Like Flowers in Sand: Episode 2
by missvictrix
With nothing to do all day now that he’s declared himself retired, our hero spends most of his time thinking about the arrival of the mysterious young woman in town. He’s the only one who’s convinced of her true identity, but he has nothing to go by except his heart of gold.
Editor’s note: Weekly drama coverage will continue.
EPISODE 2
Is it too soon to declare my favorite hero of 2024, because if I thought Baek-du stole my heart in Episode 1, it’s only worse now. I’m whipped. He’s so simple and sweet and thoroughly genuine. He’s a 32-year-old man who still gets slapped and scolded by his mom, who talks to himself all the time in a way that’s hilarious and relatable, and who has found himself a bit at sea in life, unsure of his decisions and where they’ve led him.
But there’s one thing Baek-du is sure about, and that is the fact that this pretty young girl who just moved into town is his old friend Doo-shik. We see a wonderful and nostalgic flashback to Baek-du, Doo-shik, and the other neighborhood kids, and see how rough and tumble Doo-shik was. With her masculine name and tendency to beat the boys to a pulp, it’s no surprise that people assumed she was a boy when they heard her story.
But a boy she’s not. She’s super pretty now, and we see that as a kid she was teased over her looks, which is part of why she became such a fighter. Also, her dad was a famous ssireum athlete, too.
As we saw at the end of Episode 1, Baek-du is convinced on he spot that she’s Doo-shik, and after he gets up from getting thrown on his back, he tells her as much. He’s insisting — adorable, emphatic — why she has to be her, but after the girl denies enough, he switches to polite speech and aww I love him even more.
But the girl’s denial doesn’t change Baek-du’s surety, and it’s this thread we follow for most of the episode. He has absolutely nothing to go on except his intuition. All his pals that were also friends with her see no resemblance (as they peek not-so-stealthily over her backyard wall lol) and Baek-du’s cop friend in particular — CHO SEOK-HEE (Lee Joo-seung) — can’t see how an ugly kid could have grown up so pretty.
A neighborhood meeting creates the perfect opportunity for not-Doo-shik to meet her neighbors. Though she sits alone at a table (in a topknot and white blouse, drinking her makgeolli), Baek-du can’t stop staring at her as if he’s trying to pierce a hole in her armor. His mother notices, and pretty soon the other ajummas are needling info out of her in their incredibly unsubtle way. We learn that she’s here for work as “a civil servant” and that her name is OH YOO-KYUNG. We don’t get to hear her answer if she’s married, but we do see how she’s uncomfortably listening to them talk about the man who drowned in the town reservoir.
This is a great scene on a lot of levels, but I love how the drama captures Baek-du’s fixation on Yoo-kyung. It’s clearly so much more than attraction or romantic interest. He’s desperately hoping for little facts or tidbits that will prove to him his hunch is right. In fact, he’s so emotionally invested in Yoo-kyung being Doo-shik that he follows her after the meeting and she confronts him with exactly that question. He bumbles adorably, as we have come to know him, and explains that they were very very close friends. “Soulmate,” he sputters, using the English word, and absolutely shattering my heart.
Yoo-kyung denies her identity again, and Baek-du admits that he’s the only one who thinks she’s Doo-shik — no one else sees it, or recognizes her, or anything else, but he can’t shake the feeling that it’s her. It’s not until he offhandedly mentions he retired from ssireum that there’s a little glimmer of something in Yoo-kyung’s reaction. She takes it personally and goes on a “How could you do this to Doo-shik if I was Doo-shik” rant that causes Baek-du to positively gleam. “You sound just like her right now,” he says.
When next we see him, Baek-du is more convinced than ever that Yoo-kyung is Doo-shik, so much that he unfortunately ignores the screeches of his laundry-folding mom and is soon sent to the gym with an ajumma cart to collect his shorts from his locker. I mean, just watching Baek-du walk through the neighborhood with the cart to fetch his stuff is enough to squeeze your heart, but when he sneaks into the locker room through the back door so he doesn’t have to see his teammates? As in keeping with Episode 1, we don’t really know what Baek-du is feeling yet, but the long, slow take as he looks over his locker photos and paraphernalia gives us our first clue.
Baek-du’s about to escape with his shorts without attracting attention, when he’s stopped in his tracks. The team suddenly has not only support from the mayor, but a new manager: Yoo-kyung. Baek-du is literally floored and stuck to the window watching this whole thing unfold. The wrestling team dudes are obviously not sure what to do with this skinny girl who’s suddenly supposed to be telling them how to fight, but when she recites the play-by-play of one of the athlete’s recent humiliating losses, and then uses an advance technique to throw him on his back — well, they’re convinced.
This scene would be great on its own, but it’s even more fun because we’re watching with Baek-du from the sidelines, and we get his live commentary warning his team not to let Doo-shik’s temper flare up, and so on. He’s even more convinced than ever that Doo-shik has returned.
Thus far, Baek-du’s famous wrestling father KIM TAE-BAEK (Choi Moo-sung, yesss) has been a bit of a mystery. It’s unclear what sort of relationship they have, and if his parents even still live together at first. We heard that Dad retired to become a ginseng digger, and we saw him attend Baek-du’s final championship, but now we get a one-on-one interaction between father and son when he drags Baek-du back to the gym.
Dad’s simple “have a match with me before you quit” is not as simple as it sounds. Of course, Baek-du loses round after round and there’s only so many times you can get slammed to the sand before your emotions come flying out. It’s here we learn that Baek-du doesn’t know what he wants or what to do. He threatened to retire, but he expected people to stop him. When no one did, he didn’t know what to do. Even more so, when his dad tries to prod him into trying again and finally proving himself, Baek-du worries: what happens if I don’t prove anything even after trying again. It’s another great scene, and we feel all the immobility and self-doubt that Baek-du does, stuck between what he once dreamed of, and what he’s afraid to hope for now.
The scene is only made more important because Yoo-kyung has been in the office and seen the whole thing play out. We also got an important scene with her moments before this when she looks at the ssireum roster, giggles at Baek-du’s huge smile in his picture, and slips into her old satoori talking to herself. Aww, she’s as cute as he is, goshdarnit.
This night gym scene leads to the final confrontation between Baek-du and Yoo-kyung. Baek-du is laying on his back in the sand sorting through his feelings (which seems to be his MO), and Yoo-kyung comes over, first telling him to leave, but eventually breaking her cover entirely with banmal, full-on satoori, and telling him, “Thanks to you, my plans will be ruined. Since when did you catch onto things so fast?”
But just when she’s about to answer his question for the millionth time about whether she’s really Doo-shik or not, a dude that’s been lingering around the gym pops in and calls her with a “Yeobo!” (a.k.a. there’s a 98% chance they’re a married couple.) Baek-du is as crestfallen as I am.
What a great second episode! Though the plot moves slowly, it also moves carefully, and Episode 2 continued weaving in deeper emotional layers to our characters – and also hinting at the mystery of Doo-shik’s past, her reappearance, and whatever the heck that has to do with the reservoir drowning (now possibly more of a strangling). But for those darker corners of the story, the drama also maintains its sweetness, and that’s wholly because of Baek-du. Our pure-hearted and somewhat bumbling hero is the flesh and blood of this story, and I’m here for it.
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Tags: Choi Moo-sung, Jang Dong-yoon, Kim Bora, Lee Joo-myung, Lee Joo-seung, Like Flowers in Sand, Yoon Jong-seok
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1 Blue (@mayhemf)
December 23, 2023 at 2:11 PM
Baek-du 😍😍😍
I like Baek Du and his mom. Their moments are sweet. Even when she yells at him or hits him, there is tenderness at moments.
I quite find all the side characters interesting.
I love the whole ‘you are Du-Shik’ conversation. And her trying to hint to him why she would deny it and he goes all out and says ‘you are Du-Ashok, right??’ He is just so adorable.
Nooo!! No husband please 🙃
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Blue (@mayhemf)
December 23, 2023 at 3:05 PM
Also, Thanks for choosing to recap the show!
Hope more beanies watch it.
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Diana Hansen
December 24, 2023 at 8:52 AM
I'll be starting this one today I think. It sounds like a feel good show that I need.
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2 bbstl 🧹
December 23, 2023 at 4:34 PM
A hundred years ago I saw an Australian drama in which a woman was murdered by her husband but see, she actually washed up somewhere and had a ton of plastic surgery and came back unrecognizable to exact her revenge. Dun!dun!dun!
Logically I have been waiting for a similar plot to show up in kdrama since we all know that South Korea is the world capital of plastic surgery. Could this be that show? Is she protecting her post-surgery face with the parasol?
Well, I don’t know but I’m sure here to find out!🤔🤔🤔 Although as I mentioned on the fanwall, I was hoping that the mystery new guy was going to announce that HE was Oh Du Shik, that’s probably way too far for kdrama.
Thank you @missvictrix for the recaps!
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Kafiyah Bello
December 23, 2023 at 4:50 PM
That didn't occur to me, but I also didn't think she was an ugly child, so it isn't crazy she "glowed" up, but that would be fun.
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bbstl 🧹
December 23, 2023 at 6:46 PM
Yes, she was not an ugly child at all! I guess it was the boys sort of “pulling her pigtails” to keep telling her that. Silly boys!
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DancingEmma
December 23, 2023 at 5:29 PM
OMG! Was there a crocodile in the Aussie drama as I remember a schlocky murder and revenge miniseries with such a plot in the nineties!
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bbstl 🧹
December 23, 2023 at 6:36 PM
I must go hunt for this old show now!
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bbstl 🧹
December 23, 2023 at 6:40 PM
Omg! It took exactly one second to find it 😂🐊😂
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bbstl 🧹
December 23, 2023 at 6:41 PM
Ooops, got too excited:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Return_to_Eden
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DancingEmma
December 23, 2023 at 6:43 PM
This is it! So bad it is almost watchable!
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bbstl 🧹
December 23, 2023 at 6:49 PM
Wow, reading the details now is a stitch! Of course she came back and became a (40-something+) supermodel!
Sounds like Dr Slump needs to study with this Australian plastic surgeon to get back on his game.
Snow Flower
December 23, 2023 at 8:13 PM
I remember watching this long time ago! So bad it's good!
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miso
December 23, 2023 at 11:42 PM
I have, unfortunately, seen the Hindi remake of this and it was equally SO BAD IT'S GOOD 😂
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bbstl 🧹
December 24, 2023 at 9:22 AM
Oh my, a remake! Now I really do want a Korean one, too 😆
KDramaJoy
February 12, 2024 at 1:16 PM
Yes, I saw that one years ago and loved its ridiculous plot and the alligators. Thanks!
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Blue (@mayhemf)
December 23, 2023 at 5:51 PM
Omg!! 😂😂
Now I want this in a drama!!
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I ♥️ bad dramas
December 28, 2023 at 1:14 AM
Birth of a Beauty has this ridiculous storyline. Joo Sang-wook and Han Ye-seul make it watchable but they're not entirely enough (specially the later episodes)
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3 Kafiyah Bello
December 23, 2023 at 4:49 PM
I really enjoy all the characters. Baek Du is so earnest in everything he does. His mom yells often, but at the women's meeting you catch her rubbing his back and it is really sweet. He seems to have no issues with his dad either. Also obviously the woman is Du Shik, why she is lying to Baek Du who honestly just wants to know, I am not sure, but here we are. I hope she tells him next episode.
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DancingEmma
December 23, 2023 at 5:24 PM
I see that you are a bit more warmed up towards this than before. Hurrah!
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Kafiyah Bello
December 24, 2023 at 1:46 PM
Yes, lol.
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4 LaurenSophie
December 23, 2023 at 5:06 PM
Another very charming and intriguing episode.
I just loved the way that Baek-du completely wore Du-shik down to the point where she made it abundantly clear that he was right: she IS Du-shik. But Baek-du still had to ask "Ok, but you ARE Du-shik, right?" like he just needs her to say it explicitly out loud that he was correct all along. He kills me--in all the good ways.
I was totally thrown by the potential husband and have no theories at all as to what happened to Du-shik to make her up and leave and now return, possibly married. She's a complete enigma at this point, and I'm willing to let the show slowly peel away the layers.
Since I'm not sure what genre best describes this show (and this is one of its strengths), I'm not yet bothered by the murder mystery lingering in the background. It fits the bittersweet, slice-of-life style and tone of the story and setting so far, which makes me hopeful it's going to add to the plot rather than take it over.
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DancingEmma
December 23, 2023 at 5:22 PM
I hope she isn’t married as a boyfriend could also “여보“, ‘yeobo’.
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bbstl 🧹
December 23, 2023 at 8:54 PM
Yeah, I didn’t like that “I’ve been looking for you” 😒
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tabong
December 24, 2023 at 11:02 AM
I hope it's a contract marriage and they're in the middle of the divorce. 🥺
Tbh, at first I got scared and thought that she was running away from him. He didn't give me good vibes.
But I don't want that to be the case, so I'll just go with my contact marriage theory. Haha.
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5 DancingEmma
December 23, 2023 at 5:17 PM
Thank you@missvictrix!
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6 hacja
December 23, 2023 at 9:13 PM
For a number of reasons, primarily because he is so obviously flawed, washed up, not that smart, and retired, I really identify with the ML. Thats good, because Jang Dong-yoon is really portraying this character well, making him really appealing and not pathetic Of course, there's the wrestler theme, which might involve some cheesy inspirational story of him coming back to youthful greatness. I hope not.
Also if the show gets entangled in some sort of melodramatic murder plot involving the FL, I'll be really disappointed, understanding that already that's going to be an unavoidable part of the background story.
So I thank @missvictrix for her recap of the first two episodes--she captured exactly what I was feeling about this show so far, and I just hope it continues along the same lines as the first 2 episodes!
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tabong
December 24, 2023 at 11:09 AM
"there's the wrestler theme, which might involve some cheesy inspirational story of him coming back to youthful greatness."
I don't want that either, but I feel like it's really hard to expect a different direction from a drama, a sport drama. 😔
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7 Kurama
December 24, 2023 at 2:35 AM
I wished this drama being a simple story but there are too many mysteries for that... Why happened in the past to Doo-Shik she had to leave? Why she came back? Hide her real identity? What is her famous plan where she needs him? And the murder...
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emsel
December 24, 2023 at 7:24 AM
I think everything will circle back to match fixing and booking.
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8 emsel
December 24, 2023 at 7:27 AM
@missvictrix Thanks for an excellent recap of summarising Baek Du's emotion. I have nothing much to add, except I hope they show more ssireum matches
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9 pliplipli
December 24, 2023 at 3:23 PM
this drama has this eery vibe at times and for now I'm enjoying it a lot but I hope it doesnt drag everything down going for too long. I'm kinda happy that she confirmed who she is, at least fo baekdu. he's a bit dense so I expect him to end up telling everyone else by mistake or something.
I dont think this guy is really her husband. I think they were at most engaged and she broke up and left to another city, but he wants her back and keeps calling her as her wife bcs... man lol
I really love jang dongyoon as an actor and he's just so good doing this type of underdog, earnest guy storyline. it has been the year of JDY but I will never complain about this. he's just super charming. he always gives his best for each role. easily one of my go-to actors to watch.
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books7time
December 25, 2023 at 11:10 PM
He is also one of my go-to actors. Since I first saw him in Poem a Day and Dance Sport Girls, I have been rooting for his career. So relieved to see him back in meaty roles.
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10 books7time
December 25, 2023 at 11:08 PM
I am pleased that you will be recapping this @missvictrix. The plot is being unfolded leisurely but intentionally while the characters are written to grab your heart , especially Kim Baek Du. I am beyond giddy to see JDY in this role.
I was actually shocked by the "yeobo" scene. I had a couple theories going as to his identity, but her boyfriend/husband was not on of them. I really hope it is staged because already I want Kim Baek Du and Du Shik to have a chance together --if that is what they both want. But I get a sense of malevolence from the "boyfriend" character--something is definitely off there.
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