*unavoidable

I’m also mad at their industry. As it becoming more prevalent they are not helping their members.

Maybe it’s time I gradually stop consuming their contents, coz I don’t want to have to see news like this every now and then.

“I am angry at him. Is it wrong to be angry at the way he (and other Korean artists) do this?”

Yes. Try for compassion. This is the opposite of helpful.

I’m both devastated and incredibly angry but not at him. This one was totally unavoidable for me even though all my social media has been taken over by people missing a certain boy group.

It isn’t “a korean artist” thing. He was a human being. This happens to people all the time. You see it all over the news because he was a celebrity, but that’s it. He deserves respect like everyone else, no need to be angry at him.

It is hard to have this kind of information catch you out of no where and our emotional responses can be a mix of reactions to this news and triggers to other often unrelated upsetting things. I hope you have people around you to talk to about your upset and that you have effective ways to manage when you are triggered.

It must be hard for families who have experienced this situation to see the difference in responses when someone is famous while their family had to deal with the situation as part of the anonymous mass who face hurt and pain and can feel isolated in their grief.

because help is unavailable? Because there is no proper support? im angry too. but angry at the system and mentality