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[2023 Year in Review] Bean of Disappointment

Following up the Bean of Greatness, the next bean we’re awarding is the Bean of Disappointment. It’s a sad bean to bestow, because even though disappointing dramas happen often (i.e., we’re used to it), there’s often one that just stings with what could have been, should have been, and might have been… if only they had consulted us.

Not to be confused with the famous Editors’ Picks, this bean series is much like our other DB team posts — each writer sharing their feels. Add your own personal Bean of Disappointment in the comments and join the crushed hopes fun!


 
missvictrix: I have a lot of disappointment “you should have been better” beans to pass out this year. Castaway Diva is high on the list, but since I dropped it, I’ll go with See You in My 19th Life for my choice here. And just, sigh. For a drama with a gorgeous premise and that was filmed and executed with such finesse… why did it feel so dead inside? The chemistry between the two actors responsible for our epic romance was nil, but the problems the drama faced wouldn’t have been solved with recasting only. Something deeper was missing in this beautiful recipe, and it’s when a drama is missing that spark that it really hurts. Oh, the drama it could have been.

tccolb: In hindsight, I should have lowered my expectations going into Family: The Unbreakable Bond, but it was really hard to not get invested when the promos were so darn cute. I had imagined a predominantly comedy spy action, but the actual story wasn’t as fun as I had hoped – not to mention some plot points that I couldn’t get behind. In the end, even the golden re-pairing of Jang Nara and Jang Hyuk wasn’t enough to keep me watching. Still, if the dramagods allow them yet another reunion in the future, I’ll be suckered and sat in front of them again.

mistyisles: Let me preface this by saying that I genuinely enjoyed the majority of My Lovely Liar’s run. This show had so much going for it — a fresh, interesting premise, compelling themes about truth and trust, an adorable romance, Seo Ji-hoon, and even a strong start. But the greater the potential, the greater the disappointment when the show fails to live up to that potential. And by the end, My Lovely Liar not only failed to capitalize on its strengths, but it also took a frustrating turn with its central mystery that pretty much killed my enjoyment of said mystery. It certainly wasn’t the worst show of the year, and I still love a lot about the story it set out to tell, but I’ll probably always be sad that it just didn’t do that story justice.

DaebakGrits: My 2023 Bean of Disappointment goes to See You in My 19th Life — not because I thought it was the worst drama of the year (*cough* Kokdu *cough*) but because it failed to meet my extremely high expectations. As a fan of the original webtoon, I tried not to let my love for the source material cloud my judgment. I could totally love the webtoon and still be optimistic that the K-drama medium could breathe new life into the story. And you know what? I was actually pleased with the first few episodes, which only increased my expectations for how the story would unfold. Unfortunately, this drama adaptation lost its luster the more it progressed, and a lot of it had to do with the OTP. Seo-ha was portrayed as being extremely broken and traumatized by the car accident that killed his childhood friend — to an extent that I often felt like Ji-eum’s aggressive pursuit was too excessive. That feeling clouded my perception of the OTP, and if you can’t root for the OTP of a romance, is it worth watching?

Unit: There were a number of disappointing dramas this year, but top of my list is See You in My 19th Life. Actually, this wasn’t a disappointment, it was betrayal. While other disappointing dramas went downhill — or at least showed the signs — earlier on, See You in My 19th Life was consistent. Until it wasn’t. There are certain expectations when it comes to adaptations, and while it’s okay to put a new spin on things, it’s not okay to butcher the crux of the story until it becomes almost unrecognizable. All that distortion to the plot ruined the drama for me — and even as a standalone story, I can’t gloss over the glaring plot holes. I loved everything about the drama except for the story. Which is sad, because story is king. Maybe I’ll be less critical if someone can explain why everyone and their mothers featured in Ji-eum’s first life — and one person who was supposed to be featured barely even had a presence in the backstory. Or how Ji-eum “forgot” everything that had to do with Seo-ha and went back to her old job, but not a single person there could tell her that she once quit to work at MI hotel.

Dramaddictally: Nothing leads to great disappointment like great expectations. That’s why in a year with a lot of dropped dramas, my bean doesn’t go to one of the universally despised or ignored, but to a drama that many people loved. With The King’s Affection in 2021 and Extraordinary Attorney Woo in 2022 — dramas that made my best lists in each year — I couldn’t wait to see what Park Eun-bin had up her sleeve for 2023. But when Castaway Diva premiered — a fantasy-premised drama about a woman who pursues a singing career after being stranded on a deserted island for 15 years — I knew after one episode that it wasn’t for me. Still, I persevered because Park Eun-bin generally plays strong characters and brings light to all her performances, and I wanted to see how the story would turn around. The answer was that it never did. Amidst the wildly unrealistic story was graphically realistic domestic abuse, and the further it went along, the more the central characters succumbed to the whims of the stalker plot and its male-lead mysteries — leaving its female lead as washed out as she was on that deserted island. If not for Park Eun-bin, I would have listened to my instinct and given this drama up early, rather than giving it my Bean of Disappointment.

alathe: So, to be clear, I do not consider this bean a mark of shame — quite the opposite. After all, to be disappointed, you have to have had high expectations. I outright adored the first two-thirds of Castaway Diva. It hit all the right beats: the characters were intensely lovable, the singing was gorgeous, and it made me weep on a once-per-episode basis. It really had that spark that makes you realize you’re watching something special! But the last few episodes soured that for me. The plot seemed tacked-on, the noble idiocy rife, and Mok-ha’s decisions felt bewildering in light of her previous characterization. Overall, it made for a frustrating end, because I’d stopped caring quite so much about our leads — despite, or perhaps because of, the fact that I’d cared so deeply before. There were plenty of shows this year that didn’t quite stick the landing, but this was the one that stayed with me. After all, the majority of it was so brilliant!

 
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A few dramas failed to live up to my expectations this year, but I'm gonna have to go with Heartbeat. It would have been amazing if it weren't for that ending

Otherwise I'm gonna say A Good Day to be a Dog, which I looked forward to for YEARS and am at the point where I'd probably drop it if I weren't such a big fan of its source material. I shouldn't find it so "meh" and yet I do

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I had put the dog drama on hold. May be I will watch till the kiss scene and drop 😂

I expect a whole flood of ‘heartbeat’ posts.

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The airing schedule has seriously hurt Dog. Like, weeks go by without airing, and the momentum is just lost. I cannot imagine for the life of me why the network would do this to their own drama, and I hope they never do it again.

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See You in My 19th Life-
From loving the show early on, to a lackluster middle and wondering what was the point of it all ending, the show surely can be called the biggest disappointment. I tried hard to make sense of it because I loved it so much early on.
Somehow I seemed to remember only the good parts until I saw this post and now that enough time has passed, I can confidently say it was disappointing.

Other dramas like Castaway Diva, Destined with you were disappointing for me but I was able to drop them quickly so it was alright.

Cdrama : Take Us home.
With a cast like this, the show just faltered with bad story telling. The leads can only do so much.
The writers chose to add every nonsensical trope and poor character writing as the show crossed mid point. By the end of it I didn’t care for any of the siblings.

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I was hesitant to all Destined With You since a lot of people seemed to have liked it. But I really struggled through it. Be it the writing, lack of chemstry between the leads, the obsessive SFL t was a bad watch

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After Matchmakers, I'm in a mood to watch Rowoon woo another lady, so I was thinking about watching Destined. Is it really THAT bad?

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This one has mixed reactions. But if it is to watch Rowoon, the king's affection, she will never know and extraordinary you are better options esp the first two.

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you already know who it is -> heartbeat

nothing to say that hasn't already been said SIGHS never have I been so gutted by an ending 🤡

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My biggest disappointment was HEARTBEAT. I liked most of it and even without the heartbreak ending I felt it lost it’s magic in the last third. The vampire premise that made the series so much was mostly sidelined. Instead we got unnecessary conflict from Hae-won who couldn’t take the hint when it was blatantly pointed out to her multiple times and CatMan who kept adding and changing the rules for no goddamn reason. Do-shik too was stuck in second lead purgatory. All this culminated into THAT ending which *sigh* made no sense, especially given In-hae’s character arc. She’s been abandoned all her life and just as she opens up and trusts Woo-hyeol he dies…wtf?!

Dishonourable Mentions:
BAD MOTHER
CRASH COURSE IN ROMANCE

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Poor Do-shik, second lead purgatory 🥲- this happened in a few shows this year and maybe needs to be added as a category.

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Yes! Hopefully it might be included as a category in the Beanie Awards Poll this year

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While it had elements I adored, the show that definitely disappointed me the most this year was My Dearest, in part because when it was at its best it was extraordinary. But then there was a whole lot of wheel spinning in the second half, followed by amnesia, than massive exposition dumps that should have happened many episodes earlier, followed by more amnesia, and yeah, by the end I felt like Ryang Eum endlessly pining for some sort of glorious closure that just wasn't going to happen.

I'll give an honorable mention to Alchemy of Souls which was often highly entertaining, but always circled back to safe and conventional (often with a side highly illogical) rather than letting its story go in directions that actually pushed boundaries or were uncomfortable or disturbing.

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Is it possible to give your bean of greatness *and* your bean of disappointment to the same show? I agree with your reasons (and then some) why My Dearest turned out disappointing. Yet, I still loved it (with some serious blinders/ffw'd in the second half) for its ambition and scale, for its social commentary, character arcs and some of the finest acting I've seen this year. To think what could have been if it stayed the course: One for the ages.

😢 for Ryang Eum and for us.

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Yeah, it wouldn't have disappointed me so much if it had been merely mediocre or bad. I will say though that I much prefer a show like this one that took risks and pushed boundaries even if it couldn't quite land the ending to a neat, tidy, unambitious one.

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I loved so much of My Dearest but I totally get what you mean and feel the same way about those parts too. If it had been mediocrely done I feel like the disappointing parts would have been less odd, I was more baffled because it continued to be brilliantly acted and shot, with genuine moments of character greatness, while it sort of half heartedly bounced along towards the ending after the most amazing first half. The most irritating thing was Ryang Eum's ending (especially with Yeon Joon still getting a reunion with Eun Ae after being completely useless) it wasn't even tragic, it was just pathetic. What was the point?

It almost felt like someone else started to push for random tropes and the writer had to keep folding them into the story. I think if it hadn't been for Namgoong Min and Ahn Eun Jin, it would have fallen even flatter for me, but they kind of kept me in till the end. I even felt many feelings when they finally met up, but the first half deserved so much more than most of that second half.

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I agree with @alathe that this bean happened because I have high expectation, yet something just doesn't work with the drama. My bean of disappointment this year was My Perfect Stranger.

Everything was perfect on paper, I was even engaging in long and lively discussion about the message and twisty plot of the drama. Yet, something inside it made this drama felt flat despite the great acting and should-be interesting mystery. It was baffling how I cried while watching it (the mom and dad story was just that touching), yet I barely remembered what happened in the majority of the drama. How I wish this drama found its oomph factor halway in, but sigh... What could have been, indeed.

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Yeah, it’s Heartbeat for me. I’ve never been so faked out by a drama (or maybe any other piece of media) in my life. I can forgive a tragic ending - when the show has done one single thing to prepare me for it. The cute promos and beginning gave me warm fuzzies and the lack of concrete rules comforted me that there would be some loophole to the tragic situation somewhere. I watched the credits rolling on the final episode still sure that I had missed something, still not quite accepting what they had done.

Now it’s easier to look back and remember what we loved about it and I still gave it a bean in the count, but I’m also giving it my bean of disappointment.

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I thought for sure I'd give this bean to Heartbeat. But I think in the end it didn't disappoint me as much as it shocked me. As the credits rolled, I also thought stunned, wait, what, surely that can't be it. Because like you said, we were left completely unprepared for *that* ending. (In fact, the writer went on record to say it's a drama that we can enjoy happily and cheerfully, one that'd give you the fun and cuteness needed to endure a hard week.) So I decided to give it my Bean of Drama Trauma instead!

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Ha! Bean of Trauma, very accurate 👏

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Ah yes, the Bean of Trauma - that's a very important addition to the bean canon.

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I was not at all shocked by the ending of Heartbeat. In fact I saw it coming half-way through. The beginning did give off warm fuzzies, yes, but the shift in the rules and the sudden shift in tone were giveaways.

But you know, I am more forgiving of the bad ending of this drama than some others, because it was clear from episode 8 that the writer intended that this drama would have a BIG theme, that she felt needed a sad ending to convey--the nature of humanness. You can't do that through happiness and laughter, no. That is not the nature of humanity. Its tragic sacrifice, and don't you forget it. If you aren't crying continuously, you aren't human!

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I have 2 Beans of Disappointment to give for 2 almost opposite reasons.

1. MY DEAREST: I had great expectations for it, it lived up to my expectations and exceeded them, and I fell hard for it—the acting, the cinematography, the story—and then Part 2 happened and the drama fell apart for me. The fall was long and hard, and the sloppiness of the Part 2 writing (was it because the writer ran out of good storylines after she stopped following Gone with the Wind, which she admitted to being “inspired by?”) felt like a betrayal of my affection for Part 1. Such great promise and execution in Part 1, such a huge letdown in Part 2.

2. THE REAL HAS COME: This show I had no expectations for and suddenly some interesting things were happening—a gutsy FL doing some interesting wacky things, e.g., wedding interruption, and some different storylines about what constitutes family—and I became invested. Then half way in, it all started to come off the rails. The FL got dumber and less of a spine, and the interesting secondary storylines disappeared. Why did you do that to me? You should have been dull to begin with if you were going to end that way.

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Heartbeat - it started really promising until the last couple of episodes. I really wanted to like this.

See You In My 19th Life - I was looking forward to this show since I read the webtoon. I had high hopes until well it arrived. Expectations for the full potential of the story was not met.

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I'm going with My Dearest for my Bean of Disappointment. First, if not for the month long break between part one and part two, I might have continued watching. But absence did not make my heart grow fonder. Perhaps, if I had not seen Gone with the Wind, I would not have felt this way and could have just enjoyed My Dearest for all its pretty scenes, actors and serious look at war and the particular harm that comes to women. But, I think My Dearest faltered in its reimagining of Scarlett, one of the greatest female characters in American cinema. Scarlett sizzled with desire. I just did not get that from the My Dearest characters, and that is what was missing for me. My Dearest captured the need to survive but not the desire to live. In contrast, I can still picture Scarlett wearing a mourning dress while dancing embracing the need to survive and that desire to live in one moment.

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Although it is not a fun topic this is where DB renders a real service, alerting people to those shows which start well- sometimes extremely well- but then go South at the midpoint or somewhere beyond. These shows truly do disappoint, unlike a show which is a stinker to start with, because you can easily identify that and drop the show.

My clear 'winner' in this category was a really easy call: The weekender THE REAL HAS COME had such an excellent concept that it should have been one of the best. That it was almost as bad as REVOLUTIONARY SISTERS (which, thankfully, I was able to drop) cannot be blamed only upon the writer. It was apparent as we went along that many blades killed this show in the drama equivalent of the death of Julius Ceasar on The Ides Of March.

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Thanks for a visual that gave me more entertainment than that show did. 👏

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You are welcome and I know exactly what you mean.

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Oh dear me - so may disappointment beans. Bora, Crash Course, Feel Touch, Boxer, Dearest 2, 19th Life last third, King the Junho. Speaking of slogging through bad shows lets acknowledge ..... oh wait I don't want to dredge those dramas up.
Let us all light candles on whatever altar we choose that we will have 12 ep shows, tightly written with NEW tropes that make us laugh and feel and think.

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The biggest sting would have to be Heartbeat because it wasn't until we got to the very end of the show and we were all blindsided by "that" ending which no one could have predicted.

The most disappointing overall for me would be split between My Dearest and See You In My 19th Life as they both started out so strongly, gorgeous cinematography, excellent production, amazing acting but then their respective characters were let down with the writing/storylines.
While I'm still glad I watched them they are both tinged with a bittersweet regret for what could've been.

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I have a bean of disappointment that I know no one else has, but I don't know why, except that everyone thought the show had a happy ending because the main family ended up rich. That is Twinkling Watermelon, which in my opinion, up to the last episode was really great, without a false step,

But then in the last episode, let me list its flaws, and if anyone thinks they can counter these, please, answer me, because I am willing to be convinced but nothing I've read so far is convincing:

1. It left uncovered two stories, the stories of the deaf parents just prior to their marriage, and, more unforgivingly in my book, the story of the female lead. What happened to her and her Mom. WE DON"T KNOW AND NEVER WILL!

2. After making the point that the protagonist could NOT alter the main timeline (that is the father becoming deaf) it HAD the protagonist alter the main timeline (that is the main story of the family, because his actions made the family rich.)

3. It put the protagonist back in his present, IN A PRESENT HE DIDN'T RECOGNIZE. All the memories that he had, that were essential to his understanding of his parents and their hardships, WERE TOTALLY ERASED. Now, to me, that is kind of a nightmare scenario, far more nightmarish than being put back in the past. In fact, following through in the future, I could see the ML being locked up in an asylum as psychotic, because he kept remembering things that didn't happen-- he had changed the timeline. Being locked up would exactly mirror his Mom's circumstances as a child. A happy ending? I think not!

4. After the ML hard-learned lesson that he personally wasn't responsible, that his parents were extremely resilient and capable, it was his actions in the past that totally changed their lives. So it TOTALLY UNDERMINED this lesson. He WAS totally responsible. His actions made them rich, which was the key facet of the new reality.

5. It completely undermined the theme, that deaf people were capable and not handicapped, and replaced it with a new theme: you need someone who hears to go back in the past and make deaf people happier.

6. Finally, the happy ending was that if you are rich, you'll be happier than if you are poor. Yeah, sure, as if I needed a kdrama to tell me that.

I wouldn't be running on about this disappointment, if I hadn't liked the show so much until the last episode--so in that way, to me it was a model of a bean of disappointment.

But please, if you think differently, if you liked this show as I did and were satisfied with the ending, explain to me why, and maybe you can, at the very least, diminish my disappointment!

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Oh no this is on my list to watch soon. I’ve only read praises for this drama. Thanks to your comment I might skip the last episode and save myself the disappointment!

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Oh no, please don't take my comment as a reason not to watch it!!!
As I said I am alone in my disappointment in the ending, and up to the last episode its really good!

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Definitely worth a watch. I think the reception of the ending leaned more positive, but also mixed. It really can be viewed both ways - 1. the weird, uncomfortable, and unintentional messaging about how being rich resolves everything and 2. the magical reward for the family's love and endurance that wonhwa pointed out. I was disappointed the first time around experiencing the ending since I picked up on the first message more immediately and the pace was moving too fast to think. But then at peace with it the second watch of the ending where I watched it through the lens of the magical nature of the time travelling premise and just leaning into the feels of just living up your youth and being yourself.

The ending that caused mixed feelings was really just the last 20 minutes I think. There were some amazing moments in the first 40 minutes of the final episode.

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I know this is tiresome, so sorry for harping on it, but I have to just say that given that the overall tone of the series, and most of this episode was NOT magical realism, but rather a funny and moving ode to understanding what one's parents experienced and how it shaped one's life, I remain unconvinced by the argument that the ending was just magical realism.
If the ending was intended to be magical realism, why show the young Dad, having lost his hearing on the roof of the hospital building, ready to commit suicide earlier in the episode?
And I'll just say it one more time, to me Eun Gyeol had learned a great lesson about his parents youthful struggles and the fact that just because he was the hearing member of the family didn't mean that he needed to do everything for them. - and the show, after having brought the character to that point really nicely, had him do everything for them, by changing the past so that his parents would not struggle as a married couple. So the lesson he learned was totally unnecessary and beside the point.
Anyway, thanks for yours and @wonhwa's attempts to provide reasons for me to like the last episode, I appreciate the efforts, although it still greatly weakened the show for me.

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I get why the ending wouldn't work for everyone and I think it was kept short because if you start thinking too hard about the details of who might remember what/have experienced what you get a giant logical mess (the same could be said for the time travel mechanics of the show in general though). But again, I don't think this was a show that had any interest in doing a scientific study of how time travel might actually work. It's a show that's exploring what might happen if a parent and child who are struggling to understand each other had a magical way to meet on equal footing. The fantasy framework also allows us as the audience to experience both versions of the characters' lives and so those journeys are "real" to us, even if they "vanish" for some of the characters.

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While I agree that the return to the present felt rushed and for once I would have preferred a longer denouement that allowed us to see how/if Eun Yu's family had changed as well, I was okay with the rest of it for several reasons. First, it clearly felt like a tongue-in-cheek homage to Back to the Future which the show had been obviously riffing on since the beginning. Also, the show had made it abundantly clear that that wealth in and of itself was zero guarantee of happiness, and in the original timeline, Cheong Ah had clearly cut all ties with her rich father on her own accord and never looked back. For me, what changed in the "new" present was not so much the money, but the relationships - Yi Chan's happiness in present 2.0 wasn't about his wealth but about the fact that he kept his friends close rather than shutting them out after the accident, and continued to pursue his own dreams rather than trying to live vicariously through his sons. And Eun Gyeol had the maturity and insight to help his parents in the past precisely because they had raised him with so much love and care in the original present - he wasn't a magic deus ex machina dropped in out of nowhere to "save" them - he was the result of the fact that Yi Chan and Cheong Ah broke the cycle of trauma, abuse and neglect they inherited from their parents on their own, and despite all the hardships they faced, raised two awesome kids. To me, the glitz and glamour of the final moments read not as "you need to be rich to be happy" but as a kind of metaphorical, magical drama reward to good people for doing good things in the world.

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But what about the lesson that Eun Gyeol presumably learned as a result of his time travel, recognizing that the conflict with his Dad (which precipitated his time travel and then was TOTALLY ignored in the conclusion) was because he didn't realize how his Dad's experiences had shaped his Dad's perspective in a wise way? That lesson was also totally ignored!

Also, in the two timelines, they raised two awesome kids because Eun Gyeol had freed them. They were happy, wealthy, with everybody's approval. So they didn't experience ANY hardship as a married couple. Every hardship that Eun Gyeol no longer existed in the changed timeline.

Basically, it was the total LACK of metaphor which bugged me. I would have been happy if the time travel had been totally metaphorical (as the guitar teacher/magical music shop owner actually suggested, using the word metaphor. Instead, it and the changes that EunGyeol made were literal. There was nothing metaphorical about it!

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Sorry--typed too hastily. I meant to say that every hardship that Eun Gyeol experienced no longer existed in the new timeline. That meant that the reason he learned guitar in the initial timeline didn't exist.
I'll take your point about Back to the Future, but in my opinion, this had a slightly more complex theme than back to the future. It had already paid enough homage to that film.

I want to be clear I don't expect absolute consistency in time travel fantasy! But I do want some consistency in the theme of the time travel! It would have been SO much better had Eun Gyeol's Dad reached out to his friends, AFTER Eun Gyeol returned, as if his Dad realized based on his conflict with Eun Gyeol, what the band had meant to him--but also maybe even hinting that Eun Gyeol's time travel was not completely metaphorical, and HAD slightly changed things.

Regardless of the Eun-gyeol/Father resolution, I think the total neglect of Eun yoo/Se-kyung's story's conclusion was unforgiveable given how much time was spent on it.

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And Eun Gyeol had the maturity and insight to help his parents in the past precisely because they had raised him with so much love and care in the original present this is such a beautiful interpretation! We're on the same page about views on the ending, but you encapsulated what I also felt so beautifully so had to come here to say as much 👏 👏👏

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The ending didn't kill the show for me, but I never before felt that a happy ending put a damper on my enjoyment. I just expected something different and a different payoff. That the lessons he learned meant something.

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I liked Twinkling Watermelon and I didn't mind the ending in the ways you mentioned but I did feel weird about them ending up rich. It was predictable, sure but it just didn't seem like what needed to be their ending for them to be happy. Like maybe they could just have a chain a chicken shops instead of just the one but still worked at one haha. Again, it's predictable and it makes total sense but it also feels weird at the same time haha.

I don't think the message is "they're rich so now they're happy", I think it was just a logical place in the writer's opinion since Cheong Ah comes from money and Yi Chan ended up also having access to money and education he otherwise wouldn't have.

The emphasis was never on the romantic relationships, it was Eun Gyeol and Yi Chan. First as father and son and then the bromance. Even during promotions, it's those actors, together, who are doing the majority of the press.
So, it's not surprising that there wasn't a focus on the parents' life after Eun Gyeol's journey to the past.

I really don't get how your takeaway could be the hearing guy made everyone happier because it's not like they were miserable in the first place. Yeah, circumstances changed for the better because Cheong Ah didn't leave her family & Yi Chan didn't leave his friends but it's not like that was Eun Gyeol's intention. It was a side effect.

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I loved this show. I did not in any way feel that the ending meant "if you're rich, you're happy." The parents were relatively happy in the original timeline, despite being poor. Instead, the important thing they gained in the end was not money, but a continued relationship with the mom's dad (something both of them wanted very much, only the evil abusive stepmom/teacher was in the way in the original timeline). The son was able to give Yi Chan confidence and the will to get through his deafness as well, so that he also kept his relationship with his friends. It was the people and their continued relationships that made such a huge difference in the end. As a result of his efforts in the past, the son was also able to finally live his own life in the present and not have to worry so much about taking care of his parents when he was essentially still a kid. So to me, money had zero to do with the storyline at all. In the end, the main point to me wasn't about deafness (though that was an external element) and it wasn't about money. It was about love and about healing relationships.

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I haven’t watched this show but number 5 is hard to “explain away” no matter the amount of mental gymnastics. Ugh, this so common in a bad kdrama — to try and get across a theme, only to get it undermined by the actual plot, lol

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I agree with you on your first point, the ending left out some important history for this family! I disagree with you for # three though: I never got the impression that he had forgotten anything he'd experienced. He remembered everything and was amazed at the changes, and he remembered his girlfriend who he found in the last moments. Your fourth point, I felt that wealth had less to do with the ending than relationships: repairing the father daughter one and maintaining the band friendships. They weren't happier than before because of money, as they had been happy without. And your 5th point I also saw differently. I was pleased that the dad was not magically able to avoid being deaf, like so many dramas do in "curing" the disability or in this case preventing it. Instead in the present timeline the parents are both deaf AND successful, versus deaf, unable to find meaningful careers and therefore poor, and needing to rely on family (son) without the means to hire regular interpreters. Now they have jobs they love and are independent from relying on their hearing son. I liked seeing the deaf parents as successful leaders as well as happy.

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He remembered everything in the OLD TIMELINE. but what his family experienced in the NEW TIMELINE. That he had not experienced. So that is why whenever his family would say "do you remember" he would have to say no, again and again. Even the songs the band had learned in the new timeline he wouldn't know.
Also, what really bothered me is that the ending implied that in the Old timelines they had NOT been successful, even though they were happily married and had raised two decent sons. They were leaders in that sense!
But, in the end I think it just comes down to what one thinks the moral should have been. I liked the moral taught in the first 15 episodes. It didn't require time travel, but used time travel as a way to understand the father and family (and the mother). I didn't like the moral the best thing you can do is time travel to change everything. One is fantasy with the lesson, the other is just fantasy.

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Ok I get what you're saying. I do think the ending could have done a better job of demonstrating the parents' journey and the son's enlightenment. But overall I liked it, I love time travel stories. There are way too many Kdramas where the person with a disability is either helpless and dependent or cured and therefore happy by the end that I appreciated the positive representation here. The bar needs to continue to raise but it's moving in the right direction.

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Totally agree! I don't think we are really that different in our interpretation. I just think I'm a lot crankier than you are!

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Yes. My Entire Year.

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My "Beans" of disappointment go to
#1 Family Unbreakable Bond It was a long awaited one. The two Jangs are reunited and I can't get myself through 10 min of the show. I completed the first two episodes with lots of effort and then dropped it like a hot potato and never returned back. It is such a pity.
#2 Our Blooming Youth
The mystery was intriguing but what with repeating the same observation each single episode until the penultimate week. White hair White hair White hair I got sick of it. The drama was good as 12-16 episodes but making it into 20 episodes was a bad decision.
#3 See You In My 19th life
I got swimming pool trauma from this one. If we cut down on Seo-ha's brooding swimming pool scenes, we would get a lot of time that would have been better dedicated to character development. And Ji-eum being pushy even after learning about Seo-ha's trauma and her insistence on living as Jo-won got on my nerves. The visuals were one to remember but the writing was flat.
#4 Cast Away Diva
I am sorry to say that more than the writing, it is Eun-bin's voice in dialect that put me off. The writing had its flaws as well esp spending the major time with Woo-hak and then springing it on me that he isn't Ki-ho. Some might disagree but I felt like the show forced me to believe Mok-ha was interested in Bo-gyeol all along while I feel she only got attracted to him after learning he was Ki-ho. And there was too much abuse scenes and the dad remained unrecyclable trash till the end.
#5 Heartbeat
When you you everyone rooting for you and then give them lazy writing for the second half and then tie all of this in a disappointing ending bow.
The list can go on but I will cut it with these 5 shows

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I think there also could be a category for the character that most needed a psychologist or mental health professional but was severely let down by everyone surrounding them - Seo-ha would rate highly. Poor ABY spending half of his shoot at the bottom of a swimming pool.
I also thought Ji-emu was far too pushy.
The visuals were beautiful though. Sigh…

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Probably Call It Love. I was missing Kim Young Kwang so much and that show was so boring.

And then he went on to play 2 villain roles which I'm never watching. Sigh.

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Oh dear...

There were lots of shows that weren't great, but to truly earn this Bean a show should be something that I really really looked forward to -- BEFORE IT STARTED. Heartbeat for example started well and tanked but it doesn't qualify because I didn't have any really expectations in advance.

In fact very few shows qualify because I rarely expect anything except that I'll try it and see.

So...
Lovely Liar qualifies because I really look forward to KSH shows and it wasn't all that great (although she came thru).
I also had high hopes for Castaway and 19th Life and was slightly disappointed, but not enough for them to "win" this contest.
Samdal-ri & Maestra deserve mention for boring me into dropping within a hour, but my expectations weren't quite high enough.

But the "winner" is ------ Alchemy of Souls 2, because I really liked s1 but s2 seemed just so-so. I should have known better than to have such high expectations of any season 2, but...

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to truly earn this Bean a show should be something that I really really looked forward to -- BEFORE IT STARTED

Yes, that is why I chose Call It Love. The other non-loved shows I either watched and didn't have any strong feelings for, or easily dropped.

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Unfortunately I have several dramas fighting for this position.

My Dearest Part 2 ..Part 1 was fine, certainly I was waiting for the second half. Part 2 was a Joseon Era Dumpster Fire . A double shot of amnesia, please !

Heartbeat CatMan and Curses. Watch Out Cocoa ! @ GDTBAD

Heavenly Idol Not that I expected much of this show. I did expect some decent songs, (something that Castaway Diva managed)
Seaweed Sprite as the Ultimate Evil was MST3K level bad. .

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Actually, this wasn’t a disappointment, it was betrayal. While other disappointing dramas went downhill — or at least showed the signs — earlier on, See You in My 19th Life Trolley was consistent. Until it wasn’t.
Thanks Unit for finding the right worlds so I do not go on and on about this.
This is exactly how I felt about Trolley. No less, there's more.
I have no issues with them unmasking a supposedly cool character that I came to love and had used to set a pedestal for romances for the year. This one set the bar so high and stooped so low. To descend to the extent they did, it was very much intentionally shady and clearly not what I could be cool with anymore, the message they were trying to pass across be damned. At least Pandora had the same male lead characterization(irredeemable) and not in any way did it feel or appear like Trolley did. Trolley was intentionally shady to the point where I felt betrayed.

Coming close first is Crash Course In Romance. As if what they did with Royal Consort Ji was not enough, the writer-pd team caved into the clamor and cries and tantrums and whines of the domestic viewers to make Chi-yeol address Nam Haeng-soon as Noona. It was a huge disappointment to see them cave, in the finale week.

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Throwing in another Heartbeat post. I go into most dramas cautiously, but I went into heartbeat with lower than usual expectations. Thing looked sort of cheap. Then it won me over with nailing the slapstick while being capable of carrying emotional weight. OTP had a wonderful slow burn. Then in the last 6 episodes, it decided all characters should be a shadow of their former selves and made sure to hit all the worst kdrama cliches from over a decade ago along while throwing in random life-or-death rules. Stuck around for a happy ending. Surely, my dedication would not be in vain, right? Then they killed off the male lead. And he stayed dead.

Disappointment because it convinced me to love it and the stabbed me in the back.

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"And he stayed dead." lol that's really the key point, isn't it? Like, we can forgive a temp death. It's called a k-DRAMA after all. But then you gotta walk that shit back some way--ANY way--so we can have our HEA!

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In the 2020 DDSSLLS, they killed off the male lead and then walked it back in the most nonsensical way like 5 years after his "death" in the last few minutes, and it wasn't even a fantasy drama.

Why couldn't they have done it here?

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So true. The fact that it was a fantasy drama essentially gave the writers a "get out of tragedy free" card and they didn't even bother to use it!

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Oof lot's of disappointments this year but my bean's going to UNCANNY COUNTER 2. I had so much love for the first season... The 2-year wait was definitely not worth it. Sigh.

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This one was definitely a runner-up for me. The new "country pumpkin" character alone was enough to killed most of my affection for it. Oof.

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All the more disappointing because I actually like Yoo In-soo.

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Me too!

(Also just noticed it autocorrected from "bumpkin" to "pumpkin" lol.)

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He is cute as a pumpkin. 🎃 😍

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So very true. Even Su-mun's relationship with his friends and their characterization which was almost a linchpin in S1 felt off in S2.

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It's really hard to narrow this one down to a single disappointment.

Our Blooming Youth wasted the talents of its fantastic cast with a subpar script and production.

I was excited about the premise of Bora Deborah but was appalled at the actual presentation.

I wasn't even planning to watch Heartbeat, got sucked in by the early episodes, and was dumbfounded at the genre bait-and-switch.

See You in My 19th Life almost kicked Shin Hye-Sun off my list of fave actresses.

Don't even get me started on The Real Has Come. They should be paying viewers for the time they wasted on it.

Castaway Diva had many issues, already handily discussed above.

So who gets the bean?

If I go by @LordCobol's criteria (and it's a fine one), the drama that I was most looking forward to - and that let me down wholly and completely - was King the Land. Rather than ranting about it though, I will simply award it my Bean of Disappointment for 2023.

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Bora Deborah- I feel sorry for Yoo In ah, what a waste of her talents. She deserves a better show next year, we don't get to see her enough on the screen.

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Agree - coming from the angle of "disappointing", King the Land for me too. I had such high expectations and I love Junho, but this couldn't save me from being bored of the camera adoring him instead of giving us an actual plot. It was a true disappointment.

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For me, the disappointment in KtL occurred when Junho agreed to star in it. I'd had high expectations for "whatever his next drama is" until it was announced. The promos gave me a few moments of hope that he - and the show - could rise above the pedestrian plot, but those were dashed in the first or second episode.

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All of Junho's "smiles" and "suits" could not put KTL together again. Sigh.

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Poor Humpty.

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Me too, I almost kicked Shin Hye Sun off my list of favourite actresses!!
As My 19th life progressed I was more and more wondering if I could still rave about her!
Now I have forgotten most of it and I'm again looking forward to watching her play.

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Heartbeat no contest. I grew up in the era where vampire romances were huge so I was really excited to dive back into some cheesy old-school nostalgia. Plus, there was Taecyeon as the lead and a heroine that was billed as no-nonsense and competent. These are all my favorite things! And the first half did keep to most of its initial promises, even if the FL seemed to be reading all her lines through ventriloquy, and even if I found both the supporting leads to be irritating, and the “curse” made no sense, and all the magic felt made up as it went along, I was STILL having fun with it…

But then it’s like all the writers threw up their hands in the second half, along with every plotline and character development and bit of sense they’d struggled to maintain, and just let it all rain down where it may. I had a laundry list of gripes by the end, and that’s not to mention THAT ENDING. I’m not a fan of open-ended dramas, but this one wasn’t even TRYING to at least make the ambiguity intriguing. It was lazy, it was bad, and everyone who spent 16 hours watching this drama deserved better.

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My Bean of Disappointment goes to Our Blooming Youth for reasons that are as much to do with me as with the show. As many others have pointed out, expectations are the root of disappointment. It’s the first and only time I’ve seen Park Hyung-shik as a lead in a full-length drama and I had high hopes of seeing why so many viewers praise him (his looks, I can see for myself). I also have extremely limited tolerance for the trappings of sageuks, especially gats, so I had to overcome that personal aversion and make the effort not to be fatally distracted. And I have a particularly hard time buying into a woman pretending to be a eunuch both for practical reasons and because dramas can’t NOT let them be too pretty, well-groomed, and feminine to be believed - but the show promised that disguise as a vehicle for romance as well as suspense. Alas, the show wasted PHS’s romantic potential and my patience with Joseon headgear and politics. I didn’t actively dislike OBY until near the end, when it became clear it was going to stay focused on its trivial mystery, keep the FL in eunuch drag far beyond any reasonable limit, and underperform on the romance. The gorgeous scenery and costumes and some fabulous action sequences just rubbed salt in the wound – I expected so much more return for my effort and it fell flat.

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And it first read it very quickly as Our Glooming Youth. 🥲🥲

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I don’t think the title ever made any sense.

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Sometimes, I do wonder how native speakers feel reading something in English that doesn’t really make sense..

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Well my first thought as native was to imagine an ancient old poet with a long beard writing about the exploits of his long lost teenage years, a kind of Joseon 'Stand by Me'.

My next and almost immediate thought was "what a naff* title".

*adj.

Chiefly British Slang
Unstylish, clichéd, or outmoded (definition from The Free Dictionary - though I would also add 'cheesy', 'stale' and 'unimaginitive'.

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@kaddicted Ahh thanks for the info! 😁 I think I can imagine that. 🫢

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A more appropriate title than the one they gave us.

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I was half considering watching OBY (I need a Sageuks, bad!) Despite it's lukewarm first impression. Thank you for making my decision easier.

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Crash Course in Romance.

Honorable mentions: every single weekender of the year. From 3 dumb siblings to When the f are you going to start living your own life.

If it wasn't because the "theme" of this year is family, and my Unpredictable Family is on fire, I wouldn't have been able to get my "family-drama dosis" of the 2023. I couldn't finish one single weekender this year. Not one. Yikes.

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‘3 dumb siblings’👈🏾😆 yes that sums that one up. I was so disappointed in that weekender and I wish there had been a hangout to discuss my frustrations.

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Yeah, it would've been great to have a "weekend support group" while watching that show. 😂

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2023 was the year of trailers that advertised dramas I wanted to see then provided the exact opposite. Honourable mentions, Family: unbreakable bonds, The good bad mother, Strangers again and Bora Deborah, two of which I could watch and enjoy despite the gap between expectations and the reality and two I dropped because it was a Grand Canyon that could not be crossed.

The one that wins the Bean though is Crash course in romance the murder and toxic mothers were so extreme it was like watching three different dramas and these two elements are on my don’t watch list as part of my self care non negotiables.

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Maybe that is why I feel much less disappointment than most Beanies. I never watch trailers and try not to read news and synopsis very carefully. I just decide what to watch next based on the actors, genre, anything, watch one or two episodes and decide to continue or not.

The only time I get too excited beforehand is when I'm missing a particular actor. Which doesn't happen many times a year.

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I don't watch trailers either, or even pay much attention to what's coming. I only know when advance fanfare begins a week or so before landing. Because of that any vitriol from me is absolutely earned because I didn't have any hopes to be dashed.

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My experience of 2023 was exactly like that! Perhaps I'll try @midnight's approach for 2024. But can I do it? I don't know. I'm kind of addicted to trailers and synopses. 🤔

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There was a large disconnect between how dramas were advertised, and what they were actually about this year. I got lucky in that the two I can think of ended up being a lot more than I had expected (in a good way). But I can't help wondering, what dramas did I give a pass to that I would have loved, but the promo hinted at something else?

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I love that you have a list of things you don’t watch as part of your self care! Boundaries are so important everywhere.

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I think the disappointing thing is the wasted potential so that's how I chose my choice. I don't think I went into any drama this year with expectations (and if I did, I don't remember) but when I was watching this drama, I was thinking "this is a cool take in showing this world" and then it just went weird. It didn't even go sideways, just totally weird. Any guesses about the drama I'm referring to?

Answer: The Heavenly Idol.
When I saw it on a list of biggest flops and/or disappointments of the year, it saddened me cause I didn't think it was *that* bad (like people were saying it's embarrassing/sad that this was the lead actor's last project before his enlistment) but when I remember the wasted potential, that's what makes me sigh and think "what ifs". What if the season was longer? What if they focused more on the satire (or whatever that was) about idol life? What if they didn't include weird cults? What if the reaper character was used differently? What if they didn't add a seaweed queen?

I get that it was fantasy and they had to give hows and whys but oh the execution!

I did find it funny when the two Rembarys met and everyone's reaction to it. Oh, what could have been.

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I'm going to have to go with Castaway Diva. I wanted to know more of how our castaway diva spent her years on that island, all alone while dreaming of stardom (or something along those lines). But no. Instead, the majority of the time was spent on an abusive dangerous parent, a has-been singer, and her agency's jerk ceo. This was the year's show that was an absolute chore to get through. So unfortunate this was the case.

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I agree with See You in My 19th Life but more than the drama, for me, it was Shin Hye-Sun who was disapointing in this drama. I think she was miscasted. First, her character needed to look younger to make the difference between the age of her body and the age of her soul and the ML's age more obvious. Otherwise, I think I prefer her in sad/dark roles than comedy. I like the direction and the ML. The second couple was cute at the beginning but too childish-ed portrayed at the end...

King The Land was disapointing too. It was the perfect rom-com on paper but at the end, it was just a big PPL with pretty actors, everything was too superficial. Surprisly, I prefered Yoona in this role than Junho.

I was disapointed by the big productions like Vigilante, Worst than Evil, Moving that focused on violence and direction instead of character's development and background story.

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Wait, just one? You must be joking, I need a whole human-sized sack of these to be fair! Or just give 1 giant bean to 2023 as a kdrama year, that'll work too. But a sack is better. Dishonorable bean-owners:

ISLAND: What a waste of a gorgeous cast and fun premise.
KKOKDU SEASON OF DEITY: Couldn't KJH have a decent comeback show? I'm not asking for much, it could've just suck a little less!
OUR BLOOMING YOUTH: Again, waste of cast (mainly PHS) and premise. Can't believe it took A YEAR to film - and for what exactly?
THE HEAVENLY IDOL: KMK and first 4 episodes deserved better than what followed.
HEARTBEAT: I was wise enough to drop it before things went really downhill, but still, what the hell, show?!
SEE YOU IN MY 19TH LIFE: Can't say I've had very high hopes for this one, but surely it didn't look as a big disaster it ended up being at the first glance.
MY DEAREST: Now here I truly expected better from this writer. Disappointment is too much of a nice word to describe my feelings about the show. You've had all the ingredients to make a cult classic, why did you have to kill it with hellfire midway?
Does this count if I was so put off by ARTHDAL CHRONICLES: THE SWORD OF ARAMUN cheap ass promo materials that I've yet to watch it? LJG, I'll love you twice as hard in some other show, OK?

Cdramas have a clear winner tho - LOVE YOU SEVEN TIMES. Thank heavens I didn't read the source material or I'll probably be even more unhappy with the show. For a show that high key advertised itself as a sillier but no less cute/pretty little sister of LBFAD it was terrible in terms of pretty much everything. Trailers were miles better than the real thing, just stick to them *sigh*

Special "Pls rot in hell for your sins against art" award goes to Chinese censorship that effed up the last arc and ending of TTEOTM. The latter also partially a responsibility of writers whom I'll make sure to avoid in the future out of spite. 10K years of grudge is a piece of cake for me too!

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Wow, now that I know it took a year to film "Our Blooming Youth" I'm even more disappointed. It wasn't a bad drama, of course, but it pretty much epitomizes wasted potential. The story was rich, the actors had chemistry, it was beautifully shot, but it just got less interesting and compelling as it went on. And it absolutely earns the "Wasted Romantic Potential" bean. It could have been epic! But instead, it barely attained lift-off, even after 18 (or was it 20?) hours!

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Apparently PD wanted to "capture all 4 seasons' beauty" which is why it took so long... but it didn't reflect properly in a drama itself, did it? I remember summer fields/forest during that one episode and a bit of spring in finale, but other than that - nah.

Romantic potential wasted - yes, absolutely! It's ridiculous how show tried to sell us so much pining with so little actual romance.

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I'm combining through my brain to recall the different seasons. I remember some running through long grass but that's about it!

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Also in the original source material (Chinese historical/mystery novel “THE GOLDEN HAIRPIN” by Qinghan CeCe) the story was setup for a sequel and that is where I believe the romance would have really developed. OBY was a big disappointment for me.

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Distancing this much from the source material was a mistake, sinophobic controversy or not. Currently ongoing APOTHECARY DIARIES anime looks more like a proper adaptation despite being a totally unrelated IP lmao. Btw, I'd love to see this one made into a cdrama someday - once TV regulations get a bit more lax to give a justice to harem setup and lead characters.

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To be disappointed, one needs to have expectations... I have learned that having expectations is the fastest way to not appreciate a drama. So I try to limit my expectations.

I was expecting to enjoy Choi Jin Hyuk in Numbers. But I could not withstand this drama. All that should have worked for me was obliterated by unsufferable L.

I had no plan to watch See you in my 19th life. But the rare review of the beginning and general beanies enthousiams made me revise my position and go on this boat. That sunk in the pool. I'm not sure what went wrong. It was ok and then everything deviated a little bit and it finished off tracks.

I have a special bean of disappointment for My lovely liar male lead. I am not part of the crew that he impressed in Alchemy of souls, but I went in to try to see what others saw in him. I have stopped searching in vain. At least this drama made me notice Seo Ji Hoon, so not a total failure ?

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Disappointment.. hmm.. this is quite difficult.

To be disappointed in something you first need to have some expectations of it. So I’d say I’d give BoD to The Real Has Come. Because it seemed to start off so well (I.e., Beans gushing), I started it after the others. Now because Netflix released its eps slower than the rest of the globe in my region, I got warnings that I should just wait and see how the show would turn out because there were signs that things would derail soon. And voila! Things did and I stopped and never went back.

This is a disappointment because I thought the first few eps were kinda fun and addictive regardless of how soapy it all was.

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This year has been a year of disappointing endings. The list of dramas to earn this bean is rather long, but if there is one drama that really disappointed me was KING THE LAND.

A lame script, non existent plot, in-your-face PPL, humour that fell flat, and all of this with Jun-ho! The frequent recommendations that the drama can be very enjoyable by watching with 'the brain turned off' makes it an uncontested winner of this bean. Any drama that requires me to watch brain-dead deserves that.

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I logged in after 109710948198 years just so I could upvote this, last line in particular.

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Welcome back👋 hope you can pop in now and again to share your thoughts.

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Yes, that last line is gold 🤣

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Oh, I am touched. I hope you'll be back more often.

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Waee?? I had a pretty good time watching The King Eternal PPL like a fairy tale. 😅

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There were so many disappointing dramas, some I just stopped watching and some I finished. A bunch have been listed, some I even forgot about.

Bora!Deborah
King the Land
See you in my 19th life
Kokkdu(I should have known when they removed a k)
All the sequels and season 2s
Destined with you
The matchmakers
There are a bunch more I simply cannot recall right now, but man was there a lot this year.

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I think my Bean of Disappointment is going to be carefully crushed and sprinkled on pretty much every S2 that underwhelmed. The Uncanny Counter, Poong, DP, Taxi Driver, TOT9T. There were things that were good, or even very good, about most of them (except you, Poong...), but not one of them lived up to the magic of the original. Please stop this trend, writers - alas, that's me howling into a hurricane...

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We often lament that k-drama series short-change character development by having too many tangental story lines and not enough run time to tell them all. But there is one type of show format that has the ability to shine with an ensemble cast and many story lines: the weekender.

My Bean of Disappointment goes to KBS. Its 2023 Weekend series (THREE BOLD SIBLINGS, THE REAL HAS COME and LIVE YOUR OWN LIFE) have been terrible; too long and dumb to hate watch. But in the past there have been several great shows. That is why that entire time slot is so disappointing.

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In the past, I really loved Ojakgyo Brothers and My Golden Life.

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The Real has Come. I expected makjang. I expected OTT acting. It started well. I liked most all the characters, except one in particular who wasn’t as evil as she should have been, but she was evil enough to be super annoying. But it promised to be something it ended up not being. It was supposed to show us modern paths to parenthood and what it means to be a family. Instead, we got the same paternalistic approach and a shoehorned lost daughter with grandchildren and a birth secret that no one cared about. It was a dumpster fire by the end. The original couple whose chemistry started well, fizzled by the end with all the nonsense around them.

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The Real Has Come was disappointing. I bailed around Ep 10 or so. I wanted to watch for FL, the script was horrible.
Similar to Live Your Own Life. Tune in for Uee and get a wonky script .

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I bailed around the same as you thanks to warnings from some Beans.

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See You In My 19th Life, King The Land, and My Dearest Part 2.

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I feel like *See you in my 19th life* is going to win as the worst this year LOL I don't even believe in reincarnation but I was going along fro the ride because: Shin Hye Sun + Ahn Bo Hyun. BUT! I couldn't stand Hye Sun's character in the present, she's too aggressive. Like, you can't force someone to like/love you, you gotta worm your way into their heart LOL

*The Good Bad Mother* was awful! Just awful! The twins were adorable. The Canadian (?) guy trying to speak Korean was cute. I liked the mysterious possibly-yakuza wife who always had a skincare mask on to hide her face. But everything else was just terrible!

Was looking forward to watching *Heartbeat* but seems like nobody liked it, so I dunno.

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I can't express enough, Beanies, how much I appreciate what everyone has written. I thought I was the only one disappointed with some of the more popular shows. It's helped me move from disappointment to fulfillment! The only show that I think hasn't been mentioned yet is OH! YOUNGSIM, otherwise you've got me covered.

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You are so right, that really was terrible and I am ashamed to say I still watched it to the end because it was a time when there was hardly anything on so it was just a time killer and I needed the Bean! However, I don't think anyone went in with high expectations so it was not a disappointment it was just as expected. I think it got ratings so low they were not registering at one point.

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One show that failed me big time was Not Others. I poured out my dissapointment with Moving on my wall, but it actually meant one thing; I at least cared about the show despite its flaws and my reservation on certain aspects of it.
The same thing can't be said about Not Others. I didn't even care to rant. It was too much of a let down for me story wise.

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I forgot about "Not Others," but I completely agree that it was very disappointing. It started out as a wonderful surprise but I hated the lack of growth for the mom and the fact that those around her were forced to subvert their own need for recognition and respect to suit her emotional desires.

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Exactly. We expected too much obviously.

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It's almost the end of the year and i don't remember why I dropped some of the dramas that people enjoyed very much like King The Land, Behind Your Touch, The Worst of Evil, A Good Day To Be A Dog and The Matchmaker.

I had so many disappointments all through the year but my current disappointment is Moon in the Day which I just completed today. 14 episodes with too many repetitive stories and the same flashbacks, BUT despite of the boring storylines, I patiently waited till the end.. and kind of rolling my eyes furiously when it ended with a tragic ending (them meet again in another cycle of life as students don't count as a happy ending, okay )

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Now I remember the rest of my dissapointments (this sounds like me complaining about some exes 😂):

Destined With You
See You in My 19th Life
Heartbeat
My Dearest 2
Crash Course in Romance
Island - what a waste of star-studded casts
DP 2
Duty After School 2

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Mine is "Bora! Deborah." This show intrigued me in the first couple of episodes because the writing wasn't shying away from the ugly reality of a bad breakup. Sure, I cringed at Bora's drunken antics, and maybe even possibility had some bad flashbacks to my own youthful behavior upon being dumped, but I admired the way the writers allowed their FL to be hopelessly human. It even seemed like for once, a kdrama was going to acknowledge that excessive drinking isn't cute or a normal coping mechanism.

But in the end, this show was a colossal disappointment. Despite Yoo-inna's excellent performance, the drama dropped the ball at about the halfway point and never recovered. All the interesting groundwork it laid down was swept away and replaced with predictable and unsatisfying scenes whose dramatic lure was again all about the potential humiliation of a character. Plus, those side stories about the married best friend (whose husband didn't seem to even really like her as a person) and the boss and his young employee--I still don't understand what was up with that prairie dress--were terrible.

I think the source of my disappointment with this show is ultimately that it masqueraded convincingly for a while as an adult show talking about adult relationship problems in an adult way, but in the end, it was as juvenile and immature as its characters.

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I had already forgotten the plot, a sign that it was really bad and forgettable.

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Castaway Diva.
As @alathe says, it promised so much, and sadly failed to deliver.
What sealed the deal was where they went with the music, which was basically nowhere, after a surprisingly good start. The last song was utterly forgettable.

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The song in her teenage video was hummable but what I heard after that (admittedly I only watched 3 episodes) was the kind of thing my grandparents might have listened to, and here I have to confess I am in my 60s. If the woman can't cater for me when she's 30 years younger, why should I listen to her! 😄

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King the Land. All sugar, no substance. Terrible waste of their leading man.

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I have to agree with @dramaddictally. I guess I read the title of the drama wrong cause it sure wasn't what I thought it would be going into it. I ended up persevering to the end for Park Eun Bin and her beautiful voice but boy did it deflate as it went chugging to the end. I was all ready to see how a girl goes from island girl to back to the city and have her singing career blossom without all the baggage that went with the drama but alas, it bombed for me.

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