My Dearest Nemesis: Episodes 11-12 (Final)
by Unit
Our show wraps up with a satisfying conclusion. But before then, our leads have to navigate their relationship alongside high stakes negotiations, bad press, office gossip, scouting offers, and an obnoxious grandmother.
EPISODES 11-12
Our final week kicks off with Joo-yeon and Grandma at the negotiation table. Joo-yeon’s replacement at work is involved in some shady business that is bad for Yongsung’s image, but Joo-yeon is willing to keep things quiet as long as Grandma stops harassing Soo-jung — and gives him his directorship position back. Grandma agrees on one condition: the Yongsung renewal project must succeed otherwise all bets are off. Joo-yeon is confident in his and Soo-jung’s abilities to make the project a success, and Soo-jung is additionally confident that Grandma would have to acknowledge Joo-yeon after everything is over. But don’t hold your breath, honey. If the project fails, Gran is set to channel her inner tyrannical Joseon king and strip Joo-yeon of his name and assets before exiling him abroad. Smh.
When Soo-jung learns about Grandma’s shady condition, she meets up with Joo-yeon to channel her inner Disney princess because why would Prince Dragon wager his kingdom for her? Joo-yeon then circles back to their “I won’t quit my job despite your grandmother’s petty antics because I can’t throw away my time and effort in this company” conversation. He knows Soo-jung wants to be acknowledged for her effort at work, and as someone who knows what it’s like to crave acknowledgement, there’s nothing he can’t wager in order to make that a reality for her. How romantic!
The cherry on top of the renewal project is the reopening of one of the Yongsung department stores. The strategy team comes up with a list of pop-up stores for the reopening, including Pirate King — which just so happens to be one of Joo-yeon’s fav animations. Cue: the fanboy trying — and failing — to be professional about the whole thing. Lol. But Dramaland 101 has taught us to never expect things to go smoothly. Joo-yeon’s quick reflexes at the food court prevents a collision between a student carrying hot food and a kid, but the kid’s parents blow the incident out of proportion. A vlogger picks the story and maliciously distorts it to make Joo-yeon out to be a cocky chaebol heir who hates kids. As a result, Pirate King’s creator decides to back out of the contract. Nooooo!
Black Dragon sets up a meeting with the creator, and the creator is delighted to meet up with his supportive (but very private) fan — who helps to show the animation to kids who would have had no access to it otherwise. Talk about using your chaebol powers for good! Prior to this meeting, Soo-jung personally met with the creator to convince him that Joo-yeon is not a capitalist anti-kids chaebol, but the creator wasn’t having any of it. But now that he knows that Joo-yeon and Black Dragon are one and the same, Joo-yeon doesn’t have to do too much to convince the creator of his sincerity. The creator agrees to do the pop-up, and things are back on track!
The reopening day is met with great success, and Joo-yeon proudly announces to all that he is a Pirate King fan. Cue: Grandma wearing the nastiest of scowls in the background. Smh. Grandma scolds Joo-yeon for coming out of his closet, talmbout “have you forgotten you’re still the successor in the eyes of the public?” But who cares? Your grandson is a big, fat anime fan. Get over it! Basking in the success of the renewal project, Joo-yeon replies that he no longer has any desire to seek his grandmother’s love by hiding his true self. And from now on, he would like to live as Ban Joo-yeon, not as the successor of Yongsung Group, thank you very much.
Speaking of successors and chaebols, Soo-jung is ambushed by a horde of reporters asking how it feels to have won the boyfriend lottery and all other Page Six-like questions. Tabloids reporters and curious netizens aside, the general consensus of office gossip is that Soo-jung should quit her job and enjoy her boyfriend’s money. Nevermind that it’d be the company’s loss if a talented employee like her quits. In the midst of all the drama, Soo-jung is scouted by the biggest department store chain in the U.S., and the recruiting officer (a former sunbae of hers) advises her to leave Yongsung because because she’s never going to be seen as anything more than Joo-yeon’s girlfriend. Ouch!
Soo-jung’s Cinderella dilemma is realistic, and I like that the show didn’t gloss over it. I also like that Show did not make Joo-yeon tone-deaf to the gossip swirling around Soo-jung. Our thoughtful dragon wants his girlfriend to be judged based on her talent and not because she’s dating him, and he doesn’t want their relationship to hold her back from making the decision that is best for her. So he tells Soo-jung that she can leave for the U.S. as early as the next day. While this might sound like a noble idiotic declaration of letting her go for her happiness or some BS like that, Joo-yeon looks like someone who is ready to jump on the flight with Soo-jung. But his readiness to leave with her is not explicitly mentioned in the conversation, so she assumes the worst. *Facepalm*
Joo-yeon goes straight to panic mode when Soo-jung ignores his calls and texts, and Secretary Kwon has to help him understand that Soo-jung is not a mind reader. He needs to be clearer on his intentions for her to know what he’s thinking. On the other hand, Soo-jung has thought about it on her own and come to the conclusion that Joo-yeon probably intended to leave with her. And with that, the brief misunderstanding arc comes to an end. Phew! Ultimately, Soo-jung decides to remain in Korea. She already has people on her side who acknowledge her talent, and she’s not going to leave Yongsung due to the unwelcome opinions of gossiping colleagues and strangers on the internet.
While our main couple is in a great place, our secondary couple is still in angst-land. Ha-jin belatedly realizes that she’s not fully healed from her past relationship and this prevents her from fully trusting Shin-won. But as Soo-jung points out, the fact that she wants to trust Shin-won is an indication that she loves him that much. Ha-jin works up her last nerve to apologize for jumping into conclusions and shutting Shin-won out during their last conversation. She says she wants to keep dating him, but it’s Shin-won’s turn to turn her down because he’s always going to want more. Sigh.
After a heart to heart conversation with Joo-yeon and with the help of some liquid courage, Shin-won calls Ha-jin to confess his feelings to her — but her phone is connected to the Bluetooth speaker in the restaurant, and all her customers hear the drunk confession. Hehe. They rekindle their romance the following day when he’s all sobered up, and he promises to continue to prove that he’s someone she can trust. One of the customers posts the confession clip online and Ha-jin is overwhelmed with a surge of new customers when the clip goes viral. Shin-won is a natural at customer service and he enjoys developing new dishes, so he quits his job to become Ha-jin’s business partner. Personally, I think Shin-won’s decision is too hasty, and I’m not too sold on the future of their relationship either. But all’s well that ends well with our secondary couple.
Back to our dragon, Grandma cannot believe Joo-yeon dedicated himself to Yongsung not because he wanted to be her successor, but because he wanted her to love him. Of course, she can’t believe it since her heart has been replaced with a stone. Tsk. According to Grandma, love is a weakness, and she was tough on Joo-yeon because she wanted him to be stronger. But Secretary Kwon points out that love made Joo-yeon stronger: he endured Grandma’s tyranny because he loves her, and he gave up the successor position because he loves Soo-jung. “I hope you can apologize to him before it’s too late,” Kwon advises Grandma. Nooo, let her go down with the unrepentant ship!
Grandma visits Joo-yeon at home and she’s initially appalled by his no-longer-secret anime stash that now adorns every inch of his house. But she soon turns emotional and apologizes for being a robotic dictator to him rather than a grandmother. Joo-yeon needs this tearful hug and makeup session to move on, but I don’t. This woman is undeserving of a redemption arc, so, next scene, please!
From here on out, it’s all fluff and distribution of happy endings to our characters. Soo-bin passes his exams and becomes a firefighter. Dad — who bought Yongsung stocks whenever he had the money, as a way of supporting Soo-jung since she joined the company — hit it big when the stock value went up after the renewal project. Must be nice! As a proud shareholder of Yongsung, Dad is ready to square up to Grandma if she moves funny with his baby girl, but Grandma apologizes to Soo-jung for her petty actions and accepts her relationship with Joo-yeon.
Joo-yeon is elected as a Yongsung board member — which further solidifies his successor position. Soo-jung is promoted, and her jealous colleague stands up for her at work and apologizes for accusing her of seducing the boss. The drama ends with Joo-yeon and Soo-jung smiling at each other like two love-struck idiots in the middle of the road — and I wonder if they’ve ever heard of the concept of a doomed truck. Anyway, they set off towards their journey of happily ever after, and I sigh in relief as the drama comes to an end.
My Dearest Nemesis is a “don’t think too much, just sit back and enjoy the ride” watch, and it was really fun while it lasted. I liked the drama, but I will be filing it under the “nice, but will soon forget about” category. But I will not be forgetting the colorful character that is Joo-yeon any time soon, because if we’re being honest, this drama is basically the Bahn Joo-yeon show.
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1 Britney
March 27, 2025 at 5:36 AM
What type of assbackwards logic is this?! "I was tough on him because love makes you weak". It made more sense (character wise) that she just resented him cause she valued her son and he died doing something "frivilous"
He wasn't even allowed to mourn for his parents and now it's because I wanted him to be stronger?
But sure, I guess there was no other way for that conversation to go without using as a lead.
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DK-Drama ❤️🎄 Giffing n Space Cadetting 👼🏻🌟
March 27, 2025 at 4:20 PM
I saw a documentary once about a boarding school. Most of the students there - at least the boarding ones, who don't live nearby - are from 14 years and up.
But there was a 9-year-old son of some Philippine ambassador or something, who bravely tried to stay brave and do his homework without crying. He was interviewed, and he said that staying here was a good preparation for grown-up life, "because then you are lonely, too."
🥺🥺😢😢😢😭
So there actually are parents who tell their little children that what doesn't kill them makes them stronger, and so, practicing loneliness from the age of nine is a good idea.
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DK-Drama ❤️🎄 Giffing n Space Cadetting 👼🏻🌟
March 27, 2025 at 4:33 PM
Oh, important detail: It was of course not in the Philippines. It was in Denmark, so he was far away from his parents and far away from anything else that might feel like home. (We have one or maybe two of those horrible soul-killing posh boarding schools. And yes, the those posh schools are made specifically for killing young souls, and make them love
Big Brotherthe hierarchy and mercilessness as a good preparation for being rich and ruthless and not feel bad about the misery and poverty of others later in life.I know a really nice guy who went there. But as a hallmark of good people there it was so horrible it left him with an insatiable anger towards, I believe, especially his father. His soul survived, but definitely no thanks to that school.
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2 Kafiyah Bello
March 27, 2025 at 5:55 AM
Well I got my bean, SIGH.
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3 pepelepeu
March 27, 2025 at 5:56 AM
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4 pepelepeu
March 27, 2025 at 6:00 AM
@unit -Well said & spot on! Totally agree it's BJY show. CHW did a great job here. He brought BJY to life with his own unique charm - truly adorkable & not to mention hilarious😉. Looking forward to his future projects. He definitely gained a new fan! Pity MGY seemed detached throughout although there were some bright moments cos she actually can do rom-com quite well.
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5 Kurama
March 27, 2025 at 6:29 AM
It's over!!!! I had so many difficulties to focus on what was happening on the screen because I didn't care...
This drama was meh from the beginning to the end.
I think Choi Hyun-wook was really micasted. For me he was trying to be Park Seo-joon in What's Wrong With Secretary Kim but didn't have the aura neither the charisma, so the result was a teenager trying to act like an adult. Because of that, the humor between his secret hobbies and his job didn't work at all.
Moon Ga-Young wasn't bad but after her performance in The Interest of Love and her chemistry with Yoo Yeon-Seok, it looks like she did the bare minimum.
I liked the second couple but I would have prefered them without the last separation but instead more building justifying him quitting his job.
The grandma was just a plot pawn and not a real character. Her behavior never made sense.
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Midnight
March 27, 2025 at 7:05 AM
This comment caused me a double take! Because I haven't even watched this show but every screenshot of the ml remided me of Park Seo Joon! I thought it was the hair and suits styling, and now you're saying even his acting felt like trying to be him.
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DK-Drama ❤️🎄 Giffing n Space Cadetting 👼🏻🌟
March 27, 2025 at 4:36 PM
I am pretty sure he was trying to act like a teenager trying to act like a grownup - that was the whole idea, that he had never been allowed to be a child and a teenager after age 10, and so he had that childish side with him all along.
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Kurama
March 27, 2025 at 10:12 PM
I think his character was an adult who kept a childish side to endure pressure and loneliness.
But it was lost with the fact that CHW wasn't convincing as the adult.
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skelly
March 28, 2025 at 10:15 AM
That was my issue, too: he was a teenager pretending to be an adult. His life revolved around his feelings of abandonment/need for structure, his craving for approval from his parent figure, and his need to hide his true self. He was still obsessed about exactly the same things he was10-15 years ago, including the same woman, and using the same coping mechanisms. I think he needed a therapist more than a girlfriend.
darwi
March 29, 2025 at 3:26 PM
I agree that he was not fully convincing as an adult. He was a baby, and the drama agreed by playing babies sounds.
6 🌸 Seeker 🌸
March 27, 2025 at 7:20 AM
Thank you for the recap. 🍓🎮🐉
Uri Black Dragon was talking about us Beanies wasn't he. 😂 He knows that for us watching K-dramas isn't just a hobby, it is a lifestyle.
It was a nice and fluffy ending with *surprise, surprise* NO noble idiocy
that was reserved for the secondary coupleand / or time skip!! 😱 I liked the open communication between the leads, their mutual trust (of course Ban Ju would have gone to the US with his yeoja-chingu) and slowing easing into their relationship and attending rock concerts together. I loved the fact that things were resolved and the Pirate King pop-up was back on track because of uri Black Dragon embracing his true identity. The "real" ML is the Black Dragon of course and the Chaebol Ban Joo-yeon is just his public Bruce Wayne identity. I loved the voice note recorded by uri Strawberry and her Black Dragon's reaction to it - complete with squees and kicking feet. 😂🤣 I was happy that even though we didn't get more in-game scenes, we got references to their time there and how they had spent Christmas and New Year together. Awww. 😊❤🥰As anybody could see from a mile away both the lovelines were wrapped up and Halemoni got a redemption arc. I lost interest in the secondary leads storyline and as many Beanies rightly mentioned Halemoni wasn't a real character just a pixelated "hurdle" or maybe "trauma" to overcome.
My only little gripe was the absence of more in-game scenes. Otherwise I was happy with our OTP and liked their growth together and how their relationship evolved. Their in-game interactions also built a lot of trust between them. And they relied upon that trust 5o take their relationship forward. Park Seo-joon's Chaebol has become the go-to template for Chaebols in rom-coms but it was easier to accept that Ban Ju's "real" identity was the Black Dragon and not the Chaebol heir.
So here's a cheer for uri Black Dragon and Strawberry. May they have a happy time gaming together. ❤
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7 hacja
March 27, 2025 at 9:55 AM
I'm with @kurama here. This one was fine but pretty unexciting, the grandma unconvincing, the two couples unobjectionable but not even as attractive in their interactions to me as those in Potato Lab, and that's saying something! Just as I was never convinced that the FL would be that obsessed over the trauma caused her by her fantasy first love, so I was never convinced that she would fall in love with the ML, and it seemed to me that's why they replayed the scene of him tying her shoes 3 times. That trope is not the basis of a deep love, I would say!
I liked the show's variations on the use of tropes and its ppls, but that's different from saying that the show as a whole was memorable. The ending was not a shocking letdown, as is unfortunately common in kdrama rom-coms. But still, I predicted the FL dancing awkwardly in black leather next to the ML after the first episode, and total predictability isn’t that fun either.
I'd say one of the essential problems of the show for me, was, as many people pointed out, that although going to rock concerts and indulging in comic collectibles might be somewhat "youthful" in spirit, (although I know many men in their 60s who do a lot more immature things than that), its hardly something shameful. In order to make the activities excessively clandestine, they had to put forward this cartoonish character of a Grandma. I was always thinking--what if they had made the ML's secret musical hobby really transgressive, like say, cross-dressing as a woman opera singer and singing German leider in falsetto before a small group of chamber music fans? Something like that would have been genuinely unusual, and likely somewhat scandalous, and wouldn't require a cardboard Grandmother to make it something to hide.
Or, alternatively, what I would really have liked--what if they gave the FL a hobby that she also felt was not respectable, so the couple was bound together in their secrecy? Even though I knew it was coming, the FL's declaration of "I don't need a hobby--I'll just adopt the ones of the person I love" didn't really sit right with me. Not to take fantasy rom-com relationships too seriously, but in real life, you need a mutual sharing of interests. One partner can't be able to indulge in all the things he likes, without acknowledging the leisure time interests of his love. I think making their joint pursuits a little less one sided might have convinced me more that they belonged together.
Finally the idea that you should “openly pursue your (harmless) passions, that also involve buying a lot of things" is something that I, as a baby boomer, have been hearing from advertising all my life—so I don’t find it too inspiring or in this context very romantic a message.
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darwi
March 29, 2025 at 3:32 PM
I didn't appreciate the drama Melo movie, but in it at least a FL left because she had no common interest with her man. It is not good to have no personal interest. And it is not credible to have a performing workwoman to become a carbon copy of her babyboyfriend.
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8 JH LOVES KDRAMA
March 27, 2025 at 10:44 AM
Overall, a fun little drama. I had to work to keep my interest up and since I am not a usually a "live watcher" this was a challenge. But, I made it to the end!
I agree, it was definitely the "Bahn Joo-yeon show, and although I was not a CHW fan, he grew on me. Agree that he did seem to be mimicking PSJ in some of his actions (hand motions). The chemistry between the main leads felt a little more believable by the end, but still not sold on FL's part in it all.
As I said in a comment before, I would have been much happier with the end if we had gotten to see the DRAGON TATTOO one more time!
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9 too_much_tv
March 27, 2025 at 11:20 AM
Thanks for the recap!
I enjoyed this show, but I bet I will forget about it quickly. The conflict that the OTP had to resolve was kind of silly, even though the underlying traumas of the characters were serious. I knew that no one would be satisfied with the ending, because there was no satisfying ending. The grandmother had to repent for the ML to get his reward for his persistence. The show waited until the last moment to show the repentance and that made it unbelievable. It was like flipping a switch, and that seems kind of odd and unrealistic. The actress did her best to make the repentance believable and sincere, but the script did not.
It would have made more sense, to me, for the grandmother to fire him and for the two of them to negotiate new positions in the US through the company that was scouting the FL.
The second couple were also a plot problem. They each had real character backstory reasons for their behavior in the relationship--but somehow the writers didn't care enough to show them each working through the problems. But there was a lot of humor they missed in the process. Also what happened with his toothache? It was like someone set up something with the teeth and then just dropped it.
Overall it felt like the desire to create light rom com vibes and the premise and plot were a bit at odds with each other. It kind of reminded me of Cinderella at 2AM. We have to explain why these attractive and gifted people are single, so we give them a terrible backstory, and then we handwave that so they can pull ridiculous shenanigans.
I found Choi Hyun-wook extremely appealing in this show, though. I loved him as the bromance character in Weak Hero (that was him too, right?) He's good at showing sympathy on his face and that's so appealing. I'm also in favor of Moon Ga-young playing smart people. So that was nice!
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10 MalcolmPDX
March 27, 2025 at 11:47 AM
Meh. What an unsatisfying final two episodes. A general problem with the enemies to lovers trope is once they become lovers most of the fun tension is gone, and that's where this show has been for the past few episodes. As for the grandmother's redemption story - give me a break! It would have been much more satisfying to see her ousted from her own company or worse - where's a white truck of death when you need it!? Personally, I was far more interested in the second leads, and while the drunk confession over the loudspeaker was funny I would have liked a bit more focus on this more interesting relationship. Anywho.... Thanks Unit for the recaps!
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11 Luuta
March 27, 2025 at 12:57 PM
After several years of watching wall to wall excellent Kdramas, I finally hit a block of eight variously made over 14 years that have really sucked.
All this we were connected as kids stuff is bad enough, but I saw two recently which both had boys rescued from a fire by a man who not only sacrifices himself to do it, but turns out to be the blood father of the love interest who was orphaned as a result.
The similarities were so exact that either the same writer was used on both and was lazily reusing his favourite clichés, or there's a lot of deliberate copying.
Grandmother should have remained stuck in her ways until the comedic death scene, telegraphed at various points throughout the drama. That would have mixed things up a bit.
In Kdramas the heroines all decide not to go abroad to fulfil themselves or whatever, choosing instead to take a subserviant role to the male lead. That idea is a ropey old misogynistic cliche in Kdramas, and should no longer be in use. Same with legs giving way and falling into the arms of the hero, with instant love at first eye contact.
A drama is in trouble when the secondary love interest is more interesting. The secondary lead actress has a much more interesting role and she acted it through much better, too. Whilst I like the leads, they were very vanilla, with performances that had been dialed in, but the script didn't give them much choice, to be fair.
The secondary relationship would not work in real life. The secondary male lead is a deadly dull guy with no personality, whereas the secondary female lead is full of silent anger and laughter and a fiery independent attitude that only begrudgingly accepted the vanilla man at every step. I can see divorce in wait for those two.
The rest of the world way way too sketchily painted. The office workers were never more than manikins and seemed to do nothing, nothing at all. In fact they all seemed to do nothing at all.
Love the leads, despite the vanilla dialed in performances because it's not their fault, but a totally paint it by numbers drama without soul or depth.
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empressgirl
March 27, 2025 at 5:55 PM
Re: I finally hit a block of eight variously made over 14 years that have really sucked.
Oh, PLEASE list us the 8 that have really sucked. Consider it a PSA service for all future Beanies reading this post!
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Nastrella
March 29, 2025 at 8:18 PM
+ 1 for the list please! I know not everyone have the same taste (I could never finished Welcome to Waikiki even though I read everywhere that it was the funniest drama ever) but my to watch list is so long I'd like to know what can wait more than the others xD
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Luuta
April 2, 2025 at 2:41 AM
See below for lengthy reply
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Luuta
April 2, 2025 at 2:06 AM
I usually note down every thing I have watched, with a score system, but I list them alphabetically, rather than when I watched them, and I can't remember now which ones sucked the most. A few of them were Korean, but I saw some abysmal Japanese, Malaysian and Chinese ones in that, too.
And whilst I sometimes make notes about why it's so good or so bad, I don't do it on everything, just the ones that really stand out.
So all I can do is list a few I really didn't like.
Here goes:
**Suspicious Partner**
Second drama in a row that partly hinged on a the father of the female love interest giving his life saving the little boy who grows up to be the male love interest.
This scenario is just so specific that one drama had to have been, shall we say heavily influenced, by the other. Sadly, I can't recall the name of the other drama.
The rest of the drama is ok, if a little flat, and I'm not sure which of the two dramas used that fire kid trope first, but it ruined it for me. It made me very aware of the jigsaw formula used in the creation of most Korean dramas. It really is like having a pot full of plot cards and being told to pick five. And that's why so many Korean dramas are so similar.
Three misogynist dramas:
**Weight Lifting Fairy Kim Book**
**Warm & Cozy**
**Pasta**
Revolting gaslighting bully is a real turn-off in the first of those three. So much so that I was so infuriated I couldn't watch any more. The lead actress should avoid men like this like the plague. And as I didn't want to be hurt by watching this woman go off with this dirtbag, I gave up.
**Warm & Cozy**
Lazy chauvinist psycho wins heart of fair lady... another misogynistic rom com that is painfully slow and nonsensical. What gets me is that the situation is normalised. It seems to be considered to be acceptable that men behave this way and a happy ending is one where the fiercely independent woman, against everything that she normally is, thinks this is acceptable. The man in this one is not only misogynistic, but shows all the signs of someone with malicious narcissistic tendencies. This isn't a love story, it's a horror film.
**Pasta**
The biggest disappointment, as I adore everything else I've seen the two leads in, and the death of the lead male 1½ years ago was tragic. After seeing Mr Mister, I sobbed my eyes out. IU has had I think it's three close personal friends kill themselves. I can't imagine how dreadfully that would affect someone.
Lee Sun-kyun can do no wrong, his acting as always was superb, as was Gong Hyo-jin's, whose character is viciously bullied and grossly gaslit by him all the way through the drama. Why the hell would anyone cheer for this relationship? She would end up a stay at home battered wife if they ever lived together.
So I so much wanted to like this, but I couldn't. I watched until the end, and didn't believe anything about their relationship.
I can't help thinking that these...
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Luuta
April 2, 2025 at 2:31 AM
My reply was cut short. I should have pasted it in.
I can't help but think that these dramas are reflective of the normalisation of gaslighting, bullying and toxic male behaviour in Korea, but whilst I can forgive such stuff made a decade ago, it's disappointing to see such tropes still being used by writers today.
**Prison Playbook**
Started off really well, but it soon became apparent that it was wandering aimlessly for most of the rest of the series. Thankfully the older 20+ episode series are now 16, 12 or 8 episode series. After 8 episodes you could probably skip the middle third of all Kdramas and you wouldn't miss much.
Even the worst KDrama is better than anything Britain or America has done over the last two decades, with the odd exception. But Prison Playbook went badly wrong so quickly and for so long that I wonder if the script writers had left it to an AI to write.
There are a lot of fabulous southeast Asian dramas, though, so here is a short list of some of the ones I consider to be the cream of the crop:
My Mister, The Glory, Alchemy of Souls, Alice in Borderland, Captivating the King, Crashlanding on You, Squid Game, Extraordinary Attorney Woo, IU's Persona, Hotel del Luna, Signal, Orange Days, Our Blues, Quartet, Rurouni Kenshin, The Makanai, Million Yen Women, Thirty Nine, Uncontrollably Fond, When the Camellia Blooms, Gyeongseong Creature (first series), Hometown Cha Cha Cha, Chief of Staff.
A special mention of the three series of The Penthouse: War in Life. The first series could have lost the middle third and the second and third series could have been squeezed into two episodes apiece, but the over the top villainy of all the characters makes for great viewing. Just skip most of it.
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mishagam
April 5, 2025 at 12:48 PM
There is drama with died firefighter and everything else - Secret Garden, rather old drama, but I think very good.
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12 Dylan [My Dearest Undercover Potato]
March 27, 2025 at 6:27 PM
This man went on stage and said he liked a cartoon.. .and of course everyone's reaction was just "😐 🧍"
Ban Ju-yeon, you're not a persecuted minority, you're just into nerdy stuff 😭 that grandma did a number on you... I can't believe everyone forgave her so easily. Especially with that anime villain motivation... What do you mean, "love makes people weak"???
Other than that, it felt like they didn't know to end the story. After everyone's happy ending, all that was left is a monologue, running across the street and walking off hand-in-hand. And honestly? I'm fine with that. I expected fun, cute romance and a pleasant way to pass the time. I got all of that til the very end, so I'm super happy.
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Luuta
April 4, 2025 at 9:45 AM
So true!
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13 Britney
March 27, 2025 at 9:03 PM
It made me smile when our black dragon was like the fandom life chooses you, you do not choose the fandom life haha.
I felt he was so relatable to so many people, particularly in the final episode when he was being more open about his interests.
People who don't get it can belittle it but being a fan of something can truly be a healing and saving thing. It can give people motivation, happiness, support, and community.
I liked the handwritten messages from the cast at the end. I thought that was a very nice touch.
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JH LOVES KDRAMA
March 28, 2025 at 3:11 PM
I was so disappointed that on VIKI the messages were not translated. Did you see an English translation somewhere?
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Britney
March 28, 2025 at 11:52 PM
I took screenshots and then put them through a translator app.
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JH LOVES KDRAMA
March 29, 2025 at 10:16 AM
So smart!!!
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Luuta
April 5, 2025 at 1:07 PM
Being in any special group can be either uplifting or soul destroying. And sometimes both. People who condemn others for having an interest that they think is ridiculous lack the ability to empathise with them through their experiences with their own particular interests. Likewise, being in a particular group can be problematic (being disabled, old, a woman, etc). On the other hand, being a member of a specialist club gives you the sense of belonging, provides a support base, offers friendships and distracting activities. These are all aspects of the same desire to belong, and it's flipside, to be one among the pack, not the one who has been ostracised. People are pack animals, after all. It really is a decided lack of imagination that many people have that they are unable to relate to others who might, initially, seem so different, but aren't.
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14 Charlotte
March 28, 2025 at 9:07 PM
I usually binge-watch after a drama has finished, but I did this in three mini binge-sessions and sadly, found myself losing interest between them. Was it because I lost the continuity or flow of the plot? Don't think so. There wasn't anything nuanced or confusing about it, or the characters: girl with disastrous 1st love and a yen to climb the corridors of power, meets a rich chaebol heir whose disastrous 1st love fed right into his choking fear of not living-up to anyone's expectations, so he led a double-life between his pretend role as a CEO while hiding his core self: a cool music fan dude who likes gaming, Animé & toys. Quirky yes, but easy to understand. Same as our second lead characters: a girl who was hurt by her ex and now won't trust the new man who likes her... until she changes her mind...but then HE changes his. Again simple. The actors were good (not saying great because sometimes the dialogue felt a bit too writer-heavy). My favourite character was Joo-yeon's Secretary, who, in spite of her reluctance, kept giving him some good guidance. The grandmother was definitely one-dimensional, and actually, that term could be used about the whole drama for me. No matter what small quirks the characters had or how the plot delivered some trope-flips, the drama seemed to stall into loops of repetitious actions, like all the misunderstandings between the leads, mixed in with their misunderstandings with co-workers. Perhaps some different complications for their relationship might have helped? For example, maybe if we'd seen more of her not falling into lockstep with his life after his secret was out, but do more entwining him into her family life? I really liked seeing them in "real life" helping Dad fix things in the house. I would have also been interested in her Dad's background life and why he is so passive, almost timid around his kids. Same with Joo-yeon's grim-faced Gramma who was also a one-trick pony right up until she suddenly turned nice ....after just one conversation. Nothing led up to it beforehand. Okay, I'll park my thoughts here...all just quibbles anyway...however when all is said and done, the writer & director did keep me at the table, but I still left a bit hungry for a more filling meal.
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15 panshel
March 29, 2025 at 12:10 AM
I loved this couple. They were so cute together. I loved how Soo-jung decorated Joo-yeon's living room with his anime stuff (and love even more how she has free access to his house). I'm happy that he can finally display his favorite things out in the open and not have to hide his secrets anymore. When Joo-yeon overheard Soo-jung's team agree that she should accept the job offer and ask how can she go to the U.S. without her boyfriend, I shouted, "Her boyfriend can go with her!" especially since he just told his grandmother to fire him. Soo-jung's misunderstanding was hilarious though, "Should I go home now so I can start thinking about it?" as was Secretary Kwon's "You told her you'd be going together, right?"
Grandma was the worst contrived plot device. This conflict was unbelievable and only existed to manufacture childhood trauma for our hero. He was a CHILD! Those were his PARENTS! It's NOT HIS FAULT that they died!! We all saw it coming, but I'm still angry that the show made Joo-yeon forgive her.
If I could rewrite this story, I would...
1) Remove Grandma.
2) Age Joo-yeon and Soo-jung down. There is no reason he needs to be 30 years old. He could've been a 25-year-old genius chaebol director, which would at least be closer to Choi Hyun-wook's real-life age.
3) I realize this would change the entire story, but because I loved the in-game scenes of Episode 1, I wish Joo-yeon's secret were he's a gamer. Although, gaming is an adult hobby (Esports), so it wouldn't be embarrassing nor would he need to keep it a secret, but if it were, Soo-jung's new hobby could be gaming since she once loved playing when they were young unlike reading manhwas or attending rock concerts.
4) I wish the writer had sprinkled in "You remind me of my first love" moments throughout the show. When Joo-yeon told Soo-jung at the farm that it's lonely working alone, it should've reminded her of their promise. I swooned at him remembering that she wanted to learn the piano.
5) Make Joo-yeon wear glasses all the time.Forever thanks for recapping the whole show, @Unit!
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JH LOVES KDRAMA
March 29, 2025 at 10:23 AM
Love all of your plot changes!
1. Totally remove grandma!! So unnecessary and unbelievable. I couldn't believe they redeemed her in the end. UGH!
2. Younger would have been soooo much better.
3. And, a GAMER!! Great idea; makes much more sense. A much more reasonable connection for them as adults since that is how they met in the first place.
4. Connections to their youth!
5. I would difinitly vote for more glasses time!
And, I still want to see the dragon tattoo again!!
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Nastrella
March 29, 2025 at 8:16 PM
Yes for the dragon tattoo!
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panshel
March 31, 2025 at 12:43 AM
6) Oh yes! His dragon henna tattoo must have faded because it disappeared in Episode 6's shower scene. 🤣
7) I want to add a Baek Family dinner including Joo-yeon and Soo-bin's police officer girlfriend whom we've only heard of but never met.
5) Why did he only wear glasses to team meetings? To appear smarter? Could he not see?
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empressgirl
March 30, 2025 at 5:40 PM
YES - more gaming please!
That hook was what reeled me in to watch the show in the first place
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16 Nastrella
March 29, 2025 at 8:14 PM
This drama was overall cute and with a happy ending but nothing special for me in the end. There are some cute romance k-drama that I like (Touch your heart for instance) but this one didn't trigger that many emotions.
Of course the grandmother gets her redemption arc, she only needed 20 + years to realize that a 8 years old kid wasn't responsible for his parents death...
I am still disappointed that it wasn't more game oriented as the first episodes showed.
At least FML got to meet his idol and SML finally quit his job to make the restaurant his job, since anyway he was always there!
I really enjoyed reading everyone's comments each week though, so thank you :)
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17 Qingdao
March 30, 2025 at 6:25 PM
This was a fun drama that definitely fits in the "palette cleanser" category.
It seems that the talented Choi Hyun-Wook could be the new Park Seo Jun. I would like to see him in an historical drama.
True, there are several things that could be improved upon, but overall it was entertaining.
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18 loveblossom🌸
April 6, 2025 at 11:34 PM
I dragged my feet on watching these last episodes. I was bored during the finale. The overall romance between Soo Jung and Joo Yeon was too juvenile especially when the characters were suppose to be in their 30s. If they had been in a different setting and position (not CEO+team leader), then their romance could have worked. College campus, jobs not in corporate. Anything else...
Villain Grandma was one of the worst plot devices I've seen recently. Did not care for her redemption arc at all.
The show overemphasized Joo Yeon's hobbies as being childish, but they really weren't. It's fine for adults to be reading comics, rocking out, and collecting things!
The supporting characters did not stand out except Secretary Kwon.
Hope to see Moon Ga Young in a better drama. ; 3;
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loveblossom🌸
April 6, 2025 at 11:35 PM
Whoops, not CEO but director*
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