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[2023 Year in Review] K-drama: My reignited first love story

By: @gadis

As a drama year, I started 2023 with a doom portent. It might sound like an exaggeration, but how else would you describe a year of drama adventure that was opened by a face palm-inducing show like The Heavenly Idol? I will spare you all the long rant about why this series could have been ridiculously fun with just a little tweak and a bit more common sense. Sufficed to say that I blame the dramaland drought in that early months (and also my temporarily misplaced good judgment) for making an idol drama with a pontifex lead sound like my idea of fun.

It was the understatement of the year to say that by the end of The Heavenly Idol, I was ready to take a break from dramaland. Overflowing offerings combined with overall mediocre reviews only further convinced me of my decision. It would be a very long break if not for the multiple posts of Beanies gushing over My Perfect Stranger that I accidentally saw. Kim Dong-wook, Jin Ki-joo, and my nearly blind love for time travel story. What could go wrong with that perfect combo?

Nothing, apparently. Nothing but the very fact of how tame it was. How not thrilling the drama was despite all the mystery and red herrings and rising body counts that happened throughout the show. Two perfectly lovely leads went through (expectedly) unexpected revelations about their tragic family histories. They then faced the age-old question in every time-slip story ever: whether they would meddle to get a happier resolution, knowing that it would indelibly change a lot of people’s lives. My Perfect Stranger felt like a comfort food to me: a perfectly good story that was just a little bit unpredictable, a common premise about righting the past wrongs, and unsurprising messages. It was nice and familiar, and that’s about it.

I realized then that maybe after more than a decade, K-dramaland has lost its charm for me. It was a bittersweet realization to have right when K-drama reached its peak popularity in the last few years and I saw waves of new fans flocking in to rejoice in their recent discoveries.

Nothing caught my attention for months, and I found myself filling my free time with more K-pop variety content instead… until September brought me my favorite variety show PD back with his fresh survival show The Devil’s Plan. I jumped in without any preparation, which is uncharacteristic of me these days. I didn’t even peek into the list of cast, or try to find out about the “survival” that went on there. Needless to say, the show stole my heart and ran with it. It was the most thrilling journey of self-discovery I’ve watched this year, complete with sprinkles of brilliant wit and strategies. By the time they announced the winner, I was hungry for more emotional roller coaster feels that only the best fiction could give me.

In the luckiest timing ever, Twinkling Watermelon came crashing with its pop color, four impulsive teenage leads, and the very familiar time-slip plot. I was ready for the insightful exploration, given the writer’s thoughtful past projects and the premise of finding out about one’s parents’ youthful stories. What I didn’t expect was the blast of emotion it led me through as our leads formed a school band and discovered their love for music, made unexpected friends, fell in love, and grew up together in the midst of laughter and tears and difficult decisions.

This youth drama reminded me of what K-drama does best: hitting me right in the feels and making me live in the moment, instead of worrying about the next misstep it might make. I was never happier than to have my expectation of an unsatisfactory ending dispelled so neatly by a writer who has the gumption to stick to her original message. In a drama that revolved around correcting past mistakes, it was a powerful moment to show that one doesn’t need to “undo” their disability to get a chance at a happy ending.

Like a reignited first love, Twinkling Watermelon restarted my K-drama journey as the year rolled to an end. I didn’t necessarily search for the most thoughtful story out there anymore. I believed those deep messages would eventually follow me as I hunted for the next wild premise that made me dive in purely out of curiosity — be it a fantastical high-stakes romance like My Demon, or the elaborate and tastefully done suicide prevention campaign that masqueraded as the equally high-stakes thriller Death’s Game.

People say first love is a source of silly mistakes. That’s why I refuse to worry over the endings of the currently-airing dramas I’m watching. Even if these dramas ended up in a crash, it’s only going to fuel this old flame to burn even brighter in anticipation for next year’s adventure.

 
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Ah, I’m so glad you found your way back @gadis ! I love your level of zen about endings now! They are definitely the most difficult part to get right and I sometimes find myself anxious about the ending of a drama I really love - whether it will land safely or in a fiery crash and burn us all. It doesn’t help that a poor ending can do a lot to ruin my memories of the rest of the drama too, but it’s good to remember that there is lots to love even if everything doesn’t go as we hope. Thanks for writing!

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Letting go of my expectation for a perfect ending was the most difficult lesson I've learnt about k-dramas. Hopefully I won't forget it by the end of next year.

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@gadis! So glad to see you on the beanie pages again! This is a great piece which will probably resonate with many of us. The lackluster of many airing dramas, only to be hit with THE ONE. That’s why we keep going, right? To find what drew us to them to begin with? And I’ve long stated that drama writers have no clue how to end a drama, and when they do, it’s a miracle. So I change them in my own mind and that’s when they truly “twinkle.”

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I miss DB community so much, all those ranting and analyzing and fangirling that went around is something special to me. I'm glad that Devil's Plan aired in that right moment before I decided to let k-drama go for good. Hopefully I'll get to talk more to you guys during next year's adventure.

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Wow, are you - me, but slightly different? 😉 That was almost exactly my kdrama journey of 2023 - for the better part of this year I couldn't find any that piqued my interest, so I resorted to reading (books! Always there to catch you! 📚). I came back through different dramas then you, but the journey was the same. And when you find the ones that hit you, again, in that sweet aching spot that was just waiting to be hit, than you know you'll always be back for more...

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Exactly, first love always win you back in the end. Even in a bittersweet way. Let's hope we'll find another dramas that hit us right in that spot again next year.

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Nah, I’ll be lurking out on the sidelines in 2023, “feeling out” the Beanies’ comments before watching the first episode. I can’t be bothered to waste my time on mediocrity anymore.

The Devil’s Plan was PHENOMENAL. People, go watch it. The best “kdrama” of 2023.

(The fact that it is a “reality show” goes to show how dismal 2023 dramaland is.)

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The Devil's Plan is something else. Even with Jung PD's track record, I didn't expect something that epic and dramatic (and yet he always managed to make his survival show elegant). I'm so happy they already confirmed the making of the 2nd season.

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Thankyou @gadis for sharing your thoughts. It seems so many of us had tumbleweed rolling for most of this year waiting for the feel good dramas of old. Twinkling watermelon was one of the few bringing joy for me too.

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"Twinkling Watermelon" is such a drama that can restore the viewer's faith in K-dramas. I felt very good watching every episode. Whatever happened in it, it was obvious that the creators of this drama would not disappoint and would tell their story nicely. It's nice in the sense that it did justice to the characters and made the audience happy that they watched the drama.

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Twinkling Watermelon is far from perfect, but it was a well-thought-out feel-good drama, and I'm glad I found it.

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As a newbie in Kdramaland I'm still in the honeymoon phase - I only "discovered" SK this year and of the 50 something shows I devoured this year, only a meager handful were from 2023. So while most beanies here are unhappy with this year's shows, I managed to miss most of the crashing and burning LOL Some of the shows I've seen date all the way back to 2012! And amid the good, the bad, and the really cringe-worthy bad, I'm learning yes, not to expect a masterpiece every time, and that if a show is terrible, it's perfectly fine to drop it immediately. Some shows are deep and meaningful, some are fluff, and that is perfectly ok. I'm glad to see a fellow beanie re-discovering their love for kdramas! On to 2024!

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Wait until you discover shows that are terrible and a masterpiece rolled into one! I needed some time before I allowed myself to fast forward through the annoying patches on first watch...

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Heart💔Beat has really made it difficult to trust K-dramas to land the ending but you're so right we need to watch dramas without unnecessarily worrying about the end and just focus of enjoying the journey. Thank you for sharing your K-drama trials and triumphs for 2023.

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