Open Thread #766
by DB Staff
Happy Friday everyone!
Here is your Open Thread, which is here for you to chat about anything you want, whether it be drama-related or not. Nothing’s off-topic here! Spoilers may be rife, so proceed accordingly.
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1 welh
June 24, 2022 at 6:02 AM
My local chain grocery store for a while has provided bad produce. I picked up some raspberries that were fuzzy bland and tasteless. They were imported from Mexico. The next time, I decided to get frozen ones. I opened to package to find it not frozen berries but a red mush like the entrails from a slasher movie. I forgot to read the packaging; it was from Chile. It confirmed what I knew for years that the US has been exporting a lot of its domestic produce to get premium prices. Last Saturday night, I drove by an independent green grocery store which I had not been in for at least a decade. It was owned by a wholesale produce company. I went in to find the produce picked over - - - so I carefully went item by item to find California strawberries and fruits that were firm without blemishes.
Since this grocery had a several ethic aisles from Europe and Asia, I turned the corner to find a supporting character from the drama “A Killer’s Shopping List:” the original Choco-Pie. I had to get a box to try. The comparison is to a moon pie. The Korean version was more cakey than marshmallow. It is OK, but nothing to kill for.
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bbstl 🧹
June 24, 2022 at 7:45 AM
What I like about Choco Pies is that they’re not too sweet. Orion brand are the originals 👍🏼
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welh
June 25, 2022 at 8:19 AM
Yes, I got the Orion. Packaging 99% in Korean.
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2 Jance
June 24, 2022 at 6:16 AM
Just swinging by the OT to say: I love how international Dramabeans is! It’s so great to connect with people from all over the world and to celebrate something we all have in common. Respect to all the beanies who are writing in a foreign language. I feel so lucky to have English as my first language. I’d be gutted if we couldn’t communicate so thanks for making the effort to write your feelings on this site. I’ll try to learn more languages!
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Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
June 24, 2022 at 6:26 AM
Thank you for acknowledging what a special community this is. I am so happy we get to meet people from across the globe to share our thoughts on all things K drama, especially as most of us don’t have anyone in our local community to chat to about this area of our life.
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mmmmm
June 24, 2022 at 11:10 AM
I'm happy that you find this place a happy and safe place like I do. It's true that I still miss many Beans who have disappeared in the last few years, but we do have new Beanies who keep adding so much to this space. 🙂🌷🥰
I still hope that many of them will return when it's the right time for them...
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Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
June 24, 2022 at 11:43 AM
Yes I noticed the profiles come up on the Beanies spotlight and then click to see their last entry was in 2017 and I wonder what happened. I think some have left for good but some do occasional comments so I wonder if they are not commenting any more and just popping in to read a recap and see what’s happening.
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mmmmm
June 24, 2022 at 11:53 AM
I think I can understand this. Many years ago, there were fewer dramas available for international audience so fewer dramas to recap, I think, so the work could be done without it being too taxing for each recapper (I think DB had more recappers back then, too). Nowadays, there are more and more dramas available and people can just choose what to watch, so I think it’s become somewhat difficult for the current recappers to be able to choose the ones that the majority watch. Also, many times what seems like a good premise turns into something else within the first few eps and Beans just drops it. I think these are part of the reasons why many are not here anymore. The close-knitted community this place once was became more dispersed and it’s only natural. We do have new Beanies though!
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Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
June 24, 2022 at 11:59 AM
That’s a really good point if there are only a few dramas to focus on the discussions will be lively I saw the number of responses on some of the old posts were really high. ☺️
la wants to feel liberated too
June 24, 2022 at 12:41 PM
English isn't my first language. I'm not good at it and sometimes i have hard time expressing my feelings because of language barrier. But i'm very happy to be in this community. Even though i don't actively engage in many conversations, it still feels nice to read beanies' comments and posts💚
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Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
June 24, 2022 at 12:45 PM
I love the comments sections! I usually get at least one laugh out loud moment every day.
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Jance
June 24, 2022 at 12:56 PM
Same same!
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Jance
June 24, 2022 at 1:00 PM
It's awesome to read different perspectives, isn't it? I feel this is a very non-judgemental community so language accuracy doesn't matter too much. I hope you feel that as well! Keep posting your feelings when you have the energy to translate what you think. ^^
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Netsuke
June 24, 2022 at 6:54 PM
You are doing wonderfully well, had you not said English was not your first language, I wouldn’t have known. If it’s any consolation, your English is far, far better than my foreign language. I definitely could not hold a conversation in another language.
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tabong is ironing the crosswalk
June 24, 2022 at 4:39 PM
Awww, thank you for saying that. 😊
I used to asked my sister how to write some things or to check my comments but that was too stressful so now I just write whatever. I don't know how many mistakes I do while writing, but if people understand what I'm trying to say that's enough (even if later I'm like "that's not how you say it").
This site feels really safe.
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beffels
June 24, 2022 at 5:02 PM
I really like how international it is too, and how most people are nice even when they disagree - it’s quite hard to find on the internet these days!
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3 Mike
June 24, 2022 at 7:44 AM
Do you know the K-drama that I found had the most satisfying ending this year? 'Ghost Doctor'. It was a just-okay drama without much to praise or complain about but it stuck the landing, which improved the whole series in retrospect. Compare that to the dramas this year that had so badly messed up their finale that it spoiled the show overall. 'Lovers of the Red Sky', 'Woori The Virgin', 'Business Proposal', even 'My Liberation Notes' to some degree.I think I'm going to start watching more mediocre dramas, the sort that can afford to give you the ending it ought because the studio's less likely to meddle with the script.
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Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
June 24, 2022 at 8:00 AM
I liked Ghost Doctor too.
I agree lots of low key dramas are know what’s expected and just do that without trying to be clever and risking failing to deliver. It’s so frustrating investing time in a drama and then have a rubbish ending ruin the whole experience.
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ex-beanie
June 24, 2022 at 9:40 AM
seeing liberation notes in this list makes me nervous...I'm on 13th ep now!
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jerrykuvira
June 24, 2022 at 9:48 AM
Add Bloody/Red Heart to the list.
@unniunni No worries about My Liberation Notes. A lot of MLN lovers here of which I'm one didn't like the ending and we were very vocal about it. But it doesn't depreciate MLN at all. I recommend you complete it.
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wapz
June 24, 2022 at 11:23 AM
BH did land well imo. But it surely needed more than 16 ep.
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mmmmm
June 24, 2022 at 11:14 AM
I think in my case this is also true to a certain extent. I remember feeling burnt by the last few eps of A Business Proposal which affected my overall experience of watching the show in general. I just wish it stuck with its quirks and everything and became another gem which.. didn't happen. On the other hand, I have another show that many perceive it as being mediocre "Shooting Stars" and I just love how easy it was to watch it. There was nothing spectacular about it and that and how the show didn't try to be something it wasn't actually made it a very fun and wholesome watch for me.
When a show doesn't try too hard, I feel like I can enjoy it so much more. I hope there will be more shows that are like that in the future.
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Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
June 24, 2022 at 11:48 AM
I loved Shooting stars because it was a low key fun watch that’s why the couple of episodes when I felt it went rogue with the heavy content felt an unnecessary diversion from what it did best. I was so glad when it came back on track and finished well.
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Jance
June 24, 2022 at 1:02 PM
I've got a Shooting Stars shaped hole in my Friday / Saturday right now and I'm feeling sad.
(But at least they're all happy right now.)
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Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
June 24, 2022 at 1:43 PM
Me too I was waking up early hours for a toilet break and checking if it was out and if it was I had to watch it straight away. That’s the only show I did that for.
I am glad Yumi’s cells came as a weekend show as that is helping fill that happy space because even though it is a different level show it’s the consistency of feel good factor that it brings.
4 bbstl 🧹
June 24, 2022 at 7:49 AM
Yumi’s Cells is on Fri-Sat, right? It’s not on the Currently Airing list
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Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
June 24, 2022 at 8:01 AM
Because it’s being streamed it doesn’t get put on the list one of the Dramabeans crew flagged this up in the comments section on the ratings post.
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bbstl 🧹
June 24, 2022 at 8:26 AM
Ok, thanks. I will go look for that b
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panshel
June 24, 2022 at 9:49 AM
We actually get two episodes of Yumi and Babi on Fridays!
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bbstl 🧹
June 24, 2022 at 2:53 PM
Thanks, I didn’t realize that.
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5 Fly Colours
June 24, 2022 at 8:00 AM
It worked out! Managed to get my friend and their kid to check out Yumi's Cells and they binged the episodes available for free on Viki and called me back for more recs. I'm a happy bean! ☺️
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Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
June 24, 2022 at 8:06 AM
It’s a great gateway drama, well done on this achievement! I found it hard to recommend others as it’s so unique so a lot of the others you needed to be more aware of K drama tropes to understand. I had some success with Reply 1988 but not Be melodramatic and Hospital Playlist which I thought would be easy to get into with humour and character focus covered.
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Fly Colours
June 24, 2022 at 11:11 AM
Yes, it's hard to recommend further dramas, especially because they don't have Netflix. I was thinking about telling them to eatch Welcome to Waikiki. Any ideas about something else with a comedic tone and light on romance? 🤔
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mmmmm
June 24, 2022 at 11:16 AM
I quite liked Waikiki 2 while I was watching it and A Business Proposal (excluding the last 2 eps) are fun watching experiences for me.
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Fly Colours
June 24, 2022 at 11:24 AM
Yes, Business Proposal and Our Beloved Summer would be excellent and fun options. Unfortunately, they don")'t have Netflix, so I'm sticking to stuff available on Viki
Fly Colours
June 24, 2022 at 12:15 PM
Oh, Waikiki 2! I should probably try that one out with my own kids. They loved Waikiki 1
Fly Colours
June 24, 2022 at 2:34 PM
Yes, thinness is a thing in k-ent. I don't want to put it all on SK, naturally. Fashion in western countries is equally obsessed with thin young bodies. But, yeah, yikes. Today I started watching Queendom 2 with my oldest, because we both enjoy the performances and the amazing outfits and styling. But at some point I felt like I had to comment that most of the performers are the same size, give or take some height differences, and how unhealthy and narrow-minded it is to expect everybody to look the same 🙄
Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
June 24, 2022 at 11:39 AM
What about going with a web drama they are easy to find on YouTube and are really quick watches with their short episodes I liked A-Teen and Beautiology they are mainly school orientated with friendships and couple relationships. Splash splash love time travel. Imitation about the challenges of being an Idol.
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Fly Colours
June 24, 2022 at 12:12 PM
I didn't think of webdramas, thanks for the tips!
Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
June 24, 2022 at 12:32 PM
For ages I only had access to YouTube so watched loads of web dramas, KBS specials were also a good option. I ended up with Viki because I could not find Mr Queen anywhere else and the clips I saw were so funny I just couldn’t resist, then I watched What’s wrong with secretary Kim as that one also had postings on YouTube.
Viki has some great dramas so once they have got into it I think they will probably just start exploring and if they know about the option to drop if it isn’t working for them I think they will be fine.
I also alternate between Netflix and Viki monthly subscriptions depending on who has the dramas I ‘need’ to see. Twenty five, Twenty one got me back on Netflix after I dropped it for months to stick with Viki content. Depending on their subscription level they may decide to do the same thing.
Jance
June 24, 2022 at 1:06 PM
Viki always cracks me up with the live comments. I used to watch everything on Viki when I was a teen and You're Beautiful had some AMAZING reactions. (I mean, the pig nose, the vomit kiss - there were some class comments)
I've somehow blocked ads on Chrome now, though, so Viki won't let me play free dramas. Any tips?
Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
June 24, 2022 at 1:25 PM
Viki calls me out for using a VPN so I have to make sure its off. I don’t have any tips on how to access free content as I have always paid after I realised the perks on the paid version.
Fly Colours
June 24, 2022 at 1:46 PM
@jance, you're not alone in your enjoyment of Viki comments! Sometimes they get a bit overwhelming- like, I hate the hate on female characters -, but there are a lot of funny or just amusingly deranged ones. And some dramas really benefit from the comments -the wild comments definitely helped get to the end of Lovers of Red Sky 😂 Wish you get to fix your problem with Viki. Maybe using another internet browser?
panshel
June 24, 2022 at 9:11 AM
How old is your friend's kid? The computer-animated cells are like Inside Out, but Naughty Cell is very adult.
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Fly Colours
June 24, 2022 at 11:05 AM
Panshel, you made me take pause, because I feel like we may have different sensibilities and opinions about this. In our media landscape, Naughty cell is extremely tame. I feel like most kids would find it funny or dismiss it as weird. Anyway, we're talking about a teenager, so no harm done. My friend is just happy that they found something they both enjoy watching
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Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
June 24, 2022 at 11:08 AM
What did you recommend for their next watch and did they like it?
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Fly Colours
June 24, 2022 at 11:22 AM
Been scrolling through Viki's site and I came up with some ideas:
30 but 17
True Beauty
Extraordinary You
Nokdu Tale
I think that picking something light and with a youthful cast is probably the way to go
Fly Colours
June 24, 2022 at 11:46 AM
Ok, I told them 30 but 17 and Nokdu Tale. As @reply1988 pointed out, I think the best way to ease them into dramaland is to avoid trope-heavy dramas. Still, we come from a soap opera culture, which kind of makes the jump into kdrama easier 😂
Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
June 24, 2022 at 11:56 AM
30 but 17 I think is a good call. I loved that especially the younger brother’s crush on her it was so sweet. The funny housekeeper adds to the humour. The only trope that may be an issue is moody male lead syndrome which may not go down well.
True Beauty with the intro to family dynamics might be good too but the break up and intro to second lead syndrome may need some prep. The boxer shorts dancing though is a gem.
Fly Colours
June 24, 2022 at 12:24 PM
I'm not evek sure if I watched TB until the end. The bullying was a bit too much for me, but I remember the drama as overall fluffly. But I still lol everytime Okey dokey pops up in my playlist
Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
June 24, 2022 at 12:43 PM
What about weightlifting fairy or do you think its too advanced as they are university age so the bullying weight issues are more adult?
Jance
June 24, 2022 at 1:09 PM
I liked 30 but 17! I'm not sure about a Sageuk, though (e.g. Nokdu). It might need quite a bit of background...
Fly Colours
June 24, 2022 at 1:38 PM
I also thought of WLFKBJ! It's a lovely drama, but I found it jarring that so much of it was about weight, and it just didn't add up because She. Was. Thin.
I adore Lee Sung Kyung and she was charming in this, but her looks simply didn't match the character's concerns. Drama made me feel like either she or I was having cognitive dissonance 😂
Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
June 24, 2022 at 2:00 PM
🤣🤣🤣
But on a serious note it is sad that we have to vet these shows for dodgy messages for fear of their impact on vulnerable young minds. It is a shame the pressure is on those in the limelight including actors to be pressured in this way and I felt that they were trying to expose the teacher as being out of order with her constant comments and show how it had caused mental health issues.
I have been looking at the actor playing the male lead in Jinxed at first and his Adam’s apple seems to be really prominent, he is very slim and it makes me wonder if he is dieting or physically unwell. It may of course just be normal for him. I am worrying about the female leads arms as they are skinny too. I am hoping that these are not outcomes of trying to stay relevant.
Fly Colours
June 24, 2022 at 2:15 PM
@reply1988, you mean Na In Woo? I noticed that too, but in his case it's probably because he's overworked. He's got credited for 6 dramas for the years 2021-2022, including River where the Moon Rises straight after Mr Queen, where he took over the role mid-production and filmed his scenes for the whole thing in 5 weeks.
Not that there isn't this huge pressure to conform extremely strict beauty standards, so probably that plays a role too, of course. I was also surprised at how tiny and fragile Seohyun looks in JAF. From Love and Leashes I had the impression that she was a bit taller and stronger, but maybe it's just the contrast with the very tall and broad shouldered Na In Woo
Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
June 24, 2022 at 3:03 PM
I have watched four of the six dramas and don’t remember his appearance standing out they were mainly minor characters as opposed to having the main lead in this one and Her bucket list. He may have been more covered in those roles so it was less noticeable or it got worse as you say due to overwork.
I also saw love unleashed what a disappointment that was compared to the webtoon where the online friendships and impact on in person relationships was explored in more detail. She looked healthier in that one.
panshel
June 24, 2022 at 11:57 AM
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panshel
June 24, 2022 at 11:58 AM
Like when Disney sneaks in adult jokes that go over kids' heads. Even as an adult, I'm uncomfortable watching sex scenes with my parents.
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Jance
June 24, 2022 at 1:08 PM
Aren't we all?
panshel
June 24, 2022 at 4:52 PM
@Jance That's why I don't watch TV with my parents because I never know what to expect.
beffels
June 24, 2022 at 4:58 PM
Omg my in laws will turn off things with swearing but extremely naked sex scenes are apparently fine to watch in company 😬🫣
It is not a philosophy I grew up with and it makes me so uncomfortable 😅
panshel
June 24, 2022 at 5:53 PM
@beffels What kind of shows and movies with extremely naked sex scenes don't include swearing? lol
beffels
June 24, 2022 at 11:22 PM
@panshel weird arty period pieces 😅
Jance
June 25, 2022 at 11:56 AM
@panshel I always check the parental guide on imdb before we watch anything together hahahaha
Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
June 24, 2022 at 1:49 PM
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6 spazmo
June 24, 2022 at 10:16 AM
tragic day for women in the United States with the Supreme Court overturning of Roe V Wade.
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Bob
June 24, 2022 at 10:49 AM
I have some choice words to say about that and several other outrageous supreme court rulings this week but I'm afraid they'd ban me for bad language. @#$%^&*@#$%
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lizj58
June 24, 2022 at 2:08 PM
Since we have an international readership here, it might be interesting to compare abortion law in other countries compared to the US, where even after this decision, most states will still allow abortion in the first trimester. And why aren't there riots in those countries?
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mmmmm
June 24, 2022 at 11:17 AM
🥺 I heard about it and for the life of me I just don't know what to say.
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flatwhite
June 24, 2022 at 6:39 PM
Trump appointed 3 conservative justices in SCOTUS during his term. This is worrying.
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panshel
June 24, 2022 at 7:05 PM
We should've had Merrick Garland.
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Doppelganger
June 24, 2022 at 7:31 PM
What we should've had is RBG stepping down during Obama's term. Her seat swung right and tipped the court.
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bbstl 🧹
June 24, 2022 at 7:44 PM
They were sure Hillary would win. And some people say she did.
panshel
June 24, 2022 at 8:39 PM
If only she could've held on 4 more months until Biden took office.
panshel
June 24, 2022 at 8:41 PM
@bbstl Hillary did win the popular vote.
spazmo
June 24, 2022 at 9:19 PM
there should be a set retirement age for SCOTUS -- but actually for ALL of the senate and house seats as well!!! i mean, there are 80+ year olds (majority OLD MEN) making decisions for our children's futures - not to mention our own president, but...
isa: I'm not a serial killer I'm just really passionate about things
June 24, 2022 at 9:39 PM
I have been thinking about this all day. Obama said in his book he asked RBG to step down because who knows who her seat would go to and she wouldn't. I love RBG as much as the next but I keep thinking if she had stepped down someone-- not even liberal but someone human--could have taken her seat.
It's 2022 and we really just made the only option for women a dirty wire hanger in the back of someone's car? Did we all not watch Dirty Dancing?
Doppelganger
June 24, 2022 at 11:16 PM
@panshel I was saying to friends that they should've kept RBG in coma / made her a zombie / put her on life support / do whatever it takes to extend her life UNTIL election 2020 got sorted out.
@flatwhite The courts are going to be one of the biggest legacies of the Trump administration. The Supreme Court is no longer a check and balance on the other 2 branches of government.
3 conservative justices being shoved through aside, the Supreme Court has huge legitimacy issues with a sitting justice whose wife is an insurrectionist and a QAnon supporter.
bbstl 🧹
June 25, 2022 at 6:47 AM
@panshel yep, that’s what I’m sayin’ 😉
snickers
June 25, 2022 at 8:05 PM
Slightly less percentage of US Supreme Court Justices died in office than percentage retired. I don't know if any died "young". Seems like there must be some psychological factors that cause justices to not want to enjoy a golden retirement. Wonder whether it's a power trip thing. Otherwise, plenty of institutions would welcome the retirees aboard if they had intellectual needs to satisfy.
Also, seems like Justice Breyer knew Roe v. Wade would be overturned when he announced his retirement. Might be a main factor that spurred his decision.
spazmo
June 24, 2022 at 8:15 PM
it's more than worrying. it is the PROBLEM...
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7 isa: I'm not a serial killer I'm just really passionate about things
June 24, 2022 at 10:32 AM
This week has honestly been one of the worst in a long year made up of nothing but bad weeks.
And then I set my oven on fire.
Made a really good strawberry cucumber smoothie though.
Beanies I hope things are going good your way!
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Bob
June 24, 2022 at 10:52 AM
Some weeks are so awful you just gotta step back and view them ironically, like you're a character in some dark comedy.
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isa: I'm not a serial killer I'm just really passionate about things
June 24, 2022 at 11:30 AM
I'm going to lay in bed and stare at the ceiling until I fall asleep while an audiobook plays in the background. And I'm going to do it again tomorrow. Maybe even the day after. There's nothing good out there.
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spazmo
June 24, 2022 at 10:58 AM
i'm going to have to try to make a strawberry cucumber smoothie today, sounds delish!!
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isa: I'm not a serial killer I'm just really passionate about things
June 24, 2022 at 11:28 AM
It is so freaking refreshing. I made it with orange juice because it's all I had but I think it would be *amazing* with coconut something. Milk? Water? I dunno
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beffels
June 24, 2022 at 5:00 PM
Oh man. I hope your oven is ok (and you are, because oven fires are scary).
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isa: I'm not a serial killer I'm just really passionate about things
June 24, 2022 at 6:05 PM
At this point the only thing in my.kitchen I haven't set on fire at one point or another is the fridge and the sink. I'm not great in the kitchen. I try though! Oh! The blender has never been on fire! But I've only used it twice.
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beffels
June 24, 2022 at 11:25 PM
I’m pretty reasonable in the kitchen but I have still had an oven fire in the past 😅 it happens 😅
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isa: I'm not a serial killer I'm just really passionate about things
June 24, 2022 at 11:33 PM
That makes me feel better! Everyone I know always mocks me because things go awry in the kitchen for me. I'm not the only person to set the oven or the microwave or the toaster or the toaster oven on fire! These things happen!
8 tabong is ironing the crosswalk
June 24, 2022 at 11:20 AM
I'm in such a good mood. There's no reason for it but I love. I also feel like something bad is gonna happen but I don't care 😂 I feel great today, who cares if I'll cry tomorrow.
I just wanna watch Yu Mi's Cells, The Guest and eat some ice cream.
Omo, dramas and ice cream? I don't need anything else in life. Today is gonna be awesome.
Have a great day/night beanies!!! ☺️💚
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mmmmm
June 24, 2022 at 11:24 AM
I think being more and more present seems to be the only way we can kinda live happily in the world nowadays.
You have a good day/ good night you too.
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tabong is ironing the crosswalk
June 24, 2022 at 4:22 PM
I've been trying to do that these days. Sometimes it works and it feels good.
Thank you!
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isa: I'm not a serial killer I'm just really passionate about things
June 24, 2022 at 11:27 AM
That sounds *awesome* ! You enjoy every second of it!
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tabong is ironing the crosswalk
June 24, 2022 at 4:23 PM
Thanks, Isa! ^^
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ex-beanie
June 24, 2022 at 11:33 AM
aww, Nice to hear that! and ofc we don't need a 'reason' to be happy! Enjoy your weekend!
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tabong is ironing the crosswalk
June 24, 2022 at 4:23 PM
Thank you. You too! ^^
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Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
June 24, 2022 at 12:17 PM
These are the best days enjoy. So happy to hear today is going well🥳
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tabong is ironing the crosswalk
June 24, 2022 at 4:28 PM
Thank you!! ^^
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9 wapz
June 24, 2022 at 11:27 AM
I'm trying to decipher if drama music directors or the team behind releasing the instrumentals have some specific issue with me. It seems like they know what particular background music I like the most and decide that they will certainly not release it. I can't even count how many times that's happened, the latest being Bloody Heart. The full ost has all bgm and songs except for the one I was most looking forward too 🤦🏻♀️
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Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
June 24, 2022 at 12:20 PM
Do you think it will come out in a few days as I noticed they release the full OST after the programme ends not sure why and the one I wanted wasn’t easy to find on Spotify. It may be worth checking and seeing if it comes out later or is hidden on the fifth item on the OST search research
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Jance
June 24, 2022 at 1:14 PM
I'm always looking for instrumentals! They can have so much more impact than the cliche ballads. ^^
The only problem is, if I ever find these tracks somewhere legal, they're expensive and only 40 seconds... T_T
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10 lillamy
June 24, 2022 at 1:07 PM
Happy midsummer night's eve, beanies!
I managed to slash my finger while cutting corn and ended up with three stitches and desk work for the remainder of the month. I'll seriously miss my patients but desk work is also important work. One more week, then I'm off on vacation. I'm considering what shows to re-watch while on vacation and It's okay to not be okay is tantalizing.
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11 Netsuke
June 24, 2022 at 6:46 PM
A comment about men parading their bare chests at least one scene per dram set me to thinking. Weightlifting Fairy (2016) had our leading man bare from the waist up, well he was a swimmer. Plenty of bare chest and abs in Bride of Habaek (2017).
Too much “Me Tarzan, you Jane, look at my muscles” and it becomes commonplace and starts losing its appeal.
…One thing I noticed when first watching Kdramas was the lack at bare skin and body parts which was refreshing. So much better than the American type shows where nakedness of anything is plastered everywhere I liked the fact that Kdrama still had an innocence about them. You didn’t have your leading men and ladies slobbering all over each other and Russian hands and Roman fingers!
..But it does seem that nearly almost every Kdrama now HAS to show at least a couple of shots with the hero puffing out his chest baring all.
Even in Crash Landing we are yet again shown bare chest more than once, the second lead this time.
Kim Woo Bin in Uncontrollably Fond did it, (he at least had a good physique, abs and well defined muscles!).
Rowoon in The King’s Affection, looking good too. In “My Country: The New Age” we were given a double whammy of not one, but two delightful young men baring the upper bodies - Yang Se-Jong and Woo Do-hwan. Don’t get me wrong - eye candy is the stuff that dreams are made of, but too much and it becomes shameless, it means nothing.
..I shall now get off my soap box.
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Midnight
June 24, 2022 at 8:40 PM
This is nothing new. There have been obligatory shower scenes for fan service for at least as long as I have been watching dramas. It has always been a joke on db.
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beffels
June 24, 2022 at 10:03 PM
I think though back in the day the men looked more like (fit, attractive) regular people and now they are way more ripped even when the role doesn’t actually call for it. The same thing has happened in western shows but happened a few years earlier I think. I guess it makes shower scenes more “here, admire this actor’s physique” and less “you will now creepily spy on this regular man in the shower” ? 👀
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Fly Colours
June 25, 2022 at 12:23 AM
The very apt dichotomy "here, admire this actor's physique" / "You will creepily spy on this regular man on the shower" made me go 🤣🤣🤣
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Midnight
June 25, 2022 at 2:09 AM
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Midnight
June 25, 2022 at 2:13 AM
I hadn't noticed this before. Now that you mentioned it I remembered I was surprised when I saw Ji Sung's body in Devil Judge, because I have seen him topless in every single drama he has acted, but never this ripped. Very astute observation.
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Netsuke
June 27, 2022 at 7:03 PM
Well yes, who wants to look at a skinny weed with knobby knees, no muscles and rounded shoulders? If men can ogle the pretty girls, then fair’s fair, give us girls some eye candy too please!
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bbstl 🧹
June 25, 2022 at 6:57 AM
Me too. I read many (10-15) years ago that what we now call fan service is related to Confucian ideals of caring for your body as part of your filial duty (the body that your parents gave to you) and showing it is a sign of showing your good health, also looked upon as a good thing.
Now, why this applied only to men I don’t recall. It didn’t mention women at all! 🤔 Surely it has nothing to do with Confucianism being a patriarchal system and womens’ bodies being only for the male gaze? 🤨
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Midnight
June 25, 2022 at 8:46 AM
That sounds... rather contrived 😅
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bbstl 🧹
June 25, 2022 at 10:34 AM
So … you think it’s just an excuse for showing off their muscles? 😮😁
Midnight
June 25, 2022 at 10:46 AM
That's another way of putting it I guess😂
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bbstl 🧹
June 25, 2022 at 2:09 PM
I think it really got going with Rain always stripping his shirt off during his concerts! They even started his early drama Full House with a scene of him getting out of bed with very little on!
Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
June 24, 2022 at 10:32 PM
I have noticed the older drama scenes too and you are right it was normal bodies. I just think we should let the shower scenes go. We all know people get washed, go to the toilet, be sick and recycle but unless it’s taking the story somewhere let’s not see it on screen. I know there is a recycling drive in South Korea so if they do PPL for products then they should do it with something as serious as environmental issues. But when I am noticing the toilet and shower scenes that means they are not blending into the story. I literally feel they are a tick box like the Be melodramatic massage chair it gets randomly added for the sake of it. Just like we used to see half naked women in western films but not men it’s just the other way round on K dramas. I am even getting sick of prolonged kiss scenes now.
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beffels
June 24, 2022 at 11:27 PM
The toilet scenes I notice because toilet humor seems to be a big thing culturally that it just isn’t here, so what might land as funny to a local audience is just uncomfortable to me.
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Netsuke
June 27, 2022 at 1:09 PM
I don’t know which Kdramas you are watching, I haven’t noticed any prolonged kiss scenes. They’re quite chaste really, with the exception of maybe “What's Wrong with Secretary Kim?”
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Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
June 27, 2022 at 1:29 PM
I am referring to the how you know you are watching a K drama twenty camera angled zoom in plus 360 degree circle round the actors kisses in most rom coms.
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Fly Colours
June 25, 2022 at 12:11 AM
Not going to lie, I enjoy fan service. But, yes, it's cringy to tack on some shower or gym scene in every drama just to put up an actor's body for our enjoyment, and they should end it. And I agree with your point of view that too much of a good thing makes it meh. Especially if preparing these stupid scenes sends actors on a dieting/mad workout bend. Most actors look amazing as it is and put in a lot of effort to be fit - it's part of they work! - but these scenes add unecessary stress. Just let them eat ice cream and focus on the script!
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Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
June 25, 2022 at 12:59 AM
‘Not going to lie, I enjoy fan service’ made me smile as I could just see naughty cell in the corner smiling🤣🤣🤣
I worry for their physical and mental health as looks fade. They have such a small window to earn their money and then what life do they lead? There are only so many Dear my friends and On the verge of insanity kinds of dramas where they get top billing the rest of the time it’s a couple of scenes as someone’s parent or grandparent. The fact that we can recognise the actors in that older age range shows that the work is thinning out and the competition is fierce so only the well known get the parts.
I love to see gorgeous actors too but I want them to have a life and enjoy their youth too. Birthcare centre showed the impact of a female actress hiding because she put on a lot of weight when she was pregnant and was ashamed to be seen by the other women let alone the general public from paparazzi photos.
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beffels
June 25, 2022 at 4:16 AM
I’m definitely not complaining about the fan service but also basically agree on all points here!
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Netsuke
June 27, 2022 at 7:16 PM
I had to look up “fan service” to see what it was, not having heard it before - I have learned something new. There was a shower/ pool scene in Cinderella and The Four Knights, Park So-dam gets out of the water, goes to the shower? room and up comes that handsome devil Jung Il-woo in his togs standing close, very close, no kiss but you could feel the sexual tension. See - if that had been an American show it would have been portrayed differently. I only hope South Korea doesn’t follow suit.
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Kurama
June 25, 2022 at 10:23 AM
Personally, I always saw that as a compensation for the actresses who have to wear short dress, skirt, short with very high heels in every season. They suffer during the whole drama, the actor during one scene :p
After, it depends but usually it's mainly the shoulders, the back and a little of pecs.
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Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
June 25, 2022 at 11:33 AM
I hear you the women do wear ridiculous clothes, so many wearing short shorts these days to work like they are on holiday and the heels…
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12 DancingEmma
June 24, 2022 at 10:55 PM
The end of ep 6 of Yumi’s cells and that ominous foreshadowing. It came far too quickly. I am depressed already because to paraphrase Michelle Yeoh’s wonderful recent film, everything sucks everywhere all the time. Sigh.
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13 bdk0221
June 25, 2022 at 4:34 PM
Does anyone have an idea when shows like Bloody Heart and Kiss Sixth Sense will be shown on the US Disney+ subscription? Is there another way to watch them.
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14 Netsuke
June 27, 2022 at 4:26 PM
This is about a series. I watched this really good series ages ago about a boy who could remember everything that happened in his life. His father was wrongfully found guilty of murder. Later, the grown up son defends his father at retrial, he’s starting to lose his memory.
……Do you know I couldn’t remember the name or who was in it, came across it by accident the other day and am rewatching it. It is Remember: War of The Son with Yoo Seung-Ho, Park Min-young, Namkoong Min and Park Sung-woong of Man To Man.
…..As much as I like Namkoong Min, he that is his character is horrible, he has no redeeming features, whereas he was such a lovely killer in The Girl Who Sees Scents!
……Although I remember the basic storyline, it is good to rewatch because second time around I find I am more appreciative? you get deeper involved with each character’s storyline. I had forgotten how sad it is seeing Seo Jin-woo losing his memories. Am two thirds of the way through Episode 18 and I’ve been sitting bawling my eyes out. Aw, why couldn’t poor Jin-woo have been given a happier life - Alzheimers at age 22? Kdrama land you are evil, I tell you - pure evil!
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Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
June 28, 2022 at 10:52 PM
‘ he was such a lovely killer in The Girl Who Sees Scents!’ only in K drama land will they develop a character in such a way that you would write that phrase and mean it!
I would love to watch the drama Remember: war of the son based on your description it sounds so interesting but it will be too heavy for me. It’s good when we get to find the drama we enjoyed and want to watch again I have one I can’t find anywhere because the tropes I remember too common and with no name and only vaguely remembered plot it’s hopeless but you have given me hope that it can be located. I will put in a proper request to name that drama one day.
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Netsuke
June 29, 2022 at 11:09 AM
Thank you Reply1988, I watched Remember:War of The Son on YouTube as it is no longer on Netflix (Australia). Some Kdramas I love the best aren’t on Netflix now so YouTube is the only option here. Re not remembering the title, I sometimes have success by entering certain things about the show I’m searching for. Good luck with it, it can be an annoyance.
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