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[Drama Chat] Keep confessing

Back by popular demand, more chatting about K-drama confession scenes! I mean, there is never too much of a good thing.

We chatted about this a while back, but there have been many new examples — glorious, mediocre, cringe — that have graced us since.

Top of my list, of course, is Sun-jae’s ultimate confession to Sol in Lovely Runner where he willfully loves her knowing he’ll die. But more subtle confession scenes are high on my list too, like the mutual recognition that led to a ~confession embrace~ moment in Love Scout.

From the perfectly dramatized moment to the look that says it all, confession scenes don’t often disappoint.

Thoughts on K-drama confession scenes? Favorites? Fails? Ones that were so perfect you’ll never forget them?

 


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Reply 1997 (norebang scene)
Reply 1988 - (non) mock confession

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R-88, that scene was electric. So sad he turned it into a joke...

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Since we are going for recent, Captivating the ing takes the price for confession scene. Episode 8 ending specifically.
Jo Jung-seok pulled his weight as Lee In dealt with the reveal that his baduk player is actually the woman he fell for years ago. It was so believable.

Since I'm currently watching It Is Always Midnight in Hagwon, I'm not going to reference the confession but Hye-jin confessing her feelings to her best friend. All this while, I thought she was unshaken by Jun-ho's romantic moves. But this vulnerability she eased into here is something else.

The confession that had me pulling my hair out? Marry My Husband. Who confesses love, proceeds to a kiss, and cuts the kiss mid-tempo with this speech I don't even care to understand. ML was really dumb here. "This is not how you temper your butterflies, sir ML", jerrykuvira says.

Eagle Brothers first direct confession from ML to FL.
(ML has been so good and nice to FL and FL is finally starting to ask what's up with the niceness, with the latest being a food basket).
ML: You do the receiving of the gifts and thoughts. I'll do the sending.
FL: (...)
We'll know her response to that this week.

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Ah, Captivating The King! Also episode 9. How well he carried the intensity and passion into their night. “I finally understand why my heart was torn in pieces after sending you to your death.” I had so much tears and bosom-clutching for the confession and these scenes. The most enigmatic, sexiest King of them all in kdrama.

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It frustrated me so much that the FL's writing and the actress wasn't at the King and JJS's acting level.

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It wasn't, at all.
All I can remember about the confession is Lee In and Jo Jung-seok. The actor breathe a formidable aura on screen.

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Brain Works 🤩 Twice. Once when Kwak Sun Young confesses to Cha Tae Hyun, and oncd when he confesses to her. Not to mention the hilariously effective love counselor role Jung Young Hwa played in between as a man who knew nothing about matters of heart except those that related directly to brain and science!

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The confession that swept me off my feet recently: in episode 13 (I think) of When Life gives you Tangerines, Park Chun-seob runs after the bus which Yang Geum-Myeong has entered after her cinema visit. He finally catches the bus and watches over her, as she sleeps until they reach the last bus stop. When he enters the bus it is packed, and he slowly inches towards her during the ride, providing her head with his soft scarf against the window to comfort her in her sleep. She awakes, sees him, now in the row before her seat in the now almost empty bus, takes a moment and then asks if this is a dream.
The bus ride until now is so wonderfully filmed with them both slightly illuminated and her voice-over detailing what it took for them to meet here and now, and what follows is one of the sweetest and most heartfelt confession scenes I have ever watched. And I have watched it a lot of times! Partly because I couldn't believe this is the same guy who painted the cinema paintings before, but mainly because this is just so wonderfully and lovingly acted, especially by Kim Seon-ho. He oozes his love for her out of every pore, and puts everything out in the open for her so that he won't waste this chance that just fell into his lap but is still so careful - he reluctantly asks her if she was alone at the cinema, and when she says she was, he is sooo relieved. I was so touched by these scenes that I still wasn't able to get them out of my head!
I've watched a lot of kdramas by now and have seen lots of confession scenes, but since I saw this I can't seem to remember the others...it will be hard to top this one!

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That whole scene was such a gift. I walk around a lot with a goofy smile on my face, just remembering it. Apparently the kids are doing a "smoke like Kim Seon-ho" challenge, which I find delightful.

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I didn't care for Kim Seon-ho in Hometown Cha-cha-cha, which was the only time I saw him before this. But he changed my mind here and scene so good, I re-watched it several times. The last time was yesterday.

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I thought he did his character justice in Hometown Cha-cha-cha
But, to me, he hit the perfect madness tone in The Childe His smile had an edge of The Shining in there (admittedly that is assuming that Nicholson would be able to play anything else but that same one character every single time, but that's not the point)

The Childe is another one of those where they got him to run, but for once it was fun as his character flatly complaints about it.

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I don't think he did a bad job in Hometown. I just didn't like the leads much in general. I felt no connection and dropped it after 5 or 6 episodes.

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Let’s Eat (2013) Shim Hyung Tak confesses to Lee Soo Kyung , after the fact, he knows that she likes someone else , Yoon Doo Joon , a model for 2L’s everywhere.

It’s been so long since I’ve watched it , I’ll have to rewatch it.

Lee Soo Kyung, Unnie , please make dramas again, she had been gone for 5 years or so.

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I haven't logged on in ages and had to log in just to reply to your comment about Let's Eat. Lee Soo Kyung was brilliantly cast in this drama and what a real real real shame they for whatever reason decided to change the lead for 2 &3. She was wonderful and there was absolutely no need to switch her out. This drama series belongs to her in much the same way that Kudoku Gurume belongs to the lead actor in that Japanese food drama. The role suited her so well. I am still dumbfounded and confounded by what happened and didn't happen for her. Such a wonderful actress...

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She did really well in Let’s Eat . I think she has a natural knack for comedy.

Shout out to earth_colors and Wabi-Sabi Subs for their work on Kudoku Gurume

https://earth-colors.dreamwidth.org/

A lot of info and notes about the drama at the site

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Eternal respect to the hard working fansubbers who make jdramas available to us <3

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Wasn't Lee Soo Kyung in DOG KNOWS EVERYTHING?

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She is, I have not seen it.

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_ The girl who sees smells. I probably mentioned this confession in the other discussion, but it still is one of my favorite ones because it was so pretty. The ML wrote his confession in the air spritzing perfume, and the FL saw it like hundreds of flowers and colored shapes. Awesome!

_ Twinkling Watermelon: Yi Chang to Cheong Ha. Singing in sign language.

_ My Dearest: "My body is yours, my soul is yours, my heart is yours too".

There are other confessions I really liked even though I can't remember the exact words: Grand Prince, 25-21, Fated to love you, Flower Boy Next Door...

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"the ML wrote his confession in the air spritzing perfume, and the FL saw it like hundreds of flowers and colored shapes."

I never watched it, and you just SOLD this drama for me.

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It's quite entertaining. Crime + comedy + romance.
And Namgoong Min 😌

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Still THE most terrifying K-drama villain I’ve ever encountered—forever ingrained in my mind 😅😅
Next would be Shin Sung Rok from My Love from the Stars

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Namgoong Min corners the market in playing debonair psychopaths. ❤❤

His psychopath villain in Remember: War of the Sons was so scary effective I read somewhere a car brand dropped him as their ambassador after watching his villain character smashed a car up in a scene in that show 😆

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@joanna
Oh yes! There’s his villain character in Remember: God’s Son as well!
After watching Remember…, I remember thinking that—in comparison — his villain in The Girl Who Sees Smells was definitely more cartoonish/unreal/ a caricature of sorts, but still made my spine tingle, yet, with Remember: God’s Son, his villain character was easier to see, to grasp, to wrap my head around— very slimy and evil

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Tangerines: Gwan-sik in the daisy field with Ae-sun's hand tucked in his sports windbreaker. The entire lead-up to the confession and kiss was GOLD.

Actually, every act of service that he has ever done for her is a love confession: from selling every single damn cabbage for her for years, to feeding her fish for a decade, to jumping ship and swimming back to shore for her etc

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Having just finished episode 27 of Eagle Brothers, I absolutely loved Chairman Han's confession to Gwangsuk - a confession of a middle aged widower to a fellow widow, with no rose-tinted glasses on, with the message: I know you well, warts and all, and I love you exactly because you are who you are. (With that kind loving twinkling look Ahn Jaewook can do so well. 😍)

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So they took it up a notch in Eagle Brothers.
Ahn Jae-wook already swept me off my feet with the way he's enamored by Gwangsook. Now that he's wooing her, I'm afraid I have nowhere to run to.

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Well done confession scenes are life. Aren't confessions where everything begins? Dating, marriage, kids... Confessions=Life I can't remember a specific one but does the forest scene in Marry My Husband count where ML shows FL the mark on his body? Ajumma is so bad at these prompts but the confession I will always remember is the one that happened to me back in the old days when girls and boys wrote letters. Do young people these days still do that? I was leaving and the boy came to send me off at the airport. He handed me a letter on the escalator. I waved the letter in the air excitedly. He looked down in embarassment. I turn around and see his mom looking at us. We were teenagers and his mom had given him a ride to the airport. I don't think anyone has quite a confession like this, witnessed by a boy's mother! Even at middle age, this memory never fails to put a smile on my face.

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It's also interesting to me that I'm now around his mother's age at the time of his confession. To see teenagers confessing to each other would be pretty funny. It's only when I recall my own that I remember how life-changing that moment was and how I still carry it with me deep in my heart decades later.

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Hospital Playlist
Ik-jun's confession to Song-hwa was the best kind of awkward, crossing a line from friends to something "more" is can be awkward and scary, the actors nailed it.

Secretary Kim
Young-Joons childish confessions were perfectly true to character and the immediate marriage propsal ("I'm smart,wealthy and competent...") after they agreed to start dating too

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I first came on this discussion board because of You Are My Spring, which has a totally miscommunicated confession scene.
The ML sits and shows a lot of emotion as he tells the FL that he likes her but he wants to be friends because he's worried about his chronic health condition. (Then, in the next episode, she writes in to his radio show to ask what she's supposed to take away from the confession!) Kim Dong-wook was so committed to that scene. I really believed in the confession scene that he loved her and was willing to sacrifice for her. When Seo Hyun-jin got up and embraced him, I thought, "Oh, this is method acting." The hug felt so natural and inevitable. This was a show where their chemistry was amazing, right up until they actually got together and had to kiss and stuff. Now I look back on the show, it's not the masterpiece I thought at the time, but... that scene, and a couple of the scenes--they just acted their hearts out and drew me in!

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I didn't like YAMS much as a whole, but there were 2 or 3 scenes that were spectacularly acted and burned in my memory.

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Of course, COFFEE PRINCE: "Only once, I'm going to say so listen. I like you. I don't care if you are a man or an alien. It's too hard to get over you, so let's go as far as we can go. Let's go." But I also like after the big reveal and the emotional betrayal and heartbreak, how after processing everything, they reconcile with the chestnut trail and acknowledgement that they would rather forgive after seeing things from the other's perspective than live without one another. The working through issues after the confession and becoming a couple is really well done (and rare in dramas).
INTEREST OF LOVE: The hockey ring scene was really effective and memorable.
LOVELY RUNNER: The confession that she loved him and had missed him after he dropped her off at her apartment (and then he ran up the stairs) was beautiful.

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Thought it’s not technically a confession, I thought the family proposal scene in When I Was the Most Beautiful was one of the most unique and touching proposals I’ve ever seen, especially since Seo Jin knew how much Ye Ji yearned for the security of a family. it was probably the least selfish gesture he made for her in their whole relationship.

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It was lovely and what she needed but talk about stabbing his brother in the back. That was a serious melodrama.

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You are right on all counts! Seo Jin’s love was always selfish towards his family and towards her. And as for melodrama - it certainly featured some of the most emotionally raw performances I’ve seen.

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Yes, I didn’t realise what I had signed up for when I started that drama😮 Seojin and his mum were extremely self centred and caused so much unnecessary hurt. Yeji’s mum, Seojin’s brother and dad were all good people who paid a very high price living with the consequences of other people’s actions.

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The confessions I'll never forget and made me cry were in Happiness as unlikely as that is.

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My Unfamiliar Family> She was so direct and fast!

A Piece of Your Mind> Seo-Woo does't confess her feelings but she's discussing with Ji-Soo's voice who doesn't know Ha-Won is in the room and Ji-Soo talked about Seo-Woo's feelings for him :p

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I don’t remember if Ha Won ever gave Seo Woo a proper “confession” that can be called a full on “confession scene”—wherein Seo Woo tells Ha Won quite few times she likes him—but I absolutely loved the scene in the finale episode wherein Ha Won sees Seo Woo through the one-way glass between them and they’re on the phone and he says that for every heartbeat she feels in her pulse she is to use it as a reminder of just how much he loves her 🥹🥹🥹🫠🫠

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I think Ha Won's confession was more in his actions like following her at her parent house.

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True!! He’s always proven himself in his actions more than words 🥰

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My Unfamiliar who? I thought the speedy one was Chu Ja-hyun and Kwon Yul.

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Award for Best Confession-Laundering: When the Phone Rings (Ep 4)
WTPR elevates this particular brand of (direct/indirect) love confession to an art

(a) The extra ad-lib interview test thrown in last minute, where our FL who is interviewing for a sign interpreter signs an extremely intimate love confession by her husband (our ML) and the Speaker of the Blue House - of course, all under the pretext of a job interview.

Possibly the most elaborate mating ritual outside of the animal kingdom right under everyone's noses, this one. 🤣

(b) also in Ep 4: another confession laundering where FL phones in as the kidnapper to hubby (ML) on a voice-modulated phone which allows her to really air her marital grievances under the safety of anonymity.

This leads to one of the most swoon-worthy confession and defence treatise delivered by phone: "Hee-joo isn’t supplemental pages, she’s a whole new language. Also, she’s stronger and smarter than anyone thinks, so don’t talk about my wife like that."

(best part of this laundering set-up? He makes his love confession straight to his wife, while thinking he's giving the kidnapper a smackdown) Be still, my heart.

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Gosh, I’ll never tire to “like” all the posts about these 2 scenes. The amount of times I rewatched them! What makes them so compelling and satisfying? For me, it’s like when you’re waiting in a very long line getting slowly frustrated and angry, and suddenly you are getting served with an excellent service — and it’s like that feeling, I swear.

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On a purely quantitative and qualitative level, I don’t think there’s any kdrama that can outconfession any other kdrama than I Am Not A Robot. I mean…

We have a Coffee house scene where ML was playing a five-finger game confessing his love and our ML putting her head on the table next to his confessing she’s not a robot. We have a phenomenally tears-inducing Reset scene, where ML lead was confessing so many things before “resetting” robot. We have Barn scene. We have Betrayal confession scene oozing so much with pain and hurtful words. We have the Meteor Shower Under The Tree confession scene… and I’m sure I’m forgetting a lot more. So many confessions, in words, small details (heart lamps, umbrellas, etc) and unspoken conflicting emotions. So much love.

I really, really hope to see Yoo Seung-ho in another romantic drama. That gorgeous sexy man disappeared as of late somehow. A pity.

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Yoo Seung-ho was *phenomenal* in this role.

My favourite confession/non-confession is however his very first one in a crowd scene with Aji-3 when he realises -- with utter awe and wonder -- that for the first time he no longer manifests the life-threatening skin rashes from human contact.

He grips Aji-3 (still thinking she is a robot) with such pure joy and loving gratitude and tells her to stay with him forever, he will ensure her battery life until the Second Coming amen 🤣❤
Something in that childlike joy and pure love just chokes me up

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I know this is about Yoo Seung Ho in romance dramas, but I take every opportunity to recommend drama The Perfect Deal to his fans. If you are into dark thrillers.

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Award for Cringe Confession with Most 2nd-Hand Embarrassment:
Pilot of "My Dearest Nemesis" (sorry I can only recall the most recent ones)

Good news is it's totally intentional and played for horror-comedy. After all, this particular love confession was so traumatic, it allegedly caused our OTP to be -- separately and jointly -- celibate singles for a decade.

Cat-fishing ✔
By a minor(!!) ✔
cringe-worthy rocker fashion ✔
PUBLIC confession on the street ✔
Cheesy pitch: "You are my destiny!" ✔
All the ingredients for a disastrous confession? ✔

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Award for Best Defender Confession (where the word "love" never once appears in their spiel):

This one is a tie for me: (a) Ji-an in My Ahjussi (b) Yi-seo in Itaewon Class

When fierce gals love fiercely, they are more protective a shield than your Bitdefender, Norton and McAfee combined. It also helps that Ji-an is a petty criminal, and Yi-seo is a certified sociopath 🤣

When FLs with an impaired / limited range of love language expression and moral compass LOVE, they do it in the only way they knew.

Winning Confession Line: "I will kill anyone who messes with him."

Yep, you heard me right.
*Both* of them made almost the same confession, word for word (and never to the man they love, always to the enemies baying for the ML's blood)

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When Yi-Seo says "I will kill anyone who messes with this guy" that is her own internal monologue as she realizes she loves Saeroyi. She doesn't actually say that to him in that scene or when she actually confesses several episodes later.

Also, a theme of Itaewon Class is that society labels peoples who go against the mainstream and Yi-Seo being labeled a sociopath is one example. She's not actually a sociopath.

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I really enjoy the confession in Sh**ting Stars because of her reaction to it. The ML finally manages to tell her he likes her and she screams and runs away 😂😂😂

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I loved all of that especially her being so flustered she got into the back of her own car it was just priceless.

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This is the funnies confession scene, hands down. 😂

And then the ML's manager was asking what type of ahhhhhh was it when she ran away. Was it like cutsey glad ahhhhhhhh? Or was it like scary banshee arrrrgggghh? And when they both realized it was the latter, the look of disappointment on Kim Young-dae's face was indescribable. 😂

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I thought about this for a while.

Best confession goes to

Something in the Rain

While at a work outing, the FL makes a bold move and grabs the ML hand under the table while calmly drinking a beer.
Utter shock and awe 🫢😱 ❤️.
No words were exchanged. Just spontaneous hand holding.

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In the first post about this topic, I chose Something in the Rain too and the scene he's on his bike and he suddenly heard her voice message.

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and hiccups! I love this scene so much.

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Award for "Most High-Risk Confession" & "Most Unusual Love Token" given for the confession:

Hands down (and feet down), this one goes to our Stats Geek ML in The Witch.

Our man spends 8 of 10 episodes risking life and limb to test every single hypothesis of the Laws of Death governing any romantic interaction with the titular witch (FL).

And in return, we get rewarded with one of drama-land's most unusual token(s) of love: (a) a thumb drive; (b) a statistics research paper painstakingly put together about the laws of death

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Do You Like Brahms? Both her confession and his.

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Some of my favorites have already been mentioned! Something in the Rain, Piece of Your Mind, Shooting Stars.

I love Be Melodramatic -- that whole episode where they confess to each other in a million ways and keep pretending they're just workshopping their drama.

Hard to beat, "Worship me."

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Oh, I forgot Call It Love. She's so quiet and weird and things have been brewing between them for so long so when she says, "I like you so much I wish everyone else in the world would disappear," it's explosive.

I also quite like Destined With You's "Apparently I love her."

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Tango scene in Scent of a Woman. wow. Not a typical confession, but he gets the idea across for sure! The earlier scene in class where he backs her up against the mirror was also kind of obvious, but he didn't get out any words so I don't think it counts.

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Yes, this is definitely one of the most memorable confession scenes ever.

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