I don’t think it’s fair for MS and HH to think JY and SA should just “stop loving” because no one can control their emotions like that. But, I understand them.
They are both the more oblivious ones in both triangles, and the ones that are more blunt and less sensitive/reading rooms. I think they both took SA and JY’s friendships for granted, but that is also because of how much they have trusted SA and JY that they won’t get betrayed, at least at the heated moment.
I agree that HH should be mad at both JY and JK, however, I can understand why he is behaving how he is right now. He is always on the lower head in his relationship with JK and his love to her is above anything. Him going to good schools is also FOR JK. He doesn’t even know how to be mad at JK. He thinks JY is always going to be support him, but to him, it’s almost as if JY has stabbed him from his back. Even his best intentions, the end result is JY was playing the piano for JK for 15 years, and there were unspoken romance between the two behind HH’s back, and now JK is now falling for JY. If HH would have known earlier, things might change sooner, but at least it would be “fair” to HH so both of them are on the same battleground. If JY cannot “stop loving”, then it’s true that JY should have told HH instead of having this under table sending birthday CDs for 15 years.
SA told JY to not hide the fact that MS and DY slept, because that made her the fool that she hates to be. But she did the exact same thing to MS.
But also, HH and MS both trusted their best friends to a point that they lash out the worst of themselves in front of them. They expected their friends so much that it’s worst than the betrayal from their lovers. It’s unfair to JY and SA, but it’s also how friendships sometimes are. The words HH and MS said might be childish, and not what they truly meant/think if we have given them time, but it’s human to make mistakes and have hurt your friends along the way (or families). This is the true test on whether the friendship will come back stronger, and for them to realize their mistakes and how they have hurt the friends who have their best hearts, that they have taken their friendships for granted, and how to grow up from that.
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peachietime
September 30, 2020 at 1:12 PM
The Friendships
I don’t think it’s fair for MS and HH to think JY and SA should just “stop loving” because no one can control their emotions like that. But, I understand them.
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peachietime
September 30, 2020 at 1:12 PM
They are both the more oblivious ones in both triangles, and the ones that are more blunt and less sensitive/reading rooms. I think they both took SA and JY’s friendships for granted, but that is also because of how much they have trusted SA and JY that they won’t get betrayed, at least at the heated moment.
I agree that HH should be mad at both JY and JK, however, I can understand why he is behaving how he is right now. He is always on the lower head in his relationship with JK and his love to her is above anything. Him going to good schools is also FOR JK. He doesn’t even know how to be mad at JK. He thinks JY is always going to be support him, but to him, it’s almost as if JY has stabbed him from his back. Even his best intentions, the end result is JY was playing the piano for JK for 15 years, and there were unspoken romance between the two behind HH’s back, and now JK is now falling for JY. If HH would have known earlier, things might change sooner, but at least it would be “fair” to HH so both of them are on the same battleground. If JY cannot “stop loving”, then it’s true that JY should have told HH instead of having this under table sending birthday CDs for 15 years.
SA told JY to not hide the fact that MS and DY slept, because that made her the fool that she hates to be. But she did the exact same thing to MS.
But also, HH and MS both trusted their best friends to a point that they lash out the worst of themselves in front of them. They expected their friends so much that it’s worst than the betrayal from their lovers. It’s unfair to JY and SA, but it’s also how friendships sometimes are. The words HH and MS said might be childish, and not what they truly meant/think if we have given them time, but it’s human to make mistakes and have hurt your friends along the way (or families). This is the true test on whether the friendship will come back stronger, and for them to realize their mistakes and how they have hurt the friends who have their best hearts, that they have taken their friendships for granted, and how to grow up from that.