[Drama Chat] What’s your favorite romance trope?
by Unit
A quick glance through dramaland shows that we’re smack in the middle of a rom-com season. One of the hallmarks of this genre are the tropes that drive the romance, and each of these tropes have their individual appeal — from childhood friends to lovers and chaebol office romances to slow burns and contract relationships. The serendipity of first loves and second chance romances are not left out of the fun, and there’s also the non-scientifically backed theories of erasers and DNA lovers. With this much variety of tropes on air at almost the same time, we’re truly spoiled for choice and there’s something for every romance fan out there.
So, what’s your favorite romance trope?
Let the chatting begin!
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1 lotus
September 15, 2024 at 5:34 AM
I'm a sucker for fake!relationship trope. Two people pretending to be together and then catching real feelings later? *ahem, All Gain, All Love* Ugh, sign me up! And oooh, enemies to lovers (slow burn)! I love watching the tension and chemistry that slowly builds up when two people clash at first and then eventually see each other in a new light. *chef's kiss* Plus you get the fun banters that lead to eventual softening toward one another (*/ω\) SOOO what I'm saying is, beanies~ go watch (All) No Gain, (All) No Love (*≧∀≦*)!
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Ahjummaaa
September 15, 2024 at 11:17 AM
Fiery Priest has fun banter between leads!
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aicaramba
September 15, 2024 at 5:37 PM
Yes! There's tension too, except romance is totally off-limits.
I'd pay to see Kim Nam Gil and Honey Lee in a friends-to-lovers-to-enemies-to-2nd-chance-lovers romance ❤️
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Sunnyboo ☀️🥰
September 16, 2024 at 2:22 AM
Ooh, me too! Those two would be fire.
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Ahjummaaa
September 16, 2024 at 10:42 AM
you got it right, they have really easy on-screen chemistry. such a shame not to cast them together in more dramas. if I were the screenwriter or director, I would have liked to cast them again in Vincenzo also if I couldn't find a better pair.
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vongole
September 16, 2024 at 10:39 PM
Ooooh - what a weekender that’d be!
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Sunnyboo ☀️🥰
September 16, 2024 at 2:21 AM
Nicely done @lotus with the plug 🤗
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DK-Drama 🫘 Giffing n Space Cadetting🍉🌱
September 16, 2024 at 11:30 AM
Fake relationships are fun! But if someoneis faking it without telling the other, like if it's a bet, and they regret it, it's a bit much anxiety for me. I like that they make a deal, and then screw up that deal by falling hard for each other.
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2 Snow Flower
September 15, 2024 at 5:36 AM
Love square (or any other multi-angle shape) with satisfying resolution. I am very happy when a rejected 2 ML or 2 FL finds true love.
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owl 🦉 🫰
September 16, 2024 at 10:06 AM
Yes, I very often root for SL (except when he or she reacts in noble idiocy mode).
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3 Seon-ha
September 15, 2024 at 5:36 AM
Noble idiocy. Because it's the one you hate most that makes the other tropes that much more precious.
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Midnight
September 15, 2024 at 6:15 AM
😂
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HopefulRomantic 🦋 Tigermoth 🦞
September 15, 2024 at 7:10 AM
I was ready to say I love all the tropes, but you're right - this is the one I abhor and detest 😂👍
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panshel
September 15, 2024 at 9:08 AM
I hate quite a few: amnesia, terminal illness, Truck of Doom.
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Ahjummaaa
September 15, 2024 at 11:16 AM
I would love someone to try inserting an amnesia trope into a drama in a fresh and natural way. I would love to like this trope but it always seems so tropey lol
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empressgirl
September 16, 2024 at 6:27 PM
Crazy Love!
No spoilers but Kim Jae Wook used the amnesia to his advantage, shall we say lol
Babylilo
September 17, 2024 at 2:53 PM
There are two shows I watched recently that ought to be ashamed of themselves for the way they used the amnesia trope. In My Dearest, the ML gets amnesia not once, but twice. Or was it three times? The Good Bad Mother offered an awful variation of an awful trope: amnesia/brain damage from a blow to the head being cured by another blow to the head. 🤯
The amnesia trope is more acceptable to me when it's used in a drama that's not supposed to be representing real life. I'm okay with aliens wiping someone's mind, memories being lost during time travel, etc.
Britney
September 15, 2024 at 9:16 AM
I figured tropes we hate would be the next chat prompt but I'll just comment again at time haha
Tropes I hate: pining (after 1st love) and love polygons (trianges, squares, etc). Willful ignorance and miscommunication (though sometimes I understand it)
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Britney
September 15, 2024 at 8:52 AM
Maybe I just haven't seen any noble idiocy moments that hated because I don't mind that trope. I think I'm the only one.
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hacja
September 15, 2024 at 10:51 AM
I'd tell you how much I like this comment, but because I love your comments, I never will, because I think it would be best for you if I disappear from your likes and you never have to deal with me again.
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Britney
September 15, 2024 at 11:08 AM
I'm touched that you're so considerate of me. If it's meant to be, I'm sure you'll eventually tell me how you felt. If not, it's probably for the best.
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Seon-ha
September 15, 2024 at 11:20 AM
Oh, you two...
Midnight
September 15, 2024 at 11:53 AM
😂
tabong
September 15, 2024 at 1:19 PM
🤣🤣🤣🤣😂 you two made my day.
Sunnyboo ☀️🥰
September 16, 2024 at 2:26 AM
😂😂
Minnie🫘👩🏻🚀Pioneer and Teacher 👩🏻🏫🌱🏹
September 15, 2024 at 5:33 PM
😂
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Babylilo
September 17, 2024 at 2:57 PM
I'm guessing you've never seen Do Do Sol Sol La La Sol.
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Britney
September 18, 2024 at 4:07 PM
I've blocked it out of my memory apparently.
It ends for me after their performance.
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DK-Drama 🫘 Giffing n Space Cadetting🍉🌱
September 16, 2024 at 11:37 AM
Noble idiocy, the time slip:
Not being together for stupid, stupid reasons. I always hate the timeslip, and I especially hate the Noble abscense if there is not a very good reasons, and if there is, I want that person to be honest: "They threaten to kill YOU if they find out I still like you. I cannot survive it they do that." Not just saying horrible, hurtful things.
And to the tropes that leave them away from each otherwhen they should be together comes "the woman suddenly being super coy and making it her task to make the ML think they are going to have sex and then ha ha not". My not-favourite example is Her Private Life.
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4 technicat
September 15, 2024 at 6:17 AM
I confess I like the bickering (not so much in real life).
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Ahjummaaa
September 15, 2024 at 11:14 AM
bickering is fun if it's lighthearted and funny but often in real life it's not. I know a pair of old friends that were really good at the back and forth teasing each other. It was like a comedy show watching them. They finally ended up dating in their 30's but the ML suddenly passed away from a health condition. I am so sad for the FL beyond words.
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technicat
September 15, 2024 at 12:32 PM
Oh, that's sad. I have friends from high school and college who passed away in their thirties and early forties. It's really a shock.
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Ahjummaaa
September 15, 2024 at 2:46 PM
it is a shock and such a loss.
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Sunnyboo ☀️🥰
September 16, 2024 at 2:29 AM
That's awful. I'm so sorry.
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Ahjummaaa
September 16, 2024 at 10:47 AM
he was a really nice guy, I even had a little crush on him but their chemistry even as friends was so strong that I didn't dare steal him away. It made so much sense for them to be together. I try not to think about if they had just gotten together earlier, they would have been able to get married and start a family. But at least they did finally get together, even if it was for a short while. She is a very strong and positive girl, so I think she will be okay in the long-run. It is a shame though.
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jillian
September 15, 2024 at 11:18 AM
Bickering can be okay in dramas. But not too much.
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5 Britney
September 15, 2024 at 6:32 AM
I like enemies to lovers, found family, childhood connection. Those are off the top of my head but it has to strike the right balance for me. For example: Boys over Flowers ❌️ but No Gain No Love or Suspicious Partner✅️
Is bickering a trope? I like when the character bicker, challenge, and tease each other.
Example: Knight Flower or Sh**ting Stars
Childhood connection when feels a part of the story and not thrown in or implies a fateful connection. Example: While You Were Sleeping or Hometown Cha Cha Cha
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Ahjummaaa
September 15, 2024 at 11:11 AM
there's long running jokes and bickering between the leads in Fiery Priest which was fun
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Sunnyboo ☀️🥰
September 16, 2024 at 2:31 AM
Childhood connection seems like a kdrama staple. I must admit it sometimes feels forced, and not organic enough.
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DK-Drama 🫘 Giffing n Space Cadetting🍉🌱
September 16, 2024 at 3:38 AM
It's a total staple and ridiculously depicted as the most sure way to decide if someone is meant for each other. The moment you find out they have met sometime as children, that's when you know "THIS IS LOVE!"
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Ahjummaaa
September 16, 2024 at 10:57 AM
"this was meant to be!" (laughs)
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Ahjummaaa
September 16, 2024 at 10:57 AM
Even if the writer was writing from their own experience, it can come off overly sentimental to viewers. Ah, screenwriting is such an art. I would say more often than not the childhood connection trope fails to touch viewers. Sometimes the things that feel the most meaningful are the hardest to translate meaningfully to the screen.
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DK-Drama 🫘 Giffing n Space Cadetting🍉🌱
September 16, 2024 at 11:21 AM
It's like the "falling on top of each other and landing in a kiss". It's not about whether it's realistisc or not. It's just a thing that happens a lot in K-drama.
In real life, of course, lots of people marry someone from their hometown and are fairly happy, but in K-drama it's like, when you find out they have known each other ... sometimes even just met as children, it can only mean one thing: Wedding Bells.
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DK-Drama 🫘 Giffing n Space Cadetting🍉🌱
September 16, 2024 at 11:23 AM
I suspect the time slip + childhood connection is propaganda for young people to 1) work their *sses of, and getting knowledge and skills abroad and 2) return to Korea with those skills and have alot of babies.
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Ahjummaaa
September 16, 2024 at 12:13 PM
lolz!
6 Kurama
September 15, 2024 at 6:44 AM
If I watch Kdramas, it's for the tropes. But one that can pass for plausible in asian dramas but not so much in western shows is cross dressing like in You're Beautiful, Coffee Prince, Sungkyunkwan Scandal, Love in the Moonlight, The King's Affection, The Tale of Nokdu, Hanazakari no Kimitachi e or Arsenal Military Academy, etc.
But I likes the others too : fake relationship, forced cohabitation, friends to lovers, ennemies to lovers, etc.
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Mr Everything
September 15, 2024 at 11:20 AM
I agree but is it the cross dressing or is it the falling in love with an FL who you think is the opposite sex and the anguish for the ML?
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Kurama
September 15, 2024 at 11:45 AM
Both ?
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DK-Drama 🫘 Giffing n Space Cadetting🍉🌱
September 16, 2024 at 4:01 AM
Of course it's a minority, but still: I know of at least a couple of trans people who have been in discussions with antitrans-people who said stuff like: "But at least you don't try to dress up as a man" - and truly, she didn't, not these last few years, but all the years from she was born and til she was thirty-something, she did.
What I'm saying is that some people that one would just assume was a cis person is actually a transperson. We just only notice those who have obvious signs like a sharp jaw etc.
I nearly forgot; my sister had a friend back in the seventies when hair beyond the ears was the norm for boys, too.
I remember she told me she would bring home [girl's name] after school, and I was surprised to see it was a boy? So I said to my sister "I thought you said it was a girl?"
But it was. Except for dresses, all the clothes boys and girls could wear as a normal thing overlapped at that time (us four siblings at home inherited each other's clothes too, no problem), and this girl just looked exactly like a boy, and had the demeanor of a boy, too.
Today I wonder of course how she felt inside, if she was hurt that she was mistaken for at boy all the time, or if she (I'm saying "she" cause that's how I knew her) secretly felt confirmed in her real identity, when someone who had even been told she had a girl's name still wondered why a boy would have that name (It was before puberty, so it happened easylier).
Oh, I have experienced later again that a child was called "he" even if the speaker was repeatedly corrected "It's a girl!".
That must have been like ... 15 years ago or something. They needed someone from the audience in a performance and picked up this lanky tween child with shoulder-long hair, and repeatedly said "THis Young Man ..." ("Girl", said the child's family and friends).
Now in this case, this troubled child that always was kind of moody and so to speak, didn't seem to feel at home in her own skin, came out as a transboy like ... 7 years ago. And for each step in that direction, they seemed to be more at ease, just by looking at his face, you could feel that he felt better now than ever. Yes, I know his parents, and they are not extreme either in upholding or supressing gender roles - they just happened to beget this child who is now a young man.
What I'm saying is that even if K-dramas are fairy tale stories where unlikely things are taken to extreme, gender-ambiguous youths like Eun Chan do exist, and they are not rarer than that I by accident have met a few. Two that I know of, but idk, maybe I have met twenty, that I just didn't get to know enough to know the ambiguity?
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Ahjummaaa
September 16, 2024 at 11:10 AM
yesss I agree --> "What I'm saying is that even if K-dramas are fairy tale stories where unlikely things are taken to extreme, gender-ambiguous youths like Eun Chan do exist, and they are not rarer than that I by accident have met a few. Two that I know of, but idk, maybe I have met twenty, that I just didn't get to know enough to know the ambiguity?" We see ambiguous individuals in media, celebrity families, and also I bet everyone knows at least one person in real life who is a tomboy/boyish girl and vice versa. For me, the Eun Chan type from Coffee Prince is very common in real life where a girl is very sporty and tomboyish often due to life circumstances. For example, my mother was very athletic and sporty as a child, she was not demure and ladylike at all. But she changed a lot as she became an adult. As for me, I had the opposite transformation. I was more girly and feminine as a child but due to several incidents, I became more guarded and stopped dressing in a feminine way as a way to protect myself. I also cut my hair off and wear it super short, but this is due to circumstances of not feeling safe as a single woman. In a different city, different country, I would feel more comfortable being feminine.
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DK-Drama 🫘 Giffing n Space Cadetting🍉🌱
September 16, 2024 at 11:28 AM
I am so sorry you cannot freely express yourself!
Sometimes I wish that those places that treat women the worst (because the patriarchy is everywhere, but def. worse some places) would lose all their women, that women would flee those places and the men could just sit there and rule themselves and forbid themselves to open their mouth outside.
But I know that's not how it works.
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7 kay4625
September 15, 2024 at 6:47 AM
Friends to lovers (childhood or not), enemies to lovers and fake relationship are all tropes than can be very fun, and that I can really like, but only if they're done well.
I also love a good slowburn, and by that I mean when it takes them almost the entire show to get together. I don't consider it a real slowburn if they get together halfway through the show.
Also, does romance between secondary characters count as a trope? Because I love that too.
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Ahjummaaa
September 15, 2024 at 10:25 AM
slowly does it! I actually lose interest if they get together too soon.
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8 jillian
September 15, 2024 at 7:07 AM
I love enemies to lovers, cohabitation hijinks, second chance romance (if done right). I also like meet cutes and if the ML is a tsundere or just awkard at hiding his feelings. I like it if the ML falls first.
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9 HopefulRomantic 🦋 Tigermoth 🦞
September 15, 2024 at 7:09 AM
I looooove this thread!!! 🤩✨️ One of the things I love most about Kdramas is the tropes - they are the genre conventions that make Kdramas Kdramas. Some of my faves: connected past lives, childhood connection, friends to lovers, forced cohabitation, contract relationship, found family, and family family. And then the smaller ones: rescuing each other from danger, taking care of someone who developed a sudden fever, accidentally touching hands, piggybacks, dramatic fall-and-catch, and SO MUCH MORE!! 😆
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10 Isa is always time travelling
September 15, 2024 at 7:16 AM
Cohabitation, definitely.
I see many of my favorite rom-coms or romances have it (Live up to your name, Flower Boy Next Door, The Best Hit, 9 end 2 outs, Bossam, Fated to love you, Shopping King Louis, Heartbeat, My Holo Love, Yumi's cells, Happiness and other shows... And also c-dramas).
Even in shows that are not among my favorites, I enjoyed the part about cohabitation (Crash landing on You, Abyss, Bride of Habaek, Dodosolsol, Park's Marriage Contract, Meow...).
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Ahjummaaa
September 15, 2024 at 10:28 AM
have you seen Smile You? :)
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Isa is always time travelling
September 15, 2024 at 1:09 PM
I have not seen it :)
It's quite long, but i'll add it to my list.
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I ♥️ bad dramas
September 15, 2024 at 11:57 PM
That show is a gem.
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11 Blue (@mayhemf)
September 15, 2024 at 7:29 AM
I love many tropes mentioned by beanies here so I will pick about one that’s not often spoken about. ‘Forbidden Love’.
I like stories where the leads know they aren’t supposed to fall in love or know it’s not the right thing to do but struggle and eventually they find the courage to fall in love.
Eg ‘Call it a love’ - she didn’t want to like him but couldn’t help it.
Secret Love - as complicated as it can get.
Coffee Prince - He struggles a lot with his feelings for a man and then eventually accepts that he is ok with it.
Lost, crash Landing on you.
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technicat
September 15, 2024 at 9:32 AM
Oh, that's a good one! It was so long ago, but I always think of Cruel Love with Lee Yo-won and Kwon Sang-woo.
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Ahjummaaa
September 15, 2024 at 10:34 AM
I love this genre when done well and not too icky (eg student-teacher, cheating)
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Ahjummaaa
September 15, 2024 at 10:35 AM
I'm not sure but I think When My Love Blooms was sort of in this genre.
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Blue (@mayhemf)
September 15, 2024 at 10:40 AM
Yeah. Probably even ‘Youth of May’. ‘Come and Hug me’.
I find such angst much better than the ones than happen after the couple gets together.
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Charlotte
September 15, 2024 at 5:00 PM
Yummm...'Secret Love'...one of my top 5.
Another forbidden relationship was in "Kill Me Heal Me" when the psychiatrist began to fall for Shin Se Ge, the bad boy of the 8 multiple personalities that she was supposed to "kill' in order to heal the ML. Of course all of them were versions of Ji Sung, so we loved them all, but Shin Se Ge was hypnotizing. I kept wondering who would finally win out...the bad boy or the good hearted but fractured CEO, hiding his illness from a family of vipers.
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empressgirl
September 16, 2024 at 5:36 AM
Definitely 'Forbidden Love'!
I am going to be very specific here -- especially faux-incest / student-teacher love - simply cos it makes so much sense but is oh-so-angst-ridden.
Faux-cest:
Autumn in My Heart (the OG blueprint) - brought up as siblings, found out later birth swop mistake
That Winter, the Wind Blows -- con-man posed as fake brother then falls in love
Under the Same Roof - adopted sister / love triangle - one brother is secretly in love with her, the other brother she is secretly in love with
Tree of Heaven - step-brother (no blood relations)
9 Times: Time Travel - this one by a stroke of (very bad) luck, his lover came back as his niece in an alt-timeline
Teacher-student:
The mother of them all: Majo No Jouken (the witch's requirement) -- iconic drama, but morally reprehensible (teacher had sex with minor -- and in the school library no less)
The good ones: Doctors / Melancholia
Another beloved sub-set trope (not mentioned so far):
childhood connection -- forged by shared trauma
examples:
I Hear Your Voice -- one child is sole witness of the murder of the father of the other child; grew up to be his legal defender, then her own mother got murdered by the same murderer.
Rain or Shine: both were survivors of a building collapse disaster (one remembers, the other doesn't)
good examples please recommend - always welcome them!
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Kurama
September 16, 2024 at 6:00 AM
Japanese dramas are kinda specialized in this kind like Kamisama Mou Sukoshi Dake or Chugakusei Nikki.
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Ahjummaaa
September 16, 2024 at 11:19 AM
yes this is their specialty I swear, exploring these difficult tropes.
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empressgirl
September 16, 2024 at 9:09 PM
what is the "forbidden love" in Nagareboshi ? is there a rule against falling in love with the organ donor?
Ahjummaaa
September 17, 2024 at 8:57 PM
@empressgirl to be honest it may have been more because of her line of work, but I remember they resisted getting into a relationship. I watched it many years ago but it's still one of my favorite J dramas due to the storytelling, directing, and acting.
empressgirl
September 16, 2024 at 6:30 PM
Kamisama went to dark places man...I wasn't even sure how they got past the censors (like, you want to have sex with a girl who has already tested HIV+?)
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Ahjummaaa
September 16, 2024 at 8:07 PM
here's another J drama with forbidden love for ya: Nagareboshi starring Yutaka Takenouchi (hottie) ML falling in love with mother's organ donor who is a sex worker. Although the story is pretty unusual, the drama was beautifully filmed and acted. I enjoyed it a lot despite the synopsis.
Kurama
September 16, 2024 at 9:05 PM
It's quite a good subject for prevention and condoms.
empressgirl
September 16, 2024 at 6:34 PM
I actually love the teacher-student forbidden love trope very much, esp when they wait it out, grow up, sever the teacher-student relationship and reconnect as adults on a level playing field and love again.
Good ones please recommend!
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Ahjummaaa
September 16, 2024 at 8:03 PM
oh Midnight Romance in Hagwon! if you haven't watched it yet :)
empressgirl
September 16, 2024 at 9:04 PM
Midnight Hagwon: Yes I watched it cos of the premise and cos I love the FL. But for some reason, the pairing doesn't work for me (though they are good actors by themselves) maybe cos the ML is too confident and well-built to emanate a sense of vulnerability LOL
I ♥️ bad dramas
September 17, 2024 at 2:33 AM
Biscuit Teacher Star Candy and Flower Boy Ramen Shop. I don't remember if they cut off the relationship in the latter, either ways I didn't mind.
Ahjummaaa
September 17, 2024 at 9:00 PM
@empressgirl I agree with you about the ML casting in Hagwon which didn't work for me either! I feel bad about it because I can't say exactly what's wrong but you described it well
empressgirl
September 17, 2024 at 9:14 PM
Yes, tis a pity! Cos the premise is great - they literally went from one taboo set-up (teacher-student romance scandal) to another taboo set-up (office romance/scandal) -- it's minefield navigation all the way and the stakes are racheted up high.
Another reason why ML doesn't work for me: he comes off as an adult play-acting as a student, and his character is full of bravado and swagger (this works counter-grain to the "underdog" trope, a subset of the "forbidden love" umbrella). "Forbidden love" trope is all about you and me VS the world, with equal parts valiant and vulnerable. He is all valiant, no vulnerable.
Ahjummaaa
September 16, 2024 at 11:18 AM
well since you asked for it... haha. here you go: 90 Days, Time to Love. it has forbidden love between cousins and terminal illness trope. I can't believe how much I enjoyed this drama despite the cousins trope which ordinarily would have grossed me out. But this drama was done so well and the ML was so good and convincing that I was able to block out the icky feelings. I liked this drama so much that I even made an MV for it on Youtube. And that's something I've never done before.
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empressgirl
September 16, 2024 at 6:35 PM
will search for it now lol
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empressgirl
September 17, 2024 at 9:15 PM
Oh you fangirl!
Post your MV link here, I wanna see!
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Ahjummaaa
September 16, 2024 at 11:22 AM
oh do you mean Under the Same Roof as in the classic J drama Hitotsu no Yane no Shita? My goodness I was just looking it up the other day to see if it's available online. That was my first J drama watch! Memorized the theme song. Fell in love with Masaharu Fukuyama.
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empressgirl
September 16, 2024 at 6:29 PM
YES!
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12 Soyesterday
September 15, 2024 at 7:39 AM
-Star crossed lovers/Forbidden Love
Whether its feuding families, class differences or any other reason contrived by fate its always great see our hero and heroine get together at the end.
-Second chance Romance
Especially when our couple is much older like "When my love blooms", mature romances are underrated
-Cartoonishly Evil slap happy Chaebol mother in law
Like death and taxes the only constant in Asian dramaland is that rich middle aged women are petty, childish and hate poor people marrying their children lol.
-Random terminal illness
Usually introduced near the middle or the end to manipulate the audience emotionally, im an absolute sucker and fall for it most of the time.
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Ahjummaaa
September 15, 2024 at 11:07 AM
I want more dramas like "When my love blooms"!!! It was good, but I want more.
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kiara
September 15, 2024 at 3:01 PM
Star-crossed lovers/Forbidden Love. I'll take both happy and tragic endings.
"Jamung Go" - tragic.
"The Princess's Man" - happy.
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Ahjummaaa
September 16, 2024 at 11:26 AM
haha --> "Cartoonishly Evil slap happy Chaebol mother in law" have I got the drama for you: The Promise. It has the most gloriously evil and gorgeous and well-dressed mother in law I have ever seen! :)
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13 Storyenthusiast
September 15, 2024 at 7:47 AM
I too am a fan of the enemies to lovers and/or bickering couples trope.
I love a good war of words and the conflict makes things that much more interesting.
I also have learned how much I love the found family trope that Kdramas do so well, even in non-romantic series.
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Ahjummaaa
September 15, 2024 at 11:09 AM
surprisingly, Fiery Priest had the enemies to friends and bickering trope. Plus the rare aspect of falling for a priest lol
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tabong
September 15, 2024 at 1:11 PM
I always forget the priest part and ship the in my mind. LMAO what in the fleabag.
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I ♥️ bad dramas
September 16, 2024 at 12:00 AM
Their chemistry and the tension between them 🔥...and when Lee Ha-nee ribs Geum Sae-rok for falling for Kim Nam-gil 😂
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tabong
September 15, 2024 at 1:09 PM
Found family is one of my faves too!!
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14 Bunny Sonaki
September 15, 2024 at 8:25 AM
Cohabitation 😍😍
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15 vienibenmio
September 15, 2024 at 8:41 AM
She fell first, but he fell harder is my absolute favorite. I love angst
I also love when two people work together to date someone else, but fall for each other. I see this less often in kdramas, though
I also can really love the past life or childhood love trope if it's done a certain way
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tabong
September 15, 2024 at 1:09 PM
I also love the "she fell first, he fell harder" trope. Or the "they fell at the same time and equally hard" one. 😂
I don't like it when he falls first, and he also falls hard. So hard he just fells flat.
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Isa is always time travelling
September 15, 2024 at 3:19 PM
I also enjoy when two people work together to date someone else, but in the process they fall in love 🤩
That briefly happened in My Holo Love, and also in At a distance, spring is green, Scripting your destiny, Angel Last Mission...
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Isa is always time travelling
September 18, 2024 at 11:46 PM
... And also in Wednesday 3.30 pm. (Childhood friends + one of them tries to help the other to get back with a third person + cohabitation).
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16 ♡Peach_Mochi♡
September 15, 2024 at 8:51 AM
Another vote here for fake relationships and forced cohabitation. It’s a great opportunity for the FL and ML to get to know each other without the pressure of trying to impress. Underneath the initial bickering is the communication that can lead to a real relationship grounded in not just acceptance but appreciation of each other’s true selves.
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Ahjummaaa
September 16, 2024 at 11:30 AM
oh you might enjoy "Hotaru no Hikari" one of my favorite J dramas about forced cohabitation. indeed the ML meets the FL at her "worst", being a slob at home. it's glorious!
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17 panshel
September 15, 2024 at 9:00 AM
Tsundere heroes. Only in dramas can I forgive jerk male leads who turn soft once they fall in love. He's just a prickly marshmallow whose stone-cold heart needs to be melted.
I also love cohabitation born out of contract relationships, or when the female lead lives with the male lead secretly and must hide when an unexpected guest arrives. Either they hide together in tension-filled close proximity, or she gets locked out of the house and he races to come save her.
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Ahjummaaa
September 15, 2024 at 11:00 AM
I still have a soft spot and place in my heart for well done tsundere tropes. it's a classic for a reason.
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I ♥️ bad dramas
September 16, 2024 at 12:04 AM
Tsunderes and jerks - our leads would be so boring without these traits. I also enjoy it when heroines bring them almighty highnesses low.
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empressgirl
September 16, 2024 at 9:01 PM
*grumpy* MLs with a (hidden) heart of gold - this is tsunderes done well.
prime example: Captain Ri in CLOY
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Ahjummaaa
September 17, 2024 at 9:04 PM
Hyun Bin is like one of the top 3 born to be tsundere actors in Korea. the other one is Gong Yoo. they just naturally have that vibe.
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dramamad
September 16, 2024 at 4:52 PM
Grumpy sunshine FTW
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18 too_much_tv
September 15, 2024 at 9:09 AM
I like the whole "piggyback rides yes, handholding or touching absolutely not," inconsistency of K-dramas. So many moments of people running up on each other and then NOT hugging! It's wild.
I also like it when the parents of one of the leads feeds the other lead.
I like the tsundere trope also, specifically when the actor playing the ML or FL seems to be unemotional to the other actors in the scene but the audience can tell their emotion. ♥
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19 Midnight
September 15, 2024 at 9:13 AM
To name a trope not yet mentioned, I love reverse taming-of-the-shrew.
Shining Inheritance, Protect the Boss, Miss Korea (secondary couple), Welcome 2 Life, are all among my favorites for this reason.
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Britney
September 15, 2024 at 10:24 AM
Why do you call it "reverse raming of the shrew?"
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Midnight
September 15, 2024 at 10:45 AM
Because the shrew is the male lead. The female lead is a fierce firm woman basically taming the male lead, not the usual meek candy capturing the heart of a tsundre man with her sweetness.
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technicat
September 15, 2024 at 1:06 PM
And it's built right into the title in Taming of the Heir (Invincible Lee Pyung Kang)
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empressgirl
September 16, 2024 at 8:59 PM
then maybe Kings 2 Heart would count too?
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Midnight
September 16, 2024 at 9:03 PM
I did think of it, but I decided that the political events (tragedy, being pushed into position too soon) played a huge role in taming that shrew. I still love the show, but I can't give all the credit to the fl.
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empressgirl
September 16, 2024 at 9:39 PM
Fair point lol
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20 petrolia
September 15, 2024 at 9:20 AM
I couldn't say which "longterm-tropes" I like, but I like the small moments - when one part of the soon-to-be-couple fell asleep and the other spreads a blanket over them (especially when we're in enemies-to-lovers-land and the spreading happens with a wee bit of hesitation and low-key muttering), the "accidental" hand touching while walking, and caring for the other when ill. Especially that scene in the hospital, watching out at the bedside, then falling asleep and being awakened by the staring, formerly ill-fallen other part of the couple. (Why is it always the twitching finger that indicates rising consciousness? Is there any resemblance to reality?) Or one part wants to go, but suddenly there emerges a hand and holds fast. I love that. Especially when whatever brought them into the hospital indicates to the other part that they don't want to lose them, surprisingly.
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Gikata
September 15, 2024 at 1:10 PM
Anyone who's been bedridden long enough (you wouldn't believe how narrow this time frame actually is!) loses most, if not all their muscle strength and requires a lot of rehabilitation physiotherapy to be able to do more than slightly twitching/lifting a finger once again. Speaking from experience here. Such sequence in KILL BILL, while being totally unrealistic in terms of her having a complete recovery overnight, highlighted how gradual this process is pretty accurately - staring with barely there toe twitch.
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21 vienibenmio
September 15, 2024 at 9:58 AM
Oh, for trope scenes I have two:
- She goes on a blind date, he finds out and goes to spy on her or stop her
- He reaches over to grab something she can't reach because she's too short
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Midnight
September 15, 2024 at 10:48 AM
I hate that first one 🙈🙈🙈
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Ahjummaaa
September 15, 2024 at 10:58 AM
haha
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ar_arguably romantic
September 15, 2024 at 1:28 PM
I have a love-hate with the first one. I love the part where the ML just freaks out. But not the part where the ML interrupts the blind date. I did appreciate the My Name is Kim Samsoon blind date since it was a running gag with the same blind date guy.
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vienibenmio
September 15, 2024 at 1:39 PM
I prefer spying to interrupting, but sometimes I love the latter. Only when it's the ML, though! 2MLs need not apply
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I ♥️ bad dramas
September 16, 2024 at 12:10 AM
Discovery of Love had a fun and embarrassing blind date scene - she's on a blind date, her ex is coincidentally at the next table overhearing all her fake stories. The cringe when she discovers his presence!
The second one is so squeeworthy.
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Ahjummaaa
September 16, 2024 at 12:22 PM
haha that sounds so embarassing...
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empressgirl
September 16, 2024 at 7:32 PM
1) Blind date: funniest recent one I saw - in My Sweet Mobster with a priceless blind date cameo by Lee Joon
2) Every show featuring Rowoon lol
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empressgirl
September 16, 2024 at 7:33 PM
The spying eavesdropping and bristling in jealousy by ML is equally hilarious in MSM
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22 darwi
September 15, 2024 at 10:10 AM
I like enemies to lovers for the bickering. False marriage can also be quite fun.
Terminal illness are worse offender than ToD and subway ppl.
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Ahjummaaa
September 15, 2024 at 10:57 AM
there's some funny bickering throughout Fiery Priest, plus an additional "forbidden love" trope of finding a priest attractive lolol
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I ♥️ bad dramas
September 16, 2024 at 12:12 AM
I almost wished they hadn't teamed up together so they'd keep butting heads. I wonder how their relationship will be in the 2nd season.
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Ahjummaaa
September 16, 2024 at 1:31 PM
I am really looking forward to Part 2 it's supposed to be coming out later this year, finally!
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I ♥️ bad dramas
September 16, 2024 at 7:45 PM
Yes!
Ahjummaaa
September 17, 2024 at 9:06 PM
yes you're right their relationship was more exciting when they were butting heads and then it got boring after they teamed up. I totally remember feeling this way but didn't know why.
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23 hacja
September 15, 2024 at 10:42 AM
One tropey scene I've always liked but I haven't seen recently is the kitchen back hug, where the ML is cooking and FL comes up from behind to put her arms around him. I just like the romantic, domestic intimacy it conveys. But as I said, I haven't seen it in recent shows--maybe, a few times when the 2FL who is trying futilely to win the ML back does it, and the ML shakes it off. I need that trope to be used sincerely!
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Ahjummaaa
September 15, 2024 at 10:56 AM
They say that guys like to be back hugged too haha
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hacja
September 15, 2024 at 11:06 AM
Probably! But I also like to be front hugged as well.
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Mr Everything
September 15, 2024 at 2:04 PM
only if they hug me like Chae-Gyong in Princess Hours.
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Elinor, Team Glasses team co-captain
September 15, 2024 at 11:30 AM
I always worry they’re going to make the huggee burn themselves.
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hacja
September 15, 2024 at 11:37 AM
Except that in the kitchen my real fear is for the front hug, resulting in the hugger being accidently stabbed with a knife.
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Margo of the Resilient Lip Gloss
September 15, 2024 at 12:42 PM
And this is where the insistence on promptly disinfecting and bandaging wounds is really helpful.
Although, I would like to see the PPL, er... PSA for first aid expand beyond cuts, scrapes and indigestion.
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tabong
September 15, 2024 at 12:59 PM
I can only remember the guy doing the back hugging. And for some reason I only remember Lee Jong Suk dramas. 😅
He always have cute kitchen scenes with his costars: Pinocchio, W...
Wait! in Oh My Ghostess the FL kept hugging him! And they're chefs! The hugs weren't all that innocent tho. 😂
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Ahjummaaa
September 16, 2024 at 7:51 PM
this makes me want to rewatch Oh My Ghostess haha
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empressgirl
September 17, 2024 at 9:02 PM
My Love from the Star is full of back hugs - BUT vacuum cleaning back hugs, not kitchen sorry!
This is such a fetish for the FL she even sneakily wrote it into her script and made our alien Manager Doo role-play it with her on pretext of a script read
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24 Ahjummaaa
September 15, 2024 at 10:42 AM
For fans of the "forbidden love" genre, I can recommend two Qiong Yao classics (Taiwanese dramas from its golden age) called "Wan Jun" and "Gui Zhang Fu" (Ghost Husband) they should all be subbed and available on Youtube by now. So well done and lovely. "Wan Jun" is about three brothers all falling in love with the FL who was a child bride betrothed to the eldest son and the fallout. And "Gui Zhang Fu" is about a couple falling in love despite the grievances between their families over a serious incident that took place when they were toddlers. It's so beautifully written and acted. And the songs are classics. Qiong Yao excels at writing complicated emotions and difficult family situations. As for me, I also like the "finding lost love as an adult or middle age and getting a second chance" trope.
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Ahjummaaa
September 15, 2024 at 10:49 AM
I also like the non-romantic trope where the leads work together developing trust and understanding facing difficulties together. And then at the end you might not even get a kiss, maybe just a hug or a promise to meet up again. It's full of romantic tension throughout. I love that stuff! Examples: Dark Hole, 365: Repeat the Year, Fiery Priest. Please recommend dramas where the leads have a lot of chemistry but never hook up on screen :D
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Ahjummaaa
September 15, 2024 at 10:50 AM
and Bulgasal too
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darwi
September 15, 2024 at 1:32 PM
>dramas where the leads have a lot of chemistry but never hook up on screen
The devil judge... or Forest of secret.
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Ahjummaaa
September 16, 2024 at 7:21 PM
yes definiteky Forest of Secret belongs too! I watched the first episode of Devil Judge and have been meaning to give it another try!
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empressgirl
September 16, 2024 at 7:30 PM
Devil Judge has so much homoerotic undertones, so constipated and I am surprised no one has ever mentioned it. and I am not even sure if it was intended but it added layers and nuances to a very emotionally powerful story
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