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The Potato Lab: Episodes 9-10

There are plenty of swoony moments this week, but underneath the squee-inducing fun there’s a pervasive undercurrent of tension and impending doom. Our leading man has a direct connection to the events that completely upturned our potato researcher’s life six years ago, and it’s only a matter of time before this revelation rips our potato couple apart.

EPISODES 9-10

As we draw closer to the end of The Potato Lab, it becomes necessary for our characters (and us) to begin piecing together what happened six years ago and discover how everyone is interconnected. As much as my curiosity is begging for the show to answer my questions, I’m also bracing myself for what is to come because there’s been enough foreshadowing to indicate it ain’t gonna be pretty.

The reveals start off small, with Mi-kyung realizing that Hee-jin is the woman Ki-se met while he was overseas for company training. You know, the same woman whose name was on the wedding invitation Ki-se handed her seconds before dumping her. Baek-ho notices how shocked she is seeing Ki-se and Hee-jin together, but he mistakenly assumes she’s just surprised by the fact that Hee-jin is Chairwoman Wang’s daughter and tries to assure her that she shouldn’t be intimidated by the fact that Hee-jin is a chaebol. However, the feeling that something is bothering Mi-kyung lingers, but without a clue as to what’s really bothering her, he brings her a cup of coffee to cheer her up. (Super cute.)

While Baek-ho is throwing up green flags left and right, Hee-jin and Ki-se have an argument in the parking lot outside Wohan Retail. Although Hee-jin is the one who disappeared abruptly and filed for a divorce, she’s returned, and her request to spend more time with him suggests she wants to reconcile. Ki-se, however, isn’t interested in starting over because he hasn’t forgiven her for disappearing without so much as a goodbye letter. Ki-se definitely feels like he’s the victim, but the way Hee-jin insists that she wasn’t at fault for their divorce — that she “held on until [she] gave up” — just reaffirms my belief that he used her as a stepping stone for his career.

Hee-jin’s confrontation with Ki-se leaves her understandably upset, and she does what any broken-hearted woman would do in her shoes: gets drunk and plays the ukulele by the Han River. (Okay, maybe not what every broken-hearted woman would do, but Hee-jin is a self-proclaimed free spirit.) Unfortunately, Hee-jin’s one-woman show totally ruins Baek-ho and Mi-kyung’s date by the river, and, as much as I’ve liked her character in the past, I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t a little miffed by her intrusion.

First, Mi-kyung and Baek-ho had this absolutely adorable teasing-flirtation thing going on. Baek-ho was being OCD and struggling to repress the urge to organize the self-serve outdoor ramyeon restaurant, and Mi-kyung was having fun playfully pointing out his obsessive behavior and giving him a free pass to give into his urges for a limited time. But all these squees came to a crashing halt when our OTP became aware of Hee-jin and her obviously intoxicated state.

Secondly, I felt like Baek-ho crossed a relationship boundary in this scene. Yes, Baek-ho asked Mi-kyung (more than once) if he should send Hee-jin away in a taxi. Yes, Mi-kyung told him it was all right for Hee-jin to join them while she sobered up. But if Baek-ho was suspicious that something was bothering Mi-kyung and if this date was intended as a means to cheer Mi-kyung up, then I think Baek-ho dropped the ball by not proactively sending his drunk friend home and clearly demonstrating that Mi-kyung is his priority in this situation.

On the other hand, if Baek-ho had immediately placed Hee-jin in the back of a taxi and sent on her way, then Mi-kyung would not have learned that Ki-se and Baek-ho were roommates when they were training abroad in New York. Hee-jin met Ki-se through Baek-ho and instantly fell for him. She was so enamored with him that she dropped out of school and returned to South Korea to marry him. This revelation upsets Mi-kyung, and when Hee-jin excuses herself to use the restroom, Mi-kyung chooses that moment to leave, lying that she’d forgotten that she’d made plans. Baek-ho sees through her act, but he doesn’t know if he’s supposed to acknowledge it or ignore it. In response, Mi-kyung instructs him to take care of Hee-jin, assuring him that she will be back to her normal self at work in the morning. So, yeah, in other words, don’t question her obvious lie.

When Mi-kyung returns home, she finds Hwan-kyung in quite an emotional state because Ong-ju, who firmly believes “sisters before misters,” broke up with him because she can’t stand hurting Mi-kyung. Thankfully, Mi-kyung realizes her reaction to finding out her brother was dating her bestie was extremely overkill, so she sets out to fix the issue. She tells Hwan-kyung to go get dressed while she waits in the car, but that’s when a pajama-clad Baek-ho — who’d been waiting for her to return home — comes out to talk to her, seeking an explanation for her recent mood. He assumes that she’s mad at him, and he wants her to tell him what’s bothering her so he can fix it.

He’s in the middle of hoisting yet another green flag when Hwan-kyung appears, seeking fashion advice. Suddenly Baek-ho realizes this probably isn’t the best time for him to have this conversation with her, but does that stop him from joining them on their little trip to Ong-ju’s family home? Nope. Did he change out of his pajamas? Double nope. And do they all wind up at the police station because they thought climbing over the wall in order to avoid Ong-ju’s parents (who are major Mi-kyung stans, BTW) would be a good idea? Yup. However, it turns out a police station is the perfect place for a couple — and, way more importantly, best friends — to reunite and reconcile. (FYI, I about died from laughter when Baek-ho gave Hwan-kyung a pity hug to alleviate his disappointment that Ong-ju and Mi-kyung pushed him away in favor of hugging each other.)

Now that she and Ong-ju are besties again, Mi-kyung is noticeably happier and in a better headspace for an inevitable conversation with Ki-se. She confirms Hee-jin is oblivious to the fact that she is his ex-girlfriend and that Ki-se kept showing up at USB Guest house because he was nervous that she would discover Mi-kyung’s identity. She also learns that Ki-se and Hee-jin are divorced but publicly pretending to still be married. Mi-kyung lays into him for being too cowardly to quit and start over on his own, and while she’s ripping him a new butthole, she calls him a terrible mistake that she’s not going to waste time regretting. She knows what’s important, and, at the moment, that’s Potato Lab and Baek-ho.

And speaking of Potato Lab, Mi-kyung has finally reached her limit with Ki-se’s spy. Seung-hoon left all the greenhouses open and exposed to possible contaminations, so Mi-kyung has to stay at the lab overnight to inspect all the plants for aphids. Baek-ho shows up with food, and she asks him how she should handle the whole Seung-hoon situation. Well, he says, you can either wait it out or abuse your boyfriend’s power and have him sent away.

Mi-kyung puts a stop to the conversation when she hears Baek-ho refer to himself as her “boyfriend” because she never agreed to define the relationship. He is adorably flustered and apologizes, but she’s just teasing him. However, she would appreciate him asking her out the old fashioned way. So, of course, we know what’s going to happen next.

Baek-ho kidnaps Mi-kyung from work, using one of her precious half-days so he can take her to a blooming potato field. As he gazes out over the carpet of yellow flowers, he wonders if this is what made her fall in love with potato research. Mi-kyung hesitates, knowing that what she’s about to share with him will give him a peek into her past that she would rather not discuss, but she plows ahead. Without sharing the full details, she explains that “something” happened six years ago that caused her to lose her job, and Potato Lab was the only place within close proximity of USB Guesthouse that was willing to hire her.

Supposedly, she was hired because she seemed “tough,” and when the lab was unexpectedly hit by a late season snow storm, she understood why all her predecessors quit. However, while helping her team clean up the snow and search for samples that weren’t killed by the cold, Mi-kyung found a surviving potato sprout. In that moment, when all hope seemed lost for both her and the potatoes, Mi-kyung found hope. And does Baek-ho find it crazy that she claims to have heard the potato sprout verbally giving her a pep talk? Nope, because he believes what she heard was simply her internal voice reminding her that she always had the strength to move on.

It’s at this point in our story that Baek-ho gets down on one knee and completely freaks out Mi-kyung. “We’re not there yet!” she panics, but jokes on her. He’s not proposing. He got down on one knee because, as he seems to recall, she once claimed she would never date him — not even if he got down on one knee. Everything about this confession scene was *chef’s kiss.* Obviously, it was romantic — sigh, that kiss! — but Mi-kyung took a meaningful step towards Baek-ho by revealing her vulnerabilities, which could not have been easy to do, especially since he’s the one who fired her from the potato lab and has a close relationship with people who harmed her in the past.

But, of course, now that everything is going well for our OTP, it’s time for the metaphorical shit to hit the fan. Things start going downhill when Ki-se’s father dies. Mi-kyung, who had a close relationship with his family before they broke up, attends the funeral to pay her respects. She and Ki-se sit down to eat, and mention of her peanut allergy triggers a series of flashbacks that reveal the reason Ki-se’s marriage to Hee-jin failed. He never got over Mi-kyung, so she was like a ghost that Hee-jin eventually got tired of competing against.

After Mi-kyung leaves the funeral, an emotional Ki-se follows her to the parking lot, where he leans his head against her shoulder and cryptically admits to regretting something. Although both the audience and Mi-kyung can make an educated guess that he’s referring to their breakup, Mi-kyung doesn’t let him explain what that “something” is because she knows, from personal experience, that he’s not in the right frame of mind.

From across the parking lot, Baek-ho watches the exchange, and he’s shooketh — but not jealous as one might expect from a man who’s caught his frenemy hugging his woman. Instead, Baek-ho quickly puts the pieces together, and, after a trip to headquarters, he confirms that Mi-kyung was the woman Se-jin asked him to fire six years ago. He was the one who turned her life upside down and caused her so much pain.

The thing I like about Baek-ho is that he doesn’t even humor the idea of keeping his past actions a secret from Mi-kyung. He’s certain that he will tell her, and the knowledge that the truth will hurt her and likely end their relationship is devastating. He tries to keep his emotions in check by going for long runs, but when a village ajumma invites him to eat with her she immediately senses that he’s keeping something bottled up. This is the first time in his life that he’s cared about something, he admits, and he cries as he faces the strong possibility that he’s about to lose Mi-kyung.

Baek-ho returns to USB Guesthouse that evening, fully intending to confess his role in the events from six years ago, but a phone call from Mi-kyung’s coworkers — a reminder of their camping trip the next day — and fireflies delay him. The moment is gone, but he jumps at the chance to join her and the rest of Team Potato during their camping trip. I suspect he was hoping to create one last happy memory with Mi-kyung before dropping a bomb on their relationship, and he was almost successful.

He started out strong, stepping in to help Team Potato Lab one-up their arch nemesis (the researchers from a sweet potato lab) and booking a very swank glamping site for everyone. But things get bumpy when the young daughter of one of Mi-kyung’s coworkers decides Baek-ho is her Prince Charming and monopolizes his attention for the whole afternoon. Sure, Baek-ho’s magical girl transformation into a tea party princess was super amusing, but the poor guy didn’t get any one-on-one time with Mi-kyung. And then, to make matters worse, the little girl blabbed and told everyone at dinner that Baek-ho had fired Mi-kyung. Suffice it to say, Team Potato Lab’s last hoorah before the harvesting season begins is ruined, and Baek-ho is reminded, once again, of how he destroyed Mi-kyung’s career — not once — but twice.

Mi-kyung and Baek-ho, for obvious reasons, leave the glamping trip early, and on the drive home, she insists that they stop by her secret greenhouse. She sensed that he was upset, and wanted to show him her private oasis where she intends to continue her potato research after she leaves Potato Lab. Unfortunately, her efforts to assure him that she’ll persevere don’t ease his mind because he’s also thinking about what happened six years ago, when his methods were (it’s alluded to) more drastic. Her kindness amplifies his guilt, and because he can’t find the words to say, he gets in his car and drives off, leaving her behind. (Okay, that’s a bit rude, Baek-ho. At least give her a ride home before you go have an angsty meltdown.)

As the window for Baek-ho to tell the truth shrinks, the universe keeps dropping hints to Mi-kyung that she should talk to him. First, another round of coffee with Ki-se ends with her wanting to punch him because he hints that he still has feelings for her, but — more importantly — he cryptically asks if Baek-ho has “said anything” to her yet. Second, Mi-kyung is seated next to Seung-hoon at her favorite Seoul restaurant, and he mentions that a drunk Ki-se once mentioned that Baek-ho had done her wrong. And finally, Mi-kyung learns from the villagers that Baek-ho had cried in front of them. Something is obviously going on with Baek-ho, and Mi-kyung is determined to figure out the cause.

While she waits for him to come home, Baek-ho meets Ki-se at a restaurant. Ki-se confirms that Baek-ho has not told Mi-kyung the truth yet, but Baek-ho, who is not in the mood for Ki-se’s judgmental shit, directs his own self-loathing at Ki-se and reminds him that he was a bigger bastard. Mi-kyung was a stranger to Baek-ho six years ago, but Ki-se cheated on her and left her to the wolves. Ki-se acknowledges his cowardice, but it’s because he made those mistakes in the past that he doesn’t want Mi-kyung to be hurt by Baek-ho. For once, they agree, and Baek-ho sorrowfully admits that he’s going to let her go.

And so the time has come for Baek-ho to be honest with Mi-kyung. The moment is made all the more heartbreaking because she has waited for him until she fell asleep in front of his guest house, and when he comes home, she’s so nervous she rambles on about how she’s been worried that his strange behavior was a sign that he was going to break up with her. All of her fretting made her realize how deeply she feels for him. She hugs him, and the expression on Baek-ho’s face — oof!

His hands reach up, and there’s a noticeable hesitation in the movement, where you just know he wanted to hug her back. But instead of giving into that temptation, he gently pushes her away and confesses he was the one who destroyed her career at Wohan Retail six years ago. He was the one who had her transferred to another department and systematically ostracized and isolated so that she would voluntarily quit. (Oh, Baek-ho, say it isn’t so!) It takes Mi-kyung a moment to comprehend his words, but once she does, her expression says it all. Everything Baek-ho feared has come true. He’s lost her.

Y’all, I’d rather watch a marathon of Sarah McLachlan SPCA commercials than replay that ending scene again. Actually, the entity of Episode 10 was pretty painful to sit through because it was rife with this sad, pitiful situational irony. Mi-kyung was letting go of the past. She was happy. She was optimistic about the future. She was in love. And the whole time we were aware that Baek-ho was marinating in his own guilt, knowing he’d ruined her past and was going to strip her of her present happiness with his confession. Ugh, my heart.

If you’d told me four weeks ago that I’d be eagerly looking forward to this drama’s conclusion, I’d have assumed it was because it was a hot mess that I was eager to ditch. However, despite a very rocky start, the characters and story have grown on me, and I’m in that I-need-to-know-what-happens-and-they-better-get-a-happily-ever-after-or-else-I-will-break-things stage of my drama watching experience. So yeah, next week I’m going to need our potato couple to reconcile — preferably without any sort of unnecessary time skip — because I don’t want to have to replace my television.

 
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This week's set of eps: slay
They finally understood the assignment

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Ode to the humble Potato

Even up to a week ago, I would not imagine this happening: but her heart-wrenching backstory about finding that one potato that survived the winter blast? I lost body salts.
Such pathos

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There's some lovely writing here - so many great scenes, character moments and lines.

One of my fave little moments this week was when the potato lab boss told off the rival sweet potato team for hitting below the belt - when they made a jibe about global warming ruining the growing climate for potatoes in Korea (not something he'd expect fellow agriculturalists to joke about!)

That moment alone meant I have already learned more about spuds from this show than I ever did about Space from 'the show that will not be named'....

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+1
In fact, that entire trash talking / smackdown in the tuber ring fight of Potato VS Sweet Potato was on-point. This is how I like my workplace dramas

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Man, this week's episodes were ROUGH. Man, I felt for BH, but poor MK had all my empathy. He really did her dirty. Wow. This is one of the few times where the trauma is explained, understood, and makes sense. Even how she got past it was reasonable. I would want nothing to do with anything Wonhan too. I wonder how they get back from this. That being said, episode 9 when they finally became boyfriend and girlfriend was perfect. SIGH, but episode 10 was hard. I am looking forward to the last two episodes. Sad, but excited.

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I know that there are different rules to real life and Kdramas, but honestly that could never be me.
First of all, I hate corporate. Second, you want me to forgive and be in a relationship with a man who has not once but twice destroyed my livelihood??!!
No, no, somethings can't be fixed, no matter how great the visuals.

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Same. DaebakGrits is being a LOT more charitable towards Baekho than I am feeling. He's supposed to be this stand-up guy, Mr. Green Flag Moral Bastion, but he was asked to get rid of an employee - with rumors, ostracism, stuff definitely not in the good guy playbook - and did such a grand job she contemplated ending her life, leaving her job, her friends, the city and pulling herself slowly together again at the lab.
And Baekho cared zero Fs about what he had done until - oops - it turns out he likes his victim. Who else has he done this to, since he did it so well and without a twinge of conscience? All I can say is he is not the guy that was first presented to us, and I am so sorry for Mi-kyung and could care less for the TWO guys who failed her. Neither of them deserve her, and I know they are going to have her forgive Baekho and drape roses over the whole mess, but he could spend the last two episodes on his knees and I still won't think he's good enough for her.

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"Who else has he done this to, since he did it so well and without a twinge of conscience?" There was a scene very early on (1st ep?) where a fired employee of many years tried attacking him, and BH handily and coldly put him under control. That was foreshadowing, I guess.

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Good catch!
That's a very valid point.

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Yes a good point. I am ready to forgive him only because I do not think he has ever had any sort of close relationship with a human, other than the company family which certainly is not nuturing. He will certainly have to make ammends for his past actions but he can do it. It will be interesting to see how this plays out? Can our FL forgive him without coming across as a doormat? Tricky.

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Yes, exactly, I also hate the character type who suddenly grows a conscience when their actions affect them or someone close to them.

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WORD.
and this is WHY retribution is not just a happy rumor; tis real.

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"he is not the guy that was first presented to us"

The thing is, what gets revealed about Baekho in Episode 10 is exactly who he was first presented to be. He was "That Wonhan Bastard," the person company would deploy to do their dirty work.

But that's not who he is anymore.

There's a reason why so many people liked Baekho before the twist, and it's because the drama itself IS Baekho's redemption arc. It's his journey from being Wonhan's hatchet man to becoming a good person. He goes from seeing the company's employees as numbers on a spreadsheet to seeing them as actual people. These are people he now joins for lunch, people he helped save face in a cooking competition, people whose children he's played dress-up with, people whose work he helped save during a storm.

Yes, Baekho likes Mikyung, but it's not just about that. His entire view of the lab has changed, and Mikyung is the catalyst. It all boils down to that conversation they had after the storm, where Baekho wonders why Mikyung does things that don't benefit her, and she tells him that he'll get more out of life if he was good to others than if just looked out for himself.

Of course, we'll have to wait and see how things play out and whether they'll even end up together, but I do think he's changed a lot.

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This is an excellent observation, thanks.

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So well said. This is exactly it. This is his redemption arc, and Mikyung was the main catalyst.

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I don't believe Mi-Kyung didn't search everything she could find about Hee-Jin after she learnt her boyfriend cheated on her and will marry the new girl. So the fact she didn't know who was Hee-jin was really weird for me. In addition, Hee-jin knows Baek-Ho.

It's the same for Baek-Ho, I can't imagine him forgetting the person he was very unfair to. He's a very straight, doing something like that it's not in his personality and he wouldn't forget about it.

I think Mi-Kyung should talk with Hee-jin because her silence protect the jerk. Both of them were played by him and suffered.

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Yes, MK and Hee-jin were both played, but I'm unsure whether
Hee-jin was a total innocent with what happened to MK. At first I thought Hee-jin was totally in love and unaware that Ki-se had a girlfriend, and her family made an effort to keep her in the dark. However, the flashback scenes definitely made it clear that she was all too aware of the ex-girlfriend (if not her name).

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But after the marriage, not before.

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I guess the unknown at this point is whether she did think (was told) that is was an EX girlfriend, rather than a current one. If that's the case she had no idea he was cheating...

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Hot take & minority report here:
Unlike many here, the shine is wearing off Hee-Jin, and I now see her more along the spectrum of Lee Sang-Yi's character in NGNL. (for the uninitiated, the finale ignited outrage amongst Beanies over how cavalier and careless the rich can be, and the lack of consequences and accountability for their actions on others)

To reiterate my point there, here:

The Wonhan family reminds me of the ending of The Great Gatsby.
"They were careless people, Tom and Daisy. They smashed up things and people, and then retreated back into their money and their vast carelessness."

Tom & Daisy - that's you. The Wonhan family. That's you.

In retrospect, that first scene where Hee-jin and Baek-ho first met was telling: he was walking around her hotel room chatting with her (all the whilst *picking* up after her, and all her strewn dresses across the sofa)

That's the narrative shorthand for their relational dynamics -- he is always the one picking up after the rich heiress and benefactor family

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I think there are no clear villains in this story, but there are lots of selfish, nasty, callous, cowardly, cavalier behaviours in various flawed characters that require their own redemption arcs.

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Oooh, I really think you're on to something, empressgirl! Let's look at the clues:
Ki-se: looked oddly emotionally checked out in the "romantic" beach walk where Hee-ji proposed. Also, when HJ tried reconciling with him he said something like just because she's rich does she get to treat people as she pleases, and how he stopped resenting her. Did he feel somehow roped into their marriage? Perhaps it had something to do with his sick father and hospital bills?
CEO sis-in-law: She told BH that they couldn't have one of their family member marry a lowly employee with a girlfriend. Perhaps to indulge HJ's infatuation they had Ki-se promoted and the girlfriend conveniently disposed of to save face? This may suggest that Ki-se's promotion may not been born solely out of his own greedy ambition but to the rich family's benefit.
Lastly we have BH, an unloved orphan with no experience of human emotions or interactions, being robotically loyal to the rich family because they showed him some kindness by way of a scholarship and good job.
If this is the case, then we have MK, BH, and even Ki-se all being pawns of the Wonhan family, all because of Hee-jin's infatuation with KS. Hmmm...

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Adding onto that: if even Hee-jin's elder sister knew Ki-se has a gf then I think it would be a pretty long shot to claim Hee-jin were totally oblivious and ignorant of the fact that Ki-se has been spoken for.

The elder sister didn't just say this was an open secret in the company; she went on to elaborate that she couldn't let her sister be labeled a "mistress" - that implied the owner's family knew fully well their Hee-jin was the 3rd party.

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Adding even further... The fact that KS's and HJ's divorce is a secret, and now KS is living in a trapped lonely existence. Perhaps it is not only his decision to keep his position in the company but more the Wonhan family's to, again, save face. The more I think about it the more I think KS was roped into the marriage because of his father's illness, and needing money for medical bills. That could explain why his mother told MK how guilty she felt.

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Except, Hee-jin was described like a free spirit who wants nothing to do with the family business, at the opposite of LSY's characer.

For now, nothing showed she knew for the girlfriend before their marriage.

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Let's not forget the writers did the same with BH's arc.

I was one of the few who staunchly defended his initial decision to fire her from the lab, cos I simply think it is a rational Vulcan call. UNTIL the writers blindsided all of us with this narrative bombshell of the unfair demotion-isolation 6 years ago. Which radically changed assessment.

Taking a leaf from BH's arc, Hee-Jin likely won't come out clean either.

That first episode shouldn't be titled "That Wonhan Bastard", it should be "Those Wonhan Bastard(s)".

Who is responsible for what happened to MK? Is it the one who gave the order? The one who seconded it? The one who knew but played dumb and looked away? Or the one who executed the transfer? All of them, really. No one will come out of this clean.

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Baek-Ho faced the reality of how his job affects real people not once, but twice. The first time is when he realized what happened to MK when he first demoted her to knowingly face ostracization, and the 2nd time when he saw how devastated her potato lab colleagues were when they found out she was fired. Not only that, the CEO in-law and Ki-se were quick to dump the blame all on him. "Hey, I only asked you for a favor, YOU did the dirty work!". It's hard to imagine him staying in that position now that he sees the human-side of his actions and not just cold facts and numbers.

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This show has had its own redemption arc and I for one am here for it! 💖

There are so many things I love about it (now that my brain has wiped the memory of the first few eps of slapstick psychosis and doing our FL dirty)👀, including:

*The ML's emotional intelligence. The stoic, cold ML is often written as emotionally stunted, but BH does a wonderful line in mature understanding.
His many variations on 'I can tell you're lying, but I should ignore that, right, because it means it's something you're not ready to tell me yet' are a delight.

Was also a big fan of him coming clean and revealing every sordid truth of his past actions to her instead of doing some lame noble idiocy and just making her think he didn't care about her anymore.

* Love the female friendship and the way that has been centred in the story instead of the usual ML and 2ML frenemy/friendship.

* Love the flirtation and romance and piping hot chemistry (We got PJs, confessions, and 'let's say how we feel with our lips instead of our words' kisses - Ooh la la!) (Big fan of the 2nd leads romance as well - They are both great characters, especially Ong-ju)\

The last couple of weeks have been really enjoyable with some fab comedy, alongside real romance (you know, how rom coms are meant to be!).

But the tragedy also feels heartbreakingly real rather than a contrived problem to keep the OTP apart. It makes me yearn for them to be together even more.... Hwiting show - send us out with a happy ending, you can do it! 🙏🤞

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Omg, I love it. I love the flirting, the comedy and the pain.
I think Kang Tae-oh didn't blink even once at the finale scene. So well done.

Who would have thought, that out of the three romcoms, this would be my favorite romance? It's giving me all the feels right now and I am here for it.

And hello LADY HO-STLEDOWN! Loved the Bridgerton reference.

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Switching between comedy and tragedy is really tough to pull off successfully, so props are due to this writer because she is (to me at least) doing that often and well.

I also laughed at the Ho-stledown ref 😁(and am amazed yet again at the amount of talented child actors we get in K-dramas - the childhood flashbacks are sometimes my favourite parts because the kids are so good!)

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I liked this drama from the start, but I will also say that it's one of the very few that grew better and better as it went along. I hope they nail the ending.

There were parts of these episodes that were painful and although not the worst moment on that front, I knew I was in for a rough ride during that flashback scene where a giddy MK goes to hug Ki-se from behind in the break room and he's all dismissive and cold to her. That just made my heart ache, even more than the actual breakup with the wedding invitation. And even though it's hard to watch at times, I appreciate how the show isn't flinching away from or minimizing how awful this turn of events really was. Sometimes in kdramas, the plot twist that a partner cheated is provided as a devastating event, sure, but maybe with the exception of "Bora Deborah," the FL or ML's pain doesn't resonate on a relatable level for me. But in this drama, it didn't feel cartoonish, just quietly devastating. It helps that although Ki-se is undeniably a jerk, he also seems human, too--highly flawed, but human.

My heart also ached for BH who is so obviously in love with MK and wants only to make her happy. What he did was wrong, but in the context of his job and personality at the time very understandable. I'm not exactly sure how they can get beyond this, though. Please, show, make it all ok!

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Yes, even though many of the comedic antics were cartoonish (especially early on), all the characters were very real from the start. They are all multi-faceted and flawed, both the "good" and the "bad" guys. This show even managed to make me feel pangs of sympathy for Ki-se at times!

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@laurensophie It is really rare that I disagree with you. But I felt the revelation in the last episode totally destroyed the romance, and made the ML a villain. Of course, the next two episodes could provide some revelation that somehow provides extenuating circumstances, but that the ML was willing to spread sexual innuendo about the Fl, harass her even though she was a good employee, and nearly drive her to suicide because his boss asked him to, pretty much disqualifies him as a romantic partner. Its worse than simple cheating, driven by selfishness. Plus, he never once expressed regret until he realized he had done it to the person he loved. If she had killed herself, we can assume that he would have behaved in the classic kdrama corporate-cold hearted way. Blamed the victim, saying she was obviously mentally unwell, and then offered the family a few thousand yen condolence money because the company was so generous.

Obviously most people, like you, who commented here liked this plot development, but for me, in terms of the writing, its bad. Not only is this revelation totally out of what we were supposed to believe was the ML's character--that is rigid, but principled, and underneath a "softie," but also utterly disqualifying as a romantic lead. The thing that I find interesting is that up to this point, this show had been a light comedy, somewhat hit and miss on the comedy, but definitely light. But then it unloaded this revelation, and threw into total doubt the character of the ML, and completely destroyed the romance in a way that makes it impossible to restore--UNLESS it turns out he only reluctantly behaved like that. But even so its a pretty vicious thing to do the FL as a character--have her totally betrayed by two men. I just am not sure why the writer made this narrative decision. What was the point? Is she trying to say something about how horrible corporate culture really is? Is she putting forth a warning about women getting involved with men they work with?

Either way It is interesting that redemption was a recent topic discussion on DB, because what strikes me is that this character can be redeemed as a person--already he's been shown to be crying about it--but only, say, by going to live alone on a potato farm and devoting his time to cultivating the soil and reflecting on his sins. But he can never be redeemed as a lover of the woman who he coldly drove to quitting her job and suicidal thoughts just to save the company some money--unless as I said there are some really convincing extenuating circumstances, that are going to be hard for me to accept!

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This is a very interesting take. I don't disagree but it clashes with my knee-jerk "the leads in a rom-com MUST have a happy ending together!" conditioning. I don't know if I can say this is a defense of BH, but from earlier episodes I recall him getting a scholarship and treated very warmly by the Wonhan clan. Perhaps because they took him under their wing as an orphan so out of gratitude he asked no questions when asked for a favor?

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This is definitely it. Baekho feels beholden to the Wonhan clan. He's literally introduced in the first episode as "That Wonhan Bastard."

Baekho grew up with no one and nothing, and then here's this family that gave him scholarship and opportunity and whose youngest daughter is his closest confidante. It can't be easy saying no to them.

I don't know if the drama will have time for it, but I'd love to know how he fell in with them, because what a deeply complicated relationship to have. He's the chairman's favourite, Kise implies the older sister is in love with him, and yet Heejin seems to be the only one he likes. As close as he is to them, the relationship is obviously transactional, so much so that he makes a point of telling Kise he hates owing people.

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And a reason for him having been so insensitive is also that he has been treated as a thing himself, somehow, I'm sure.
In spite of one having a crush on him and the other being his friend, I think the parents have forever treated him as something useful.

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@ceciliedk I think so too. There was that bit in Episode 3, where they showed all of Baekho's past job skillsets that I found very telling. He's had to be the best at everything: best parking attendant, best busboy, best chef. He wasn't just in the army, he was special forces. Excelling at everything, and therefore being useful, has been his primary means of survival, and the Wonhan clan likely took advantage of it.

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I also thought there was no way to salvage the ML. I don't think any decent human being would knowingly destroy an innocent person's life and completely forget about it.

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This is the exact comment I came here to type, thank you.

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This may be a way to treat that way of firing people up close, but to treat it in a way that understands the perpetrator as much as possible in the hope that those out in the real world will get in contact with their conscience rather than totally suppress the feelings connected to that inhumane treatment.
We all know it's not something that drama-writers made up to add melo to their plot.

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I mean, you need to dare feel the conscience for you behavior to change, right?

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This is a very fair and well argued comment, @hacja. I appreciate your take and perspective. I'd like to wait and see how the show resolves this next week before commenting further but didn't want to not reply to such a thoughtful post.

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but that the ML was willing to spread sexual innuendo about the Fl, harass her even though she was a good employee, and nearly drive her to suicide because his boss asked him to,

Perhaps I missed something extremely important, but I don't believe this is what happened. My understanding is that when he was asked to take care of Mi-kyung, the rumors were (at the time and unbeknownst to Se-jin) already circulating after the marriage announcement because Mi-kyung’s relationship with Ki-se had been, in her words, "an open secret" among the staff but (presumably) not upper management/CEO level. Baek-ho couldn’t have spread the rumors about her relationship with Ki-se because, as per his conversation with Se-jin at the beginning of Episode 10, he didn’t even know his actions six years ago were related to Ki-se. (Ex: “When you asked me to deal with that employee back then, was it because of Mr. Park?”) Plus, even if he had known, spreading rumors about her relationship with Ki-se is the oppositeof what the family wanted, which was for her to leave quietly.

What Baek-ho did do, however, was transfer her suddenly to another department because, as he said, it was “a heavy disciplinary action tantamount to being laid off.” The company couldn't fire her outright over a personal family matter without risking retaliation or exposure, so this was their messed up solution to have her realize she was unwanted and “leave the company on her own.” It's the same situation as shown in My Dearest Nemesis when the Chairwoman had the female lead transferred to the facilities/maintenance department, hoping the humiliation would cause her to quit. Professionally, it's a kick in the privates, but Baek-ho didn’t harass her or spread sexual innuendo. Instead, his actions unintentionally made people gossip about something they already knew about and pieced together based on the timing of Ki-se’s wedding announcement.

It’s definitely a large hurdle for them to overcome, but not to the extent that I think you interpreted it as being.

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Its often the case that I don't follow the nuances of what's happening, because I'm just basing my understanding on English subtitles, but what I was basing my judgement on was Baek-ho's confession to Mi-Kyung, that "My plan was to make (you) leave the company on (your) own due to (you) being unable to handle the pressure and social isolation." That seems more than just a transfer to me, and gets into putting pressure on by spreading rumors, which would not be that she was just involved with Ki-se, but rather had seduced him with the implication that that's the kind of woman she was. I was also thinking encouraging rumors would definitely help just in case she claimed she brought a legal case that she was transferred because she had a relationship with Ki-se, because you could say that Ki-se was the "victim."

But regardless, the other point was, that as Baek-ho said that he "promptly forgot about her and moved on" and that would have remained unchanged, if he himself wasn't personally affected.

For me, that removes him as a viable romantic partner for her. One can root for his redemption as a person--so he doesn't treat people like trash anymore, and I think clearly this redemption has started, given his tears. But its a borderline abusive relationship if the FL goes back to a person who not only fired her twice, but took an unethical path in BOTH cases, the first by a method that has, at least in the U.S., successfully led to judgments of harassment, and then second, withholding the firing paperwork until he started to get worried about his feelings for her.

Again, though, I also realize I'm just judging on the circumstances as presented in the last episode--and there could indeed be more involved. (But if the show tries to pull the classic "forgive him because he had trauma as a child" that will be the final straw! )

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In Korea, the transfer alone is enough to have that social effect. Especially, when her relationship with Ki Se was already known.

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I lean towards the interpretation of DaebakGrits. BK may be cold, he is not low.

I think the lens to process this form of corporate evil (nothing personal, mind you) is best summed up by CS Lewis below. It is calculated, cold, distant and abstract...UNTIL it becomes incredibly loud and extremely close.

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“I live in the Managerial Age, in a world of "Admin." The greatest evil is not now done in those sordid "dens of crime" that Dickens loved to paint. It is not done even in concentration camps and labour camps. In those we see its final result. But it is conceived and ordered (moved, seconded, carried, and minuted) in clean, carpeted, warmed and well-lighted offices, by quiet men with white collars and cut fingernails and smooth-shaven cheeks who do not need to raise their voices. Hence, naturally enough, my symbol for Hell is something like the bureaucracy of a police state or the office of a thoroughly nasty business concern."

[From the Preface]” ― C.S. Lewis, The Screwtape Letters

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You're right, here. He did not start any rumors. The transfer itself did all the pressure that was needed. However, I wouldn't say the rumor situation was unintentional any more than it was intentional. It was simply outside his concern and completely irrelevant to his decision. And it wouldn't have mattered if he did know it would have happened.

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Thanks to your review and your comment here, I started to watch it yesterday, I am at episode 4. Great job! Not only the review but also your comment, rarely I have seen this here.
I haven't read oher discussions about it because I would like to see them before I get influenced by others. Was there any discussion of the possibility of him being on the spectrum thus far? There are many CO'S that got diagnosed later in life and by watching the first episodes this what strikes me, that he is different other than just being the regular typical male portrayed in kdramas. Just his reaction to the kiss in episode 2 (I would love to go back and read about it just for fun, to see if anyone thought of him actually getting "r@#ed" while being very drunk, way before he had any feelings for her -since I have read many shocked takes on the very used and disturbing hand pull done by males- or the fact that has become a pattern to go for men that are powerful in her place of work, but that is another story) made me think about it besides his OCD behaviour in times of stress and his emotionally distancing from strangers. He would fit the perfect man to fire people in a corporation and that seems the main preoccupation of the chairwoman. I am asking because this is the only review I have read and I see that it is not discussed as a possibility. If you have already diced the matter before, please ignore my message.

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Good take, I agree. Makes more sense. I really can't see the ML spreading gossip like, even at his worst( getting rid of workers ) he is not that type of guy.

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THANK YOU. I thought I was the only person who saw this as a big character issue for Baekho.
And I agree, I don't see how they are going to excuse this as extenuating circumstances when he didn't even remember her NAME. He had forgotten all about it, and even reading her old employee file didn't jog his memory. Now that's cold - unless he was hit by a Truck of Doom and got amnesia wiping out 7 years of his life.

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My thoughts exactly.

I was thinking depending on how the writers wrap the last week finale eps, we can all weigh in on whether a redemption arc is even possible for the ML, and under what extenuating circumstances will such a redemption cut ice with the viewers.

I can see redemption for BK as a human being, not necessarily as a romantic / life partner for MK though. This poor girl has really been run over by relational ToDs twice too often.

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How difficult must have been for Mi-kyung hearing Hee-jin talking about falling in love with Mi-kyung's boyfriend at the time, taking long walks etc. The last scene was heartbreaking and I wonder how she will be able to forgive him in a believable way.

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Yes, I wonder how the drama will handle this heartbreak (I think it will reconcile them), but I think it can be believable. From my perspective, Baek-ho's remorse for what he has done runs deeper than "Ah, I stuffed up my girlfriend's life in the past - I need to kneel to get her to have me back". It's really cutting into him. The remorse may have been triggered by the fact that a cruel dismissal ended up being done to someone he really cared about, but I think he's doing far more than feeling sorry for messing up his own love-life. I think he's starting the process of repenting - seeing that what he did had real and lasting ramifications, not wanting to be the cause of something like this again, determining not to allow this to happen again on his watch. Don't have any evidence for that, mind, but I think it could be a possibility if we assume the misery he's been in for several days leading up to the confession is not just about Mi-kyung. I'm not sure if they have enough of a relationship behind them to make Mi-kyung's unconditional forgiveness "believable" - it would feel strange between two people who are just getting to know each other: do they yet have the depth of commitment to desire to forgive like this? - but if there is true repentance, true forgiveness is a clear option. Let's see what happens!

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The writers better not have a 1 year time skip where the leads don't talk for a year. I hate that trope.

This better be wrapped up in a few days where Ki-se is run over by the white truck of doom and there was much rejoicing.

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I have said it after week 1: I love this Drama! It is one of the rare gems that got better towards the end and though I think having only 12 episodes is an advantage to counter draggy storytelling-I do not want to accept that PL will end next week. Also, there is this Angst that they will not be able to tie up this nuclear blast of a plot twist in 2 episodes in a way that it will follow the lovely pacing and storytelling so far. Honestly, I am amazed by the depth they gave MK in the past episodes. And Baek-hos confession scene- contrary to DaebakGrits I rewatched it 5times already, the acting is so good it is worth the walterfalls I released every time. If they do not screw up the end, PL will enter my all time top 5. And, of course: magnificent recap writing by the awesome @DaebakGrits - I will miss these PL recaps especially

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I remain watching the show purely for Kang Tae-oh.
The character of Onju is an added bonus.
As for the other characters and problematic plot line for a romance...meh.

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ALL THE FEELS. T___T My girl Mi Kyung. I love her heart and her resilience.

Ugh, I wanted more flirty skinship scenes between Mi Kyung and Baek Ho before the angst! The confession scene was perfect. Lovely, sentimental setting. Sweet kisses. No interruptions!

Baek Ho having time spent with a village ajumma was touching. Both of them delivered heartbreaking emotions.

I'm glad Mi Kyung and Ong Ju made up quick. I want a bestie like Ong Ju. The way I squeed and cheered when she was reacting the same to Mi Kyung's "no words" answer. I replayed this scene too much!

I'm already lamenting that this drama is ending soon.

KI SE IS STILL TRASH. Selfish jerk to the end.

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These last few episodes were... actually good? Where was all this energy before? The weak beginning to this drama must be why so many ppl dropped it, leading to the terrible ratings... now it's too late for a second chance :(

Anyways, I liked how they built up the tension towards Baek-ho's terrible secret and how Kang Tae-oh portrayed all the angst Baek-ho was carrying inside. BUT I was really enjoying the main couple's flirting and dates... I am not looking forward to their breakup era.

I also liked some of the complicated characterization especially with Ki-se.... Park Ki-se is a terrible human being in many ways but there's something sympathetic about him. That scene at his dad's funeral, how he remembers giving the old man the cold shoulder to keep sucking up to the chairwoman... Then bursts into tears.... He cheated on one woman and used another but he made himself miserable too. In a desperate struggle to make it to the top from the very bottom, he made every possible bad choice and he's now in a cage of his own making.

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Seconded re Ki-se. In terms of the saying 'you made your bed, now you have to lie in it' I feel like he thought he was upgrading to Chaebol satin sheets, but actually it turned out to be a bed of nails...😨😱

I love that the writer has made him more nuanced than a standard two-dimensional 'villain'. He was selfish and shitty and MK definitely deserves better, but he is also quite layered and that makes his character more interestingly flawed to me.

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Yes, in certain ways I find him to be the most intriguing character of the show. He's weaselly and self-serving, but in many ways he behaves in a self-defeating way.

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I see the ML as a lost human being- emotionally but in the corporate world... because he is so far removed from his heart he can act a certain way without thought. In America this happens too.... the saying is....It's only Business, don't take it so personally..... I never believed in that saying. I feel we must act and perform from a higher standard of behaviour. ( though our ML- has no reference to this, per say, growing up as he has)

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That's one of the things I really appreciated in this drama. There were no real villains—just the banality of evil. Ki-Se was just overly ambitious and lacked a moral center. We have yet to find out how much Hui Jin knew about the situation, but that might not have stopped her. BaekHo was a corporate drone, a "fixer".

Both will have gone through a personal journey. Ki-Se of the "be careful for what you wish for" variety and BakeHo realized that his actions have real consequences on real people.

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The more I think about it the more confused I am about Hee-jin's and Ki-se's relationship. For her it was love at first sight, where she threw everything over to follow Ki-se back. For him she was a means of advancing in the company. She left him because she got sick of competing with the memory of his ex. He looked all over for her for years, but rejected her after she came back wanting to reconcile? And so cruelly at that? Mind you this was before his father's death when all the angst and regret set it. I get that he had selective amnesia about past events and thought himself a victim, but you'd think if he was strictly acting in his own best interest he'd take her back for his future security at Wonhan. It appears that he was asked to keep the divorce a secret due to the stigma and thus securing his position at Wonhan, but wouldn't it be better and safer if she returned? What is going on in that man's head?

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He rejected her only when he found out Mi-kyung was in a relationship with Baek-Ho (who he doesn't like). He was still interested in his ex-wife when he learned Baek-Ho was living next door -- he was just worried about him finding out MK his ex-girlfriend. It was only when he learned of the new relationship that he promptly dropped all thoughts of his ex-wife and became Mr. "I have regrets" (barf emoji).

He's the type who always thinks the grass is greener on the other side.

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I'm so hoping to catch up with this drama at some point. The recap was hilarious. But it's made me curious about DaebakGrits. Without looking up any bio, if there is one, I'm really intrigued to find out if s/he is Korean or English or American or what. Because their English is better than mine and I am English.

Is dramabeans a Korean site for English speaking fans? Or for Koreans, because they're so good at foreign languages? I'm disgusted with myself and my country for our lack of foreign language skills, tbh.

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I don't agree that Baek Ho's actions make him unredeemable. As many have pointed out, he was the Wohan Bastard, the fixer. He was asked to make an employee leave quietly so he transferred her to the company equivalent of Siberia and then promptly forgot about it.

If that is evil, then it's the type of corporate evil that happens on a regular basis. Not to excuse it, but that is a much broader discussion.

When he confesses what he did to Mi Gyeong, he elaborates a great deal. He talks about how his actions were performed in a "despicable manner" and says that he knew full well that the isolation and shame would drive her away. At the time, those were not his thoughts. She was just a file and it was just a transfer with the intent of "encouraging her to quit". Everything he added during his conversation was to show her that he (now) understood what he did without sugar-coating it or trying to justify it. It was the equivalent of falling on his sword. No pity, no excuses.

Obviously, he does not forgive himself and does not ask for forgiveness. What remains to be seen is whether she will forgive him or not. She was the one harmed, so it's her prerogative to do so.

I suppose that we as viewers can have our opinion, but to me, what he did, was not unredeemable. It's not, for example, like cheating on your girlfriend and marrying a woman to advance your career. If she chooses to forgive him, understanding that he has grown since those days, he can spend the rest of his life making it up to her. I would be fine with that. But then I'm the forgiving sort.

As a note, it also explains why the show went to great lengths to show him as a green flag, to balance out this original sin

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No spoilers please, including info from the next episode previews. >.<

I also think Baek Ho is going to have to leave Wonhan as part of his redemption arc.

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I think he deserves better than being the dog of Wonhan. He's way more competent than the others but won't be never be given more.

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I am all for making him a Pasta Chef in his own restaurant, while MK discovers the next Great Potato variety, that not only serves as base for Potato chips, but also for gratin, soup and all the great things potatoes can be turned into - maybe even dessert (yes, I mean YOU sweet potato team). Sponsored by Hee Jin- because Girl power rocks. For Ki-Se I am envisioning the ending Ong-ju predicted: him, alone in a big house with all his riches - but immasculated 😂

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Hah yes, there was a casual comment that his great cooking skills could lead to him running his own restaurant. ^^ I'm all for this!

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I could see lots of potato gnocchi, pasta e patate and, of course, the "ugly cheese potatoes" dish she made at the contest.

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Omg wait a minute. I forgot that Mi Kyung can cook too! I don't think Baek Ho tried her food back then. @Kodra, you just reminded me!

They can be chefs together at their cozy restaurant. 😭

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I think he hated himself at that moment, and that's why he was brutal in telling her the truth. I also think that is his only hope for forgiveness. When someone hurts you deeply, what do you need from them? You need them to understand what they put you through. You don't need excuses, justifications, or even a rote apology. Only then, is there a chance for forgiveness.

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I did not expect this potato romance to be so compelling.....

Frankly, I think Baek-ho is screwed (or at least he would be in the real world - I have no doubt the writers will have these two make up and LHEA.) The issue isn't that Baek-ho ruined MK's life. Its the fact that he's the type of person who is fine completely ruining strangers for no reason at all. That speaks to your character. That seems like it would be a deal breaker.

As for Ki-se, this guy is the absolute worst! This drama has given me zero reasons why Hee-jin, or for that matter, MK, would ever be interested in this guy!

Curious how our OTP's situation will be resolve and whether it will be believable/satisfying. The writers seemed to have really painted themselves in a corner here.....

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I am hoping - really hoping - that the drama is written in a way that it makes us think one thing (BH bad!) but rewatching it, or the next episode, it will resolve our interpretation of the whole situation.

It’s telling that in the comments for this week’s episodes that there seems to be more Ki-we than BH. I still think Ki-Se and now Se-Jin are awful coercive people who are trying to absolve themselves of guilt and responsibility for the whole situation by making BH think everything that happened is his fault.

Personally I hope that this is all a terrible misunderstanding crafted through clever writing, our understanding of MK’s perspective shared in ep 9 and BH’s recounting of his side in ep 10 and then the confession is all written in a way that we are made to intentionally conflate all elements of the situation and place blame squarely on BH (which KS and Se-Jin would like everyone to do!).

As they say there are two sides to every story and the truth is somewhere in between.

BH’s revelation has blinded a lot of people to the fact that he wasn’t actually the bad guy in this whole situation. BH cheated on MK for better part of a year, and even HJ may have known that he was in an rship before the got married (but not the whole time), and no one who knew the full story - He-Jin, Ki-Se, Se-Jin - ever reached out to MK, they never made ki-se, try to rectify the situation over six years - they just sent in someone to execute an order and hoped to never hear about it again. Everyone who knew about the situation - from the chairwoman to KS’s father and everyone in between - just abandoned MK. These people are the true bottom feeders.

Enter BH who knew nothing about anyone or the situation (as DaebakGrits noted, he had to check with Se-Jin about whether a restructure he did six years and probably 200 restructures ago, related to Ki-Se). Sure he didn’t remember her name, but it’s literally a kdrama trope how many people have the same names in Korea.

His retelling of the story to MK is emotionally charged because he’s in love with MK and he knows how much the situation almost destroyed her.

She listens to his account and after six years and so much pain, hears someone taking the blame for *all of it*, and for the first time. Obviously she’s going to think the worst, happily let him take the blame for everything, not just being moved at work - she’s been holding onto it all for six years and needs to heal in her own right. Her behaviour from the start was angry and vengeful - her mother dying and her breakup shaped much of this, and partly because she probably never got closure from Ki-Se.

And, as I commented on a previous episode - I have always though KS (and now Se-Jin) had some kind of emotional pull over BH - BH in one conversation early on seemed quite easily manipulated by KS, called him hyung. I liked that he finally told him to get a hobby, but Ki-Se and Se-Jin both telling BH that what MK suffered was nothing to...

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Argh so many errors, written in a rush. *KI-SE cheated, not Baek-ho obvs. And I got cut off!

… Ki-Se and Se-Jin both telling BH that what MK suffered was nothing to do with them and everything to do with BH’s restructuring her in the workplace is ultimate coercion in my opinion. They know BH will take the blame and be able to absolve themselves.

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After watching all 10 episodes, I must say that, surprisingly, I kind of like it. I think Mi-kyung and Baek-ho love relationship is salvageable. She fell in love with him knowing full well that part of his job involves firing people, including herself. She was well aware of his position in the company and the fact that he’s tough with others but a softie with her. He explained how he built those boundaries and recently showed a willingness to cross them. She even called him weird a few times. I don’t see her as a hypocrite, and once everything settles, she’ll realize that if she accepted him as he was—fully aware of what he did for the company—she should also accept it even though she was personally affected by his actions six years ago. After all, he fired both her boss and her, yet she still fell for him afterward. It’s not as if he initiated her dismissal; he was just executing the plan handed to him. I’d hate for her to turn hypocritical now, blaming him for doing his job after she fell for him knowing others had suffered the same fate. Plus, he’s not exactly remorseless—he’s shown regret toward her and, hopefully, might even quit his job to make amends to others. In other words, she’s not so principled that she can’t understand the position he was in six years ago. Who could love a guy like that otherwise? She even kissed him while he was unconscious right from the start only because she found him attractive, didn’t she? Trying to paint her as a saint and him as a monster just doesn’t hold up when you consider all the facts.
Another thing that strikes me is that it seems out of character for her to quietly endure all that abuse from her coworkers and leaders six years ago. From what I’ve gathered, she’s always been confrontational and a fighter, especially when she knows she’s right. I’d expect her to either fight back or leave, not just sit there taking it—or worse, seeing her cheating, obnoxious, now-married ex-fiancé at work every day. This makes me think both of them struggle to stay emotionally stable during crises, and that’s what makes them perfect for each other: her with a touch of ADHD and him with hints of autism, at least in my view.
I hope the drama shifts the blame where it belongs—to the people who actually hold power in that company. My ideal ending would be him quitting, helping her sue the company, and then using the settlement money and his skills to start her own potato brand, restaurant chain/ franchise. But I’m not that optimistic. After all, we had a flawless male lead in another drama, and look how that turned out.

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"Another thing that strikes me is that it seems out of character for her to quietly endure all that abuse from her coworkers and leaders". I think the writers have been masterful in slowly revealing facts and insights of what exactly happened in the past. I recall that the general consensus of most people in the comment sections of earlier episodes was that she was so obnoxious and impulsive that she must have been fired from Wonhan because she pitched a royal fit. Yes, she has a fiery temperament but I can see how being blindsided by heartbreak and then professional humiliation and ostracization can beat down ad subdue even the feistiest person.

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I disagree. I need a time skip. I will be livid if this drama treats this as not a big deal that she can get over quickly. I don’t even want them together at all anymore honestly. The best I can hope for is them not trying to minimize this

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Finally! Horrible, rocky start to this Kdrama but boy is it now delivering!!! I also am really enjoying the brother and her best friend relationship. The water hose scene while the brother was washing the stuffed bear... priceless. I had tear in my eyes from the joy they were all sharing with each other but especially the ML because I do not believe he had ever had that with people, per say, that sense of silly fun.

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