[Drama Chat] The ONE drama you’d tell a newbie to steer clear of
by missvictrix
Since recommending a drama to a K-drama newbie was so much fun, what would you do in the opposite case? Say you know a friend who’s starting to dabble in dramas, but you know if they see {insert your title of choice here} they will never come back. Would it be a certain Netflix smash hit involving squids and games? Would it be one of dramaland’s schmaltzier flavors that you think represents the medium poorly? Present your red flag drama below.
What’s that ONE DRAMA you would tell a dramaland newbie to steer clear of and why?
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1 Mb_Banga_
March 10, 2024 at 5:06 AM
Anything popular
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2 🌸 Seeker 🌸
March 10, 2024 at 5:27 AM
I love you Hyun Bin ♥️😊 but I don't think I would recommend any of his dramas except maybe perhaps CLOY to a newbie.
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Healer’s
March 10, 2024 at 5:53 AM
ikr. As a "veteran" viewer, I haven't watched any show of HB except CLOY. I think I love him for his good look rather than his acting ability. But HB's movies are watchable.
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🌸 Seeker 🌸
March 10, 2024 at 6:02 AM
Hehe ... I have watched almost all his dramas, even Alhambra, but I can't recommend them. 😅 True his movies are much more watchable and easily recommended also. 👌
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Healer’s
March 10, 2024 at 6:06 AM
After CLOY, I tried Secret Garden and dropped after several episodes. Same with Alhambra. And I stopped there.
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🌸 Seeker 🌸
March 10, 2024 at 6:13 AM
Secret Garden and Coffee Prince are the classic K-dramas which cannot be recommended. I love the FLs and ❤ the MLs in both these dramas ... but 🤷♀️ what to say.
🌸 Seeker 🌸
March 10, 2024 at 6:15 AM
I mean I would happily recommend Goblin (to a person who understands fairy tales) or even K2 to a JCW blinded newbie but not Secret Garden or Coffee Prince.
Celebith
March 10, 2024 at 8:24 PM
Does SG not hold up? Everyone in it is great! Almost all of Ha JiWon's early stuff is classic.
🌸 Seeker 🌸
March 10, 2024 at 11:03 PM
@celebith you're absolutely right! Ha Ji-won is the reason to recommend Secret Garden. Even my mother had an unprecedented case of SLS for Oska!! It is the ML's character (not Hyun Bin's acting) which can be disorienting for a K-drama newbie.
Ahjummaaa
March 11, 2024 at 10:31 AM
I liked him most in My Name is Kim Sam Soon, Worlds Within, and Memories of the Alhambra. The other dramas such as Secret Garden, Hyde Jekyll, and CLOY I couldn't finish.
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🌸 Seeker 🌸
March 11, 2024 at 11:42 AM
My Name is Kim Sam Soon is a treasure indeed.
You're so right, Spain is unbelievably beautiful.
Hyun Bin's cheesy aegyo is also not corny but cool!! ♥️😍
Midnight
March 10, 2024 at 8:15 AM
MoA was a fascinating watch for me. But I know it's not for everyone.
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🌸 Seeker 🌸
March 10, 2024 at 9:40 AM
Oh! I watched it all the way through. 😊 I'm just saying I won't recommend it to a newbie. For example I would recommend King the Land over Just Between Lovers even though the latter is my preferred drama.
Your point is totally valid about MoA being a fascinating drama. 🥰
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Ahjummaaa
March 11, 2024 at 10:34 AM
It was so unique and I found it thrilling. His acting was really good too.
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Babylilo
March 11, 2024 at 3:36 PM
From what I've seen, he is the only actor that has done a kissing scene with Park Shin-Hye where she looks even remotely like she's enjoying it. Now that's talent.
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🌸 Seeker 🌸
March 11, 2024 at 8:33 PM
💯♥️😂
Ahjummaaa
March 11, 2024 at 10:16 AM
omg you have to give My Name Is Kim Sam Soon a try~~~
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Isa is always time travelling
March 10, 2024 at 8:10 AM
In my case, Memories of Alhambra worked quite well as a newbie, but the Spanish setting was an extra point of interest to me.
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Ahjummaaa
March 11, 2024 at 10:19 AM
the Spanish setting added to the magical aura a lot. I usually don't like foreign settings (too corny) but I like this one.
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Isa is always time travelling
March 11, 2024 at 11:08 AM
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Isa is always time travelling
March 11, 2024 at 11:11 AM
It was interesting because I'm from Spain. It was quite noticeable to me that some scenes weren't really shot in Granada (there were scenes in other Spanish cities, like Barcelona or Gerona, and even in other European countries), but it was funny to watch those Koreans doing crazy things in Granada.
In fact, next month I'm going to visit Granada and I'm sure I'll be thinking of MoA all the time.
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Ahjummaaa
March 11, 2024 at 11:26 AM
Spain is unbelievably beautiful and has a very cinematic quality. Which area are you from? I've had the chance to travel around there during Easter many years ago when I was a young nanny. I hope I can bring my family to Spain one day so they can see how gorgeous it is. I miss queso de burgos so much! You can't really find it outside Spain...
Ahjummaaa
March 11, 2024 at 11:32 AM
Usually I roll my eyes at actors in Korean dramas doing crazy things in overseas location and acting all cool (lol) but if it's Hyun Bin doing crazy things in Spain, it's OK ^^ I don't know why but he's not as corny as some other actors and he makes it believable.
🌸 Seeker 🌸
March 11, 2024 at 11:37 AM
Isa hope you enjoy Granada. Post some MoA filming location pictures if possible.
Isa is always time travelling
March 11, 2024 at 1:47 PM
@ahjummaaa
I'm from the SE of Spain. I live in a Mediterranean coastal city :)
You know what? The "queso de Burgos" (Burgos cheese) pairs really well with kimchi.
🌸 Seeker 🌸
March 11, 2024 at 1:51 PM
Hehehe... after watching K-dramas anything pairs well with kimchi. 😍
Isa is always time travelling
March 11, 2024 at 1:53 PM
@seeker
You can count on it! 😉
🌸 Seeker 🌸
March 11, 2024 at 2:06 PM
After watching Jinny's Kitchen it was fun to pretend that my rameyon had been prepared by Park Seo-joon. 😍😂
Olive
March 10, 2024 at 11:23 PM
My Name Is Kim Sam Soon is a classic even if flawed.
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3 Seon-ha
March 10, 2024 at 5:28 AM
I’m not gonna play this game quite right, but my real, true, honest answer to this question is I do not think I would suggest that a newbie start with any sageuk.
I find that the tropes can distract from the history (if you are interested in history, but you don’t already know the tropes) and/or the history can distract from the tropes (if you’re not interested in history, but looking for a recognizable k-drama).
If I am trying to make a fan, I think it’s better to start with the tropes and move to the history than the other way around!
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john
March 10, 2024 at 5:36 AM
I would not recommend My Dearest to anyone, new or old. Ok, part A was passable, part B was a mess.
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john
March 10, 2024 at 5:39 AM
On the other hand, The Matchmakers is a gem and I would recommend it to a new viewer.
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Seon-ha
March 10, 2024 at 6:06 AM
Yes, while Matchmakers might be the only exception to my rule--as it is an exceptional drama no matter the genre--there remain a number of narrative themes and character motivations in that show that newbies might bounce right off of if they've never seen a single K-drama before. I'd definitely recommend it as one's first sageuk, but only after having watched, say, my suggested starter k-drama from the other week: King the Land 😆
Or you know what, you could do a Rowoon one-two with the first drama being DWY, or Extraordinary You or She Would Never Know, or whatever your fave Rowoon contemporary-day drama is, and then move to Matchmakers...
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OldLawyer
March 11, 2024 at 3:05 PM
KING THE LAND is an excellent "Starter" drama.
KAddicted
March 11, 2024 at 5:54 PM
I found Matchmakers hard going. Parts of it were OK, but I was glad when it was over. Sacrilege I know, but there it is. I only watched it because so many people raved over it, but I was glad when it ended.
🌸 Seeker 🌸
March 10, 2024 at 6:09 AM
Seon-ha's right but as John says The Matchmakers is a gem. But then a newbie may end up with very skewed expectations of what a sageuk entails. 😂
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john
March 10, 2024 at 6:40 AM
Skewed Expectations indeed, it could be harmful to any future sageuk watching !
Old school sageuk. Torches , have to have plenty of torch lit scenes. Scheming ministers, sneaky eunuchs, bloody battles.
New fusion sageuks, no torchlit scenes, overload of pastel colors, FL that has a side gig , no bloody battle scenes.
mmmmm
March 10, 2024 at 11:49 AM
Choooooonaaaaaaaaaaaa
They like to sing this song in the throne room, and I absolutely despise that because whenever they cry this word, there is going to be a tragedy around the corner.
Seon-ha
March 10, 2024 at 1:09 PM
@mmmmm
Jeooonnn-ha!!! Humor from Matchmakers itself: https://i.imgur.com/kcn1TV7.mp4
mmmmm
March 11, 2024 at 12:36 PM
Seems like a fun drama. @attiton Extremely self-aware and likes poking fun at itself.
Kodra aka Qanon something
March 10, 2024 at 6:34 AM
Was this a preemptive strike? 🤣 The article did not ask for one drama we would recommend.
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zindigo
March 10, 2024 at 9:30 AM
That was in this post 😉 https://www.dramabeans.com/2024/02/drama-chat-if-you-had-to-recommend-one-drama-to-a-newbie/
Babylilo
March 11, 2024 at 3:47 PM
For a first-timer who isn't used to Korean naming conventions, it can be difficult to keep track of who's who in a drama, especially if there are a lot of characters and/or characters with similar-sounding names. (I confess I still occasionally refer to Asian Wiki to keep characters straight in something I'm watching.) So I would steer clear of shows with lots of characters, as well as ones with complicated family or romantic interconnections. The Matchmakers falls into both of those categories, so I'd save it for later.
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HopefulRomantic 🦋 Tigermoth 🦞
March 10, 2024 at 6:44 AM
That's such a good point... sageuks are a hard starting point. Definitely not a more realistic sageuk, either - for a first sageuk, a fusion would likely be an easier entrance.
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Unaspirated
March 10, 2024 at 7:47 AM
I did a sageuk (definitely fusion!) as my second kdrama and I think it works okay, but I’m glad I watched a modern day drama first. With sageuk, there can be a lot of background/cultural stuff to know that isn’t always obvious and can be confusing. I know there were people who watched The Matchmakers and didn’t understand why the leads couldn’t get married, and you need to have a little background knowledge of widows/widowers in Joseon for that barrier to make sense. But if you give a friend a short intro in addition to a recommendation, I think it could work!
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Seon-ha
March 10, 2024 at 7:55 AM
Exactly!!
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HopefulRomantic 🦋 Tigermoth 🦞
March 10, 2024 at 8:16 AM
That's such a good point! I had watched Bossam before watching The Matchmakers, which made everything about the status of widows/widowers make sense (since Bossam is more realistic).
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Midnight
March 10, 2024 at 8:25 AM
Yes, Bossam is very much like the older sageuks in that it has the ep count and the more realistic setting to get into explaining things.
Midnight
March 10, 2024 at 8:23 AM
Old sageuks were so so thorough with those kind of informations. Even though Dae Jang Geum for example, was made in a time that its target audience were Koreans, every single cultural or historical nuance was explained in a way that I learned nearly half of what I know of Korean traditions and culture from that one drama. But newer sageuks have neither the episode count nor the audience patience to go that deep into explaining stuff.
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Babylilo
March 11, 2024 at 3:59 PM
My third-ever Kdrama was Empress Ki, which is long, sprawling, and based on actual historical figures I knew nothing about. I guess I got lucky, because I absolutely LOVED it. I was completely captivated by the spectacle, the costumes, the story, the strong female characters, Tal Tal and his ponytail, and my favorite Ji Chang-Wook performance after Healer. But I would hesitate to recommend it to a newbie.
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Kas61
March 17, 2024 at 5:02 PM
I loved Empress Ki for all those exact reasons. But I have to confess, I stopped at ep 40 and skipped to the last episode. That's because I was convinced that those last 10 episodes were going to depress the hell out of me. The Emperor's death scene was very moving, and I loved how they immediately replayed that beach scene from early in the series where they are both racing each other on horseback...
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wonhwa
March 10, 2024 at 7:42 AM
This is a hard question to answer because I think so much depends on the individual who's watching. I started with long sageuks, loved them, and only later began watching contemporary shows. If my intro to the genre had been something like Boys Over Flowers, I would have run screaming from the room and never returned to dramaland.
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Midnight
March 10, 2024 at 8:27 AM
Me too. BoF actually nearly did make me run from modern kdramas. I swore to stick to sageuks, until I came across Goong.
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wonhwa
March 10, 2024 at 9:30 AM
It took me a few years to actually watch a contemporary show, and when I did, my first one was Bad Guy, which, while weirdly entertaining, is one I'd definitely put on the list of "shows not to recommend to first time viewers" as it was objectively terrible.
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Midnight
March 10, 2024 at 10:24 AM
Bad Guy was the first drama I witnessed the outrage on DB for its ending 😄 It was a bit shocking and very entertaining to read all the comments on it.
tiadebella
March 12, 2024 at 12:56 AM
Terrible, and yet.
Gikata
March 10, 2024 at 7:50 AM
Funny, because sageuks were ultimately what kept me watching kdramas because few romcoms I've watched prior to that left a rather polarizing impression and for the life of me I wouldn't touch famous Hallyu melos... But ILJIMAE and AATM back-to-back hooked me for good, I was like "wait, this has EVERYTHING I ever wanted from a show, gimme more!".
Now, not all sageuks are equally newbie-friendly, that's for sure... But look at the amount of muggles that turned to kdramas thanks to MOON LOVERS, for example
and that wasn't even a good sageuk OR drama in general, honestly.Btw, costume cdramas are also significantly more popular internationally than any other genre, romcoms
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Seon-ha
March 10, 2024 at 7:54 AM
I don't necessarily think that I would say any/all "rom-coms" should come first either 🤣
I just think a non-sageuk intro to the tropes (which it sounds like you had) is the best lead-in to the complexities of any/all sageuks, from the "fusion" ones to the ones that play more like "deep historical cuts"...
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Gikata
March 10, 2024 at 8:21 AM
I wouldn't dare to claim that watching BOF or YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL (hated both with passion btw) really prepared me for anything I've seen later in sageuks... It's like claiming that watching TORADORA could prepare a person for BERSERK or HELLSING ULTIMATE just because both are anime.
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Seon-ha
March 10, 2024 at 8:24 AM
As you wish.
parkchuna adores YoungWon couples Forever 🍉
March 10, 2024 at 8:06 AM
I do so love the very specific genre of romcoms with abs you mentioned 😂😄
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Gikata
March 10, 2024 at 8:10 AM
That's like 50% of their plot (90+% if we're talking about short dramas), so it must be mentioned!
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parkchuna adores YoungWon couples Forever 🍉
March 10, 2024 at 8:03 AM
But, what if the sageuk is Alchemy of Soul?
If that persons ends up hooked, they might just get a shock at the real thing.
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23new2kdrama 🌱
March 10, 2024 at 10:25 AM
Love love that show but it is going on my don't watch first list. For all of the reasons a seasoned drama watcher would love- complex story, fantasy world, magic- I think it would be confusing. Especially season 2. I did a lot of rewinding.
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OldLawyer
March 11, 2024 at 3:11 PM
I do not believe that it is fair to describe ALCHEMY OF SOULS as a Sageuk at all (in fact in the beginning we are told that the story does not take place in Korea). It is really a non-Xianxia Chinese Costume fantasy which is done in the Korean language and with Korean actors.
It is a great drama but not a fair introduction into either Sageuks or even regular K-drama.
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Elinor
March 11, 2024 at 4:35 PM
Alchemy is to sageuks as Bridgerton is to Georgette Heyer.
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jerrykuvira
March 10, 2024 at 9:13 AM
I believe I'm a few of the outliers in this case. Had my intro to kdramas been modern settings, I'll never dabble into this side of the entertainment world. I've seen enough of city dramas, both Hollywood and local. To see it again in kdramas would surely stop me from watching.
I only developed a little bit of tolerance for modern drama in 2013-15 when I watched a select few that I loved - Ruby Ring, King of Baking Kim Tak-gu, Pretty Man, bits of Monster, My Daughter Guem Sa-wol, Eve's Love. But watching all these didn't do enough to warp me into the kdrama world.
It was when I had exhausted all the saguek kdramas in my collection and it seemed like modern kdramas are chunked out left, right and center more and more before I finally gave modern settings a chance.
Still, I'll pick a saguek over anything anyday.
I wouldn't say I was a fan of history, but I was a fan of the power play and politics in sagueks. And honestly, I'm yet to see an array of modern kdrama that'll challenge my thinking faculties the way sagueks does. There have been a few - writer Lee Soo-yeon's works being a prime example. Should she pen a saguek in the nearest future, I know that it'll be something entering the kdrama halls of fame on first invitation.
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wonhwa
March 10, 2024 at 11:13 AM
I feel very much the same way - I love the theatricality, visual flair, and plot complexity of good period shows, and the fact that the stakes are usually so much higher than in modern dramas. However, I'm also a fan of political gamesmanship, morally grey characters and well done tragic endings (or less-than-happy ones), all of which I know aren't everyone's cup of tea.
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Gikata
March 10, 2024 at 2:55 PM
Yes, the stakes issue! It's really hard to take modern 30-something people with jobs and money struggling so much with "parental disapproval", "unwanted relationship", "separation by going abroad" etc seriously. Like yeah, poor hero/heroine, how they suffer... but that suffering hardly compares to the ever-presented risk of getting tortured/assaulted/enslaved/sold/executed painfully with your whole family as a bonus for making one wrong step!
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wonhwa
March 10, 2024 at 3:18 PM
Yep - it's just not as compelling when the driving plot question is "what will study abroad do to my three-week-old relationship with this cute guy?" or "how will I balance work with dating?".
hacja
March 10, 2024 at 8:44 PM
Let me just reply because I find sageuks for the most part, as trivial as any slice of life drama if not more so. This is where we differ. I find it more compelling to think of young people today dealing with jobs, money, and relationship issues, because I have children in their twenties, and I know many of them, whereas when I'm watching a show and I see, that "Oh no! An obscure crown prince is about to be poisoned by the left minister!!!!" I yawn.
Sageuks do NOT deal with the suffering of ordinary people. In fact, that's why I dislike them, as a historian. The vast majority of sageuks treat history as a history of the elites, as if that was the only thing, or even the most important thing that mattered. But even though many tell history as a history of politics, in the end, that is only a very small part of history. Despite Korean political history, the kings and male political elites were not more important to history than the women, farmers, merchants, slaves, concubines, etc. that made up the bulk of society. Or to jump to the present, the chaebols are not more important to Korea than the 30 something struggling with relationship issues.
But of course, do the stories of ordinary people make for an interesting drama? Not for all of us ordinary people who are trying to avoid considering the tedium of our lives. So even though, as a historian it is very hard for me to take sageuks seriously, still I know that those who like sageuks like them because everyone likes shows about wealthy and elites, as a form of escapism. This has always been true of popular culture!
Still, does that mean I'd recommend a sageuk to a kdrama neophyte--I guess if they loved the Crown, or maybe Succession, to pick two U.S. popular shows.
But otherwise, for most, I would recommend a superhero show, like Moving, or a revenge drama, like Taxi-Driver, or a rom-com, like King the Land.
Gikata
March 11, 2024 at 6:31 AM
@hacja you're right about sageuks being rather classist - it's almost always royals/nobles/secret royals/fallen nobles/half-nobles at most as leads, which is quite limited in terms of perspective indeed. It is related to escapism probably, but also likely to the fact that commoners lives at the time were largely uneventful - in a positive sense of a word. Grand things worthy of a drama coverage could happen to them too ofc - but these things would be wars, uprisings, plagues, natural disasters etc. Aka not the stuff you can easily add a swoony romance between pretty leads and possibly HE to.
I disagree with the claim that sageuks don't deal with realities of lower classes though. That's just not true, esp if you watch enough sageuks and not only those that are all about fights for the throne. Granted, sageuks where non-royals/commoners take important part of the narrative are more rare, but they exist. And you can still find a lot of servants/peasants/merchants/slaves/gisaengs even in those snobbish sageuks too - them and their troubles aren't always treated with enough attention and care, but they are not THAT invisible. In fact, it's those dramas and their small bits about low-class folks precisely that often left me thinking about the issue deeper compared to in-your-face "horrors of peasant life" dramas. Maybe because I posses a bad habit called critical thinking)))
Also, is there a thing as "anti-escapism"? I mean, when I watch scheming ministers of Joseon scheming against innocent virtuous leads, what I think the most often is not "I want to be part of that!" (heavens forbid!), but "my life royally sucks, but at least not this much!". Questionable thesis as of lately ofc, but it used to be like that for a while. Does that make me a bad person who finds solace in misery of others? *scratches head*
wonhwa
March 11, 2024 at 1:38 PM
@hacja there are definitely lots of a badly written, formulaic period shows out there (as there are with any genre), and I would love to see the focus move beyond the rich and powerful more frequently. That being said, I do find shows that delve intelligently into how political and social systems work (or don't) quite interesting as these are things that do have a massive effect on ordinary people's lives. I also watch tons of contemporary shows as well, but for me if I want pure, glorious, escapist entertainment, I'd love for it to come with beautiful people beautifully wielding swords.
KAddicted
March 11, 2024 at 6:30 PM
@hacja I completely agree. I'm not a professional historian but I love history and have a good working knowledge of European history in general, and English in particular. There are so many eras, subjects, themes. A historical drama set in the UK can be about absolutely anything, in any period, about any class. It isn't just the same palace intrigue rehashed over and over again.
I'm trying not to miss the point, as I understand what identifies Korean dramas from those of other countries, so I accept there will be a cliff of doom, thwarted love, evil stepmothers, politics, poisonings, etc, but I do so wish these elements could be presented in a more inventive way instead of served up stale, time and time again.
I keep trying another (against my better judgement) and keep coming away with the same disappointment. If we must be in the palace, why not a k-Upstairs Downstairs, a wider view instead of the same narrow one? Let's take good look at everyone (not just the eunuchs and sourfaced court ladies) and the impact their various conflicts have on each other?
I'd certainly give something like that a go, but please - no jokes and trivial characters. Then I might recommend this to a first time k-drama viewer.
wonhwa
March 11, 2024 at 6:51 PM
@kaddicted one of my favorite sageuks that is very much not a "palace" drama is Nokdu Flower about the Donghak Peasant Revolt. It's not always an easy watch, but it definitely focuses on the people at the bottom of the Joseon caste system and their push to change it.
Gikata
March 12, 2024 at 5:57 AM
@wonhwa, @hacja, @kaddicted
Seems like we've come to the root of problem here - the so-called relatability/representation vs entertainment debacle, which has been rather heated in cinema lovers circles lately. I never fully understood why this was even a question because, let's face it, both sides have a point and you cannot really make a great story with just one of these elements without another.
Also, personally I do not consume fiction mainly for any of these, but because I want to broaden my horizons and understand (at least try to!) logically and empathetically things I wouldn't likely experience otherwise. Sageuks with all their dusty palace intrigue tropes and suffocating class system can give me that - I've already learned A LOT from them - but modern shows about familiar normal problems of regular people EXACTLY like me? Hardly. If I ever craved some normalcy, I'd want more of it in my own daily life - not in dramas which have already been lacking big time being engaging one way or another lately...
Gikata
March 12, 2024 at 6:05 AM
P.S. @wonhwa don't forget REBEL! They even make fun of other sageuks with ML's identity)))
wonhwa
March 12, 2024 at 6:55 AM
@gitaka yes, Rebel is another good example of a lead from the lower classes, although the plot structure issues in that one drove me a bit nuts. Like My Dearest I appreciated the social commentary - the storytelling logistics, less so.
bomibeans
March 13, 2024 at 8:17 AM
@hacja
"The vast majority of sageuks treat history as a history of the elites, as if that was the only thing, or even the most important thing that mattered."
If I had a Bean of a Week for comments, I'd give it to you. So, so, so MANY people do not realize that what we generally know about history is actually a history of elites. That's why I'm so addicted to those history YouTube shows that ask pretty hilarious questions (like, did ancient Romans wear underpants) and three videos down I find out that one of the most common illnesses of Romans were eye infections because the city was so polluted with dust and other matter. Neat, isn't it?! History is FASCINATING when told from perspective of ordinary people, and I fail to see over and over why there is not more fiction written about the common folk from past era.
Babylilo
March 11, 2024 at 4:29 PM
At this point I'll watch just about any genre, as long as it's a quality show. Since I began watching Kdramas, I've fallen in love with types of shows I thought were absolutely not for me. I'd be watching something like Happiness (zombies!), 1% of Something (arrogant, grabby chaebols!), or Master's Sun (ghosts!) and marvel aloud, "I can't believe I'm enjoying this!" Now I'm all "more zombies, please." 🧟♂️
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23new2kdrama 🌱
March 10, 2024 at 10:18 AM
Agreed! The most common life drama you can find will be most comfortable for them to start. Unless it's something in the comedy world like Mr.Queen where the focus is crazy comedy not politics
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KAddicted
March 11, 2024 at 5:47 PM
I find it hard to watch sageuks even now. In fact I tolerate them, but not always very well. I find them stifling and tedious. I much prefer any other kind of Joseon, 20th century especially, but anything trapped in a palace with occasional excursions to a market, a river, a cliff or a bare village, has me screaming up the walls.
There are so many periods in history, so why WHY do we get 95% silly palace intrigues with women climbing over walls, gats, hats, bobbing beads, poisoned sweets, evil queens, dowager queens, scheming concubines, and tiny female eunuchs who are so obviously not men it is embarrassing?
In fact I wouldn't even admit these shows exist if a friend were to ask me. OK, maybe two exceptions:
1. Hwarang, because it sends them up and doesn't take itself seriously, and
2. Kingdom, because of the zombie element, which was inventive and frankly an improvement.
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wonhwa
March 11, 2024 at 6:55 PM
I've found as a rule pre-Joseon era sageuks are definitely preferable to Joseon era ones, for what that's worth. There haven't been tons of those lately though (or great sageuks of any kind for that matter).
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9TailedVixen Loves Hanging Upside Down
March 13, 2024 at 12:20 AM
I must be kinda weird because when I was a newbie, my first K-Drama was KINGDOM (Sageuk-Horror Fusion) and then DESTINED WITH YOU (which has Sageuk elements) and ROOKIE HISTORIAN GOO HYE-RYEUNG (feminist fusion Sageuk) were the two that finally reeled me in.
Maybe fusion Sageuk's okay for newbies?
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Gikata
March 13, 2024 at 9:39 AM
KINGDOM was a Netflix hit and not just among regular kdrama consumers, so it did introduce a lot of people to this market. If only Season2 and all that followed was handled better...
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4 Kurama
March 10, 2024 at 5:45 AM
One? Mouahahaha
Goddess of Marriage It's completely the opposite of the title during 36 whole episodes.
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5 Healer’s
March 10, 2024 at 5:57 AM
(And the thumbnail pic for this post is from Melty) 😂
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Kurama
March 10, 2024 at 6:25 AM
At this stade, it would be easier to advice people to avoid Baek Mi-Kyeong...
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Britney
March 10, 2024 at 4:09 PM
I personally didn't mind Melting Me Softly. I wouldn't recommend it only because I wouldn't think of it. It's not a stand out in either a good or bad way to me. It was just a drama where it shouldn't be taken seriously.
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Healer’s
March 10, 2024 at 4:52 PM
I haven’t watched “Melting me softly”, I just watched some scenes to see JCW, but I understand that a lot of people hated it. I was just amused by the picture chosen, because usually the picture reflects the original poster’s opinion, or some consensus among beanies.
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Britney
March 10, 2024 at 5:04 PM
One of the funniest moments to me was when someone was filling JCW's character in things that he'd miss during the cryosleep and they were like "[another guy] was convicted of adultry 10 days before the criminalization was abolished" and everyone is looking like why are you sharing that of all things right now haha
It's stupid things like that that I liked about it
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6 OAsia
March 10, 2024 at 6:20 AM
Generally, I wouldn't advise against any drama, because people have different tastes and they might even like something terrible. I would rather warn every new K-drama viewer that even if the title of the drama has "romance" in it, they should not expect that the drama will actually present scenes similar to "romance". In most dramas, viewers should be happy if they see more than one kissing scene.
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Babylilo
March 11, 2024 at 4:32 PM
The same applies when discussing shows you recommend people watch—it all depends on the individual taste.
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7 FormAnOrderlyQueue
March 10, 2024 at 6:26 AM
I'm going to go with Jirisan. Plots that leave you cold, rangers forgetting any ranger rules that existed, miracles occurring at the end which leave you confused or scoffing at your screen. You would simply be saying, "Wha-at?" at the end, and if you wanted more pretty drone pictures of mountains, there's many a nature channel to help you out. It's an oddity for much, much later when you want to enter the "He's-a-great-actor-but-he-can-pick-such-a-dud!" hall of horrors.
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🌸 Seeker 🌸
March 10, 2024 at 6:30 AM
I love your description... it may as well apply to Island and KNG. 😳
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Healer’s
March 10, 2024 at 6:43 AM
I haven't watched Jirisan, but now I wish we'd have the prompt "He's-a-great-actor-but-he-can-pick-such-a-dud!" 😅 Or is it the same as "When bad dramas happen to good actors" that we already discussed?
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🌸 Seeker 🌸
March 10, 2024 at 6:49 AM
Sounds like the same prompt but Kate's description is perfection! ♥️👍👌
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parkchuna adores YoungWon couples Forever 🍉
March 10, 2024 at 7:59 AM
You beat me to it. Most definitely, no contest, absolutely, avoid Jirisan at all costs.
“He’s-a-great-actor-but-i-trusted-him-too-much!”
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Healer’s
March 10, 2024 at 4:25 PM
Now this would be a slightly different prompt, @seeker ?
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🌸 Seeker 🌸
March 10, 2024 at 7:06 PM
Same same but different!! 👍👌👏😊
Can be said in respect of all actors / PDs / writers that we may follow from an excellent drama to another.
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Midnight
March 10, 2024 at 8:32 AM
I didn't hate Jirisan. I didn't even drop it. It was very classic kdrama, and I was in the mood for something mellow and non-deep.
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bomibeans
March 10, 2024 at 3:34 PM
Good choice!
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8 HopefulRomantic 🦋 Tigermoth 🦞
March 10, 2024 at 6:49 AM
Lol, not HeartBeat. I wouldn't want to put someone off from trying other fantasy romance dramas by being entranced by the false assumptions of vampire rom-COM in the first half, only to be let down in the second. Otherwise, I would encourage newbies to not start out with anything TOO good - a first drama should be good enough to get them hooked, but not so good that they won't be able to appreciate just how good it is (and why it's so good).
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🌸 Seeker 🌸
March 10, 2024 at 6:51 AM
That is such good advice Hopeful! That's why I think K-2 might be a better start than Healer. 😂
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HopefulRomantic 🦋 Tigermoth 🦞
March 10, 2024 at 7:50 AM
That's a great example!! Yep, this is my "K2 first, not Healer" argument 😂
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Seon-ha
March 10, 2024 at 7:08 AM
I almost put this one too 🤣...but then I thought, "So many people get hooked after Goblin that maybe crazy endings aren't so bad for newbs!?"
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HopefulRomantic 🦋 Tigermoth 🦞
March 10, 2024 at 7:21 AM
True, true 😂 And of course, there's no accounting for taste! The not recommended drama really depends on the person!
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9 S.Eesa
March 10, 2024 at 7:06 AM
I have a list:
Sisyphus the myth : Unintentionally drama makes us all Sisyphus - we start an episode , try to make sense and fail.
Love featuring marriage and divorces : There are three seasons and even after that we are left with no resolution.
Green mother's club: How do you resolve your inappropriate feeling for your adopted sister? By marrying her doppelganger of-course.
Island: The haircut, the story, and the performances.
Forest: I watched 4 episodes and at each episodes I fell asleep at 10 minute mark.
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jerrykuvira
March 10, 2024 at 8:59 AM
Arrrrgh! You have me at Green Mother's Club. Infact, it was the first drama that came to my mind after much thought, skewing and narrowing (there are many dramas both loved and popular, and unpopular, that fit into this category).
But this one, GMC was one great height of my disappointment that drama year. A huge waste of talents gathered in one place. Not even as supporting characters but as lead ensembles. That's what makes it more disappointing.
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wonhwa
March 10, 2024 at 11:14 AM
I didn't make it to the end of Island, but yeah, from what I saw, that would definitely be a big "nope" as a starter drama.
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OldLawyer
March 11, 2024 at 3:15 PM
FOREST leads my list of shows to stay away from- unless you need a good hate-watch.
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Alluvial_Fan
March 13, 2024 at 4:03 AM
Thanks for saving me from heaping more scorn on Sisyphus: The Mess. A short bts clip of Cho Seung Woo literally running to his van at the end of the shoot says it all.
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10 Healer’s
March 10, 2024 at 7:12 AM
I really want to say "Strong woman DBS", but I was hesitant because I could see there're people who really liked it, so my dislike towards it is more from my personal preferences rather than the drama itself. But I'd want the newbie to know:
- The main leads could do much better than that. They've done much better shows. The same goes for supporting actors like Kim Wonhe and Jeon Seokho.
- Toilet humour is common in Kdramas but is usually not to the extent it is in "Strong woman".
- Not all moms in Kdramas would push their daughter into spending the night with her boss in hope she would find a husband, just because he is good-looking and rich.
- The image of an office-worker sitting at a tiny desk decorated like a play desk for a little girl daydreaming most of the time is not an accurate representation of the office environment in Kdramas.
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🌸 Seeker 🌸
March 10, 2024 at 7:30 AM
All very valid points. For a person with no knowledge of how K-dramas work this may be very confusing. 😅
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Babylilo
March 11, 2024 at 4:47 PM
You forgot to mention the horribly stereotypical (catty, limp-wristed, makeup-wearing) gay character! The same actor played him as well as the poop-wine guzzling thug.
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Healer’s
March 11, 2024 at 5:20 PM
Oh yes, that too. Thank you for mentioning it.
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technicat
March 11, 2024 at 11:54 PM
Yeah, I think that is the most offensive part of that drama. And then there's the spousal abuse for laughs.
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Babylilo
March 12, 2024 at 6:21 AM
One of the things I hate most that I see a lot in Kdramas is people hitting each other, especially when it’s played for laughs—most often when it’s adults hitting their kids or grandkids, or wives hitting their husbands. (When men hit women or their kids, it’s usually treated as abuse, as it should be.)
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Babylilo
March 12, 2024 at 7:13 AM
On a more positive note, recent dramas appear to be moving away from the stereotypes and presenting positive images of LGBTQ characters as “normal” people. And my perception is that we’re seeing these characters more often. 👏👏👏
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11 Gikata
March 10, 2024 at 8:03 AM
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Gikata
March 10, 2024 at 8:07 AM
Ok, I apparently read the prompt wrongly... Need some more sleep, I guess.
ALL famous classic Hallyu melos. Sure, it worked just fine for a certain generation, but nowadays it may be a different story. And I just don't have the heart to subject any innocent soul to THAT^^
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March 10, 2024 at 7:13 PM
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Gikata
March 11, 2024 at 6:36 AM
THAT is a makjang when it is not funny or self-aware but deadly serious (meh!) and angst fest for the sake of angst fest.
Names? Take any hit k-melodrama pre-2012 or so and you'll have a winner))) The things I've read about those shows alone nearly made my eyes bleed, I can't even DARE to THINK about actually watching them!
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🌸 Seeker 🌸
March 11, 2024 at 7:01 AM
Ah ha ha! Okay gotcha. 😂
12 amfalulawatching
March 10, 2024 at 8:28 AM
Do Do Sol Sol La La Sol, once the newbie gets to the ending, they will never watch another k-drama again (and I wouldn't blame them).
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🌸 Seeker 🌸
March 10, 2024 at 9:50 AM
I love DDSSLLS till 15 and and a half hours and I think it would be a great introduction to a newbie as long as they have a hard stop there and never look back!!
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Kurama
March 10, 2024 at 10:04 AM
Oh no! Newbies deserve better than the ML and this awful end!
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🌸 Seeker 🌸
March 10, 2024 at 10:09 AM
I don't want them to see till the "end" ... just stop after the OTP concert.
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Kurama
March 10, 2024 at 10:15 AM
But it was bad from the beginning... The ML ran away and lied during the whole show, not only the end.
Babylilo
March 11, 2024 at 4:49 PM
And while she wasn't aware of it, the FL was in a romance with a high school student. Ick.
mmmmm
March 10, 2024 at 11:55 AM
I loved Do Do, too, and I stopped at ep13 as per Beans’ suggestions. I still think of it fondly.
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🌸 Seeker 🌸
March 10, 2024 at 7:14 PM
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Isa is always time travelling
March 11, 2024 at 6:00 AM
DDSSLLS was the fifth k-drama I watched and I can't even describe the frustration and bewilderment I felt when I finished it 🙈
But it didn't discourage me at all. I was already in Dramaland hole and looking forward to starting another show.
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amfalulawatching
March 11, 2024 at 7:42 AM
It was a very sweet drama up until those last episodes.
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Isa is always time travelling
March 11, 2024 at 7:57 AM
It was beyond cute. I really loved the ML and some of the secondary plots. I binge-watched it in three days.
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too_much_tv
March 11, 2024 at 12:35 PM
I was coming here to say this. I watched some real crap TV at the start of my k-drama obsession, but that was a doozy.
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amfalulawatching
March 11, 2024 at 12:53 PM
I think the ending was just a pranky fake-out that didn't work and left viewers with bad feelings (the show was full of fake-outs). It is one thing to have a sad ending, it is another to fake people out about. It took all the fun out of an otherwise very cute, sweet show...A doozy for sure.
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OldLawyer
March 11, 2024 at 4:09 PM
I completely agree with you.
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13 jerrykuvira
March 10, 2024 at 8:53 AM
Kokkdu.
If Kim Jung-hyun, Kim In-kwon and Cha Chung-hwa brought you here from Mr. Queen, please run like your life depends on it. It's a collosal disappointment.
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Gikata
March 11, 2024 at 6:37 AM
I feel like it'll be for everyone's benefit to collectively pretend that said show NEVER happened...
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14 zindigo
March 10, 2024 at 9:56 AM
I'm going to go with Descendants of the Sun. I don't know if newbies are as aware of it now, but it might pop up if people come to k-drama with some awareness of Song Joong-Ki and find the storyline potentially appealing. Plus it still has such high reviews.
Back when I started watching k-dramas, everyone was still raving about this show being great (a few years after its release). I found it cheesy, predictable, and even ludicrous at points. The American/Canadian actors were abysmal. And Song Hye-Kyo was unfortunately very convincing playing an unlikable character. I've actually avoided any dramas she's been in since this one! Song Joong-Ki was great acting-wise, but not believable physically for this role. The only actors/characters I liked or cared about were the 2FL/2ML (Kim Ji-Won and Jin Goo).
Fortunately I'd already seen at least a dozen k-dramas before I watched DotS, but if it had been the first, I don't know that I would have tried another one. My apologies to anyone who loves this drama!!
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🌸 Seeker 🌸
March 10, 2024 at 10:41 AM
Most definitely - the 2nd and 3rd OTPs were much more engaging than the Song-Song couple.
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zindigo
March 11, 2024 at 8:19 AM
Oh yes, the 3rd couple! I forgot about them. I liked their story too. 😊
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mmmmm
March 10, 2024 at 11:57 AM
That is my gateway drama!! 😝
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zindigo
March 10, 2024 at 3:40 PM
oops! 😬 Sorry!
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Isa is always time travelling
March 11, 2024 at 6:07 AM
That's a very famous drama which it's not on my plan-to-watch list. Somehow I feel that I won't like it (and your comment helps me understand what my intuition tells me).
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zindigo
March 11, 2024 at 8:31 AM
It has some big budget-y moments, a few of which are, admittedly pretty cool, especially in the first few episodes. There's some decent romance too, across 3 couples. And an unusual setting. But imo the FL's character is unappealing, which influences the tone of the whole story. And the "wow" factor moments are often silly and unrealistic rather than thrilling. I understand why it was so popular when it was originally released, especially with Korean audiences, because it's very patriotic. I liked that thematic element. But the production as a whole (especially when viewed through the lens of 2024), the over-the-top storylines, the b*tchy FL, and the awful non-Korean support cast dragged the whole thing down for me. I wouldn't normally trash a drama like this except that I'm using it as an example of one that I'd never recommend to a new k-drama watcher in 2024 🙃
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Kas61
March 17, 2024 at 5:12 PM
So, not just me that didn't like Song Hye-Kyo's character!
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15 Snow Flower
March 10, 2024 at 10:35 AM
Goblin
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🌸 Seeker 🌸
March 10, 2024 at 10:39 AM
Hehe ... there are many who's gateway drama was this, but I get your point. 👌👏
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Snow Flower
March 10, 2024 at 10:48 AM
Goblin would have made a great 2-hour movie.
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DK-Drama 🍉🚑🌎 Space Cadetting and Nest Boxing 🗽🍉
March 10, 2024 at 5:05 PM
Yes. Cutting out the ambition of portraying the years of suffering and longing in Real Time and just going with "and they missed each other a great deal" + "later that century, ..." would have left something I would have loved to watch. There are a great deal of hilarious scenes in that show, and some sweet scenes, too, but I just don't get how people can have the patience to sit through all that staring and not even mentioned it as a con (like in pro and con) when they talk about it.
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wonhwa
March 10, 2024 at 11:15 AM
I thought about listing that one as well - there is really only so much weeping while eating Subway that a human can take.
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23new2kdrama 🌱
March 10, 2024 at 11:48 AM
Me too!!! No way I would have watched other shows if that was first- but I wouldn't have made it past the age difference issue
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KAddicted
March 11, 2024 at 6:48 PM
This complaint always makes me laugh. So he was 900 years older than her ... it happens!
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indyfan
March 11, 2024 at 8:28 PM
Agree. The ick factor put me off kdramas for a spell. It's curious because I love fantasy and have no issue with fantastical age gaps. I loved the vampie-human romance in Heartbeat, for example.
I think in this case, the FL played the high-schooler so convincingly while the ML appeared, whatever the script says, convincingly a middle-aged man that he was (albeit a cutie pie I've loved in other dramas). It was hard for some of us to get past that visual difference.
So, back to the prompt. If our newbie loved fantasy and can get past that gap, they could give it a shot. But if you're not sure, and I think almost 10 years on more of us question that, then there are plenty of other great dramas to recommend.
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23new2kdrama 🌱
March 12, 2024 at 7:59 PM
Great explanation of how I feel. I know age gap is a sensitive subject to many. When I watch a drama I want a main couple I can watch intently, focusing on the story. My mind, unfortunately, sometimes gets caught up in the couples looks, chemistry, past shows ect. It creates an issue for me. This is my problem, not the shows, but if I'm not going to enjoy the 16-20 hour experience, it's better to move to the next show on my list. That being said, because I watched Goblin years after it was made, it was easier to focus on the big picture.
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March 10, 2024 at 11:40 AM
Boys over Flowers.
But really, anything with a very tsundere ML. People would not be able to see why that is romantic, neither should they. If they did, I would wonder why we were friends.
I am not talking about enemies-to-friends. I am talking about abuser to lover. When I can watch that now, it's only because it is only as a trope, and there will be other things I like about the drama. And in many dramas, swooning a bit or a lot is part of the fun. A violent and abusive ML does not make me swoon, and I don't think it's romantic when he is won over. He should be decent before that, too.
An arrogant ML (and FL) can be fun, though. I know he (she/they) will fall and am looking forward to it from episode 1.
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Minnie🫘👩🏻🚀Pioneer and Teacher 👩🏻🏫🌱🏹
March 11, 2024 at 8:51 AM
Hahahahaha!
But then, I also guess 2010 audience was very different from 2024. They were fed on a staple diet of tsundere men - speak to any Mills and Boons lover and you will know. Korean MLs, as they exist now, would be honestly considered aliens by that 80s and 90s crowd outside of Korea.
Today of course, that would raise the same question as you - why are we friends...
I could not go past episode 14 of BOF. Not even for the SML.
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17 mmmmm
March 10, 2024 at 11:45 AM
Pretty Noona Who Buys Me Food (I don’t even bother to remember its other name)
Because I hate it and nothing has come close to this level of dislike yet in terms of Kdramas…
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March 10, 2024 at 1:47 PM
What? Is it a grooming drama? It sounds like that, horrifyingly.
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Reply1988 - 🍊Mother Bean🍊
March 10, 2024 at 2:17 PM
No, it’s a drama in two parts; the first half is a steamy new relationship, the second half it drops off a cliff and lands at the centre of the Earth😡 leaving some of us raging.
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March 10, 2024 at 2:58 PM
Do they *actually* fall into the centre of the Earth (maybe would like) or is it the quality of the show that drops deep below any physical cavities in the surface of our planet?
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Babylilo
March 11, 2024 at 10:08 PM
I actually loved it despite the lame ending.
bomibeans
March 13, 2024 at 5:09 PM
This is a PERFECT summation of Pretty Noona on one sentence.
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Kurama
March 10, 2024 at 2:42 PM
It's one of my favorite drama from a great PD.
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john
March 10, 2024 at 3:01 PM
The drama was recapped here on DB.
https://www.dramabeans.com/shows/pretty-noona-who-buys-me-food/
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March 10, 2024 at 3:23 PM
Thank you.
I read the final, and it was exhausting.
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Kurama
March 11, 2024 at 12:18 AM
It was a very realistic drama in the sense love didn't resolve everything, characters didn't really change, the world was still unfair. It showed how it's difficult to get out from our habits and the societal norms.
DK-Drama 🍉🚑🌎 Space Cadetting and Nest Boxing 🗽🍉
March 11, 2024 at 2:08 AM
I know I sometimes feel like that about something other Beanies hate, @Kurama (E.g. I to me, Castaway Diva was a super relevant drama about abusive parents, the importance of civil rights and data privacy, an also about PTSD and feeling lost in your life, while for others, it was a badly executed Robinson Crusoe rom com drama interrupted by much too much stalker parent).
And obviously, I was not introduced very positively to this noona drama. Reading it, it just seemed like a lot of unnecessary back and forth.
Kurama
March 11, 2024 at 2:21 AM
It's better to make your opinion.
Korean society can be very frustrating for international viewers but I think it's important to be open when you watch this drama.
I found SYJ very brave to take this role.
mmmmm
March 11, 2024 at 7:34 AM
It’s like moving in circles when you were promised progress. At the end of the day you found out that after 16 row you’re right where, or even worse, further back than when you started. It left bitter taste in my mouth.
DK-Drama 🍉🚑🌎 Space Cadetting and Nest Boxing 🗽🍉
March 11, 2024 at 8:39 AM
But you could say that Some K-dramas expose that. Or, they leave the field open, sketching something that could be, like this satire illustration https://www.dramabeans.com/activity/p/1547165/
Minnie🫘👩🏻🚀Pioneer and Teacher 👩🏻🏫🌱🏹
March 11, 2024 at 8:56 AM
This is Something in the rain ....it was known as Pretty Noona who buys me food? The name sounds awful.
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Grand Sophy
March 10, 2024 at 3:56 PM
Lol. No. There's a like 5 or 6 year age gap. The horror! But I liked a lot of it.
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March 11, 2024 at 9:36 AM
I loved a lot of it. I wasn't as put off to be honest, though it was a very hard second half watch and well, the ending...as someone said, pasted like a fake mustache...but in a way it also made sense. I don't know, overall I liked it and while it's not perfect, it could be a better start for a western audience because of its adult treatment of romantic relationship and complete lack of the 'ayego' factor (personally that's what I have started loving the most..kkkk after the initial wtf reaction...give me my squirrels please ;-)) and the ensuing black drama in what was supposed to be a fluffy rom com, but well, while I can now see why it would be frustrating for veterans, it wasn't that bad for someone like me who was starting to watch k-dramas.
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Minnie🫘👩🏻🚀Pioneer and Teacher 👩🏻🏫🌱🏹
March 11, 2024 at 9:38 AM
Disclaimer: It was an early watch for me, and I was gulping dramas during this phase, so for many dramas I just remember the feels than the actual story. It's never been on my re-watch list but I didn't know it was so widely disliked, I would have given it a closer watch lol.
mmmmm
March 11, 2024 at 12:18 PM
Tbh, Minnie, it’s ok if you like it. Everyone of us here is different and we have different preferences. I’m happy that some like it though I don’t think I will understand.
mmmmm
March 11, 2024 at 12:19 PM
Thinking about it and the time I watched it gave me a headache already. Lol
Minnie🫘👩🏻🚀Pioneer and Teacher 👩🏻🏫🌱🏹
March 11, 2024 at 4:47 PM
I know. I watched it not too long ago though, and if I am correct, it was probably on a recommendation too. But I could be wrong.
I also watched One Spring Night, and that one I FFed a lot because Han Ji Min (who I love) was so so so sad.....it was depressing.
KAddicted
March 11, 2024 at 7:12 PM
One Spring Night I absolutely hated. So much in fact I couldn't even finish it. The FL was so stupid, so capricious, selfish, unlikable and idiotic, I would have happily slapped her. I dropped it, and then a while later (having read some more comments on the final episodes) I decided to have another go at finishing. I even announced somewhere on this site that I would ... but I didn't, despite my intentions. I just couldn't pick it up again and so it remains dropped. It also remains the one drama that I absolutely detest so much I could never recommend it to the most appalling alien, even if doing so would halt an alien invasion.
So my anti-recommendation for a first time k-drama is definitely One Spring Night.
indyfan
March 11, 2024 at 8:38 PM
After reading many beanies and show creators explain what they were intending to do with the second half, I got it. And I still think they could have sold the realism if they hadn't tacked on the HEA. Depressing, yes. But at least consistent. Or they could have shown real growth and communication between the leads which would have resulted in a HEA we could believe in. They took the worst option. Do I remember this right, but was this because of audience pressure?
mmmmm
March 11, 2024 at 9:23 PM
@kaddicted Lol. I hear you. I heard something like it is the same PD or writer or both from Pretty Noona that did One Spring Night and I gave it a pass. Never wanted to try it.
It’s likely that if you like Pretty Noona, you might like One Spring Night, though. I think I should add this.
Reply1988 - 🍊Mother Bean🍊
March 10, 2024 at 2:05 PM
That is a perfect drama for this prompt😬
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Elinor
March 10, 2024 at 2:53 PM
Something in the Rain
Something in the Rain
Something in the Rain
Something in the Rain
Something in the Rain
and also, Something in the Rain
I can't quite believe it took this long for someone to mention it, because it was my first, last, and only thought. It was my second drama and there very nearly wasn't a third. Reasons, since the prompt asked for them [SPOILERS APLENTY]:
- As @mmmmm says, sucks the viewer in with a new relationship that is both steamy and romantic - no one falls in love onscreen like Jung Hae-in - and then makes it go wrong through some of the stupidest, most backassward decisions ever made by a FL, with an assist from some pretty dumb ones by the ML, too.
- The FL's relentlessly sexist, abusive work culture with no justice ever achieved and the only resolution being that she escapes to a totally different line of work and location. The message is that women can't win, they can only give up.
- The worst - the absolute worst - mother of a lead character in drama. Physically, verbally, and emotionally abusive, with lots of screaming.
"Friends" who are about as supportive and useful as a plastic spork.
- A soundtrack designed to drive you insane, endlessly repeating the same couple of annoying OSTs, often over the dialogue so you can't even mute.
- A happy ending that is pasted on like a false mustache, and is about as convincing.
Gah. I feel my blood pressure soaring.
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Elinor
March 10, 2024 at 2:55 PM
Sorry, @reply1988, you're the one I was quoting. The mere thought of this drama causes me to lose my grip!
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mmmmm
March 11, 2024 at 7:22 AM
I share your sentiments. It was a very frustrating experience watching that one.
indyfan
March 10, 2024 at 7:22 PM
Well, well, whaddya know: To every rule there’s an exception. Something in the Rain was my gateway drama. This after a decade of sampling classics such as BoF or Goblin that convinced me that kdramas were not for me.
Yet, I hear you. After the delicious first half, I couldn’t believe the what-f**kery of the second half. Yet, that spurred to go online to find answers; I was so flummoxed. I then found the fandom…and here I am!
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Healer’s
March 10, 2024 at 7:50 PM
Sometimes it's hard to be a viewer
Spendin’ all your time on that long show
It had a good half
And a f**kery half
Doing things that you don't understand
But it’s your gateway, you'll forgive it
Even though beanies don’t understand…
indyfan
March 10, 2024 at 8:13 PM
A reply in verse
I am delighted
Tho SITR may have divided
Not all of us were averse
Thanks for understanding
Why some of us are grateful
Its glaring faults notwithstanding
@claire2009
Elinor
March 10, 2024 at 8:57 PM
I get that there are plenty of people who enjoyed it, and no disrespect to them - à chacun son goût and all that. But I maintain that for a newbie (which you weren't, as you say) it could be extremely difficult to draw any useful lessons about what kdramas are "like" from that show, and very easy to conclude that they are painful, inexplicably frustrating experiences. I would have different advice about the show for someone who'd had even a little taste of dramas previously than for a newbie.
(But that advice would still mostly be "RUN!" 😂)
And BRAVA to the verse response, and to @claire2009's too!
Reply1988 - 🍊Mother Bean🍊
March 10, 2024 at 9:24 PM
I am impressed that you watched Something in the rain, and multiple K-drama classics that were not to your taste but you kept trying the different genres for years. Did you find dramas you did like amongst all the others and that’s why you kept going?
indyfan
March 10, 2024 at 9:24 PM
@elinor Fair, fair. I had already endured a 2-3 episodes of BoF before dropping, a few of Goblin too, etc. Still, it was maybe the 12th episode of SITR before I considered dropping it. 😂 But I endured. See, I was suffering to collect the bean even before I was an official Beanie. I always had it in me. 💪🏽
indyfan
March 10, 2024 at 9:36 PM
@reply1988 I had a really good Korean-American friend so I kept coming across them since way back when. But it was the boredom of the pandemic and the Netflix algorithm that really reeled me in.
I'd love to hear everyone's gateway story. Could we have a post DB Staff? I'm sure it's been done before. But it's been a while. And we have a lot of new Beanies.
Reply1988 - 🍊Mother Bean🍊
March 10, 2024 at 9:58 PM
Yes the gateway drama chat post was May 2022 but I am sure they can find a way to rephrase it.
Reply1988 - 🍊Mother Bean🍊
March 10, 2024 at 10:06 PM
Did your friend recommend any that you liked or are your genre preferences too different?
DK-Drama 🍉🚑🌎 Space Cadetting and Nest Boxing 🗽🍉
March 11, 2024 at 2:17 AM
1) Healer, is that "Stand By Your Man" about how it's only natural for a woman to put up with her husband's drinking and infidelity (as I suppose is meant with "things you don't understand")?
How apt!
2) Yes, Dramabeans is where you go when you want to say how much you need to rant but also not just be told you shouldn't watch K-dramas, then. And the more K-dramas I see, the more I know they often build up thrilling premises and stories and then throw it all in the gutter, so I really need someone to talk to.
And people in my home just don't want to hear about it. Really. The oldest one just turns on her heels and slams the door if I mention the K-word.
🌸 Seeker 🌸
March 11, 2024 at 7:31 AM
@claire2009 🤗 Please update your display name to Healer's Poet Giff-er Mathematician
Reply1988 - 🍊Mother Bean🍊
March 11, 2024 at 7:33 AM
@seeker @claire2009 Seconded! A name update is definitely called for here🥰
Healer’s
March 11, 2024 at 7:46 AM
@seeker @reply1988 Not to be bragging but I so love my display name that I would probably never want to change it 😂 I considered adding my tag name like Cera did every now and then but usually ended up deciding against it, so that my display name will always be a reminder to us beanies how beautiful that show was :-)
@CecilieDK Yes, that's the song that annoyed us viewers throughout that drama 😅
🌸 Seeker 🌸
March 11, 2024 at 8:10 AM
I happily concede @claire2009. Your display name indeed is the best-est!! 🥰😍 It gives happiness not only to you but @cozybooks @Reply1988 and all Beanies who see it.
🌸 Seeker 🌸
March 10, 2024 at 7:26 PM
Whoa whoa ... just for the record I loved your comment and the "plastic spork" just cracked me up.
No need to let your blood pressure be affected by such random nonsense. I totally get that as a second or tenth drama it would have been more of a shock especially as the concept of actually dropping a drama won't have settled in as yet. Here's a happy drink to help you relax. 🍸
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Reply1988 - 🍊Mother Bean🍊
March 10, 2024 at 9:13 PM
@claire2009 🫘Beansprout🌱 for illustrating the divide in Beanie land’s reactions to that drama through alternative lyrics to Stand by your man🤣🤣 Genius
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indyfan
March 10, 2024 at 9:25 PM
👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽
Healer’s
March 11, 2024 at 12:12 AM
😍 thank you for the award!!
mmmmm
March 11, 2024 at 7:23 AM
You did me a disservice by typing that name for too many times and with bolder letters.
You may stand by your man. 🤣
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mmmmm
March 11, 2024 at 7:28 AM
Ditto.
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18 23new2kdrama 🌱
March 10, 2024 at 11:46 AM
I can't believe I'm writing this but although it is my favorite drama I would never recommend
The King: Eternal Monarch
The reasons I love it- fantastic fantasy story with 2 worlds- would be too much for a newbie. I had to rewind many times to understand because of a fast moving complex story in subtitles. But that is the reason I love it.
The cast , music, and photography are reasons to watch eventually.
I would add Alchemy of Souls to the list for the same reasons. But again, those are the reason I love that show so much
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mmmmm
March 10, 2024 at 12:00 PM
I also loved The King The Eternal PPL because of its fantasy, whimsical, beautiful world-building.
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23new2kdrama 🌱
March 10, 2024 at 8:07 PM
I have been surprised in the general response to the show. Most people complain about what I think makes it great- the complex 2 world storyline and the hilarious product placement. You must eat fried chicken while watching this show😉😉
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mmmmm
March 11, 2024 at 3:43 AM
And you can apply a beauty stick or eating a package kimchi while being on a stakeout. 😇
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19 panshel
March 10, 2024 at 12:16 PM
Any dramas starring actors who were canceled (including, but not limited to, Park Si-hoo, Park Yoo-chun, Kim Hyun-joong, Ji Soo, Kang Ji-hwan, Uhm Tae-woong, Lee Seo-won, etc.) lest they fall in love with said actor, so I'm saving them from themselves because been there, done that.
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KAddicted
March 11, 2024 at 7:22 PM
I read recently that Ji Soo did a photoshoot somewhere outside of SK which got some positive comments. Hopefully he'll be considered rehabilitated at some point.
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9TailedVixen Loves Hanging Upside Down
March 13, 2024 at 12:24 AM
I second your opinion.
Some people may not care but a lot of people I know would not want to accidentally support extremely problematic actors including known misogynists, rapists etc.
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20 Olivedreams
March 10, 2024 at 12:28 PM
Mine on Netflix…an utter and complete waste of time.
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21 cozybooks
March 10, 2024 at 12:57 PM
So at the bottom of my MDL list I have "Local Heroes" and "Voice Season 4".
I don't remember why I hated Local Heroes so much. I DO remember watching Voice Season 4 with my husband and laughing the entire time because it was so bad.
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22 Grand Sophy
March 10, 2024 at 1:48 PM
I'd thought there'd be a line of commenters saying "Cheese in the Trap."
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wonhwa
March 10, 2024 at 2:20 PM
There probably should be a special disclaimer for "don't start with shows where the entire production team clearly got in a massive fight mid-way through filming, leading to everything falling apart in highly dramatic ways."
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🌸 Seeker 🌸
March 10, 2024 at 7:28 PM
Also there the ML suddenly becomes not the ML midway.
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bomibeans
March 10, 2024 at 3:42 PM
Excellent choice!
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abalyn
March 11, 2024 at 10:17 AM
I’m still sad about that show. I feel like it ruined Park hae-Jin’s career. Maybe he just can’t act, but he hasn’t had a show or director since that has been any good.
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23 Reply1988 - 🍊Mother Bean🍊
March 10, 2024 at 2:11 PM
Miseang because the toxic work place breach of ALL HR regulations would enrage or upset them and they may not last the first couple of episodes before it settles down.
Queen of the classroom because it takes a while to catch on to what the teacher is doing and watching emotional abuse of children is hard.
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24 mysterious
March 10, 2024 at 2:47 PM
49 Days - too depressing.
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Becky
March 11, 2024 at 7:11 AM
this is the 1st drama I thought of. i loved it at first when i started watching it, until i peeked at ending. i was fairly new to kdramas then--if it had been my first, i am not sure i would have tried anymore.
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25 bomibeans
March 10, 2024 at 3:40 PM
Any weekender drama with 50+ episodes. I cannot fathom anyone sitting through so much tripe unless they’ve been “immunized” by prior k-drama experience. I’m still training my immune system before I can start My Husband Got A Family. I’m almost there, almost there…
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Becky
March 11, 2024 at 7:13 AM
If the actors are ones I'm interested in, I tune in for the last 20 episodes. By not watching the 1st 30, I've skipped most of the ridiculous drama, to get to the most important parts.
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KAddicted
March 11, 2024 at 7:37 PM
I was pretty well immunized when I decided to watch Never Twice, which I still have very fond memories of, despite a lot of it being quite daft, though deliberately so. Some of it was absolutely hilarious, the central love story touching, and while it was long I was honestly never bored.
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