As much as I want to be saddened, I’m also pissed that this continues to happen to Korean entertainers. I am angry at him. Is it wrong to be angry at the way he (and other Korean artists) do this?
I can normally avoid things that can trigger me on a regular basis, but with Korean contents all over my apps, news like this are avoidable. Specially after the holidays. What do you do in situations like this?
I’m both devastated and incredibly angry but not at him. This one was totally unavoidable for me even though all my social media has been taken over by people missing a certain boy group.
It isn’t “a korean artist” thing. He was a human being. This happens to people all the time. You see it all over the news because he was a celebrity, but that’s it. He deserves respect like everyone else, no need to be angry at him.
It is hard to have this kind of information catch you out of no where and our emotional responses can be a mix of reactions to this news and triggers to other often unrelated upsetting things. I hope you have people around you to talk to about your upset and that you have effective ways to manage when you are triggered.
It must be hard for families who have experienced this situation to see the difference in responses when someone is famous while their family had to deal with the situation as part of the anonymous mass who face hurt and pain and can feel isolated in their grief.
drawde2000
December 26, 2023 at 8:30 PM
As much as I want to be saddened, I’m also pissed that this continues to happen to Korean entertainers. I am angry at him. Is it wrong to be angry at the way he (and other Korean artists) do this?
I can normally avoid things that can trigger me on a regular basis, but with Korean contents all over my apps, news like this are avoidable. Specially after the holidays. What do you do in situations like this?
drawde2000
December 26, 2023 at 8:34 PM
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drawde2000
December 26, 2023 at 8:35 PM
*unavoidable
drawde2000
December 26, 2023 at 8:45 PM
I’m also mad at their industry. As it becoming more prevalent they are not helping their members.
Maybe it’s time I gradually stop consuming their contents, coz I don’t want to have to see news like this every now and then.
Elinor, Team Glasses team co-captain
December 26, 2023 at 9:14 PM
“I am angry at him. Is it wrong to be angry at the way he (and other Korean artists) do this?”
Yes. Try for compassion. This is the opposite of helpful.
mugyuljoie is preciousss
December 26, 2023 at 9:18 PM
I’m both devastated and incredibly angry but not at him. This one was totally unavoidable for me even though all my social media has been taken over by people missing a certain boy group.
tabong is ironing the crosswalk
December 26, 2023 at 9:58 PM
It isn’t “a korean artist” thing. He was a human being. This happens to people all the time. You see it all over the news because he was a celebrity, but that’s it. He deserves respect like everyone else, no need to be angry at him.
drawde2000
December 26, 2023 at 10:09 PM
Thank you.
tabong is ironing the crosswalk
December 26, 2023 at 10:30 PM
I’m sorry if my comment sounds too aggressive. It’s a sensitive topic for me.
drawde2000
December 27, 2023 at 4:10 AM
No, not at all. I learned from that response. It was a response I needed to see.
tabong is ironing the crosswalk
December 27, 2023 at 4:16 AM
I’m glad.
Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
December 27, 2023 at 3:07 AM
It is hard to have this kind of information catch you out of no where and our emotional responses can be a mix of reactions to this news and triggers to other often unrelated upsetting things. I hope you have people around you to talk to about your upset and that you have effective ways to manage when you are triggered.
It must be hard for families who have experienced this situation to see the difference in responses when someone is famous while their family had to deal with the situation as part of the anonymous mass who face hurt and pain and can feel isolated in their grief.
redfox
December 27, 2023 at 3:31 AM
because help is unavailable? Because there is no proper support? im angry too. but angry at the system and mentality