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Spill the Beans: Confess your drama addiction stories

I can’t believe it was so long ago, but girlfriday and I were recently reminiscing on the hilarious stories we’d collected the first time we put out a call for Drama Addiction Stories (you can read some of the top entries here), and decided we should really ask for more of them. Because we here at K-Drama Addiction Central are the epitome of the diehard fan, full of loud and violent love for our favorite shows, replete with all the stalkerish tendencies that go with it. And that means: gut-busting, eyebrow-raising, solidarity-inducing stories about the dramas we love and the lengths we go to for them.

In honor of that spirit, we’re launching a series we’re calling Spill the Beans, where we’ll collect stories from you guys and then feature them on the site. Your undying affection for dramaland is what keeps us going, and it deserves to have its moment in the spotlight! We intend to change the prompt every once in a while, and move on from addiction stories — we’d also like to hear about how dramas have played a role in your lives in other ways, maybe in your family relationships or school/work lives or other areas.

But for this first time, it’s all about the crack factor. We know you’ll have tons of great stories for us — and to think, that first post was a full five years ago (omg time), before the likes of Secret Garden, and King 2 Hearts, and Sungkyunkwan Scandal, and Answer Me, and City Hunter! Gaksitaaaal! You From Another Star and Healer and Kill Me Heal Me! I know you guys won’t disappoint.

To submit, please email us your stories, and we’ll post them on a rolling basis, like what we do with Name That Drama.

To refresh your memories, here are some of our favorites from the last round. Enjoy, and send us your emails!

 
Drama addict: Alert
Addiction-inducing drama: Success Story of a Bright Girl

It was 2003. I just got my first job, went to the office by public transports, and just moved in a halfly shrewded place that I rent just because it’s the cheapest one I found, with two people I hardly knew. I was desperate at that time, so that’s the only choice I had. The house was very gloomy, with half the lighting’s gone, and a kitchen that’s barely touchable. But it was half-furnished, with some furnitures, and a tv. And as for rats? They’re everywhere. they were hiding when I first moved in, but decided to show themselves right after (they so love the kitchen!). You have no idea how scary rats can be. I DESPISE RATS. I could cry for hours just seeing rats. I almost thought of going to therapist because of rats. I was traumatized by sights of rats to the extent that when I slept I had to stuff my ears with headphones and loud musics so I could never hear rats screeching their way outside. And I slept with a broom right on my side, just in case.

So why didn’t I move out? Well here’s the story.

A week after I moved in, Success Story of a Bright Girl was just showing on a local tv and I happened to watch the first episode, then the next, then without knowing, I was totally sucked into the drama (I hadn’t learned downloading or watching online yet). I had to come back from the office early on days Bright Girl were on, since I used public transport, and a delay would cost me another hour of waiting for the bus, and would make me miss my Jang Hyuk *cough* Bright Girl. I remembered giving excuses after excuses to my boss on why I need to go back early (the show was at late evening). Oh, I wasn’t feeling well. At first it was headaches. Then gastrics. Then food poisoning. And after I’ve used up all the not feeling well excuses, I simply had emergency family matters LOL (we all’ve been there, don’t we?!).

The living room of where I’d watch the tv then was situated in between the kitchen and my bedroom. So it’s like a common thing to see a rat or two crossing in front of the tv. I couldn’t moved out yet, because even if I found a better place, the new rental, and the cost for living (transports, food etc) wouldn’t allow me to BUY A TV, for at least another few months. And that ratty place, regardless how bad it was, I can watch Jang Hyuk, and it all that matters that time. So preparing myself to watch Bright Girl every time it aired was like going into a battlefield. I equipped myself with a broom in hand and would drag the tallest chair I could find, and seated myself in front of the tv — with my two feet off the ground. The whole I hour would solely be dedicated to the show, but I would stomped the broom once in a while, to scare off the rats.

I moved out a week after Bright Girl ended. At least now I can say I’ve went to rat’s hole and back to watch Kdrama. That’s why Jang Hyuk hold a special place in my heart. I’ve suffered for him. I went to battle for him. I sacrificed my life for his drama. I’ve cried hours just so I could watch him. Even when he’s speaking in a dubbed Chinese, which I don’t even understand. Yep, am crazy, I know.

 
Drama addict: labchick
Addiction-inducing drama: My Name Is Kim Sam-soon

A couple years ago, I was with my sister during the last two weeks of her pregnancy. This one night, we came across MNKSS and it was love at first sight. We quickly got addicted. We watched 10 episodes the first night before going to sleep at 5 am.

When we woke up, we started where we left off… and my sister went into labor. We rushed to the hospital, carrying my laptop, forgetting to bring her night bag (which by the way took us 2 weeks to pack). I drove like crazy to the hospital through Boston traffic while she was either screaming in pain or at Jin Hun for being a douche. We finally get to the hospital… and when the nurses came to get my sister.. she starts shrieking… that we have to watch the show. So my sister, the laptop, and I are rushed into the delivery room. The doctor and the nurses thought we were nuts. but we kept watching.

After 6 hours of labor, 5 hours of shrieking, and 10 mins of awwing, we finally got to welcome my beautiful little niece to this world. Her middle name is SAMSOON!!! and we’re not even remotely korean!!!

 
Drama addict: ladyteruki, a secretary at the Prime Minister’s office

I went to work as usual. I got there as fast as I could, opened my boss’ time table and started to call as many people as possible to set up meetings. At first, I had a few victims in mind, because I knew my boss would see them regularly anyway, but when it appeared many of them weren’t available, I called people randomly and made up meetings.

I even gave him good reasons to go to the one that really made no sense because I was desperate for one hour and a half. Now my boss, I have to say, is adorable, and sadly for him, he trusts me. Well, never trust a girl who has a DVD full of dramas under her keyboard, my friend.

He went away, and it took me maybe 15 more minutes to book the rest of the afternoon. Sent him an email about the new meetings so that he wouldn’t have to come back to his office. I even told security at the entrance of the building so that they would stop him, in case he didn’t read it.

And then, of course, came drama time. Closed the door, turned off the light, and all day, watched the episodes I had brought. If that day, everything went wrong in the country because my boss spent the day in made up meetings, blame it on me.

I’ll be honest with you, this might happen again this summer.

 
Drama addict: Monika
Addiction-inducing drama: Cinderella’s Sister (leading to skipped classes and cover-up lies to her sister, whom she met afterward)

I had to run to the station, which is around 1 hour away from home, I had to take a train, then change to tube, but not just one line, two tube lines. So yes it takes me 45 minute to get to the station where I was supposed to meet her.

The one thing is that there are only 2 exits from the tube station, and they are connected. My sister used to wait at one of the 2 exits, and once I walk out of the tube station she’ll see me right away. That’s why I came up with a plan. 30 minutes before the time I was supposed to meet her, I went on the train. When I arrived, I called her and said my classes finished but my teacher wanted to see me, thus i’d have to stay late. So I told her to wait at the shop across the tube station, which she said she would.

But then I thought what if she forgot and waited for me at the station. So I had to take the long way, by bus. So on the bus, I was trying to be patient, but it was 5pm and the traffic was so heavy. In the end, I only took the bus to the next tube station, then I went to the underground instead. On the way I thought of how to tell her if I happened to see her right at the stations, then I thought I should say I was walking with a friend and forgot that she was waiting.

Luckily she waited for me in the shop, so well in the end, I used up all of my brain cells to think of excuses for my watching the drama and skip school :”>

 
Drama addict: pabo ceo reom
Addiction-inducing drama: Coffee Prince

My ex-boyfriend took me on a vacation to Hawaii for 5 days. He’s an avid surfer so he had set up a date on the beach one day. I faked a stomach flu because I just couldn’t wait to finish two episodes of Coffee Prince in our hotel room. When he came back, he said I had puffy eyes (apparently I cried at some point in the drama). He thought I was upset about not being able to go to the beach and took me to a bar to lighten the mood. Basically I got piss drunked (bad bad bad idea..) and told him in my drunken stupor that I was crying because of some guy named Choi Han-kyul. My boyfriend (who’s Korean) started getting mad asking me who the hell is this Han-kyul guy and if I was cheating on him. I then apparently blacked out from the alcohol.

The next day I was lying in our hotel bed with the fattest hangover ever. When I fully woke up, I found out via a message at the receptionist desk that my boyfriend had flown back home and left me in Hawaii by myself. My first reaction was “that fcuking jerk!” because I couldn’t remember what had happened the night before.

Annnnnnnyhow, long story short, I flew back, made a huge scene, kicked him in the ass, FELT LIKE AN ASS MYSELF when I found out the entire story, and we were both speechless about how the hell this all went down. We eventually broke up because of a multitude of reasons, which I can assure you were much more significant and normal than the situation I talked about. However, to this day, my close girlfriends like to taunt that I singlehandedly destroyed my love life because of my addiction to kdrama.

They ask me all the time why aren’t there rehab centers for kdrama addicts? I just ask myself: where the hell are all the cute, rich, and loving male kdrama addicts out there? Holler!

 
Drama addict: bleu
Addiction-inducing drama: My Name Is Kim Sam-soon, Spring Days, Stained Glass

I once stayed up a whole week in my apartment watching MNIKSS, Spring days, and Stained Glass Window. For a week, the curtain of my apartment was drawn, newspapers left uncollected in front of my door, mails unopened. I survived the whole week only by eating ramen and kimchi, drinking gazillion cups of coffee. I turned myself into a cave woman.

A week later I went out to collect my mountain of newspapers, a really cute guy from next door apartment jumped to his feet when he saw me.

Cute neighbor: Jesus Christ, You are alive!!
Me: *smile sheepishly* “what do you mean? Of course I am alive!”
Cute neighbor: Well, I heard rumor the girl who lived in that apartment killed herself like a week ago over some Asian drama actor or something. You aren’t a ghost are you coz now, you kind of looked like one.
Me: *pout and slam the door*
(Now, not so cute) Neighbor: *laugh loudly* I was joking, I was joking. Come out for a moment I have something for you.
Me: Go away!

A moment later he was speaking in front of my door: “I heard Korean drama blaring on your TV all day and night for a week and thought you may like this one.” (He slips a gift certificate from a local Asian Drama DVD store)

One “a suddenly really” cute guy and a gift certificate from my favorite store?… I kneeled and thanked God for my addiction…

Believe it or not, a year after we got married.

 
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well, the fist drama addiction was You Are Beautiful, because when I found it, I was seriously depressed, unemployed and starving, and had not shown a smile or laughed fo 8 months. I had lost all my shine. I thought I was a worthless piece of trash who nobody needed (had been unemployed for 4 years). But against all odds, despite the fact that I felt indifferent to everything, this drama made me laugh. So I kept re-watching and re-watching the moments that brought me some joy over a long time. I had thought it impossible to ever find my cheerful self again. but I then decided if a simple smile can make such a difference, I will have to try. I would start creating similar emotions, make my felts again and try to put some "baraka", happiness and harmony in them so that they would give people strength. at fist I worked like a machine, but I managed to find my passion and then I got a job at last and my own place. when I think of the hard times, when my home was library or my aunts porch, alone with the drama, it still upsets me, but I am so grateful to this drama for pulling me out of that very black despair. I too want to try and make people laugh, perhaps I can brighten someones day so that they can carry on. I hope so.

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the second addiction was Kill Me, Heal Me, mainly because it was such a thrill and tickle to meet all those alters, wait impatiently what new sides of himself Ji Sung would show us every week, get a kick out of the campy humor I was used to eve since I was a child, that reminded me of legendary 1980ies movies that were not perfect, but they were memorable and their impact immense.
I grew to love all the alters so much I watched every damn BTS footage, looked up every pictue, every detail, kept checking all the sites for news and interviews, kept re-watching the actors old dramas when waiting fo the next episode got too unbearable. Learned all the quotes. Drew chibis. I did everything I never did for a drama. Kept messaging and commenting the dramas´FB and official pages. Kept checking #KillHeal or #TeamSeGi or #TeamDoHyun for new tidbits. and commented here. Couldn´t kept gushing about it. Couldn´t let go of the drama. Kept missing all of them so much after it ended. Oh, kept listening to the soundtrack, but wasn´t able to find a ringtone of Freak for my phone.
and I remember all lines of each alter, I remember mostly everything, just thinking about it makes me feel warm. keep waiting for pery´s boat to tie ends to our museum harbors´ peer and, well, I am glad we don´t use rice cookers. But we have about 45 old mine shells... oh crap.

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oh, also checked Twitter for KMHM news and drove my colleagues mad talking about it. Kept checking rooftops ... was dying to get my hands on character dolls or any sort of memorabilia... kept begging my postcossing friends fo KMHM postcards.

I guess this is not addiction, it is cult.

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Awww....I'm glad you were able to find your smile again. :)

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your story is really touching...You are beautiful was also the kdrama that draw me in
Good luck ^_^ Fighting

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Well, at the beginning of my affair with KDrama I blew off a wedding so I could binge on 'Queen Seondeok.' A while after that I forgot a Match.com first date to 'Chuno' binge, stood the poor soul up. Needless to say he didn't give me another chance (the bastard!).
Right now I should be cooking dinner, but, EH! would rather watch 'Hwajeong'.
That's why God made frozen dinners.

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I went to Seoul last spring just to find the filming locations from Mixed Up Investigation Agency, going back next week to do the 1N2D 1 day Jongno tour. Every Oct. I go to Myrtle Beach and marathon kdramas and films, this year will be Pride and Prejudice, the original Housemaid and maybe Dae Jang Geum. I work 2 jobs to pay for travel and dvds. Wish there was a cure.

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"They ask me all the time why aren’t there rehab centers for kdrama addicts? I just ask myself: where the hell are all the cute, rich, and loving male kdrama addicts out there? Holler!"

SOML.
And omg the last story! That could be a drama itself! lol
or... the new SOML? :p *fingers crossed*

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ok this sounds stupid but i want to ask, is spill the beans only for korean drama ? or it could be taiwanese etc?

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well, where else will find a supporting of drama addicts who will get your addiction...don't hesitate to share
Drama addicts don't discriminate :D

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"you and by the way i'm a korean, taiwanese partly chinese dramas addict and when the above don't do it... i seek bollywood ^_^

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The story of the lady in labour.....wow...that was something. But that might be a good way to get through such a tough time. I'll keep that in mind for future.

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Very new to dramabeans, discovered it by accident about a month ago n absolutely loved this site. Been enjoying the recaps on recent popular dramas and now having discovered "spill the beans" it's getting even better

Bn a kdrama fans only in recent yrs, n started to get fascinated when I chance upon a korean drama televised on my local TV and started watching. then the wonders of Internet and the discovery of websites that had tons of korean dramas and movies, well what more do I need to say. It got me hooked gradually but surely and wherever I go, I must have my tablet with me and in places where Internet access is limited, I made sure I downloaded enough dramas to last me for that period.

Now I've gotten more addicted due to luxury of excess time on my hands. Aren't I lucky.

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Oh my these tales are so hilarious! Hahaha they give me hope that I'm not that bad of a KDrama addict! The worst I have ever done was cut classes for a week making my attendance rate drop eventually retaking the module.I looked like a raccon with my eyebags and had alot of explaining to do to my parents,but that was how much love I had for Gu Jun Pyo. They couldnt understand why I was so addicted to Korean dramas being Indian myself. Hahaha and also a few years ago I marathoned King 2 Hearts. I cried so hard that my parents thought I was mad. I cried myself sick and had fever for a few days. I still remember the look on my moms face when she came into my room and I was sobbing into a towel when Earnest Bot died. She almost sent me for therapy for depression(which I was over a drama). Hahaha oh man those were the times.

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Oh Gosh! I hear you...where in India are you?? I really need company to share my passion/addiction for K-dramas!!! Read my post and I swear I go through the same here..

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Haha I can just imagine. There are times I had insomnia and could not sleep and the first thing I did at 3am in the morning, crazy me... Immediately opened up my tablet and started watching my kdrama till 6.30am n the. Got ready to go to work. What a happy way to spend my time!!

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Didn't even realize it's been 5 years!! It's been a good 5 years for me. My cute guy is still cute, only pout when I drag our little one to cuddle in front of my beloved drama. " stop infecting her mind with that non-curable addiction of yours" he would say.
As always, I would say "go away!" . And he'll be "again???!!"

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Well that's adorable. Glad to know you and the cute guy are still happily together :D

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oh, wish you a happy ever after, but can you answer my Q?
how did he recognize that it was korean dramas playing, is he a drama addict too :D ?

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My idea of a Kdrama addiction rehab center:

1. Each room will have a large screen, a couch or a lounger or a bed.
2. The rooms will be labeled by a drama title (i.e. Healer room, K2H room, Coffee Prince room, etc).
3. Of course, the drama of which that room is named after will be played all day long.
4. Then we can squee and cry and laugh and hug our pillows all day long along with our favorite dramas. ALL DAY, ALL NIGHT. WHENEVER WE WANT.
5. And to further help us with our addiction, our beloved idols will grace us with a fan meet in the rehab center once in a while.

Because, my dear Beanies, what we have, this addiction, is NOT a sickness that needs to be cured. It is a passion that needs to be fueled and kept alive. So, watch on. We're all in this together! Fighting!

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...constant Behind the Scenes live stream...

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@Chesens

+10
You've got the true blue '...... Ruined Us' Spirit. This was one of the ideas for the 'Healer Ruined Us Support Group's' "hospital" which was paired with a passion for Ji Chang Wook and lots of drool to fill not 1 but 4 large swimming pools. LOL! The 'rehab' center featured a shop to sell our fave snacks so that we could sit and watch all day as we 'supported' our addiction. :D

Just change the '......' to the name of any drama we felt ruined us for other dramas. ?

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I am Indian and just one crazy fan of K-Dramas. I have for the last 7-8 years chucked Indian entertainment for good. I don't watch any of the dramas here and bollywood films are just out of question. My family tries to get to me watch them and I just yawn. My mother actually thinks that I must have reincarnated and must be Korean in my past life! I eat breathe sleep K-dramas. I have K-pop and ost's in my car, I only watch dramas all day and more often than not marathon for days together (my mother even gets annoyed by my 'strange' behaviour...She's worried I might be depressed and not being a social animal since I am glued to my laptop day and night). My love for dramas began with My Princess and I just got hooked to K entertainment since then. Song Seung Hyun swoon!
I find so many Korean Actors handsome can't seem to decide who I like more or less. There are just soooo many guy!! Lee Seung Gi, Hyun bin, Lee Jong Suk, Seo In gook, Lee Min ho, Choi Jin Hyuk, Gong Yoo, Jang Hyuk and the list goes on.... This country has such huge talent coupled with great looks! My only wish is to live /work in Korea for a year! Pray it will happen. I get all my recaps from dramabeans and I love reading about others perspectives about dramas. I feel happy being part of this community since no one around me understands my obsession for K-dramas!

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Hurray! - I am not insane after all. There are people in the world just like me - addicted to kdramas!

The stories featured above are funny and also the ones shared by the commenters.

Yep - have known to marathoned kdramas when i was sick and supposed to be resting!
Yep - have known to marathoned kdramas and had to call in sick the next day due to lack of sleep and need to get thru the rest of the episodes.
Yep - have known to not come out of the house from Friday sundown to Monday/Tuesday morning while marathoning kdramas. Long weekend here in the USA coming up (Labor day) - so I will be marathoning either King2Hearts Or City Hunter from Friday night thru Tuesday am!!!

Thank u all for sharing your stories and am looking forward to seeing more in the 'new' feature here at DB.

(DB has fueled/added to the addiction by the recaps, and review lists!)

HERE'S TO KDRAMAS - the ray of sunshine in our lives - makes us laugh, cry, facepalm, rage at crazy writer/pd-nims, spazz over handsome/pretty actors and provoking some deep thoughts, learn some history and new culture and language, etc.

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OMG--i LOVE the story about the sister giving birth and the neighbor!!! I thought I was bad but I don't have stories like this--just my kids totally bummed that I don't pay attention to them anymore. addicted.....

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I am total newbie to Korean dramas when compared to others. I stay in Southern part of India, One day my dad got this new setup box and along with it came many free channels from various countries, I didn't knew then there were soo many channels airing(free channels).

My country has sooo many languages and every language had a channel dedicated so we dont get tired of seeing at all. Foreign channels were also aired I remember one from France, Russia , Germany etc and in one of those channels came a Korean channel. Cant remember the channel name though. I did not watch much coz it was from a unknown language and so different from our own serials. First I thought it was a Japan channel or China .. anyways I was very crazy about discovery channel never had the habit of watching outside my zone.

Not sure how, but got interested with the drama channel which came with subtitles. One which piqued my interest was a Granny nagging and scolding the new daughter in law who married her famous actor grandson , she kept on scolding the pretty girl just like my granny will do. Then the daughter in law sang a cute song and danced like a teddy bear. It aired for 2 hours I totally enjoyed and started watching every episode then onwards for 2 hours. Want to know which is that drama "Full House" :)

I became soo crazy about this serial that all my family started watching this including my dad & mom. I had to fight my brother for the remote and we both used to rush in front of TV every Saturday to book in advance. The first to get the remote gets to see the serial. ha ha Thanks to Rain and song hye kyo it was a beautiful time spent laughing all the way. Loved the way he used to make her clean the whole house. Thanks for one of the finest actors/dramas of Korea I am a big fan of Kdrama now. This ends my story.

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i wish i had such adorable moments as you ppl. but no, seems like they r costly....nd wat all i could afford were..........me, a gold medalist, becoming nothing; a good daughter,using the pathetic excuse of night outs as studying but watching and reading fanfictions instead; a girl promised with a bright future getting confined to doing dishes and washing clothes; a girl cheating her own blood in the name of reading; a girl who had wasted 5 years of her never returning youth; a girl desperate to get herself back. goodbye kdrama. u ll never be with me from now on. f***u.

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oh wow! it's been 5 years already and i'm still an addict. i was so happy being included in the runner ups. And i'm happy to say, i still know my priorities, my KDrama before anything else =).

I never miss any of Dramabeans post too! and i'm a member since 2003 i think, or was it 2004? Whatever, one thing is sure, i'm here to stay =)

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the last story was just adorable!! omg

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I can also say, if I am really obsessed with a drama, I spend hours trying to translate the title song and other songs´lyrics into my own language so that they would sound nice. I did that with Shut Up: FBB, You Are Beautiful, and can´t remember what else.... they are all somewhere. and I even did a try-out recording with my versions.

maybe if I find them, I will post them in my blog (if I am not too embarrassed).

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all are very cute!

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I can't believe it's been five years...I cringe reading my own story again lol. I've been back to Hawaii since then with my girlfriends and this time I'm happy to report they all understood my kdrama addiction. It's part of who I am!

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oh, so that's you! pabo ceo reom !
i found your story the most interesting one !
what is the name you go by on dramabeans ?! since you are using 2 name..it's confusing

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@bleu..your story is adorable.

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