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Sly and Single Again: Episode 12

What a way to end the week! Almost all of the secrets are out now, and the plot proceeds apace. Seung-hyun continues his puppy-dog courtship, supporting Ae-ra both at home and at work. Yeo-jin sinks a little deeper into the quicksand of Second Lead Manipulation, although this episode gives us valuable insight into her darkest fears through her fraught relationship with her father. Jung-woo, meanwhile, is driven to distraction by his fear that Ae-ra may be drifting away. He tries to keep her close, using all of the tricks of the trade except honesty, and none of them seem to work. But when Ae-ra prepares to leave for good, even a man as chronically incapable of knowing his own mind as Jung-woo may be pushed into admitting his feelings.

EPISODE 12 RECAP

Ae-ra discovers Seung-hyun still awake, late at night in his refurbished art studio. He offers to tell her an interesting story, which triggers a hilarious extended fantasy scene in which the cast reenacts the fairy tale of the Seventh Princess.

Seung-hyun’s telling of the story is essentially the story of his parents, couched in the fable, with his father in the role of the king and his mother as the sad queen. Upon the birth of each of children, the happy king gave the queen anything she wished for, but despite the lavish gifts she wasn’t happy — not caged as she was, longing for her freedom.

The seven princesses grew older and the king declared that he would pass along his kingdom to the one with the longest hair. So each daughter diligently attended to her hair, with the queen giving particular attention to her youngest (played by Ae-ra).

Then the queen died, and a foreign prince arrived declaring his intention to marry the princess who would inherit the kingdom. (He’s a boor of a prince, played by Jung-woo, with Seung-hyun playing the nice, devoted servant — this is Seung-hyun’s story, after all.) But when it came time for the princess’s hair to be measured, everyone’s was all the same length — except for the seventh princess. When she revealed her hair, it was cut short, because all along the queen had been cutting it.

Thus the seventh princess lost her inheritance, but gained her freedom. (And her love with the servant Seung-hyun, of course, with whom she lived happily ever after.)

After finishing the story, Seung-hyun explains about his parents. He tells her how his father always provided material comforts, but made his mother feel trapped. Now she lives in Paris, Seung-hyun says, but he wishes that his family could be the kind to fight with each other and reconcile again, like Ae-ra’s family.

His story makes an impression on Ae-ra, who never realized that Seung-hyun had such a history because he’s always laughing and goofing off. He tells her that it wasn’t because he was happy that he laughed; rather, he didn’t want to burden others, and he thought that if he only laughed long enough, something would happen worth laughing about. It’s a nice sentiment, and one that Ae-ra says she once shared. She knows what it’s like to laugh when you want to cry, and tells him not to try too hard.

That’s when Seung-hyun initiates the hug that ended Episode 11, and tells Ae-ra that he hopes his one-sided attraction won’t be one-sided forever. Ae-ra doesn’t say anything, but the hesitant way she returns the hug is much more encouraging than the curt way she broke out of his back-hug a few episodes ago.

Outside the studio, they have a great exchange wherein Seung-hyun tries to be cute, and when Ae-ra calls him out on it, he says that he thought younger guys were supposed to rely on their cuteness. But Ae-ra doesn’t like that kind of man, the kind who make puppy-dog eyes and say, “Noona!”

“That’s a ‘No, thank you’ for me,” she says. When Seung-hyun asks, “What if he’s rich?”, Ae-ra immediately changes her tune: “Thank you!” Pfft. He accuses her of being materialistic, but she maintains that she’s just being honest.

Yeo-jin arrives at President Kook’s house, only to learn that the President has called Jung-woo over. He means to take care of Yeo-jin’s so-called “marriage problem” by putting the pressure on Jung-woo, which is the last thing Yeo-jin wants to hear. She breaks a vase (nothing says “I’m serious” like property damage), and screams at her father that he has to stop doing things like this.

It’s not just about Jung-woo, which we find out when Yeo-jin rips into her father for keeping her mother close by any means possible. She knows his greatest fear is that the people he loves will eventually leave him, and so he uses despicable methods to make sure they stick around. Yeo-jin’s greatest fear is that she will turn out like him.

Yeo-jin’s words enrage her father so much that he raises his hand to strike her. Jung-woo has arrived, however, and interposes himself between Yeo-jin and President Kook. He takes Yeo-jin up to her room, and at her request stays by her side until she falls asleep. Jung-woo passes Seung-hyun on his way out, and Seung-hyun thanks his hyung with a smile.

Back at his apartment, Jung-woo can’t stop worrying about the fire at Ae-ra’s place. He calls her and finds out that she has a place to stay, but she doesn’t tell him where. After hanging up, he sees a letter informing him that an old friend is getting married.

At the Na family rice soup restaurant, Soo-cheol and Min-young are working together with sunny smiles. Soo-cheol’s mom reflects that it’s the first time she’s seen her son work so hard, and Dad hints that if this keeps up, they may be grandparents before long.

The restaurant is hosting a celebration for Ae-ra’s old friends from the “Exam Village” where she first met Jung-woo. Apparently good news comes in threes, because in addition to the upcoming nuptials, the groom-to-be has passed the civil service exam, and his fiancée is two months pregnant.

Min-young jokes that the wife should just take it easy now that her husband has passed the exam, just like Ae-ra intended to do all those years ago. The groom-to-be asks Ae-ra why she doesn’t have a child since she’s been married for so long, and his fiancée has to remind him that she’s divorced.

Another old friend, Chun-gyu, stops by and remarks that he hasn’t seen Ae-ra since her wedding. He’s come up in the world, from working in his father’s store to owning several new locations, and he gives Ae-ra a look that’s just a little bit too interested.

Jung-woo has arrived for the celebration, just in time to see Ae-ra’s family leave. Mom doesn’t trust Dad or Soo-cheol not to try to drink with the guests, so they head off to a sauna to have a beer (or several) there instead. Jung-woo goes inside, where his friends joke that they’re honored that the famous CEO took the time to visit them.

He and Ae-ra play it cool, saying that they may have split up, but they’re fine spending time with each other. Their friends keep calling them the Exam Village Madonna and the Exam Village Genius, remembering the old days. Ae-ra and Jung-woo’s insistence that their relationship is amicable leads them to take a “friendship shot,” hiding their awkwardness as they drink up.

Chun-gyu used to chase Ae-ra around asking her out, and apparently has not gotten over his crush. He’s quite drunk, and follows Ae-ra into the hallway. He tells her that he’s “trying to get something going with her,” even though he’s become too good for her. It’s an odious speech, and Jung-woo hears enough of it to get thoroughly pissed off. He pushes Chun-gyu up against the wall, but Ae-ra yells at him to stop before he can land a blow.

Ae-ra marches Jung-woo outside and reams him out for interfering. She tells him that cases like that are a dime a dozen for a divorced woman, and she’s gotten along just fine all these years without his help. “Stop doing this,” she says. “It’s burdensome.”

Director Oh overhears some of what Ae-ra says, and Seung-hyun arrives in time to see Jung-woo lingering outside the restaurant. He tells Jung-woo that he should leave, and reveals that he and Ae-ra are staying together.

That bombshell stays with Jung-woo all the way to his apartment, where he agonizes over the fact that his ex-wife and his rival are living in one house. Of course he starts imagining the worst, which is a shirtless Seung-hyun doing push-ups when Ae-ra, fresh from the shower, asks him for her towel… HA!

“Don’t give it to her,” Jung-woo mutters, as Seung-hyun walks toward Ae-ra with the towel draped around his shoulders. “Don’t give it to her, don’t give it to her!” Poor Jung-woo… you’re not talking about the towel anymore, are you? Imaginary Seung-hyun offers to dry Ae-ra’s hair, and then leans in ever so slowly for a kiss…. “Noooo!” Jung-woo yells.

The next day, Ae-ra meets with a vegetable vendor and starts to work on a project proposal. Seung-hyun watches her work, and sends her a playful text with a picture he drew. Then Ae-ra gets a call from Yeo-jin, who wants to meet her for a cup of tea.

Yeo-jin tells Ae-ra that she knew about her relationship with Jung-woo, but that’s not all. She also explains about the accident that killed her husband and took her leg, saying that she hasn’t told Jung-woo about her prosthesis yet “because I don’t want him to feel burdened.”

Yeo-jin then asks Ae-ra not to stir up Jung-woo’s feelings. It’s not love that he’s feeling now, she says; it’s guilt. But what Jung-woo needs to be responsible for is not Ae-ra. Rather, it is the company and its seven hundred employees.

Basically, Yeo-jin stakes her claim and appeals to Ae-ra’s compassionate nature to make sure that she stays away from Jung-woo. For someone who said that she doesn’t want to manipulate the people closest to her, Yeo-jin’s doing a pretty good job.

Ae-ra’s big day arrives, when she has to present her project proposal to the head honchos of D&T Soft Ventures and the Shilla Hotel. Team Leader Wang and Song-hee make it clear that a lot is riding on a mere intern, while Seung-hyun urges Ae-ra to just be her usual confident self.

The presentation for the wedding anniversary event starts out well, as Ae-ra’s memories of marriage give her speech a touching sincerity. She talks about the precious moments in a marriage, moments that will remain even as the nature of the relationship changes.

But just when it seems that Ae-ra can’t fail, the CEO from the hotel says that this event sounds too costly. Other executives chime in, saying that Ae-ra must be single, because she doesn’t understand what married women really want.

Ae-ra takes the harsh words in stride, however, and says that she was married, so she knows that what a wife values is not the gift itself, but the thought that went into it. A woman wants to see her husband’s affection most of all, and an expensive gift is merely a symbol of that affection.

The camera cuts to Yeo-jin in her office, tearing up a printed copy of Ae-ra’s presentation with a look of pure frustration. The marketing team, on the other hand, couldn’t be happier when they get a congratulatory call from the Shilla Hotel. The people in charge liked the concept so much that they’ve decided to make it an annual event.

Team Leader Wang rushes off to give Yeo-jin the good news, and Song-hee follows her in order to suggest that Ae-ra shouldn’t be allowed to run such an important event, even though she was responsible for its inception. Maybe it should be handed off to a more experienced, more permanent employee, she says, practically pointing to herself. It’s looking like Song-hee might get away with her sly maneuver, when Jung-woo arrives in the nick of time.

He calls out Ae-ra’s colleagues for sticking her with the risk and then trying to take away the reward. He also points out that she’s been working overtime on this project, when the rest of them had already gone home. Ae-ra overhears part of this tirade, and then Jung-woo catches her eye and gestures up towards the roof.

He calls Ae-ra once on the roof, although she stays on the other side of the glass doors. Jung-woo is rather miffed that Ae-ra isn’t more grateful after what he said to her colleagues. He congratulates her on the successful proposal, and offers to take her to dinner to celebrate. It’s not a date, he protests, just a dinner to celebrate his employee’s success. That’s when Ae-ra remembers what Yeo-jin told her, that what he feels for her is guilt, and makes an excuse about having other plans. Jung-woo turns and sees Ae-ra after she hangs up, then tries to pry open the glass doors while yelling that he’ll wait for her, and she’d better show up!

While Jung-woo waits at a fancy restaurant with a bouquet of flowers, Seung-hyun takes Ae-ra to a dinner meeting with the CEO from Shilla Hotel. He suggests that Ae-ra might find a place at his company, seeing how well she did during the proposal. It’s not an official offer, since he’ll have to see her résumé first, but Ae-ra looks interested.

Jung-woo waits at the restaurant until closing time, then goes back to his company apartment feeling glum. He thinks the elevator is broken, until he realizes that he was just too distracted to push the button. He tosses and turns in bed, so frustrated that he can’t sleep.

Nothing will do except to call Ae-ra and pester her. He demands to know why she didn’t show, to which she replies that she told him she wouldn’t. She tells Jung-woo that she’s at Seung-hyun’s art studio, and this upsets him so much that his “stress-induced stomach ulcer” flares up.

Secretary Gil takes Jung-woo to the hospital. He tells his boss to “hold on to Ae-ra properly, because otherwise you’re just making trouble for me.” Tell it, Secretary Gil! Let the truth be heard!

A doctor asks Jung-woo about his symptoms, shrewdly guessing that he’s concerned about a woman. He tells Jung-woo that he’s probably suffering from “plastic flower,” another name for lovesickness. Jung-woo gives his “that’s-so-ridiculous-it’s-funny” laugh. Later he refuses to let Secretary Gil pay the hospital bill, saying that the one responsible for his injury should pay it.

At work, Ae-ra requests leave so that she can interview for a position at the Shilla Hotel. Seung-hyun sends her off with his best wishes, just before Jung-woo comes striding through the hallways, talking angrily to himself about Ae-ra ignoring his calls again. He sees Seung-hyun, who reveals that Ae-ra has left for an interview. The news sends Jung-woo off at a run.

He spots Ae-ra walking away, and yells out her name across a busy street. He then runs into the street, thankfully crossing it without getting hit by a truck (I swear, I half-thought that he was going to end up with a prosthetic leg of his own). The two of them stare at each other in the cold.

“Do you hate being close to me that much?” Jung-woo asks.

Still affected by Yeo-jin’s warning, Ae-ra says Jung-woo shouldn’t act like this if it’s just out of guilt or shame. Jung-woo flatly denies that those are his reasons.

“Then why are you so interested in every detail of my life?” Ae-ra asks.

“I… have ‘plastic flower’,” he declares (pfft), referring to the doctor’s earlier diagnosis. “What?” Ae-ra splutters, understandably confused.

“Plastic flower. Lovesickness. Na Ae-ra… I like you.”

And then Jung-woo swoops in for the kiss.

COMMENTS

They kissed! FINALLY! But the kiss, for me, wasn’t nearly as important as the simple “I like you” which preceded it. Honesty from Jung-woo; quick, go outside and see if the sky is falling! Seriously, though, that was a big moment for Jung-woo, and it’s been a long time coming.

Let’s back up a moment, however, because there was a lot to like about this episode even before we got to the smooching.

I really liked the scene with the old friends, even if it felt a bit strange to have three named characters come out of nowhere so late in the game. It worked for me, though, because it added some more realism to the divorce. Breaking up is never as simple as two people deciding to go their separate ways. There are mutual acquaintances and old friends who know you both, and it’s impossible to avoid the awkwardness that comes when you confront how different things have become.

It was also nice to see Jung-woo want to protect Ae-ra from jerks like Chun-gyu, only to have Ae-ra tell him point-blank that he no longer has any right to do things like that. And then his obvious frustration at the news that Ae-ra is staying with Seung-hyun was pretty darn cute. I like the balance that was struck between childish antics and real emotion, and the dream sequence at the art studio? Hilarious.

Jung-woo keeps trying to play the hero for Ae-ra, whether it’s beating up a pushy drunk or chastising scheming colleagues. He doesn’t seem to understand, however, that Ae-ra doesn’t need a hero (…except when the pillar was falling. That act of heroism was acceptable). As Ae-ra said, she’s been getting along fine without Jung-woo for years. She doesn’t need him to ‘save’ her, but to be honest with her. Of course, that requires that he first be honest with himself. His confession and kiss at the end of the episode represent a big step in the right direction, but the fact that we still have four episodes to go tells me that reconciliation isn’t likely to be simple.

I can’t wait to see what next week’s episodes bring, although I must admit I’m also worried. Despite her words to her father, Yeo-jin seems determined to hold on to the man she loves, regardless of whether or not he wants to be held. That makes her exactly like her father, and she’d better realize that before she goes any farther off the deep end.

Wielding guilt to make Ae-ra walk away was the lowest move we’ve seen so far, and what made it so much worse for me was that Ae-ra is the first person that Yeo-jin has actually told about her disability. That should have been a defining character moment, when Yeo-jin finally trusted someone else enough to show her vulnerability. Instead, Yeo-jin tells Ae-ra about her prosthesis with a sunny, fake smile that frankly made me feel ill, and used her own disability as a weapon to push Ae-ra away from Jung-woo. Time to do some soul-searching, Yeo-jin: would you rather have the man and lose your pride, or stay single and avoid the pitfalls that turned your father into the bitter man he is today? Choose quickly, because we’re losing patience.

As for Seung-hyun, well… I just don’t think it’s meant to be. He’s honest and funny, but it just doesn’t seem to me like the spark is there. From a pragmatic point of view, there’s also the fact that he has a lot of ground to make up. Over the last three episodes he’s just graduated from a one-sided back-hug to a sort-of-mutual front-hug, while Jung-woo ended the episode with a kiss. I’d say Seung-hyun is losing that competition, although of course it depends on Ae-ra’s reaction next episode. Bring on the drama, Sly!

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I marathoned this show this past weekend, so I’m all caught up, and I have a lot to say. But let me declare first: I LOVE THIS SHOW. I know it’s not perfect. It surely isn’t the best show ever, technically and narratively, but THE FEELS. I just get those pangs in my chest when I watch this couple. The thing is, rom-coms hardly get me in the heart. The last one I can remember to do so is My Girlfriend is a Gumiho, and that was four years ago, so suffice it to say, I moderately enjoy rom-coms and watch them with a passing interest.

The one requirement I ask of all rom-coms is to have a couple to root for. Obviously. But with this show, it’s doubly important to actually have that. This couple had their chance, and the show’s job, to me, is to convince the audience that they should to be together again. Maybe it’s the naivete in me believing in second chances. What I dig most about this premise is that it’s the adult version of the “first love” trope common throughout dramas. You loved, you lost, and now you have another chance. But I like it a lot more in the divorced scenario because there are real feelings and reconciliation is a chance to move forward together, whereas in the “first love” scenario, reconciliation is reverting back to the past and getting stuck there. So while I generally like the second-chance-at-love scenario, I definitely prefer it to be in a drama like Sly and Single Again.

In a narrative sense, I feel like the show has accomplished its job. I’m convinced they should be together not only because I love both Ae-ra and Jung-woo, but because they have grown since the start, and I can see how they could grow moving forward. He has learned to support her, whether at work or within their family issues, much like she supported him in their years of marriage. She has learned the value of hard work over the years and understands the payoff with a bit of success, and maybe that'll lead to appreciating Jung-woo's determination. It never mattered who was more to blame, but whether or not they could grow from their differences. And with this episode, they’re not quite there yet, but with the confession from Jung-woo they're right at the cusp.

Sidenote: I remember in one of the early recaps, purplecow (I think) likened this story to Persuasion, which happens to be my favorite Austen novel. (So I don’t think it’s a mystery as to why I love this show.) Wentworth is my favorite Austen hero because he was always constant in matters of the heart. That is attractive as hell. Jung-woo is in the same vein. Stubborn and foolish to a fault, but never unwavering (melting goo am I). That is a hero I can get behind. I basically love Jung-woo for his dorkiness. It tickles me pink whenever he switches from suave CEO to whimpering yahoo.

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I totally agreed with you. Watching a drama can be frustrating when one lead waver or let the 2nd lead had a chance.. I love dramas where the leads are unwavering... that's why I watched 12episodes in 2 days as well....haha.. i'm in love with Jung Woo..

There are 4 episodes left only, so i hope Ae Ra accepted him in episode 13 and both will overcome the obstacles... I do not wish to see Yeo Jin having a chance to even get cosy/close with Jung Woo... No!! Andwae!!!

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The drama is certainly heading in that direction and it seems inevitable that the two will reunite in the end. That wound not be so bad.

But I am wistful that she go with the other guy, Seung Hyun. Ae Ra is far more evolved than her ex-husband in so many ways, and I can see how, despite being several years older, she is a great fit with a younger and far more contemporary man like Seung Hyun, who happens to be crazy about her. The two are like kittens whenever they are together.

Seung Hyun is a guy who is complex (the 7th princess tale in this episode alone establishes that) but without complications. He is also so thoroughly modern. I get his manner of speech, fashion taste, and mindset. I identify with him a lot more than with her ex, whose mother and sister are out of the 19th century gothic Korea).

You hear about women in history who married several times, each time to a different (and a better) husband. For Ae Ra, I cheer for similar life.

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I agree, romcoms are not my thing either, but this one is definitely engaging.

However, I'm not convinced of Jungwoo as better than Sunghoon. I've still got Second Lead Syndrome.

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You're not the only one with Second Lead Syndrome! :)

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I couldn't agree with you more, I hope they get back together. My only problem is I really like Seung-hyun and I don't want to see him get his heart broken, but I guess that's just the way love works. How do you feel about YEO-JIN? I once felt sorry for her until shes started act like a horrible person toward Ae-ra.

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I like that there is forward motion and I hope she gets the job at Shilla Hotel. I know she's right, she needs to assert her life without him, it'll prove to his family and herself that she doesn't live him for the money. She's shown as materialistic to the world when she's really just practical. She didn't need or want CEO rich, she wanted stable. The show hasn't outright said it but him quitting his job was never the reason for divorce...she would have toughed it out with him if she didn't miscarry.

I'm OVER Yeo Jin, the crying, screaming, whining, manipulating and tantrums are ridiculous. I know in Asian culture you stay with parents until you're married but seriously, she's daddy's spoiled little rich girl with a great salary to boot. Do us all a favor and freaking get a condo. You're a woman in your thirties, it's time. It might make some the crazy go away, and she might learn that being alone is a better alternative to winning by cheating.

Oh and can I just say the whole princess sequence: Way.Too.Long.

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Haha, true, that princess sequence was way too long. And it was confused between India and Arabia.

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As much as I was trying to like Yeo-Jin, I have pretty much given up on her at this point. It almost seems like the writer did not really know what to do with her, so she ends up just kind of a sideline nuisance with issues.

And like you, I don't understand why she stays in a house with a father she hates, especially at her age and position.

I am not really sure how common the living with parents thing is in Asia in general - I never saw much of it in Japan or Taiwan. I only spent a few weeks in Korea, so can't really say I know much about the "hidden" culture there.

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I actually thought one of the most poignant moments of this episode was Yeo-jin's fight with her father. We learned so much about who she is and the emotionally parched life she has lived because of her father's machinations (she mentions that her mother never really loved her, because she knew that Yeo-jin was part of her husband's attempts to shackle her). I actually teared up during her fight with her father, because learning the pain behind her calm facade was so heartbreaking (and MAJOR props to the actress, who I thought played the scene very compellingly).

I feel so frustrated with the Yeo-jin character, because she actually has a lot of great points. If the writer had been able to tear themselves away from the k-drama trope that female second-leads must always be disturbingly crazy and possessive, we'd have a really interesting character in Yeo-jin. I feel a lot of frustration on behalf of the character that might have been. I also feel really sorry for the actress playing her, because I think she's a great actress and giving a very nuanced performance, even though she's working from poor characterization.

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I agree that AR should take the job at the hotel. She's hardworking and smart, she deserves it and would own it. This would show that she can stand by herself without JW and establish herself as a good and independent career-woman (compared to how she had to depend on him in the past). And also that people won't judge her that she's a gold digger.

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I think she should take it, but I doubt if she will, which is really too bad - it would make an interesting side plot.

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Thanks for the recap!
I love Ae Ra and i'm finally beginning to forgive Jung Woo for being such a thick headed self righteous person. yay for character growth!

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I agree; I remember how much I hated him at the beginning of the series!

On a side note, anyone know Ae-ra's lipstick color? Or similar dupes?

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I think the reason Yeo-jin is so afraid she'll end up like her father is because she can see she has the tendencies. It's like she's a drugie, seeing the problem, talking about stopping, and then engaging in self destructive behavior after all.

My ideal ending for her would be to have the original fiance not be dead but worse injured and in a coma and then recovery all this time. Daddy dearest having hid this fact. This denies her character growth, but it would make me happy.

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I don't want that ending for Yeo-jin because she's already moved on and developed feelings for another man, and I can imagine how irreparable she'd be if her husband was alive this whole time. My ideal ending for her would be for her to realize that her handicap does not make her less of a person, that with one leg missing she can still be whole. All her issues and insecurity stem from her prosthetic leg. I do agree that she sees her dad's personality in herself though, and I quite like your analogy of drug addiction.

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Do you really think Yeo-jin loves Jung woo? I get the feeling she's settling for him or just wants him as an acquisition. She still has nightmares about her husband. I don't think she's gotten over him yet.

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I don't think she loves him, but I do think she is moving on. Of course, she will always love her husband, but the effort she's made to woo Jung-woo tells me she's letting go a bit. The fact that she hides her prosthetic leg from him shows how much she does care for him.

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Truthfully speaking, I'm sure many of us regular people here have self awareness of our own faults and failings but still take the easy way out when things come to the crunch and cave in to our baser instincts.

So my ideal ending for Yeo Jin is that she finds the courage to overcome her weaknesses and emerge a better and stronger woman for it. Which will act as a reminder that if she can do it, so can we.

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Jung Woo's imagination is overactive as always haha.

I find the chemistry between Ae-ra and Seung hyun really nice. Not just in a romantic way, but more so their friendship. They seem to genuinely care for each other outside of any romantic feelings, and seem to be good friends. Honestly, Seung-hyun seems to be Ae-ra's first new best friend since the divorce.

Anyway, I'll wait and see what happens. I'm still thinking she might end up single. I'm disappointed in Yeo-jin since, like I said, she has so much potential. The writers really messed up on that account.
If the divorced couple ends up together again, well I wouldn't mind, but it would make it even more similar to other dramas.

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Oh yeah didn't Yeo Jin say that her father made her mother have her, which is why in the beginning she wondered if her mother even wanted to see her? I wonder what exactly she means by that.

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I think what she meant is that maybe back then her mum didn't really want to marry her dad, but her dad wanted to have her mum so badly he trapped her and forced her into having sex with him until they had a child ;Yeo Jin. So basically her mum never really wanted her because due to Yeo Jin, her mum had to stay with her dad. That's why Yeo Jin said she was a child who could never sleep in her mum's warm embrace and why she said she thinks her mum doesnt want to see her at the beginning of the show -- because basically her mum never exactly love her since she sort of indirectly blames Yeo Jin's existence for the misery her father put her mum through.

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Okay, yesss this is why I love this show. Seriously hilarious, but not as stupid as the last episode. Plus it really made me feel for JW instead of being annoyed with him. Poor JW on the elevator sums up his predicament exactly. He's surprised it's not working, but he's not doing anything at all to make it work. For a smart guy he's really kind of slow...

I really hope AR considers him, but doesn't fall totally into his arms. There is still a lot of hurt she has to deal with, but if she could open up the possibility of getting back with him and open up to him that would be a nice step. The job at the hotel (and Mr. hotel guy was super handsome... ) is such a great opportunity I hope she goes to the interview. It's too good of a chance to pass up and doesn't have anything to do with her feelings for JW one way or the other. I could see him pouting when she does go, but that's to be expected.

I'm loving how he's slowly realizing all the things she's had to endure since the divorce. Not just the things he did to her, but also the whole stigma of being a divorced woman. That's something he's never considered since despite his divorce he's considered a catch for any woman. And yes, I'm 100% behind these two getting back together. Most divorce dramas I've watched always make me think they are better off without each other, but this one has done a wonderful job at making people root for the couple to reunite.

SH and YJ are both poor little rich kids... I find it hard to feel bad for them. YJ had a tough life with the accident and everything, but hey life goes on and she has an cool bionic leg. Get over JW who obviously doesn't like you (and who has never led you on) and move on with your life away from your father.

I'm hoping SH was extra bratty and bragging this episode in some attempt to tell JW what AR was doing so he'd make a move. We'll see.

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"Poor JW on the elevator sums up his predicament exactly. He’s surprised it’s not working, but he’s not doing anything at all to make it work. For a smart guy he’s really kind of slow…"

Great job pointing that out. Totally missed that symbolism! I think I was just simultaneously laughing at and pitying him at that point. And yes, he's a smart guy who had a bowl cut in his twenties. Does not exactly scream, "GOOD AT RELATIONSHIPS."

And yes, the divorce stigma sucks. I hate that she gets a lot of flak for being a divorcee while he's practically worshiped for it. I do like that he gets to see all the shit she's gone through. It makes his self-pity and petty revenge seem trivial. I'm just excited and anxious for when he finds out about the miscarriage. It better happen next week.

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"I’m loving how he’s slowly realizing all the things she’s had to endure since the divorce. Not just the things he did to her, but also the whole stigma of being a divorced woman. " lemondoodle

But why should he be blamed for her stigma as a divorced woman when she was the one who demanded and filed for divorce? I could see how that would be justified if he were the one to have filed - but he didn't.

I like Ae-ra but it's wrong to be putting the blame on him for the divorcee stigma, just because he was in a better position financially than she was.

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There doesn't have to be blame for it. It's just reality. He's the single and hot divorcee everyone woman wants while she's used goods. He's never even considered that part of the equation. It just points out again that divorce was not something she took lightly and even years later she's still suffering the consequences of her choice. He was full of self pity about the divorce when he actually didn't suffer all that much of a result of it.

And seriously, just because she was the one who filed for divorce doesn't totally absolve him of the blame of the marriage failing. That's pretty much the point of the drama. and what he's come to realize over the last 12 episodes.

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Yes, Ae-ra may have gone through hardship as a divorced woman, but again - it was her decision to file, not his.

So to blame him for what she went through after the divorce is wrong. You write that he's the hot divorcee and all the woman want him. Again, how is that his fault?

You wrote, "He was full of self pity about the divorce when he actually didn’t suffer all that much of a result of it. "
- Really? Who is anyone to judge how much a person has suffered internally? Sure, he had wealth but remember, she was his first and only love (from what we are shown). But she rejected him and made him believe she only cared about his credentials, not him. Now, how is that not suffering or traumatizing?
Which is worse? Going through financial hardship like Ae-ra did or emotional rejection? Can we really say that "he didn't suffer all that much"?
- Look at the poor guy. He's developed an ulcer because he's one who internalizes his stress and emotions. His body has taken a toll.

I like Ae-ra but to blame him for post divorce stuff is uncool. Was he the perfect husband? No. But that component does not equal the other in the blame equation.

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Like I said, I don't think she was blaming him or there is anyone to blame. It happened and that's the end of it. Her marriage was bad, she decided to file for divorce and has suffered the consequences of that. It's not his fault he's seen as a prize and she's not, it's the way the world works supposedly and that was my original point. That I'm glad he figured that out. It just adds some weight behind her decision to divorce and the reality behind her suffering. If being a divorcee and "used good" who would be lucky to ever get married again was better than being married to him... That must tell him something you'd think.

JW did obviously suffer, but he could also move on with his life far easier than she could. They both suffered emotionally for different reasons and they were both each other's first (and only) love from what we've seen.

And are we really taking his ulcer seriously? The doctor didn't...

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You all keep forgetting why she divorced. When she had the miscarriage and her off called him he didn't pick up the phone and never went to the hospital to get her or take her home. She had everything taken from her. Remember what her Mother said: " Ae ra doesn't cry shell just suck it up and take it on. She was out there working jobs to pay for the debts and how did you think there wouldn't be any?" INCLUDING the bill for the miscarriage from the hospital she had to pay. There was no more left for her to give. Instead of doing bad in life suffering with and from him she decided to do bad by herself. When her Father in law died she still sucked it up until she cries at his picture because she couldn't give him the coffee the way she always made it for him. All of her suggestions and ideas. have made his company more prosperous. I hope she gets the job and takes it. Let's see how well it does then.

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Exactly. Filing for divorce doesn't mean you're the guilty party. In Ae-ra's case, she couldn't take marriage to Jungwoo any more.

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It doesn't matter the reasons why they divorced or who was guilty, because they both were. I think the point being made was that Ae-ra should not blame her ex for what she went through after the divorce, since it was her decision to file.
Couples go through hardship all the time: loss of a child, caring for elderly parents full time or a special needs child which can be draining physically and emotionally so they have nothing left for their spouses. But they manage to stick it through, not because they're perfect communicators or even that their marriage is better than other couples'. But because they committed to stay together.

It's hard what Ae-ra went through with the miscarriage. But it was her decision to leave, and so whatever happened after the divorce (ex. stigma, etc), she can't really put the blame on Jung Woo.

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She isn't putting the blame on Jung woo for what she went through after the divorce. JW is simply realizing that her life hasn't been easy.

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Stigmas and stereotypes never ask for reasons, or who was at fault - they just ARE. Some interesting opinion differences between older and younger generations in Korea though - especially now that divorce rates in Korea are at an all time high.

There is a whole bunch of interesting info here - much of which belies the common tropes and stereotypes of Korean TV dramas http://www.nippon.com/en/in-depth/a01003/

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Lemondoodle, I understand where you're coming from with the whole stigma thing. You're right, it doesn't matter who's at fault. Really, if Jung-woo had instigated the divorce, people's perception of both of them wouldn't be different. He'd still be the perceived hot divorcee, she'd still be the perceived hot mess. They're stereotypes that will never go away unfortunately.

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This drama is really delivering on the main thing that drew me to it: I wanted to see a Joo Sang Wook that was anything other than aloof. Oh how I love seeing his feathers ruffled! And what a cute dork he makes! "I have... plastic flower" just may be the most adorkable confession ever. Next time JSW's in a drama acting all suave, I'm gonna remember his plastic flower and bowl haircut.

Yeo Jin, Schmo Jin. Super low to play the sympathy card in that way, but it didn't surprise me.

Thanks so much, purplecow and odilettante for doing a great job recapping this drama!

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I endure the stupidity in the writing for Joo Sang Wook, and it's well worth it. He is fantastic playing this duality in a char, and his charisma is just overflowing.
Agree on the Plastic Flower confession. I'll remember it for a long time too. I already miss him, before this show is even over.
He's made a fan out of me in this silly drama.

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The thing is, he has succeeded in the character given to him.. because I was laughing, giggling at his childish/dorky character....haha... he makes me a fan too!

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Jung-woo has such a wild imagination! Haha. Nothing like a little competition to get our lead man moving.

The more I see of Yeo-jin, the more I grow to dislike her. I stopped pitying her long ago. Why can't she think like Shim Ji-hye from Emergency Couple? You can't stake your claims on a person without that person's consent. It was so wrong of her to confront Ae-ra out of the blue.

Yeo-jin may not want to turn out like her father, but manipulating other's feelings, like Ae-ra, makes her no different from what he's trying to do with Jung-woo.

Ae-ra's not the kind of person to use others, so even though she may be spending more time with Seung-hyun, there's nothing there. I hope he doesn't take her actions the wrong way.

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I hope the actress that played Shim Ji Hye will get lots of acting awards this season for her portrayal of the second lead because I think that's the first time for me to see a second lead actress that didn't act petty and crazy and stupid but she gave the role dignity and depth and a maturity that hasn't been written or portayws in a second lead actress on a ROM com or drama at all. Kudos to her and the writers who did it.

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Oh my gosh, I absolutely love the ending of episode 12! Excuse me while I have my moment here....... eeeeeeeee!!! Everything in that scene was done so perfectly..... the background song...... their hearfelt conversation....... Jung Woo's confession....... & finally, thaaaaat kiss, amidst the beautiful cherry blossoms tree..... Wow!!! It was truly soooo magical & romantic, it absolutely took my breath away! I have to admit, all the waiting paid off coz it was soooo worth the wait.

At long last, no more ifs or buts..... our OTP are surely getting there...... they're just ONE STEP closer to getting back together.

Can't wait for episode 13!

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Loving this drama!

Does anyone know what piano piece Seung hyun is playing when JW comes down the stairs from YJ's bedroom after her meltdown? I thought it might be a clue to the weird expression on JW's face when he sees SH. I wasn't quite sure what the unspoken message was going on between them. JH looked a little tired and uncomfortable, and SH looked a little...snarky? I'm not sure.

Yay for the episode ending! Finally, JW!

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I believe it was "River Flows In You" by Yurima.

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I was so ecstatic to finally see and hear what we've been waiting for Jung-woo to say and do! I probably cut him a lot more slack than others, but I do believe he had trouble being honest with Ae-ra because of a genuine fear of rejection again. No matter how we fans go back and forth with the blame (I'm solidly in the middle), fact is Ae-ra left him. From his viewpoint, he can't open his heart again only to have it crushed a second time.

But also, he's an awkward, nervous mess, so speaking feelings doesn't come easily. He's always been more of a doer than a speaker when it comes to revealing feelings. He resigns his job to chase his dream, he builds their dream home, he runs a terrorist drill, he chicken fights, he lets himself get hurt when he saves her, he punches another dude, etc. So in essence, I agree that the confession is more squee-tastic than the kiss simply because it's out-of-character.

And so, with four episodes left, Ae-ra, you have no time to be idiotically noble, so don't do it!!!!!!!! I'll be beyond pissed if you do it. Don't let my love for this drama be tarnished by a visit from the Noble Idiot!!!!!!! Don't throw in some stupid last minute plot crap!!!!!! And please bring back Bowl Cut Jung-woo for at least one scene!

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Agree that Jung Woo stepped out of his comfort zone and made himself vulnerable. The fact is that he was the one who was rejected by the divorce because Ae-ra filed for it. So for him to say AGAIN (or STILL) that he likes/ loves her, he is making himself vulnerable for a possibly 2nd rejection. And for that, I applaud him.

I don't think it was very cool of Ae-ra to blame Jung-Woo for all she's endured as a divorcee. At the reunion with their friends at the restaurant, she rants how tough it has been as a divorced woman, but that he wouldn't know, etc. Now we know it's been tough for her, but to place the blame on Jung-Woo when SHE was the one to file for the divorce was just - wrong. Poor guy didn't know what hit him when she did that and coldly told him she never wanted to see him again.

I found Ae-ra to be funny and refreshing at the beginning of the drama, with her hard-nosed view on life and her plot for revenge. But lately, she is getting on my nerves. She treats Jung-Woo like he's an annoying pest, while she smiles and only has nice words for the kid. Then in this episode, she yells at JungWoo for trying to help when another drunk was hitting on her (who knows what would have happened if he hadn't stepped in. Seriously.) Not is there a no "thank you", but she blames him for her struggles as a divorced woman. - I'm sorry but there's a thing called going too far in your blame, and that's what she's done.

They've only got 2 wks left and we don't see any interest on her part towards Jung-Woo. They've made her too cold. I don't know - let's see how she responds to his kiss. Will she slap him, rebuke him, or flutter her lashes? By the way she's been acting, I wouldn't be surprised if she scolded him for the kiss.

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I don't think she was ranting at him, blaming him. She told him to leave, that this was her reality and he can't punch every person who has been rude about her being a divorcee of he'd be punching a whole hell of lot of people. She's totally right that it's burdensome for him to interject himself into her life. He doesn't have the right to in the first place and she's been fine on her own (in her opinion). Not every woman wants a knight in shining armor to save her. Especially a knight who won't be honest in why he wants to save her.

She can obviously be nice to the kid because she has no feelings for him. JW HAS been a pest to her lately. That he's treated like one is only natural. She is cold, but I don't feel it's unreasonable she is at all.

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She came in his firm. She doesn't have any right to blame him for "interject himself into her life" after this.

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Really? Working for him does not mean he has a right to involve himself in her personal life and her personal problems. If she were still pursing him for either revenge or for romance or even giving him the time of day as a friend I might think differently, but she's already said she doesn't have a desire to get back with him and she's there for work and will quit. She's made it pretty clear, even if she's not being honest. He's making every move to involve himself with her while she's clearing backing away from him.

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I don't know. I've watched that scene several times and it sure sounded like ranting and blaming him for her problems as a divorcee. So that's what I'm going on.

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And frankly, there's nothing wrong with being cold.

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"She treats Jung-Woo like he’s an annoying pest, while she smiles and only has nice words for the kid."

I think that's the point: Jung woo has been acting like an annoying pest because he's not faced his feelings while the kid has been honest and direct with her.

Even this kiss at the end may not be accepted. As far as AeRa is concerned, the relationship is over, she's given up on her revenge idea, and she wants another job. So, JungWoo jumping in with a kiss is a bit much and AeRa may not accept it - yet.

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I really don't see what who actually filed for the divorce has anything at all to do with it.

If you take that line of thinking, a woman that files for divorce from a raging brutal abusive husband means that SHE is at fault??

Uhm.. no. Just NO.

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I think you're missing the point. you should re-read what is being argued.

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That fairytale reenactment is weird as weird can be, for me at least.

2nd lead lady is even weirder for provoking her father relentlessly, and then acting all victim-like when JW arrives, as if she has been hit by a bull-dozer, when she is in fact the bull-dozer herself. It is one sad woman who has to resort to such low gimmicks to hold the man she loves!

JW's imagination is getting away from him. For once it is funny--how he imagines Aera and Puppy making out at his studio.

I like that he is finally asking her out for dinner, but am very disappointed in his lack of honesty when he denies he is asking her out for a date! Serves him right to sit there all alone all evening. What a waste of that lovely bouquet.

Are men really like that? They've to see their ladylove actually walk away before they can own up to their feelings? Well, the writer thinks so!

It's satisfying to see JW call Song hee on the carpet for trying to take the project and credit away from Aera. That girl is No Good. Pls don't let her end up w Sec Gil! No, just No!

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Another thing:
I've been trying to place the actor who cameos as the CEO of Shilla Hotel.
He played the 2nd lead in Biscuit Teacher Candy Star (one of my all time fans, also called Hello Teacher), and more recently as the florist ex-husband in I Summon you Gold. He Never looked this good before! Some men age better than others. Then some are gorgeous from the start.

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Omg Yes, the art teacher from Biscuit Teacher! Thanks for pointing that out. No wonder he looks familiar ( apart from being good looking obviously)

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Oh yeah, that's where I know him from, ISYG! Thanks, I was going nuts trying to figure it out. He looks amazing in a suit.

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I might have to see Biscuit Teacher Candy Star...

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I would excuse YeoJin for flinching from her dad and having a bad reaction. The guy was ready to smack her left and right and the princess that she is is not used to such treatment (not that anyone should stand for being physically hit). Also, she just blew up at her dad after having her buttons pushed. It must have been emotionally draining.

I don't like her but I am willing to give her a pass for that moment. I didn't think that she was actively being manipulative then (I don't extend this to other times).

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As noted in the recap, he tried every tactic EXCEPT honesty. :)

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Thanks for the recap!

I wish Jung-woo said "I still love you" rather than I like you. But its better than wrist grabbing and dragging her back to his company.

I like how Ae-ra is not diving into the noble idiocy after what that bitch told her but rather being practical. Even without her telling Ae-ra she already planned to leave.

Poor Seung-hyun... I'm glad I am not having a second lead syndrome in this drama.

The falling petals of cherry blossoms are lovelier with a couple kissing under it! yay!

Is tomorrow a Wednesday? :)

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Yay, recap, thanks!
What I'm gonna take with me from this drama is how Jung-woo always broods in the elevator - instead of the shower (semi-boo). But oh, them laughs it brings me (or us, since I watch this one with friends).

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I don't know, the sofa tantrum and nightmare imagination was both kinda hot and really hilarious.

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Ya, but why can't he brood in the shower too? I'm sure JSW hasn't been spending many painful hours in the gym just to look good in his business suits.

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I wouldn't complain about shower broading, but it wouldn't be as funny....

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That's why I said "brood in the shower Too". He can brood in the elevator for funny, and in the shower for Eye Candy. Hee.

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Just brooding in the shower would be too melo for me.. I would love to see him brooding in the shower, soaping his abs but then somehow slipped and fall (with no broken bones) after he had a wild imagination of AR and SH during his shower...

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That line from AR at the end of episode 12 when JW chased after her, "It's already too late for you to pay attention to me", snapped me out of my fairytale dream for them. I had to sit there and process that - it was such a sad revelation to me. He went through their marriage not consulting her on major decisions and not noticing how tired she must have been or the injuries she probably sustained from all of those jobs. Even after she started working at JW's company, I feel as though SH has been the one watching after her and supporting her. It made me wonder, does JW even know what AR wants or needs? Does he even care, or does he only care about what HE wants for them? In order for me to feel that JW deserves AR at this point, JW needs to really step it up and show that he SEES her and he supports her instead of just engaging in more of his dorky antics.

On another note, my guess is that part of the purpose of SH's fairytale sequence at the beginning of this episode is to foreshadow that AR will secure a job at another company, thereby obtaining her freedom, and will celebrate by cutting her hair short so that AR can finally let down her hair and the producer no longer has to hear the fans complain about LMJ's fake ponytail (which I couldn't even spot until people commented on it).

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I don't know. I tried to see if there was any relevance to that fairy tale and listened carefully. But it was just ridiculous to me. There is no one holding Ae-ra captive, except for Seung-Hyun, who seems to suffocating her with his puppy love. (I wish he would really leave her alone. Enough is enough. What part of "no" doesn't he understand??)

The fairy tale story seemed to be an attempt at humor, but was a flop that made no sense.

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"What part of "no" doesn't he understand"?....... exactly my thoughts! You nailed it, candygirl.

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Seung-Hyun for me is just getting super annoyingly clingy. I don't find him remotely cute any more.

And yeah... That fairy tale was the first real WTF moment I have noticed in this show.

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I'm not sure, though. I keep getting the feeling that SH knows even less about what she really wants. I feel like neither of the men know what she really wants in life and I really feel like Aera is like the mother goose leading around two very large baby geese.

I used to like Seunghyun but something about him sort of started to bother me. I think sometimes he sort of starts to push on the envelope. IDK, maybe it's a personal issue. Personally, I end up choosing men out of my friend circle, but that doesn't necessarily mean that I start out attracted to them. But Seunghyun doesn't feel like he's really respecting that boundary right now and is hitting the boundary really hard like 90% of the time, which, in my opinion, if I were not ready for looking at him as a potential love interest, would be pretty annoying/irritating. I mean, let's start slow. But maybe that's just me.

I think the Jungwoo still has a lot of work to do in terms of really understanding what she wants, but I think his personality is, like someone said, really "deer-like" and he takes zero to little initiative in a relationship. The end of the episode maybe marks a new direction and maybe we'll finally see him make a greater initiative/effort towards really understanding Aera's needs or whatnot.

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I think it is less clear what Aera wants. Does she want to be with SH ?? She is much too passive here - says no, but then accepts all his advances.

Does she wants to return to Jungwoo?? May be she thought it is not an option, but she clearly shown her affection for him in many scenes.
She looks much less honest with her feelings than JW. And she obviously feels free to pester / beat him as much as she wants. Even if she went to Chilla hotel, it is obvious she should be grateful to JW for this opportunity.

May be she doesn't want to look like gold digger, but this doesn't look like important enough motivation for me.

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The fakeness of her ponytail is clearly visible in the last pic above. Her own hair is same length front and back. It sticks out, and underneath that is the phony-tail!

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Well, now I notice the phonytail (phonytail...clever...love that!). In fact, now I notice it all too much and all the time. But I didn't know it was fake when she first started sporting it back several episodes ago until people pointed it out. I just thought she was putting her hair in a ponytail. I'm not very good with spotting wigs and fake stuff and so need to rely on observant others like yourself.

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Oh, so that's why the weird hair with those locks hanging forward while the rest is tied back.

I hope her character gets a haircut.

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Yeah which is why I think a true test for the progress of CJW's character is if he allows and supports AR in her move to the hotel. She wants it for HERSELF, and according to her needs it to survive, so if CJW will be a good husband/lover the next time around he'll let her do her own thing. If you love someone let them go and find their happiness, right? Even if it's not with you?

I'm praying CJW let's her be because if he uses his immature antics again and keeps her caged, he doesn't deserve a second chance. Support her dude! She'll love you all the more for it.

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I've been reading everything - but guys, time to pay attention to the supporting characters.

1. Did anyone see Team Leader Wang having a change of heart when Ae-ra claimed she was a divorcee? I thought she is one too, since she was really good to Ae-ra after that. I also thought she was going to call out to Song-hee. Maybe I am reading too much..

2. Okay, Shilla's CEO seems to be totally charmed by Ae-ra. I wouldn't personally like it if he was giving her an opportunity because he was starting to like her, but he does seem to appreciate her a lot as a worker. There's no chance of a love square, is there?

3. The kiss was excellent! The direction was pretty good too. The slight hand movements gave it a feeling of passion. Good job! The development of the kiss was really good. I liked the confession a lot.

4. I'm thinking Ae-ra won't become a noble idiot. Why? Because after that talk with I'll-manipulate-people-like-my-father-because-I-am-not-like-my-father director, what she was most hurt about wasn't that she was ruining CJW's life or something. It was because she thought he was doing things for her because he felt guilty - which clearly bothered her when CJW told her it wasn't a date. And when she told him what was actually bothering her, and he actually told her he loved her, she got the actual reason as to why he has been pursuing her. That's reason why she didn't oppose the kiss.

It'll be a big let-down if she does something noble idiot like. That's not you Ae-ra! You are materialistic, practical and not the angel other drama heroines are! Don't do that! >_< And if she does, well, Shilla's CEO looks good to me, at least.

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"Shilla's CEO looks good to me." Hahahahahaha I totally agree. Or there's always Seung-hyun.

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He is, isn't he? I posted a comment on the actor. See 13.1

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1. I think she did. She was actually never as bad as the other woman, though she was an ass kisser. I don't think she was going along with what she was suggesting.

2. I wish! It's too late though. I like SH. He's cute, but Shilla’s CEO is super hot and seems like a mature adult man, which is very important. I've been wanting a alternative to the manchildren and he's it for me. Though maybe he ends up winning in the end anyway if he hires her and takes her away from both SH and JW. :D I'd like to see them both pouting...

4. I agree. She was more worried he was just paying attention to her because of guilt, not about what YJ said otherwise. Nobody seems to pay much attention to YJ anyway.

I could still see her being a noble idiot, but not quite yet. I do think they'll get together, at least somewhat but then YJ or her father will make their move. Being with her could cost him his company and she'd probably bow out because of that. YJ gave her a warning, but I can see that obviously won't be the end of it.

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Ditto on the Shilla CEO.

Reading the comments is more fun than watching this episode. Please allow me to digress.

There are many korean actors and idol-actors who are impressive. But the same cannot be said for their female counterparts. Gosh, some are just mannequins walking around. Is this the reason why there are so many noona type romances ? Does not bode well for future kdramas.

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I know that there are many more K actors that I like than K actresses. Part of it is that I can drool over the actors, not so w the actresses. But there are a dozen or so actresses whose acting and beauty really impress me.

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Lee Bo Young for me.

And the actress playing Aera. And Hwang Jung Eum. And the list will probably go on.

I freely girl-crush even though I'm straight and devoted to my biases, Kim Woo Bin and Ahn Jaehyo.

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For me - not knowing more than a few words of Korean - it is often hard to tell if it is really the actress that is bad, or the writing and/or directing. It's kind of like I can tell when an actress is good, but not always when they are bad. Sometimes translated subs are not 100% perfect either - some terms just don't translate well.

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I have to add, the Shilla CEO is very, VERY nice looking.

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I don't know, I feel funny about this one!! I can totally see JW's progression to realising he has feelings for AR, but I barely see anything on her side that's made me feel excited about them reconciling. I've seen her have growing respect for his abilities as a CEO, and they've had a few nice moments like a couple of episodes back at and immediately after the funeral. But since then, I feel like there's been too much of a focus on JW's comedy child-in-love-in-denial routine, and AR's (understandable) frustration in response for me to believe that her feelings might be going deeper. I sort of wish that they could have reconciled as FRIENDS before any of this, and then slowly got to know each other as people again - rather than jumping to the whole jealous idiot routine. Maybe I'm taking things too much at face value. I guess we'll have to wait till next episode to see how she reacts to the kiss...

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oh my god!!!KISS!!!and I almost had forgotten it!!!I loved this episode!!!I like Secretary Gil so much!!!!I whished see more of him!!!and Jung-woo and ae-re are starting to become my favorite couple!!!:)
Thanks for recap!!!^_^

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Thanks for the recap and your thoughts, especially.

Honesty! Yay!

Playing the amputee card. Booooo!

JSW brooding - elavator, roof, shower, bed - anywhere - Yes!

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I'm okay with playing that amputee card. Hell, it's a handicap, so use it.

However, what I'm not okay with is how the amputee situation is being dealt with. I get that people wearing trousers could cover it, but Yeojin has a bionic, 6 million dollar leg that doesn't show in sheer stockings, and thus does not need the amputee part to be made into an issue compared to someone with a straight prosthetic.

Which makes one wonder, why even make her an amputee? She could've been traumatized enough to be creepy by losing her bridegroom in a car chase with her dad's goons.

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Yeah, but even the car chase was mostly due to his lousy driving and them playing touchy-feely while being chased. Perhaps it is just me, but smooching and having a great time laughing like it's all a big joke are not the best tactics for getting away from goons.

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GAHHHHH FINALLY A K.I.S.S.I.N.G scene<3
This is like the first RomCom ive watched which only have one n a half kiss through 3/4 of the show. Pray to DramaGod that more will come in the next 4 ep. CHEBALL!!!

Anyway its getting interesting this show. I also think its safe to say that it finally break the curse of current RomCom path which turning full melo mode in its latter eps. YAYYY :-D

And the last played OST, LOVE IT..

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I was expecting for a kiss in this episode since they shoot it with a softer filter, more so in the last scene with those flowers and all...with a stage like that everyone in that street should've been kissing too.
This week episodes are so much fun, i love it XD another add on the eye candy department helps too, just look at the Shila CEO...Ae Ra just switch your job honey!

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though that shila CEO is pretty good looking... IDK why my eyes still on that DT CEO... he just has something.

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There are two specific moments that really tug my heart.

1. When Jung Woo was listening to Ae-Ra presentation. I could see that JW finally realized that AR loves him as personal most, and it doesn't change from their marriage time until now. From the previous scene we always see that JW feel angry because he thought AR only love him when he is capable. However, this scene proves that JW's thought was completely wrong.

"The thing that makes a wife feel happiest is her husband" That particular dialogue really touched my heart <3 That scene presents mixed feeling, both from JW and AR. We can see longing, regret, hope, happiness mix in that short moment.

2. When JW broke down after AR didn't show up at the dinner. That scene supposed to be funny. However, I think it is one of the most sorrowful moment for JW in the whole series. JW wants to share the happiness moment with AR, but she didn't come. He wants to meet Ae-Ra but she didn't show up. He is jealous, but he can't show it directly. He can't say what his real intentions, that he miss Ae-Ra, that he wants her to be beside him at that moment. Finally, all those heart's pain evolve into physical pain that is quite unbearable for him. Poor JW :'(

I only hope that they don't do the push pull thing too long. Because that hurts both of them, and I, as a viewer, feel that pain too. I just want to laugh wholeheartedly seeing those two share lovey-dovey moments! Hope they are coming soon! <3<3

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I think that she decided to get divorce after she lost the baby. When they call him from the hospital and he did no answer because he was slipping.

I also think that if she stay with him, he will never succeed. He still be depended in her. ( like her father is still depend in her mother) The divorce was he's waking call for him.

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good point...about the divorce being a wake up call.

then again...how long does a test of loyalty last in a marriage?

These days any persons giving advice re money would say to ditch someone who's financially dragging you down especially in a marriage.

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Love this show....that can't even summarize my feelings. This show is in my top 10 for watchability, top 10 for introducing new aspect of a lead charachter (as in our male lead...who knew he had such range?!?

great...just great

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What is the title of the song that played at the end of ep 11 and again at end of ep 12? I need that in my life

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Me too, love it! I've been checking it in YouTube but no luck. But I've got good news coz I saw in the CSL forum in Soompi (you're the best CSL soompier!) the title & singers. The title is I Really Love You and the singer is GB9 in episode 11 & for episode 12 GB9 & Yoo Seung Eun. I checked them out in YouTube for the voice comparisons & definitely it's them. The OSTs are not out yet.

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finally, the long-awaited kiss, oh it was a Kodak moment if you will! luvng this drama to da max! their chemistry is awesome!

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This episode was just the best one possible. As I sat here with a full spring storm raging outside, my sole hope was that the power did not cut out before the end of the episode. Now, the power at no point showed it might do this, I was just so worked up by the end, that deranged thoughts floated through my head.

The end . . . . . . Wow! As I shouted whoot whoot - did a fist pump to the air - he declared himself - we got skin ship - outside thunder rolled - lighting lite up the room I was watching in!!!! I do not remember this happening any other time while watching something on line? Needless to say, it made my night, but also frustrated as I now had to wait another week to find out the out come.

I had truly hoped that there was hope for Yeo-jin, the last episode of her sharing with Yung-woo. Darn that heart to heart did not take, as she ’used’ her position and fake friendship with Ae-ra in the restaurant. Shame, shame, shame on you little girl. Her brother at least seems to have a redemptive quality to fall back on, she does not?

With the party and all I had thought perhaps this episode would be the one that would broach the topic of miscarriage. Perhaps with Yung-woo’s declaration and their drawing closer, opening up to one another, this will come out. With their new footing it will be resolved with grace and hope all around???

Ok, observation time . . . . Why do all the mattresses in a kdrama crackle when some sits/lays on them? All of them have a plastic/rubber cover over them? Does one sweat that much on set, or are they that hygienic? Never noticed this noise in our productions? I am sure there are some here that should have such covering, (hospital-nursing homes-hourly motel/hotels) but it seems all of their’s crackle??

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I know everyone loves the kiss at the end (I know I do!) but I have this inexplicable fear that it's only JW's imagination... Like what he wishes he can do. Because AR was kissing back and I just can't imagine her reacting like that to a kiss from JW at this moment.

... Maybe I'm just being paranoid from watching too many k-dramas.

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Arg, heaven forbid! Coz if it is I'm catching the first flight out to South Korea with a nightstick........ and beat the hell out of writernim!!!!

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His imagination is more wild than that.

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Lol right? There would be tongue and his hands would be all over her body, lbr.

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Thanks for the recap.
I'm assuming JW is in his mid or late 30, now imagine yourself on that age and acting like JW did... I doubt it if you would still think it's sweet and funny...won't you cringe in embarrassment. 4 episodes left, I doubt if JW would suddenly be mature and redeemable...I still want to see the end and thank you purplecow for the recap since I stop watching this drama in episode 11.

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This is just romantic comedy with a bit of melo... just don't take his character too seriously. it's okay if some people think it's not funny at all... but for some other people,like me, it's hilarious. and I'm glad I take it that way.

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LOL ... I believe there's a man like JW who still act like a child between the thousand men out there.
What is the different between reading the recap - and stop watching this drama ? hahah come on ... enjoy this life by watching this drama. Well, that's your choice .. I respect that. Thanks Purplecow!!

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i love the jw's dorkiness in this drama..it actually makes him more real to me...unlike other leading men who are always aloof...at least he shows his true colors especially when he's in front of ar...

i adore sh but i wish he won't become like his sister and father...controlling people...

i freakin wanted to crush (or maybe just throw water in her face hehehhe )yj when she talked to ar about her leg and everything...guilt tripping ar to get what she wants.....if i was on ar's place i'd say " so what? it wasn't my fault that you lost ur leg( am i awful to think this?) i wish there are female leads with attitude to fight for herself...

over all i love this drama as it is...it's fun to watch especially the leads.

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i'd say this is one of Joo sang wook's best acting in comedy! woah very impressive how he can make us laugh & cry in some of his previous projects like Giant etc. but seeing/watching him as a funny ex husband just made me love him more! not very many actors can pull that off & looking at his facial expressions & infectious laughs which seems to be his signature makes me ask for more of him after this drama! great chem with

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I second your emotion! I thoroughly enjoy JSW's acting in this drama which is my first of him. Like you said , not many manly actors can pull this off. I am amazed at his range and ability to mock himself, to make fun of his true nerdy character in one minute and to look all charismatic and dashing the next. Oh! and did I mention he is such a delicious eye-candy to look at!.
Bravo JSW ssi! I am sqeeeeeeeing!!!

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i'm more mesmerized with Joo sang wook's acting in this drama! awesomely funny/dorky & all that! good drama & great chem with Lee min jung! i wished though this drama is longer than 16 episodes! i'm gonna miss watching this! kudos to JSW & LMJ for their great acting! I hope they pair them again in the future!

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