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Oh My Ghostess: Episode 6

Snap, crackle, and pop. Well our ghostess sure doesn’t waste any time. At this point, we’d be disappointed if she did, right? She’s always been about making the most of her precious remaining time, which makes sense given that she has the benefit of hindsight and is full of regrets about dying young. But today she actually starts to use that philosophy to influence the living, and a certain hoity-toity chef begins to soften around the edges.

 
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EPISODE 6 RECAP

In the split-second that Bong-sun is distracted by a producer calling out her name, Soon-ae sees her chance and repossesses her. She immediately takes out her phone and calls emergency to rescue her father, and then gets dragged back to the cooking show set.

Sun-woo tells her not to look at anyone else and just focus on the batter, and says that he’ll figure something out to make up for the lack of flour (which Bong-sun spilled on her last turn).

Soon-ae wills her father to hold on a little longer and hurriedly takes her turn in their cooking challenge. Thinking on her feet, she grabs the bean powder to substitute for the missing flour, completing their mission. She doesn’t even stay for final pleasantries, and dashes off to the emergency room.

She runs around terrified that the next ghost she sees will be Dad’s, but thankfully he’s awake and reaches out for her hand. Soon-ae is so overcome with relief that she hugs him and cries, “Father!” She learns from the doctor that it’s cirrhosis of the liver due to excessive drinking, but they’ve caught it early enough that it can be treated, just as long as he stops drinking.

Soon-ae nags her father that he should’ve quit drinking like she said, and he chuckles fondly, saying that she really sounds like his daughter when she nags like that. He figures that she called him father by accident when she first arrived, but says it was nice—for a moment in his haze, he thought his daughter had returned.

Soon-ae forces back her tears and says that he can just think of her as a daughter then, and he agrees that he already thinks of his daughter whenever she’s around. Little Bro Kyung-mo runs in wailing that he thought Dad had orphaned him, and Soon-ae yells that he shouldn’t have let Dad get to this state if he was so worried.

She drags him out by the ear to yell at him some more about getting his head out of his ass and taking care of Dad properly, and Kyung-mo scoffs that he’s Dad’s son, and she shouldn’t be acting like a daughter-in-law so early, no matter how much she likes him. Pfft.

Soon-ae whacks him upside the head and tells him to get it together, and Kyung-mo actually swoons a little, noting that it’s the first time a girl’s hit him on the head save for his noona. You are such a weird kid.

PD So-hyung comes by to congratulate Sun-woo on the inventive dish, and then passes down the order from her boss to swap Bong-sun out for a different assistant chef. They’re worried about another broadcast accident, but Sun-woo reminds her that they were the ones who insisted that she stay for continuity’s sake.

He defends Bong-sun and says it was her idea to add the bean powder today, and tells So-hyung that they come as a pair, so they can fire him if they really want. Aw. So-hyung tells him not to be overly sensitive about this, but he argues that he hires people for a minimum of six months before making any decisions, and finds them a place to go if he ever fires them. He calls it basic human etiquette, and walks out.

That night, Sun-woo listens at his window next to the storeroom to check if Bong-sun has come home, and sits up in bed wondering where she ran off to and if she’s okay. He finally caves and calls her, and she acts like she’s far away and drops the call, only to walk into his room a moment later. He grouses that she said she was far, and she croons that she’ll always show up right away, “Because I live inside your heart!”

Soon-ae’s sunny disposition is immediately evident, and he asks if she’s on an upswing, ironically referring to her manic state as a visiting ghost. She plops down on his bed and coaxes him to lie down for five minutes, and he wrangles free and insists that they go outside so they can talk.

Soon-ae whines, but quickly decides that doing it outside wouldn’t be bad either, and giggles before joining him out on the roof. Sun-woo wants to talk about her future and asks, “What is it that you want to do?” She sing-songs coyly, “You know what.”

He tells to be serious for a moment and asks if her dream is to be a chef, and says that she’s good on her feet and not without skill, but lacks basic training. He offers to formally take her under his wing to train (awwww), and Soon-ae agrees happily.

He warns her that he’s not kidding and will be hard on her, and she agrees that a tough guy is way more appealing. She aegyo-pokes him until he can’t help but break into a smile. So cute.

He wants to start right away and goes back to basic knife work, instructing her on how to cut different vegetables and why. He’s impressed that she’s quick to understand, but as the night wears on, Soon-ae grows tired of the endless chopping.

She lets the knife slip and cries out that she cut her finger, and Sun-woo rushes over in worry and sticks her finger in his mouth to suck out the blood. I dunno why, since it’s not a snake bite, but who cares.

He quickly discovers that she was joking and tells her to hurry up and finish the last few vegetables, so then she just attacks him with hugs and refuses to let go until he agrees to call it a night. I love that he starts laughing while arguing with her, and when he finally relents, she decides she doesn’t want to let go yet, and he starts wrestling her in turn.

Soon-ae looks around her converted storeroom and says that compared to sleeping downstairs, this is a hotel. She’s exhausted from the chef training session but decides it’ll be worth it because spending all that time with Sun-woo means that one thing will lead to another…

She fantasizes about him stirring a pot of sauce with his hand over hers. He turns her around to face him and backs her up, stopping to lift her up onto the counter and dropping pans in the process. Whoa, that was hot.

They kiss in slow motion and wrap their arms around each other, and Soon-ae snaps out of the fantasy squealing in delight.

That makes her wonder what Sun-woo is doing right now, and she gets excited thinking that he might be coming out of the shower with nothing on. She’s pretty damn close, since he’s walking out of the shower in nothing but shorts. When he hears her knocking on the door, he runs over to lock it just in time.

Soon-ae pouts at his door, then notes that the dog is now ignoring her because he’s mad that she yelled at him last time. Is it that, or something else?

In the morning, the staff is confused to find giant mounds of chopped vegetables in the kitchen, and Sun-woo steps in to take credit for it before Soon-ae can speak up. Sous chef Min-soo is disappointed to hear that his dish won’t be the special today because they have to use up these veggies first, and Soon-ae slinks away guiltily.

She asks Sun-woo why he took credit for the vegetables, and he tells her to keep their training a secret so that the others don’t misunderstand. She clings to his arm and asks coyly what kind of misunderstanding, and he bites down on her finger this time to wriggle free.

She calls out after him that that just makes her want to do it more, and Eun-hee comes by to ask, “Do what?” and Soon-ae pretends she was talking about exercise. When Eun-hee says she was worried about her the last few days, Soon-ae calls her concern burdensome, making Eun-hee feel awkward.

She calls her brother to check on Dad’s release from the hospital, and Kyung-mo is amazed that she got his number somehow. Dad likes her more and more, and Kyung-mo warns him not to be won over so easily, since he has yet to decide his heart.

Officer Sung-jae lurks around outside Dad’s restaurant, and is surprised when Dad and Kyung-mo walk up behind him. He acts like he was concerned when he heard about Dad’s collapse, though he looks almost disappointed to hear that he’ll be fine.

He asks who discovered him, and Kyung-mo says that’s the mystery, since the paramedics say that his daughter called them: “But it’s not like my noona came back from the dead or something.” That seems to pique Sung-jae’s curiosity.

Dad gives Sung-jae a drink and thanks him for always coming by like this, and Sung-jae tells him to take care of his health. But when he walks out, he throws the drink in a rage, smashing it against a car windshield.

Sun-woo takes Soon-ae with him to the fish market today, and the others start to notice that he keeps taking her with him wherever he goes. Joon in particular seems to linger on the thought. They run into Sung-jae on their way out, and at his mention of being worried about her at the police station the other day, Soon-ae belatedly acts like she remembers what he’s talking about.

Sun-woo uses the visit to the fish market as another lesson about touching and feeling things for herself to test quality, and Soon-ae immediately starts feeling him up: “What, you said touch and feel for myself.”

She’s impressed when she sees him in action though, all friendly with the shopkeepers and throwing around a country accent as he flirts and makes deals. He’s adorably attentive to her too, bringing her borrowed boots to wear when a deliveryman spills water on her sneakers, even stooping down to put them on her feet.

Her stomach is so growly that they stop to eat, and Soon-ae sneaks a half-finished plate of dumplings from the next table over, thinking they’ve been abandoned. The man at the next table comes back in wondering where his food went, and happens to recognize Sun-woo.

Sun-woo offers an autograph, but the guy is actually a high school classmate, and Sun-woo’s face hardens when he recognizes the guy. He tries his best to play it cool and even invites a group of their classmates over to his restaurant tonight, though Soon-ae can tell something’s not right.

Soon-ae asks about it on the car ride home, but Sun-woo doesn’t want to talk. A flashback confirms what we expect: The group of guys he just invited to his restaurant were the bullies who ragged on him in high school.

Kyung-mo runs over to Dad in excitement and shows him the wad of cash he just found on noona’s desk, but Dad tells him to put it back where he found it. Kyung-mo complains that Dad won’t touch anything of noona’s, as if she isn’t really dead—he hasn’t even stopped paying her cell phone bill. Kyung-mo storms out crying that Dad loves his dead daughter more than his living son, and Dad deflates. He calls Soon-ae’s number just to try it again, but there’s no answer.

After taking Eun-hee to the hospital, Sung-jae takes her home and tells her not to be too disappointed and that they’ll just keep trying to have kids. He asks about Bong-sun being forgetful (Eun-hee says that’s not like her) and whether she’s friendly with Sun-woo, which she says wasn’t really the case before, but she seems to have changed lately.

Once he’s gone, Eun-hee finds something wedged in between two drawers in Sung-jae’s desk, and pulls out an old cell phone with a cracked screen. Aack, that’s Soon-ae’s phone, isn’t it? She doesn’t think much of it and puts it back in the drawer.

Sun-woo tells his staff that his friends are coming tonight, and changes up the special yet again, much to Min-soo’s ire. He goes totally overboard and plans dishes with the most expensive ingredients, and calls for the special tablecloths he got from Italy and the awards he’s won to be out on display.

He looks over every last detail with a fine-toothed comb and waits nervously for his friends to arrive, though he’s disappointed when the lead bully Chul-min isn’t with them because he’s coming straight from work.

The guys are super impressed when Sun-woo’s staff hangs on his every word and reacts with military precision at his orders, and Sun-woo enjoys acting like a hotshot (well, more than usual). The staff gapes at the expensive wine and food being trotted out and wonders what’s gotten into their chef.

Bully Chul-min finally arrives, and Sun-woo takes on a mean passive-aggressive streak to his words, noting that Chul-min has let himself go. He offers to serve up anything he wants to eat, and adds that he used to do the same in high school: “I probably got my money stolen too.” Chul-min looks chastised at his words, while the others hurry to fill the awkward silence.

It’s not long before Chul-min gets up to leave, and Sun-woo follows him outside. Soon-ae comes out with more dishes and overhears the others talking about how different things are now that Sun-woo is successful, when he used to be the nobody under Chul-min’s thumb.

Sun-woo acts all sad that Chul-min has to leave early, and insists on giving him cab fare too. Chul-min swallows his pride and takes the money, and admits that he’s a vacuum salesman and times are tough, and asks if he knows anyone who might need vacuums.

It takes all the air right out of Sun-woo’s sails, making him suddenly feel so small and petty. The feeling lingers with him long after the night is over, and he sits in the dark by himself, lost in thought. Soon-ae notices all of this and tries to perk him up, but he tells her to train on her own tonight.

She whips up a pancake to bring to the rooftop where he’s drinking alone, and shoves a piece in his mouth against his protests. He offers faint praise and she runs with it, declaring him an amazing chef because one lesson with him and she’s so much better. He smiles at that and tells her to just put him back where she found him if she’s going to turn him all topsy-turvy like that.

She says he looks so handsome when he smiles and rests her head on his shoulder as she says in her cutesy voice: “It makes me want to pluck you.” HA. He snaps at her to stop with that doing-it talk, because it makes him dart awake in the middle of the night.

She doesn’t see why unless… he’s a virgin. She gasps, “Really? WHY?” He insists that he’s not, which she doesn’t believe. He shouts back, “You’d be in big trouble!” and she hilariously crows, “I want to be in trouble with you. I really want to be in trouble.” LOL.

She takes on a world-wearied bent to her words and reasons that life is shorter than you think, and it’s better to just forgive and lose sometimes, as long as you can spend your days being happy. She points out that the one who forgives is the one who can sleep easy, and that seems to speak to Sun-woo’s angst.

Soon-ae says that there isn’t much to being happy and demonstrates with a bite of food and a swig of beer to wash your troubles away, and Sun-woo agrees that she’s right. He complains whens he wants to take a selca but poses on cue, of course.

She swoons at the moonlight and lies down on his leg as a pillow, and behaves herself for about two seconds before reaching up his leg with her wandering hands. Naughty girl. He pulls her hand away but lets her stay there, and says gently that her pancake is seasoned well but not quite up to snuff. He offers to take her to a place that has the best pancakes in town “for training,” and she excitedly makes him pinky-swear.

He starts to get up to go to bed so she latches onto him, and by now I swear I can’t tell if he’s fighting her or hugging her back. I love that when he cries out that she’s hurting his back, she quickly retreats. Can’t have him putting his back out!

Soon-ae goes to visit Dad in the morning, and when she hears that the doctor ordered light exercise, she suggests a hike. Dad says that his daughter used to come up here every morning, and regrets never joining like she had always wanted.

He sighs that he’s just full of regrets and tells Bong-sun not to live that way, and they make plans to take morning hikes together from now on.

Sun-woo surprises Min-soo by finally putting his spinach pasta special on today’s lunch menu, and Min-soo clutches the menu board like he might take it back any second. Sun-woo and Soon-ae exchange a little glance and a tiny smile like he’s taking her words to heart, and Joon picks up on it.

Joon takes Soon-ae to the locker room for a chat and asks if she’s got something going on with Sun-woo, and starts to ask what’s up with her, but stops midway. He starts to walk off but turns back to tell her not to be stupid and get herself hurt. Ugh, stop making me swoon! Soon-ae has no idea what he’s saying, but finds it dreamy anyway.

Sun-woo’s mom has really taken a shine to Shaman Unni, and calls her to meet for coffee for no real reason other than to hang. The shaman grumbles that this is all Soon-ae’s fault, and is convinced that she’s hiding somewhere close by. Just then, a woman walks into the coffee shop, ringing the chime on the door, and Shaman Unni has an epiphany.

At the restaurant, Sun-woo bites the bullet and calls Bully Chul-min to offer up some contacts who might need vacuums, but Chul-min speaks up first and says that he shouldn’t have asked Sun-woo for help like that, feeling ashamed about it now.

Sun-woo says to ask if he changes his mind, and at the last second Chul-min says, “Sun-woo-ya, I’m sorry for the past.” It surprises him, but Sun-woo accepts it and tells him it’s all in the past, and ends the call with a smile on his face.

Soon-ae comes out to make sure he hasn’t forgotten about their pancake date, and he assures her that he’ll come by to pick her up later. She decides that today is D-Day and rifles through Bong-sun’s clothes, finally resorting to cutting them up to make something suitable.

She duct-tape-waxes her legs (oowww) and uses air freshener as perfume, and skips out in anticipation of the night ahead.

Sun-woo waits on the corner where they promised to meet, wondering why he’s being made to wait when it’s not even a real date (you sure look like you’re dressed for a date though), and Soon-ae hurries when she realizes how much time has passed.

But she’s stopped in her tracks by Shaman Unni, who says that she’s been hiding right under her nose all this time. Soon-ae tries her best to play dumb, but Shaman Unni is on to her and rings her bell collar to prove her point.

With no other choice, Soon-ae takes off at a run, and Shaman Unni gives chase. She finally gets close enough to reach out with her magical stick, and Bong-sun and Soon-ae split on contact. Soon-ae hops a ride on a bus and Shaman Unni follows, leaving Bong-sun standing in the street utterly spun around.

She walks along in a daze until she comes upon Sun-woo, waiting on her for their date.

 
COMMENTS

Yay, I’m so glad that Bong-sun is the one who gets to go on their not-a-date. She deserves a night of Sun-woo being sweet to her after missing out on all their other cute moments. This time around, I thought Soon-ae had a good reason for possessing her, though obviously she’ll always be in the wrong morally when it comes to taking over Bong-sun’s body without permission. She is a ghost, after all, so I don’t exactly expect her to be respectful or considerate, but I’m still holding out hope that she’ll learn to be more respectful of Bong-sun’s life, and that they’ll influence each other more directly from here on out. There’s so much good they could do for each other, if only they could get beyond the obvious reasons that they’re in opposition to one another. Bong-sun is the one with the future—in cooking, in Sun-woo’s life—and I want Soon-ae to start looking beyond her short-term goal of getting some and moving on (not that her fixation with Sun-woo’s nekkid body isn’t good for laughs).

Soon-ae is certainly capable of empathy and concern for others, as she’s shown repeatedly with her father and now even with Sun-woo. And now that she has a stronger motivation to keep Bong-sun tied to her father for his health, maybe they can reach some kind of agreement to help each other out. Maybe Bong-sun really could become Dad’s surrogate daughter. She certainly could use the family. Poor Dad really is hanging on by a thread, but I’m thankful for Soon-ae’s sake that he hasn’t touched a thing in her room or turned off her cell phone, because it’ll come in handy when we’re looking for her killer. Assuming she was killed, of course, but it’s looking more and more like she was, and quite possibly by Shady Officer Sung-jae (or the malevolent ghost riding his body, eep). I like that he’s gone from creepy mystery guy to a growing active threat already, as he starts to clue in on Bong-sun’s odd changes in behavior. There’s no telling what he’ll do to hide his crimes, and that gives the plot a nice jolt of tension.

I’m so glad that Sun-woo’s defenses are starting to crack where Bong-sun/Soon-ae are concerned, more for Jo Jung-seok’s sake than anything—it’s written all over his face that he finds her utterly adorable, and I love how realistic it makes his begrudging affection, saying one thing and doing the opposite. Her open adoration feeds his enormous ego too, but it’s even better when she’s able to make him feel better about himself in the ways that really matter, like when he’s feeling really small and petty for holding a high school grudge and needs the nudge to grow up and forgive. I found his arc today especially poignant for his character, because he seems to have built his tough, confident identity around his anger at having been bullied as a teen. It was why he was so hard on Bong-sun before, and why he continues to be so outwardly haughty now—to keep others from thinking he’s an easy target.

When he invites his friends to dinner, the expectation is that they’ll treat him the same way that they used to, but it was a nice twist to see that everything went the way he wanted… but he was left feeling dissatisfied. I cringed when he kept harping on the past and showing off, but thought more of him for being self-aware enough to realize in the moment how little it meant now. Making his bully feel weak and guilty actually did very little to make up for the torment he’d been holding onto all this time, and Soon-ae was smart enough to pick up on what he was feeling and give him advice without puncturing his ego about it. Of course it’d be a lie to say that it isn’t satisfying to know that the bullied kid grew up a strong, respected leader while the bully became a washed-up salesman, but the point is that Sun-woo didn’t really need that pain to define him anymore, and being the bigger person was actually better for his own happiness. It’s nice to see him growing up, and even better that Bong-sun/Soon-ae is the reason why. He’ll be falling head over heels in no time. And until then, I wouldn’t mind biding my time with more fantasies.

 
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Love this episode!!

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Thank you, girlfriday, for this recap! I just finished the episode and came here to find you just uploaded the recap :D

I was actually pretty disappointed at the beginning of the episode that it was going to be Soon Ae again and not Bong Sun, which deflated this episode a little for me at the start, but quickly washed away because this drama is awesome. I loved Sun Woo's arc with his past bullying being such a poignant part of his growth, and defined how he became and how he is today, only to find that the people who were mean to him treated him well now not just because he's famous but because they grew up too. The bully scenes made me cringe with second-hand embarrassment so much that I actually had to pause a few times to get rid of all the 닭살 before starting again LOL

I love love love that it's going to be Bong Sun on the date, because it seemed like all the moments of character revelation for Sun Woo happened with Soon Ae, and while I enjoy her character, she needs to find peace in her being as a ghost to move on and not interrupt a living person's life. I do hope they'll work together to help dad because those scenes warm my heart so much, and the family is really struggling with the loss of Soon Ae. I also hope they'll work together to solve Soon Ae's mysterious death, and figure out what in the world is going on with Sung Jae. I'm still very curious as to what's going to happen there.

All in all, still loving it! It's going to be a long week ...

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Had to add this in hahaha but I love how frank this drama is about physical intimacy. It is not afraid to go there which seems very frank and real and it is so much fun!

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I couldn't believe where Soo-ae's hand was heading before chef batted it away! I can't believe they went there!

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haha ikr it's like a different S.Korea in this show, all open and liberal

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Well, this is a cable show so they have a lot more freedom to go there than the 3 major public broadcasts.

Then there is the S.Korean movies where there's nothing left to the imagination.

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yupp exactly all of my thoughts. Loved this week's episodes.

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Oh and I also wanted to add that the fantasy kitchen scene was so HOoOoT! lol

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It's not like I replayed that scene or anything ...

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Well, considering that it was the phantasy of a horny virgin ghost with a rather long record of sexual assault, it was surprisingly tame.

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I had to reread GF take on it. At first I thought she wrote "dropping pants" in the process haha.

These two are so good together I'd ship them irl if Jung-seok wasn't married.

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LOL

and he's not married yet, is he? last time I heard, he's dating singer Gummy?

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My mistake. I thought he was married already.

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ooooooooh. Joon had me swooning at that locker scene..damn! but holy crap that kitchen kiss was something else! love it!! even if it was a fantasy! more please!! :))) but really glad Bongsun is going on this date with Sunwoo. Please more character development for her! thank you!!

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Why is Soon-ae no longer stuck in Bongsuns body like the first time she possessed the body? She can just split on demand now, right?

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No its because the shaman touched Bong Sun's body with that spiritual stick.

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It appears that the Shaman lady's stick was just barely able to touch Bong Sun and that pushed Soon-Ae out of her body.

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Gosh that Kitchen kiss was so hot and unexpected. I loved it.
I just really love Soon Ae in Bong Sun's body. I love the chemistry. Real Bong Sun is kinda dull. Ahh why cant Bong Sun inherit Soon Ae's personality? Lol.
The chef is so hot. And I cried during his high school friends' scene because partly I also feel that way. I have always hoped that one day I can show my cool self to those who belittled me in secondary school. It means so much because your childhood was ruined but you can never feel satisfied because once you grow up, that little revenge seems so petty.
That's why I hate bullies so much. They can change a person so much and yet it means nothing.

I am still so angry. I need me my own posessed Bong Sun to tell me its all okay.

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You know, I felt the same way in high school (secondary school). But you know what happened? I went to college and met people that accepted me for what I was and treated me differently. Since then I never looked back and really never cared to go back to hang out with those old time people from the past because they weren't important enough for me by a long shot.

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What a great episode. I really hope that the evil cop doesn't figure out that Soon Ae is the ghost occupying Bong's body. If he recognizes that, and if he really was behind Soon Ae's death, that would make things dangerous for Bong.

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@VAP

I was thinking that the story will probably go that way. There's going to be rather more of Sung Jae and more tension/danger for both Bong Sun and Soon Ae, I believe, solely based on the fact that SJ is considered one of the 4 leads of this show. :)

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They will definitely go there. He is already suspicious and I believe he will track down that 911 call too.

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The marriage is quite mysterious and so far his wife found Soon Ae's broken phone, she'd finished on a wheelchair as well, let's see what'll happen...

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I was actually thinking how would Sung Jae realise that Soon Ae is occupying Bong Sun's body. Until I realised if Sung Jae is being possessed by a ghost then that means he can see other ghosts as well. So if he happened by chance to see both Soon Ae and Bong Sun interacting then boom there goes his proof.

Plus maybe Bong Sun's sudden change in personality could be signs of body posession to him, as he himself as "experienced" this I guess?

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I am not sure how I feel about the former victim sticking the needles into the former bully.

It makes me feel bad and awkward to see it. There is nothing gained by it. We are all adults now mostly, bygones?

Would you feel bad about your former bully landing on hard times? Good? Ambivalent?

I just want people to live in peace but people just cant let go and it makes for all sorts of weird feels.

Just sayin.

Love u GF.

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Wasn't that the whole point of that storyline? Sun Woo did not feel happy seeing his former bully struggling.

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I thought they made an excellent point there.

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It has been said a thousand times but I'll say it again.

PARK BO YOUNG IS AMAZING!!

She sells the comedy, the drama, the sexiness and everything else in between.

I can't wait for the next episode.

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Oh my gosh how can Park Bo Young be so utterly adorable?!!! She is just so lovable! I love Jo Jung Seok, as Eun Shi Kyung in King 2 Hearts; he was so amazing (remember the scene where he got the bird for the princess? He was so nervous and the stuttering.... it felt so real and palpable!) But I'm loving him as Kang Sun Woo Chef-Nim too. So prickly but caring. Absolutely love this show.

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I absolutely adore the kitchen kiss. This drama is one of a few in recent years that portray adult intimacy in a romantic yet realistic way; or it's just that the acting skills of both actors are damn good. I mean, Jo Jung-Seok seems to like Bo-Young for real in order to look at her with that lingering and desiring gaze...<3

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he already has a GF....singer Gummy

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LOVING this drama!!! A whole week until next episode!! KYAAAAHHH how will I liiiiiiiiiive?!?!?!

I'm DYING to know what's up with Sung-jae and Soon-ae's death. I was really holding out that Soon-ae's just in limbo or something and not actually dead. But from this episode, it really sounds like she's dead-dead. I guess I can't have everything I want in life. :(

Also super excited that Bong-sun is going on this not-a-date. I CAN'T WAIIITTT dang it!!! I need more of this drama! <3 <3

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Cheeeeeeef!

Jung-Seok is amazing <3.

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Thanks very much GF!

After reading your recap, I had to go back to re-watch the episode to see if I could tell that JJS finds PBY adorable LOL!! Not sure, but I really need to watch all their behind-the-scenes... it must have been a riot! :)

I find this show delightful. There's so much going for it. A creepy murder?-mystery to solve, a ghost to be saved, a resolution for a family to find, a romance to blossom.

Soon Ae is just so cute and so deplorable by turns! I can't stop feeling both amused and aghast by her, but mainly amused. Chef's self control has to be iron clad with that much invitation and willingness literally thrown onto his lap. I think I had a big grin on my face and burst out laughing several times at Soon Ae's antics in all their together moments. And if that was just a fantasy, it was one of the hottest in family-viewing-time kdramaland that I've seen in a long while. :D Hurry up and make it real! LOL!

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I’m glad the possession didn’t last, but I truly believe Sun Woo is falling for Soon Ae and not Bong Sun. He totally likes hanging out with Soon Ae’s refreshing personality, and although he would never admit it, he’s flattered by her wanting to do it with him. Even though we know he’s a fan of Bong Sun’s cooking blog, but the person whose cooking Sun Woo admires is Soon Ae since she was the one who helped him win the show both times, and the person whom Sun Woo wants to train to become a better chef is Soon Ae. He was only worried about Bong Sun because she wasn’t acting like Soon Ae. So I feel the writers are going to have a hard time convincing us Sun Woo actually likes Bong Sun.

Sun Woo getting his revenge on his high school friends brought tears to my eyes. What he did may feel good at that moment, but afterwards, you feel like crap. I felt sorry for Chul Min even though you shouldn't feel sorry for bullies, but Sun Woo belittling him by giving him taxi money must have made him feel so small. I'm glad Chul Min had the chance to apologize; that must have been a load off of both of their shoulders. After all, forgiveness is the key to happiness.

Thanks for the recap, girlfriday!

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Your concerns about who Sun Woo is falling for are my thoughts exactly. As I watch the drama I see him falling for Soon-Ae (her come ons, her cooking, her advice, her moments that begrundginly make him smile and boost his ego, hell even her hair down, nice make up, and cute dress to impress at the end of the ep was Soon-Ae's doing) and showing the same kind of concern that he would show for any of his employees (maybe just a smudge more due to the connection of timid identities) with Bong-Sun, Bong-Sun. Basically the writers are making me ship Soon-Ae with Chef and I can see that they want me to ship and that the end game will be Bong-Sun/Sun-Woo (she is the one who is alive after all). However the writers are really going to have to show me connections between Sun-woo and Bong-sun before imma buy such a things because shared blog postings, and some bull about him always thinking both personalities were the same girl because he believed she were bipolar so it all makes sense (um not really cause he likes her when she is having a "manic" episode and not when she is herself?) just won't cut it for me.

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You just said everything I was thinking in reguards to the romance. I've mentioned this before, but it's giving me unwanted School 2015 flashbacks. In that show they never convinced me that Yi-an liked Eun-bi over Eun-byul, and I'm worried that the same thing will happen with Sun-woo, Bong-sun, and Soon-ae. That would be so disappointing since this is clearly a much better drama! There's no way for Sun-woo and Soon-ae to end up together (if she really is dead) so I dont see what the writers are doing with them. I guess they could pair Bong-sun with Joon, they have about the same amount of screen time I guess.

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It's impossible for him to "fall in love with Soon-ae instead of Bong-sun".

You cannot fall in love with a person you don't know. In fact, you cannot fall in love with a person period. You can only fall in love with your idea of a person, and in his mind, both characters are bipolar parts of Bong-sun.

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Woah, one hot fantasy kitchen kiss, but I was kinda hoping it would turn out to be Sun Woo doing the fantasising;)
Feeling a bit uncomfortable about the ethics of Soon-æ using Bong Sun's body for sexy times - technically it is sexual assault against Bong Sun and that is utterly wrong.
Hmm. Now I feel dirty for liking this drama so much...

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not just her but sun woo too since he would be thinking he was with a person and he was with another. Think of a twin sleeping with the boyfriend of her sister.

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Yeah, the more I think about it, the more horrified I feel for Bong Sun and Sun Woo (and all the other women and men Soon-ae has 'tried out' up till now)... Come on kdrama, its not a new concept, its spelled C-O-N-S-E-N-T. Really really really hope the writers resolve this one ethically.

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sure, soon-ae possessing bong-sun and other women's bodies without permission is morally dubious, but i feel like it's a bit mistaken to apply that to this fictional world, where ghosts are abound and possession occurs very frequently- ghosts possess humans just because they want to feel human again, or to resolve grudges, relieve their hunger, or because they've become evil after three years of wandering. we've already had all the explanation of who soon-ae is and what she believes her grudges are that keep her from going on to the other side (virginity) vs what we suspect is the true reason preventing her from doing that (wrongful death).

with all the men that became hypothermic- she didn't assault them or rape them, it was consensual because she used the bodies of beautiful women to seduce them. they only become hypothermic because they didn't have the vitality to withstand her chills.

so, even though it is indeed a bit morally questionable for soon-ae to possess bodies without permission and though i hope that bong-sun will actively resist being possessed against her will from now on or else work out a compromise, i think it's mistaken to fling around the word "rape" and hate on soon-ae for being selfish, immoral, etc.

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The hypothermic men consented to sexy time with the one 'person' believing they were doing it with another. Imagine one of these men encountering the now non-possessed, and potentially very distressed woman afterwards.
In our 'real world' ghosty ménages à trois (i hope) do not happen, but if they did, this would be an issue of sexual assault in the absence of consent for both the male and possessed female.
I know that if I was possessed by a ghost, and my body was used by that ghost to engage in sexual activities with someone else, I sure as hell would be calling it sexual assault. If I was the man, I'd have been placed in the situation where I was misled and therefore violated, plus I'd be facing the very real risk of being accused of violating the woman who was possessed.
Much messiness, which I am praying will be sorted out ethically. And also I'm now hoping that this drama will be raising useful questions and conversations about consent amongst drama viewers who might otherwise get so caught up in the romance and feels that they overlook the disturbing morality and ethics of the situation.

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It's not a mistake to use the word "rape" for what Soon Ae tries to do. If she ever succeeded, she would have been using a woman's body to sleep with a man. The woman, who did NOT give consent whatsoever, would then be raped. It's very similar to being raped while sleeping. These women are unconscious for the most part and cannot consent, and if Soon Ae succeeded, they would have been penetrated/touched against their will.

I understand why you'd want to justify Soon Ae or whatever, and I do think it's partially the fault of the writers for giving us such an unethical situation and making it seem like some kind of quirky thing that's normal for ghosts to do, but to act like people are overreacting when they call it rape or sexual assault is very dismissive. It's not just "morally questionable" - it'd literally be rape.

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I know it is just the sixth ep but I really dont understand hoe the chef would end up with Bong Sun???? not only physically but Soon Ae is able to get closer to him, even emotionally, he likes to spend his time with Soon Ae not Bong Sun. For the real Bong Sun he can feel only pity, sympathy only. Where as, Joon actually cares about Bong Sun, he does not seem to be very comfortable or happy with Bong Sun's new personality (Soon Ae) .

Being only a blog follower would not be sufficient to pair up those too plus I feel though Soon Ae just wants to do it with the chef, soon she would fall for him

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For one, Sun-Woo and Bong-Sun have much more in common than Sun-Woo and Soon-Ae do. Not just the blog, his personality as a child is just like Bong-Sun's as well. For me, the most intimate scene in the drama was when Bong-Sun and Sun-Woo were separated by a wall, communicating to each other, enjoying the exact same things.

Sun-Woo didn't fall for Soon-Ae's personality. If that were true he would have fallen for Bong-Sun BEFORE Soon-Ae left her body the first time. He likes the two Bong-Suns right now.

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you better let them know. they are giving us small clues that he likes her online and off. if he didnt like BS before why would he put up with her being all forward now?

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I love how Soon-ae is so awesome and how Sung-Jae and her interact honestly I kind of in the moment don't like Bong-sun moments cause of how shy and silent she is and I know that sooner or later Soon-ae will have to go and Bong-sun will be the one to stay with Sung-jae and I hope the drama will help me change my opinion when it happens cause I feel for Soon-ae what I felt for Shin Se Gi in "Kill Me Heal Me" I cared for him so much I cried so much in his departure but either way Sung-Jae is so HOT lol

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I'm also worried about how they're handling the romance. The way I see it, romantic feelings are being developed for Soon Ae, not Bong Sun. I'm also curious how Koreans find Soon As using Bong Sun to have sex without permission. Even if it hasn't happened yet, the intent is still traumatizing D:

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tbh I blame the writers for it. They might make something out of it, but it seems like Soon Ae using women's bodies to sleep with men and satisfy herself is being played off as a quirk that makes her an interesting and forward woman. She's not as bound by human ethics, maybe, but.. it's just not a situation I can justify at all. I don't hate Soon Ae (I actually kind of like her), but this is just a mess I can't get behind.

I agree about the romance, too. I'm a bit worried that he's not falling for Bong Sun. I do think there is a connection there. Bong Sun is how he used to be as a teenager, so he sees himself in her. They have likes in common, and I think he'd like the real Bong Sun who's not trapped by social anxiety, lack of confidence, and overwhelming fear (we see her when she's posting on her blog and in the moments when she's relaxed, and I love it). He also seems to like Soon Ae in Bong Sun's body, though, so I'm not sure where this is going. I'm thinking he either likes both or he likes Soon Ae and feels some sense of protectiveness over Bong Sun because she's so similar to how he used to be.

I'm commenting like months after this show ended, so I bet you all already finished it long ago and know what happens lmao.

And I know this is never going to happen, but I'd love Bong Sun and Joon together. They'd probably have a very serene relationship, which I think would be good for someone like Bong Sun. Even if she develops into a more assertive, outgoing person, I think she'll still be introverted and moderately shy.

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The writers are obviously building the emotional connection between Sun-woo and Soon-ar, not Bong-sun, and so I am out Nothing wrong with what they're doing (...at least not yet - there are plenty of potential problems down the road), but I'm pretty disappointed that this drama is going in a different direction than I wanted it to go.

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Seriously, this drama is going to be one of my favorites ever ! I feel so grateful for this year because in 2014, there weren't a lot of KDramas for my liking so yeah, I am spazzing so hard ! I just hope it won't go à la High Society and disappoint me in the latter episodes. I used to love that drama so much at the beginning ... (sigh).

Park Bo Young is seriously amazing. Like super amazing. She gives so much life to her characters, it is sooo crazy. It is like she is really posseded ! So much talent onscreen, it is killing me. I just can't handle how she throws herself for her performance. It is magic, haha.
Like others, I am quite worried for Bong Sun though. Of course, Soo-Ae is awesome but you know, it is BS' body and Sun Woo is supposed to fall in love with her, like her real self. But I am not that worried. I am sure the writer didn't forget about it and really thought it throught.

Damn damn damn, what the heck I am going to do with Jo Jun Seok ! I already fell for him and his gorgeous voice when he appeared in Running Man and now, this performance ? Too much hotness O.O
That kiss was so sexy ! I giggled like a little girl. Couldnt stop blushing either ... Yeah whatever, I just need to find someone like him, huh ?
All their interactions are really great ! Not just Soo-Ae and Sun Woo but with Bong Sun too. I like that the latter connects with him through her cooking recipe site. I am hoping to see more of the two of them ! It seems next episode is going to be all about them so yeaah !

Gah, brother in law is making me sweat in fear. Goosebumps all over. I didnt want to believe it because I have such a soft spot for Im Jo Hwan but I guess he is a baddie. A hot and cutie baddie (double sigh). Love how he portrays him though. That change os expression when he closes the door ? So damn scary.

I love all the characters too. The mother is so beautiful and I am pretty sure that the actress played the mother in Scandal ? Shim Eun Kyung ? Not to be confused with the young and very popular movie star though.

I really like the cooking part too. Overall, it has been so delightful that I didnt even notice that time was flying by. Crazy crazy crazy !

Ah and I completed related about Sunwoo's situation. Years later, meeting his old "bullies" and wanting to show off and all, it is completely understandable. And yet, you realize it is not that satisfying to see the other struggling even though you wished for it to happen in your darken days.

Thanks for the recap as usual and I cant wait for next week !

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hehehe omg.. is it wrong for me to ship bong sun with lil bro? i think i may be the only one

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You are not alone insofar as the brother himself also does ...

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This drama is daebak!!!! Also the ratings from episode 1 up to now is daebak!!!!

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There' s no doubt PBY is the main lead, but i think SA is character main lead and i love it. Though dirty talk and some skinship was tolerable i wish that "do it" things, writer doesn't go there with BS body. I love BS with Joon and chef with SA, because obviously chef is start falling in love with SA and sympathy with BS since he feels there are some resemblance with the past him and BS.

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I think this drama would be more fun if bong sun was aware of what was happening to her. Like the whole time soon ae is in control of her body bon sun is there like noo stop it! Don't touch that! How could you say that! Haha I think it would make it more fun. Then maybe bong sun could use this as the push to me more open and talkative like soon ae. The whole issue was she was too timid and shy. Well soon ae took care of that haha. Then they could learn from each other and both grow. At this rate it will be hard for me to root for sung woo and bong sun. Yes he likes her initially but it's soon ae's spark that is sealing the deal. And if bong sun isn't going to grow and open up when soon ae leaves for good will they just break up? And I remember from the teasers that he does finally agree to sleep with her. So basically he has sex with bong sun and she won't even remember or be able to consent because it was soon ae. That's kinda awful.

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I was thinking the same thing! I always thought it be funny if Bong-sun and Soon-ae fought for controll or something, going back and forth. Sun-woo already thinks she's bipolar as it is. In terms of Soon-ae pushing or helping Bong-sun I'm so dissapointed to see that if anything Soon-ae is making her regress even more!

Does he really agree to it? Wow I never saw the teasers but that couldn't end up well. Maybe Bong-sun will take controll before it happens and put a stop to it? I feel like it will be anger that finally gets her out of her shell, last episode when she was glaring at Soon-ae was the only time I've seen her emote. She might see the whole "near sex" as the last straw that gets her a back bone. Not how I would have thought, but it seems the most logical progression.

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@bunnylion

Well for now Bong sun doesn't even know the reason why Soon Ae wants to borrow her body. Imagine if Bong Sun finally finds out Soon Ae's goal, just like you said maybe her anger will help keep Soon Ae out.

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Yeah the one teaser for the show before it aired had bong sun taunting and teasing Sun woo about being a virgin and he tell her she's going to get into trouble and at the end he chases after her yelling " You're going to be shocked! "So I took that as him agreeing to have sex with her. They are going to her place for drinks anyway which is why she brought up sex. So they are going to have a drunken one night stand. But what happens when Bong sun comes back? She will have to live knowing that even though she doesn't remember it, she had sex with her boss.

The teaser I was referencing -
http://www.dramabeans.com/2015/06/the-virgin-ghostess-gets-saucy-with-her-hotshot-chef/

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I wonder if this teaser won't be in the actual drama? Could it just be what it is, a short teaser to get everyone interested in it? Because in the teaser PBY has her hair tied up and I've realized it's a visual cue to show that Bong sun is herself. Apart from when she's working then even if Soon Ae possesses her she has to tie her hair up for hygiene reason.

When Soon Ae is possessing Bong Sun's body after work she usually lets her hair down, so I don't think the stuff in this teaser will actually happen...It reminds me of the Misaeng teasers before the drama aired, all created for the hype.

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THAT KITCHEN SCENE, DAMN jjs would have felt the heat lawl.

All is fine but id hope NBS doesn't die at the Officer's hand. You could see the evil ghost has a pretty huge resentment against Soon ae family. I think we might see the backstory real soon.

The casts is amazing. The acting is amazing. I hope the story will turn out amazing. Nothing of high society please writer-nimmmmmm.

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