[Happily never after] When you just can’t find an OTP to be happy for
by Guest Beanie
By Palaa
Editor’s note: This post contains spoilers.
In the case of a painful ending for the main couple, the one thing that consoles the emotionally involved K-drama fan is that one other pairing who actually ended up together. The one couple that made it might have been the guy hired by the leading man to do his legwork, and the girl the leading man hired to be the legwork guy’s eyes and ears, but that still means the couple was fated to be together. However, if you are looking for that kind of silver lining in the sugar-coated tearjerker that is called Mr. Sunshine, look somewhere else, because you won’t find stuff like that here.
Usually, dramas tend to save the fan service till the last episode, some dramas even hold off till the last 10 minutes. Mr. Sunshine did a full 180 on fans and gave all the fan service – SO much of it – in the middle of the show’s run. The fan service served to get you emotionally involved enough to almost kill you in the end. Yes, I agree that all those middle episodes with fluff and no plot was a bit of a drag, but what it did was take my guard down enough that my tear glands were put to heavy use when it pulled a Game of Thrones-ish ending.
During my run through the drama, I shipped many couples (sometimes one character with multiple partners *wink*). Given the setting of the drama, I did expect some heartache and a lot of deaths. But I was totally unprepared for the death of everybody, literally all the main characters, except Ae-shin. There was no happy couple, and to top it off, the only couples who actually went past the ‘some’ stage – which, mind you, is not that many (I counted two: Ae-shin with Eugene and Gunner Jung with the boat café ajumma) — didn’t get to have much couple time together either. (There goes my “at least they had time to love each other before they died” excuse).
Though the good guys didn’t have a happy ending, at least none of the bad guys got what they wanted either. The one that hit me hardest was Mori Takashi, who left his loving family and privileged life in Japan in the pursuit of his misguided patriotism, to be killed in a back alley in his own neighborhood.
I saw similarities between Mr. Sunshine and the Greek story of Pandora’s box. Both stories starts with the good things like love and happiness, but eventually the horrible things like death and despair surfaced. Even though you end up crying buckets at Mr. Sunshine’s tragic ending, the apparent failure of the Righteous Army, and the deaths of the American, Japanese, and Korean men, you are left with this sense of hope knowing that the ones who survived will not give up.
But, BUT, there is no solace you might say. Nothing to make you feel better, nothing to tell yourself to force your aching heart to feel a tad bit better. Did her loss make our heroine stronger? I don’t think so. Ae-shin was already strong enough to let go of her possibly happy future with Eugene to pursue her cause (that one scene in Japan when she asks, “do you think I don’t want to come with you to America?” killed me a little) and she definitely would have been happier with him in her life. But I have to admit the story is better because of it. Because there is no rule saying a person can’t die in real life, whether he’s a hero or a villain.
Now let me go re-watch Descended From the Sun and cry my eyes out. This time, because nobody can convince me that Myung-joo and Dae-young aren’t the reincarnations of Ae-shin’s parents, living the life they deserved to live.
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1 Nessa (Bebe) 🌹
February 14, 2019 at 10:27 PM
Short ‘n’ sweet!! Haha 👌🏻👌🏻
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Palaa
February 15, 2019 at 4:35 AM
I almost failed in my literature class for "short n sweet" though 😅
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Nessa (Bebe) 🌹
February 15, 2019 at 9:20 AM
You accomplished it pretty well here!!!! :D
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Palaa
February 15, 2019 at 9:52 AM
Thank you 😍. I wish I could show this to my teacher who wanted 3 pages of review on a book I only skimmed through.
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Nessa (Bebe) 🌹
February 15, 2019 at 9:57 AM
Hahahahaa Yea, while I was still in grade school, I was too lazy to read what was a part of the school curriculum so I just went online and used those summary websites to do my book quizzes and book reviews XD
2 spazmo
February 14, 2019 at 10:41 PM
*THUMBS UP*
i LOVED the cameo, and they were my fav couple in Descendants...
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Palaa
February 15, 2019 at 10:08 AM
That cameo was the only thing keeping me sane.....
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3 WishfulToki
February 14, 2019 at 10:43 PM
*Spoilers* (obviously)
I think the OTP of MR SUNSHINE was really Ae-Shin and Korea. Beanie analysis concluded that Ae-Shin is Korea, figuratively, and therefore the story is about everyone loving and protecting her even to death. A patriotic agenda trumped possibilities of a happy ending for the characters, but I wouldn’t have had it otherwise.
I’m still hurt by the way Hee Sung passed though. Did he find some happiness with that other girl or not? Less slo-mo and we might have seen him married. Nobody mourned him. 😭
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purplerain☔
February 15, 2019 at 1:51 AM
I did 😭😭
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Palaa
February 15, 2019 at 4:37 AM
Well, Ae-Shin didn't end up liberating Korea either.......
The only happy thing in that drama was hope.
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4 Kurama
February 14, 2019 at 11:55 PM
Dong Mae and Hina were touching too. The scene where he carried her on his back on the beach :´(
Couples didn't have any chance in this drama. But their stories were still beautiful!
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Palaa
February 15, 2019 at 10:00 AM
I think it's the deaths that makes it beautiful. Like Hina said, there is something alluring in sad endings.
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5 purplerain☔
February 15, 2019 at 1:50 AM
This brought back feels.
I love your write-up. thumbs up.
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Palaa
February 15, 2019 at 3:00 AM
Thank you. It means a lot. This is my first. ♥️
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6 The 5xmom
February 15, 2019 at 3:06 AM
Mr Sunshine was my earliest venture into Kdramaland. And it ended with a virgin revolutionist and 3 dead suitors. Now to avoid such traumatic ending, I watch old dramas which have been recapped by Dramabeans. Thanks for all the recaps, Dramabeans!
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Palaa
February 15, 2019 at 3:39 AM
Watch descendants of the sun. It'll help with your trauma! That's what I did!
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The 5xmom
February 15, 2019 at 6:14 AM
I started DOTS but havent complete. Empress Ki I wade thru my tears and drowned at Ep 21. Not going to complete. So is Moon Lovers. Glad there are new rom coms that are just pure eye candies.
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Palaa
February 15, 2019 at 10:03 AM
It took me about 4 separate tries to get to the ending of the last episode of Mr.Sunshine. I thought I was a robot since I haven't cried since Titanic. But all 4 final episodes of this, I was UGLY crying.
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WishfulToki
February 15, 2019 at 8:50 PM
I recommend SECRET GARDEN. It’s by the same writer and is a classic. You will laugh your head off and may shed a few tears along the way, but I can guarantee a happy ending. And eye candy (Hyun Bin).
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ohhaeyoung
February 18, 2019 at 8:57 AM
I don't understand how the writer of one of the happiest final episodes I've ever seen (Secret Garden) wrote the ending for Mr. Sunshine as well...I trusted you writer, and you let me down!
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7 PakalanaPikake
February 15, 2019 at 8:53 AM
Thanks for your lovely essay, @palaa. MR. SUNSHINE is one drama in which the body count goes through the roof and takes all the romances with it.
Aside: In HYMN OF DEATH, I spotted the music box shop's curved show window. It was nice to see an old friend. ;-)
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Palaa
February 15, 2019 at 9:54 AM
I think the reasoning of hymn of death didn't convince me because I watched it right after Mr. Sunshine. After seeing what people can go through and still survive with hope, the suicides in hymn of death felt shallow.
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WishfulToki
February 15, 2019 at 8:54 PM
*nods furiously*
But on the other hand Hymn of Death showed that not everyone wanted to be a hero. I think Dong Mae and Shim Deok might have understood each other (the futility of even trying to be a hero), but I think he would have scoffed at Woo-jin’s rich boy problems.
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Palaa
February 15, 2019 at 9:23 PM
Yes, I think Mr. Sunshine clouded my judgement. Because I'm the kind that does not understand people who want to survive the apocalypse ( like, kill yourself and be free of the zombies or whatever)
Plus, agree 100% on woo-jin (but he would have been an asshole if he let her die alone)
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8 Ally
February 15, 2019 at 9:00 AM
*saves this to share with my RT when she finishes the drama* Well spoken and written. I kind of had a feeling everyone would die, and expected Ae-shin would too.
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Palaa
February 15, 2019 at 9:57 AM
Can you believe that my bff refused to read this because she didn't watch it yet? I wanted her to cry with me, I wanted her to criticize my writing.....
Aaaaahhhhhhh...............
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9 another woodalchi nicole recruit
February 20, 2019 at 1:49 PM
I'm just now getting a chance to read this, and I have to say I agree so much with everything you said. And so many of the comments, too. This drama hit me so hard because, unlike some, I think I *was* expecting a happy (or at least happier!) ending. The DOTS cure sounds pretty good to me, though, and I think I should have done the same ;)
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