Our Unwritten Seoul: Episodes 9-10
by quirkycase
We’re nearing the finish line, and it’s time for our characters to make some tough decisions. Our twins can’t put off their futures forever and tensions run high as they face their lives after the switch. Will they return to what they know or take a risk for something new? When push comes to shove, what are they willing to fight for, even when that fight seems impossible to win?
EPISODES 9-10
We left last week on a cliffhanger, so let’s jump right back in. Mi-rae’s smug colleagues are sure that they’ve caught the twins red-handed with their fingerprint test. They watch eagerly as Mi-rae puts her finger on the scanner … and the door unlocks. Because it actually is Mi-rae – the twins have officially switched back just in time. While it’s great they avoided disaster, it’s not all good news.
Mi-rae was doing so well, on track to taking risks and finding her own happiness. Then, she regressed after hearing that Se-jin was leaving. It’s like all the fight went out of her and she retreated into her shell. She’s always been reluctant to engage in a fight she isn’t likely to win, which made her decision to stand by her sunbae all the more significant. For once, she took the risk of doing the idealistic rather than practical thing, but it left her exhausted and alone. Now, the first sign of a setback or the fear of feeling too dependent on someone sends her packing.
Because it’s not just the bullying that’s worn Mi-rae down, but Sang-young’s betrayal. He acted like the perfect sunbae, kind and supportive right up until it no longer suited him. He got drunk and tried to kiss her, and when rumors about them started flying, he pinned it all on her. All the infuriating victim blaming made Mi-rae question her own version of the story until she felt confused and defeated enough to drop the case.
She’d been making progress thanks to her break from Seoul and meeting Se-jin who has given her a new perspective, but now she’s back where she started. Mi-rae has lost all the fight in her and even the drive to leave her toxic job. So when Tae-yi asks for her help reporting the company for their shady practices, Mi-rae refuses.
Since Mi-rae won’t help take the company to task, Tae-yi takes matters into his own hands and makes an anonymous expose on the company forum. Of course, everyone thinks it’s Mi-rae, so she’s pulled in whether she likes it or not. And it’s not that she doesn’t want to help, but she feels she can barely hold her own head above water much less save someone else.
Mi-ji has never met a fight for someone else she can ignore, so she and Mi-rae butt heads over Mi-rae’s decision. When Mi-ji storms out of Mi-rae’s, she ends up staying with Ho-soo since she has nowhere else to go in Seoul. These two are so awkward, but Mi-ji’s inability to keep things to herself forces them to talk things over. So after some initial panicking and insecurities, they work it out and even manage to finally kiss.
Meanwhile, Choong-gu stirs trouble by driving a wedge between Ro-sa and her loyal helpers Mi-ji and Ho-soo. Shortly after Ro-sa tells Mi-ji about her son who lives in a nursing home – she asks Mi-ji to consider becoming his legal guardian to help make decisions if something happens to her – Choong-gu threatens her using her son. He implies he found out about her son through spies (rather than good old fashioned research) to sow seeds of doubt. His evil genius plan works, and she pulls away from both Ho-soo and Mi-ji.
Oblivious to Choong-gu’s interference, Mi-ji comes clean to Ro-sa about her own identity, which only compounds Ro-sa’s distrust of her. Ro-sa tells her not to come by anymore, breaking Mi-ji’s heart. It’s the last straw for Mi-ji who feels her whole Seoul life is a sham. Ho-soo comforts her and supports Mi-ji’s decision to return home for now.
When Mi-ji arrives back home, Ok-hee finally notices the difference and realizes the twins were switched all this time. And that leads to a heart-to-heart that has been sorely needed for both Mi-ji and Ok-hee. Mi-ji confronts her mom about her preferential treatment of Mi-rae, and Ok-hee admits she never learned how to be a good mom and doesn’t know what to do. Ok-hee hates seeing Mi-ji live like her, trapped in their hometown living for others rather than herself. They cry and hold each other as Ok-hee begs Mi-ji to leave and find her own life.
It’s great to get an honest conversation between these two who have never been able to figure out how to connect. Ok-hee is repeating the cycle she learned from her own mother, unable to show her love to her daughter who is left craving her attention.
Now Ok-hee and her mom need to have a talk – there’s a lot of resentment there with Ok-hee believing her mom doesn’t like or care about her. Wol-soon is more childlike now, showing her every emotion that she used to hide behind a tough veneer. That scares Ok-hee who doesn’t know what to do with this version of her mother. Boon-hong again comes through, reminding Ok-hee that so long as her mom is alive, it’s not too late to figure out how to love each other.
Back in Seoul, Tae-yi takes Mi-rae to see his sister who, like Mi-ji years ago, hasn’t left her room in months. Mi-rae talks to her through the door and is distressed by her sunbae’s guilt and pain. Then, she arrives home to find two-faced, slimy Sang-young trying to get her to move to another branch for his comfort. When he catches her recording their conversation, he drops the nice façade and roughly grabs her.
That’s when Mi-ji arrives to deliver some serious catharsis. She sees him harassing her sister and launches at the man. She smacks him in the face with her bag and then whales on him while Mi-rae quietly eggs her on after ensuring no one can see them. HA.
They still get caught and brought into the police station where Sang-young plays the innocent victim as usual. Mi-rae’s anger turns to courage, and she informs the police she’s going to press charges against him again – and this time, she’s not dropping them. Look who got her spunk back!
Mi-rae gets a surprise visit from Se-jin who is upset she left without a word. Calling her would be too basic, so he buys a ridiculous, attention-grabbing car and hangs out in her neighborhood until she spots him. They spend the day hanging out with his many business-owner friends and going to the planetarium. There, he asks Mi-rae to join him in his new business venture in the States after she’s finished settling things in Seoul.
Elsewhere, Choong-gu makes good on his threats and spills everything about Ro-sa’s real identity as Sang-wol to the press. His end goal is for the restaurant ownership to be transferred to her son (the real Ro-sa’s child) whose uncle wants to sell and could assume guardianship to do so.
Unluckily for him, Mi-ji is not willing to let this lie. Ho-soo is wary of interfering, but Mi-ji is not about to let anyone hurt Sang-wol who has no one by her side. Sang-wol initially rebuffs her, but she’s once again no match for Mi-ji’s sincerity and ends up accepting her and Ho-soo’s help.
The situation would be stressful enough as it is, but Sang-wol can’t read, something she’s hidden her whole life. Except from Ro-sa who would read to her starting when they were kids in the orphanage. Sang-wol doesn’t explicitly state it, but it seems she was in love with Ro-sa. When she learned Ro-sa’s husband was abusing her, she went on the run with Ro-sa and her son. When Ro-sa’s husband found them and attacked both Ro-sa and Sang-wol, Ro-sa killed him. Sang-wol confessed to save Ro-sa and went to prison in her stead.
They lived as a family when she was released, and they decided Sang-wol should use Ro-sa’s name since she couldn’t get work now that she was an ex-convict. When Ro-sa got cancer, she put her intellectually disabled son in a care facility and instructed Sang-wol to assume her identity. She didn’t trust her husband’s family and wanted Ro-sa to have custody of her son after her death. She even left a will behind which bequeaths everything to Sang-wol.
That notarized will turns the tide in their favor, both with the courts and the public. Everyone is in a celebratory mood after tentative success with Sang-wol’s case. But we can’t have too much joy, so we know something is about to go wrong. We end the week as Ho-soo answers a phone call. He holds it up to his good ear and hears nothing. Ho-soo slowly realizes the world has gone entirely quiet.
Oh, boy. Ho-soo had painful ringing in that ear while talking to Choong-gu, and it looks like it might not be a one-off issue. If he does go fully deaf, I hope he doesn’t try to hide it like in the past. He’s not exactly great at sharing or even admitting his struggles, so I’ll be surprised if he lets Mi-ji help and support him at first. I’m just hoping he doesn’t instigate some ridiculous noble idiocy breakup rather than talking to her and figuring things out together.
I was worried for Mi-rae after her 10 steps backward, but she seems to have reached a turning point. I’m so glad she’s ready to confront Sang-young again and is standing up for herself. I think doing business with Se-jin in the States could be a good move once she’s wrapped things up with her old job. She needs a fresh start and the chance to do something she loves, and we already know they work well together. As for Mi-ji, I’m glad she unburdened herself to her mom and can now take steps forward without feeling guilty about leaving her family behind.
I love how this drama explores the complexities of familial relationships and how one person can serve different roles for different people. Wol-soon was a harsh mother to Ok-hee who, like Mi-ji, was left feeling insufficient. But she was a saving grace for Mi-ji, showing never ending love and support. Then there are the unconventional families like Boon-hong and Ho-soo or Ro-sa and Sang-wol who created their own family units and navigated a different set of challenges to pave their own paths. I never expected Sang-wol to be such a large part of the narrative, but the little family of sorts she’s found with Ho-soo and Mi-ji is adorable. Now that it’s Ho-soo’s turn for a crisis, hopefully he too can learn to accept the love and support of the people around him rather than feeling like a burden.
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Tags: Cha Mi-kyung, Got7 Jinyoung, Im Chul-soo, Jang Young-nam, Kim Sun-young, Our Unwritten Seoul, Park Bo-young, Ryu Kyung-soo
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1 latebloomer
June 24, 2025 at 5:45 PM
Se-jin was very careful to frame his visit to Seoul in terms of business: meeting other business owners, calling Mi-rae his business partner, offering her to continue their partnership in the States. Yeah, yeah. But who would bring out that car just to get the attention of a business partner? Why was he so upset that his business partner took off without listening to his plans face-to-face? How much was suggested and left unsaid when he offered for Mi-rae to join him in the States? He's never been direct about his feelings for her, but he let us know at least twice. Once when he said he likes the rumors about them. And again at the end of episode 9 when he said, "Why does it feel like I've run away from home again?" and set out for Seoul. I like Mi-ji and Ho-su, but Mi-rae and Se-jin are so much more interesting right now.
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Aigoo-ka-choo
June 24, 2025 at 6:34 PM
I'm a fan of these two as well. I've always liked their dynamic, and especially the way in which he draws her out of her funk and allows her to see her own value without being overly forceful.
I was pleasantly surprised by the idea of them both going to the US (or anywhere). The strawberry farm probably wasn't going to be the best use of their talents and I'd love to see Mi-rae shine in her chosen field of finance.
Maybe they could set up a fund to advise and help launch first-time business owners, because I loved their trip around all the different businesses that his friends had established....
In a world of Chaebol's and evil corporations small business owners seem like heroes/heroines!
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vienibenmio
June 25, 2025 at 8:27 AM
Yes, Se-jin is REALLY good for her. I love when romance stories have each person in the couple bring out the best in each other. I think the same thing is true of Mi-ji and Ho-su, too. He grounds her, and she gives him much needed levity
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2 empressgirl
June 24, 2025 at 6:21 PM
These pair of episodes! It just gets better and better!
The writing is tight yet subtle, the dialogue sparkles and burns, the acting is stellar
Nail the ending, stick the landing -- and OUS will be a keeper for many many Beanies here, not just for 2025 but for years to come ❤❤
p.s. I legit guffaw at the part when the camera pulls into a wide shot, and we can vaguely hear Mi-rae hissing to a furiously pummelling Mi-ji: "Hit him a little bit more! No one is coming!"
p.p.s. I love the epilogue: Park Bo-young corners the market on cute. No one can make *cute* look so natural. Every time I see PBY I wanna put her into my pocket. (the FL over at Our Movie should take notes)
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Aigoo-ka-choo
June 24, 2025 at 6:26 PM
Talking of cute, I have seen several versions of the ML squishing the FL's cheeks, but she did the cutest ever rendition of that!
Also I felt like I could see Ho-soo (or rather Park Jin-young) trying hard to repress a laugh in that moment. I imagine it might have needed a few takes...
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3 Aigoo-ka-choo
June 24, 2025 at 6:21 PM
My fave bit of writing this week....
Despite being a big fan of long-awaited kiss scenes😘, I loved how this one was interrupted by some much needed sharing of inner monologues and insecurities... (and that the extended kiss we got afterwards was even better for it)💕
A k-drama device that brings out my panto response (shouting at the TV like it can hear me!) is the 'withheld info' leading to noble idiocy trope - where everything could be fixed if a couple just had a straightforward conversation - so there is something so satisfying in seeing that happen with these two.
As Ho-soo says, Mi-ji's honesty is her best trait, and whilst they both default to the 'noble sacrifice' of not burdening the other person with their news/issues, I love that she always finds a way to break through that in the end.
Hopefully that will continue, since it sure seems like Ho-soo will be going down the withholding info path again re his advancing deafness.
Also, this storyline makes me so sad- I know K-dramas rarely give us any kind of medical verisimilitude but dropping in such an major development with only 1 week to go feels like a bit of a melo choice. Can't we just focus on the kind of lawyer he wants to be and getting him to fix his relationship with his mom? Apparently not. Sigh.
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Saya42
June 24, 2025 at 10:27 PM
This drama has repeatedly used k-drama-esque plot devices as impetus for characters to talk to one another. My guess is that this development with Ho-soo will finally result in mom and son talking (otherwise I'll be really disappointed!) But the kind of lawyer he wants to be might well be relegated to the end/epilogue which is a shame.
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queenmee
June 25, 2025 at 4:54 AM
I also had the same thought that if Hosu completely shuts Mi-ji off, it might be a good chance for them to bring in the mom to resolve some issues they have.
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TwoCentsWorth
June 25, 2025 at 8:05 AM
I noticed this tendency to end the even episodes with these burning questions. Will the rotten villains find out about the twin swap? Has Ho-soo lost his hearing? Tune in next week to find out!
But, yes, it's odd choice. His hearing issue was a major issue in his childhood and then set aside (fair enough, new tech, etc), only to suddenly be brought up again right at the end. But I hope the drama uses this strategically as Saya42 and Queenmee said esp. if noble idiocy is involved. At least we know it can only last a max of two episodes.
Also, I loved that interrupted kiss scene too.
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4 LillyBee
June 24, 2025 at 6:51 PM
Cried at the end of both episodes. Was proud of Mirae for speaking up and fighting back and was sad to see Hosu's predicament (+ sad song playing in the background= tears).
Slight gripe with the cringey lines the drama inserts here and there: the two broken people together are whole line from last week and this week's you can't love without being loved first. Noooo.
Also not too happy with them not spelling out people's relationships (in the case of Rosa and her friend). I'm assuming they were friends, and it's great to see that in a drama. But mass media does tend to uphold the status quo in many ways and dramas tend to be heteronormative and amatonormative. And people uphold that as well. I've seen lots of comments insisting that Rosa is a lesbian because they had to be MORE than friends because there's no way friends do that. Gross. Well, I'm just happy they're showing the love between women. And any alternative to the pedestaling of the nuclear family is welcomed by me. Also why I would've loved to have seen the twins have friends.
I also hope Mirae doesn't move to another country to follow farmer guy. I mean, unless she wants to go on her own accord. But still. I would like to see Mirae have her own storyline, figure out her own path. Same with Miji. Same with Hosu. Hope they all figure it out.
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LillyBee
June 24, 2025 at 6:55 PM
Forgot to mention that I wasn't too happy with the institutionalization of the disabled child. Granted, we don't have the context for it. But this sequestering of disabled people can be so harmful.
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Martine
June 25, 2025 at 6:49 PM
There was literally no choice. She couldn't run the restaurant, which takes very long hours and care for a severely intellectually disabled child. If he is placed in a good institution, he is better off, as they have programs for them and constant care. And she seemed to go see him often, so he wasn't abandoned.
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vienibenmio
June 25, 2025 at 8:29 AM
To be fair, only Sang-wol had romantic feelings. Ro-sa really did just seem to have very deep platonic love for her best friend. So both were represented, I think!
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LillyBee
June 25, 2025 at 1:47 PM
Yeah, I couldn't decipher what was going on. At the end of the day, I was just cool with them loving and caring for each other (regardless of relationship status). You can also bring up relationship anarchy and queerplatonic relationships here, but that's a story for another day.
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5 abalyn
June 24, 2025 at 6:56 PM
These episodes were so powerful. I thought we might get only dragging feet by the twins, but instead we got that amazing conversation between Mi-ji and her mom, the twins stepping forward, and the beautiful backstory of the Rosa pair. I loved how Rosa believed eventually her friend would find new people who loved her, and that she was a poem in her own right.
Ho-su’s hearing problems getting worse at least seem very realistic to me as the closing problem before the finale. However, let’s hope the show sticks the landing, and he also gets the chance to think about his future.
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6 Britney
June 24, 2025 at 7:07 PM
I thought the way the Ro Sa lawsuit and media play fell apart was SO satisfying haha. I liked how the original Ro Sa had the foresight to leave that will and handle as many arrangements as she could.
I think this was my first time seeing gay characters featured in a drama like this and it's not a huge emphasis on it. Actually I can't remember if I've seen any dramas with gay characters; I know they exist, I just don't remember if I've watched any. Anywho, there's not much emphasis on it but even with what's been shown, I still find it affecting because we know how conservative the country is and to this day, there is only one really famous gay person in the whole of the country so I can imagine how lonely and alienating that must've been.
Mi Rae's coworkers are just.. why do people have to suck so much?
When the strawberry farm owner said he was considering to The US. Two things came to mind: 1. That is gonna be changed to other countries soon enough and 2. What about his farm? I really thought they were gonna stay with it and make it successful
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latebloomer
June 24, 2025 at 11:55 PM
Mi-ji will run the strawberry farm.
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vienibenmio
June 25, 2025 at 6:30 AM
Do you think Ho-su will leave Seoul then?
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welh
June 25, 2025 at 5:27 AM
I viewed the Rosa Sang-wol relationship as sisters/family. They were orphans. In order to survive, they became close friends. Rosa looked after Sang-wol because she could not read so her future was not good. But when Rosa got into literary circle, the friendship was strained until toxic husband abuse. Sang-wol took the blame so Rosa could live for her child. Family sacrifices for family.
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vienibenmio
June 25, 2025 at 6:28 AM
Imo, it was pretty strongly implied that Sang-wol left because she was in love with Ro-sa and knew that her feelings could ruin everything
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TwoCentsWorth
June 25, 2025 at 6:59 AM
And I wasn't sure. Sometimes it leaned one way, sometimes the other. I wonder if they deliberately left room for us to interpret what we want. As mentioned, it's still a conservative country.
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Britney
June 25, 2025 at 7:42 AM
Exactly.
I wonder if the exact wording/phrasing is different in korean because based on the subtitles AND the scene when she's recounting the story, it's fairly obvious that she was implying she was in love with Ro Sa. But it's interesting that it can also not appear that way to others.
I kinda wondered if this is why, in part, it was established earlier Mi Ji had a gay best friend. Then again it probably didn't matter cause she would've always approached the situation from a place of compassion and non judgement
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kay4625
June 25, 2025 at 12:41 PM
Yeah, I thought the "I was the one who was flawed. To me, Ro-sa was..." followed by a long silence (as you see a subtle realization dawn upon Mi-ji) was a dead giveaway. That was the moment I knew.
I like to think I can spot queer subtext, and I thought that whole flashback sequence was full of it. Korea is pretty good at the subtext part, but sadly they still seem to be a bit too conservative to do more with it.
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7 Cori
June 24, 2025 at 9:18 PM
Mi-ji's "no one messes with my sister" take down of Mr. Park with Mi-rae's "yeah get some more hits in, no one's around" reaction was the best haha
I thought we might be getting another sister switch up and a storyline similar to When the Weather is Fine, but they gave us a beautiful story with Sang-wol and Ro-sa.
I'm not sure where we're headed with the finale, but this show has totally aced it so far with how much the characters have grown and found good people, as Ro-sa said, "who will read you".
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vienibenmio
June 25, 2025 at 6:29 AM
To be honest, I was hoping Se-jin would show up, but Mi-ji was even better! I was cheering aloud at the TV.
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TwoCentsWorth
June 25, 2025 at 7:06 AM
When Mi-rae egged Mi-ji on, I guffawed; it was so unexpected. I haven't liked Mi-rae's arc as much, I think in part because we saw so little of her and in what we got, she was so reticent.
But that was really changed in these episodes and that comment of hers really showed her growth. And I know we shouldn't condone violence, but god, it was satisfying.
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sadhahada
June 26, 2025 at 10:55 PM
OH i knew Rosa and sangwol’s storyline was familiar for some reason, it was the sisters from when the weather is fine Ahah
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8 queenmee
June 25, 2025 at 5:14 AM
I'm a sucker for character-driven stories, and this drama is really holding up so far. The writing is so intimate and thoughtful, it made me look up the writer—and lo and behold, it's the same one who wrote Youth of May. Should we be bracing ourselves for heartbreak again? Maybe. But even if it ends in tears, I know it'll be worth it.
That said, I'm just so happy we got to see the stories of Sang-wol and Ho-su's mom. I love how these women were written full of quiet strength, dignity, and depth.
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9 welh
June 25, 2025 at 5:16 AM
There was a tsunami of low female self-esteem in Episode 9 that washed us to the deepest despairs and fears of Mi Ji, Mi Rae and even their mother. Mom’s low self-esteem led her to a low value life (in her mind) partly because her mother did not give her attention/encouragement/time. She imparted that same angst, distress, introversion onto her daughters. Adversity equals mental crushing anxiety: Mi Ji lost it all when she broke her ankle; hr worth was shattered; Mi Rae’s career was shattered by three points in the civil service exam. They built hard shells around their emotions; and killed off any big dreams. The Twins found themselves worth nothing special; easily manipulated and gaslit by bad men.
Last week’s cliffhanger was solved simply but unexpectedly. MiRae is back at the office but with a different attitude. She has her resignation letter in her purse. She probably would have left but she sensed something was off. Tae-I brought her back to her dark company moments which assaults her core. When Park ambushes her to get her to effectively quit via transfer, Mi Rae starts to fight back (recording) but is defeated until Mi Ji shows up to pummel doppelganger dad. Bravo with another simple and satisfying solution. My presumption was correct that Park and superiors made up an HR case showing MiRae having an affair when she was actually the victim of harassment. They could not fire her so they demoted her to outcast.
Ho Su shows up at the police station and correctly points out Park is at fault and Mi Ji was rightfully rescuing her sister. These out-of-the-ordinary events gives Mi Rae the courage to fight. She will no longer run away.
Strawberry Fields Forever appears to no longer run away after his talk with Mi Ji. It is interesting that Mi Ji actions catalyzed other characters to change. Se-Jin is on the road to Seoul. (I may be wrong but I think Se-Jin was talking to return to work for Director Yoon . . is he the same guy who is the new KFMC CEO? I hope so because that would put Mi Rae’s strong ally in the wolf’s den.) The director’s final footage appears to confirm another presumption that Evil Mentor would destroy Rosa and her secret swap to get the restaurant for the company but it was shot in the way of spy camera footage from the statue of justice. A sledge hammer foreshadowing? Clearly the other big law firm does not think highly of Mentor.
The expose of Rosa did not go as Mentor had planned. There is a legal maxim that Mentor violates: do not ask a question that you do not already know the answer to. He assumed that Rosa’s identity theft made her not the owner of the land. The writer did get a high mark for having real Rosa take care of her legal estate prior to dying with a will and explanation to protect Sang-Wol. Mi Ji found her legs by running around getting scholarship winner character reference letters. Mi Rae also got her focus by taking her cases slowly with the goal of winning. The only thing that can...
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welh
June 25, 2025 at 5:18 AM
.... complicate things is Se-Jin’s proposal non-proposal to her to go the States. Initially, I thought he tried to Flex all his businesses on workshop day, but it was just helping office friends find their dreams. He wants to do the same for Mi Rae. Whether she will accept it is unknown. Also unknown is whether Mi Ji and Ho Su will decide what they really want to do with their lives.
I note that the ending could have been marked as “no good deed goes unpunished” but this is a carry over from last week’s thought about Mentor’s office being bugged. Ho Su’s hearing aid malfunctioned in Mentor’s office . . . electrical or wavelength interference? This does set up Mi Ji the Caregiver to help Ho Su cope just as she did with her grandmother. and Rosa.
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10 vienibenmio
June 25, 2025 at 6:17 AM
As someone who works with sexual assault survivors, the response to Mi-rae's initial report made me soooo furious. I hope that isn't realistic in Korea. I like how Mi-rae learned that keeping your head down doesn't necessarily keep you safe, so you might as well try fighting back. It was a little hard to root for her before when she was being so passive--granted, people can really be like that, but it's not fun for the viewer, especially contrasted with Mi-ji. I think Mi-ji may be my favorite FL in a long time.
I really hate Mi-rae's company and I want it to burn to the ground. The ex-employee's younger brother and the girl who was questioning if something actually did happen are allowed to remain unscathed and may find other jobs, better jobs. Maybe they can go work for Se-jin. Speaking of Se-jin, I love him so much. He's such a great character. I hope Mi-rae goes to the USA. I think she'd thrive here. I'm not saying that our situation for workers is GREAT, but I feel like she'd have more protection than she did at this other company. Then again, Se-jin would be working with her so I imagine that she'd be fine either way.
The story with Ro-sa struck me as shockingly progressive for a Kdrama, and also made me cry. She is a very interesting character.
Ho-su is kind of annoying me, not gonna lie. He keeps saying he doesn't stand for the little guy, but for justice, but I wish he'd realize that by nature of the system the little guy cannot get justice unless someone stands for them.
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TwoCentsWorth
June 25, 2025 at 7:16 AM
I've been thinking about the mini "green flag ML" backlash I've been reading esp. those who are perceived as perfectly bland.
Now, I love green flag MLs and Ho-soo is one. But he isn't perfect, he's got his own challenges other than his relationship with the FL. So he's more interesting as an imperfect character who has his own growth arc. But yes, it's about time Ho-soo. We're going on Ep 11. Get with it!
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vienibenmio
June 25, 2025 at 7:40 AM
Yes, I also think that MLs are unrealistically perfect and bland lately. I think Ho-soo proves that you can be a green flag while still having complexity and growth as a character in your own right. Although, sadly, "ML hides his struggles from everyone" is one of the more common ML character flaws in Korea. This reminds me a TON of the webcomic Operation True Love, I honestly wonder if the writer took some inspiration from it.
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TwoCentsWorth
June 25, 2025 at 7:57 AM
I haven't read that webcomic (or any 😅). But yeah, that version of the stiff upper lip sure is there.
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Anonymous
June 25, 2025 at 3:11 PM
I think the response to Mi-rae's initial report is very realistic.
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Anon
June 26, 2025 at 12:42 AM
Unfortunately this is realistic for majority of the world. I have an aunt who worked in a permanent public industry similar to Mirae's workplace and she talks a lot about two similar cases involving colleagues from a decade ago and in fact things could have gone a lot worse in the drama.
What shocked me more is multiple comments on several forums asking how is this a case of sexual harrasment legally when he only attempted to kiss her like, a regular guy apparently, and to directly quote one "SA / Harassement case it too far fetched. Guy misunderstood the situation went for a kiss and got rejected. He apologized and stopped there, didn't pursue nothing further...If we go by that definition, then half of the dramas out there would be considered cases of sexual harassment because in most of them, the leads initiate a kiss without asking for permission, assuming the other person is also interested"
Is it a wonder our world is like this when they can't even follow the events or characterizations in a drama which peppers in perspectives you can't normally see. There is no way his behaviour pattern appears normal plus he confessed that he deliberately manipulated public reputations for survival when he went to confront Mirae. Most of these commentors seem to be projecting themselves in his shoes and being defensive to the point they are trying to obfuscate the typical guilty pleasure shoujos and harlequin tropes and a boy meets girl situation. It's fine if they didn't seem have a concept of a workplace scenario but if that's the general mindset what will ever change. It's not like that regular scenario isn't depicted ever in media, it is. Frail ego, blaming the victim even though she is the protagonist and we're supposed to see it from her perspective but the defensiveness or mindset blinds them. The drama even gave it a fictional twist so it's easy to follow her perspective by making him their late father's doppelganger.
Also anyone who works in France know if France has a policy where you can only file for harassment if it's several times coz even in my shitty country it's any instance and Google was contradictory?
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Anon
June 26, 2025 at 12:46 AM
*Also the fact that a bunch of us have been complaining how dramas haven't evolved out of outdated tropes at all but that wasn't these commentors real concern.
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vienibenmio
June 26, 2025 at 5:49 AM
Oh, that's incredibly depressing. I agree that the attempted kiss itself could be written off as a more innocent mistake, but it's the retaliation afterwards that makes it sexual harassment.
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11 Rachel2
June 25, 2025 at 8:03 AM
I loved Rosa and Sang-wol's story. For me there was no doubt that they had a romantic relationship, although it was portrayed with subtlety. I've seen a lot of gay male characters in dramas but never a lesbian couple, as far as I can remember.
Through the middle episodes of the drama, I thought there was too much plot--every character seemed to have their own tragic backstory--but then it all came together in such a satisfying way in episode 10. Rosa and Sang-wol's decision to give Sang-wol Rosa's name parallels the twins' switch, and maybe that's why Rosa/ Sang-wol was so angry when she found out that "Mi-rae" was really Mi-ji. There were also parallels between the way both pairs of women suffered in a male-dominated society. I enjoyed seeing the women finally starting to win.
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TwoCentsWorth
June 25, 2025 at 8:12 AM
Honestly, I thought Ro-sa and and Sang-wol's storyline pulled so many sentimental heartstrings: orphans, illiteracy, abuse, cancer, disability, noble sacrifices, etc, etc.
And I fell for it hook, line and sinker. I knew what they were doing. And they got me anyway. I was wiping away tears. Well done, show.
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vienibenmio
June 25, 2025 at 8:31 AM
I legit cried. I've only cried during three other dramas: Castaway Diva, Atypical Family, and Second Shot at Love (to be fair, the last one I think might have been influenced by hormones)
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LaurenSophie
June 25, 2025 at 6:30 PM
Me too. Ro-sa's words about how someday, Sang-wol would find people who would see her for who she is really got me because isn't this what everyone wants? It was both specific to the story of these two women and humans on the whole, which made it particularly beautiful.
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TwoCentsWorth
June 26, 2025 at 5:28 AM
Also, a shout out to the actress playing the elder "Ro-sa." Gruff and temperamental, lonely and vulnerable. She absolutely primed us for this lovely story.
12 too_much_tv
June 25, 2025 at 12:19 PM
Thanks for the excellent recap.
After reading others' comments here, I want to talk about how the Rosa and Sangwol story fits into the rest of the drama. The main story of this drama is about Miji and her twin Mirae figuring out how to be adults after the trauma in their childhoods delayed their maturation. All the parents on the show are trying to figure out how to show their children they love them. All the children are trying not to be a burden to their parents.
In the middle of the action is this love story between two orphaned girls. In a culture where men are better than women, biological connection makes someone your "real" parent or child, and not having a dad for any reason makes people look down on the individual, the screen writers put this couple in the center. Were they lesbians? The show leaves the question open. On some level it's unimportant, since their connection is so deep and meaningful that Sangwol has borrowed all of Rosa's troubles. She serves time for Rosa's manslaughter of her husband, she takes on the disabled child that Rosa can't parent, and she lives with Rosa's absence after her death. Essentially she stands in for Rosa in the same way that Miji stands in for Mirae.
I feel like the reason we need this particular connection is that the story has already worked out how to valorize all the other relationships between women. The twins are only one pairing, but there are also the mother and grandmother, the two moms who live next door to each other, and Mirae and her revered sunbae. The romantic friendship of the two orphans is there to round it all out.
The other thing that I noticed in these episodes was that the screenwriters are opposed to patriarchy, but they see individual men as loving, healing, and human. Both Hosu's and Miji's dads were the people who knew best how to show love. Hosu and Sejin are really great boyfriends, but there is also Miji's "ex" and the sunbae's brother. Hosu's mom even says that she didn't know what it was to be loved until she met Hosu's dad.
A lot of what k-dramas, like other romance content, do for us is help us figure out what marriage is. Between fate, and sensitivity to our own emotions, they map out the possibility that we can find happiness with another person whom we ourselves choose. I see that as part of the message here.
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LillyBee
June 25, 2025 at 2:07 PM
Good point. I saw a comment somewhere about women saving women being a theme of the show.
Also something I see a lot in dramas- the benevolent patriarch. A sort of liberalism there. In that dramas will talk about these systems while still maintaining investment in them. They might talk about community. But they'll still go back to marrying a NICE man and building that nuclear family there. I mean, that's what romance dramas do. Though the definition of romance is vague, it's typically seen as a couple doing couple things. I saw this more with When Life Gives You Tangerines. I'm not sure what Our Unwritten Seoul is going to do (since it's not over yet and it hasn't been too couple-centric in my book). Dear My Friends was the one drama I've seen that subverted this. The Japanese drama- Koisenu Futuri- also did this from an aspec lens.
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vienibenmio
June 25, 2025 at 2:20 PM
There's also romance as a way for women to obtain financial (or social) security, like Austen often portrayed.
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too_much_tv
June 25, 2025 at 9:05 PM
A good dad or a good husband isn't necessarily a benevolent patriarch. Patriarchy is the rule of the father. Creating a character where the dad is dear and loving isn't the same thing as creating a dad who rules. (Except maybe in the slang sense of being a wonderful person, "wow, your dad rules!" etc. ) Miji's flashbacks with her dad show him reaching out to her and supporting her emotionally with love. I guess on some level I'm hoping that this can be the model--not the "nice guy" who is an exception but still gets slotted into the same role. Maybe that can't be done.
Yes, there is a problematic tendency to valorize marriage the traditional family and its roles in these dramas. It's been a good 100-150 years of people picking their own spouses to conform with the kinds of choices that their parents would have made for them if they were picking. Because that's what it means when people chose based on the partner's family or earning capacity.
This is where I think this show's discussions of the impact of disability could distinguish it. When push comes to shove, will Sejin want to marry Mirae if she can't expect to have children? Can she? Korean dramas represent to us a popular culture where people blame the victims of misfortune or ill luck. How is that going to impact the households that these characters choose to build? It could go any number of ways.
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aigooooo
June 25, 2025 at 2:35 PM
Ah, brilliant comment. The whole thing seems so generous and human.
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13 aigooooo
June 25, 2025 at 2:32 PM
Aaah, so worried! No trauma, no noble idiocy, just land this beautiful thing. Please please please.
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14 sadhahada
June 26, 2025 at 10:59 PM
I feel so bad for hosu, i don’t want him to get a sad ending )): Also didn’t expect to be so into the strawberry farm duo’s storyline but they are turning out to be such a breath of fresh air tgt, they fit each other so perfectly.
The moms friendship is so wholesome too~
p.s. Was blissfully unaware that this was only going to be 12 eps long, now i’m sad 😞
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15 Edgar Pordwed
June 28, 2025 at 12:30 AM
Oh yeah Mi-rae should go to the US and start a business!!
I think Mi-ji will run the strawberry farm and do the guardianship, and then hopefully figure things out! She'll also have to figure how to help Ho-su live this new life.. in case his loss of hearing is permanent! Too bad for Ho-su!
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16 Northern Menace
June 28, 2025 at 10:12 AM
Is the hospitalized grandmother actually the poet?
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too_much_tv
July 3, 2025 at 5:47 PM
No. Even though Mi-ji and Sang-wol decided to continue to have a great aunt and great niece relationship, they aren't actually related. The poet was another girl in the orphanage with Sang-wol.
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