[Friday Flashback: Movie Edition] Seducing Mr. Perfect
by DaebakGrits
Released: 2006
Genre: Romance, Comedy
Synopsis: Min-joon (Uhm Jung-hwa) is a romantic with an optimistic and trusting approach to relationships. Robin Heiden (Daniel Henney), however, is a cynic who views dating as a competitive game, and he believes the only way to survive the game unscathed is to be the one in power calling all the shots. When these two collide (literally), it’s chaos, but then Min-joon decides to play Robin’s game…
Why You Should (Or Shouldn’t) Watch Seducing Mr. Perfect:
After the last Friday Flashback feature of My Name is Kim Sam-soon, I felt like I didn’t give enough appreciation for Daniel Henney, a half-Korean American who rocketed into South Korean fame during mid-2000s even though he didn’t speak Korean! His success is a bit of an anomaly, but as we all know, a pretty face and chocolate abs can open doors in dramaland. So, in honor of Daniel Henney, I’m switching things up for this Friday Flashback and covering a movie instead of a drama.
While my memory is too foggy to confirm if Seducing Mr. Perfect was the first Korean film I ever watched, it’s definitely one that has stuck with me the longest. Daniel Henney — and his prominently featured pectoral muscles — obviously factored into the unforgettableness of the movie, but I think Seducing Mr. Perfect is more noteworthy because of how the story accommodated Daniel Henney’s lack of Korean fluency.
Instead of having him bumble through Korean dialogue, they established his character, Robin Heiden, as being a multilingual Korean-American businessman who understands Korean but struggles with pronunciation. So, for the duration of the movie, Robin speaks in English while his Korean business partners and his love interest — who are proficient enough in English to comprehend what he’s saying, too — comfortably use their native language to converse with him.
This bilingual arrangement not only works well in context of the plot, but it sets the story up for miscommunication and comical hijinks — most notably when Robin first meets his future love interest Min-joon, who pretends she doesn’t speak English when she accidentally rear ends him in traffic. Of course, in a classic case of it’s-a-small-world-after-all, Min-joon hands Robin her business card, and he realizes she works for him. And that’s how she becomes his reluctant assistant while he’s in South Korea.
The arrangement forces them to be in close proximity, and it’s during this time that Robin deduces — and voices his unsolicited insight — that Min-joon’s boyfriend is cheating on her. And how does he know that her man is a cheater-cheater-pumpkin-eater? Well, Robin recognizes the scummy pattern of behavior because, according to him (and this is a direct quote): “That’s what I do when I cheat.”
That’s right, our leading man openly admits to cheating in his relationships, and his questionable morals don’t end there, folks. No, he also believes that dating is a game, and the way to win — and avoid getting your heart crushed — is by being aloof and in control of the narrative. (Jaded much?)
Despite his flaws, though, Robin remains an appealing character, partly because of his frank, unfiltered honesty, but also because there are a few solid nuggets of advice underneath his disenchanted dating philosophies. His dating pointers aren’t so much “how to get laid and take advantage of people” — as one would expect from a man who cavalierly admits to cheating — but learning to respect oneself and ensuring you don’t give more to a relationship than you’re receiving.
Even so, Min-joon disagrees with his advice and sets out to prove him wrong, but her tactics mostly result in unintended silliness, secondhand embarrassment, and — thanks to one scene in which the writer/director thought it would be funny to mislead Robin into thinking Min-joon was doing the hanky-panky — some borderline incestuous sibling wrestling.
She may be a bit naïve and overly trusting, but I prefer Min-joon’s optimistic approach to dating. Predictably, Robin realizes he does, too, as she works her rom-com magic with her cringey — but mostly adorable — behavior. He falls for her, and the moral of the story, Beanies, is that it’s stupid to play dating games, especially when you’re trying to find a legitimate connection.
But is the happy ending worth sitting through Seducing Mr. Perfect? Overall, it’s a pretty fun story if you take it at face value, and the set-up and execution remind me of Hollywood romantic comedies from the same decade. Plus, it’s a movie, so in the worst case scenario, you only waste 107 minutes of your life — which is a total walk in the park for veteran drama watchers who have slogged through worse and for longer periods of time.
That being said, the time constraint does come with some expected flaws, like secondary characters who lift right out of the plot because they’re one-dimensional. Ironically, the inability to delve deeper into the characters’ backstories might have saved Robin’s characterization because it helps to gloss over some of his less appealing qualities — like his whole “tragic” backstory which led to him being a dating cynic.
Now, I’m not going to spoil this doozy of a reveal for you, but let’s just say if you dwell on it longer than the two seconds the movie dedicates to it, you’ll realize Robin has more red flags than a Swiss National Day parade. Wait — you know what? Watch this movie. I need more people who can laugh with me over the absurd romanticization of Robin’s heartbreak — and bullet wound origin story. (Yeah, you read that last bit correctly, and if that alone doesn’t pique your interest, I don’t know what will.)
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1 Fan from Nigeria
August 26, 2022 at 10:10 AM
Before i read the post, Yayyyyy
This was the movie that introduced me to the delicious Daniel henney and made me a life long fan.
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2 Fan from Nigeria
August 26, 2022 at 10:15 AM
Andddd, maybe i should not rewatch, i must have watch with some rose coloured glasses on, I know, i know.....but a Korean speaking good english in that year?? And he was so pretty......you have to stronger than me not to fall in love.
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Fan from Nigeria
August 26, 2022 at 10:18 AM
*be
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DaebakGrits
August 26, 2022 at 10:18 AM
I mean...The eye candy is a good enough reason for me. haha
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3 jerrykuvira
August 26, 2022 at 10:24 AM
First of all. Thank you @daebakgrits for naming a Friday flashback I've watched and deliciously enjoyed. I watched Seducing Mr. Perfect around the last 4 months of 2019 so now I'm quite surprised the piece I enjoyed then was already 13 years old. Some works of art are truly ageless.
I'm laughing with you on the bullet wound, and I found the story we got at the end about his father off cause it was just sprang up on me out of the blue. Well, Robin got the thing he wanted so it's fine. The borderline incestuous siblings wrestle had me in giggles., that's when I saw that the hard man has fallen in love with his 'student'.
Wow! I didn't know Daniel Henney doesn't understand Korean quite fluently. It doesn't change a thing though, I still feel the same.
Can I be greedy and adopt the dating philosophies of both people cause I agree with them both.
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4 miso
August 26, 2022 at 10:28 AM
Ah I love this movie. I watched it way back in college and fell in love with k-movies, which led me to k-dramas and k-pop too. Daniel Henney was oodles of hotness in this! I think I must have rewatched quite a few times just to stare at the pretty 🥰.
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jerrykuvira
August 26, 2022 at 10:36 AM
To be this sculpted in 2006☺️. Damn!
'Take a deep breath. Calm down'.
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5 superwhopotterlock
August 26, 2022 at 10:41 AM
I'm pretty sure if I watched it now I wouldn't finish it; but I watched it almost 7-8 years back when I had just started watching k dramas and I liked this one a lot. There were some things which weren't clear to me then and now, like the hero's past love story but the movie was cute and their chemistry was a treat! Also Daniel henney is 🔥
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6 bbstl 🧹
August 26, 2022 at 10:59 AM
omoNA! The boy from Michigan hit it BIG in Korea after KSS, it was so great to see. I don’t remember much about this movie, so I will just have to watch it again! I watched anything Daniel Henney did for a long time, even sitting through a Wolverine movie 🙄 Which, btw, he was in for about 9 minutes.
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7 ladynightshade wants her own ryu sunjae
August 26, 2022 at 11:09 AM
This is one of those movies that always hangs around on my watch-list. That I swear I’ll get to any day now because it’s Daniel Henney and Uhm Jung-hwa - how could I miss this? Maybe this is the push I needed to finally click play.
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knewbie
August 27, 2022 at 12:21 AM
While you'll need to brace yourself for a lot of cringe-making stuff, like the casual racism and sexism, I've got to admit I found the film extremely funny in places. Daniel Henney is a surprisingly good straight man to the ever-fabulous Uhm Jung-hwa. Watch out for the drinking competition scene!
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ladynightshade wants her own ryu sunjae
August 28, 2022 at 4:28 PM
Casual racism?? Oh boy. Thanks for the reminder, I’ll keep that in mind. It’s wild how much of that stuff is present in content made only like 15 years ago (yikes for the passage of time, how was 2006 that long ago?).
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8 sparks121
August 26, 2022 at 11:30 AM
Oh man, sweet sweet 2000s nostalgia. Such a soft spot for this movie. Like everyone else, I loved watching everything Daniel Henney back then.
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9 JillofAllTrades
August 26, 2022 at 11:35 AM
I did remember watching it but do not remember more than that. (Except the fact that ML was super hot) But then romance is/was never my genre. And I do not handle second hand embarrassment for FL well. I will rather stomach gore/violence/serial killers instead.
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10 FiyaShady
August 26, 2022 at 1:13 PM
I did watch this film loonggggg time ago. Couldn't remember seeing DH in which one first 🤔 (either this film or drama KSS). Still can't believe he didn't utter a single Korean word in this film but it was under Chungmuro belt 😆😅.
I can't wait to see him in Confidential Assignment 2 (celebrating HB and DH encounter again 🥳🥳🥳) with our Hee Jin sunbaenim ✌️
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bbstl 🧹
August 26, 2022 at 1:18 PM
I just found out that is happening, the trailer looks so funny! It will be great to see them together again 🥰
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11 Kurama
August 26, 2022 at 1:20 PM
I watched it. Now, I don't have really any memories...
I was introduced to Danniel Henney in Spring Waltz, he didn't speak Korean neither in this drama :p I watched My Name Is Kim Sam-soon after.
It's nice to see him in the US show The Wheel of Time, he still looks handsome :p
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12 Mina00
August 26, 2022 at 2:13 PM
This movie is my first introduction to Korean Dream world :) I was on the 14 hours plain journey(years ago) and that popped up on TV. I had enough of western stuff I was checking out Asian movies. I did love it although quite messy ending :)I was wondering whose idea was a real bullet ?Just made the story look like silly. It was fine until then . Calling FL 'Pochantos' still I remember! Interesting It did not lead me to KD then. My addiction came years later when I watched Gong Yoo interview on Cnn :)
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knewbie
August 27, 2022 at 12:09 AM
Omg I remember the jealous American lady friend asking Robin about "Pocahontas". Wonder who came up with that extremely dodgy line. Had they forgotten that Robin was Korean too?
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13 CasualDramaFan
August 26, 2022 at 2:40 PM
This was the first k-content I watched. My friend recommended it because of you guessed it Daniel Henney and I kept it on back-burner. I was not interested in watching something with subtitles. On one rainy afternoon I clicked play because of boredom the and rest is history. Actually Robin's English was one of the main factor that made it digest-able for me at that time. Otherwise I wouldn't have completed at all. Even though it is absurd in some part and dated I might re-watch it due to my fond memories of that rainy afternoon which started my journey into k-dramaland.
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14 DancingEmma
August 26, 2022 at 5:44 PM
I watched a bit of this movie recently and was truly revolted because two white people speaking English referred to a Japanese man in the most horrible racist language. I can’t believe such a term was included in this movie.
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15 kd6606
August 26, 2022 at 10:10 PM
I haven't watched this movie, but one of my favorite scenes from Kim Sam-soon was watching Daniel Henney's character and Kim Sam-soon trying to talk to each other in their own respective languages. If I recall correctly, they got stuck together while the 2 other leads were off doing something or other. And did their best to communicate. It was very funny, very realistic, and I must admit, I have been there.
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16 OldLawyer
August 26, 2022 at 10:45 PM
Even though he was only in the ROK for a few years Daniel Henney did in fact finally learn Korean. And he is still ridiculously good looking.
I actually first saw this movie in my pre-streaming days= on a DVD borrowed from the library. For all its flaws it is still a favorite of mine. Not for any deep philosophical depths but just because I like a good romcom and this one delivers, in part because it doesn't take itself that seriously- that 'tragic backstory' mentioned above is a good example of what I mean- I think that it was actually intended to satirize the whole idea that our male protagonist's jerky behavior can be excused by this trauma that he suffered in the past.
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17 parkchuna 🍉
August 29, 2022 at 5:31 AM
This movie is proof that DH’s abs can indeed win over the world .
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