead drama.
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19 hotpotato
June 3, 2024 at 3:56 PM
Hospital Playlist was the right drama but wrong timing for me. I watched an episode when it first came out, but couldn't get into it mostly because of all the real life hospital news and trauma that was happening in the world with COVID lockdown. I tried to watch it again in 2022 and still couldn't do it. Tried for a third time last year and loved it so much and binged both seasons. I found myself healing, laughing, and crying along with the characters but probably won't watch it for a few more years because of how emotionally exhausting it is. It's a fantastic drama, but you do have to be in the right head space for it.
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