Open Thread #797
by DB Staff
Happy Friday everyone!
Here is your Open Thread, which is here for you to chat about anything you want, whether it be drama-related or not. Nothing’s off-topic here! Spoilers may be rife, so proceed accordingly.
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1 Unaspirated
January 27, 2023 at 5:08 AM
What are your favorite banchan? Particularly ones that can be made ahead of time. I'm having some friends over and don't want to be in the kitchen the whole time they are here! I've made plenty in the past, but always looking for new favorites!
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hacja
January 27, 2023 at 8:36 AM
It depends on what you are looking for--a piquant relish type of dish, or a more substantial "side." For the first I like cucumber pickles (oi muchim) stir fried anchovies ( Myeolchi bokkeum--a great sweet-salty flavor) and any type of quick kimchi--korean or daikon radish is my favorite, but you can really use any sort of raw vegetable--cucumbers (again) carrots, or of course cabbage.
For more substantial sides I like braised tofu, (dubu jorim) carmelized sweet potatoes (goguma mattang) and zucchini fritters (hobak jeon). Although these are all probably best fresh from the pan, I have in the past kept them warming in the oven and they taste fine.
Its always a lot of fun to make these
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Unaspirated
January 27, 2023 at 9:03 AM
Oi muchim and various kimchis are planned already, along with braised tofu! And I love making jeon of all kinds, but I'm trying to stay away from them because they are so much better fresh.
I've had trouble sourcing the right size anchovies for stir frying in the past, so that's not one I've dipped into yet, but recently discovered a new market that stocks them, so I will try it soon! I love gamja bokkeum, but haven't ever tried goguma mattang, so maybe I'll have to give that a go too. Thanks!
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owl 🦉 🫰
January 28, 2023 at 5:55 AM
Do you make the various kimchi ?
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Unaspirated
January 28, 2023 at 7:38 AM
I've made lots of vegan kimchi before because I wasn't able to find saeujeot. But I recently sourced some so now I'm planning a kimjang soon to make that version! As for the kimchi for today, I bought some baechu kimchi because I ran out of mine, but there is oi-sobagi that I made.
owl 🦉 🫰
January 28, 2023 at 7:47 AM
Sounds wonderful, you are talented!
hacja
January 28, 2023 at 10:47 AM
I'm going to make kimchi soon as well. Unfortunately, I don't have enough Korean food friends for a kimjang. But maybe that's okay, because it would primarily be my bossy daughter helping, and I get enough critiques of my cooking with just her eating what I make!
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Unaspirated
January 30, 2023 at 5:13 AM
You can have a kimjang of one! It's the spirit of the thing.
owl 🦉 🫰
January 27, 2023 at 10:00 AM
Im interested in the answers here! Banchan restaurant in Crash Course in Romance has me checking out various side dishes ! Maybe tasty dumplings?
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frabbycrabsis loves KBS Drama Specials
January 27, 2023 at 2:19 PM
I really like braised lotus root! That's definitely one you can make ahead of time.
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Unaspirated
January 28, 2023 at 9:38 AM
Ooh, nice, I'll have to try it! That's not one I've had before, but lotus root slices are so pretty that I bet it looks awesome too.
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2 welh
January 27, 2023 at 5:12 AM
Magazine writer Zeahaa Rehman recently wrote on the demise of North American rom-com genre. Hollywood is not investing in much except blockbuster superhero movies, studio pet projects or animation sequels. As culture writer Elamin Abdelmahmoud wrote earlier this year, Hollywood has “arrived at the nadir of original stories,” capitalizing on audience familiarity to ensure maximum profitability. Rom-coms were made and shown in theaters until 2000 but did not have large box office numbers. Before streaming services existed, those films made revenue through both the initial release of a movie as well as DVD sales. Having two streams of revenue, as Matt Damon explained during his recent appearance on Hot Ones, made it possible for studios to invest in riskier films—like rom-coms—because even if they underperformed at the box office, they could make up for it in DVD sales. Streaming services killed DVD sales and offered only low licensing fees in return, leading studios to stick with films guaranteed to make a profit when widely released in theaters.
Ironically, today the biggest force to push audiences toward K-dramas is the very force that led to the rom-com drought in Hollywood: Netflix. As K-pop’s visibility increased in American pop culture, so did Netflix’s K- drama offerings which were different, well-made and limited series runs that hit a good chord with viewers.
I know streaming services are content consumption monsters that need a steady stream of content to get and retain subscribers. International TV shows are easy to license or adapt for new markets. But the need to feed the beast may create a saturation point of poor dramas, second seasons, etc. which will lead to another change to find a new genre to exploit.
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amfalulawatching
January 27, 2023 at 6:17 AM
Hollywood makes films for global consumption. I think that has greatly effected what kind of stories that are told. Really, you have to go back decades (pre-1980's) to get many rom-coms. I think another issue is that rom-coms are considered films for women, therefore believed that they would not make as much money and they were/are considered less prestigious and not serious. So, a director that wants to make a film that is "artistic" would never consider such a "trivial" theme as love. The daily soap operas were based on love stories, therefore, they are always considered diminished in terms of importance and artistry. There was an interesting article in the NYTimes today which tends to have really great coverage of S. Korea lately. Perhaps it is somewhat relevant. https://www.nytimes.com/2023/01/27/opinion/south-korea-fertility-rate-feminism.html
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welh
January 27, 2023 at 7:28 AM
Asian society principles that women had to get married by 30 and have children is pretty much gone by the rise in education and careers for women in an industrialized country. Culturally, there is less of a stigma against single men and women. Many believe marriage is no longer required for stability and happiness.
South Korea recently broke its own record for the world’s lowest fertility rate, with data from November 2022 showing a South Korean woman will have an average of 0.79 children in her lifetime – far below the 2.1 needed to maintain a stable population. Japan’s fertility rate stands at 1.3, while the United States is at 1.6.
Japan is on pace to lose 20% of its population by 2050. At that time, it will not be able to support its social safety net programs and some experts predict its society will collapse. The main reason is its anti-immigration policy and strong cultural pressure against outsiders "contaminating" family bloodlines.
South Korea is more progressive on immigration and inter-racial marriages so its population may be more stable now but it will have the same issues of Japan on sustainability of its national heritage.
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hacja
January 27, 2023 at 8:51 AM
The problem comes if any nation regards its "heritage" as fixed. Then you get panicked and often culturally stifling measures, that risk undermining progressive gains. A more open society is always better, and more culturally rich. You can preserve those parts of the past that are of value, but there is absolutely no reason to preserve patriarchal repression.
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beffels
January 27, 2023 at 12:07 PM
If life is even remotely like what you see in kdramas, it’s a wonder why anyone has children - the pressure seems immense.
Here the fertility rate is 1.65, which makes my family seem huge (we have three kids) - it’s not surprising given cost of living/more opportunities available to women/changing cultural expectations but it still also does surprise me how quickly family sizes have changed - when I was a teenager (not THAT long ago but still pretty long I guess lol) it wasn’t uncommon for people to have three or more siblings but among people I know I can only think of two families with more children than ours.
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wheguhreh
January 27, 2023 at 7:24 PM
This is completely unfactually based, but perhaps it's because South Koreans are generally responsible given the historically Confucian society. Couple that with higher education and practicality, it may be career-related and socioeconomic. I like children, but I chose not to have any of my own due to my unwillingness to compromise career advancement and the high costs of raising them well, especially in a high cost-of-living city like NYC.
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welh
January 27, 2023 at 8:08 AM
And speaking of changing expectations, the Chosun Ibo reported this today:
An increasing number of Koreans believe that success is when their children find a job they like rather than a place at a top university or a big conglomerate, a survey suggests.
The Korean Educational Development Institute polled 4,000 parents nationwide last September. Asked what success in their children's education means, the largest proportion or 25.8 percent of respondents ticked finding a job they like or want to do.
Next came growing up as a well-rounded person (22.7 percent); landing a highly-regarded job (20.5 percent); being economically well-off (14.3 percent); studying at a prestigious university (10.1 percent); and finding a good spouse (6.6 percent).
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wheguhreh
January 27, 2023 at 11:11 AM
I'm not sure this is Korean-specific. These seem to be the benchmarks for most middle class families in developed countries.
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MikeyD signed up
January 27, 2023 at 8:55 AM
Whenever people talk about their favorite US rom-coms they talk about movies perhaps 30 years old. Billy Crystal ('When Harry Met Sally') is now 74 years old. Anything that gets made resembling a rom-com these days is likely to be a no-budget indie GL film.
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owl 🦉 🫰
January 27, 2023 at 10:04 AM
Such an interesting topic, thanks for the info. I always think of How to Lose a a Guy in Ten Days -
again, an older romcom to be sure.
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amfalulawatching
January 27, 2023 at 10:23 AM
Well, my favorite movie rom-com is Bringing Up Baby from 1938 with Katherine Hepburn and Cary Grant!
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owl 🦉 🫰
January 27, 2023 at 10:52 AM
An oldie for sure, I’ll have to look this one up~
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beffels
January 27, 2023 at 11:58 AM
I love Bringing Up Baby (and Cary Grant generally)
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Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
January 27, 2023 at 8:19 PM
I looked it up and saw some clips on YouTube it looks like a true classic, they don’t make these kinds of quality rom coms any more.
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mmmmm
January 27, 2023 at 1:16 PM
I need to read this.
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snickers
January 27, 2023 at 4:39 PM
Maybe there is more cynicism regarding romance in general. Example, couples now seem to fight over whether or how to "fairly" bills during dates. People share online much of their "real life" experiences: Some stuff might be as interesting or nutty as what scriptwriters can come up; people can consume it whenever, wherever and take much less time doing so.
Also, streaming platforms creating their own exclusive content including rom-com is taking investment and limiting what are available in theaters.
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3 parkchuna 🍉
January 27, 2023 at 7:11 AM
I stumbled upon this little gem and wondered why no one ever shared this on DB. It is a worthy opponent of Bollywood guys!
https://www.instagram.com/reel/CmqOu89IdR_/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
In all fairness, i don’t think the motorcycle was a bearer of doom at all. He was just there, misunderstood with unfortunate timing.
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Linarrick
January 27, 2023 at 7:24 AM
🤣🤣🤣 Thanks for the laugh
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Blue (@mayhemf)
January 27, 2023 at 7:42 AM
Poor motorist . He would have just gone without damage to anyone. 😂😂😂
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parkchuna 🍉
January 27, 2023 at 8:23 AM
Minding his own business and suddenly a mirror and a bicycle flew at him 😆
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Blue (@mayhemf)
January 27, 2023 at 10:52 AM
All this is happening and the ML still is in the middle of the road!! lol.. Dude, leave the road before more people die..
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jerrykuvira
January 27, 2023 at 11:47 AM
Likeee...They never think
You know, I've stopped saying ' leave the way ' whenever a ToD tears out its head.
owl 🦉 🫰
January 27, 2023 at 3:49 PM
He was too busy slo mo blinking in awe of her.
parkchuna 🍉
January 27, 2023 at 4:48 PM
Best part, she even shouted at him..twice! but he was too mesmerised by her beauty 🤣🙄
mmmmm
January 27, 2023 at 1:19 PM
Thanks for the laughs! But which show is this from?
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Linarrick
January 27, 2023 at 2:32 PM
Black Knight: The Man Who Guards Me
I remember watching a few episodes but I dropped it lol
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mmmmm
January 27, 2023 at 9:38 PM
I didn’t know it was a comedy! 🤣🤣🤣
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Nothingmuch
January 29, 2023 at 3:35 AM
That was hysterical. I sort of expected her to keep finding bigger and bigger things to throw. Also I now never want to watch it.
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4 Linarrick
January 27, 2023 at 7:37 AM
Hello fellow beanies I’m wondering what upcoming dramas you are excited about and why?
There are so many coming out it’s hard to keep track but I think these are the ones I’m most interested in
BAIT:
Watching because of Jang Geun-seok obviously
OUR BLOOMING YOUTH:
I love most of writer Jung Hyun-jung works. They excel at showcasing the complexities of love and I sometimes feel they get stifled when they have to write within the rom com script. One of my favourite works by them was MY FIRST TIME. The male lead didn’t get the girl, tho it was a great coming of age story where he experiences unrequited love. The friendship group was also adorable.
HATE TO LOVE YOU:
I might drop this if it doesn’t capture my interest in the first episode, but how can I say no to Kim Ji-hoon?
HEAVENLY IDOL:
Camp it’s looks so camp and I’m definitely here for it. Also I like both the lead actors, Kim Min-kyu & Go Bo-gyeol
UNLOCKED (movie):
The trailer was very compelling. It’s an interesting concept and very creepy. Also top notch cast
TAXI DRIVER 2:
Lee Je-hoon, Lee Je-hoon, Lee Je-hoon, Lee Je-hoon, Lee Je-hoon & Lee Je-hoon
That’s how many Lee Je-hoon pictures came out on the press release right?
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miso
January 27, 2023 at 7:56 AM
Among these I'm probably looking forward to Heavenly Idol the most. I need more shows that make me laugh.
Longer-term, I'm excited that Cho Seung-woo, Park Seo-joon, Park Bo-gum, and Kim Soo-hyun will all be back with new dramas this year.
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Linarrick
January 27, 2023 at 8:07 AM
Oh yes I forgot Queen Of Tears is coming out this year! I’m interested since it’s dealing with an already married couple
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parkchuna 🍉
January 27, 2023 at 8:44 AM
I tend to not remember upcoming dramas unless i see the promos really close to the release date but i have put Hate to Love You and Unlocked on my NF list. I desperately miss a good old fashioned mystery-free romcom, so i hope this is a good one.
As for Unlocked, trailer was scary creepy and i worry it may either induce some paranoia about my phone security or motivate me to disconnect more often.. we’ll see!
And YES to Lee Je Hoon!
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Linarrick
January 27, 2023 at 9:44 AM
I’d probably get paranoid with someone hacking my phone & taking my identity. But unplugging you say…nah I’ll take the security risk 😁
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mmmmm
January 27, 2023 at 9:43 PM
Chunaya.. pls let me know if there are what you said- old-school mystery-free romcoms this year.
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parkchuna 🍉
January 28, 2023 at 7:47 PM
Hey M, ok! I’m watching jdrama Good Morning Call. It’s not like kdrama romcom but good enough to fill in the void for now. I know you don’t watch jdrama, but i’ll keep trying 😁
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mmmmm
January 28, 2023 at 11:31 PM
I read Good Morning Call manga when I was in grade 9!!!
Diana Hansen
January 27, 2023 at 8:54 AM
Who can say no to Kim Ji-hoon's mane of glory?
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MikeyD signed up
January 27, 2023 at 9:32 AM
This past year I had bad luck with highly anticipated high profile dramas with big name stars. I had my best luck with hidden gems that just showed up out of the blue. So I'm most looking forward to (_yet to be determined_).
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beffels
January 27, 2023 at 12:00 PM
I think going in without expectations really helps. I’ve also found in the past year the dramas I just picked up randomly were better than the ones I waited for.
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5 Linarrick
January 27, 2023 at 9:11 AM
Okay so I don’t want to bring the lively energy from a certain recap comment section which I am honestly too scared to enter. That said, this certain drama gave three examples of co-habitation pet peeves. I’m wondering which one you’d find to be the most offensive?
DISHES:
Dishes are a point of contention in any relationship so it’s a valid pet peeve, but I have a dishwasher so I’m cool with doing the dishes
AIRCON:
Peoples temperatures vary, and thus the aircon temperature setting is also a point of contention, I run hot so yeah this is my biggest pet peeve. I want my aircon sorry climate change (I’ll be better with my recycling)
HOGGING THE TV:
I feel like this would’ve been a pet peeve two decades ago, but now with most people having either a laptop or smartphone, someone hogging the TV doesn’t feel like a big deal. I’d just go another room and watch on my laptop
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beffels
January 27, 2023 at 9:40 AM
I feel like hogging the tv is less of a big deal too BUT if you could never go into a common area because someone was always using the tv that would be annoying.
I’m not sure between dishes and air con - probably dishes, but then I don’t live somewhere where air con is an issue most of the time so I have less experience with that. But dishes are an endless annoyance 😄
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Linarrick
January 27, 2023 at 9:47 AM
True dishes are annoying, but since I annoy people with my aircon preferences, I’ll happily sacrifice the ten minutes to load and unload the dishes 😁
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owl 🦉 🫰
January 27, 2023 at 10:18 AM
Oh, air con for me, I hate cold air blowing on me! And I prefer windows open unless its blazing hot 🥵 So, I try to at least keep my room windows open with door shut so I don’t freeze when a/c runs. And a cold office, I need a space heater!
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dramadillo
January 27, 2023 at 11:52 AM
For me, it’s not putting things back where you found them, or where they belong. I wish everyone received basic training at school for this simple habit.🤣
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beffels
January 27, 2023 at 11:59 AM
Omg I am trying to train my kids in this but it is like pushing water up hill with a fork 😂 my husband is terrible at it and there is just stuff all over the house all the freaking time.
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dramadillo
January 27, 2023 at 12:37 PM
That metaphor is perfect.🫠 I have stopped helping them find things they’ve misplaced, and refuse to replace lost items. It’s a bit of a stick (rather than carrot) method, but I feel like it’s important to learn about consequences.🤣 We all suffer though, because we live in a state of chaos.🫣
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beffels
January 27, 2023 at 1:01 PM
That’s probably what’s going to have to happen around here. If you don’t take care of your things, I guess you don’t want them 😅
hacja
January 27, 2023 at 1:44 PM
That's so harsh! You're giving your kids a trauma that will undermine all their adult relationships!
dramadillo
January 27, 2023 at 1:50 PM
@hacja, if I’m going to cause some inevitable mama trauma, I feel like this falls on the milder end of the spectrum, which some counselling will hopefully sort out. I’ve started saving for the cost of therapy, which I’ve prioritised over university tuition.
Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
January 27, 2023 at 6:22 PM
‘ I’ve started saving for the cost of therapy, which I’ve prioritised over university tuition.’ 👈love this investment approach to life. If only they did that in K dramas instead of using a potential love interest as an unpaid mind reader/therapist/miracle maker.
lillamy
January 27, 2023 at 1:16 PM
My husband is the worst at this. He can put something in the general area where it's supposed to be but never get it right. Sometimes, I think it's his way of sticking it to the man.
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dramadillo
January 27, 2023 at 1:41 PM
But we are not the man!!🤣 I once found the iron on top of the rice cooker, precariously. I mean, I suppose they’re both household appliances, but it just makes no sense…I suppose I should stop trying to understand.🤷🏻♀️
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hacja
January 27, 2023 at 1:45 PM
What chef doesn't iron their rice?
hacja
January 27, 2023 at 1:44 PM
I've always tried to rebel against the "establishment" in exactly the same way.
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Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
January 27, 2023 at 6:17 PM
One effective strategy is agree the setup and take a photo then if it doesn’t look like the photo it’s not right. Memory loss or confusion are dealt with no arguments or further discussion needed.
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Linarrick
January 27, 2023 at 6:23 PM
That’s a smart and very effective strategy! I should use it for myself
Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
January 27, 2023 at 6:25 PM
@beffels see above photo strategy sorry I didn’t see the beginning of the chain or would have answered earlier in the thread.
Linarrick
January 27, 2023 at 3:36 PM
I feel I like I got better at this after reading Marie Kondo’s book but yeah still 50/50, working on it. I do have a close enough pet peeve tho. I hate having food scraps and dishes near where I sleep. This actually became a mini fight with my friends during the holidays haha
I chose the sofa because I tend to have insomnia (thanks dramabeans…joking joking). So when we all headed to sleep I put all the food scraps in the bin and the remaining dishes in dishwasher. Alas one of my friends got upset that I put their half eaten burrito in the bin. I was like babe you know I was sleeping here, if you still wanted it, put it in fridge yourself. Yeah I feel like I should put this in the reddit thread Am I the Asshole? Maybe I was? Dunno
We are still friends tho, so all good
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kdramapedia
January 28, 2023 at 5:39 AM
Did you see that Marie Kondo gave up on keeping tidy now that she has kids? I think it's a good reminder that our priorities change over time, and what may work today may not be work tomorrow.
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dramadillo
January 28, 2023 at 5:46 AM
Ah thank you for sharing!😊
Linarrick
January 28, 2023 at 5:50 AM
Wow just read the article now! Well that makes me feel better, I’m not the messiest person but nor am I the tidiest
beffels
January 30, 2023 at 4:09 PM
I bet her house is still significantly tidier than mine.
jerrykuvira
January 27, 2023 at 11:54 AM
It'll be the Aircon for me. I can't deal with cold temperature. I prefer hot to cold actually. So if I need the hot down, it's just to room temp and I'm fine. The lowest breeze from the Aircon, just high enough to not make the air stuffy is okay. I hope we can work with that.
TV hogging...I have my smartphone.
Dishes...I'm lazy on that so I'll wait for you to be done with your biz and we'll come do the dishes together.
But the Aircon is a no-no and will become a recipe for us sleeping in different rooms if the symptoms persist.
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Linarrick
January 27, 2023 at 2:43 PM
Hahaha, can’t we work things out! Do you really want to sleep in seperate bedrooms?!
Nah I actually think that’s the best strategy for people with different body temperatures!
LOL I’m happy to do the dishes as long as we a have dishwasher but no dishwasher, fights abound! I will divorce a person over a dishwasher and I’ll the choose the dishwasher EVERY-TIME
Regarding the TV, hog it all you want dear, not a pet peeve for me at all! 😉😂
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kdramapedia
January 27, 2023 at 12:59 PM
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pliplipli
January 27, 2023 at 2:53 PM
none of these bothers me that much. I never had a dishwasher and learn how to like doing it since young so now its almost like therapy lol aircon and tv I think they're bearable. I don't like using aircon, but if the other person is super hot, I would just have another blanket. with tv... I would just use another screen. i don't really like watching something with other people in general hahaha
but what bothers me is not doing your tasks. if we have an agreement, do it. if something comes up and you can't do it for whatever reason, communicate. we can always help each other, just don't ignore it because I will be counting on you.
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tabong
January 27, 2023 at 3:14 PM
Hogging the tv.
I'm really sensitive when it comes to my movies, dramas, and especially my "me" or relaxing time.
The dishes isn't a big deal, next time I'll leave them for you to clean.
I sleep as a rock so if you turn off the air con while I'm sleep, I'll probably won't notice, but changing the movie I'm watching for something I dislike can get them killed. 😆 That's something really inconsiderate from my POV, especially because my partner should know that they can't interrupt me when I'm watching something.
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Linarrick
January 27, 2023 at 5:24 PM
Someone who knows their boundaries RESPECT!
I too love my down time, but lately with all the streaming services and needing to download the app to play on the TV, I’d rather just watch on my laptop. It’s also easier to forward or go back on my laptop then the TV. But yeah I get you, if someone kept interrupting me and demanding I watch what they want I would not stand it!
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tabong
January 28, 2023 at 2:19 AM
I would hand to my partner the laptop so they can go to another room and watch wtv they want. I hate to change devices and/or move to another place while watching something. I really dislike distractions. 🙈
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Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
January 28, 2023 at 2:37 AM
Surely, that’s a basic courtesy whoever is in the room first takes the priority position so if the second person wants to watch something else they can sort themselves out without disrupting the first person. That is what made the situation so annoying, the entitlement attitude and complete lack of respect. We all know if it had been the other way round there would have been a scene.
tabong
January 28, 2023 at 9:31 AM
@reply1988 you're back from your trip? I hope you had a nice time! Welcome back! ☺️
Agreed.
Wait. I think he would take the remote and she would tell him something like "don't you dare", and he would apologize and watch what she wanted. 😆
Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
January 28, 2023 at 11:27 AM
Yes, I am back and I had a great time, thank you 😊.
The fact that we basically saw that very scene shows he was worn down by it all and would watch his programme sneakily another time.
6 owl 🦉 🫰
January 27, 2023 at 10:15 AM
Chilly winter winds have me longing for spring days! I am looking forward to new episodes for Trolley, Strangers Again, and CCiR. A new fun competition show Physical 100 is pretty cool. Otherwise Im keeping up with weekly Korean variety shows - I have 14 on my watchlist that I currently keep up with. Oh Eun Young’s Report Marriage Hell is the newest, and the feature couples are quite frank. I Am Solo and Battle Trip 2 are my (very) late night watches. Happy weekend! 🦉
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7 TurtuallySarcastic
January 27, 2023 at 2:51 PM
Happy weekend Beanies and keep Beaning On!
Still getting used to 2023? It is almost February. Already.
Half January is when new year resolutions usually are dropped, but it seems like I am lucky this year. Until two weeks ago I was bored and restless, but then I started getting struck with motivation and I am milking it as much as I can.💪🏻Suddenly I am working on that essay I kept postponing, scheduling those dreadful appointments, fully booking my weekends until end February and watching three shows.☺️
All it took was bingeing four K-drama episodes one Sunday afternoon, which proves my theory that Beanies are at their best when they watch K-dramas regularly!😁
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8 tabong
January 27, 2023 at 3:42 PM
I wonder if Hollywood lack of imagination is going to last forever or is just a temporary slump.
I feel like I'll go crazy if there's another year where the "favorite" movies are just a bad remake, biography or a wannabe Edgar Wright trying to direct Neon Genesis Evangelion after reading a marvel multiverse fanfiction about east asian stereotypes (yes, I didn't like EEAAO).
I watch old movies, indie movies, and movies from other productions and countries, but I literally have no one to talk about them. The only link I had with other film lovers (friends) was Hollywood. But now I don't feel like watching those movies anymore, especially because even if we talk about them, I just talk about how much I hate them while they look at me like a boring witch because they loved them.
Maybe I'm being over dramatic, but I just feel more and more insulted by Hollywood and I feel like they're destroying one of my favorite things.
If only my friends watched what I recommend them, I probably wouldn't be so salty, since I could just use my energy taking with them about the other films.
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wheguhreh
January 27, 2023 at 7:36 PM
I gave up on American TV, and I've always been a film watcher anyway (the only exception being Sex and the City and its sequels because I'm a New Yorker). I'm happy to chat about films since I've literally watched thousands of movies, highbrow and lowbrow, when I had a Netflix subscription many years ago.
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9 Rachel2
January 27, 2023 at 4:32 PM
Anybody have a recommendation for a low-key (no makjang!) family drama? I'm thinking about something along the lines of Father is Strange or Once Again.
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beffels
January 27, 2023 at 8:11 PM
What Happens To My Family is reasonable - it’s not as good as the two you mention (in my opinion) but still pretty fun. I do tend to watch family dramas by fast forwarding the storylines I’m not interested in so may contain elements I’m not aware of though 😅
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owl 🦉 🫰
January 28, 2023 at 6:06 AM
I can recommend My Father is Strange with Lee Joon and Jung So-Min. I even recapped it at http://www.cimiart.wordpress.com !
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frabbycrabsis loves KBS Drama Specials
January 28, 2023 at 6:09 AM
Five Kids! Unless the struggles of new couple in love trying to merge their two families together is makjang 😆
I also like Wolgyesu Tailor Shop, but I don't tend to recommend it as much (the actors are all amazing but a lot of the characters are insufferable 😂)
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Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
January 28, 2023 at 6:13 AM
I loved this one👉 Wolgyesu Tailor Shop. I agree some characters were difficult to say the least!
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frabbycrabsis loves KBS Drama Specials
January 28, 2023 at 6:16 AM
But the main love story was so beautiful, I forget all about it! 😍
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10 oosiee
January 27, 2023 at 8:47 PM
Beanies!!!! Help me!
Can anyone tell me where I can watch ep 13 &14 of Missing: the other side S2?? Both Dramac**l and ki**asian don't have them. What to do???
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11 oosiee
January 27, 2023 at 8:52 PM
Wait! Are they not released yet? I thought the series was done already...I am so confused!
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Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
January 27, 2023 at 9:01 PM
Did you comment on the wrong post as I am not sure what this refers to?
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oosiee
January 28, 2023 at 1:16 AM
😅 it's an add on to my own comment above (#10).
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Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
January 28, 2023 at 2:32 AM
Sorry missed the community appeal!
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wheguhreh
January 27, 2023 at 10:08 PM
Not released yet, it seems.
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12 flatwhite
January 28, 2023 at 2:51 AM
Happy Saturday!
Interest of Love, guys.
I was discontent with it the other week. I can't believe it turned into gold.
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owl 🦉 🫰
January 28, 2023 at 6:00 AM
Ooo something to look forward to!
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frabbycrabsis loves KBS Drama Specials
January 28, 2023 at 6:07 AM
YES, A FRIEND 🔥
I've been running a one-man campaign of how great this show is from Day One!
What won you over?
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13 Anne18
January 28, 2023 at 3:33 AM
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beffels
January 30, 2023 at 4:11 PM
Sometimes you just need something completely different as a palate cleanser 😅
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14 darwi
January 28, 2023 at 12:20 PM
During Game nights one player around the table started to talk about streaming... and mentionned that he started watching kdrama !
I now have a second real-life accointance that has watched more than one kdrama.
However he does not remember the titles, and was only able to mention Alchemy of souls, Crash landing on you and love alarm.
What was quite fun, is that another person at the table started to talk about her webtoon readings.
Thus when he went "there is another SF story, with the FL able to see the future when she touches someone" we both exclaimed together Kiss 6th sense.
It was fun and strange to talk (not write) about dramas.
Still, they both have difficulties with specifics terms such as chaebol [you can picture me eyerolling] so this will not replace the discussion here soon.
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15 CaroleMcDonnell
January 29, 2023 at 9:23 AM
Hello, all:
Am so loving Crash Course in Romance. This is such a sweet romance. I find myself getting very angry at all the intrusive people in the world. If people could just live and let live, life would be beautiful. I think, though, that even if the supreme court said the son wasn't guilty, i think the son killed his mom because he was angry with his mom for being the cause of his sister's suicide, plus the son was also just trying to free himself from his helicopter mom. I really dislike Chiyeolsucks and am wary of the hikkikomori brother. (sorry, i don't know the Korean term for a willful shut-in.) Am not sure if he has something against Chiyeol personally or if he hates what Chiyeol represents. As for the kid who killed himself, I wish the 5th and sixth episodes had shown the grief of his bereaved parents. The story showed how sad the parents were about it but it totally ignored his family. Which was a bit of a mistake, i think. Granted, they did a great job on showing how overwhelmed and depressed our Sen is. I love, love, love it that this show is so human. The characters are so real and our male lead is so fragile and needy. It's an adult romance and so very humanistic. The female lead is so sweet too and the fact that they learn to become friends before they become romantically-involved, it just shows the power of friendship. Our male lead has found a friend, yay!!!!! He really needed it. Our heroine has sacrificed her life to be a mom and now she is finding love. Sooo good. The best slice-of-life romance kdrama this year so far. We see how wonderful life would be if people would chill and accept each other. The show does a great job of showing us that judging people by appearance, class, wealth, looks... is just devastating. Sometimes a big devastation like a suicide, and sometimes a lingering devastation like a depressed teacher whose heart only few can see. Between Alchemy of Souls, The Glory, Crash Course and Bait, it's been a great month for kdramas.
Best Cdramas this season so far: The Knockout, Choice Husband, New Life Begins.
I highly recommend Beyond the Infinite Two minutes J-movie on amazon Prime. a Japanese time travel movie on AmazonPrime. Typical Japanese tongue-in-cheek weirdness. A guy and his friends in his cafe are ahead of themselves in time, by two minutes. I'll just say a lot can happen within the space of two minutes. When it comes to japanese timey-wimey spacey-wacey playful specfic: these five are my favorites, ranging from the tragic to the silly:
You whom i promised never to forget
One cut of the dead.
Rashomon
Beyond the infinite two minutes
My tomorrow, your yesterday
And now I know the Droste Effect and the Bourton-on-the-Water model village
Happy weekend, all.
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16 DancingEmma
January 29, 2023 at 12:28 PM
Oh, Mudeokie, nice to see you again. Time flies, no? Some of us have missed you in these parts.
I’m a bit embarrassed that I’m still smarting over how disappointing the second part of AoS turned out to be despite some lovely moments. I know, I know. I’ve told myself to move on too.
I’ve been watching “My country” and it is wonderful despite being soul-crashingly sad at times. So worth staying with it though but I can’t binge it.
And, “Flower Crew” which is a weird show. The evolution of some characters seem inexplicable in a realistic sense and others show bad judgment throughout but the main leads have chemistry and that’s the main life blood of this drama. And, the hanboks the crew are wearing. Some are dazzlingly gorgeous. Worth staying just for these silk/silk looking beauties move and flutter about.
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