[Drama Chat] Who’s your favorite heroine?
by missvictrix
It might be impossible to choose just one, but I thought it would be fun to pick and share favorite characters — and we’re starting off with your favorite K-drama heroine. Do you have one who comes to mind? Are there too many to choose from? And does your favorite heroine mean the one you relate to the most, admire the most, or just find damn compelling? (Answer at will; there are no wrong answers here.)
I’ll go first: Yes. There are too many favorites for me to choose from, but the scrappy-I-will-survive Candy archetype? Don’t hate me, but I really love it. Early in my drama-watching days, this character type was new to me, and I loved the idea of heroines who just keep the heck going no matter what comes at them — ranging from the rooftop apartment setbacks, to humiliation at school, to utter tragedy in their families.
I still love those heroines, too, but the more nuanced and compelling character tend to be the ones who stick. For instance, I think both sisters in My Liberation Notes are at the top of my list for compelling and interesting heroines. And if I have to pick a heroine who is most relatable? It’s probably Yumi from Yumi’s Cells.
Who’s your favorite K-drama heroine?
Let the chatting begin!
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1 Seon-ha
August 18, 2024 at 5:26 AM
Samantha and Rachel in Business Proposal.
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hacja
August 18, 2024 at 8:13 AM
As an aside, Kim Se-jeong showed herself to be such a great comic actress in that show that I really hope that Drunken Romance gives her a chance to showcase more than Samantha and Rachel.
Also, I loved her job as that character, researcher in the Food Development department. I've actually made one of the dishes she "created," white kimchi ravioli, several times. Its a great fusion dish!
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OldLawyer
August 18, 2024 at 11:40 PM
I loved her too. She is a natural at comedy- and that is very high praise because comedy is the most difficult.
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AmnesiaYawns
August 19, 2024 at 2:15 AM
Ooh, I've searched for a recipe for white kimchi ravioli and finally made something up after I could source white kimchi over here (not easy to find) … it wasn't good. Would you share your recipe? What did you do for sauce?
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hacja
August 19, 2024 at 7:34 AM
You've made a mistake asking--as an enthusiastic (not very good) amateur cook, I'll bore you to tears with food talk! BUT since you asked.....
1. I just used a very basic white kimchi recipe, something like this one:
https://mykoreankitchen.com/baek-kimchi-non-spicy-white-kimchi/
2. For the kimchi, I was able to find jujubes in the H-mart, but processed them with chestnuts, the boiled, pre-shelled kind in a foil package, rather than pine nuts
I then mixed the (finely chopped) white kimchi with the chestnut/date paste to make the ravioli filling.
3. Instead of a cream based or traditional tomato based sauce, I used a romanesco sauce, mixed with a little gochujang to complete the "fusion" elements of the dish.
Since ravioli traditionally can have chestnut based filling or a cabbage based filling, its not that great a leap. I assume that Korean restaurants or Korean cooks were making it well before Business Proposal, but I haven't been able to find a history of the recipe.
Anyway, sorry to go so far off topic!
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AmnesiaYawns
August 19, 2024 at 1:57 PM
Thank you for the recipe and for going off topic :)
AmnesiaYawns
August 19, 2024 at 2:16 AM
I laughed so loud I actually woke the dogs.
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2 Snow Flower
August 18, 2024 at 5:44 AM
The FLs of The Princess' Man and Bossam
2FL of Chuno
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Gikata
August 18, 2024 at 6:03 AM
+1 for Lee Seryung, most badass non-combat sageuk FL ever. Why do people think the drama is called that way? Because she is the real boss there, not her angsty hot mess with fabulous hair Romeo)))
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kiara
August 18, 2024 at 8:03 AM
Pretty much. I miss the two Moons (Chae-won and Geun-young).
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Gikata
August 19, 2024 at 3:38 AM
At least MCW is still filming, if rarely and mostly in dramas that don't interest me. While MGY hadn't have one in years, I believe.
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kiara
August 19, 2024 at 9:07 AM
"Flower of Evil" was my last drama with MCW. I'm still waiting for a reunion sageuk with Lee Jun-ki. Comeon MBC.
MGY had health issues, so it'll be hard for her to come back. Her performance in "Painter of the Winds" alone made a fan out of me for life.
Gikata
August 19, 2024 at 8:38 PM
@kiara that sageuk should've happen like 10+ years ago already! Now the chances are obviously slim...
oneearedgirl
August 22, 2024 at 5:08 AM
I miss the two Moons. In a drama. Together. *sighs*
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Snow Flower
August 19, 2024 at 5:03 AM
I wish Kim Nam Gil had been the ML in The Princess' Man...
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Gikata
August 19, 2024 at 5:52 AM
Wasn't he too busy constantly dying in awful makjangs at the time?
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kiara
August 19, 2024 at 9:09 AM
He was the Korean Sean Bean since QSD.
Snow Flower
August 19, 2024 at 9:17 AM
He was in the army at the time. He did break the curse with Live Up To Your Name.
Gikata
August 19, 2024 at 8:31 PM
@snowflower ah, it was then!
Let's not talk about what pains it took him in that drama to finally get HE)))
Isa is always time travelling
August 18, 2024 at 8:03 AM
I really liked the FL in Bossam. She could be one of my heroines too.
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kiara
August 19, 2024 at 9:13 AM
Yuri was lovely! She did well on her first sageuk.
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parkchuna adores YoungWon couples Forever 🍉
August 18, 2024 at 8:48 AM
Ooohhh an oldie but goldie! I loved both FLs in Princess Man too.
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Snow Flower
August 18, 2024 at 9:49 AM
2FL in The Princess' Man is great too. The romance of the secondary couple is one of my favorites.
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jillian
August 19, 2024 at 12:36 AM
I love Yuri's Princess in Bossam too. I forgot to include her.
Great list!
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3 Kurama
August 18, 2024 at 5:48 AM
Danoh in Extraordinary You> She decided to change what the writer had planned for her aka her death and she fought for her own destiny. And her energy was contagious!
Bong-Hee in Suspcious Partner> She was a normal young woman, not a genius, not a candy who suffers but always smiles, etc. She tried to be independant but her situation made things difficult so accepted a little bit of help.
Lee Hwi in the King's Affection> She had to learn to survive in the Palace but finally she can learn to be herself and to be a King!
Oh Hae-young in Another Miss Oh> She was completely chaotic but she has good reasons. I loved her energy and her fragility at the same time.
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23new2kdrama 🌱❤️🪦RIP FAN WALL❤️
August 18, 2024 at 9:51 AM
Agree with you on Lee Hwi! One of the strongest women characters I have seen, not because she is pretending to be male but because of how her heart develops towards her people and those around her.
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tabong says what the fat
August 18, 2024 at 11:47 AM
Oh Hae Young! Yes!
"I loved her energy and her fragility at the same time." Perfectly said!
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Kurama
August 18, 2024 at 12:09 PM
Seo Hyun-jin was perfect in this role!
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tabong says what the fat
August 18, 2024 at 1:13 PM
She was! I think Hyun Jin is great with that kind of roles. I also loved her in You Are My Spring. Another great FL.
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Sunnyboo ☀️🥰
August 18, 2024 at 6:28 PM
Yes! What you said about Oh hae-young is so spot on.
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4 jerrykuvira
August 18, 2024 at 6:17 AM
It doesn't have to be the protagonist heroine right...?
Mishil : Queen Seondeok
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5 Linarrick
August 18, 2024 at 6:41 AM
Easy Song Ji-won played by the wonderful Park Eun-bin in AGE OF YOUTH S1&2. I don’t think there’s been a character I’ve crushed on this much!
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6 Gikata
August 18, 2024 at 6:52 AM
- FL of QUEEN INHYUN'S MAN. I know many Beanies wanted something entirely else from her character and story arc, but why? She was perfect for that story and that ML. Btw, I also cannot freaking stand LIVE UP TO YOUR NAME's FL whom likely the very same people consider a "fixed" version of her... Nope, just nope. Ugh.
Lashing out on a man for accidentally triggering your trauma by DYING in front of you is a peak entitled brain-dead moronicy I firmly believe no budding romance could ever recover from.- FL of IOTNBO. No, I'm not an edgy kid worshiping her as some dark feminist icon to look up to, ewww))) It was just wonderful for once to have a FL that combined epic unapologetic bitchiness, witch-from-a-dark-fairytale stylishness and blatant chaotic horniness, all that without looking like a caricature. Yes, I know she was a REAL menace, deeply twisted bio-hazard on designer heels and almost certainly danger to society. Those were her best traits, your honor!
- FL of MR QUEEN. I think everyone agrees that our boy Bonghwan made a fabulous woman after all... too bad drama retconned her back into boring ass peacock of a dude (but this time depressed instead of overly cocky).
Honorable mentions: Arang of AATM (before her noble idiocy arc), Saebom of HAPPINESS, damn-I-forgot-her-name FL of TUNNEL (the crime psychologist lady - such an amazing weirdo, this one!), ML's daughter in TWO WEEKS (she was the true FL there, I will kill on this hill).
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technicat
August 18, 2024 at 9:18 AM
Argh, I meant to mention Queen In-hyun's man and forgot, I agree the character's perfect for the story, and I remember when I first saw the show I was happy Yoo In-na got a shot at a leading role and nailed it. She did the same in Touch Your Heart (although the show wasn't as good).
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Gikata
August 18, 2024 at 9:30 PM
I'm afraid I never got the same wow impression from any other of her roles (heard she's also great in GOBLIN but you've got to pay me millions to suffer through that lol), which is shame because I really loved her in QIHM. Same problem with JHW, btw, but he's more consistently good actor, I'd say...
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tabong says what the fat
August 18, 2024 at 11:55 AM
So I wasn't the only person that couldn't stand the FL in LUTYN? She's the reason I never finished the show.
IOTNBO: "Those were her best traits, your honor" indeed. I loved her too. Even with all that, I feel like she wasn't worse than the regular obsessive/stalker ML/SML's in kdramaland.
Mr Queen: #BongHwanBestGirl
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Gikata
August 18, 2024 at 10:17 PM
I finished it solely because of KNG (and it's arguably my fave performance of his, even above Father Hottie), but damn, did her character made it HARD for me! I felt like drama's narrative was unfairly very biased towards excusing whatever mistakes she said and did all while admonishing and mocking the hell out of ML when he was in the wrong even slightly (or not at all, but someone had to take the blame). That wasn't funny to me. Nor very romantic, despite actors having great chemistry - poor bb Heo Im could've done so much better.
IOTNBO FL wins big time by owning up to all her shortcomings instead of trying to present herself as a faultless angel. The object of her stalkering was simultaneously rightfully annoyed, horrified AND turned on, and drama did not sugarcoat any of that, bless!
#BongHwanBestGirl! Isn't it amazing how lack of a challenge in life can affect personal growth?
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tabong says what the fat
August 19, 2024 at 12:22 AM
Now that season 2 is coming we must call it "Father Hottie 2" LMAO. Thanks for the laughs!
And yes! It wasn't funny the way she treated him. One of the reason why I think "enemies to lovers" is a trope that needs to be carefully developed is because I don't see anything romantic in two people treating each other like trash.
Friendly/harmeless bickering it's okay. But this was just one person (FL) draining the life out of the other (ML) for no reason. I don't even know what kind of trope is that... early 10's ML syndrome? aka. rude much?
IOTNBO: "FL wins big time by owning up to all her shortcomings instead of trying to present herself as a faultless angel".
Heck yeah. Say it louder for all the annoying SLs in the back, please.
#BongHwanBestGirl! It is!
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Gikata
August 19, 2024 at 1:01 AM
I truly hope S2 at least won't tarnish my love for those characters, because expecting something as good or better after so much time seems pretty unrealistic. Stark downgrade in quality of writing in VINCENZO made me really nervous, and I initially anticipated sequel a lot(((
I guess someone must be an unreasonable jerk in k-romcom OTP to keep plot going, but softie Im was not up for the taskIt's always a thin line between amusing bickering and outright maliciousness. I wonder if this trope simply works better in settings were leads are REAL enemies with super high stakes and not just, idk, petty corporate rivals? Then again, it probably makes eventual romance even less convincing... All in all, it boils down to the writing - chemistry is also important, but as this drama proved, it cannot do all the heavy lifting.Most of SLs are snakes by default, that's why I rarely bother with them altogether. The best ones at least have something else to scheme for other than constantly raining on OTP's parade, but those are quite rare, sadly.
tabong says what the fat
August 19, 2024 at 2:57 PM
Vincenzo, right... Another show I couldn't finish.
But even if the script isn't as tight as S1, at least we can trust in the cast and their chemistry.
Talking about "enemies" I think Father Hottie did a good job potraying this rivalry well. They didn't become lovers, but I wouldn't have mind it because their relationship had a good development.
Like you said, it didn't begin with outright maliciousness. It wasn't really personal.
"Most of SLs are snakes by default" yep. The best ones have their own business to worry about.
darwi
August 18, 2024 at 12:58 PM
True that unapologetic FL was very appreciable is It's ok to not be ok. She makes up for all the fearfull candies.
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7 Soyesterday
August 18, 2024 at 7:48 AM
While not an exhaustive list, some of my favourites are:
Jung Geum-ja - Hyena.
Cheon Song-yi - My Love From the star
Kim Bok Joo - Weightlifing Fairy Bok-joo
Kim Mi-Soo - Whats wrong with Secretary Kim
Cha Hyeon - Search WWW
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8 panshel
August 18, 2024 at 7:55 AM
Cheon Song-yi (Jun Ji-hyun) from You Who Came from the Stars
Go Ae-shin (Kim Tae-ri) from Mr. Sunshine
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9 Isa is always time travelling
August 18, 2024 at 7:58 AM
The FL I relate the most, to the point of seeing myself reflected in her, is Go Dok Mi (Park Shin Hye in Flower Boy Next Door). Introverted, homebody... but willing to go out when she thinks somebody (a dog, in her case) needs help or is in danger. She even works from home as a copy editor, which is something I studied too.
But my favorite heroines sometimes are quite different from me.
Like the brave, determined and clear minded Seung Wan (Lee Joo Myung) in 25-21, or the funny, bad-mouthed Sam Soon (Kim Sun Ah) or Go Se Ra (Nana) in Into the ring.
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Isa is always time travelling
August 18, 2024 at 10:40 AM
These days I'm watching Kairos for the first time (5 episodes so far) and I really like the FL (played by Lee Se Young). She has several good qualities and is a normal, very real person having to go through an unbelievable situation and dangerous challenges.
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Ahjummaaa
August 18, 2024 at 3:10 PM
"But my favorite heroines sometimes are quite different from me." well said. It's nice to see ourselves in characters and it's also nice to be inspired by characters we'd maybe like to be more of. Excited to see Flower Boys and Kim Sam Soon mentioned, both characters are memorable.
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Sunnyboo ☀️🥰
August 18, 2024 at 6:32 PM
I adored Nana's character in Into the ring. Just perfection. Right amount of sass, weirdness, courage and uniqueness.
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Isa is always time travelling
August 19, 2024 at 12:09 AM
She is adorable for all you have said.
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10 john
August 18, 2024 at 8:42 AM
Mi Shil - Queen Seondeok Go Hyun Jung
Princess Deok Man - Queen Seondeok Nam Ji Hyun
Yoo Na -Yoona’s Street Kim Ok Bin
Seo Bom- Heard It Through the GrapevineGo Ah Sung
Yu Gwan Sun - A Resistance Go Ah Sung A film, but I included it anyways.
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Isa is always time travelling
August 18, 2024 at 9:09 AM
Unforgettable Mi Shil and Deok Man.
It's not easy to find such well-written characters.
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11 parkchuna adores YoungWon couples Forever 🍉
August 18, 2024 at 8:52 AM
The one that popped in my mind for now -
Into the Ring’s Gu Sera
25-21 Na Hee Do
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12 technicat
August 18, 2024 at 9:11 AM
Excellent thread, too many great heroines to choose from which is a credit to kdrama! Yoon Eun-hye in Coffee Prince really defined the kdrama heroine for me for a while. I can't even pick just one for Kim Sun-a, I have to list her characters in My Lovely Sam-soon, City Hall, and Scent of a Lady. Go Hyun-jung has been rightly mentioned for her Queen Mishil, but I'm going to cite her in The Queen's Classroom just for that speech at the end. Kim Ji-won in Fight My Way personifies the show's title (also, best bad aegyo). Jung So-min in Because This Life Is My First. Seo Hyun-jin in Another Oh Hae-young. Park Min-Young played fun heroines in City Hunter and Healer, but my favorite is her character in Her Private Life. I have to mention two for Lee Bo-Young, God's Gift: 14 Days and Mother. One more and I'll stop, Bae Doona in Forest of Secrets.
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Midnight
August 18, 2024 at 10:29 AM
Scent of a Woman Kim Sun Ah is one of my favorites too.
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tabong says what the fat
August 18, 2024 at 12:00 PM
Eun Chan (Coffee Prince) was such a loveable mess. I love her.
Hae Ra (Fight For My Way) is also one of my favorite FLs.
Our FL in Secret Forest 👌
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Ahjummaaa
August 18, 2024 at 3:14 PM
Eun Chan is the ultimate "scrappy-I-will-survive Candy archetype"
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13 Lord Cobol (Kdramas, like water, flow downhill)
August 18, 2024 at 9:20 AM
To me, "heroine" is different than "female lead". The former requires being actually heroic. So the abovementioned Samantha & Rachel don't really qualify no matter how much I liked them.
And "favorite heroine" in different than "favorite show".
That leaves me with Park Bo-young / Do Bong-soon from the first Strong Woman.
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Seon-ha
August 18, 2024 at 10:01 AM
Uh, I think our ladies almost literally, if not entirely figuratively, saved the day.
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14 roko
August 18, 2024 at 9:48 AM
Bae Doona - Stranger season 1
Go Eun-Chan - Coffee Prince
Kim Sam-Soon - My Name is Kim Sam Soon
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Ahjummaaa
August 18, 2024 at 3:15 PM
Classics! They defined the genre in the best way possible. They really set the standard.
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Leola
August 20, 2024 at 9:36 PM
I loved Bae Doona in Stranger 1 & 2. Capable but warm and very intelligent.
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Ahjummaaa
August 22, 2024 at 9:01 AM
I think she is a big reason why I enjoyed Stranger so much more than the usual drama. Her acting elevated the drama.
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15 23new2kdrama 🌱❤️🪦RIP FAN WALL❤️
August 18, 2024 at 9:55 AM
Attorney Woo would definitely be considered heroic. The cases she solves, the doors she opens up to people who may be different, and the obstacles she herself must overcome
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16 AlwaysMerry
August 18, 2024 at 10:04 AM
Haven’t seen much of this kind of character, but i like the 2FL of Imitation, La Mi Ra (?) played by Park Ji Yeon. Territorial at first, but knows when she’s defeated and can be helpful to others. Would like to see her in more shows, but haven’t found any yet.
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17 Unaspirated
August 18, 2024 at 10:09 AM
This is a super interesting question and I didn’t have a clear answer of what kind of heroine I find the most compelling. So I went through my drama list and picked out the ones that I’ll never forget and then tried to think of things they had in common. I think they mostly fall into two categories for me:
1. Heroines who are overcoming impossible odds/tragedy and are still putting one foot in front of the other. (This is kind of a more interesting take on the Candy for me.) It’s not that they maintain sunny optimism all the time, but they are going to continue fighting for survival/loved ones/their country until they absolutely can’t anymore. There is something admirable and compelling about that to me, and it understandably happens in sageuks a lot. Examples are Ae-shin from Mr. Sunshine, Dam-i from The King’s Affection, Jae-i from Our Blooming Youth, and Jun-hee from A Time Called You.
2. Heroines who are a bit bitter and savage. (Let’s not think too hard about what it says about me that these are my favorites. 😅) I love their dark backstories, their scathing remarks, their relentlessness, all of it masking deep pain/heartbreak/trauma. Maybe they are a little ambiguous, maybe they aren’t quite likable at first, but in the end I’m always rewarded for sticking with them, and these characters are the ones I feel most loyal to. Examples are Se-ri from Crash Landing on You, Man-wol from Hotel del Luna, Ji-an from My Ajusshi, Cho Yeong/Naksu from Alchemy of Souls, Yeon-soo from Our Beloved Summer, and Woo-joo from Call it Love.
Special shoutouts: Soon-deok from The Matchmakers, who doesn’t really fit into these categories but I loved her anyway. Yeon-soo from Our Beloved Summer and Ha-neul from Doctor Slump who were two heroines that I found uncomfortably relatable.
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john
August 18, 2024 at 10:48 AM
I guess I like bad girls 🤔
Mi Shil (rebel) , Yoo Na (pickpocket) , Seo Bom (unwed mom) ,
Yu Gwan Sun (Political prisoner)
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Goyangi and the Camel Crickets
August 19, 2024 at 11:31 PM
I like your picks, and explanation of why you chose them.
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🌸 Seeker 🌸
August 24, 2024 at 10:29 AM
Great list!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Amazingly enough I agree with ALL of them. 😱😂
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18 darwi
August 18, 2024 at 10:18 AM
Quite difficult, but I managed to reduce the list to 5:
- the heroine I'm most fond : Chae Yeong Shin (Park Min Young) in Healer
- the heroine I relate the most : Oh Hae Young (Seo Hyun Jin) in Another Miss Oh
- the heroine that amuse me the most: Mu Deok (Jung So Min) in Alchemy of souls
- the heroine I admire the most: Yoon Sae Bom (Han Hyo Joo) in Happiness
- the heroines I would like to be : Bae Ta Mi (Lim Soo Jung) and Cha Hyun (Lee Da Hee) in Search WWW.
They almost made the cut : Cha Ji Ahn (Jang Na Ra) in Hello Monster, Kang Shi Young (Lee Se Young) in Doctor John, Joo Ki Beum (Song Ha Yoon) in Devilish's Joy, Do Hyun Jin (Nana) in Kill it.
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Diana Hansen
August 18, 2024 at 11:20 AM
Good list! I like your reasoning.
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Ahjummaaa
August 18, 2024 at 3:28 PM
Sometimes I find myself relating to the kind saintly plucky without a mean bone Fl's adversary instead ^^ Dramas can be enlightening in that way haha!
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Sunnyboo ☀️🥰
August 18, 2024 at 6:35 PM
I love how you thought of this.
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jillian
August 19, 2024 at 12:34 AM
I love Mu Deok in AoS1 the main reason I finished that show.
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Leola
August 20, 2024 at 9:38 PM
Mu Deok was a fabulous heroine. Jung So Min was so good in this role that I just couldn´t accept the new one in the 2nd part.
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19 wonhwa
August 18, 2024 at 10:37 AM
Han Yeo Jin in Stranger is the first one who comes to mind. She's smart and hyper-competent at her job, but she's also warm, funny and realistically vulnerable. I also appreciate how she's always a leader and partner in both seasons, not just a love interest.
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Ahjummaaa
August 18, 2024 at 3:30 PM
yes the way she tries to connect with and understand her partner is very inspiring.
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20 Diana Hansen
August 18, 2024 at 11:18 AM
An oldie but goodie- Dae Jang-geum comes to mind first. I love saeguks and she was the best at her game in a time that was not favorable to women.
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21 tabong says what the fat
August 18, 2024 at 11:40 AM
Ki Jeong ! I'm probably the only person that had Ki Jeong as their favorite sibling, but I just loved that she was raw and imperfect but not villiainized in a way rarely seen in kdramaland before.
I don't like how kdramas try so hard to make FLs "good" and "perfect" or "special". And I love my badass girls too, but I also dislike how we've come to the conclusion that you're only cool if you can kick ass or if you wear suit pants or something.
If we can love jerk MLs, why not give FLs a break and let them be imperfect too?
I love girl crushes like Hee Do from 25-21 or Sae Beom from Happiness, but I feel like they make the standards too unrealistic for many struggling, chaotic, and just regular girls out there.
I love that Yu Mi from Yu Mi's Cells was a little messy and insecure but also a dreamer. And I liked that Yeon Joo from W was chaotic and couldn't fight but she was the one saving Kang Cheol all the time. I also love how Ji Ho from Because This Is My First Life just wanted to have a freaking house and peace of mind. Relatable queen. And I adore how Ki Jeong from My Liberating Notes just wanted to be loved. She had a haraboji's temper and no filter but she deserved to be loved like anyone else.
And, at the moment, I admire how Mi Rae from Romance in the House wants to give her mom a good life.
I like how she barely smiles but that doesn't mean she's rude or mean. And she isn't planning on healing or babysitting the ML, instead she just relates to him. And she doesn't need to talk about her past trauma 24/7 or give a speech about how much her mom did for her, but it's obvious that her mom sacrificed a lot to raise her and she wants to repay that.
She's the coolest FL at the moment in my book. She isn't saving the world, fighting bad guys, or becoming a big icon for the nation, but she's doing her best. I like that about her.
In conclusion, my favorite kdrama heroine is... All of them? But especially my relatable queens! 😂😆
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Ahjummaaa
August 18, 2024 at 3:32 PM
haha I'm drawn to the do-gooder heroine because it's precisely everything I'm not!
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tabong says what the fat
August 18, 2024 at 7:48 PM
That happens to me with all the girl-boss type of heroines!
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Sunnyboo ☀️🥰
August 18, 2024 at 6:44 PM
Gaah! Love everything you said ❤️ I'm here for all the queens too, especially those who just dare to be themselves.
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tabong says what the fat
August 18, 2024 at 7:49 PM
Exactly! ^^
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22 kellie
August 18, 2024 at 11:57 AM
Choi Seo-yoon (Lee Yo-won) in Empire of Gold. The university lit professor who wants to be free of the family power struggle and write a series of novels, but is tapped by her father to take over the family business because she's the only family member he can trust. She's deeply humane but learns to be a ruthless player in the family chess game. A great character written by Park Kyung-soo.
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23 Britney
August 18, 2024 at 1:36 PM
Kim Yu Ri of The Law Cafe. I love the way she stood up for herself and others. I liked how compassionate she was and how that was her driving force. Her sex contract still makes me chuckle when I think about it. (When I first saw that scene, I thought the guy (Jung Ho? I don't remember his name) was apologizing for being bad in bed haha)
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Sunnyboo ☀️🥰
August 18, 2024 at 6:45 PM
I'm watching law cafe at the moment and am finding her so delightful!
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24 Minnie🫘👩🏻🚀Pioneer and Teacher 👩🏻🏫🌱🏹
August 18, 2024 at 3:43 PM
Lee Hwi: M/b> (Park Eun Bin) The King's Affection hands down. She took down the baddie all by herself.
Min Jay Yi: (Jeon So Nee) Our Blooming Youth : Can I be your head eunuch? Indomitable.
Woo Young Woo: (Park Eun Bin again) Attorney Woo . Sublime, trailblazing.
Sae Bom: (Han Yoo Joo) Happiness. No one kicks ass better than her.
Gil-Chae: (Ahn Eun Jin) My Dearest ; No one broke rules like she did. Unapologetic survivor. That take it or leave it attitude cemented her as one of the best FLs I have ever seen.
Honourable mention: Kim So-yong (Shin Hye Sun) Mr Queen Only when she had Jang Bong Hwan's soul causing mayhem.
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Siona ⭐️ (@DramaticFoodie)
August 18, 2024 at 4:46 PM
Oh yes Bong Hwan's soul and his culinary expertise. I still cant forget MacDunaldu 🤣🤣
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Minnie🫘👩🏻🚀Pioneer and Teacher 👩🏻🏫🌱🏹
August 18, 2024 at 6:58 PM
🤣🤣🤣
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Kitsune Moon
August 19, 2024 at 8:08 AM
I especially love that banquet bc it's vegan LOL and so creative, with the drawings and philosophical explanations LOL
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Minnie🫘👩🏻🚀Pioneer and Teacher 👩🏻🏫🌱🏹
August 20, 2024 at 5:17 AM
Yes, so innovative. I often marvel at how detailed it all was in some of the areas, and how completely off the rail in others, but everything was so uproariously hilarious and well put together. Now if only they had found a way to leave Bong Hwan's soul in So-young, the ending would have been so young forever.
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Healer’s
August 18, 2024 at 7:42 PM
I was waiting for you to mention Jaeyi when I first saw the prompt :)
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Minnie🫘👩🏻🚀Pioneer and Teacher 👩🏻🏫🌱🏹
August 19, 2024 at 5:45 AM
You know me. That character ran away with my imagination 😂
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25 Ahjummaaa
August 18, 2024 at 3:56 PM
Another prompt that I can't resist. Man, Dramabeans writers really know how to stir up people's emotions ^^ To be honest, the kind to a fault heroine who carries everyone's burdens on their shoulders is the exact opposite of who I am in real life. In real life, I am probably more often like the adversary to said heroine - snarky, vindictive, etc ^^ But maybe that's why I'm drawn to these types of FL's, because they're who I want to be. In my friends circle, there is actually one that is almost completely this type, you know, like paying back parents' debt, losing their home, etc. Her life has been like a drama with ups and downs but the most amazing part is that there was actually a doting prince charming waiting for her at the end. She is living the happily ever after of dreams as I type. So I aspire to be more like her (even though I'd never admit it!) hoping that maybe trying to be a better person would help me land a dreamboat someday (ha) People like Eun Chan in Coffee Prince do exist in real life and guys really do fall in love with them. That's why I keep watching dramas with plucky kind heroines hoping some of that will rub off on me. As mentioned, the classic ones are Coffee Prince, Kim Sam Soon, Stranger, Attorney Woo, My Secret Terrius, Tunnel (forensic expert), Smile You, etc. I'd like to mention some that are less known but deserve to be appreciated in the same vein: Gangnam Scandal, The Promise, Want a Taste, Queen of Housewives, Wok of Love, Bulgasal. The FL's in Queen of Housewives and Smile You represents the type of heroine with more feisty and snarky sides but still incredibly lovable. In this way, they are the most realistic.
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Ahjummaaa
August 18, 2024 at 4:01 PM
And the queen of pluck goes to actress Kim Nam Joo in her bespoke role in My Husband Got a Family. She's no saint but you see why and understand where she's coming from. She's no saint but she still does her best to get along and live with the curveballs and stressful people in her life.
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tabong says what the fat
August 18, 2024 at 7:57 PM
The FL from My Husband Got a Family is a legend. I loved her so much!
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Minnie🫘👩🏻🚀Pioneer and Teacher 👩🏻🏫🌱🏹
August 18, 2024 at 4:26 PM
❤️
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technicat
August 18, 2024 at 5:37 PM
Oh, I thought of Smile You then forgot while I was listing a dozen others! Great personal growth story.
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