18 signs you are in a drama slump
by javabeans
- You have a dozen dramas that are sitting unfinished with just one more hour left to watch, which somehow feels like five hours too many.
- You’ve forgotten your password on all your streaming site accounts and can’t be bothered to reset it.
- You’ve forgotten your username on your streaming site accounts. Going through the effort to find it is, naturally, out of the question.
- That drama you’ve been excited to watch for months is finally here. But you just… can’t… press that play button.
- I mean, it’s there, it would be the easiest thing to press a button, but committing to “play” feels insurmountable because that action would mean something, it would have Implications, of time commitments and mental energy and caring about fiction and that feels like a fate worse than death by a million paper cuts right now.
- You see that your thoughts are veering dramatic, but you can’t feel the drama in them because drama is dead. Nothing matters now or will matter ever again. We’re all just meat sacks trudging toward our sell-by dates. Lee Jong-seok holds one-tenth of the appeal he did last year.
- Maybe one-tenth is enough, you think. There is some appeal still alive. But… then you remember Suzy. Minus five appeals.
- Nothing, as in the actual concept of nothingness, feels like a concrete and burdensome presence in your life, rather than the absence of Something. You sit there doing Nothing, staring off into Nothing, thinking Nothing. You consider maybe watching a drama, but decide that it wouldn’t be worth disrupting this big pile of Nothing you’re working on right now.
- You decide that maybe a good old-fashioned favorite series would be more emotionally satisfying and less mentally taxing. You look through the shortlist, and then the longlist, and then make ten more lists, until you realize you’re just stalling life with lists. (META.)
- Fine, old favorites are out. Maybe it’s prime time to finally catch old dramas that never got watched in the first place. Then you ask yourself, “If I passed up Padam Padam ten times already, why should an eleventh time be different?” And that seems like the wisest thought you’ve had all day. You return to your state of torpor and gummy bears.
- You remember how you used to love to read. Books are what stories did before television killed our attention spans! Two pages in, you realize that your attention span wasn’t spared in the cathode-ray massacre, because what are you, special? You reach for the remote control again, even though we just did this and it was futile, remember?
- Lather, rinse, repeat.
- Oh god, am stuck in a time loop. I could literally die of boredom right now. Or in twenty loops from now. It would be the same thing.
- You figure even if you can’t commit an hour to watch a show, you can read a recap so at least you’re still following the show. Two paragraphs in, you remember that attention span thing you just realized one bullet point (and two, and three) ago. Maybe the massacre also got short-term memory.
- Determined to watch something, anything, you scroll through all the titles of all the shows that seem even the tiniest bit interesting. After spending more time trying to decide what to force yourself to watch than it would have been to just watch that damn episode in the first place, you give up. You turn off the lights and go to bed early like an old person, because oblivion seems more appealing than entertainment.
- You realize that dramas were once so important to you that you carved out all this space and time for them in your life, this emptiness which now mocks you. Clubbed in the head with your own punishment stick, you are the creator of your own misery. This is not the most depressing thought you’ve had today.
- You go out to dinner with your parents, who ask for your expert opinion on what dramas they should be watching, and find yourself saying, “I dunno, maybe you should consider watching less television?”
- But despite everything, you retain a vague, if distant, hope/feeling/inclination that you’ll find that lovin’ feelin’ again someday, and there will come along a show that will seem sparkly and shiny, and dramas will be worth it again. Because you’re in a slump, not dead.
Somebody save me from myself.
Tags: existentialism, lists
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101 Ralisa
October 3, 2017 at 9:52 AM
I can relate to the drama slump. I stopped watching kdramas in november or december last year after 4 years as an avid watcher. They didn't hold the same appeal, I got really bored with all the tropes and silliness.
I concentrated on the job, social life and returned to english and american shows.
Two weeks ago I decided to give dramaland another shot. Started to read this blog again and am watching Save Me and Tunnel at the moment. They are Ok but they certainly don't hold the same appeal as before
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102 Endo
October 3, 2017 at 9:54 AM
Glad i'm not the only one. But my only reason is that i don't see any interesting kdrama. Before, i'm so excited, i'm watching during my breaks at work.
But Temperature of Love and WYWS is making me excited to watch again.
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103 Islander north
October 3, 2017 at 10:47 AM
For me, when I'm down to 3 or 4 dramas to watch (if Falsify could ever be translated!!), it's a desert. Seems there have been a lot of mediocre dramas OR the good ones are not being streamed on Viki or DF (as in TVN). So frustrating! Looks promising for dramas starting next week, however.
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104 shimshimme
October 3, 2017 at 11:05 AM
This is so me this year. I cry. Somebody save me from myself.
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105 WishfulToki
October 3, 2017 at 11:34 AM
LOL, this is hilarious. I love how dramatic explaining a drama slump can be. I actually binge watched Hospital Ship yesterday to catch up, and guess what beanies? I am kind of out of the slump (HURRAH!) because I think of it as this: alpha female lead, and crybaby beta male lead, both chopping up people amidst the blue sea and green islands . It's a refreshing concept right? (except for the CLASSIC crazy second female lead, pleaaase get her off of my screen!)
By the way, my cure for drama slump is to FIND A SAGEUK, if nothing in Korean, go for Chinese. Can anyone recommend something like Nirvana in Fire (not possible, but hey, just in case you know of a hidden gem), Princess Wei Young, or Prince of Lang Ling?
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106 lazygeisha was modernflapper
October 3, 2017 at 11:38 AM
169 comments in and I arrive at the party. This is me, to a "T" (except no parents asking) and I have jujubes.
Can't finish or start a drama, can't read a book, just staring off into space. With jujubes.
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107 kayedrama
October 3, 2017 at 11:43 AM
Made my day 😂 So glad I'm not the only one.
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108 persianrose❤️战哥
October 3, 2017 at 12:06 PM
Lol: "Lee Jong-seok holds one-tenth of the appeal he did last year." This is so true in my case 🤣🤣🤣
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109 Mandelbrotr
October 3, 2017 at 12:40 PM
@javabeans, I've missed you lately. Your writing has been noticeably absent. I'm happy to see you here even if it is a nihilistic list that makes me wonder if you're OK.
You've built something great here. Maybe now you just need to go outside sit in the sun and look at the sky for awhile. I hope you find something that piques your interest.
Fighting!
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110 Katinka
October 3, 2017 at 12:45 PM
more than 10 years of Dramaworld, silent reader for a long time... After Signal and Stranger I feel somehow lost. After watching chinese Addicted Heroin I'm done. Never happen before, gosh. Pls Wake me up in 2018. Greetings from Europe.
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111 beanmachine
October 3, 2017 at 2:00 PM
The first bulletpoint is TOO REAL. I wouldn't even say I'm in that much of a slump, because there are currently-airing dramas that do hold appeal for me, but it just feels like so much effort to actually watch anything
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112 Lena S.
October 3, 2017 at 2:20 PM
"4. That drama you’ve been excited to watch for months is finally here. But you just… can’t… press that play button."
This is pretty much what's going on between me and "Temperature of Love" right now.
Javabeans understands me so well.
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113 lunatic4kd
October 3, 2017 at 2:26 PM
OH God. This is TOTALLY me right now. Ever since my k-drama start in August of 2012 I have been full-tilt on dramas, except for the past two months when nothing feels right. Nothing at all. I've survived a couple of dramas like Manhole and Strongest Deliveryman and the only bright light The King in Love but even that was sorta ...'meh' when it ended. This is the biggest 'meh' slump I've ever been in. Not even While you Were Sleeping is doing anything for me. The forced moments of so-called humor are jarring. This drama would be better all serious. The premise is good but.....wow.... is it dramaland or is it me??? Thank goodness for Youtube and K-pop right now. It's giving me hope there are good dramas right around the corner. Please tell me there are!
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114 elaine
October 3, 2017 at 3:11 PM
Me right now. Down to the part about reading books.
Lather, rinse, repeat.
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115 sleepypie1212
October 3, 2017 at 3:28 PM
Man, we do all experience the same things, don't we ? I'm so sorry @javabeans. If I could, I'd zap the perfect drama right to your laptop. As it is, I can only thank you for all your amazing recaps and dramawesomness over the years. And also, I totally picked up Seven Day Queen because you raved about it, and am now simultaneously a broken beanie and cured of the slump I was dealing with. So thanks for that! Here's hoping you find your magic cure too!
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116 Chandler
October 3, 2017 at 3:30 PM
Lol, this post killed the little drive I had to turn on Temperature of Love and could perhaps keep me from While You Were Sleeping this week. I feel like I should thank you? Something just makes me feel disconnected while watching these.
Luckily, this is partially because I do have dramas I'm really invested in...ending this week. Live Up to Your Name surprised me with how much I loved it by the end and I'm even considering a rewatch because I didn't want it to be over yet. Same with Age of Youth 2. There's just something genuine about the characters and their emotions in these shows, something I'm oddly not feeling much of yet from ToL and WYWS and pretty much everything else lately.
So I feel like the same thing that happened after Jealousy Incarnate could be happening again now, as I don't really feel pulled into anything else except for Girl's Generation 1979 (lol, also ending this week). It feels like I'm in a drama slump even when I'm not these days, because even though I love these shows, I'm already dreading when they'll inevitably leave me with no desire to watch anything else in a matter of days.
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117 buckdawna
October 3, 2017 at 6:22 PM
This might be more aptly titled "18 signs you're having an existential crisis," or "18 signs you need to speak to your doctor about depression." XD
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118 Pei
October 3, 2017 at 6:30 PM
with no LJG on screen this week, I got no drama to watch starting this week!
"6. You see that your thoughts are veering dramatic, but you can’t feel the drama in them because drama is dead. Nothing matters now or will matter ever again. We’re all just meat sacks trudging toward our sell-by dates. Lee Jong-seok holds one-tenth of the appeal he did last year.
7. Maybe one-tenth is enough, you think. There is some appeal still alive. But… then you remember Suzy. Minus five appeals."
For me this two point stopping me to start While You Were Sleeping 😂
Variety show is more appealing for me now
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119 salt N pepper
October 3, 2017 at 7:10 PM
This is pretty much me most of the time for the past 2-3 years. Although definitely not as dramatic and depressing, LOL. Lately the ratio between shows I've dropped vs. those I've finished is probably around 80-20. I've dropped too many to remember, even much hyped shows like Signal. I end up nitpicking on one or two trivial matters about the show, which eventually kills my excitement for it. Luckily I had Live Up to Your Name to keep me entertained for the past two months. Shamelessly plugging that drama again to those who haven't watched it yet. It's a slow-burning gem, that one. But now that it's over... I guess I'm back to watching random clips on Youtube to pass time before I eventually doze off to sleep. This cycle has been on repeat most nights of the year when I'm staying in.
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lolita
October 3, 2017 at 7:14 PM
I can't press the PLAY button to watch the last episode of "Live Up to Your Name" ... I don't want it to end! Definitely, a diamond in the rough!
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Chandler
October 4, 2017 at 2:41 AM
Haha, I keep replaying the first 15 min of ep 16, but have yet to finish the episode yet for the same reasons!
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salt N pepper
October 5, 2017 at 1:54 AM
Ha! A lot of us are getting sepanx from LUTYN. I guess a rewatch is due soon. Unless I get too lazy to hit the play button again. x_x
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Jig
October 3, 2017 at 7:21 PM
Nitpicking is my problem, too. I've been doing that to tropes, plot devices, characters that I would have loved just a few years back, but now...I just find the holes in the plot and/or the characters are maybe just a little too flawed or lacking motivation. I guess my tastes are changing (probably with age and maybe wisdom? lol).
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salt N pepper
October 5, 2017 at 1:57 AM
True! Maybe it's a combination of changing taste and having watched way too many dramas that most new shows just seem so "been there, done that".
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120 lolita
October 3, 2017 at 7:13 PM
@javabeans ... this is priceless! 😂
Numbers 11, 15 & 18 happen when I succumb to a drama slump ...
I can't stop laughing ... this is too close to home! 👏
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121 SojuSommelier
October 3, 2017 at 7:38 PM
You go out to dinner with your parents, who ask for your expert opinion on what dramas they should be watching, and find yourself saying, “I dunno, maybe you should consider watching less television?”
Why is this me? But then I spend more time on Youtube vlogs, because what is this? The 90s?
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122 Kemma
October 3, 2017 at 7:53 PM
Exactly!!! I'm bored. Sigh
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123 kimchikay
October 3, 2017 at 9:04 PM
Pretty much me! I haven't been able to keep my interest in anything after I binge watched Tunnel. I did manage to finish Father is Strange and Fight My Way but they didn't hold that "exciting" factor that dramas used to do for me. I've been watching for over 10 years and never have I been hit this hard with a drama slump.
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124 NP
October 3, 2017 at 9:16 PM
THIS THIS THIS!!! All these points hit me so hard because this is literally what I do everyday sighhh
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125 lynnet
October 3, 2017 at 10:55 PM
This list is so me ,love this article!!! Number 7 captured the exact feeling I had yesterday!
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126 tesshan
October 3, 2017 at 11:02 PM
Pretty much. Have this every couple of months after I have a drama overdose. It is difficult to keep the balance.
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127 Sadat
October 3, 2017 at 11:06 PM
Each state describes my state after watching Stranger (tvn). I miss it and wish the characters were real in my life
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128 Stardust
October 3, 2017 at 11:17 PM
Can I join and say I feel the same
I've started a couple of shows, reverse back to some acclaimed ones that I missed - but nothing brings the magic.
Yawn... I don't know maybe gasp I've finally grown up (I guess not)
The simple reason could be - none of these drama are "crack", none of the new ones too. Honestly if a drama be defined as crack for me, I'll know by latest ep2 not ....ep3.4.5.6.7
Yeah. None yet
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129 Auntiemame
October 3, 2017 at 11:59 PM
There must be something contagious going around because what you've voiced is exactly the state that I'm in.
Thank goodness that I'm not alone. 😮
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130 lynnet
October 4, 2017 at 1:48 AM
Just when I thought I was experiencing a major slump this may have cured it............now really want to watch Live Up to Your Name based on all the comments
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131 Biyaya
October 4, 2017 at 2:05 AM
OMG This is me. I am all, except 17. I'm always on the drama list site just adding more "plan to watch" dramas. I'm even 11. I've been thinking I needed to get back to books. And last night I was ready to start watching but then overthinking about what to watch made me fall asleep early.
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132 신류지
October 4, 2017 at 2:17 AM
SAME!!! Like seriously relate to #15. I mean in the past few days, I've literally scrolled through any drama website I could find even the ones that have the pop up ads and I. Don't. Have. Anything. To. Watch. I've rewatched episodes and shows over and over again but I need something new. Like seriously, someone please save me from myself. Anyone recommend any good dramas? ^^;
P.S Pshhh yeah, totally not addicted to dramas, what are you talking about? XD
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133 juti
October 4, 2017 at 3:08 AM
I feel the same and I know why. The weather is bad and I am still mourning Father is Strange.
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134 reijeanne
October 4, 2017 at 6:19 AM
I know it's not a KDrama but I recommend the currently airing Cdrama The Big Boss. I got hooked since the intro. It has comedy, costume, singing and dancing, fantasy, action, school life and romance. The OTP are bickering childhood friends. The female lead has great imaginations.
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135 Sakura
October 4, 2017 at 6:53 AM
I agree with everything on the list I just think number 12 got wasted on: Lather, rinse, repeat, as it is not drama related...lol...it should have been
12. watching old Korean movies and then rewatching them on the 12th of every lunar month.
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136 Alyssa
October 4, 2017 at 10:32 AM
This is me in dramaland for 2017!!!
Come on shows! Give me a good one to get me out of this slump since last years Love in the Moonlight and Goblin...
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137 anonybeanie
October 4, 2017 at 10:49 AM
PRESS THAT PLAY BUTTON, GIRL. PRESS IT. You can always stop watching if it's too much hassle!
I was totally in a slump the rest of this year after Circle -- nothing seemed all that interesting enough to watch, and while I enjoyed Circle, it wasn't the kind of drama that left me craving more kdrama.
I literally put While You Were Sleeping on SOLELY because I feel an obligation to watch all of Park He-Ryun's work, regardless if I'm drawn in by the premise or not (she rarely lets me down) -- I was apathetic starting it, but by the end, I felt that spark and excitement for a new drama once more. Even if you don't like Suzy, that one may bring the magic back for you. (I've never disliked her, but I've never been super invested in any of her characters, either. But they play to her strengths with WYWS, and I've found myself falling head over heels for her character HongJoo. It helps that the characters are so well-drawn, and her chemistry with Lee JongSuk is ridic adorbs.)
Try it out and see if you like it! One date isn't a declaration of commitment. ;)
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138 turtleshell
October 4, 2017 at 11:34 AM
Everything you wrote was SO. ON. POINT. I feel you gurrrl. I hope you feel better though and don't let these feelings discourage you too much. Find that inner peace. We will get through this.
Sidenote, this one was hilarious and REALLY ON POINT:
#7. Maybe one-tenth is enough, you think. There is some appeal still alive. But… then you remember Suzy. Minus five appeals.
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turtleshell
October 4, 2017 at 11:35 AM
I hate to say it, but it might be that quarter-life crisis thing kicking in...
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139 wingedswan
October 4, 2017 at 11:35 AM
while you were sleeping is the first drama I've been able to sit through for months, and I freaking love it, honestly drama slumps are just sad, I was soo excited for manhole but I just couldn't commit to actually watching it D: so I'm happy this drama is pulling me to the light :D
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140 thekimchikorner
October 4, 2017 at 12:08 PM
Sooo accurate. This was the past two months of my life lol. My list of to-watch shows just keeps getting longer, yet I never can start any!
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141 littlecat
October 4, 2017 at 3:35 PM
Also when you haven't even been on dramabeans to leave comments for ages. This has been me basically ever since Circle ended. I wonder if you can actually chart a decrease in site traffic when there's a community-wide drama slump??
Spot on with LJS's new drama. Like... I should really want to watch it. I really do want to watch it. But...not enough... to watch it.
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142 miss h
October 4, 2017 at 4:37 PM
I've finished three dramas this year which is really low for me. Thinking about it though that's right around the number of dramas I truly enjoy in any given year; the rest I think I've just forced myself to watch just to be watching something or because it's a show that beanies are excited about, and I want in on that excitement too. Lately, if it's not there for me in a few episodes, I'm out.
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143 jomo143
October 4, 2017 at 4:39 PM
Yes, to all.
Watching French, Dutch, Finnish, British, US!, Danish, Spanish tv instead.
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144 coolbeans
October 4, 2017 at 5:27 PM
How did you know?? It's as if you wrote this post for me.
Hoping Revolutionary Love will get me out of my slumpiest of slumps!
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145 rayofsun
October 4, 2017 at 7:08 PM
finally it has been put into words
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146 ar_arguably romantic
October 4, 2017 at 8:14 PM
I don't think there is dearth of good, interesting dramas lately. If they were airing any other time, I would have lapped them up. I think I'm a little burnt out from watching so many dramas in the first half of the year on top of all the things going on in the world...that I just feel drained and paralyzed. All I really want to do is watch 30 Rock reruns and letting the jokes wash over me. I'm still sticking around for Age of Youth, but I may resign myself to a kdrama break after it's done.
#5 is an interesting point. You can't watch a kdrama without getting emotionally invested in it. Even light-hearted dramas have moments of intesnity and will be asking for some emotional commitment for 16-20 hours. I think my emotions need a break.
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147 winkandhearts
October 4, 2017 at 8:23 PM
So it's not just me huh?
Is this because most of Kdrama oppa leads are in the army rn?
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148 Dorotka
October 5, 2017 at 5:27 AM
It will pass, javabeans.... :--)
(Honestly, this season didn't have much to offer). At least I hope so, as your recapping style is dearly missed...
Whenever I thought my kdrama phase was over... a drama or a character appeared which grabbed my heart and brought me back. May you also always find your Tunnel, Lingerie Girls, Tae-Swoon, Heo Im or Hye Young!!!
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149 Anonymous
October 5, 2017 at 6:00 AM
I'm new to dramas so this is a serious question. What's wrong with Suzy? Haven't seen her in anything. Bad acting?
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150 Bluemoon
October 5, 2017 at 6:22 AM
Oh my God I feel the exact way. I'm not as excited as I was about dramas anymore.
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